ghostlymeanders Archive

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3	No experience with children Can you elaborate on your disability at all? I am worried that if you are too disabled to work, then taking care of a child might be very difficult for you unless you have live-in help like a retired parent. It is very physical work to take care of a kid. You need to be able to lift them and transport them around to appointments, school, daycare, friends, etc. All of my mom friends can beat me in arm wrestling from just lifting their toddlers. I'm not a mother yet, but my close friends are and i…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/04/25 08:32 PM
3	Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed? That happened to me in my late twenties. I want a family so badly, but each day that possibility slips further and further away. My husband and I both work full time and are struggling to make ends meet without any kids yet.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/25 04:08 PM
-3	What does a bodycount qualify as? My husband has never asked me, I would have found that creepy and invasive and I don't even know what the answer would be, not because it's so high, but because I don't really want to think about anyone I broke up with again, what a waste of brain power. I let them fade away, like tears in the rain. It may be pertinent to mention it if you are a virgin, but if you're not, I just don't see how it's anyone's business.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/24 09:19 PM
3	Hit a 3 and a half year old in the face Take a picture of the mark as soon as possible and file a police report. Never take your child around that man again.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/12/24 07:55 PM
1	How long for the engagement before getting married ? The wait should really be before you even get engaged. I believe you need at least 2-5 years to get to know a person before you make the decision to marry. I got engaged in May and married in October, but the wait was just because I wanted an October date (kind of a New Englander necessity). I also am of the personal opinion that weddings are a waste of money, planning is full of unnecessary stress and that it's better to just go to your town hall and get married with the town clerk- that's what…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/24 07:40 PM
5	Dating apps to meet men for marriage My bumble timeline: I created an account. By week 2 I had 4000 likes. Over the next two-three months, I went on 9 first dates. My husband was the 10th first date. I couldn't really tell what he looked like from his pictures, but I liked what he said in his profile so I gave him a shot. He looked way more like my type than the pictures, so I got lucky.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/24 01:46 PM
5	Dating apps to meet men for marriage I'm about to marry a man I met on bumble. I met him 6 years ago though, at the time hinge was basically unusable. I can't speak on the quality of bumble today. I used to tell him he won the lottery. In the first week I had 4k men interested in me.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/24 04:25 PM
2	How to stop being a plate You can’t change him. He doesn’t respect you. Learn to respect yourself and you will attract someone better.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/23 04:31 PM
2	Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into you You’re right, I should talk to my therapist about it. I wonder if it’s a mental block triggered by my parents divorce. They divorced after 30 years when I was in my mid twenties and I lost my family and my home (not to get too into it but my mother treated me horribly and abandoned my poor father and I had to cut her out of my life). At the time it caused a lot of depression and a loss of stability.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/23 06:08 PM
1	Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into you My fear is that the second I mention it, he will do it for me and I will have no way of knowing whether it was truly his idea. By avoiding the subject and waiting for him to make the move, only then can I be sure.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/23 04:26 PM
1	Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into you Thank you for the advice! I am so crippled by my anxiety about the subject!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/23 03:31 PM
1	Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into you I cannot figure out a way to communicate the fact that I want to be married because I want it to be his idea. We’ve been together over 4 years now and we are finally getting to be financially settled and comfortable. (Each us lost and gained jobs in this time). I’m just afraid if I ask about it, I will never know if that is what he really wants, but if he surprises me, I will know. It’s not that I have doubts, this subject just cripples me. He does know that I hate weddings and would never have …	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/23 09:55 AM
5	Can I listen to heavy metal and still be feminine? You described me exactly, haha. I'm a very feminine gun-toting metalhead and I can tell you what- I have never had trouble attracting men of all kinds, including masculine ones. There were many times where I have attended black metal concerts and have been the only one in a dress.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/03/23 06:13 PM