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When I go minimum contact she'll try?
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/22 10:12 PM
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Nothing she’s done is normal. She’s lied, cheated multiple times, stolen my money and done a lot of other crazy things like telling people I cheated on her when I’ve never done so. Then she told me I hit her. Then she tried flirting with me. She’s BPD and I can’t take it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 03:32 PM
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Unfortunately trying to "save it" is not going to allow you to save it. She has to know you're willing to walk away for good to save it. And if she doesn't try, it's her who gave up ultimately. I'm going through this myself. If you save it, being the person that's been betrayed, she'll walk all over you and do it again. I hope your marriage works brother. And thank you for your support. It's a tough sitaution to be in. Quite traumatizing. The adrenaline never stops.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 10:59 PM
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You need to take off your blinders bro. She’s monkey branching. It don’t matter if you all were together for 100 years. She’s making a choice as we speak. She’s not with you. It’s obvious. I hope other Redditors can come chime in on this and advise you. She’s highly likely being disloyal and trying to have her cake and eat it too.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 10:19 PM
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How do you know she’s not? An emotional affair is bad enough. It’s the ultimate disrespect. If she is not living with you, it’s very very very likely she is having a physical affair too. I would put my foot down and tell her it’s about to be over for good if she doesn’t come back. Otherwise she won’t respect you and leave you. That is what I did wrong. I assumed she wasn’t cheating. I let the ball be in her court. She misbehaved and I rewarded her for her bad behavior. No way man. She is stringi…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 09:48 PM
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My brother. I hope I’m wrong but it’s likely she’s having an affair. This crap is all too similar. I’d put my foot down and tell her what she needs to hear, otherwise file divorce. I know, easier said than done. Sounds like monkey branching. Don’t let her do this to you.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 09:35 PM
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Is it too late for her to regret it although she’s in the affair fog? I want to go NC to make her regret it, sadly I wasted four months of begging. Anyways, now that she did this and disrespected me I don’t want her back. I am going NC for me. But I would love if she got to the regret stage eventually. I just don’t know if it’ll happen or if I ruined it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 09:02 PM
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Can I ask you what is the purpose of her doing that? What's she trying to achieve by gaslighting me? I don't even get the point of it. Nor do I get the point of her love bombing me from Friday-Wednesday and then dumping me and switching on Thursday morning. Insane how she flipped her behavior in 8 hours back in July.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 06:57 PM
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Thank you for your advice. For now I am going to try to exercise to feel better. I really believe I need therapy as the depression and anxiety is absolutely debilitating. I feel like I've been chased by a wild bear since she left. And it doesn't leave me. Day and night this feeling persists. I feel really traumatized. I'm convinced she has borderline personality disorder. My own child has noticed her behavior without me mentioning it. He told me yesterday that she "lies about everything" and tha…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 06:46 PM
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How do they live with themselves? I forgave her once. Why did she do this again?
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 04:04 PM
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She called for our son's medicine but it quickly escalated to unrelated topics. She actually sounded nice.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 03:27 PM
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Wow thank you for this advice. And I was the one to file just cause she let me have zero contact with our son. Mostly for custody. And I don't think I wanna get in a relationship at all for a super long time. Can I still make her regret it regardless? Just living it up and having a good life for myself and my son? Career, traveling, fitness, etc?
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 03:20 PM
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How do I make her deeply regret this? Her YouTube suggests she thought of me as a loser and that she can do better. Basically the grass is greener syndrome. Others will say ignore it. But it's a great fuel for me to achieve much and make her regret it. I don't even believe it to begin with. But I have a burning desire to make her regret this. Any advice?
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:48 PM
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That is insane. What is wrong with these people?!
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 01:40 PM
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She 100% lies about any and everything. Years ago I caught her in many lies. She goes and cheats and gets extremely cold and vicious. She hates that I know what she has done. She is a vile human being. She pretended for a few years to be nice but she went back to her old ways. Her broke mother convinced her to divorce me to collect child support checks, imagine? If they don't have personality disorders, they should just erase the entire DSM. It's crazy how I loved a woman so genuinely and she ge…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 01:39 PM
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Texas and they don't even care about adultery here. I'm guessing it's her way of keeping me as a backup plan? But then she ghosted me? Idk.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 01:12 PM
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She called asking for money for our son. Turned into a conversation about other things. I told her to go with her million boyfriends. Then she replied that to me.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 01:03 PM
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