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Kids? Maybe. Marriage? No.
/r/askMRP13/06/19 12:17 AM
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The more important questions here are: Why are you playing video games instead of lifting, having a hobby, or pursuing your mission? And, why are you so in her frame that the basis of your post is all about her and how she'll react, and whether you'll get the pussy or not? Why are you assuming she'll reject you, and acting butthurt from the rejection that hasn't happened yet? Now, go forth grasshopper, and read the sidebar items, and get thy ass in the gym.
/r/askMRP22/01/19 05:24 PM
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Nine months after I started hitting the gym 3 days a week, my wife got her ass in there - plus Weight Watchers. You do it by taking care of yourself, setting the example, and saying nothing about her fitness or lack thereof. When she starts feeling that your SMV is rising too high above hers, she'll get there on her own. And, if not, that means she doesn't care - in which case the marriage is probably toast anyway...
/r/askMRP10/01/19 12:34 AM
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Here's a thought. What if the husband is only fucking her once or twice a month because he's not into her anymore? What if it's because he's banging a side piece, and he's doing just enough to keep the marriage [gravytrain] rolling?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 01:03 AM
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I'm TheGhostofSteveMcQueen and I approve this message LOL Not only is your post great for what it says, I think it also makes a good contrast to the amount of purple pill posts I've been seeing on this reddit. I realize a lot of us came here because of lack of sex and/or unhappy wives who made us miserable, but if, after learning the Red Pill ways, a man is using the Red Pill with the primary purpose of getting his wife to fuck him, or to unlock her happiness, he is purple pill. This post is a d…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:10 AM
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My belief is that catch and release isn't necessarily about dread, it's primarily about getting a recovering beta to lose his oneitis. C&R is not for everyone, but some guys need to do it to realize and remember they can Game women and, most importantly, helps a man take his wife/LTR etc. off the pedestal. If a man is afraid he'll be alone, and that he thus must hold on to his special gal, he cannot have an abundance mentality. If a married dude can achieve that mindset without flirting with oth…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 04:25 AM
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This hits the nail on the head: "We've all heard about "trophy wives." Well, surprise, but you're a trophy husband. That's all you've ever been. If there's anything the red pill teaches us, it's that she doesn't love you the way you love her. She doesn't love you at all, she loves what being with someone who looks like you, or acts like you, or earns like you or whatever it is about you says about her to other women."
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/18 11:48 PM
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An interesting and thought provoking post. Thanks for writing it. I believe there's merit to what you're presenting, and I think what you describe comes from an evo-bio, evo-psych origin. I think what you're describing is a female evolutionary drive toward achieving status. As a female, if you had status in the cave tribes, in the village, in the community, you obtained more resources as gifts, as tributes, as bribes, etc. Thus she and her offspring were more successful. Typically, high status f…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/18 11:44 PM
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Everyone here knows this shit is true. The nice guys and purple pills will deny it, or will rationalize why it's not true because they don't have the balls or standing to do it. Don't let the presentation of Mr. Thundercock's post affect your ability to absorb this. What he describes is the kind of hard game a man needs to have to keep a wife's pussy moist after years of marriage. Yeah, a man can get away with a lot of blue pill behavior when the relationship is new, but after the honeymoon phas…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 06:32 PM
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You went into her frame by doing that.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:54 PM
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Read all this guy's stuff before going down that road again: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:51 PM
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Neo: What are you trying to tell me, that I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready... you won't have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/18 05:53 AM
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Rose was damaged before going to Hollywood, raised in a pedophile cult. And she is damaging other people with her damage. Her former manager just committed suicide. Read the statement from the manager's family. Rose wasn't raped by Weinstein (but, like many women who have transaction sex with a fat ugly beta, she eventually felt like it was). https://radaronline.com/videos/rose-mcgowan-ex-manager-commits-suicide-harvey-weinstein-rape-allegations-jill-messick-miramax/
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 01:44 AM
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How do you stop being a cuck? Stop fucking her, period. Move out. Ghost her. Never have contact again (e.g. Get a new phone number and email, shut down all social media, ghost mutual friends you have with her). Then, focus on you. Lift. Read all side bar materials. Monk mode until you're ready for NSA plates. Keep reading, keep self improving. Lift. Focus on a mission, not females. Unless you like being a cuck.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:22 AM
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This is spot on: "I pay no attention to good looking women unless they try to get my attention. It weeds out the 'meh' responses immaculately, as well as reserves validation from me until they do what I want."
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 02:53 AM
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I didn't even read the text. Only two facts matter: LDR and she broke up with you. Hard next. If she wants to bang the next time you happen to accidentally bump into each other, do it. Otherwise find other fish in the sea. When girls break up a LDR it's usually because they want to fuck someone else, or already have.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:15 AM
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True. But I'd also add that talking about things can sometimes make matters worse. Or at least not let them heal. We didn't talk about our problems much, though she would often try to drag me into her frame that way. Some "problems" don't warrant much discussion, if at all, and only serve to churn up bad feelings. That's why there's C&F, AM, and A&A. My experience is that women, being the emotional creatures they are, get worked up and basically relive past experiences everytime they talk about …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 12:59 AM
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Nothing really. She said it out of the blue one day. It was just an accumulation of time and doing what I started after swallowing the pill: Lifted, reduced drinking, got in command of the ship, stopped putting her on a pedestal and fearing her reactions, lifted, worked on me; STFU, read NMMNG, The Rational Male and other red pill material like Ian Underwood, Chateau, and Roosh; lifted, looked into divorce in my state, stopped being emotional in front of her, practiced stoicism, and confided in …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 12:46 AM
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Good insight. Shortly after swallowing the red pill my wife and I went to MC, at her insistence. It was a total disaster. I said I wouldn't go again, she agreed it was bad, and simply through my own red pill improvements our marriage improved. It took 5 months before she said things were good between us. I have no doubt if we had continued counseling we would have divorced. Marriage counseling is rooted in blue pill paradigms.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 02:51 AM
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Here's my question: Is the Weinstein Effect going to impact the natural Alphas in any way? Will those natural-born Chads who truly give zero fucks have to worry about this? Or will just betas and betas in recovery (e.g. Ex-blue pills)?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/18 10:52 PM
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The short answer to "WTF happened" is that with women you gotta strike while the iron is hot. If you don't escalate when her emotions open the doorway then you may miss your chance. Unless a woman is in love with you her feelings can change with the wind. Yesterday she was hot for you? Doesn't matter today! Focus on you, pursue your mission, and never be butthurt. If you are butthurt pretend you aren't, then use that butthurtness as motivation to do better next time with the next girl. Keep in m…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 08:42 PM
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She's trying to determine if you're an alpha or a beta. This is not ASD.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 03:12 AM
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Ok. My advice still stands. Also: Keep working on you, improve your SMV, don't get oneitis.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:48 PM
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I think there is validity in this. I also think there's a balance that's needed. Obviously keeping ones body fat percentage in reason is good. However, getting all shredded and lean isn't going to mean much if you're wearing clothes all the time. Actors and models or body builders go to extremes, frequently with personal trainers, to achieve their ripped physiques in order to be ready for being under the microscope - cameras. Looking athletic, muscular with a v-taper, having a healthy body fat l…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 10:45 PM
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If you reported this you'd be laughed at. They'd say say it's all in your head. Besides, no one gives a fuck if a man is "uncomfortable". Only women get to play that card. Assuming this is real and not a troll post, I'll put it like this. Sure, be careful with this one and if she makes a pass at you clearly state that you do not have relationships with anyone at work. Document everything. If she persists report it to HR.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 02:56 PM
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Best chuckle I've had all day, right here.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 04:29 AM
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Tough to say, I don't know enough about you and your girl, but some commenters here ate giving some good suggestions. Soft next seems appropriate. Overall, don't come off butthurt or upset about it. Just be the happy go lucky guy who has options. After all, your attention and commitment to her is your power. During a soft next you want her hamster to whisper to her "he's probably got some other girl swallowing his load right now." How you accomplish that is up to you. Ultimately you need to deci…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:48 PM
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First, you're still 17, your body is still growing. Second, as most people on this journey will tell you, you will never be completely satisfied with how you look. There are always gains to make and goals to reach. The key is to enjoy the process and take personal pride in the fact that you're self improving. As a skinny hardgainer I can tell you that after the initial newbie gains change takes time. You're still young and ahead if most guys your age in awareness and focus. Stick with it, don't …
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:06 PM
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At a certain point women start reducing their enthusiasm. This happens due to passage of time and increase in security. As she feels more comfortable that she has secured you, she will cut back on the red hot sexuality. Your only solution to have the swallowing continue is to apply dread appropriately. She will not do it on the regular unless she feels that she must swallow in order to keep you. Obviously, along with that, you need to continue being the high value man that she perceives to be ab…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:50 PM
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She's into you. If you want the bang keep doing what you're doing, don't do anything beta, change the subject or bail if she starts talking about her personal life (don't be an emotional tampon). If she's branch swinging she probably needs to be alone to escalate, but you could be walking into a drama shitstorm in this kind of situation. Maybe keep her simmering like an Alpha with options until her and the other guy officially break. If she's a six it's hard to imagine why she'd be worth the has…
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:50 PM
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If you've just met a girl and she's telling you her relationship woes it's likely you're an emotional tampon. When this happens change the subject or bail. If a woman digs you sexually she will not lower her value in your eyes by dredging up negative past/current relationship details. She may mention something in passing to cue you she's available, but if she's dragging you into her frame emotionally with tales of woe and "poor me" she just wants to use you (e.g. For sympathy, validation, beta o…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:17 AM
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You can find the original essay on his blog, from which he expanded into book length. Save yourself time and money and just read the blog post.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 03:38 PM
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Read therationalmale.com ("best of" starting on year one)and you'll learn the red pill essentials from a master.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 06:03 AM
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Nothing will make you feel more like a loser than giving up. Don't give up. On you, or your kids. Be a good example for them. You're letting her and this situation tear you down. Even if you don't feel strong you need to take the actions of a strong person, until you succeed. If you're feeling depressed, which it sounds like, keep lifting/exercising and stay away from alcohol and drugs.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:22 PM
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First: Don't do anything that you will regret inflicting upon your kids. They want their dad alive and well and not in jail. I think the first step to get on the road to recovery is to accept responsibility for your own choices and actions. Your account sounds like this stuff just happened to you, or it's all her fault. However, despite having broke up with this train wreck once you hooked up with her again and got her pregnant. She didn't do that to you. You put your dick in her, and stayed wit…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:06 AM
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