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I speak a few languages, and it takes me a while to form a witty sentence in those instances. So my canned lines are along these lines with a smiillllee: stop it. Don’t do that. Now use this as IOI and proceed….
/r/seduction21/07/26 12:49 AM
9

Maybe if you’re into those kind of women.
/r/seduction05/07/26 06:48 PM
140

First, stop seeing them as 9s and 10s.
/r/seduction05/07/26 12:30 PM
12

At least 4 times when I had 0 game. Now, it would be for sales. :/ My dude, you need to have woman around you. Find a group who could bring these women and you host the event.
/r/seduction03/07/26 12:23 AM
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It was called “Game Chicago”. I am no longer active there.
/r/seduction26/05/26 03:45 PM
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There is a tele group, pretty active
/r/seduction26/05/26 01:58 PM
3

Have you worked with teenagers or dogs? You work them out so they stay calm at home. Similarly, you work your brain indoors via meditation or other methods, so you can be present and say hi.
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:56 AM
5

From what I’m interpreting: You can game less if the girl is feminine and already into you.
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:46 AM
0

Dm is open.
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:06 AM
1

The only way you can achieve this, if you’re playing and not in autopilot.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:51 AM
1

Dm me since nobody has respond.
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:15 AM
7

Say it was a dream after the conversation.
/r/seduction24/04/26 01:28 AM
1

Hey, I enjoyed our last conversation. Let me take you out on a date.
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:29 AM
1

Be creative. Go for walks, grocery run. Limitation comes from your mind.
/r/seduction26/03/26 02:59 PM
-2

“I’m not gonna ask for your number, or sell you anything. You looked gorgeous and now you won’t see me ever.” Say it when you face brutal rejections with a strong eye contact. Practice.
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:22 PM
5

This guy dates!
/r/seduction06/03/26 09:48 PM
2

Step 1: don’t get friend zoned if you’re attracted to her in the first place.
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:47 AM
1

I have multiple home first dates, after phone calls.
/r/seduction16/02/26 05:18 PM
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I’ve been called mean by all my partners but they love me for being that. You just have to figure out your personality, and not pretend in the first place. I can be mean and gentle at the same time.
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:18 PM
1

Some days, you don’t get any leads, some days you get many. Once you have their contact, try text game
/r/seduction30/01/26 04:05 AM
13

Flirting is all about intentions and emotional spike.
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:15 AM
82

This. OP, you’re 28, no better time to reset and start all over again. Leave your old “loser mindset” and do something that you’re passionate about. Talk to pretty woman every chance you get, all you’ve to do is say hi.
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:44 AM
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I can’t relate to surface level conversations unfortunately. So… she has to be comfortable talking about uncomfortable things “deep conversations”
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:12 AM
1

Applicable for young boys.
/r/seduction23/01/26 05:43 PM
1

Nope. If my goal is to pull, I’ll escalate and tease but never make out.
/r/seduction20/01/26 03:09 PM
9

I don’t make out during the dates, never. Once she’s at my place, I do everything.
/r/seduction20/01/26 05:02 AM
2

Stop circle jerking, and approach.
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:00 AM
1

Why would I waste time going to a fancy place for a fuck buddy?
/r/seduction13/12/25 02:26 AM
18

I thought, op wanted to pay a sex worker. Well, bummer. Now, to your question - just pay it, you’re still a man who can hunt for the family.
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:51 PM
3

Depends on my mood, honestly.
/r/seduction26/11/25 02:23 AM
1

It’s your mental hurdle. Not a problem once you don’t give a F about it.
/r/seduction25/11/25 10:09 PM
1

Think of how you are working on these instead of focusing on the negatives. Now, are you really following through? Answer to this should set your tone and confidence.
/r/seduction12/11/25 01:43 AM
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I invite over for cooked meal, a few times a week. I do mention in the first meet up, I’m looking for consistency than anything formal. Don’t avoid date, try finding where you can convert quickly, once things are consistent you can skip the “date”
/r/seduction09/11/25 05:51 PM
1

Go out, look at the most ugliest woman you can find. Now talk to her like you just conquered a dragon.
/r/seduction17/10/25 12:35 AM
1

Keep it open ended, for some woman, giving away too quick is a no. You’d have to learn this part, unfortunately.
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:12 PM
2

Then gauge her reaction, “I thought you’re ___!”
/r/seduction07/08/25 04:24 AM
2

You think too much. Relax and breathe while in sets. Then start to listen while breathing. You’re trying to know the women and not fuck they right then and there. drop the mission thought process.
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:08 PM
1

Only if OP makes sense of it. :)
/r/seduction23/06/25 03:53 AM
1

Let’s hop on a call.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:04 AM
8

And… the personality includes you patching your insecurities? Then sure go ahead!
/r/seduction22/06/25 11:37 PM
9

Won’t you be undressing later?
/r/seduction22/06/25 11:06 PM
2

“Modernize masculinity”. Thank me later.
/r/seduction20/06/25 01:52 AM
1

lol. Is this joke or op lives under a rock!?
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:40 AM
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My morals: I won’t game a woman just for sex. I’ll game the women I would like to keep forever. My game does consist of being honest about everything if they ask the right questions.
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:30 AM
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What are those numbers?
/r/seduction21/05/25 01:14 AM
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That’s when I move on... No need to lead her further if you don’t like her energy like that.
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:08 AM
1

If you like the thrill, you’ll find the answer yourself. Here’s how I do. Just deal (personal) with her shits and pay enough attention so she chases you and then return projecting her insecurities to get a reaction from you.
/r/seduction27/04/25 11:14 PM
21

Coffee, ice cream, walk at a park, grocery store… whatever you feel like. As long you can talk and be closer.
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:05 AM
8

This
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:48 PM
1

Go back to how you were before hooking up.
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:36 PM
0

What’s “out of your league”?
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:47 PM
1

Were they cheap? Out of so many established coaches, you decided to go for unknowns.
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:14 PM
40

Stop sharing memes, there are other friends for her to do this with. Let her engage with you see if she is showing interest in knowing you since you’ve put yourself as a meme friend. You wait and see when you could open her again via her stories and playfully ask her out on a date. Depending on how your current vibe/conversation is going you could skip the second part. Always have your intentions clear in your mind instead of sharing meme or playing it safe.
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:21 PM
2

Listen to her and stay relaxed.
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:53 AM
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Firstly, stop putting women under pedestal. Secondly, stop putting yourself under average. At least act to be the best version of yourself. And finally, yes. Give value and don’t seek value, that’s what defines your social status.
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:52 PM
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Go for venues where you don’t hit your pocket. If she can’t deal with that, you likely dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:05 AM
3

This. Don’t go with leeching mindset but abundance
/r/seduction28/01/24 11:08 PM
0

Just be honest and see how serious her relationship is before making any moves to corrupt her. If she likes you she will give you a positive response, then make your move.
/r/seduction18/11/23 02:23 AM
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Say what’s on your mind? It’s a hit and trial until you learn how your body language and tonality is perceived.
/r/seduction31/05/23 04:29 PM
1

I’m a terrible salesman then.
/r/seduction18/04/23 01:54 AM
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Stop rationalizing. Compare yourself to the average and remain an average.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:43 AM
1

Your entire message reeks non abundance. First only talk about your experiences and not for all of us men. Second. Take actions, that is talk to women you find interesting. Now since there is an abundance of woman you shouldn’t be hung up of some rejections. Keep your heads up and move on to the next. This is assuming finding a girl isn’t your primary goal.
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:35 AM
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Stop trying bro. Be in the present, and say what’s in the mind. Observe how the other person react and slowly you’ll start picking up cues.
/r/seduction13/10/22 08:22 PM
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“Probably I’m the oldest virgin on this sub” that’s your problem. Stop guessing and comparing yourself first. Second focus on a higher purpose goal, ie being happy with where you’re or achieving something materialistic or making the world a better place. You’re happy that you have a close female friend, wow. That’s so safe of you. Do you like her? Go ask her out. Be a man. You working out and having a better than average built is of no use if you’re a pussy from the inside. Take risk, it’s okay …
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:08 PM
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Trust me I’ve tested all the women I meet. The amount of strange and weird expressions I get from women is the usual now, I go easy most times just so I could extract their personalities. I’d blame the attention on demand culture for this.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:21 PM
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I can see this turning around in the near future. However this is accurate regardless of gender.
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:22 AM
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Your reference example is so out of comparison. You are way too feminine to be ranting about how to be a man. I’m talking about the actual masculine mindset. The purpose of cold approach on street is to train your subconscious that it’s fine talking to person in real life. You don’t have to depend on online and go to parties where certain people think that’s the only acceptable place to be social. It’s okay and only human thing to be social all the time and everywhere. Imagine in the older days …
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:18 AM
2

Back to back neg and then you want her number. Show something more from your arsenal. Anyways, you don’t have to keep on negging, transitioning to value building and hinting future meetups would be a better approach.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:47 PM
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“Hi, those are nice melons”. Comment on something she’s browsing or in the cart. Connect and transition to a new topic and then subtly hint ideas of meeting again and close.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:01 PM
2

Not all women are fit to be in relationships, while some guys manipulate just for sex. Online datings can have other consequences like these. Good luck receiving much matches if you’re below looking average and successful, while a pretty face with no brains would have a harder time choosing from the options.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:46 PM
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I’d avoid using love/hate strong adjectives that directly points toward her, if you want any kind of relationship. You don’t wanna be dependent on a woman, but the other way. Be abundant, display abundance. If she says not looking for relationship, I’d usually say, that’s works out better as I’m also looking to keep things casual until… give your requirements in a LTR.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:12 PM
1

Portland, ME, USA.
/r/seduction22/09/19 03:45 AM
1

Introduce yourself and talk, give her some value and make it clear by telling her that you find her attractive/ cute/ (or any adjective). That's my 2 cents for a start.
/r/seduction08/02/18 12:59 PM
2

Step 1 of every approach: make your intentions clear. Introduce yourself and talk with her during your class.
/r/seduction08/02/18 03:57 AM
1

That's why I was trying to avoid answering that question! Thanks, u/Strike48
/r/seduction03/02/18 05:27 AM
2

That's another way to approach people, and considered more natural than a traditional game. &npsp; Search for inner game in the sub to learn more.
/r/seduction02/02/18 08:07 PM
2

If you're having anxiety, go back to basics, and proceed slower, get to know them as a friend. Update: and the books that might help you would be The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and the way of superior man.
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:57 PM
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The book has plenty of examples, which can be used anywhere in life - approaching a girl to having a reliable network. You mentioned that you're bad at social skills, so, I would suggest to work on that first. Once you're comfortable with that look for innergame.
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:54 PM
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I would recommend reading how to win friends, and influence people by Dale Carnegie. This should get you thinking about your social skills.
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:41 PM
5

If you don't take action, reading those books would won't do any good. With thag siad, this sub has enough information to solve your problem, but only if you take actions.
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:37 PM
2

First advice: move on, there so many more women. If you so badly want to connect with someone, try to reach out to them on Facebook or through a mutual friend. Try to relationship as a man to woman. Once you've done that, there are more advices in here than I can give you.
/r/seduction02/02/18 04:25 AM
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You should greet from your side. This would make you look positive and people tend to attract to cheerful personalities.
/r/seduction02/02/18 04:21 AM
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