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Mine and my sister's husband both begged doctors for years for vasectomies. Both had to cite tonnes of reasons despite the fact we've got 6 kids between us sister's, both were almost 30 and we'd both had multiple miscarriages on diff birth controls. My grandad had the snip and was in the pub that same night 😂 he's an East London Italian boxer, don't get more MaNlY than him! It's not the big deal those twits make it out to be.. You ladies make so many fantastic points
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:29 AM
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Phenomenally well written! My husband and I do this but I wasn't aware of it until I read this! Other night, he finished quick (PIV) and spent over an hour making up for it. I used to put up with the ol' wham-bam but fuck that noise. I'd rather have no sex that be a human flesh light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:16 AM
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I mean don't our hormones during ovulation make us (as a general rule-doesn't apply to all) biologically inclined to want sex? Every woman I'm close to, is ravenous just before their period. Men don't have that natural peak and trough of their hormone levels so where's our fricking free pass!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:55 AM
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They look so sweet ❤️ It's an awful situation but I'm so glad he did what a spouse is supposed to do. My dad has an autoimmune disease and my mum has been carrying for him full time for 12 years. He told her to leave and she refused 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:34 AM
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Absolutely fantastic info to share. So well thought out and articulate! I'm saving this and sending it to my single friends! This is very helpful for me personally, as I'm raising two teen boys and FDS has brought some really helpful points up for discussion for how to raise the generation of men to be HVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:00 PM
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I even had a friend throw a tantrum that she couldn't have her 4 month boyfriend come to my wedding, then wanted him in every single photo during the reception. She wasn't with him a few weeks later.. My nan told me and my sister to make sure we had wedding photos without siblings spouses..just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:53 PM
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Beautiful illustration, very powerful 💪 I have shared so much of the amazing information you girls have uploaded with family, friends and have discussed w my husband how to make alot of the points age friendly for my young sons to raise the next generation to be HVM now they're gonna be entering the dating scene in the next year or two. Stay safe and stay strong girls 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:59 PM
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Fantastic share!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:56 PM
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Skater girls (14 or 40) always look awesome! 🤟 I'm so happy you've claimed it back, who cares who else likes it as long as you do, sis!! I was definitely a sk8r girl who didn't SK8 too! I have a skin head after several years as a hyper fem midcentury dresser (still love the style and my house is full of the furniture!) But the work to keep up that appearance made me anxious so I went more and more casual and my husband commented on me going to pick our kid from school Fri, and he said I looked l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:18 PM
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Well done :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:08 PM
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Horrendous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:06 PM
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LOVE YOUR USERNAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:44 PM
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I shaved my hair off during lockdown an donated it. Lots of acquaintances asked how I/husband have coped with me not looking so femine now..and most of the women asking me this, have skanky troll husband's who won't babysit their kids or refused to help homeschool during lockdown and I'm like 💀 My head is my own, my husband ain't got no say (though he obv says I look beautiful bald or not)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:43 PM
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Amazing quote, thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:29 PM
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I am way more deserved in female relationships and have a few friends I can really count on. My closest friend K used to tell everyone I was her sister, my husband even joke that we were like two halves of the same person. She dated a guy from work who would dump her after a few weeks, start fights and humiliate her at work and on SM. C, a mum from the school run I'd known for years, started working at the same place and we had a little coffee threesome but K started pulling away from me, asked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:23 PM
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God that's so awful! I have never sent a nude, I've sent some racy ones to my husband but never identifying, in case the phone was lost, but he always deleted them. My friends have called me a prude before for us not having nudes of eachother. We live together, I see him nude often!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:15 PM
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Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:04 PM
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Well done for making the move. It's hard but you'll be so much better off. You got this, sis. Sending love 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:40 AM
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My ex used to buy me things he liked, to the point I would tense when given a gift from a male (family or not) for year after. I am a gothy grandmother type basically and he'd buy me pink shoes, satin dresses and diamond tennis bracelets and earrings..I hate diamonds. I specifically asked him for a Mrs. Beeton's cookbook once, so I'd get something that didn't make me feel inadequate, and I had a Mrs. Beeton's specialist needlework book and I couldn't frigging sew. It's alright though cause all t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:36 AM
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Ugh that hadn't even crossed my mind 😱 My literal children wouldn't dream of this. Horrifyingly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:29 AM
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I have a few males friends but they're my close friends husband or husband's friends. They are lovely guys who I value but I don't speak to them on my own.. I am surrounded by woman day to day as a SAHM, same as I was growing up. Looking back at friendships I made myself, with men, there was always something underlying and so I never looked for anymore. I literally pointed out to my single figure age daughter that boys will always laugh at fart jokes because they're dweebs..and she half laughed.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:26 AM
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I remember meeting my cousin's partner for the first time and she said "here's my better half" and before I ever saw his face, I whipped round and gave her a lecture how no woman needs another half, we are bloody whole and he is privileged to be your partner, not the other way round. Don't degrade yourself in an introductory joke. You are better than that! Her partner just stood there. I love my husband with every fibre of me being but bitch, I'm amazing. He is not better than me, we're both awe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:16 AM
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My husband's mother did a great job, my husband cooks the only roast dinner my kids have (cause I haven't got the energy for that much time in the kitchen) he couldn't paint but my family are painters so he asked my dad to show him. My dad also taught him basic woodworking and the rest of house maintance stuff he looked up online or we worked out together. I had my own home before him so knew alot but I taught it to him so I wouldn't get the wingey voice "love, I don't know how to do iiiiiit" bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:11 AM
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Oh my god I feel for her much. Just walk away, there's no saving his rubbish pile. Thankfully she hasn't put up with it for 20 years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:01 AM
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Im pretty sure I'm autistic but with 3 special needs kids (one autistic/one suspected) I'm SAHM to, I haven't had time to test myself. But I was told by my son's paediatrician once that a diagnosis doesn't solve everything, he has lots of parents fighting for an autism/ADHD diagnosis and says it doesn't change anything, put that energy into the difficulties, instead of the title. I disagree to a point (diagnosis makes school help MUCH easier etc) but I understand the sentiment. I found alot of c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:54 AM
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Really great question, I don't have an answer but am in a similar situation myself with two teens that have asked loose Q's about their bio. Hope you and your daughter are doing well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:47 AM
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My husband's libido shot through the roof when I went from a size 8, to a 12-14 after my third child. He has loved my weight gain but doesn't mention it, only responds when asked about it. I'm a size 18 and our whole house has gone on a healthier diet and fitness kick. He's brought specialist gear for me, he's cooking more, organising a workout routine for adults and teens. (Despite the fact I know he loves my lumps)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:20 PM
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Never heard of this site before. Thanks for sharing sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:40 AM
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That's awful. My husband was booking his vasectomy when Covid hit, some of his males (some colleagues, darts players-not his close friends) were horrified he'd allow his holy genitals to be manhandled. He shot them down quick smart, I've done all the childmaking and raising, I took BC for years that never agreed with me and this is a small price to pay. (Let alone I've got mental health issues that have stabilised since coming off BC) They still weren't impressed. They fully expected him to refu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:59 PM
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Once it got safe enough to have a socially distanced coffee catch up with girlfriends in the garden when the kids went back to school, we would cackle from the minute we sat down, to the minute we parted. My girl friends are bloody hilarious, one of them other people have said is boring because she is super polite and reserved but she is the most interesting friend I've ever had 💎 I don't laugh like this around the men in my life, except my dad and my husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:53 PM
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I am married but feel like this is my constant internal monologue and my friend wonder why I can't remember where we are meeting for coffee 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:40 PM
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Honestly, on my kids playground, whenever the husband's of the mums under 40 collected their kids, I'd be right at the back away from them. Most of them, staring at all the women, making loud obnoxious LAD convo between them to show how cool they were, being so rude to parents and teachers and kids.. and they look like potatoes. Don't look at me Alan. My husband groom's his bald head and beard, doesn't look like he's fallen over in a hairdressers w glue on his face. If your wife is fool enough, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:25 PM
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I have pelvic girdle disfunction from my first pregnancy at 18 and have daily pain still in my 30s and youngest child is almost 9. Your muscles stretch during pregnancy to deal with the baby and delivery but don't always go back so all my in my pelvis are irreversibly stretched. My only daughter is in primary school and is adamant she isn't having kids. Don't blame her one bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:15 AM
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My sister and husband laughed about shitting with the door open to continue a convo in the hallway and said I was a prude when I said that was disgusting. They had never even shared a one bathroom household. If my husband farted for a joke at me, I'd smack him with a raw salmon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:46 AM
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Well done 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:29 AM
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I married my husband when he had a shaved face but God he's so hot with his long beard. I would def want a bf to show me what he's got underneath the fluff before getting serious though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:26 AM
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My sister came off hormonal birth control a few years ago (I've had an IUD for most of my adult life, took the pill for most of my teens) She said, I don't even know what I'm like without those hormones, I want to see WHO I AM. Her husband had the snip so she didn't have to worry about pregnancy. I had never had that thought.. I came over birth control after having to have a procedure and the nurses kept saying to my husband "Are you sure you'll be fine with her unprotected?" And he was horrifie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:29 AM
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God. My ex told my sister a woman couldn't be tricked into a baby, before he sabotaged my birth control. Then like many stories I've seen here, left me high and dry holding the babies, he organised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:22 AM
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Shit. I was talking to my husband about my ex the other night and literally was still degrading myself for being part of that 100 years ago. Thank you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:50 AM
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Oh I got very lucky. I was on my sister's hen do! I am English and went to Butlins on the Welsh border, spent the days with my fam and sisters friends and went dancing in the eve. Spent Fri and Sat night fighting off drunks who would grope you or literally try and drag me out of the club if I accepted a drink, It was awful. Sunday, I went out with just my cousin and just as we were finishing our last drink, I spotted a guy head banging in the corner and was mesmerized by his waist length curls, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:45 AM
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Oh my gosh. My mums got an allergy to something in Chinese food and it makes her sneeze up to 7 times in a row, every ten minutes or so for an hour or so afterwards. It always makes my dad laugh his butt off, even though they have a small flat and it's really loud! I can't imagine living with that, I'm glad he's an ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:24 AM
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Very eloquent! One of my closest friends told me this week, she has dumped ALL HER FRIENDS but 2 over lockdown as everyone just wanted to ask for things or be selfish, or haven't reached out period so she's dumped them all. She talks to me and one other person and is blank-faced ignoring toxic mums on the school run! I am gonna print this out for her 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:04 AM
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I'm sorry to hear the kids and you are struggling but you've got everything you need love. The kids will thrive without that and you'll do amazingly. I have come through the struggles of suddenly having to be a single parent and trust me, it's much easier than dragging that dead weight. You'll come out of this and wonder what you worried about. Sending love 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:14 AM
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My ex called me do much during the day and I always thought it was nice he wanted to talk or hear about what I was up to.. Nah. And he complained to my family that I didn't leave him alone (which was mortifying for us all as they knew it was lies) HVhusband answers almost anytime I call when he's at work cause we've got SN kids and disabled family, (I don't ever call for a chat during work) But he doesn't demand to know where I am or what I'm doing, he wouldn't tell me off for not texting. It's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:02 AM
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YES!!!! I was young and pregnant and was looking to marry my bf, when I told him I was worried about giving the baby his name whilst unmarried. He Went Mental. ITS MY BABY AND MY RIGHT. I WILL NOT ADOPT MY OWN BABY TO CHANGE ITS NAME. (which it totally incorrect and he knew that at the time, I did not) I ended up single with his 2 babies and had lots of awkwardness with the kids having diff names to me. Cue to my husband. We were looking to marry and I fell pregnant, I told him, despite the fact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:54 PM
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Wow. This has brought a lump to my throat. Stay safe sister's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:22 PM
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I have so many girl friends who are single mums and are always chasing and I have been telling them for years.. you rock. You don't need a man. If you find one who ticks the boxes then that's amazing but why are you lowering yourself just to get a bf??? You are worth more. It's shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:11 PM
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BPD here. Didn't even know until last year! But I've been married for several years. I wouldn't date the way I am now, don't think I could cope with that so if my husband imploded I would stay alone and this sub has helped confirm that DANG that's a good choice! Hope you girls aren't struggling too much now 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:38 PM
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This is a place to rant about verbal abuse on the streets and hellish relationships, if we wanna be mean, WE'VE GOT A GOD-DAMN REASON TO BE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:33 PM
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I live in relatively quiet town with a central Square with a handful of shops. I walk in the eve to get milk, bread etc. On my own and my parents have rallied at my husband for letting me go out in the dark and I refused to hide at home but this eve..I made my husband go because of this woman's death at the hands of a police officer!! It's horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:27 PM
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I taught my autistic preteen old son how to put a basic wash on in January. My teen can use the washing machine, he complained "what if I kick it up, you should just do it" (Same argument these adult men make!) And I told him, without mistakes you won't master it. It's too the same for everyone. Why do the scrotes think they're exempt from this simple growth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:20 PM
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I have 3 special needs kids and didn't have any childcare that wasn't me but now they're older, I have discussed poss going into mortuary care and my husband mentioned it to his boss the next day, that he may have to do some WFH in future to provide childcare, and was putting money away for my training, for when I was ready..but Covid happened. So if anything ever did happen, I could support me and the kids :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:09 AM
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Haven't been on for a while..felt almost nervous entering this thread as a SAHM who had her first child at 18 and has no work skills.. I'm v lucky to have a good husband who supports me, the kids and my fam but I never considered having escape savings. DESPITE being left with no food in the cupboards or nappies for TWO babies and secret debt that wasn't mine, in my name when my ex did a runner after I discovered him cheating. I feel like a fool and I will be bringing this up to him tomorrow. Tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:06 AM
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My husband's hot as fudge and is a HVM. Get out of here you puddle of ball sweat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:20 AM
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Hi fellow Brit! Essex girl here! I'm married with 3 teen/tweens. My only knowledge of OLD is a dear friend who was doing the FDS thing, for years dealing with a shit babydaddy through courts, got a lovely home set up and a job and car..but has been flip flopping through men like mad for about 6m before lockdown #1 and it's really hard to stay interested to hearing the life story of another amazing guy 2 weeks later.. I've got to get him back onto this and realise her value 💪 I've been doing Just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:40 AM
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Thanks for sharing this Queen. Sorry to hear about the crap but I'm proud of you for holding yourself to a higher value. You sound like such a strong woman, I hope to emulate your amazing energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:20 AM
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Absolute fucking poetry. You are a bloody word smith and a blessing sis. I'm sending this to my single friends and saving it ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:10 AM
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That sentence deserves to be cross stitched in gold and to adorn every wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:03 AM
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I had to share this with my husband because he is a bearded craft beer lover who looks good in a flannel.. but the similarities stop there! Really made me witch cackle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:14 AM
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I don't think I've ever been in a pub/club bathroom post 9pm and not been assaulted with compliments by fellow girls. My aesthetic is granny goth so it doesn't appeal to all but I still walk out the bathroom, glowing like a fairy, having made sweet connections with other women that don't have any strings attached ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:28 AM
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I read something a few years ago, which I couldn't apply to men. "Say every nice thought out loud" You like someones fluffy coat, cute dog, bright umbrella, shiny earrings, pretty handbag, the song they were humming, the way they helped someone with the door.. it made me feel happy sharing those compliments but always got a up-and-down look from men..so I only share those nice things with my family and few male friends. They totally saw that compliment on their cool leather jacket as an opening.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:23 AM
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Congratulations on your new palace, Queen! Enjoy your peace and the snow. You deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:19 AM
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My ex was 5"5, I'm an inch shorter. I wasn't allowed to wear heels but a friend spotted his siblings wedding pictures online and i kid you not, in the photo of the whole family.. HE IS ON HIS TIP TOES in the front of the photo. I almost died seeing it 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:20 AM
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That sounds bloody awesome. I'm in sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:15 AM
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My nan pulled the little 3D butterflies/gems/flowers/a big paper-mache strawberry off pretty birthday cards and stuck them on my ex in her family photos so she couldn't see him. She smiled every time she looked at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:17 AM
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Go Dad! 💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:45 AM
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So heckin valid 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:22 AM
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I would just be echoing the points made so clearly in other comments by my sister's but this sub has made me cry and gasp aloud (like in a cheesy movie) with the revelations of my worth. I am raising two teen boys and one tween girl and am glad to have this knowledge to instill in them, as I was only skirting around alot of this before and you've all made it so bloody crystal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:16 AM
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You can get a bunch of daffodils for £1..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:48 AM
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So gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:45 AM
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Why isn't he always doing both sides!?!? Don't get me wrong, I'm eternally broody and watching husband play with a baby/little one makes me want to squish his face off but dang..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:45 AM
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❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:36 AM
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Bravo sister, great work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:10 AM
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If my spouse talked about me being fuckable during a birth announcement (not to mention not even saying he's excited for the child) I'd throw him out the window, straight into the bin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:06 AM
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Amazing. Happy Valentine's to you and your girls ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:32 AM
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Also, I have hypersomnia (oversleeping) due to BPD and brain-damange and my husband gets there kids up, fed, organised for online schooling, loads the dishwasher and then WFH, whilst I sleep unmolested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:30 AM
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Jesus this was my ex..it's so miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:28 AM
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You are a wonderful mother and your daughter sounds lovely In your comments. I hope you both had a wonderful Valentine's Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:23 AM
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His dirty sausage in her mouth with open wounds from surgery!? Absolutely disgusting. Good for her for seeing the light. If they can't see pain, being a reason not to ask for sexual favours in the first place, they need to go in a rubbish bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:19 AM
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My dad is disabled. He has CIDP and is mostly wheelchair bound. I've been suffering with a serious depressive episode for the last 6 months and my husband's looked after our 3 kids, whilst WFH and has collected my dad's meds and sorted appointments for him, done my parents and grandads shopping so they can shield. And would still make my favourite meals in the eve and cuddle me in a blanket and listen to my ramblings. He's done research online on how to help and has helped me not feel like a bur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:10 AM
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Congratulations. I'm so proud of you, sister. You are doing amazing and deserve so many blessings in your new life ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:00 AM
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God I lived this with my boys when they were babies. My parents watched my ex turn on me when I was heavy pregnant with the first and we're horrified. Didn't tell me about these things I overlooked for YEARS because they thought I would chose him over them. This made me bloody cry. When I had my daughter (with my husband, who is adopting my son's) I told my mum, I think I'm finding this SO much easier because I'm not a teen (!) And my mum said "YOUR FINDING MOTHERHOOD EASIER BECAUSE YOU ARE SUPP…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:25 AM
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My husband and I are both moderate gamers. But I got my husband into gaming, he hadn't played smoothing since he was 15 until about 28, when we got a system for our teen. He is massively into sports, played Volleyball for his uni, did sports science at uni. Has played football on and off for years, goes to golf twice a month, plays darts twice a week etc. But whenever he wants to hop on for an hour in the eve, he asks if that's okay or if I had plans. If I'm getting in the bath or gonna make a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:18 AM
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I'm so happy for you sister ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:06 AM
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Best part, my husband brought flowers, a nice card and chocolates for my disabled dad to give my mum and ran then round in the night after she went to bed, so it was a suprise. I normally do this but have been on a serious depressive episode the last few months and wasn't able to do it myself. This is the best thing he could've done for Valentine's Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:49 AM
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My husband ordered ingredients for a pre-prepped Valentine's meal and posh wine and we made my favourite starter I mentioned off hand my mum used to make but I'd never cooked and we made that together. We snuggled and watched The Shining (my fav movie) he brought me a huge bunch of flowers with a wooden teddy in it for my daughter. A big box of chocolates which we ate with the kids. He let me sleep in and sorted the kids all day, out then to bed with a movie so we could have a peaceful eve. Sill…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:48 AM
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I feel the same way! I always thought of myself as a strong woman but this has inforced everything and perfected it. I'm teaching my husband (who was already almost perfect!) And we're teaching these things to our teen boys and young daughter. I'm raising the next generation to know about this stuff, it's so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:20 AM
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My ex ran away in the middle of the night when our kids were 1 and 3 weeks after being caught cheating. He sent me a letter from a lawyer (asking for his passport and shit first!!) I went to a family court lawyer and said I would be happy with supervised visits because he didn't know the new baby and never hung out w 1 year old alone and she said I've got no chance of that and even dad's out of prison always get another chance as it's the child's right to a father..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:06 AM
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It was this sub/similar sub that froze me with the line "SEX ISN'T OVER BECAUSE THE MAN CAME" and as a woman with a healthy happy marital life, I had to sit down and have a brandy with the force of that revelation. I had a long ol' convo w my hub about it and he's always looked after me too but was shocked to know that wasn't the norm in sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:55 AM
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It's so miserable right..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:48 AM
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I picked my engagement ring, my husband said he was looking for sOmEtHiNg special for the future and asked me to point out 2 rings I would love forever in a jewellery shop because I have weird taste and he didn't ever want to buy me something I didn't like (my ex did and it upset him to hear that) It wasn't expensive because I like vintage grandma rings but I don't know the actual cost and it doesn't matter to me and my husband was a newly graduated uni student..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:47 AM
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My 8 year old daughter asked for a RC and I said "I haven't been paid yet so we can't, sorry" and she said "But daddy works, you just stay home so it's not your money" My husband popped over my shoulder and told her, I get money from him to run the house as that's my job he pays me for and I get pocket money too in case I WANT anything, same as the kids. He told her just because I'm not going Out to work, doesn't mean I'm not working hard and earning a wage. YEAH KIDDO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:37 AM
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I've got psoriasis. When I met my husband, my arms and legs were covered in it. He came in when I was in the bath (for a tissue or something-he asked first) and panicked when he saw blood. When I explained shaving took the top of the plaques off and they bled, he said, why the fuck are you shaving then!? I was gobsmacked because this was 10 years ago and I thought I was gross without shaving.. I haven't shaved in 2 years and have only a handful of times in the last 5 years. Fuck bleeding for a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:28 AM
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It's so disgusting. I watched a handsome buff bloke in a show a few hours ago and thought, he's portrayed as eye candy but I want to take him home and make him a hot chocolate and ask about his school day.. I'm only 33..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:23 AM
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I've sent cards and care packages to my married friend and single, also to my male asexual friend ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:20 AM
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A shaved head is hot as heck, why wouldn't you shave it!? I have a shaved head rn and I look hot as shit too! Plus upkeep is low (which is the best part)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:00 PM
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Haha the hat thing was my husband last year. He donated 20 years of long hair to charity because he lost the front. He never judged anybody else on it though..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:54 PM
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One of my closest friends didn't start her family till she was nearly 40 and her husband is older than her. They own an Edwardian house,a little holiday home in Italy and an investment property on the edge of London. Whenever people give her side-eye because her eldest child is young, she just smiled because she's done everything she wanted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:51 PM
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Fantastic :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:44 PM
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Right!? Husband and I are in our 30s, been together 10 years. Instant tent if we kiss for a few minutes or he watches me change. It horrifies me to think of hours of pounding because they're porn sick..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:43 PM
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I am honest with my husband, sometimes it's not happening for me and that's fine. But if you fake it, your telling him that bad move with his thumb is the business and he'll keep doing it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:33 PM
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Single mums are doing the job that man couldn't, plus their own. It's the hardest thing I ever did and I don't know how people could look down on them? You are a super Queen mumma 🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:18 PM
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My youngest child saw an EP at school this summer and has been recommended to see a paediatrician as she has alot of autistic traits. I can't think of an autistic girl that I know, and my middle child is on the spectrum and I got to alot of groups and know tonnes of diagnosed boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:15 PM
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I used to bunk off school to go see my 25 year old boyfriend..at 15. He was a investment banker in London, I wrote his name all over my school planner. So gross. My eldest child is almost 14 and that makes me feel ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:37 PM
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I had meningitis years ago and went from raising a 1 year old, running toddler to play group and nursery, school run for 3rd child. Scouts, football and singing club. I was hospitalised for 3 weeks all told, a bedbound zombie for several weeks after. My husband worked long hours, 2 hours away so was not a part of week day parenting but as I recovered, I was shocked and annoyed at Q's like "was I worried he'd forget a kid" or "lose the baby" Like he's a frigging adult, does nobody else trust thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:53 PM
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Congratulations sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:20 PM
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Pretty sure I am Bi-Polar, but have three SN kids so never had to time to get myself diagnosed! I'm married so not sure for dating help but love the community and advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:44 AM
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I would have paid for this advice 10 years ago! I was 19 and had just discovered my partner was cheating and he did a runner. I was terrified. How was I going to date in the future and who on Earth would want me, so young with two babies!? A year later, met my husband on my sister's hen do! Told him I had kids, after a great night and he just said "okay" and I'd never had that reaction before. All his friends asked about the kids because he'd talked about them. Truthfully, I thought I'd love for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:51 AM
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