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Everyone checks out other people. Jealousy is not attractive.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/26 06:51 PM
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As a man, I 100% agree with this.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/25 08:30 PM
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What can go wrong will go wrong. They’re saying all three will likely fall through.
/r/seduction26/12/24 12:17 AM
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The level of stupidity necessary to think equality of genders is to blame for society’s “collapse” is beyond comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:07 PM
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That has to be what it is. I think the slight feminization of facial features helps a lot. I’ve found that many “attractive” women, would not make attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:29 AM
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Recently I’ve been conducting an internal thought experiment. When I check out a girl, in my head I try and imagine this person as a guy and then if I would consider them an attractive person. Most women I’m realizing facially aren’t really all that attractive but they have other things (cute hair, cute clothes, boobs and butts, makeup, etc) that I am attracted to. It’s been quite eye opening actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:54 PM
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I’m not talking about creepy dudes. I’m talking about calling any guy who hits on someone as creepy. Unless the woman wants the guy to hit on her, then it’s not creepy. I know this from experience. I’m not some redditor who sits in his basement with no life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:25 PM
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The creep narrative is super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:34 PM
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When you have sex doesn’t matter. Just work on being a person someone would want to commit to. Why would you want to be with someone who cares so much about this type of garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:20 AM
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This is some of the stupidest shit I’ve ever read. No wonder the birth rate is down. Just be a good, kind partner (section 1). Whatever that abomination that is personality two is fucked up. No one wants to date a pos like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:44 AM
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3 and 4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:17 PM
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This is one of the most awful, ignorant sentiments I’ve heard on this site, and that’s saying a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:53 AM
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People are people and sexual compatibility is more important than most people realize. It will tear a relationship apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:57 PM
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Creepy af response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:51 AM
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Just wait until you’ve been married for a few years, have kids, and you realize you’re miserable because you’re sexually incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:49 AM
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I want to date someone who is comfortable having sex, virgins aren’t that. They’re either too you and immature or have some weird hang up. I mean too much is worrisome too, but I definitely am not attracted to virgins because they’re virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:47 AM
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Who tf cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:10 AM
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I agree that equality works both ways and in various ways both men and women have benefited and suffered from our social relationships. Since your so enlightened about the way men have been oppressed, I hope you are equally understanding of the way others have also been oppressed and are truly advocating for equality. Not just cherry picking for individual benefit like most people on here do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:48 PM
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Then you should be willing to give up the ways men benefit from history. I see a lot of guys complaining about the ways women benefit from patriarchal institutions but want to maintain the way men benefit. It’s annoyingly hypocritical. I’m a guy btw despite my handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:20 PM
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That social behavior is just a carryover from previous eras when women either had no money or made much less money at their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:34 PM
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Imho some bodies handle weight better than others, but for me it’s rare that I’m attracted to chubby women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:15 AM
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Same old tired argument but people keep dying en masse. Other countries that have sensible gun control don’t have the same mass shootings we have. We keep having mass shootings and what we’ve been doing is not working. But let’s continue to say the guns aren’t part of the equation. Obviously someone needs to pull the trigger but it’s a lot easier to pull a trigger when guns are everyone and it’s a lot easier to kill a lot of people with an automatic gun than a semi automatic gun, and so on down …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:15 PM
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If they want to take you out your ar-15 isn’t going to help. You can’t out violence the state. However unhinged people can go on mass killing sprees with guns and that’s what’s been happening. All pro-gun people have blood on their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:11 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:06 PM
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Pro-ar15 is basically saying you’re pro-mass shooting so yeah it’s kind of a hard line.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:40 PM
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That’s a lot of words that show you don’t understand anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:26 PM
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Unconditional doesn’t exist in adult relationships. Adult relationships are conditional and that’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:01 PM
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I’ve found it’s mostly guys who feel they are entitled to have the most attractive women throw themselves at average guys who don’t put much effort into themselves. They can’t figure out why these women aren’t interested so they make ridiculous gendered conclusions to protect their fragile egos. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:52 PM
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I’ve found it’s mostly guys who feel they are entitled to have the most attractive women throw themselves at average guys who spot put much effort into themselves. They can’t figure out why these women aren’t interested so they make ridiculous gendered conclusions to protect their fragile egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:52 PM
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Bill Maher is an ass. He portends to be liberal but he’s not. He’s just an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:08 PM
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An unremarkable woman can put on some makeup and sexy clothes and be much more desirable to men, compared to a man who tries the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:05 AM
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Somebody posted something recently that claimed fat women get fucked the most of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:29 AM
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Missed my point but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:33 PM
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I’ve experimented with multiple strategies on old. For example, 1) nice guy, ask questions, non-sexual or 2) be a bit more sexually assertive. Both don’t work at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:38 AM
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Not really. I have a good size and don’t have that much confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:24 PM
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I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with all of that. That’s nuts. Some people can be so horrible. Fuck those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:20 PM
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I’m in good shape and lean. I climb regularly and am largely ignored by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:40 PM
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People don’t want to believe this but a thin person will get more attention than an overweight person, in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:46 PM
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Gendered generalizations never work. It’s probably what I hate most about this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:34 PM
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Hurt people hurt people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:09 PM
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Hurt people hurt people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:08 PM
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Anyone should approach if they’re interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:11 PM
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Fat men say the same thing. Also, lots of people are confused about what body positivity is about. It’s that all bodies come in different sizes and shapes and about you accepting your body and not feeling shame. It’s not about me being attracted to your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:10 PM
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Masculinity and femininity are outdated concepts. Just be yourself and don’t worry so much about conforming to societal pressures. Gender roles are oppressive, free yourself.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 02:05 PM
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totally. I just group that all under quality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:32 PM
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Women have a quality issue. Men have a quality and quantity issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:55 AM
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I don’t think you should look at it like one criteria is more important than another. Both are important if all that matters is looks, that’s probably not going to work out well for you as there are some people with pretty awful personalities. If all that matters is personality, then you’re really denying that humans are visual creatures and physical attraction is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:42 PM
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For the vast majority of us, losing weight is literally eat a little less. People act like it’s the most complicated thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:00 PM
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Who wants to fuck someone who is not good looking and with a shit personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:31 PM
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Don’t worry, it’s coming. Climate change is going to fuck over human society like nothing we’ve seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:30 PM
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Typical misogynist trying to seem smarter than they are by unnecessarily gendering things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:38 PM
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Why does penetration mean dominant? A woman on top could be considered dominant even through the man is penetrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:57 AM
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I find it weird when guys are dominant and women are submissive, mostly because that’s already how things are and that’s fucked up. A guy being dominant is what we already have, so to play that out sexually is just more of the fucked up imbalance that already exists. I also find it weird when women are dominant and guys submissive. In these situations you have people still playing out societal relational dynamics but just opposite of society. There it seems that people are acting out their resen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:07 PM
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Then don’t those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:19 PM
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We need to stop this men think this way, women think this way crap. All of this depends on the person. Stop trying to generalize so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:56 AM
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Then women who want monogamy aren’t for you and you shouldn’t worry what they think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:35 AM
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Probably not, how old is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:07 PM
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Good. Why would you want to be with someone like that? Those people sound toxic to me and I’d like to know that as early on as possible. I’m a guy and the idea of a virgin or someone inexperienced is not attractive, so it works both ways. From my perspective those people are sex shaming, sex negative people I want nothing to do with. Now I’m not saying I want to be with someone who slept with thousands of people because that’s the other extreme, but someone who is experienced and fun in bed is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:08 PM
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Guy here, despite my handle. I see a lot of posts like this on this sub. I think the bottom line, dating is difficult for a lot of people and everyone has bad dating experiences over their lifetime. These kinds of generalizations based on gender are not helpful and don’t really move the conversation forward. Yes some girls in the dating pool suck, some guys suck too. If you come across those people, move on from them but don’t generalize half (ish) of the population based on individuals’ behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:02 PM
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Isn’t that a term used with female dating strategy crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:44 PM
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I mean everyone’s entitled to their opinions and here’s mine. It’s fairly easy to have sex and avoid STIs. About the stigma, fuck those puritanical sex negative shitbags. Rmv!? Please please stop listening to that dumbass pill shit. No person you’d want to be with cares if you’ve had sex with a few people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:58 AM
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Most people struggle to find good dates. Attractive people tend to struggle less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:51 AM
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The Dems won the popular vote in 2016
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:42 AM
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Elections matter. No matter how disillusioned you feel go out and vote. It takes very little effort to vote. Now we have to fight this fight all over again and many women will suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:26 AM
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You do realize the US is largely governed by a monitory of people. In the last 30 years the republicans have won the popular vote once and that was Bush in 2004 after only having the office after stealing the 2000 election. Due to gerrymandering the Democrats consistently need 60+ percent of the electorate. The senate is a body designed to give a significant amount of power to the less populated states. This is much more complicated than the US is regressive. Certain people yes, but a majority o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:24 AM
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If a woman thinks you’re attractive they usually want you to approach them. If they don’t they usually find it creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:14 AM
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Relationships where one person is asexual and the other isn’t is not a sexually compatible arrangement and will have major issues. The only way it could have any chance of working is by being non-monogamous. This would be a companionate style non-monogamous relationship. Sexual compatibility is very important and incompatibility will eventually destroy a relationship. There’s nothing wrong with being asexual or sexual but don’t underestimate the importance of sexual compatibility. Many people ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:20 PM
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I’ve dated many people and it’s not been like that. Much more equitable than transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:28 PM
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So following this logic, males should take a pay cut for the next 100 years to make up for centuries of male enforced patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:03 PM
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So dating to you is very transactional? You pay, she puts out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:58 PM
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Problem with coffee first dates is that you end up with coffee breath and that’s not good for making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:57 PM
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Yeah sure being good looking certainly helps. But for the people where working out only helps so much you have to do other things to supplement. I’ve absolutely seen non-traditionally attractive people attract attractive women because of their personality or job or whatever. Looks are important but there’s more things than looks people find attractive. Gotta work with what you have.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 12:25 AM
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Dude you’re only 20 years old. Focus your energy on being a decent human being with an interesting personality. Stop listening to stupid people trying to simplify things they don’t understand. If you mature into a decent human being people will be attracted to that and you’ll meet people.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 07:56 PM
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This is a joke right? You blame the guberment? The US government is primarily influenced by the monied interests. The average person has very little influence on government policies and spending. And that influence has only expanded with ridiculous rulings such as Citizens United. You’re deluding yourself if you think the wealthy don’t ultimately control the government in this country and how we spend tax dollars. And no where did I say that the government was good. I like the good things govern…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:11 PM
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I don’t think philanthropy is the solution and you’re right they do it for their own benefit, such as avoiding taxes or only supporting causes they care about (but might not be in the best interest of society). If the ultra wealthy actually cared about people and society they would gladly pay their share of taxes and pay workers a good wage. Exposés like the Panama Papers, Paradise Papers, and Pandora Papers clearly show the wealthy attempt to hide their wealth and avoid taxes. The ever widening…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:46 PM
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I disagree with the second part of this hypothesis, the trauma of the wealthy class. The wealthy could flaunt their wealth through philanthropy, but instead they spend it on luxury goods. They’re not traumatized, they’re narcissistic and greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:56 PM
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I think if you’re able to get 75% you’re doing pretty well as a couple. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 03:42 AM
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Be handsome Be attractive Don’t be unattractive
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 06:39 PM
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Oh no. I’m so sorry. I’m really glad you’re out of that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:42 AM
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It’s the law in 50/50 states.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:12 AM
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You would think they would want their divorce as quiet as possible then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:11 AM
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You don’t have to figure out what they contributed. It’s half of whatever assets and debts were incurred during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:08 AM
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I’m guessing it’s not real and op is an incel who thinks that’s what rough sex is. doesn’t realize porn isn’t real sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:47 PM
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What’s the deal with the sub and every post being a massive generalization of human behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:09 PM
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I’ve hooked up with women because I was horny and then regretted it. I’ve dated women and it hasn’t worked out and I’ve regretted it. That doesn’t mean I wouldn’t ever do either again. There’s lots of things that we do that are enjoyable in the moment but we have complex feeling about later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:30 PM
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There’s always exceptions to the rules, but I imagine in this case they’re fairly rare. Unless you are really loaded, then instantly you become more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:20 PM
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You’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:49 PM
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Yeah let’s go back to a society where one gender holds a greater deal of power than all the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:35 PM
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Seems like every other post on this sub is about body count. I was mostly responding to that annoyance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:58 AM
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20 are rookie numbers. Gotta pump those up. I don’t want to die having only fucked 20 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:25 AM
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Yeah I’m not talking about the town bicycle, but just regular women who enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:16 AM
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Pro-tip: Make friends with attractive women but don’t pursue them. Attractive women often have attractive women friends. Since you’re fun and a good guy she will invite you out and to parties with other attractive people. She’ll speak highly of you to her friends and that will give you an in faster. You go after her friends or her friends friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:15 AM
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why does it matter to you how many people someone else has fucked? If you like them, find them attractive, and you’re compatible why does it matter? I personally prefer to be with someone who enjoys sex and has fun with it. I don’t want some lame ass inexperienced person who just lays there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:06 AM
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It’s not. It’s about controlling others’ sexuality, specifically women’s sexuality. That and fetishizing female virgins. If the person is sexually responsible why does it matter how many people they’ve fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:02 AM
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It takes two to tango. It’s as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:50 AM
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I’m sick of people posting about body count. It’s very sex negative to care about body count. If you only care about women’s body count then you’re also a misogynist. Don’t be a sex negative misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:46 AM
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It’s not projection or protective identification
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 02:40 PM
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Narcissistic? Misogynistic?
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 02:39 PM
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It’s funny that you think people are having less kids because of birth control. Maybe people just don’t want to have kids because they realize it’s a shitty world that is about to endure a major ecological crisis that most people don’t care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:29 PM
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People are always going to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:50 AM
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Listen to savage lovecast. Dan literally says this same thing about the gay community all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:57 AM
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If you live in a small town and/or have other preferences that reduce your pool, that number gets a lot smaller very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:45 AM
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I just look at us as artificially limiting the people you can be with, especially if you live in smaller communities. Plus it also reinforces sex negativity, patriarchal, possessive views of relationships. It’s just sex, we all have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:25 PM
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Just my opinion, but you should work on getting over that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:29 PM
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Don’t care about body count. Don’t care who she’s slept with. As long as she doesn’t give me any STIs. If anything I like a girl who knows what she’s doing and enjoys sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:13 PM
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Try an experiment for me. Eat pizza as your only meal for the next 10 years. Then go to the nicest restaurant in your area that’s doesn’t have pizza and report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:00 PM
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Touching a new person’s body feels good. Having sex with a new person feels good. I love chicken tikka masala, it’s my favorite food, but I don’t want it every night. Sometimes I enjoy something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:19 AM
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If you go the escort route please please make sure the person is not exploited in any way. There are sex workers who choose to do it and it’s ethical, however many sex workers are coerced and exploited. It’s on you to do it ethically.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 07:16 PM
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Physical attraction isn’t the only thing but it is important to me, so yes it would bother me if my partner gained a significant amount of weight. Not sure I’d break up, but I would definitely have some discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:44 PM
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