| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 49 | HVM anticipate your needs!I feel like men like this (HVM) are unicorns... do they really even exist? 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:00 AM |
| 10 | Glow!SHIT. I needed this right now. 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:08 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020This sub has helped me a ton, and I know it will continue to help me get stronger to be able to recognize when I’m dealing with a LVM or NVM... I’m quitting OLD for now, maybe forever after meeting COUNTLESS LVM’s who say they are “looking for love” but only want nudes and to talk to me NON STOP about f*%£ing sex. 😡 Then ones I click with and (THANKS TO THIS SUB!) I finally recognize eventually that I am yet dealing with another LVM, who’s mastered gaslighting and manipulating, and negging me!!!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020I’m pretty certain it’s “online dating” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:35 AM |
| 12 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?What is RPW? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:02 AM |
| 2 | 🥴🥴Shit this is unfortunately too relatable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:33 AM |
| 5 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedFUCK THIS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 16 | Remember that it is not your job to fix anyoneThis SERIOUSLY THIS!!!! 🙌🏻 I just blocked a guy on a dating app who only ever wanted to chat with me when he was feeling flirty. Then tonight I responded to him asking me what I was doing, his response? “Have a good night in a bad mood” I gave him yet another chance (I know, I know, stupid stupid) and then messages me an hour later asking where I am!? Seriously!? THEN HE TELLS ME I NEED TO CHEER HIM UP! I’ve talked with him for 5 days! Then he has the nerve to get angry at me when I tell him I’m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:37 AM |
| 7 | Can we make this a MASSIVE red flag......if a man tries to persuade you or negotiate after you say ‘stop’ or ‘no’, he’s not a keeper!YES!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 07:05 AM |
| 3 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020Oh shit! I didn’t see that coming! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 7 | I see no liesMe too, holy hell! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 07:42 AM |
| 9 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationSounds like my ex husband! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationHOLY SHIT!!! Yeah, how freaking messed up is it that when I’m online dating I always get nervous when I FINALLY breach the work question!!! Because I know SO MANY MEN FREAK OUT and take it SOOOO personally! What BABIES!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 21 | I see no liesYep! Straight up my LVM loser of an ex husband. 🙌🏻 Ultimately wanted a divorce because apparently even ALL OF THAT wasn’t good enough. On top of working a full time job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 19 | Where's the lie though?This statement is so fucked up. Ok buddy, maybe we just won’t carry your sorry ass around for NINE MONTHS and then push your body out ripping ourselves APART to bring you into this world!!!? Why are SO MANY MEN SO STUPID THESE DAYS!!!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:50 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020Yeah, run. Avoid him like COVID | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020Yeah... I’ve been talking with a guy similar to this... and I’m considering calling him out on it, but also just pretty much deciding that it just shows me that he’s not putting in much effort, so he’s just not worth my time 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:38 AM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020Um YEAH. This is why I think too many women in here are way too quick to lob hurtful judgements at their fellow women. Women who are “pick me’s” are OF COURSE operating from a place of deep hurt, damage, etc. No one in their correct mind would CHOOSE to be that way on purpose. I know I certainly didn’t. I was just so desperate for that validation! Because of my high anxious attachment issues. Which I am working my butt off now to understand and to manage them so I am not so easily a victim to LV… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:35 AM |
| 4 | stop telling women to "choose better guys" and start telling men to be better. stop blaming women for men's bad decisions!OH MY GOSH YES!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:22 AM |
| 8 | notice the double standardSERIOUSLY!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:01 AM |
| 14 | Don't get it twisted, you're a Queen.YES THIS!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 6 | A full grown tape wormWHAT THE HELL!!!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | From a woman: how on earth do you tell if a man is flirting with you?🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/seduction | 17/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 6 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMThank you, I’m to chapter 28 in the handbook, and I’m a freaking CHANGED WOMAN 🙌🏻🙌🏻 AND I’m sharing it all with my two daughters! 😂🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:07 AM |
| 3 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayWoman here. You did a good job. Seriously it was your first date! Don’t be hard on yourself! You’re only going to get better and BETTER with each date. You’re opening the door to a brighter future for yourself. I know it was hard and painful in ways, but you are only going to get better. ❤️ Hang in there. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 09:49 AM |
| 13 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMThis is LITERALLY my first ducking husband... Except for one big difference: When he realized how amazing I was and it made him feel insecure and threatened - he proceeded in an elaborate web of manipulation, gas lighting, and demeaning me for ten years until I was reduced to absolutely NOTHING of my former self... Spot on though. And what does “LVM” and “HVM” stand for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 03:42 AM |
| 0 | The most common mistakes guys make in the fieldI don’t know, maybe it’s because I’m 38 and not some 20 something in a night club, but as a woman I kind of found a lot of this advice kind of gross... and frankly, some of it would really put me off... I mean, I DO understand the theory behind your points, like: respect yourself, be positive and fun, show that you are attracted to her, show an interest in her, tease her, and again, respect yourself and don’t be a doormat. Yes, that is all very good advice... I guess it was the subsequent detail… | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 06:05 AM |
| 18 | Hygiene & GroomingYes men 👆🏻This. Yes. This. It makes a HUGE difference to us women!!! | /r/seduction | 04/07/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Notice good looking women are nicer to guys who look similar, anyone else?I’m not trying to be offensive! I just mean weird like “fascinating” or “interesting”. How we as humans behave. I have no idea why anyone took offense to what I said. It was simply a remark on how interesting this is. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Approached a girl - worst experience everAll women do 😂 Literally. I don’t think men realize how we have to think to protect ourselves from assault/rape/attack/murder on a daily basis. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Approached a girl - worst experience everYeah. But he’s actually right... the reason why you’ve seen this as the opening to every horror film is because the character knows how to draw the ladies in and be non threatening so that they’ll trust him and let down their guard. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 07:53 AM |
| 11 | Approached a girl - worst experience everAs a girl, when I read your post can I just advise you that it would have scared me too honestly. I think the mistake was that the very first thing you said to her was about her body and appearance, therefore “sexual” in nature. It would have made her feel scared in the sense that you were viewing her as “prey” almost? Do you get what I mean? I think what I’m trying to say, is my advice to you is to find something that is NOT sexual in nature (no reference to how she “looks good” etc). It would … | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 07:49 AM |
| 0 | Notice good looking women are nicer to guys who look similar, anyone else?WEIRD!!! | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:55 AM |
| 4 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meFemale here: Yeah, I agree. I am absolutely put off by a “pushy salesman”... even if I want to buy! Keeping it lite and very low pressure, but positive, friendly and fun is definitely a good move. Be cute and charming- not “perfect” with all the right lines... egh | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 06:39 AM |
| 0 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?HOLY CRAP! YES! Total hypocrites. Seriously, these guys are going for the “hot girls” who are let’s face it, the slutty, trashy, shallow, only after your money and or status girls! While there are a billion GORGEOUS women who aren’t half naked acting trashy, who ARE NOTHING like what they think “every woman is”. Stop picking trashy, shallow women men... “ugh I just want to know what do you hear when we say this men...? Do you just hear a mantra of ‘I want sex I want sex I want sex I want sex...’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 12:56 AM |
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