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“Trip over their dick” ☠️ Yep that’s exactly how it feels. Then they apologize or act nasty once denied. Why bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:24 PM
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Noted. Thanks sis! I’m in the tech field and am looking for the qualities you mentioned which men in my field are often lacking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:21 PM
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Yeah invest in yourself FIRST but wait!..you should buy my toxic masculinity course first young brother!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:32 AM
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Her reply did not say that at all. I suspect this is a man posing as a newbie. HVM and LVM exist at all levels. I suggest you read the handbook and take time to read posts from other members for a better understanding before posting here. It’s clear you don’t understand the concept of HVM and LVM regardless of income levels or period. My bigger guess is you’re a troll account. I’ve been seeing those a lot lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:56 PM
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Sorry what do you mean by trades? Plumbers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:41 PM
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I once had a male coworker who was “single”. We went out to lunch often. We were close and talked every day then I left the company and we tried to make a date, but come to find out his cousin was temporarily staying with him...HMMMM. Not to say every situation is the same ladies, but treat male coworkers with a big grain of salt or any man as it’s preached here. Luckily we didn’t touch much or anything but the mantra “If he wanted to he would” is extremely true. It’s why I dumped my LVM ex. I’v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:57 AM
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Prick teaser ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:51 AM
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“You’re the equivalent of a Hooters girl He doesn’t ever have to tip.” I want that seared into my brain & wish I had learned that as a little girl. Men say we should ask them out & make the first move because it makes it easier to use us as backup sex options while the women they want don’t want them or they spend ACTUAL effort trying to get them. Asking men out is literally lining their plate with more options. And what happens when you have things on a plate you don’t want??? You ignore it? Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:46 AM
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This was very gross to read. Such misogynistic bullshit when these men are lucky if they get any matches (especially Mr.herpes). I’d rather bang a doorknob. You can literally feel the low vibrational energy from these scrotes. I accepted meeting a partner on OLD is a lie or would require 20,000 swipes, but my time is valuable. Even when I used to use it to try to find a good, respectful fuck buddy, the guys were trash. FDS introduced me to clit vibrators though! I got one and I like it a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:50 PM
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This is why I lost respect for Beyoncé. Totally unrelated but celebrity women posting prowomen messages and music to make money then telling women they hold down their cheating man or that it’s ok to stay with men who cheat if they “come home” are disgusting imo. It brainwashes men & women into thinking it’s kewl. Cheating men give women STIs, side babies, child support if he’s too broke to pay and is married to a pickme with some coins, headaches, drama, and possible charges depending on the ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:14 AM
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This is why I read FDS a few times a week at least. It’s good to be reminded. It’s natural to want human connection and touch, but slipping into old ways with scrotes costs us a lot in many ways. I had a past lover I used to fly to see. I’d pay for my flight and travel costs 🤡 He asked me to visit yesterday and I asked him to pay for costs and he agreed then said I should be PROUD I finessed him out of the money! Finessed! I went off then blocked him. Other men paid for trips and many things wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:25 PM
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As you should. I saw & reported 2 male troll posts today and both were Newbies. Like men infiltrate the sub to shit post. Lames.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:48 AM
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This is another troll post from an anti-FDS reddit male posing as a newbie. 100% sure. FDS women don’t think like this. We know we can find men who pay for dates. We don’t say “Goodbye. I’ll stay single” like desperate, defeated women or use quotation marks in posts to prove a point. Scrotes, get a fucking life. Even the grammar is fucked up in this post. Can’t even troll right you moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:43 AM
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Grey rock..I like that term. Great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:12 PM
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Small input: slow ghost female friends you no longer like or want to see but can’t or won’t outright block. Don’t respond as much and respond slow to their messages, make other plans or have excuses when asked if you want to go out, be boring. Their messages will stop over time and it will seem like you just grew a apart naturally. I don’t care about what people think as much so will block both genders at the same rate, but women can be tricky and passive aggressive. I slowed ghosted a woman awh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:44 AM
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I don’t know why he asked my age either. LVM logic as you said. The best part was driving off before he could proposition me ahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:34 PM
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The great thing about FDS is that it’s here to remind us when or if we start to backslide into old habits. It’s a community of women with various backgrounds and experiences but aligned to the same principles to elevate and choose better. Welcome. You’re not alone or different to feel how you do now. It’s a process of awakening & self awareness m. Things will get better. You may even decide to take a break from dating & sex to focus on yourself like some of us do and gotdamn this shit feels good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:17 PM
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I wish I had done this sooo many times in life. I just smiled and went along with shitty gifts or no gifts after buying men nice gifts and sweet things. I did things for them because I cared. How or what a man does and the quality of gifts he gives shows how much he cares. I don’t hold back at all now! Fuck their feelings. We have to be ruthless to find a man who truly values us and will treat us well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:07 PM
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Some of them are living in a room in someone’s house or with 3-4 roommates. Can’t even afford decent or nice furnishings or a nice bed with pillows. I don’t allow men over my apartment anymore. It makes some jealous or ask how much money I make. They can be so basic. Quite sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:49 PM
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They are exes for a reason. Don’t take them not coming back to mean you’re not worthy of love overall. They’re having sex with women or in a situation you don’t have to deal with. One of my exes who didn’t come back was having his current girlfriend doing 3sums and other sexual kinks he wanted that I wouldn’t do. I missed him but he wasn’t meant to come back. You’ll be ok. Have hope and keep growing and going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:40 PM
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He thought he was a hot shot so of course you were waiting around for him. Imagine having to work with guys like him daily...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:15 PM
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Sounds like a possible kidnapping attempt. Crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:10 PM
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Thank you so much for providing a link!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:03 PM
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Damn. He did all that because he just wanted sex as fast as he could get it, but he didn’t so he bounced. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:59 PM
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Walking around a shopping center food court as a first date sounds super lame! Even worse than a coffee place for a first date. You did right queen. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:53 PM
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Today a man saw me getting into my car and said having a nice car means I must not have any kids. He then asked my age. I told him and he was surprised then I drove off listening to my music before he could ask me out. I’ve been asked why I’m single so often it’s like a broken record. I don’t even respond to it anymore. So what. I gave many guys a chance and they flopped or were regularly disrespectful lol. Being single is fun! No regrets or pain! I can return to the sea of men hoping to find go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:20 PM
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Congrats on your progress so far! You’re on your way. It takes time. Also find mentors if you can to help navigate your industry. Attend networking events to meet new people and widen your network. I also sniffed out opportunities and people to help me. Being attractive and polished is also a plus. Not to sound superficial but it helps people climb. I watched YouTube videos and copied other women who seemed to have it together. Feel free to reach out if you’d like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:47 PM
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Is this a troll posing as a newbie to generate controversy? The tone, language, and format of this post is suspect. “Anti-men mindset...saying FDS is becoming cult-like.” Mods, please delete. This is obviously a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:43 PM
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I was born in a small country town and also raised by a poor single mother who gave me trauma & other things I had to overcome in life and so on. I don’t live in San Francisco or NYC. I didn’t mean to come across as arrogant or like making 6 figures is easy peasy. My comment lists a strategy of getting professional certifications based on your industry and leaving a job every couple of years to jump to a higher position/pay in order to reach 6 figures. You must leave to earn much more. More impo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:46 PM
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Cigarette burn on the arm? Tf!!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:27 PM
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So suddenly growing a beard or finally making 6 figures can make men feel their wife is beneath them? These scrotes are hilariously pathetic. This is why we must make our own money, maintain our health and looks, and not settle for subpar men. Making 6 figures isn’t a big deal! It’s easier in certain industries, with professional certifications, in time, AND by not staying at the same job for a decade. People make $20k-$30k salary jumps by switching jobs and getting certifications or more educat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:28 PM
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Damn the bar is low indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:53 AM
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Male dating strategy: Women have too many options so they don’t choose me, I’m short, I can’t get laid, my personality is shit but I refuse to reflect or change it WAH WAH 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:52 AM
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Say this again and again. They invented manipulation because they don’t want to be held accountable for their disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:44 AM
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Yep. It would be “Come in fine sir, absolutely fine sir, we love to serve you fine sir, the house is yours fine sir, when can you move in fine sir?” But instead you’re a single women so you’re seen as taking away from this couple who wants to start a family. You’re worth less than them in their eyes. F that realtor and company though. This house wasn’t meant for you! Something greater will come Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:41 AM
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Don’t date much younger men. Their frontal lobes aren’t developed yet let alone going to a man’s home period for a first “date”. Ask questions, vet, vet, vet to understand their mindset. ANY sign or intuitive bad feeling or inconsistency means instantly block and delete. No second chances. No oh he meant well. This could save your life or incurring trauma. Please be safe ladies. May he rot in hell or get raped in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:25 AM
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Yes change realtors. This is bs and discriminating against a single woman. You shouldn’t have to adjust yourself to buy a home. If you were a man I wonder if they’d have treated you this way. I’d contact her boss or someone higher in the agency to voice concern on your treatment too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:20 AM
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Using OLD feels is like subjecting myself to low level abuse. I’ve been on enough dates. Nice guys turned out to be porn addicts or got mad I wouldn’t fuck them in exchange for a $25 entrée. Some lied about living with their parents and were my age but not as evolved financially or mentally. Having already been with generous older men who were manipulative, abusive, and depraved in exchange for their perceived benefit, I’ve simply stopped dating to level up outside of money & my career and am fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:16 PM
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I had several male friends at any given time to build things, lift things, pay for things, help me move, or for some tangible purpose. Even before FDS I knew they were orbiting and hoping to have sex. FDS opened my eyes to how having male friends or orbiters is a waste of time. Life is easier not entertaining or dealing with men acting genuine when we both know they’d take any chance to fuck if they could. Some of are so desperate they’d even try to get you drunk or in a bad circumstance for the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:28 PM
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YES! YES! FUCKING YES! I’m so glad Uber has training on this. One scrote wouldn’t let me out of his car and others have been downright creepy asking for my number or wouldn’t take no as a no! I’ve even had drivers neg me when picking me up from a date. Male depravity has no bounds even when they’re working! Sick scrotes won’t adhere to the training anyways, but this reminds them that their thirsty behavior is abhorrent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:12 PM
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I’m sad to see you go. I only use Reddit for FDS. I have read things by you & others that changed my life. I love your voice on the podcast. It’s awesome that you & other mods? have placed FDS on other platforms & continue to grow it besides having jobs and bills like everyone else. I’m a newbie & 1 of +160k members, but many of us work in tech, marketing, social media, copywriting, PR, legal, etc & have skills that can assist in helping with that drive. A scrote on another subreddit Iinked nonr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:25 AM
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I’m here. After researching creating a dating app (discussed in another post) I can’t dedicate time to it at this moment or think it’s as relevant as helping with growing FDS outside of Reddit if anyone may want help with that. In regards to an FDS app & using customer service to verify that someone is a women before they’re allowed to use it or interact, that is a project and getting funding and scoping it requires a discussion with FDS mods or who owns the direction of FDS online or it’s growt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:04 AM
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I deleted Reddit months ago and only returned with an account solely to use FDS. FDS was my only reason for returning. Nothing else on Reddit is valuable to me or is twisted by a male dominated view as you mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:45 AM
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Wow. You’re the MVP. Didn’t even think that far. Sounds credible for a Friday night based on my exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:51 AM
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Coffee on a Friday after work. That sounds extremely boring. Coffee any day after work as a date sounds boring. He didn’t even try. Why bother showing up. The burden of getting dressed cute, putting money & effort into your appearance, outfit, etc isn’t worth coffee on a Friday. You did the right thing. I’ve never had a guy suggest that. Bleh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:37 AM
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What a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:32 AM
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Ayyyye!!! Not trying to sound demeaning but I could twerk to this (and I don’t even twerk). And it’s not about the money. It’s about the principle. They ask what I bring, but what do they bring besides dick? The promise of a relationship in exchange for easy sex on their terms? Jumping through hoops in line behind other women & pickmeishas? My worse nightmare is paying one of these “what do you bring” men alimony or birthing their kids then working while solely maintaining a household. I’m aimin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:19 AM
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Had one do that too. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:56 AM
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Great reminder. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:53 AM
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There’s many posts on other subreddits about women sharing their trauma & then men they’re dating ghosting or invalidating them. Men you don’t know and haven’t vetted have no right and often no empathy for your trauma. The worse is you gave someone a blueprint for how to abuse or hurt you further if he isn’t a decent guy at least. I believe we should save ourselves potential pain by keeping our vulnerabilities inside until a man proves he isn’t a LVM. I’ve had less regrets that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:32 AM
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Not to mention addiction issues from drinking and taking drugs to deal with the stress of the job or being someone different to appeal to their John’s preferences. It’s not all fun and games. Shit stays with you for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:01 AM
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I heartily avoid black men who have internalized misogynistic messages about black women. It’s like being raised on junk food, but when you become an adult you either evolve & change your diet or keep consuming that toxic waste by choice. I can even sense it in their energy sometimes. It’s disgusting and low class imo. I can’t often listen to rap or r&b music from male and female artists before a bad lyric turns me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:51 PM
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I didn’t understand for years why men thought me being bi meant I was down for 3sums. I’ve had 2 relationships including an engagement to a CEO end due to not doing 3sums. They view bi women as a means of enticing other women to fuck them..like attractive bait. I no longer tell men I’m bi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:46 AM
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They couldn’t handle the truth 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:27 AM
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Guys like this end up with whatever they can get then complain women only go for men with money or Chads. They degrade and scrutinize our looks when they should be grateful women give them attention at all. Society doesn’t demand men lower their standards like women are constantly hounded to either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:13 PM
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There’s companies you can pay to translate articles & things into various languages. Would have to get a quote and confirm which languages you’d like. Google docs can be used to do it for free it seems: https://support.google.com/docs/answer/187189?co=GENIE.Platform%3DDesktop&hl=en
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:37 AM
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☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:26 AM
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And if she got pregnant from the rape, she’d be outcast from the family or forced to take her bastard child elsewhere...in India or other countries she’d even be killed once she started to show as an unwed woman assuming she wasn’t married off as a child bride
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:16 AM
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Hell yeah!!!! Hell fucking yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:53 AM
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This is good to note! The worst I ever saw was a guy complaining his wife wanted a divorce after he was caught watching porn. She was pregnant with his 3rd child & he made it seem like she wanted a divorce only after finding porn. Everyone said she overreacted & poor him, but comeon...Someone doesn’t just want a divorce after finding porn. He obviously had done other things. Edit: it was tranny porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:40 PM
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Besides the wonderful advice from the other ladies, no one should ever get close to anyone abusing heavy drugs. I say this from experience and watching drugs users (male & female) hurt partners and latch onto friends and others then do them harm. Many times people using drugs have deeper problems or personality issues beneath the surface of using chemicals to blur their reality. If you are not a professional or close family member, it is not your place as a young woman or otherwise to get emotio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:10 PM
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I felt this way while aroused yesterday. Got a few swift reminders of how meaningless sex and pitiful men can be underneath the veneer of niceness though! Couldn’t bring myself to have sex with one. Woke up relieved that I didn’t feel sick, guilt, remorse, or sadness by allowing some scrote to use my body in exchange for a potential orgasm or to temporarily alleviate loneliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:53 PM
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Thank you. It’s wonderful to get a summary post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:50 PM
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Rep: I don’t get paid enough for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:44 PM
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Damn. Saved this. Reminds me of dating a successful doctor with 2 practices who kept asking me for 3sums. He eventually left me for his very attractive ex girlfriend who did them. Later he revealed not only was he having her do 3sums BUT ALSO fucking his friends while he watched. He praised how she never asked him for money or anything. Best believe I got things from him without 3sums or banging his friends though! FDS works and I would never entertain a man like that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:55 PM
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Sis, I was in the same position 2 years ago. Unable to crack $100k & working harder than male peers making much less. I asked for a raise after someone in HR told me that & they had every excuse for why I couldn’t have one. Demeaning excuses too. I started applying to other jobs & got a job for +$150k within a month! Move on to another company if they won’t pay or treat you well. Opportunities are out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:38 PM
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Songs with some artists listed: - Te Vas Milonga - Jalousie by Quintango (very good tango band who’ve played at the White House) - Oh, Those Dark Eyes by Tango No. 9 That’s a good start in case you like some. I have a Pandora Tango station & liked songs over time to listen on stressful days and car rides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:59 PM
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This is why we must Google our date or boyfriend’s name to find any publicly available information about them. Marriage, property, & criminal records are available online for free. We cannot trust what they say about their backgrounds. I can’t think of any positive reason he would hide being previously married. Huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:47 PM
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The audacity to be upset that you were uneasy about him still speaking to her while he’s having regular phone sex with her! Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:41 PM
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Slow tango music does it for me at times. The rise and fall of the instruments while alone feels nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:34 PM
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It hurt when I first read this but after I began to internalize it, it continually saved me from wasted effort and feeling down because I did more than a man was willing to do for me. I used to think men were emotionally stunted, shy, or “busy”. The excuses they gave sounded plausible or enough for why they did the bare minimal or less than that. I repeat this phrase nearly every day & before interacting with men. If they don’t seem eager for my presence or contact I move on. Another always come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:06 AM
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Seeking arrangements and other dating sites already have wish list features. You’re exactly right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:20 AM
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Mostly everything in your post is great input besides W2, tax return, & bank info. Careers can be verified via LinkedIn and other methods, but the info you mentioned is highly sensitive and protected for legal and privacy reasons. There are laws by country, yearly regulation updates, and government agencies that monitor the transmission and protection of that information. It’s costly to deal with & why you don’t see it on Tinder, Bumble or other apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:58 PM
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Services charge for background checks or they would charge an app to check/have access to their database. Also, people with things in their past wouldn’t want that exposed...as some have evolved from their past period. We could have a button at signup for users to confirm they have felonies & verify it, but to list their background check on their profile seems overkill. Some could sue for privacy reasons too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:41 PM
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There’s already dating apps where men can buy dates and some men already equate buying dinner with being entitled to sex. Also, buying wish list items could possibly attract LVM men with pocket money, scammers, escorts and sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:35 PM
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No way bank statements or buying things on a wish list would work or attract thousands of users from both genders. Also, storing personal identifiable information and bank info requires adhering to hefty legal regulations and costs by country so it’s a no go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:31 PM
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Thanks for replying! Will be reading more this weekend and reporting back. I followed you and a few others who expressed interest in possibly helping 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:57 PM
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Background checks would increase the cost to make and maintain the app and lead to privacy concerns. Yes I’ve thought of both genders having skeletons in their closets...some scrote would even sue for national attention, etc Another FDS warrior mentioned users answering questions from matches to boost their potential match score before actually marching ie. depending on if that person liked/accepted their answers. I’ll make this my weekend project to research more and report back 🖖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:54 PM
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Are you me? That’s exactly it. Using sex to self soothe a traumatic childhood or for a fleeting, external validation until you learned to build & maintain it from within. I’m proud & happy for you! Happy belated. You’re worth so much more and realized it. Time is on your side. You have the power to avoid bad situations & choices against what you stand for. 6 months of no sex = 6 months of no bs, LVM, & heart/headaches...enjoy yoself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:39 AM
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A registry of unmarried people would be hard to build & maintain. It wouldn’t be ideal since you can currently cross check public records but I get what you mean. Removing Swiping for attractiveness doesn’t seem ideal for growth but excluding photos of men with random/sibling kids or their kids, at weddings, etc does mean removing ideas of them being marriage or family focused when they just want sex. I like the idea of anonymous questions but would people get tired of answering anonymous questi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:16 AM
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What do you mean they’re a solved problem? Sis please share yourself knowledge! DM me please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:27 AM
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So so what do you suggest to field men on a better dating app for women tired of Tinder, OKcupid & the like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:23 AM
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Followed you back 🙂 But seriously it takes time to read & compile a strategy, plan to execute, then do it so thanks for the encouragement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:03 AM
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You don’t have to know much. Articles like these break it down. It’s easier than it seems but just requires reading and effort! Stay tuned. I’ll synthesize this info & hopefully post or get to someone who can! https://www.profitableventure.com/starting-a-dating-site/ https://www.unifiedinfotech.net/blog/how-to-create-a-dating-app/ https://www.suntecindia.com/blog/how-to-create-a-dating-app/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:52 AM
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Ladies! And I do mean ladies only. DM me if you’re about it. Let’s do it. I work in IT too but be ready to prove you’re a woman first. Ladies we need: Marketing IT Programming Languages: Java Framework: React, NodeJS, or ExpresJS Web Server knowledge: AWS or Nginx Database knowledge: SQL or Redis Legal Social media BUT, the more I’m reading maybe I can do this in my free time. Idk coding but there’s programs for doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:39 AM
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AND then Bumble came along. Women you’re empowered now! When really you can message these scrotes first & take more effort off of them. Wondering why you keep meeting jerks on OLD? I’ll leave this gem here: https://www.phactual.com/16-scary-statistics-of-online-dating/ No cap, I’d invest $10k towards a FDS-minded dating app. Make these men get references from their mom & other women. Til then there’s no apps on my phone or LVM or NVM men in my phone or life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:31 AM
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Yes!! Men say they like natural women, but lust after women in makeup & tight clothes online, in person, and with their boys. It’s a control thing for their spouses. The Madonna/Whore complex or some bs where you’re not supposed to attract attention from other men yet they can eye fuck & harass other women because it’s what boys do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:33 PM
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What happened to him?? He looks like a bleached frog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:17 PM
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Wow had to Google that term. Makes me more glad I enforce boundaries & standards. I asked him follow up questions to see how sick he was after acting like a decent man. Schrödinger's Douchebag: A guy who says offensive things and decides whether he was joking based on the reaction of people around him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:16 PM
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No I’m sure some are taking notes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:11 PM
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The worst part is posting pics like he’s taking care of his kids to attract women, but he’s not then his gf of 5 years not knowing he has a kid while the mom thinks he lives in transitional housing like a homeless man 5 years later while they all live 20 mins from each other! Thanks for posting this OP. This should be added to the handbook for viewing. All the wasted effort & time he spends chasing women for sex could be used to better his life, make money, & evolve but instead he’s risking more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:07 PM
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He mentioned dealing with women with low self esteem who accept his excuse of being in transitional housing or who don’t take care of their kids, steal, etc so it’s not HVW or women with many standards it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:01 PM
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Tinder and OLD in general is a sex market. Men laugh at women thinking it’s used to find relationships and love. Even Reddit men comment like “Wtf are they thinking. We use it to fuck” or “Why put no hookups on your profile? Lol. Like we care.” OLD companies did great marketing convincing women to swipe until you find Mr.Right, but the dangers of OLD being overrun with LVM men makes it worthless to HVW as you explained so well. I encountered everything in your post: bad/no dates, cheaters, guys …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:13 AM
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After being devalued the last time I had sex and reviewing how men have treated me or tried to, my body and mind no longer desire physical contact with them. When they speak uninterrupted, depravity comes out of their mouths. I have no reason to fuck them & am peaceful without taking their negative energy into the core of my being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:43 AM
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Exactly, but we’ll make it through this. The best part of life is the endless possibilities we can’t predict 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:41 PM
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What about the women who put down other women to defend men in some subs. They say women are too emotional, should be more understanding to men, or are at fault cause not all men are bad and just need our love. That makes me cringe more than gaslighting males. Like those women should trade in their vaginas for a penis if they want to ride that hard for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:32 PM
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I’m pretty disgusted today. Was talking to a nice, attractive, well off guy who revealed he’s in therapy for porn addiction last night. I asked more questions about his attraction to women like me & found out it’s his favorite porn category. He ultimately asked if he could jerk off to me then apologized for “regressing” 🤮 I blocked him. People may think FDS’ views on porn are extreme, but I learned 1st hand last night it’s true! Seemingly normal guys are abusing their dicks & minds to the point …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:27 PM
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Let it be permanent. Don’t forgive him or go back-and-forth continuing a cycle that’s hard to get out of & will ultimately prolong the abuse and negative feelings. Some of us myself included wasted years or time we can’t get back doing that stupid dance with LVM men. It may feel rough now but you’re on your way to better things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:18 PM
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I wish someone would make a post about the wave of women publicly proposing to men and getting turned down. It’s very cringe to watch. I’m not proposing and the ring should be a classic Marquise cut diamond set in gold. No couch proposals, no walking in the park “Opps, here honey” proposals, or prank proposals. It should be after a meaningful moment when we’re alone, relaxed, looking our best, and feeling connected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:01 PM
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Most girlfriends I had only wanted to go out in hopes of meeting men. As you can guess mostly LVM or NVM men reside in clubs & lounges. Once I suggested other activities and stopped going to these places their invites and communication dried up. It can feel lonely but if that’s their wavelength we weren’t compatible as friends anyways. I feel more sisterhood with the women of FDS and will try to find my tribe based on the principles I’ve learned here. Side note: some of those friends would enter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:45 PM
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Wedding or kid photos then him mentioning that he’s seeking something casual/FWB in initial messages is common. He won’t say FWB on his profile hoping those pics will lure you in. Another is photos showing he’s a doctor, lawyer, or high earning professional when he’s really a medical assistant lying to get some pussy. Men lie about their careers a lot on OLD. Reverse search their phone number to find their name & Google their job, etc in your state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:50 PM
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Wow. If he were a woman, he would be getting talked about SO BAD in the media. They would be calling him all types of degrading names, asking why he can’t keep his legs closed, etc. Some people can’t be monogamous. Fine. But why create all those kids he won’t be there for? I think there’s something mentally off with men who impregnate multiple women back to back...and the pickmeishas who allow them to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:37 AM
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I feel the same way especially learning how we are taught to be complicit in our own degradation from an early age. FDS taught me how to avoid further damaging situations by spotting scrotes earlier. Societies ruled by men ain’t gonna teach us this as it doesn’t benefit them. They want us to remain unaware and dumb like FDS is a bunch of old, fat feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:48 PM
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If having a rank in a video game is this important, he’s not a well rounded person and is displaying early signs of being selfish. If they got serious and had a kid, he would keep playing games while she did most of the house work guaranteed! Then he would bitch about her complaining he’s not spending time with the kids, etc...then BOOM dead bedroom and she “divorced me out of nowhere”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:48 PM
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Sooo true. Even on video calls we have to look good versus them wearing wrinkled, band T-shirts and having nasty looking beards. Yeah you don’t have to care and can look bad like them, but there is pressure and I noticed I am spoken to well/differently when I look good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:26 PM
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I’m not trying to detract from your reply and FDS (from what I know) doesn’t judge other women’s standards. I just want others to note how he defended dating a 19 yr old at 38 & actions from older men similar to him is a red flag and not to be celebrated. At 19 or so I dated CEOs and high profile men who defended dating me to others, but didn’t really value me. They enjoyed fucking me. They payed for dates. Showed me things, but behind closed doors they were hurtful and controlling. They reminde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:33 AM
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By bragging about other women and dates he tried to paint himself as highly desirable hoping you’d jump on the train in hopes of beating the competition vying for his attention to get chosen. A LVM masquerading as a HVM. PUA/the manosphere call this using dread game. Thanks to FDS he unknowingly outed himself. Congrats on not falling for the bs! Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:27 PM
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Damn 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:41 PM
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Yes, this is why they pay women for sex too or get so horny that they practically use anybody then feel shame and hide it. Weird porn categories just don’t exist for no reason either. I’ve had exes like this at times immediately get up to shower and others who liked to cuddle if we had a connection and they were decent men. You gotta vet and take it slow. The bonding hormone Oxytocin increases in women after sex, but not in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:39 PM
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Powerful women are a threat to men. They are called many horrible names because men are jealous that these women rose far above their station in life. It’s hilarious to witness in real life as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:57 PM
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