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So basically looks matter but you also need swag too. I think most men agree It's harder across the board to attract women than the other way around. Especially carnal attraction. Your physical attributes have to be ahead of the curve , Your behavior is held at a higher standard along with good immutable traits. it's a no brainer. the litmus you mentioned to enter the orbit is just a bit too high for the average man. That's the push back. it's just ugly men projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:26 PM
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Most liars and thieves are conditioned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:20 PM
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🔥 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:39 PM
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I wouldn’t mind a one time thing just for a humorous story
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:50 PM
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I can’t wrap my head around women that are afraid of reputation damage from cutting off someone who is clearly giving them unwarranted advances. Unless it’s your boss in a workplace situation it should be as easy as a layup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:15 PM
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Just say “ hey man stop flirting with me. It’s inappropriate and I don’t like it” Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:53 PM
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Well it depends on certain women.But as long as you didn’t abandon your child outright ,you’re in the green. If you have pictures of your kid , talk about them in a positive way or show that the kid means something to you in any way, it’s always a positive. Being a good father/provider in general will have a lot of women consider you even if your are NOT single. Especially to older women (30 +) I’ve never outright seen it as a negative unless you have multiple children with different women. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:41 PM
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One thing that also need to be pointed out is that even if a man is involved in a child’s life or not ; the stigma of men being sexually irresponsible or active is nowhere near as high as a woman doing the same thing. Notice the women here asking if the man is involved or not? With men ; it usually doesn’t matter and it’s a dealbreaker either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:05 PM
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If you live a life focused on self-improvement and advancement, it can be challenging to maintain friendships unless your friends are on a similar path. I've had friends who stayed on the same shit we were doing when we were teenagers. Also, alot of them aren't even working lol. I just couldn't relate anymore and we naturally drifted apart. Much easier to form friendships with women because you can build a close, intimate rapport regardless of shared hobbies or interests. However, a caveat is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:15 PM
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Women only lie about n count when you ask. If you show zero interest in her sexual history she’s gonna out herself eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:22 AM
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What you do is women and gay guy privilege. Straight men can’t get away with that kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:53 PM
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Alot of women actually dismiss their bad sexual experiences whereas guys claim every single thing that touches their dicks. I think the reasoning for this is the amount of effort it takes for the respective gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:03 PM
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I have a theory on why people call models and celebrities "mid" when they're clearly out of their league. It's similar to how someone might call an NBA player "trash" or "mid." They're grading them relative to their peers. For instance, an average person might call Jeff Green a bad basketball player. But in reality, since he's in the NBA, he's better than 99% of basketball players in the world. He might be considered a scrub compared to the superstars in the league, but he'd be seen as a superhu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:09 PM
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sometime you got to take them down a notch. but I never call attractive women ugly unless they insult me or do me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:37 PM
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Dating IS the hobby for most average women and higher value dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:37 PM
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doesn't matter I'm shooting my shot anyway because women often don't directly express their interest even when they are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:47 PM
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Do you honestly think you're required to be on any social wavelength whatsoever to make money in trade or tech?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:47 PM
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the only women who aren't hive mind are the ones that get bullied at the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:31 PM
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autumn is the goat season
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:06 PM
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that movie was misery porn. one of the charcters was doing hard labor in prison until he started vomiting. It was ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:47 PM
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This is why I don't entertain a lot of 30 + women. You mean to tell me you're still playing the same games as the 23 year old down the block in her mothers house? If I'm gonna waste my time why would i choose you over the same chick with healthier eggs ,most likely hotter, and a more promising future? An immature old chick is the same as the the balding mid 30s man working retail and playing video games all day. there's literally no value there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:40 PM
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LOL I've seen single mothers turn down more suitors than I could count. This whole "single mothers are worthless" is more of an internet push than actual reality. a lot of them choose to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:57 PM
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women are dersired primarily by looks and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:41 AM
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People are who they are, and women choose who they choose, and what you see here is the result. The driving force of this whole sub and the gender dynamics we discuss are a byproduct of who women choose as their partners (who goes between their legs). Point is, for a majority of men, they are pressured to be what the typical woman finds arousing. No fault from any side, it's just how the game is. Is the answer to men's mental health always dependent on what women do? Other men have mentioned "pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:59 AM
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It all boils down to a simple truth: the dynamics between women and the men they choose. As a semi-redpilled straight man, I can say that the only thing that has ever made me careful about my behavior is how I was treated by the women I desired to be with. This influence has had a more significant impact on my actions than any societal expectations or pressures. Any other man who feels constrained primarily because of how other men see him might very well be dealing with different issues, possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:34 AM
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Most guys here would be grateful to have sex with pearl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:29 PM
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Have you tried teaching him? Have you made suggestions on how he can be better in sex? Have you given an indication or hinted that he should to be better at sex??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:13 PM
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Most people don’t strictly date and have sex with people they are friends with. How you operate is very healthy and noble but it’s not the normal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:57 PM
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27 -21 30- 23 These numbers are not even large age gaps. You might want to touch grass I always thought age gaps started to get weird at around 15+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:11 PM
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I’ve never been in a relationship where we equally loved each other or enjoyed company It’s always been her disproportionately giving me attention or two texts away from her saying “This isn’t working” Rarely if ever it felt like even ground
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:20 PM
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This is a pretty solid argument imo. And it explains why some men would bail if they found out their child isn’t there’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:48 PM
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I genuinely believe that most brothers who say this thinks there’s a personality /behavioral clash than a physical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:23 PM
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Most women aren’t interested or attracted to men scared to approach or too dumb to read signals Even she likes you , you’re supposed to perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:21 PM
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Yeah you blew that one Here’s some advice for ldr and relationships with women in general. Never shy away from talking about your sexual conquests with other women.Even if you have to lie( although it’s very corny to do this) It’s always a net positive because it’s signaling you as attractive. It’s when you are in an official relationship with her that you can tone it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:23 PM
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Lol the drama can be so exciting!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:54 PM
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Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:53 PM
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They’re surprised because they usually get away with it. It’s like a shooting guard in the nba being surprised at a miss free throw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:48 PM
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I’ve posted this sentiment before but recent discussions with my female friends and coworkers made me realize the disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:45 PM
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Women seem to be vastly more lenient to cheating than men. Even in conversation with bros if the speculation of foul play is there , the girl is usually gone before a moments notice. But my female friends tend to have year long dramatic Arcs with infidel partners. It’s fascinating. Although women are very vocal about cheating partners they seem to be reluctant to trade up or dump, Even if they have an abundant of options compared to the male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:32 PM
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Interesting comment because I looked through your profile and noticed you yourself make porn for men to purchase and indulge. Have you ever felt like you were took part in the ‘pied’ problem that a lot of young men face today?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:16 AM
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Absolutely. It’s just bullshit detective work disguised as “opening up” A lot of women would talk about their exes genuinely but omit some other men they’ve dealt with in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:23 AM
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Growing up , I was always under the impression that talking about your exes was a bad idea and it was considered taboo. It wasn’t until I got older where I realized that, not only do most women not care; a lot of them actually encourage it. I’m not sure how it became a main stream ‘faux pas’ in the first place but it’s safe to say that the rule is debunked. Women love talking about their exes and indulging in your past/history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:11 AM
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Don’t approach unprovoked. Just wait for any kind of signal. Attracted women will put them selves in position to be talked to. They’ll comment on a book you’re reading , ask for directions, initiate small talk in the elevator etc. take the headphones out your ear and do shit in public. Always check for iois . Women aren’t lying when they talk about iois
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:28 AM
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Because he wants to be with a woman. Most of men’s problems here stems from a lack of options and a fear of being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:31 PM
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As an emotionally vulnerable man it’s pretty much a requirement Women who are lenient with emotional men are the only ones I’m able to attract and keep anyway. I can actually somewhat be myself and not have to mask as much for them to like me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:35 PM
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You need exposure to develop communication skills. Theory can never cut it. Granted, there are people who’s had many friends and talk all the time and still can’t communicate worth a shit; there are a lot of communication skills that can only be sharpened in social situations . Like handling situations where people disagree with you or constantly cut you off. If you want to make more friends or have better relationship skills, good communication makes you more attractive so you can reach those g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:24 PM
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Worst take I’ve seen so far
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:10 PM
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Ig is how for modern normal people date. Dating apps are for the rejects
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:51 PM
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To the young men reading this, ignore the cap. A lot of your fellow men who don’t care: -end up staying in the house getting fat. -end up staying in their safe comfy job -end up with porn addiction -don’t bother associating with anything correlating a social life. While I agree, it’s best to not obsess over failures/shortcomings , you need to be always cognizant of your place in life and your progress. You are not a woman. You don’t have the privilege of healthy relationships and sex just ‘happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:05 PM
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In other words Down syndrome folks should only date each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:06 AM
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are you attractive with money though? you need to have those first before you start deserving shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:06 AM
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If you cold approach a few times and get rejected it’s cool. But if it ever comes to the point where people come to her defense? You might want to consider other methods of interacting with women. Trial and error is one thing but I really think to cold approach successfully , you have to have some kind of innate ability of doing it and seeing SOME kind of positive result. Acceptance is key and can be life altering. Some people got it and some people don’t. If you know you don’t have it don’t try…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:02 AM
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I agree it shouldn't matter. But just the nature of cheating for men always seem different to me. Break up and dumping your SO always seem like a woman move. With men the usual suspects are: Juggling different women( side chicks) secret families young mistress escorts/cheap motels impregnate a chick in another country lying different phones All this weird ass shit. Women , IME, don't engage in this type of behavior. They can and usually do dump their men like trash and replace them. I honestly g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:56 PM
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i honestly don't think they bring it up enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:40 AM
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Interesting. I guess selectivity could be relative. Would you think most women are as selective with who they sleep with as men are? Also, would you agree that women in southern states tend to be more conservative? The perception is there for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:13 AM
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We’re still doing this? I thought the idea here was “women” is usually code word for majority of women or significant sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:37 PM
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I gotta kick the habit of going through post histories
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:33 PM
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It’s common knowledge that women are very selective with who they have sex with. It’s only logical to assume if she would go out of her way to ruin a relationship over sex, it’s because of a significant loss of love and respect. There’s a saying that goes something along the lines of, “women don’t cheat, they fall in love with other men. “ It rings true in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:25 PM
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The kiss at the end of slumdog millionaire got a standing ovation in the theater I was in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:21 PM
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Calling me a hater on ppd doesn’t hold weight. Hating is like tuesday over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:34 PM
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1) we need a confirmation on his height. If he’s about 5’10 he’s set. He doesn’t seem short ; I can’t tell based on the clip but that can make a difference for sure 2) gold grills cheap chains birdman 🙏 hand gestures. Seems like a typical goofy ‘hood performance’ dude I can tell he runs a good social media He seems likable. But I can see him being appealing to niche set of people. Seems like a typical fly guy. Imo ,you have to be raised a certain way or have a specific exposure very young to beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:30 PM
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Yeah ok 👍🏿 me thinking that ish is corny has no relevance to your original point you’re right But I’ll make a comment on some things above.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:25 PM
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Lol no the cringe comment was referring to him and people in general who post unflattering “this is me on a bad day. I’m secure enough to show ya’ll Deal with it!” Pics Women relating and loving this kind of social media behavior doesn’t bother me. If anything, it’s understandable, that’s kind of what they do. Like cardi b taking her weave off on live to show the world that she’s just like us. It’s social media and it’s strategic. I’m ragging on him not you or women in general liking this ish. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:45 PM
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It’s the guy version of “no filter y’all!” No need to get defensive for me pointing something out. He got you posting him and defending him. “Us girls can relate!” mission accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:02 PM
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It worked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:54 PM
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My point is that it’s a ridiculous assumption to correlate someone having that as a red flag as a person who’s asocial friendless and uncomfortable in social situations. There’s plenty of cultures and social activities that don’t involve drinking. Also drinking is linked to destructive behavior and bad decisions. Her response is akin to calling someone a “square” for not hanging out and doing drugs I smoke weed, but if someone says that it’s a red flag, my first assumption won’t be “what a loser…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:24 AM
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If somebody says “Women who drink is a Redflag” Are you really gonna assume it means ‘women who drink and have fun at social gatherings is a redflag’? Lol come on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:02 AM
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Guys who purposefully take bad pictures ie closeups and weird faces to show they don't care are try hard and cringe. it's one of the weird crap that alot of women fall for. tools of the trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:33 AM
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Lots of alcoholics and losers drink alcohol. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:24 AM
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Good god no. We have more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:14 AM
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Stoicism at its core shouldn’t be aligned with getting women. It’s all about self
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:11 AM
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I think a lot women would get behind a widowed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:04 AM
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‘I’ve seen you around the neighborhood and I just wanted to say hi’ Worked for me. I got eye contact a couple times in passing. I’d never cold approach out of nowhere. You have to work with something imo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:00 AM
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👍🏿👍🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:55 AM
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me neither. the limited casual sex I've gotten in my life have always involved me in heavy social situations. My relationships lasted longer when I involved my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:33 AM
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to add to what gridrexx was saying: 1)No online friends don't fucking count unless you know them irl 2) you don't have to be in a crew with moving pieces always interacting like some Seinfeld shit. But it's good practice to have other people KNOW who you are and what you're doing. Most women like to see men engaging with other people. There's no other way around that. Social proof is the golden ticket. And it's more valuable now than it ever was since everyone is a shut in or glued to their phon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:44 AM
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Thugs and criminal women? Like snoop from the wire? Nancy botwin? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:23 AM
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Living on my own. Decent job. Perpetually on Reddit. Still better than most of the ‘party’ people. Unless you meant having kids and forming sexual relationships as success. Than sure, they definitely one upped me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:28 AM
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The people who were , dating socializing and partying in my high school became felons and single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:14 AM
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Pill Regret# 1 In my early 20s I had a friend(a woman) who I enjoyed hanging out with but I was in a friend zone. It wasn’t obvious to her at first. One of the driving nails in the coffin that ended our friendship was an annoying habit where she would tell guys that were hitting on her that I was her boyfriend. She was doing that because she hated being approached by guys and just scared of men in general. I was essentially her fake bf and bodyguard. At the time, I was super inexperienced,delusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:44 AM
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Majority of people don’t have careers or jobs that they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:17 PM
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Every girl I’ve been with in my 30s was in their 20s 5 years strong and getting more confident in myself every year. Stay strong boys don’t let this b.s discourage you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:37 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:42 PM
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I've never met a single man or woman who had successful relationship and was completely honest to their significant other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:30 PM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:27 PM
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She’s an internet celeb and super hot so I get it. It’s the comments that are interesting. If that’s average , why are there numerous scientific data that’s suggest the average lifetime sexual partners are between 4-8? This means that people are flat out lying or only extraordinary above average people are speaking up. There’s no data supporting than anywhere close to 35 partners is average or “not that bad” Is the gap between average and above average that wide?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:05 PM
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I just realized how sexually inexperienced I am when Brittany renner( some fringe celeb) said she had 35 bodies and the majority of YouTube comments agreed it wasn’t that much. If 35 different partners is not that much than I’m for sure an incel. Lol I was actually proud of my single digit number *shrug *
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:32 PM
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Good for you My mother basically begged me. Very selfish of her but hey
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:04 AM
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Lol ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:48 PM
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Anyone here have parents that passed without being grandparents? Did you feel regretful?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:41 PM
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37????
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:54 PM
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Honestly I think girls giving out head is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:53 PM
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Lmao does that mean you get the” spark” when you watch pornography or go to the strip club?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:22 PM
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ngl wave cap shannon is Omnipotent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:13 PM
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at least he got the podcast. glad he got away from skip. that dude is the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:53 PM
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one take i see on here a lot that doesn't parallel real life is the idea that; when in a relationship, women tend to drive off men's friends and that adds to the male loneliness epidemic. in my experience, me having any kind of friendship was a + 1. i actually believe women would rather me be friends with klan members than having no friends at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:24 PM
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They never snub ugly guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:02 PM
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Y’all are being trolled
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:42 PM
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Literally every chick you meet in nyc has a masters degree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:41 PM
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Single fathers who aren’t deadbeats are more attractive than childless men in the black community.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:51 PM
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Classic game
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:26 AM
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Lol do you understand how sex works? You can use them for whatever you want. As long as you’re not hurting them or breaking the law. You’re paying them. There are men out here who hire escorts to hang and play video games. IMO escorts are the best way to learn. That’s what these incels with money should be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:13 PM
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Prostitues and escorts. Save up take a trip and learn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:32 PM
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The key is being natural. If it’s something you have to think about saying. It’s most likely awful The passion has to bring it out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:36 AM
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Lol bruh you’re a sub. Not common but nothing wrong with that. Most guys aren’t dating girls that resemble solid snake. Check out some gentle dom subs. You might learn a lot about yourself and have a positive experience. I seriously recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:14 AM
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you can get a blue text from an iphone 6 which goes for less than 100 bucks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:22 AM
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a joke is defined after it is said. . Usually people don't know if joke is funny, unfunny or weird before they say it( unless it's intentional) that's why it's an attempt. don't criticize the attempt, criticize the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:26 PM
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They’re autists don’t engage. Any normal person understands what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:51 PM
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How did you want /expect your bf to react? I’m really curious here Depending on the situation I”d probably have to ask for a fair one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:17 PM
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Fam, that’s completely different than what’s being discussed. Taking safety precautions is one thing and loss of attraction is another I cut a chick off because I got into two altercations at a bar because of her. Safety measures and a peace of mind. I get it and I’ve been through it . But she didn’t become too unattractive to fuck because of it. She just wasn’t worth it. To my understanding “ ick “is something along the lines off. “She gained 200 pounds and got her foot chopped off because of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:12 PM
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So a girl had road rage and it made you not want to have sex anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:02 AM
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