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gilliandrew/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:39 AM
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everything is about feelings. we are physiological beings. external and internal stressors — even “happy” stress and thrill affects the mind and body and outlook. i understand not playing and i can respect it. i can also understand recruiting others to your mindset. good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:05 PM
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that does not seem like the most resilient way to respond to circumstances but ok — if that feels right to you so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:21 PM
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what can men as a class do about the position they find themselves in? what would make you feel better about your class?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:45 PM
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seatbelts weren’t designed for women. it is kind of you to say your heart goes out to me over what i’ve been through. i wouldnt put him in jail even if i could. it had nothing to do with crime and punishment. he had just had a dissociated panic attack before it happened — (as a little kid he was molested and raped by his nanny for years and guesses these dissociated attacks are a result of that) and he went from struggling to just breathe in my lap on the bathroom floor to suddenly this cold sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:28 PM
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as evidenced by this conversation— certainly not all the time dear loyal subject
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 03:07 AM
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im still waiting for my crown. i guess it is coming in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 09:07 PM
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Seventy percent of mothers with children under 18 participate in the labor force, with over 75 percent employed full-time. Mothers are the primary or sole earners for 40 percent of households with children under 18 today, compared with 11 percent in 1960 There are 74.6 million women in the civilian labor force. Almost 47 percent of U.S. workers are women. More than 39 percent of women work in occupations where women make up at least three-quarters of the workforce. https://blog.dol.gov/2017/03/0…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:03 PM
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ya cant see the ideology that possesses ya. it is a blind spot. that is how it works. we can ascertain that it is absurd to consider that 50% of the human species who through out most of civilization did not have the right to hold property, or vote, somehow became so powerful as to not be subject to any risk in any relationship with a statistically probable more physically powerful human. that is a warped frame. it makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:19 PM
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no. relationships are risky for all human beings. your view that just women are safe from risk is warped by confirmation bias and ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:00 PM
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i said you should look into how we got here and why and who is to blame. duh— of course it wasn’t you. am i wrong in presuming you do not have reading comprehension? or you believe i conflate myself with you? lol. i dont. if relationships are too risky for men: they are too risky for all human beings. if you believe that then that is fine— do with that whatever you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:12 PM
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you are the one who brought up the law and legalities. what are you missing from me? what validation do you need? — oh yes poor darling it was the evil women illuminati with all their voting rights who warped the law to steal children and money and assets from innocent men and blame innocent men for every crime and force men into destitution by roping them into child support payments and this is a big grand conspiracy that women orchestrated to subjugate men and turn them into slaves. will we ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:46 PM
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nope sorry. when women became able to vote in elections to elect politicians who propose the laws in the first place is entirely relevant. where is your historical education? why did the magna carta matter? etc if you have issue with the legal system it is only reasonable to look at legal systems from their conception and follow it through time up to the contemporary now. then you are able to see why things are the way they are and who the big players were in shaping your current grievances. it …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:38 PM
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lmaooo dude. ideology. the legal system has historically been unfair. amazing cos it was built by men. Passed by Congress June 4, 1919, and ratified on August 18, 1920, the 19th amendment granted women the right to vote. How long have men been voting? not like other girls? sounds like you are not like the other boys™ 'Cause I'm every woman (every woman) It's all in me, it's all in me, yeah! nothing special about me dude. im just a person telling you that your perspective is warped af & you shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 02:21 AM
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you’ve had this view awhile and have been seeking confirmation and keep finding it. tale as old as time. human civilization is sick. hurting people hurting people. it is predatory and exploitive and it sucks. life is hard. women on balance of scales get away with more shit from a certain view. women on balance of scales are also punished more physically abusive partners. a woman may grow to hate you and steal your assets and the kids you share. a man may grow to hate you and murder you. it is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:59 AM
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no. nope. and no and nope and not even and yawn and sheesh— glad you decided women arent a hive mind. yes it is still ideology and your confirmation bias is choosing which women to listen to that confirms the sad fairy tale in your head. straight up dude: many humans are monsters. many know not what they do. many chicks act toxic as hell. many dudes too. hurting humans with broken frames. it is sad. your reaction to this situation is not healthy because your ideology is harming you and clouding …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:36 AM
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no. what consensus. where is the poll? i have read some of your comments. some are dumb. many are very good. i would not be wasting my time otherwise. i hope the urgent medical problem is now under control. i hope if you are in pain it does not last and ya heal up. i need ya around to disagree with. according to reddit history which is a narrow frame sure: as it now stands this world would be worse without you in it. so stay awhile. if only for the cat and the downvotes and disagreements lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:30 AM
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you are certainly ideologically possessed. you believe the female half of the species engages in sexual behavior and intercourse for manipulation as if they were a hive mind. you believe women cannot enjoy sex for sex sakes because of some hot take media. it is fundamentally idiotic. ya cant claim ad hominem as if its a fallacy when its the premise of the disagreement. your handle has: men go their own way in it yea? that is an ideology. you are announcing that in your very name you chose. you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:08 AM
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you write: < And I wouldn't say "no, we don't do that, you're just making it up because you're frigid". Like you do. > can you see the miscommunication here? I never said that. I never implied it. and I know I never implied it because I do not think it. so there is no: “Like you do.” Of course there are men who are on forums for men that design strategies to manipulate and exploit women. Of course there are women who are on forums for women that design strategies to manipulate and exploit men. n…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:19 PM
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ohh you got me. cosmo, a book, and an article in the telegraph leaked our true secrets of all women. i expect those authors to be assassinated soon by the womyn illuminati for bravely confessing this universal woman truth. if i was playing by your shit rules id link to the 3 most distorted pick up artists and insist this is how all men think cos all men share a single hive mind & are interchangeable clones. thankfully im not an ideologically possessed idiot. so i wont waste the time mirroring yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:59 PM
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no. just no. women are not a monolith. we do not have a secret club house with a password where we discuss our lying strategies. women are human. not all women enjoy intercourse like not all people enjoy star wars. not all women are straight. it is not an issue of truth. that you think it is may be pointing towards an underlying anima issue. work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:37 AM
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i guess you dont watch game of thrones cos the only “shaming” jon snow receives is from dudes. hell—simply consult the most recent episode. maybe it doesnt feel badly to you because it comes across as teasing of normal male ribbing but that does not mean it does not exist— it just means you are ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:34 PM
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but why “plate” why that material object? why not chair? apple? etc. what is the origin story of the term?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 12:49 PM
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the fuck is a “plate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 12:09 AM
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ok it is edited with even time stamps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:46 PM
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would you invent the hunger games to deal with them? bring back gladiator games? who cares about these people? are you an incel? no? then dont bother with it. it is a distraction at best and also kinda creepy. go find the alpha chick you want at a business networking meetup and see what happens. good luck & enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:30 PM
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i am saying how you define alpha and beta and omega is inaccurate, reduced, distorted, factually wrong, and unnecessary. it is quite simply not the intended or historic definitions of those words. these red pill definitions are wrong and dumb. it is like looking at errors in math homework. it just simply is not correct. you can still use those terms if you desire, of course. but it would be dumb to do so and i will not be using them in the way that you have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:14 PM
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an outcast can decide to become an outlaw and use his outcasted position as a strength or adapt and evolve and be welcomed back into the village. again, none of this is new. all these words exist already in their own definitions. even jesus said in the bible:.. i am the alpha and omega. he was clearly not saying “I am the red pill and the black pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:05 PM
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the ones who cant are outcasts. pariahs. driven out of clans or packs or tribes etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:01 PM
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in my mind, it makes zero reasoning sense to invent new reduced archetypes and decide which are pure and mixed. as in, if you desire that, do you. but you will probably eventually come to the same conclusions many others before you have. so why re-invent the discovery of the math of gravity ya know? there are many wise people and academics and psychiatrists and psychologists and analysts who have dedicated their lives to this. books, feedback, peer reviewed, etc. there is zero need to use red pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:54 PM
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ok, i do not use red pill ideology. i can see how you define it and i find it distorted. that is why I define it like carl jung and like biologists who specialize in wolf behavior. personality typing like myers briggs test, etc. the way i am framing it, in my view, is without agenda and reductive talking points. here is an amazing documentary about a wolf pack that talks a lot about behavior: https://youtu.be/YybY5sEeZUU
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:43 PM
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by most normal i mean most cliche. but i am speaking in archetypes. it does not account for the whole of any person. it is just role dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:31 PM
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i dont think you are a sub type. i didnt mention you specifically in that regard, i am speaking about psyche dynamics in general. that alpha psyche women tend to go for either the equally useful partner to build kingdoms like the best friend comrade in battle or an omega psyche man who enjoys being submissive. those are the two most normal manifestations. there are of course a whole bunch of outliers and remixes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:30 PM
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for clarity and simpler: it is not Alpha good, Omega bad. it is like two polarities in a battery. positive and negative charge needed. positive yang and negative yin. everyone contains both. the most captivating humans are fully comfortable being both. they are equal in strength in opposite ways. it seems most red pill folk want their men to be positive Alphas and their women to be negative omegas. that is fine, albeit reductive. Because the true self sovereign individual is an Alpha and omega o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 05:42 PM
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ok. i am going to try and be as clear as possible. what you are describing with Alpha women and beta women are archetypes of your anima. as in, you can imagine an archetypal character in your head that you believe you Desire and you want that. That is fundamentally different from women because women are people and contain a multitude of archetypes and lived experience. as in, it is the equivalent of me saying: I am looking for a Han Solo man and this is what Han Solo men are like. you are lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 05:38 PM
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as you should. it is archetypes and symbols. only worth relating to as you find it helpful. for instance, scorpio corresponds to the persephone myth. if it felt natural to you, you could try acting more like how you would imagine her feminine submissive self to be.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 09:45 PM
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INTJ. maybe read up on T & J and their inferior function.. feeling and perceiving. natal chart: see moon & rising sign. look at natal chart. what house scorpio is in. etc. could be insightful!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 08:42 PM
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are you by chance a fire sign? i am asking because identifying symbolic archetypal personalities like astrological signs or personality typing like the meyers briggs test can be insightful in this area. as in, how you are describing yourself sounds archetypally peak sagittarius and that is a masculine sign. can balance it out by turning towards feminine signs and natal placements.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 07:40 PM
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^ 100% this. i dont go out and find chads. or betas. for friendship because i am not in a cult or ideologically possessed. however, upon reflection, most of my male friends have girlfriends or wives or were happily single. and so, maybe that allowed our deep platonic bond to form easier without sketchy shady shit idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 08:36 PM
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Alpha Centauri Energy™ that anthony bourdain optics big dick energy meme. my view on it: it is so much fucking cooler to have Big Dick Energy with any size dick or no dick at all. it is just a deep okness. an inner peace. the internal belief that of course you measure up under any circumstance because you are a human person and that is always all ways quite Enough to be getting on with. that you can be a pleasure in endless ways whenever you chose to be. that of course the people you love, and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:09 PM
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yea there are girls. but on balance of scales. a more rare occurrence. and for them to bring it up and then for you to double down is interesting in its implications. it sounds more like a favorite disparaging delusion honestly. enjoy your outlook i guess. lulz
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:54 PM
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fucking yikes. hazards of not knowing the working poor, i guess. i am only grateful you are a stranger to me. good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:29 PM
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also, do your female friends know if you wonder if they even remember who came inside them or who the possible father might be? or is this not about your female friends because They aren’t like that, but those Other women probably are? lolllllll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:19 PM
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that is wild to me. pregnancy tests are not expensive. wow, live and learn i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:14 PM
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“if they even remember/know who the possible father might be” wowwwwww what a super distorted view of women. also, women, on the whole, do not ask to split pregnancy tests. plan b, maybe. tests? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:39 AM
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i was 19 the first time i had sex. i didnt tell the dude. he had no idea. and reading so many of these comments, im glad i didnt tell him. it was none of his business. this fixation on the female body hymen thing and this mythical virginity concept is a huge turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 04:14 AM
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i once had a friend who did cam work while married to her husband. she did it to help pay rent with his knowledge and consent. i say i once had because we are no longer friends for entirely separate reasons so i have no idea if she still cams.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:40 PM
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so insightful. enlightening even. very buddha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:02 AM
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more advanced techniques : women really respond well to context, narrative, nuance, and psyche. storytelling. adding meaning to the choices you make. that you make meaningful choices is So Attractive. example: if i meet you at a bar and you are drinking a gin and tonic, and you tell me it is because charles bukowski spoke highly of gin, or your grandpa used to drink them and you have childhood memories of him smelling like lime and tonic, or your favorite character in a tv show ordered one once,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 07:05 PM
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eye contact mirroring techniques casually explaining how you are part of a community / in network / are accountable eye contact like being comfortable making eye contact and discerning the difference between looking and leering. looking is open and does not mind being caught. looking is appreciating. leering has more of a hunger too it. more secretive. like trying to get something past someone else and it does not feel nice. mirroring techniques: validates that you are paying close attention and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 06:13 PM
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yes. i have so much sympathy for that. i am a very emotional person and can easily throw inner tantrums. there is also the idea of cost and benefit, as in, if one Feels like a bitter resentful child, and does not express that, the repression of it can lead to feelings of alienation, depression, nihilism etc. how do we walk the line between expressing our interior lives to our partners for intimacy and honest communication while not turning them off while sharing some of the more negative emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 06:00 PM
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yes. when realizing sudden distance and impending loss, I know it is natural to act resentful because as humans we are afraid. however, acting like a resentful bitter child is the worst behavior to express if you are trying to save the relationship. in jungian terms.. fear and stress => dudes can get anima possessed and not realize it. that bitter resentful thing. in my view, gotta get a grip on the anima and Not let it run the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:01 PM
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i think i hear what you saying? but it sounds like a lot of assumptions. most women in relationships i know are the primary maintainers, for one. two, and this is just personal and anecdotal, but it is my lived experience, I adore making the first move and get a thrill from escalating. in my world though, no one earns equality. all humans are equal on the fact that they are humans. i simply like some more than others. and malice and contempt scares the shit out of me. why would i ever get intima…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:11 PM
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nope. im saying women dont have sex with strangers they dont know who are stronger and can hurt them unless something else is going on. it has much less to do with the act of sex and much more to do with going with a stranger to a secondary location to have sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:01 PM
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im happy to hear it! if ya ever have questions about what some random person woman thinks / feels about stuff, reach out. this post was interesting to me because i agreed with the OP about comfort and trust. it is paramount to me for my safety that i feel listened to and heard. that feeling can happen super quickly. it is just the idea that someone cares enough to be gentle if i wince in pain or ask to be touched softer and that no one is gonna surprise choke me without discussing it with me fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:37 AM
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thank you, thank you, thank you for as you said trying really hard. to me, i feel heard and feel like you understand what i said and it feels nice. i cannot imagine what it feels like to want 75% of my waking hours. i do not expect a man to sacrifice to be with just me. when i love a man i do want sex on a regular basis. regular meaning once a day or at least every couple days. at most twice a day. there are times i say no though. because i have to. because i do not have the emotional energy to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 01:38 AM
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withholding sex to be manipulative is shitty behavior and no way to treat another person. simply not having sex because you do not want to have sex right there and then is a normal human response. like saying no to going on a walk or eating dinner or watching tv is not withholding. withholding is specifically refusal to give something that is due. withholding something owed. when is sex owed? i dunno. i think that is a case by case relationship discussion. like maybe some couples work out an agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 12:07 AM
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yes. why shouldn’t you try something different that benefits you. i hear you. but there is not just one other road to try. it is not blue pill or red pill or purple pill. that is all ideology. why not go full scientist and forge your own pathway of how you do things with great benefit to you that are not at the expense of your sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 11:58 PM
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i have been subject to negging before. especially when i worked as a bartender. no matter how unqualified you think i am, i have literally been on the receiving end of this toxic behavior. i have also called it out before in annoyance and legit this one time some guy was surprised enough to answer: “how did you know?” (and that man was Albert Einstein and then everyone clapped lol.) lol. as if i didnt watch that dumb show with Erik von Markovik as some type of dystopian nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 09:07 PM
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you said: “It's crazy how it changes a woman. Until you see it you can't understand women sexuality.” i was responding to that comment. this is a debate sub. i do not need to know you or your gf to respond to the idea you expressed with words. that i think is a garbage idea. which i expressed with my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 09:02 PM
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i am talking about general psychology. exposure often correlating with comfort. the more we see something the more we feel familiar and we project that we “know” when in fact we do not know. so the more we watch trump or clinton on tv, yes the more we tend to grow in familiarity and feel like we know them. which is a type of comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 09:00 PM
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i think it really can be taught. it just is about being willing to listen with an inch of an open mind honestly. like i am 100% here to patiently explain how to build comfort and trust from a woman’s point of view if anyone cares to hear about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:41 PM
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comfort and trust is required unless a girl is drunk / on drugs or if sober is so depressed/ low self esteem she is lowkey suicidal and does not care if she gets raped or killed. comfort and trust is Feeling based. we can Feel comfort or trust in an instant during eye contact. it is an emotional feeling. attractiveness correlates to comfort and trust. there have been tests done with infants responding more positively to more beautiful people with symmetrical faces. this is also played out in our…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:39 PM
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it is not an objective measure. it is an emotional call if someone Feels trustworthy. like how seeing donald trump for years in our living rooms on tv makes him feel trustworthy to us cos we got to know the character he played on the apprentice. literally the answer and reasons are right in front of your face and you will not accept them. it is kinda awesome to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:30 PM
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no. oh, this sucks. triggering a woman’s self esteem issues by staying distant and not validating her so she fucks you more because she is worried about losing you is manipulative predatory behavior. negging works the same way. while it may reap some practical success, the cost is too high. it is not the way humans beings should treat each-other. and i promise, intentionally triggering someone’s wounds and shadows so they dont feel safe or stable will never end well in the long term. it is poiso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:28 PM
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ah i see. unfortunately, we often have to believe something subconsciously to even see it in our conscious awareness. i am speaking about psyche. collectively and personally. it is a somewhat jungian idea. the collective unconscious, archetypes, joseph campbell, too. how about this framing: The Emperor: Alpha channel Luke Skywalker: omega channel seeking Alpha channel. that hero quest for illumination. he is pretty Alpha channel by the end of return of the jedi. princess leia: pretty Alpha chann…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:08 PM
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lol, i will take you at your word with a side-eye glance. maybe a solar channel thing. what i frame as Alphachanneling. (not the red pill reductive stuff) i named it Alpha-channeling and omega-channeling cos i grew up loving wolves. and it made more sense to me, that this framework afforded an Alpha Apollonian masculine and feminine. and a lunar dionysian omega masculine and feminine. anyway, like an atom is a particle (Alpha) and wave (omega) symbolically Adam (particle) and Eve (wave). light a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:06 PM
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😂😉 some acid would serve you. aww is some one lurking because they have a crush?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 03:47 PM
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my fondness for the british accent imagining, even if you dont mean it in a flattering way, i will recommend: ralph waldo emeron’s essay on self reliance, pasternak’s dr. zhivago book, tarsem’s the fall film, aronofsky’s the fountain film, peter brosen’s and jessica woodworth’s altiplano film, the album echolocations: the river by andrew bird, the album wildewoman by lucius, keenan o’meara tunes, especially his cover of god’s song. the numinous, nebulous, liminal, dusk and dawn. soul. the idea o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 03:35 PM
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ahahaha i love that this projection includes me being british. thats amazing. ive always had a soft spot for their imperialist accents. cool. happy your imagination cast me that way. for your sake, and your humanity, please get thee to a men’s circle and let your male friends help you. hang out with some grandfathers. it will help. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 02:45 PM
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ahahaha no. im not altering the slang in which i speak. i am giving you the respect or lack thereof that your argument deserves. this is so far from academic, i refuse to even capitalize. i am sorry for the loss of your own self in trade for your ideological possession. one of these male friends? is an ex. he broke up with me. after having a dissociative episode where he violently raped me. Lol. i promise you he doesnt want to fuck me anymore. in-fact, he lives on the other side of the country. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 02:28 PM
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good. on that we agree. cheers! xx
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:35 PM
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i know it is a debate sub. I am saying I need bare minimum common ground to debate. as in: if two people are trying to debate about climate change, some bare minimum facts need to be established. like: what sources of data are we going to find credible? is the world flat or round? is academic geology valid? are we agreeing that how old they estimate the earth to be is as old the earth is? or are we going with some estimated biblical earth timeline? this is important because if one debater says: …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:20 PM
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i thought ya said: jokes aside. cmon, dude. this gwen, stacey, billy, chad thing is really bad writing. like clearly this writer did not grow up with a sister level bad writing. or if he did, he somehow managed to grow up with her in the same house as a stranger, which is mind boggling. let me say it another way, reading this story scenario, i cannot imagine a single woman who knows the writer has ever said: “wow. this writer really just Gets me. ya know? he is really good at just listening. and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:11 PM
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no. i will not be addressing your original question because you do not seem to understand bodily autonomy and that is my bare minimum boundary. it is frustrating to have another human not give me the same rights they themselves enjoy. if you chose to have a colonoscopy, arthroscopic surgery, circumcised, a root canal, i wouldnt weigh in on your medical decisions. i wouldnt say: it is extreme to get a circumcision and for what a mundane reason! and look here are some stats and look here how highl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 10:15 AM
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it should not take 39 years. it is self evident. without sovereign god given right over the one body you inhabit in your one mortal life we cannot achieve life, liberty, or pursue happiness. if you cannot agree that women are and should be self sovereign over their own bodies, i have no interest answering your questions because we share no common ground. it is simply not possible for me to desire a productive conversation with you if you will not respect inherent bodily autonomy. i think thats p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 10:16 PM
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it does not matter, this 4% life threatening conditions when it is Your Own Life at risk and you do not get a say in the matter. whether 4% or 30% or .002% there is a chance I may die trying to carry a baby. There is a chance my life will be forever impacted, my pelvis, postpartum depression, my womb, my breasts, my abdomen, my back, my vagina. Mine. I am the only one who inhabits my own body. I am the only one who has to live inside my own body’s aches and pains. I have a survival instinct. we …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 09:23 PM
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also, just as an aside cos it is so interesting, hyenas give birth out of their pseudo penis. how crazy is that? almost all hyena firstborns are stillborn too. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pseudo-penis
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:56 PM
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no. early trimester abortion, plan b, and spontaneous miscarriage does not have a higher maternal death rate, sorry. the data is not there in humans or other mammals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:54 PM
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Thank You. i have been saying this for two years now and it keeps falling on deaf ears in these facebook jordan discussion groups. i feel so validated. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:44 PM
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im here for that. it is also hard for humor to translate through written words between strangers. jordan peterson speaks very highly of the jester.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:38 PM
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no. not at all. i am, as a rule, 100% unconsidered and think entirely nothing through. you are so perceptive for noticing facts! wow! do you teach any classes that i could attend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:19 PM
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sure, diminish the choice mothers make by conflating self sovereignty over our own bodies in matters of our own life and death with political gun control stuff? odd choice. let me guess, was it supposed to be a “joke”? lolllll The CDC reported an increase in the maternal mortality ratio in the United States from 18.8 deaths per 100,000 births to 23.8 deaths per 100,000 births between 2000 and 2014, a 26.6% increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:17 PM
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quite simply, people get to choose if they want to risk their life doing something. if they dont want to risk it, thats ok. if they do, thats ok. it is their choice alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:33 PM
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yes. which makes sense. when the woman alone risks her body and increases risk for long term health consequences to carry the baby to term which can kill her at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:32 PM
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ok, i will respect the fact that you want this to stop. and so, i will end it here. nice chatting dude. be well. x
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:51 PM
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^ continues to gaslight ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:47 PM
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continue to try hitting on a non-point. i care about these ideas. so deeply. naturally. i own that. is it cute? ok. am i falling in love with you due to all the negging? Maybe. oh no. all my extra too many feelings. so chaos. so sloppy. lol. get real. a little respect would go a long way with me. and then i would switch tones and stop mocking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:07 PM
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and as i keep saying, i do care about these concepts and ideas and how warped yours are. not even For you, as much as the audience that reads this. this is a debate sub. aren’t we implicitly invested enough to even debate in the first place? debate: a formal discussion on a particular topic in a public meeting or legislative assembly, in which opposing arguments are put forward. usually debaters need to care to some degree about what they are arguing. or it is boring and just an exercise in ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:02 PM
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oops another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:58 PM
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look here is another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:58 PM
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you wrote me 3 responses! i just responded to every one You made. continue to gaslight, dude, it is a fun joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:58 PM
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ahahahahaha So Invested. you really see the truth. you really have my number, now. are you psychic or just an Aquarius, my purple-pill dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 12:53 PM
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ahahahahhaah you said this already yesterday, loving caring literate man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 12:51 PM
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it is the opposite way around, my man. and you gave yourself away by coming back at all to reiterate twice what you already said yesterday. here it is straight up: you had a personal, naive, sweet, and even somewhat kind version of wife goggles. people do that with language. put their own feelings into it. attach to it. etc. so it isn’t surprising to me that you did have a nice bubblegum version. however, you were not working with the full definition of the actual term. you were not working with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 12:49 PM
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it is not a universal context. it is used inside TRP. which is a niche. if anything, urban dictionary is more universal if that is your issue lol. why dont you update that definition so it is accurate oh high and mighty superior masculine god man alpha daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:56 PM
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please, tell me more about urban dictionary and how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:54 PM
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lol dude. you have the weakest comeback for everything and continue to be disrespectful. “spilling feelings” oh tell my oh highest god of facts™ and reason™ and logic™ who has not felt an emotion since 3,689 b.c. how do you manage to reason far better than plato? what an academic mind! you sound like someone ideologically possessed by jordan peterson. is he your daddy? how did you transcend such a base human condition of so many feeelingggssss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:54 PM
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^ like am i supposed to feel fondly about this definition? one day have a husband and two kids and be like “aw honey, thanks for not abandoning us because of your wife goggles!” it is such a cruel toxic term. to both husbands and wives. it is so distorted and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:30 PM
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wife goggles: a condition suffered by many husbands whereby they believe their unattractive wife is actually attractive. Many cases are so severe that the husband actually believes his wife is desired by attractive and successful men (or women). The husband holds a firm belief that his wife does no wrong or simply cannot be held accountable for her actions. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Wife%20Goggles
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:17 PM
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i did define the term. i can define it again: beer goggles: a condition that exists, while in a drunken state, where a member of the opposite sex appears much more attractive than when sober. oh really? things that sound similar can be unrelated? thats why i mentioned swim goggles. wife goggles is being used in the same way as beer goggles. it is an Origin issue. and thus etymology which exists in validity and understood as an inherent part of language. where language comes from and how it evolv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:16 PM
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i care about the concepts and ideas we are discussing. as i said already. are you having difficulty with reading comprehension?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:13 PM
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and how about you answer my question as a measure of that perfect civility. about if you have ever or never been bummed out. and maybe how weird and rude it would be if someone heard that and decided it meant you sounded recreationally offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:54 PM
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and lol at explaining this is a debate sub. really? cos how patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:50 PM
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i said: why would i care about recreationally acting offended to someone i dont know and thus dont care about. obviously i care about concepts and ideas because i am spending my time on this. please stop being so dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:49 PM
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how could it not have evolved out of beer googles. as in, beer googles came first. beer googles is more broadly known outside the niche of TRP. it makes it implicately negative because one is born out of the other. as in, if the inventor didnt mean the association in the first place, even subconsciously, he or she is a poor inventor. because the implication is there. no, you did not invent the term. maybe you dont fully comprehend it. you are not the arbiter of definitions. and i did not repeat …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:48 PM
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have you never been bummed out before? are you more likely to be bummed out when you are bummed out or are you more likely to be bummed out as a posture to bother random internet strangers to be annoying or garner false pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:29 PM
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because it is called wife goggles. where did that term evolve from? beer goggles. what is the definition of beer goggles? also, you do not live in my body. it is dismissive and shitty of you to decide i sound recreationally offended instead of logically using occam’s razor and keeping it simple and reading that me saying i am “bummed” means i experienced some emotional pain over learning this term existed. ie, can you see how shitty and dissociated it is to assume this is some recreational postu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:27 PM
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i associate it with beer goggles. as in, a wife is a mind altering drug that narrows your awareness for the worse. beer goggles: A condition that exists, while in a drunken state, where a member of the opposite sex appears much more attractive than when sober. wife goggles: where a member of the opposite sex appears much more attractive than when you are not married to them? like if you werent married to this person you would not still value them. as in, you value them because you have purchased…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:12 PM
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wife goggles is such a reductive term for the scope of bonding and history and intimacy shared with the one person who chose to spend their one life with you. kinda really sad. man, i hate that i just learned this term was a thing. bummerrrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 08:47 PM
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isnt that just called chasing? many humans instinctually like tag. some women really do not like the feeling of being pursued and like to instead do the pursuing. this is basic behavior in my mind. grass being greener on the other side and being up for a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 08:43 PM
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{ sorry if that got too lengthy, i was on a roll.. on a role? and enjoying the writing and thinking aloud. thanks for your question which gave me this chance! }
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 07:40 PM
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you are most welcome. also, a piece of it that i think relates for me is being really good in this core place inside me. not being “fine” like as some external posture. or a zero fucks given defense pose. being really deeply ok somewhere inside my core. like behind my abdominal muscles. the place than can hiccup! this feeling of okness that if i suck at something, ok, i will evolve. or if i make a mistake or act stupid or ignorant, ok, il learn. or if i reach a dead end, ok, il adapt and invent …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 07:12 PM
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from myself. it was a natural pathway conclusion. and then later when i came across ralph waldo emerson’s essay “self reliance” or even later came across carl g. jung, or even how zizek harps on ideology i was like: yea! me too! ive felt this way! as in, i vibed with their views because i shared them already. i just noticed when i stood against something or For something, how it was stifling. had vegan friends who got harsh about it. or punk friends trying to live up to punk ideals. or people re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 06:12 PM
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here. for your knowledge: baptize (v.) "to administer the rite of baptism to," c. 1300, from Old French batisier "be baptized; baptize; give a name to" (11c.), from Latin baptizare, from Greek baptizein "immerse, dip in water," also figuratively, "be over one's head" (in debt, etc.), "to be soaked (in wine);" in Christian use, "baptize;" from baptein "to dip, steep, dye, color," perhaps from PIE root *gwabh- (1) "to dip, sink." Christian baptism originally was a full immersion. i was using that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:08 AM
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im sorry you cannot seemingly perceive how you distort and crush everything. what religious references dude? that a song is called holy soul? its not religious. promise. knowledge is chains when it is used to reinforce perspective with confirmation bias. speaking about why little kids lie is not a dark path. asking little kids to have a grasp on integrity and act nobly when scared is tho. im glad you dont believe as much toxic stuff about women. thats nice to hear. because women are not a monoli…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:01 AM
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nope. not even a little bit right. let’s talk about star wars. you know how Princess Leia tells Tarkin: “The more you tighten your grip, Tarkin, the more star systems will slip through your fingers.” yea. you are on the wrong side. cos ideology is some empire shit. ya sound like tarkin. ya sound like general hux. “Order!!!” ideology is always brainwashing. even a “middle road” like purple pill. it is a road as narrow as a knife edge. that is nonsense when we can hang out in a field and design ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:49 AM
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yes. all ideology eventually kills romance. ideology is too superego. it squashes our instincts and attractions and vibes. even a compromising middle road ideology like purple pill. it is All Bad for creativity and flow and curious discovery and inspiration. ideology closes and calcifies the mind. it is not good for love. love is free and needs open free air to thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 03:10 PM
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