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Sure. Specially after several dates.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:49 AM
2

Ask yourself: do you want a dinner?
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:16 AM
1

If you are good, you are good.
/r/seduction01/04/24 06:43 AM
1

What kind of porn and how often do you masturbate? Technically, anything can be erotic but you have to realize what’s healthy and what’s not. Are you looking at degrading unreal performances and constantly masturbating you? So I have bad news…
/r/seduction19/02/24 01:17 AM
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Nah. There isn’t a definition of it. Just saying I was just doing extras and some commercials by the time… No dialogues but close up/headshots.
/r/seduction09/02/24 09:42 PM
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Was a Z-list actor and I can testify you will get laid a lot. The minimum exposition will attract people thinking you’ll be the next big thing, wanting to get around and get laid.
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:58 PM
251

I believe this is the general rule for every profession…
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:55 PM
7

Model, musician, athlete, professor.
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:54 PM
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So upgrade yourself. Improve your body, intellect, lifestyle, and communication.
/r/seduction28/01/24 12:55 PM
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Develop a genuine skill and interest. Focus on studying that thing and participating with avid enthusiasm in a local niche. You’ll be a respectable and reliable source of information on your field. But the deal is to be truly into a hobby/subject. Don’t go into random activities like yoga Just to be surrounded by girls. Everyone can smell a horny idiot miles away. Invest in yourself: education, composture, mental health, physical health, communication, language/grammar, manners… it takes time to…
/r/seduction15/08/23 12:31 AM
2

If she’s into, she’s into. Just feel the atmosphere and don’t be weird AF.
/r/seduction21/04/23 04:17 AM
1

You can’t just compare Cruise and Pitt with Cavill. Not now. Two solid careers over decades and decades of landing big roles. Also, another time where movie stars were not accessible through social media. There was a different aura among actors and sex symbols.
/r/seduction19/04/23 07:09 PM
5

This!
/r/seduction19/04/23 07:05 PM
1

C’mon dudes… just be bold and respect yourselves. It’s simple than any rule or premade assumption. This is kinda childish tbh. Modern day lives are always rushing and shits can happen. You must feel the tone and read your girl. If she’s into, she’s into. No big deal with a reschedule but if you are feeling fooled just move on.
/r/seduction19/04/23 07:04 PM
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Are there anyone here thinking about it as a good strategy?
/r/seduction30/10/22 12:49 AM
6

One day at a time, boy! Congrats!
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:13 AM
1

THIS!
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:00 PM
5

Let’s be honest: “Girls are getting weird!!” + “I believe I’m fairly average looking guy” are probably not the best opening lines… btw: you shouldn’t give so much attention to one particular situation like that.
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:00 PM
1

Something matching the party. You don’t wanna sound the sloppy lazy one who didn’t give a f-ck about being there nor the dude who put too much effort into a single costume like it was the party of his life.
/r/seduction17/10/22 09:36 PM
1

Don’t forget the apple too.
/r/seduction17/10/22 09:33 PM
2

In person: try to scan if she’s into or partially into/interested, don’t look desperate or needy, walk in and be smart /sharp, show interest and have a nice conversation with confidence. Online: follow, wait her to follow back and post a thirsty trap.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:06 PM
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Fun fact: you don’t hate a man for marrying his cousin when you don’t know how hot his cousin is.
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:17 PM
2

"No one fucks with a Biden” - Biden.
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:15 PM
1

What the actual fuck did I just read?
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:14 PM
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Sorry for my bad english but I just want you to know how young you are. Please give yourself this gift because you have so much time ahead. Enjoy your time.
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:14 PM
1

Attractive or not, girls are probably getting attention and odd comments. The thing is: if you are in a relationship or not. And in both cases no need to worry about it. If it’s something casual no one needs explanation. But if it’s a serious relationship you need to trust your girl and communicate about your feelings.
/r/seduction08/10/22 11:27 PM
0

“What’s often to you?”
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:15 AM
0

I will go for the easiest way ever: David Bowie, Paul Stanley., Michael Jackson (all white, hat, shiny glove)..
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:46 PM
4

This pickup stuff you are watching… probably not the best move tbh. A lot of outdated fucked up shit. But ok here we go: don’t act or portrait. Be yourself and work on your own features you want to improve.
/r/seduction01/10/22 06:57 PM
1

It’s up to you. Just don’t loose your mind over her and respect yourself having boundaries.
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:43 AM
3

Don’t farm false expectations but don’t act like a cocky one. Be polite and friendly. Be their friend.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:34 PM
1

One single advice: do not lose your contact with friends (boys or girls) because of a relationship. This kind of thing sucks! People start to date and leave their friends. Then, suddenly appear missing the old ones till find another one… Keep going to bars, doing game nights and spending time with your homies.
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:12 PM
1

You can find someone better! Think about it.
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:06 PM
2

It happens to everyone once. Some people just manage to get out earlier being busy with cooler stuff and comprehending their own feelings.
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:04 PM
28

Yes! Now you are in the real world. No time for delusional thoughts.
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:52 PM
5

Did you something like a date or a kiss before making this move?
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:51 PM
1

Education always. Have manners. Be polite. But no need to text standing your point here. Let her go. Let her leave and don’t be surprise if she starts to hint you, but stand for yourself and the respectable people you want to be.
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:51 AM
1

Status, in opposition to Money, Looks and Game, is a very specific thing. Like a niche. One can be considered a “high valuable” man to a group and a last option to another group. Think about it.
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:59 PM
1

You set boundaries by attitudes. Action over words.
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:53 AM
1

It’s common shit, we know. All men had this situation once and it sucks. Understand she is needy too: attention, affection, whatever. Start to focus more on yourself. Respectfully ignore her because she no more rules you.
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:25 AM
2

She just need to make a small silly move and there you are so naive going over her like a hungry puppy. So easy, huh? Move on, dude. Man up yourself and put some self respect in your life. It’s never old fashion. And you know what? She’s just living her life. Like 80% of this mess is not her fault. You are making a big deal and getting mad over her. For fucks sake it happens to we all once at least. Move on. You can do it.
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:53 AM
1

How low can a guy get? Here’s what I think: I think it seems like there’s only this one girl available in the whole town and no other bar to go… “This Is where it gets ugly”… oh, man! At this point I was 3x done with the whole humiliation and self destruction. Yes, she was disrespecting you in some moments, but you did it to yourself a lot of times too! You don’t even set your boundaries. Let her fuck anyone she wants and do yourself a favour: RESPECT YOURSELF.
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:48 AM
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It’s a no. She set her opinion and made her movement not responding You. Just move one and don’t lame yourself in humiliation.
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:35 PM
7

Kink shop
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:46 PM
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And stop posting porn too…
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:46 PM
4

She need to be interested in you. Phone number or Instagram doesn’t matter if she’s interested in you.
/r/seduction24/09/22 02:50 PM
15

It’s a tool. Use it wisely.
/r/seduction24/09/22 02:35 PM
5

If she’s into, she’s into. Your probability won’t be higher or lower because she gave you her Instagram instead of her phone number.
/r/seduction24/09/22 02:35 PM
5

Well… harder or not it all depends on where do you live and what is your lifestyle now. Who are you approaching? Where? In dating, social media has a lot of meanings… it can be an outdoor for yourself, true. But a lot of girls feel safer checking who knows you and some basic info.
/r/seduction24/09/22 02:33 PM
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Maybe in 2202AC it can be seen as a romantic act again but in 2022… 🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:47 PM
2

He mentions Southern Hemisphere. So we can think about a lot of non-English speaking countries. We can understand his typing.
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:44 PM
1

1) How did you manage to find a random festival girl on Instagram? 2) Somethings belong to the moment: another day, another vibe. Don’t take it personal. 3) Note that way before your stalk, she had already made her point and set her mood. You had your answer since day 1. 4) Anonymous gifts are kinda dangerous I think… maybe she’s into another man, ask him so he can easily say “Oh, yeah! It was me!”… 5) If she’s into, she’s into. This girl was very clear about her points there. She wasn’t interes…
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:43 PM
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It all depends… which girls? Some girls will find foreign accents an interesting touch, you know? Maybe this girls are not really in the mood and shouldn’t worry about it. And the cheater guy… is he sleeping with a lot of good looking and fine girls? Probably not. Beware the liars. And about things getting harder after college… no way! A lot of folks get in a good physique, get a decent money and a cool lifestyle way after college. So things can be better after college too.
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:44 PM
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Don’t follow it. It didn’t aged well and it’s kinda embarrassing.
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:38 PM
2

It’s legit. Specially if it’s your first invitation. People have other earlier appointments. What you can do: try to set a casual date on a regular week day or stand for your own schedule. Just don’t vanish and suddenly appear inviting for something.
/r/seduction20/09/22 05:25 PM
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Don’t try too hard to be a joker. That said, I’m not a big fan of long gym conversations… people are there to workout. Be funny but be smart and sharp. Know when to leave in good terms while your team is winning with a taste of “want more”. Make sure to don’t be long till make your point and scalate your move inviting to another day in a proper place.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:14 AM
1

Well... you can invest in good pictures. An amateur photographer isn't expensive and can take good pictures for your social media (LinkedIn, Instagram, etc)...
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:32 PM
4

Sooner = Better
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:18 PM
1

Maybe take a double check about to know how and when to bring your highlights in conversations. Also not everyone is into literacy or history. Some people are wondering and reading other topics.
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:32 AM
2

Just chill. Don’t take it personally. Move on. Easier said than done? Yep. But there’s a lot of people around there so no need to put this girls on a pedestal as the holy grail or whatever.
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:27 AM
3

Don’t dress like Santa; BE SANTA.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:32 PM
0

Would you do it for your friends? Pretending to be a camera operator so your friend can stand like a famous impersonator and get all the girls… no one wants to be in the backstage lol everybody wants to be in front of cameras.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:30 PM
1

Looks like you already have you answer.
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:51 AM
2

For humorous purposes, ok. Anyway it’s corny AF.
/r/seduction15/09/22 01:15 PM
0

Look her in the eyes, nod your head and say ‘hey…’ in a sharp way.
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:20 AM
4

Just curious: which one did you shut down?
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:29 PM
1

Maybe you have different: • values • timing • life moments • beliefs • common interests • humor sense • political views • expectations • future plans You got it?
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:22 PM
1

Also I appreciate if you correct my sentence. Non-english speaker here and some mistakes are inevitable now.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:26 PM
2

Focus on your earlier steps by now. Go there thinking about having a good time, a couple drinks and a very good conversation. Go there "reading" the moments and enjoy! Less pressure, more fun.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:00 AM
1

Well… men do it too so it’s completely possible…
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:38 AM
5

The ‘new school coaches’ too.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:41 PM
2

I hope so… it was full of old and awful statements. A lot of stereotypes and narrow minded people. Models by Mark Manson is a great read tbh.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:38 PM
1

I don’t wanna be rude but you should move on, dude…
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:10 PM
2

Ask yourself: can you read the difference between the looks at you? If you are above the average/good looking with nice features or and outstanding look (maybe different hair/tattoo/style) than you are probably getting some looks. What does mean interest. Maybe it’s curiosity. Another thing: maybe a look is just a look.
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:58 PM
1

Don’t bite the bait. Don’t bite the bait. Don’t bite the bait.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:16 PM
2

Have boundaries. Stand up for yourself and ask her what’s the deal.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:16 PM
1

There’s a blur between don’t tell and let it happen. I believe the best word here is Communicate. And you can tell it in many ways possible.
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:23 PM
1

What DTF stands for?
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:31 PM
2

People are downvoting you because they remember this awful situation. But honest is everything here. It happens. Yeah, it sucks but nobody is perfect. I don’t like this attitude or mindset but I appreciate your courage. Guys, identify when a girl’s into you. If she’s into, she’s into. That’s it. No scam, no games, no laziness. People are really busy and extra tired nowadays but trust your feelings and develop a good communication.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:18 PM
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Balance is everything. Remember Thanos. Balance is key. There’s a thin line between uninterested and confident. But I can say just don’t be needing and overtexting is a good step.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:08 PM
6

Please don’t medicate yourself before going to a doctor.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:09 AM
7

A better one: one girl IN each continent.
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:25 PM
2

it depends: sex with tons of what women? in a relationship with which one?
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:16 PM
2

Hard to say but If you are high confident and above the average, you can let this up to her because you’ll send this chin up vibe. But if you are in doubt, ask for her number avoiding to be seen as uninterested. Also used it to develop a cool conversation since the beginning of your texting.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:36 PM
1

Please don’t try to turn every conversation into it. There are places and people unavailable.
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:45 PM
1

If you want to, be specific. It’s better to close a wide range of options up to nowhere. Have your boundaries showing you are not there just laidback waiting for someone to take a position for you.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:01 PM
3

Going to the gym isn’t about being fit. Not only about it. There is more around it: commitment, health, self confidence…
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:03 AM
1

The Simpsons quoting Scarface in a different way is awesome!
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:46 AM
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It works. BUT… But you definitely can’t do it in order to attract women. You need to do it to pursue your passion and to develop more about your interests. That’s how you’ll stand out. Photography is an amazing art. How to shape the light and to make moments endless by your lenses in an interesting view upon our world. Don’t waste this potential thinking only about attracting women. And I’m summarizing some things that can be applied to other interests too. Nothing personal here. Anybody can sme…
/r/seduction19/08/22 10:28 PM
1

Balance is key. Try not to overtext her but don’t be a ghost. Send her funny/cute things and analyze if she’s starting new conversations really into the talks or just answering you.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:46 PM
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Not friends.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:34 PM
3

She belongs to the streets.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:40 AM
2

I strongly suggest you to delete your comment. Don’t put your Instagram here. A lot of fools and scams and anonymous.
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:25 PM
1

The Players Book - Dungeons & Dragons
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:35 AM
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THIS is an advice.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:11 PM
1

Take some tips about fashion. You don’t t need to be a hipster or a fashionist spending thousand of dollars. Just find out your style. Nice clothings, good stylish. And don’t pretend to be anyone else. Go for an improvement of your own persona.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:04 AM
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Too much explanation. People trying to shame you don’t want a whole quote, they want to mock you, to feel superior. Here’s a good line for you and your girl to say (straight to the point): We don’t care about your opinion.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:58 PM
3

Too much internet for you. Lack of real life and grounded experience. Don’t rely your knowledge and personality to dating forums.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:41 PM
1

Take a look at his other posts…
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:40 PM
4

She’s for the streets. She belongs to the streets. Just adding more theatrical drama to your quote. lmao And seriously the way OP described Jake I'm lefting wife and kids to travel totally into him too
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:24 PM
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I'll be straight to the point and maybe I'll be seen as the rude one here, but I'll talk to you as I wish someone came to me before because man I was in your shoes for a very long time. You def need a mid/long plan to your life. And I'm not talking about the Laura-issue. But hey! You'll manage it because it's ok to feel insecure sometimes just don't overthink about it. If she wants to f*ck Jake than she'll do it. You described him just like a fusion between Chris Hemsworth and Idris Elba can you…
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:17 PM
4

Man… you did the right thing. You just avoided a ton of possible problems to you and your image…
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:37 AM
1

Be yourself. Don’t push too much and enjoy the first steps. Ask her Instagram or whatever. But there’s a fine line between communicating her your intentions clearly and waiting a long time to move forward.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:49 PM
1

Hmmm… this whole conversation sounds too much quantitative when, in fact, we should be viewing and talking about it in a qualitative way. Numbers don’t matter if you do not learn how to read and to scan people, how to present yourself and to develop other useful skills. You’ll be hitting the same key in the exact same way and expecting to make a different sound…
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:50 PM
1

Is she talking to you or just sending answers?
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:22 PM
1

Common sense will say Yes because people will rely on how do you present yourself. But as we are all aware: humans are complex. There are tons of creepy negative people attracting good ones (and vice-versa). You might find liars, frustrated, weirdos… a lot of people arguing on both sides. As long as you are focused on yourself, you’ll find easier to attract the woman you like. It takes time. I’d say the type of man you are can help you to attract girls simillars to you.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:32 PM
2

A “no” is way better than a “maybe”. You got your answer even if it has no answer. Guys need to know when to move on (specially earlier).
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:17 PM
2

What’s this feminist ethnicity? I’m asking because a 22yo white and rich girl has a lot of privilegies, powers, than a dude from a lower economic class and being a minority. Gender issues without race and class subjects trends to be a little vague in shallow conversations.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:54 PM
1

Go on a date just you and her.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:27 PM
1

There’s a fine line between showing our intentions clearly & moving gradually into what we want. Learn how to communicate it.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:58 PM
0

Be simple and polite.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:26 PM
6

In dating, in business, in studies, in whatever…
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:16 PM
1

Somethings about matches: you’ll need top profile pictures, your success will rely a lot on geography/demographic issues and some apps are just Pay-to-Play.
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:07 PM
1

There’s a canyon between not being attracted and being uncomfortable around. You should go for the ones you find attractive. Which women do you find hot? Go.
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:54 PM
1

Start going out to comfortable places with comfortable people around. If you don’t know any place/people, write down what do you like and wanna go. Example: museum, nice coffee shops, small concerts, movie theater… and just go. Be yourself, be open.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:48 AM
15

Social Status is different from Social Life… status is something more related to a specific group or area… a niche… how people recognize and admire you.
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:07 PM
1

What are your feedbacks and reactions on Tinder? You know what is said: If she’s into, she’s into. But I think you can be a little more creative without being needy…
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:04 AM
2

Read Mark Manson’s Models. Awesome guidebook.
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:15 AM
1

Confidence + Self Esteem. Because this modern operated faces are weird AF.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:02 PM
1

Make you both comfortable and be cool, use your tongue and fingers but not it a rude way. You can chat and communicate what you feel too…
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:22 PM
1

Are you still there?
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:12 PM
1

You have 1 tongue and 10 fingers.
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:12 PM
1

Just… no! He will be too stupid to talk and appreciate. If he can’t handle situations sober, alcohol will only make him weird with false confidence.
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:11 PM
4

Pay attention, real listening, quality time together.
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:08 PM
4

Desperation and Neediness can be smelled miles away…
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:37 PM
2

Are you considering taking a job JUST to meet women? Seriously? Improve yourself: go hit the gym, develop genuine hobbys, try to be smarter, have an open mind… you’ll start to meet women in A LOT of places developing a healthy lifestyle and searching for your true passions.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:35 PM
1

Let's be honest... a lot of men do not experience the sexual life we often see in movies or whatever. The number of average partners are kinda low. And there's nothing wrong with it. It's absolutelly normal.
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:59 PM
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That’s because he’s on for 2 weeks. Maybe you need to wait till you got 14 days in a row… heheh
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:13 AM
1

I’m pretty sure there’s some term for that instant feeling of regretting after ejaculating when you almost get sober after getting laid… be ready for that.
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:55 PM
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And don’t get mad if she accepted it and got tons of guys into her… I’m among the ones being there on her Instagram’s direct messages. She’s intelligent as heck, good career, low body-count, takes care of herself, pretty and adventurous. 😋
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:50 PM
1

Dude can you imagine yourself kissing her, having sex, developing intimacy just to know she has this kind of feelings and thoughts? I’m sure you figured it out about the good stuffs but she was very clear about the intentions all the way out. Just realise how lucky you are. You just avoided further and deeper problems to your mind.
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:17 PM
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Models by Mark Manson. You can find it for free around the internet. It’s far away from the pickup lines in common books. It’s a book about three major aspects in modern life you must summarize and work a bit.
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:15 PM
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By the end of your second paragraph I got your problem: you don’t need to change anyone. It’s a waste of time. People do ‘operate’ with polarization sometimes, when you have to trigger and move fast, but she got an opinion and stand pretty earlier for her thoughts. Don’t be used. Move on. It’s not a give up. Remember: you both win and lose in a relationship. So if you are losing a pretty girl, she’s losing a hard working cool guy too. And do yourself a favor about not taking this “change her min…
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:14 PM
2

You both are right.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:20 PM
2

You don’t even need to blame the algorithms if you are uploading bad profile pics and bigoted demands there…
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:18 PM
1

P2P gamers know that
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:15 PM
3

There are a lot of things to be concerned here… How’s she really looking at you? How are you presenting yourself and approaching girls? Where are you guys? Etc… You shouldn’t bother yourself about what they’re thinking in the toilet. Try to look for a pattern or something like that in all this situations…
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:12 PM
2

They have plenty of time and money to space. Nice places to crash too. Also rich people have more access to events, social circles and opportunities. And people come to bootlick’em all…
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:29 AM
0

Dude in some countries you can even formally prosecute her for false accusation and all the social + mental damage to your life and image. It’s definitely something against your name, your reputation, your honor.
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:56 PM
0

That’s why I take a ton of selfies smiling and cuddling and making faces with girls along the date. Don’t know if it will help me but for god’s sake WTF this girl has in her shitt* mind?
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:53 PM
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You don’t need to be a Men’s Physique cover or a Calvin Klein model, but here I have some tips: working out can be translated a self-investiment and commitment to yourself, you’ll grab other’s attention as someone healthy and taking care of yourself. This will be the “main read” people will lay upon you.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:01 PM
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My 2 cents? A lot of people go for The-Second-Invite Mindset (it’s ok if she said no because you can invite her one more time for a second try)… well, I know modern routines keep us busies and all this things. But I also know communication and interest flow both ways. Ask yourself: is she bringing new subjects to the table or is she just answering your questions? Develop a feeling to scan when someone isn’t into you. A lot of people on Reddit said a message can sink into a lot of other ones toda…
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:52 PM
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Err… Just nod your head.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:53 AM
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Simple: you invest in yourself. You hit the gym, you develop genuine hobbies, you aim to study and work at things you love, you put some effort in your passions and personal projects. Have in mind: do it for yourself, for your health and mental health. Don’t put yourself in awkward situations just “because everyone’s telling it’s cool or because there are ladies there”… Do you wanna go vegan but you fear your “friends” will mock you? F’em all! Do you like certain type of art or hobby but are sti…
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:17 PM
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Not here please.
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:16 PM
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Why do you still have her pictures if she was abusive as fuck?
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:45 PM
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Focus on yourself. The neediness and The “thirsty” is something that can be smelled blocks away. Remember: Focus on yourself. Good news: confidence, self respect and boldness can be felt too. Just don’t be an arrogant selfish. Be someone having fun independently and not so into “date game”. Hit the gym, eat healthy food, find a genuine hobby, develop your passions and personal projects. Focus on yourself. You’ll see good changes. You’re already on a long-term relationship with yourself, your bod…
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:55 AM
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Be honest. But don’t be rude or cruel.
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:14 PM
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Take a read in Mark Manson's Models. A good book, nice read.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:46 PM
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Hope you both had safe sex. Funny story, btw.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:23 PM
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“you’re that rapper right?” Please, just don't go around approaching black guys with this one. Use another one of your lines or leave it for other people there.
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:27 PM
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Go in to interaction with her/ with any woman ya find attractive with mindset of having FUN in general NOT HAVING SEX I'm here just to say that this IS AN ADVICE. Valuable words!
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:04 AM
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That's absolutely true. We see a lot of high self esteem people that are, in fact, mediocre in 1 or every aspect of their lives. We do need to work hard on ourselves (dreams, fitness, communication), but we can easily identify average people with good confidence achieving great spaces.
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:56 PM
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It’s called “objectification”. That’s what happen when someone see another only for sex.
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:41 AM
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Wow! Let's take a step back: Long game they are still as important as the first date. Even more! You do want to maintain yourself sharp and fresh. Keep improving your look, your trim, your healthy habits. This is selfcare, this is self respect. We all talk about first impressions... but we certainly know someone who got sloppy and "gave up himself" after his relationshiop. Keep hitting the gym, keep maintaining your good-looking, keep the healthy habits. Again: this is selfcare, this is self res…
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:40 PM
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Smile confidently in a sharp and suave way.
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:27 PM
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Are you together by now? The punchline was hard.
/r/seduction24/11/21 08:04 PM
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FOMO: Fear Of Missing Out
/r/seduction24/11/21 08:02 PM
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Ol’ school flavour: https://youtu.be/gGXOhI9AYDk
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:42 PM
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Try to filter the one’s looking at you, if so it’s a lot easier. Talk with fun and confidence without trying too hard to be funny and confident. Try not to go for pickup lines and this kind of outdated resolutions. A simple charismatic “Hi!” can be a good start. And she talks, you do listen to her.
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:50 PM
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inhale It’s never top late. exhale
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:54 AM
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Just going by “explore her body” we can certainly say: no. Work out on your “reading & feeling”, it means communication and sensitive ways to know when someone’s into you. Be suave = sharp + smooth. Made your intentions clear and it means more than words. It’s about how and when you say/move.
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:03 PM
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Hey! I know you are being pressured by friends, society, yourself... you’re seeing s3x everywhere and everyone’s talking about it. You might be nervous and feeling away, “loosing this race”. You could have provided more info about you, your current situation and backgrounds... but ok, here we go: • Don’t be so hard with yourself. There’s no “right time” or “too late” to happened. • S3x is a social aspect still full of taboos and controversities and expectations and cultural differences and value…
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:41 PM
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This is not a Yes or No question. Have in mind you’ll meet a lot of women: personalities, priorities, experiences, values, expectations, traumas, humor, mood, boundaries... People are different and you’ll learn how to “feel the vibe” (aka some sort of reading other people’s feelings and intentions).
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:42 PM
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Plot twist: you’re a sixpence salesman...
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:47 PM
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Please, guys, do not rush to the next store to get this beret if it’s nothing to match your currently style and outfit...
/r/seduction27/10/21 02:12 PM
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Hmmm... not sure about this one... there are a lot of needing girls looking for popular guys with a lot of followers and comments.
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:49 PM
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You’ll definitely sleep with some unattractive people on this journey. But think it as an experience and enjoy.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:46 PM
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Each one has a journey. There’s no right answer or funniest way... Let’s find what’s better, comfy and happier to our own lives. And use condoms.
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:18 PM
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Discovering there’s no such thing as Alpha/Sigma/Beta males.
/r/seduction04/10/21 05:54 PM
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Please don’t put yourself in awful situations searching for virgin girls in college, church, whatever... people may think it’s really weird.
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:54 PM
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No way. The basic advice is: Honest Living + Honest Communication + Honest Action... Look, there’s no “magic joke”, “the best pickup line, “how to get all the girls” and the book says it in it’s first pages. It’s a book about how you can/need to invest in yourself and set your own goals. This is a very good book.
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:18 PM
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GREAT advice!
/r/seduction25/09/21 11:53 PM
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A lot of “Bruno Mars vibes” in this tip...
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:02 PM
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The basic and most useful advice is: Invest in yourself. Focus on your health and your carreer. Develop your hobbies. Study and have a plan (even id you change it after a few months/years. Don’t rely on toxic masculinity. Try to see a therapist.
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:59 PM
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Anywhere if you are a high value man.
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:32 AM
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You should move on. Trust me. It’s the best thing to do. Move on with your life and let her with her weirdness... It’s not your fault. Do not search for reasons or why’s. You did your best. You know how lovely and chill you can be.
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:53 AM
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1) Have a simple & determined approach. If she's beautiful, she probable already know that you are into her vibes. 2) There are more important things than "which words". Ok, don't go crazy, horny or pickup lines... but be smart and charimatic. Smile and let the energy flow.
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:38 PM
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It depends. A lot of man don’t spend too much time and effort into virtual dating. You know... there’s a life outside social media. Plus: if someone has a good social network, focus on job skills/constant learning/healthy habits, he probably won’t be around chasing girls. He can show interest with smart moves but you can be sure he has some girls on his inbox right now.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:44 AM
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Is not seen as a bad thing. It depends on a lot of things: how do you express yourself, context, intimacy level/connection... People (specially men) need to work a little more on the reading... read people feelings and “unsaid messages”, understand behaviors earlier. If one got hurt, you both lose.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:08 AM
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“Women are savage and cruel creatures” Oh, c’mon. Stop this bullshit right now. Here’s what you’re doing wrong. Let’s go: What’s your definition of success? Why are you keeping to objetify and sexualize girls? Do you really want to be one of the bitter and resentful dudes? There’s a lot of people in this world. Everyone has good and bad side, we are all individuals. Attraction isn’t always like a chess game or like the dating gurus says. Work on yourself. Study hard. Have hobbies and social skil…
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:40 PM
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She barely replies you, she lives across the world, you only knew her for a week. How old are you? There are huge signs saying you shouldn’t worry about it. There’s nothing you can do but stop texting stranger girls from other countries by now. If someone doesn’t reply or doesn’t start conversations... move on. Interest flows both ways.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:24 PM
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How’s your other life aspects and projects? Any hobbies? Good social life? Go around places with interesting things and subjects to you. If you like art, visit museums. If you are into sports, go to some courts... just some examples. You got it. Expose yourself.
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:29 PM
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Make sure you have a life beyond dating/relationship. You need your own hobbies, reads, spots. But I’m not a woman so the proper way is to let the girls talk.
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:14 AM
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A lot of comments here seems to be straight from guy of Wedding Crashers (2005). The one used to sneak around unusual places to get laid. Even funerals.
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:32 AM
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What’s the meaning of the 🧢?
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:58 AM
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Maybe there’s like a pattern in this guys you keep attracting and dating... Indifference is almost a magnet when you want someone.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:56 AM
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And condoms!
/r/seduction04/08/21 04:59 AM
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Therapy, first. Go to a good professional who'll listen to you. Second thing: please, take care with a lot of "manly advices". Pickup lines and "Man Up Yourself" are most comonly traps full of sexist and frustrated man looking to girls as objects. I assume you already invest in yourself: graduation, classes... keep studying and becoming specialized. Knowledge is never a waste of money. What do you like to experiment? There's not a single road or path. You can try different sports or hobbies. Dev…
/r/seduction27/07/21 04:51 PM
0

Nice jawline!
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:04 PM
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Definetely no. Not a huge, not a small turn off. Men are not so selective at first sight. Looks, talks, humor, insights... men usually “fell” into this. I’m talking as a man. And my perspective can be narrow minded by my own likes and dislikes I think...
/r/seduction26/04/21 09:41 PM
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Sometimes, isn’t “just” the words. I mean, don’t go too literally... the whole context, the background conversations and interests and approaches will speak louder. Be comfortable the way you are and speak with determination and honesty. What do you truly want? What’s on your mind and expectations? Do you want to get to know her or are you focusing on a one night stand? Be honest with yourself.
/r/seduction18/04/21 12:42 PM
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