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That would be a red flag for me, but I don’t know how important marriage is to you. It doesn’t sound like he’s given you a timeline, and the hesitation makes me think it’s not going to happen. My fiancé and I discussed a timeline for marriage within a year after we started dating, and he proposed exactly when he said he would. I would think about what’s important to you in this relationship and how much more time you’re willing to give him without any real commitment on his end, because that’s w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 11:59 PM
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And the reason I have to pay now is because he will be “paying for everything” in the future Has he given you a timeline on when he will start “paying for everything” or when he will propose? 5 years and no ring is a long time, especially when you’re already 28 and have given him most of your prime years. If he was serious about you he would’ve proposed a long time ago IMO. If he has not discussed these things it sounds like he is leading you on and has no true intentions of actually taking care…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 11:48 PM
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I’m a woman so I’m not sure if I’m qualified to answer what a “high-quality” woman is, but if I were to take a gander, it would be a lot of qualities that complement the high-quality man: more feminine (more in terms of attitude than appearance, although appearance is still important and thus actively takes care of their body and makes an effort to dress well), someone willing to put their family before their career, and someone more agreeable and willing to let the man lead. I am engaged to a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:45 PM
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I’m not saying that at all. It should be up to the couple to decide how much time each contributes to household chores. For example, my partner and I agree on me doing the majority of cleaning around the house since I tend to have different expectations on what “clean” means, so I would rather do it myself than nag him to do more than what he deems necessary. It’s definitely not for his lack of trying, he is still a very neat person and is a huge help. He also cooks a lot so it’s a nice compromi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:08 PM
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Someone equal or higher in terms of economic status/level and typically pays for the first date. Charismatic, funny, and confident (but not arrogant). Can hold an intelligent conversation about travels, hobbies and experiences. Loyal, hardworking, kind and willing to be a provider for a future family. Isn’t afraid of commitment with the right person. Not a slob and takes care of basic hygiene and cleans up after their environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:31 AM
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I have the same body count as you and I’m now engaged at 24. I was like you; I had a phase as a teenager when I was going through a rough patch and gave in to my feminist upbringing. Do I wish I could take most of those back? Absolutely, but what’s done is done and it’s not worth beating yourself up over. If it makes you feel better, my fiancé doesn’t know my body count and I don’t know his; we never asked each other, but he knows who I am as a person and that’s what matters most. Just make sure…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 12:21 AM
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Regardless of whether or not men contribute equally or not to domestic duties, it’s not necessarily an inherently bad or good thing. Women tend to have higher standards in this department so they pick up more of the work naturally, and it’s not always for lack of trying on the men’s part (although it can be in many cases).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:37 PM
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Most men? No. I would say many men is more accurate. Even then it’s subjective and depends on the woman, but I think there is some overlap on what most women (if they’re being honest) would agree is “high-quality.” The quantity of said men though is up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:02 PM
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Female fertility begins to decline at 32 and I want to be able to have all the children I want with as little struggle as possible. I’m aware that starting younger doesn’t guarantee I won’t run into those problems, but that’s a bridge I will come to when it’s time to start trying when I’m 26-28. I also don’t want to be a “geriatric” mom, which starts at 35 and is considered a high-risk pregnancy. Other factors: I’m very into traveling and being active and I want to introduce that to my kids, so …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 12:42 PM
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My hard stop is 4, but more likely 2-3. I’d want to be done by 32, but I would consider pushing to 34 depending on when I start/unexpected factors.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 05:06 AM
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It’s called an opinion. Ever heard of that? Also, all I said was that there are risks involved, not that all age gap relationships are a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:10 AM
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Her support system to take care of her “problems” shouldn’t consist of a 40-year-old that only wants her for sex. Truly mature men are married off by that point with women close to their own age and don’t want to deal with the baggage of a 20-year-old. But I guess if you don’t have a good support system through the adults in your family or mentor figures, it’s only natural to flock to an older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:09 AM
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Are they really asking for your advice I’m using “we” in the general sense here. Which are? Young women are not very experienced in the dating world and may not know how to vet men properly and what red flags to look out for if they didn’t have a good support system, which a lot of older men know how to exploit and use to their advantage. A lot of the 35+ men who are still single are the “forever bachelor” types, divorced and/or have kids, or have some other baggage that has made them stay singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:59 AM
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I think both are equally at fault. It takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:50 AM
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I was making stupid decisions when I was that age too and I wish someone was there to tell me I was making stupid decisions. It has nothing to do with preferring she dated someone else but rather more so the consequences of her actions. Young women are not exempt from criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:27 AM
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No one is saying the 20-year-old woman can’t decide for herself, but we can feel free to say that she’s making a stupid decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:58 PM
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You don’t have to choose either if neither consistently fits your views. Just be informed and don’t worry about labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:54 PM
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It’s the pendulum swinging effect, people learn to reject something that the previous generation did and go extreme in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:53 PM
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Is that a result of feminism or just men in positions of power taking advantage of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:46 PM
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It’s not that we don’t understand why men do it, we just don’t recommend that young girls under 25 date much older men because of the risks and consequences that come with that. I actually think it says more about the woman that would date a much older man than it does about the man in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:31 PM
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I don’t know how to “prove” attractiveness short of doxxing myself, but I have a large variety of friends where it can happen at the bar and other places where approaching is commonly accepted, but you’re not typically seeing it at places like the gym, coffee shops, or the grocery store. I just think less men in general are approaching and I can imagine even less women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:51 AM
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Honestly, even men approaching women these days is pretty uncommon (outside of bars or college parties). Among my social circles even the more attractive women rarely get approached. I can imagine it’s even less so for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:38 AM
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You can still date like that nowadays, it will just take a lot of trial and error and a little extra vetting. There’s a lot of it happening in more traditional/conservative groups, so your politics might have to align also.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:48 PM
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Those girls also got sex for free. Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:20 PM
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I will never understand why people who didn’t wait until marriage or aren’t willing to for their partner, would go out of their way to date someone with hopes of changing their mind. Just accept that you’re not compatible and find someone who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:15 PM
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5’9 is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:28 PM
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Is going to school at 3 a common thing where you live? In the US we don’t have “school” at least til kids start pre-k at 4, and it’s not even free or mandatory so it’s basically a form of daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:16 PM
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That kind of defeats the point of a “traditional relationship” then since those usually involve children. There’s a different name for those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:12 AM
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So… those women didn’t want children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:46 AM
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Not the person you asked but in my experience it’s very easy when you’re talking about goals and aspirations to say “I want to get married and have kids in x years” and see if your goals align.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:36 PM
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Almost all of my relationships started out as FWB, including my current one of 5 years. I don’t screw people while I’m dating someone else, those actions are interchangeable to me and I’d feel icky doing that to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:54 PM
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There’s a lot more to compatibility than intangible adjectives. Do you want to work while she is a SAHM, do you want to split everything 50/50, religious and political beliefs, do you want to live out in the country or in the city, etc. Unless you just expect her to follow you and agree with your opinions and goals regardless of her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:26 AM
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Sure, but if you don’t care about your partner’s opinions and goals, how do you know you’re compatible and that they align with your own? That’s why I assumed you never wanted a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:14 AM
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How many women do you know are involved in volunteering?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:48 AM
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There’s a big difference between doing the majority of the housework and “babying” you though. I don’t mind being the primary homemaker but I’m not going to tolerate the man not picking up after himself and helping out when I’m swamped with work, etc. Not interested in your achievements, opinions, or goals So you don’t want an actual relationship then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:42 AM
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I would like to have 2 kids by the time I’m 30, so you could say I’m on board with the whole idea. Having kids and homemaking is one of my biggest aspirations in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:28 AM
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Many people who settle down over 25 were already in a long-term relationship before that point though. Most people wait at least 3+ years before getting married these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:16 AM
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I don’t know about that, but I have heard that couples who lived together before marriage are more likely to divorce, although that data might be skewed by religious folks who don’t cohabite anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 06:45 PM
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Rent for sex epidemic? If you’re living with someone you’re not married to, why wouldn’t the expectation be to split costs 50/50?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 06:42 PM
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This is so extra. Maybe she’s just not social medía obsessed. I haven’t made an IG post since 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:00 AM
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