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Thats how social networks work people see the content they like that comment section is not representative of most womens opinion.
/r/seduction28/04/26 07:53 AM
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were you invited in the GB?
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:57 AM
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My worst one was when the girl interrupted me and said "what do you want" I said "I just wanted to say Hi" She says "Hi" and walks away. It didn't affect me a lot and I have to admit that it was kinda funny
/r/seduction17/11/25 04:31 PM
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I am curious how are you being direct and honest with women and how is it going for you?
/r/seduction09/11/25 03:33 PM
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Wasn't the decisive factor tho, he was the same height when he didn't have muscles
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:58 AM
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How has your expecience been so far?
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:46 AM
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I have to disagree, if you only consider women who are initially highly attracted to you you might miss out. Imo a woman that has moderate interest that can be raised in 2 dates is perfectly fine and one advantage is that her interest is less likely to be shallow
/r/seduction09/10/25 01:57 PM
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Even in that situation waiting for women to approach you is stupid advice It might work for a miniscule number of guys but it's terrible advice for most guys
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:10 AM
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I don't get the point you are trying to make. But I don't see how you are supposed to be able to get experience with women if you go by the principle to never approach your whole life. This advice is pretty impractical imo
/r/seduction07/09/25 09:04 AM
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You think it's reasonable advice to give to men on a séduction sub? That's good for you obviously but recognize that that advice isn't helpful for most men. Lots of women give signals that show they are open if most men ignore that altogether they'll miss lot of opportunities
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:45 PM
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So you don't do cold or warm approaches?
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:23 PM
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So whenever a girl holds eye contact with you assume it has nothing to do with potential interest?
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:58 PM
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I have NEVER seen a guy say they love bbls
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:35 PM
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lmao Slow down
/r/seduction22/08/25 03:17 PM
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Ignore this man it is normal that you want to get better. You can practice both
/r/seduction14/08/25 07:34 AM
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following her like an attached tampon
/r/seduction01/08/25 09:54 AM
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If she is like a 3 or less to you dont do it or maybe just do it for the experience
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:43 AM
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Why does it matter?
/r/seduction17/07/25 07:35 PM
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You are only missing the self improvement part imo
/r/seduction07/07/25 04:36 PM
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??
/r/seduction07/07/25 08:41 AM
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DONT isolate yourself Join social events Join activities(Sport or acting or whatever) If a girl keeps making eye contact start an interaction even if its minimal
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:16 AM
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Ok that's a good point. Personally I believe someone with legendary game and experience can get to 10%
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:54 AM
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If they wanted to inflate it significantly why on earth would they say 10% ?
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:02 AM
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I did go out couple of times with a girl that was shy. They'd still make some effort. Sometimes after carrying the conversation I'd stay silent too, whenever the silence was getting too prolonged they'd try to stay something to keep the conversation going
/r/seduction22/05/25 10:37 PM
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Thats not how it works at all. Women have more options than us and even he is talking to other women. Also they are just texting she is not going to ignore all potential good guys
/r/seduction02/05/25 03:34 PM
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From his post his problem is that he feels lonely and jealous when his roommate brings girls. That's what he pointed out
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:45 PM
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Your problem is not your roommate the problem is loneliness and lack of action. Instead of taking action to avoid confrontation with the situation take action to meet more women and get better. You will be alright man
/r/seduction25/04/25 12:02 PM
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It's not noble, but a small step that can actually help. Can you explain how it will help?
/r/seduction25/04/25 12:00 PM
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Take action, like for example changing roommates or rooms, maybe live with some none that doesn't bring girls over. Idk seems like trying to escape the real problem
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:57 AM
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It can happen but he shouldnt rely on that
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:44 AM
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Ask her out on a date. Only way to know
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:43 AM
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It's worth joining to learn to dance. Which will then help you meet more women and be more attractive
/r/seduction21/03/25 10:59 AM
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Yeah being in shape definitely increases your chances
/r/seduction20/03/25 12:26 PM
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If she was interested in him as back up, she would hit him up. he would be even behind the normal back up guys
/r/seduction05/03/25 08:20 AM
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No man, it lowers your chances that were already super low. She already knows you want her, you coming back to ask her again makes you appear super needy and it looks like you have no options
/r/seduction05/03/25 08:13 AM
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-Hi -Hi -I used to see to see you around do you study... -What do you want? -I just wanted to say Hi -Hi turns around and walks away
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:45 PM
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Invite him over
/r/seduction24/12/24 07:12 PM
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Doesn't necessarily mean that it's a lie. They are not looking for hook ups but won't mind hook ups with some guys
/r/seduction25/09/24 12:47 PM
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If after your "self improvement" you are not going after the things you really want which include women in this situation. Your self improvement isn't complete. Edit to make it clearer: Approaching women, being social etc IS part of the self improvement
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:34 PM
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HArd disagree. If you are out living your life and see a girl you genuinely want to say something to without caring about the outcome there is nothing needy about and it 100% helps with your social skills. And there is something that approaching people you want to approach does to your self confidence
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:39 PM
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Who says he had to. He was probably just being funny and the girls apparently knew well that he wasn't gay
/r/seduction15/07/24 09:18 AM
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Can you expand on how you were practical?
/r/seduction26/06/24 11:12 PM
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I don't think he is trolling
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:30 PM
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No, is that even possible? Are you guys not going out or something. There are all kind of not in shape guys in relationships: skinny, fat, skinny fat etc
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:39 PM
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Ok maybe there are no skinny guys where you live thats the only possible explanation
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:28 PM
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What stops you from doing both?
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:15 PM
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You must not be leaving your room then
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:14 PM
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What message you think you would send by doing that? 1/ Desperate 2/ no empathy 3/ socially inept etc
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:26 PM
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Her saying no in the first place was her safest option. She was already there. It was the safest option at that moment.
/r/seduction19/04/24 04:07 PM
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but still just disrespectful No, confrontation with a man she just met, inside his own house is not a good idea. Just leaving was probably the safest option for her
/r/seduction19/04/24 08:49 AM
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I think the problem is that I forgot to take off my mask and I have a different hairstyle so she probably didn't recognize me. We'll very probably cross paths again, we'll see what happens.
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:36 PM
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Nothing fancy. "Hi excuse me I used to see you in the library." "You work in this or that institute right." Then came the what do you want question..
/r/seduction03/04/21 08:44 PM
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Yes that can explain why she behaved that way. But honestly I did not want her number at that point I had no reason to ask for it. But you are right I should have said what my real intentions were
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:30 PM
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Nice one! But I am sure that she would have came up with something worse than just saying hi and walking away
/r/seduction03/04/21 11:47 AM
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Yeah what she did was definitely alpha. More seriously, yes you are right I won't approach that often if I always wait til I find something interesting to say
/r/seduction03/04/21 11:21 AM
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You are right. What do you think I should have answered to "what do you want?"
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:44 PM
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Do you have a video link about that German models experiment
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:34 PM
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You can use the context and what she is buying or something related to where she is currently(Items near her) etc.
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:44 PM
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Just a question are the dates after you ve talked(messaging) for a long time?
/r/seduction28/02/21 01:40 PM
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Ooh I didn't think of this before. Thanks man!
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:53 PM
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It happens you just had bad luck maybe she was in a bad mood. keep trying man you won't stop just because of her, will you?
/r/seduction18/02/21 04:11 PM
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You haven't even try cold approaching you said. Do at least 5 or so then maybe you'll see. You are currently using your height as an excuse. There are tons of guys your height doing well with girls.
/r/seduction18/02/21 03:37 PM
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Exactly!I live in Europe but I agree with you. Grocery stores near the university campus are the best
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:05 AM
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Grocerie stores. It allows good contextual approaches too
/r/seduction18/02/21 07:44 AM
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Nice post, thanks!
/r/seduction22/12/20 11:41 PM
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Who does this??
/r/seduction22/12/20 11:25 PM
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Maybe they are so impressed that they can't look away
/r/seduction30/11/20 09:36 PM
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If you're talking about straight men, they look at you like you're the one who did all those bad things to the girlfriend who cries to them about her ex, yet secretly he knows she just wants to go back to him. Not necessarily, a straight man can appreciate a good looking man without being jealous or mad .
/r/seduction30/11/20 01:34 PM
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Well I never thought that I looked good and I know that I definitely look ugly to some people. But muscles can raise your overall attractiveness significantly
/r/seduction26/10/20 09:05 AM
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I agree with you. I've been working out for around 18 months and I get noticeably different reactions from girls. I get much more eye contacts and smiles from girls and often they'll smile while trying not to directly look at me.
/r/seduction25/10/20 11:58 PM
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Sounds good in theory but I am not sure that it really works
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:16 PM
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I don't think that your point is valid Because you are not in a relationship yet and you are the one that approached it kind of makes sense that you take initiatives.
/r/seduction21/10/20 10:29 PM
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Yeah it was pretty obvious in this case. I don't know why I didn't get it..
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:32 AM
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No I am not autistic and I usually don't have problem to get sarcasm. I don't know what happened this time....
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:30 AM
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At that point I had already downvoted his comment, then I saw the note...
/r/seduction05/08/20 05:38 PM
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I can recommend the Little Book of Stoicism: Timeless Wisdom to Gain Resilience, Confidence, and Calmness by Salzgeber I think it's really good, easy to read and with good examples and pretty practical. Also the practicing stoic by Ward Farnsworth.
/r/seduction28/07/20 11:40 PM
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Yes I have mastered this trick too. But I don't want to keep missing chances I'll try doing more cold approaches to get more confident and be less anxious in this situation
/r/seduction20/07/20 10:03 PM
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They often don't even seem to be in stress. But you're right I'll try looking at it that way.
/r/seduction20/07/20 10:02 PM
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Thanks a lot! It is really helpful. I completely agree on the last part. And I'll force myself to cold approach and get rid of this anxiety
/r/seduction20/07/20 08:03 PM
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He didn't say that they weren't
/r/seduction13/06/20 08:50 AM
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Lmao you are not nice man
/r/seduction23/02/20 01:54 PM
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Maybe you are afraid of not saying the right thing. I am having the same problem of not knowing what to say. Maybe we should just stop thinking too much and act spontaneously?
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:42 AM
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I really encourage you to go to the gym! If you have friends that train you can start by just going with them to a test session. Then if you like it you can go regularly with them. Til you get the habit and will start going alone
/r/seduction07/02/20 11:18 AM
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