gimli6151 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Will it really get so much easier in your 30s? Yes definitely. Stable job and income while still being fairly young (30s) opens up a ton of different dating opportunities.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/25 02:54 AM
27	Thoughts on the whole “20% of men get 80% of women” line? It’s obviously not overall true. But there is a kernel of truth to the point being made by the numbers when it comes to short term hook ups and casual sex Women are more likely to raise their standards for appearance, requiring higher attractiveness for a short term partner than for a long term partner. Men are more likely to do the exact opposite: lower their standards for appearance, being open to a very wide variety of attractiveness in a short term partner. So it’s a supply and demand proble…	/r/ExRedPill	21/07/25 03:11 AM
3	I have read a good comment on YouTube regarding the so called dating coaches. But one question though Listen, reflect on how it made them feel, ask them follow up questions, show interest and enthusiasm, take what they say and elaborate on it. I struggle with it too - my default is “you shared x story, so I will share the most similar story back”. Which isn’t horrible but it’s not as effective as above. Next time you are really comfortable with a girl (or even just a friend who is a girl), pay attention to how they are responding to you, what kinds of things they say and the questions they ask. …	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/25 11:13 PM
2	80/20: Actually, “Stacy” is sleeping with a lot of different “Chad” men I was just talking with one of my friends who is newly single - she’s very attractive and about 5’0. The guy she just started dating is 5’6 or 5’7. In general most importantly, most women want to date someone taller than them. The good news is the average height for women in the U.S. is only 5’3.7 and men 5’9.5, and roughly 34% of men are 5’7 to 5’9.4 (and 16% are under 5’7). About 84% of women are shorter than 5’7. And then shorter averages for some ethnic groups (eg Asian).	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/25 02:15 AM
0	biggest issue with red pill is lack of alternatives What is the evidence that the red pill network doesn’t actually help in some ways? For example, do some men who watch it actually start working out more, acting more confident, becoming more confident, etc. (to go along with the harmful toxic ideas about gender). If they get so into it that it changes their view on gender then it could also change their exercise/eating/confidence behaviors. It gives them a script to enact when trying to break through that anxiety filled interaction with someone …	/r/ExRedPill	07/06/25 10:09 PM
24	How to balance believing women with holding space for men who were abused Depends how you bring it up. Sometimes in response to women bringing up SA as an issue, some men respond that men are SA as well, in a way that discounts the importance of the unique problems facing women. It’s like saying “what about the forests” when someone says “we need to save the dolphins and whales”. It’s a true statement, but not necessarily relevant to say every time someone talks about dolphins and whales. So I say bring it up early and often. But not necessarily every time SA of women…	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/25 01:21 PM
5	80/20: Actually, “Stacy” is sleeping with a lot of different “Chad” men Yes I think that’s true. Like anti vaxxers. There are kernels of the truth somewhere in the things they say (eg a rare side effect really is myocarditis) but then they go buck wild with extreme over exaggerations (poison!).	/r/ExRedPill	03/06/25 04:31 AM
9	80/20: Actually, “Stacy” is sleeping with a lot of different “Chad” men It’s good to separate a few things here, because there is a more than a kernel of truth to what they are claiming, even if they notably overstate the case. The first is the “80/20” rule. I don’t take that literally (even if some redpillers are). But I accept the general idea: More men are willing to have casual sex with a wider variety of women under a wider variety circumstances. This is relative to women are more restricted in who they are willing to have casual sex with. On the hook up market…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/25 10:13 AM