| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 409 | I dumped him because he wouldn’t add me on facebook. | RED FLAG 🚨 | ginellwiththewind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 04:48 PM |
| 52 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He Sucks | PICKME CULTURE | ginellwiththewind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | The Life Skill Woman Are Never Taught | I'm on a Couch! | Kiki G. | LEVEL UP | ginellwiththewind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:04 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | We've seen the bad, what good gifts have you gotten?Egyptian Cotton sheets. Really great quality. I’ve had them for over ten years now. UGG boots. Not my style anymore but they were. Apple airPods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:30 AM |
| 15 | She doesn't want to leave him because he's so 'nice' despite offering women money online for sexual images of themselves over their entire relationship.He is so nice! He solicited his ex gfs sister for sex/sexual images so she could make $50!! He’s so caring!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:24 AM |
| 26 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔Exactly. Even my ex who was LAZY as fuck still left work the second I told him I was being induced and was there the entire time. He’s a man child but still had the decency to be there instead of fucking someone ten years younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 23 | Share your stories about dating a workaholic.Did you date my ex? Lol I dated a guy whose wife left him because he worked two full time jobs and never spent time with her or the kids. By the time he met me he had a about 3 evenings a week off and was actually making an effort with his kids. I didn’t have an issue with the quantity of time we spent. He called or texted every day and was really good about keeping in touch. I just hated that he would hit me up last minute expecting me to be free when he was. I just stopped saying yes even if I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Why do men have such shit self care routines?Yep, i have a five year old daughter and she never stinks! She just looks a little greasy when it’s tome for a bath. Oh my god lmao I don’t want to even think about men’s sheets!! I wash mine once a week. Sometimes I go two weeks but then I feel bad about myself lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do men have such shit self care routines?Oh my god don’t get me started on men’s towels. Somehow even when I was 20 men always had towels that looked 10 years old. Like did you steal that from mommy’s house when you moved out? I have target towels that are literally $5 and are great. Of course i love my Egyptian cotton towels, but seriously you don’t have to spend that much money to have decent towels. And they only ever had one fucking towel. That alone just shows how selfish and lazy they were. Also bathing twice a day is overkill an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:16 PM |
| 18 | For all the women out there thinking about giving up their career opportunities for a manAbsolutely love that book, and this is 100% solid advice that I wish I had gotten years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:33 PM |
| 9 | Why do men have such shit self care routines?I know. It is absolutely baffling. Imagine a woman didn’t do these things? She would be shamed. It’s expected of us. It’s the strangest double standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:44 PM |
| 38 | Why do men have such shit self care routines?I recently read a post on a relationship sub where a woman was upset because her boyfriend, during shower sex, was upset that his gf washed herself in front of him. Said it was weird. Then she said he used soap as lube and she asked him not to because she is prone to BV and yeast infections. Everyone in the comments was like maybe you get Yeast infections and BV because of your boyfriends dirty dick. If he thinks it’s weird to wash your privates maybe he never washes his and that’s what’s fuckin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:04 AM |
| 19 | This has to be the worst tinder profile I’ve ever laid eyes on. This man is a walking red flag.Same girl, same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Hear! Hear!It works for me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:13 PM |
| 38 | Bride Ambushes LVM in a Target and Demands Immediate MarriageImagine publicly begging a man to marry you in a target lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:39 AM |
| 42 | Men want casual sex/relationships, till the woman wants that too. Then suddenly they aren’t so cool with it.Like someone else said, if she commits he will get bored. That’s why I always tell my friends not to play games but instead VET the men they are considering. It doesn’t matter if you play it cool/indifferent to get his attention, if he is only looking at you and chasing you because it’s a game, he will lose interest when the game is over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He SucksThere are a serious lack of role models on television and a lack of representation of healthy relationships. And I do understand that the drama drives the story, and it’s not real life. But few relationships are as romanticized as the relationship between an ancient powerful male vampire, and a young human girl are. It’s something viewers get especially attached to. And usually the character and the audience is given a choice between two male characters who are both mostly bad. With Twilight it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He SucksShe’s fantastic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:15 PM |
| 17 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He SucksYes! The relationship between Elena and Damon is disturbing. It’s like when twilight came out, and I was disgusted by the characters of Edward and Jacob. And everyone else was on one or the others team. I was like I’m team Bella getting the fuck away from all of them! It’s dangerous that these abusive men and relationships are romanticized in tv shows, movies, and books, and that normal healthy relationships are seen as “boring.” Respect isn’t boring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 15 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He SucksYep! That definitely resonated with me. I know a lot of guys say they love how forgiving we are but I actually think it makes them respect us less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 11 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He SucksI’m very excited that one of my favorite makeup youtubers is talking about this stuff! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.Omg “build a bitch” has me fucking dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:53 AM |
| 36 | Don't drop your standards. Effort and being high-maintenance is the most effective filter you have against substandard relationships. And being on your own is far preferable to dulling your shine for weak, shitty dudes.Yep! Pre FDS days I had a guy I was dating and after the first time we were physical (it was good) he got really down on himself and was freaking out about his performance. He did this weird thing where he said “it’s not like you came.” When I had in fact finished. I broke up with him because I knew I couldn’t handle his bullshit. I didn’t want to have to deal with a meltdown every time we had sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:35 AM |
| 21 | Don't drop your standards. Effort and being high-maintenance is the most effective filter you have against substandard relationships. And being on your own is far preferable to dulling your shine for weak, shitty dudes.Yes! And the guy in the post talking shit on himself for liking to fix things.. what?! I love a man who knows how to fix things!! I’ve definitely dated a couple of these guys. It’s important for a couple to build each other up. A man who needs constant reassurance is a selfish man. Those guys rarely say nice things about their gfs and even if they do it’s all centered around THEM and how they are lacking. It’s not a compliment at all. Rather, you’re too good for me and it bothers me so I’m think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 14 | Don't drop your standards. Effort and being high-maintenance is the most effective filter you have against substandard relationships. And being on your own is far preferable to dulling your shine for weak, shitty dudes.It’s okay! I often wonder where FDS was when I was 21. It honestly feels so good knowing I’m never going back to those kinds of guys. I’m grateful for the lessons I’ve learned. It’s hard to not look back and be mad at yourself but have compassion for that 21 year old woman. Society basically conditions us to accept poor treatment from men. I’m just so happy that so many women are breaking the cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:26 AM |
| 108 | Don't drop your standards. Effort and being high-maintenance is the most effective filter you have against substandard relationships. And being on your own is far preferable to dulling your shine for weak, shitty dudes.I hate guys like this. The “you’re too good for me” guys. Or the ones constantly asking what you see in them. It’s all an ego boost for them. If a man says that he can’t see why a woman would be interested in him- believe him. There are major major flaws and he’s literally telling on himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 125 | Men cannot think nonviolently. Remember ladies, violence is genderedAh yes, because superiority is measured by ability to inflict violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:41 PM |
| 19 | I miss my exI’m in a similar position. I just replay the shitty things he did and the relief I felt when I broke it off. It makes me feel better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Websites with quality affordable clothing?Seconding madewell, Uniqlo, American eagle and j crew. Jcrew does sales often. Never buy full price! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:37 AM |
| 12 | Make a list of what you want in a manThis is a great idea ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 03:28 PM |
| 3 | I dumped him because he wouldn’t add me on facebook.Hahahaha I’ve done some petty shit like this when I was younger too. You’re not alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:10 PM |
| 5 | I dumped him because he wouldn’t add me on facebook.Exactly! He wouldn’t tell me, so I have to assume it’s something I don’t even want to know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:36 AM |
| 143 | I dumped him because he wouldn’t add me on facebook.Wtf!! Yeah I know he’s not married (mutual friends) but maybe he’s dating other women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 06:26 PM |
| 11 | Most men are literally disgusting!This is why I no longer date men who 1. Play video games and 2. Can’t keep a clean house by themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 04:48 AM |
| 3 | How do you uncouple what you actually like sexually vs what you have been taught you should like?I have been thinking about this ALOT lately. I’ve had experiences with women, but mostly a long time ago. And always physical. Yet I still referred to myself as bisexual. I’ve recently stopped doing that. Im not truly bisexual. At least not anymore if I ever really was to begin with. I used to be into certain things that this sub is against. It wasn’t until my last boyfriend who showed me that passion doesn’t have to be wrapped up in pain/sexual violence to realize I probably didn’t even like ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:48 AM |
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