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1	Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him. Yeah, but we did! Really sad that someone who is supposed to be so important in your life could be so dismissive about something that is truly this important to both of your lives. I’ve been there and it’s still too fresh. I reasoned and rationalized and he just played golf and let me pay most of the bills. I really need to be grateful that he never made an effort to go to counseling! He could have wasted more of my energy, time and money warming a seat!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 12:26 PM
1	Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him. OMG! This is exactly what happened to me! I made myself vulnerable and shared my hurt and he used it like a damn playbook and tried to weaponize those issues and brought them up as a tangent in a disagreement— calling me a bad friend and a failure as a parent. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?? That is some sacred ground. I know my relationship with my kids is sacred and will always reconcile. He got the boot eventually. But I acquiesced one to many times!!! Reading all of this helps. I finally removed his…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 12:20 PM
1	Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him. Mannnnn, this has been me, but not with letters, with words! They call it JADE — justify, argue, defend, explain. And you are right, he did not care! It’s like he was being oppressed— the whole Karpman’s Triangle of Drama in one conversation and we each played all The damn parts. It’s time to get off the triangle!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 12:13 PM
17	What are some early on signs he’s a cheater? Cerebral narcissist	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 12:21 PM
8	Gabby Petito I am disgusted by how law enforcement was leading toward him being the victim. I realize he had scratches but the park ranger damn near acted out the whole scenario before Brian had a chance to speak. Anyone else catch this?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 01:03 PM

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