| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Avoid Premature AttachmentOh Jesus, not that terminology 🤦♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | AmazingFuck off | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 05:49 AM |
| 1 | My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in SpainTake your attitude elsewhere. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 07:20 AM |
| 1 | My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in SpainHe said it was supposed to be a one year temporary move for him and the children (last paragraph). | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 06:45 AM |
| 8 | My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in SpainDon’t do this. She moved there because of the court system. You are playing right into her hands by doing this. At a minimum Sweden will start at 50/50 custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 05:53 AM |
| 7 | My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in SpainStart divorce proceedings in the country you moved from. There may well be a reason she asked you to move there. It is not yet the children’s habitual residence however. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 05:52 AM |
| 10 | Should I take my ex wife backDo it. Sounds like you need to learn the hard way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice from divorced menYou’re lost. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/26 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Towards male equality in divorce and standard litigation playbooks women useI guess the OP is not you, tf. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/26 04:28 AM |
| 7 | Seeking advice from divorced menDon’t get married! Why on earth do you need the government involved in your relationship? You’ve seen the warning signs. Have whatever relationship you want, keep the government out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 05:04 PM |
| 4 | The TurmoilIt doesn’t sound like you have custody issues, thank your lucky stars. Start exercising, go to the gym every single day, keep at it. That journal could be a gift, cut that relationship off, she got into it for the wrong reasons. Use it as closure and move forward. Use what you feel now for something positive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/26 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.This reads like some kind of plug for “socialcatfish”. How did she go about finding out who your ex is? Literally nothing in your story makes any sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Next phase of my journey rebuildingCongratulation. So no custody drama? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 01:26 PM |
| 3 | I can’t believe this is my life! Ex has told my children unbelievable lies!What is the claim? You will need to appeal on a point of law. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Do men need to improve their education levels to remain competitive in the workforce with women and also in the dating world?I don’t know Mark Sing, Rich Cooper is a chump. Full of himself. Kevin Samuels passed away, knock yourself out on his old recordings of him running the same script on the same types of women over and over again if you think that helps you somehow. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/26 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Any subs for men over 40/50 dating?A quarter of a century is not a good look. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Any subs for men over 40/50 dating?Figure it out, go outside and open your mouth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Any subs for men over 40/50 dating?Sounds like you need a partner to keep enthralled with this toxic orange personality? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Any subs for men over 40/50 dating?Alone and bitter spreading hate on men’s forums on a Friday. Living your best life 😂😂 Shouldn’t you be heading back to the orange? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 12:52 PM |
| 0 | Any subs for men over 40/50 dating?Yes, ol Sushi_connoisseur222 herself knows women have preferences, criticising men’s preferences is just what you’ll face now. Men have dated younger for millennia, it’s nothing new. A 25 year age gap between say Macron and his wife is extreme, if it was the other way around she’d be called a pdf. https://www.reddit.com/r/vrouwvolk/comments/1rj0hgk/hoe\_belangrijk\_vinden\_jullie\_de\_lengte\_van\_een\_man/?tl=en | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Any subs for men over 40/50 dating?I appreciate your input. Your contribution is exactly what this thread needed, to give everyone an example of the kind of person to avoid, like the plague. Sounds like you didn’t have to worry about family life or a partner this morning, with the time you had on your hands 🤡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Any subs for men over 40/50 dating?No-one in this sub said anything about less desirable. Men having preferences are not something to shame. In fact, you’re the one designating older women as “bottom of the barrel” time to head back to your sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1sowkfa/do_you_even_bother_when_youre_the_bottom_of_the/ “As long as you dont have a problem with a fellow bottom of the barrel equivalent. I never see the harm in putting in the effort though. For yourself primarily.” Or your own prejudic… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.⬆️ exactly, think about any advice you’re given or read. Go on the dates. They are just dates, you’re not putting yourself on the line for that debt yet. Make an informed decision, think it through, you don’t need to live together or get married to have a relationship. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.You could live exactly the life you want, without giving the government a say in your love life. It’s not about your past dictating your future, it’s about the statistics that more than 50% of marriages end in divorce. Believe it or not, you’re in that stat. Exactly the life, identical, without a one sided contract that could again cost you massively. “Love is a gift”, sounds like it is not love without that government stamp? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.Why did you get married again? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.Don’t get married at all! Why would he put himself through it again? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Wife just filed the divorce, debt at $6k, wife and kid going to a different countryWhere do you live now? Where do they play on moving to? How many children? Where were they born? What citizenship do they hold? Are you agreeing to this? Your post seems to be very passive about a major change. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Dating women with kidsSounds like your options are few and far between. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/26 06:01 AM |
| 7 | Dating women with kidsThis is the problem anyone dating a single mother will run into. As much as you think you stood your ground, that story is not over by a long shot. “She accepted it”, LOL, no she didn’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/26 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Sold a premarital asset todayHow does someone you met, less than 8 months ago, just “find” 40k in any of your bank accounts? How does that happen? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/26 04:53 AM |
| 2 | UK man In an abusive marriage with US woman. Help.The state you’re in matters, keeping it secret is a disadvantage. Sounds like there is no coming back from where you are. Do not have children together. Your church… they will talk you into trying to stay despite what is happening, keep your eyes open and your wits about you. Is start recording what is happening, phone, watch. She may very well be aware of the immigration paperwork requirement coming up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/26 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Telling my wife I'm BiPause | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Did something stupidOk | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Divorce - UK or SwitzerlandWell do you plan in relocating? You’ll be affected by the Hague convention and the concept of a child’s habitual residence? https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a7bff1be5274a7318b90648/The_1996_Hague_Convention.pdf You should also consider your ability to reside in Switzerland, if it’s tied to your spouse you have another factor to consider. The same goes for the opposite scenario, does she have the ability to legally reside in the UK post Brexit? https://www.stephens-scown.co.uk/fami… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/26 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Divorce - UK or SwitzerlandHow recently is recently? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/26 05:47 AM |
| 1 | UK - looking to initiate divorceHave you mutually agreed? No animosity? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Wife threatens character assassinationSo you offered the money first and then subsequently received the threats? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Divorced, childfree men with a vasectomy: How has the "snip" changed your post-divorce dating life?Clearly your options define your choices. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/25 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Divorced, childfree men with a vasectomy: How has the "snip" changed your post-divorce dating life?Mate, you sound like someone who has never dated a single mother, and frankly someone who has not thought it through. There is a whole new world waiting for you. Minimal time for you to even date, weekend clashes with your own shared custody, different schools and drop offs, financial support, children that you cannot discipline in any way shape or form, emotional support, oddities with the father, child support. If all that works for you, by all means, go for round two. You think single women d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/25 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Divorced, childfree men with a vasectomy: How has the "snip" changed your post-divorce dating life?Let’s say you have two women, identical in every way, looks, demeanour, drama, education, religion, values, whatever is important to you. One has children, one doesn’t. Why would you choose the one raising another man’s children? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/25 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Divorced, childfree men with a vasectomy: How has the "snip" changed your post-divorce dating life?You’re advocating dating single moms? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/25 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Uk Dad of too looking to divorceYou need to start recording these things, you will need those to defend yourself later. Get a Plaud Note Pro for phone calls, Plaud Pin for discussions as they happen(buy a watch strap, it looks like a fitness tracker). Your hunch may be correct, but don’t underestimate spite. The cost of the two hardware devices will be nothing when solicitor and barrister fees start adding up. It will be less than an hour of their time. If she is getting advice from a malicious group or spiteful friends she wi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Uk Dad of too looking to divorceShe gets paid more by you in CMS payments if you don’t have access to your children for over night visits. Expect that to be weaponised. Expect false abuse claims. Whatever you do, do not move out of the family home. This is the basic calculation you should be familiar with, the rest could take years if it becomes contentious: https://www.gov.uk/calculate-child-maintenance Reach out to some charities before you pull the pin, you need to be prepared for what comes next. What exactly do you expect… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 06:56 AM |
| 5 | I cheated for our entire relationship and marriage 11 yearsYou reap what you sow. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/25 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Dating in 50s - advice neededWhen you say dating pool, which apps? What is the age range you’ve set? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/25 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Going through divorce, low selfasteem and dating other women/being in love with one.You’re crazy to try and move on with another single parent in a permanent way. Be realistic, why? Find someone who has no children of their own. You’ll also blow up your daughter’s friendship with her best friend. Work on yourself, start going to a gym. I can tell by the self esteem talk you’re not working out. The kissing, touching, might help you move on. I don’t know why you semi-quoted your wife in this post, move on, you’re not discussing this with her. She’s not your therapist and will abs… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/25 03:01 PM |
| 3 | It’s just the beginningYou’re severely overerestimating the role any court will award you while working 60 hour weeks. If you believe your therapist, then he/she will be right. You’re done. If you get your self set up to serve paperwork, get the MIL out, and then try to salvage what you can you might have a chance. I usually lean towards unfixable, this is not it. Sounds like you two have not been near true trials and tribulations in your lives. Have either of you been seriously ill? Lost family you depended on day to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/25 05:49 PM |
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