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I was going to scold you until I read the last paragraph. I get where you are coming from, been there too. Don't confuse being picky with being an asshole. You can be one without the other.
/r/seduction19/08/12 12:40 PM
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I can only see that the most upvoted response is a "rebuttal" so I come want to thank you for spending the time and effort to interact with this community.
/r/seduction19/08/12 11:13 AM
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nope (unless you use a special layout)
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:40 PM
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I can attest to this. Like "Fifty shades of grey" with Maggie Gylenhaal.
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:34 PM
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In my opinion the split is BS. One subreddit is enough. Unfortunately it is easier to split than to merge.
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:19 PM
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If bad teeth really were an issue, Brits wouldn't get laid outside the UK at all. (half-joking)
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:17 PM
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I doubt anyone ever uses those. Downvoted for being circlejerk material.
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:14 PM
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I don't know - asking for a hug in return isn't really the way to go too. He should have agreed under the condition that she comes with him.
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:13 PM
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I don't want to ask these girls on dates because they're pretty much strangers and if I found it to be strange they would too. This may be the strangest thing I have read this month.
/r/seduction15/08/12 07:45 AM
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Lass uns Geschlechtsverkehr haben!
/r/seduction15/08/12 07:07 AM
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Sidebar.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:57 PM
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I meant http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cold_open ;-) You throw the reader into the story without any context. Where are you? Who is she?
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:57 PM
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I noticed her playing portal randomly Talk about a cold open ;-)
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:40 PM
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Okay I get it. Still I strongly advise calling her (tomorrow maybe) instead of texting her.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:29 PM
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Not having had much experience with that situation but what about just not initiating contact? Let her call you and keep the dates to about once a week or two weeks.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:23 PM
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The girls come back from the bathroom and we make room. I wasn't there but this sounded like a good situation to interject. Nice work not giving fucks about HB7. Why did you text HB6? Why not just call her?
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:20 PM
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That's the way I think about it. Also reminds me of professional poker players that can have losing streaks that go on for months where they sometimes lose millions of dollars. The hardest thing that they must do in that situation is to not change their strategy. Outcome independence anyone?
/r/seduction14/08/12 03:04 PM
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You don't explain why it is a buyer's market for women though, since in most environments that you are talking about the gender ratio is 50/50. It may be obvious but I think it needs to be stated clearly: men want sex more than women. Even a small difference in this tilts the power balance enormously. There is some evidence that the sex drive for women increases at around age 30, and the market looks accordingly different for women at that age. Edit: "citation" http://www.inflexwetrust.com/2011/…
/r/seduction14/08/12 02:56 PM
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I tried it, didn't do much for me. In any case, don't let it be your only angle of attack. Also relevant: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xn_oqEOtLYU
/r/seduction14/08/12 02:38 PM
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You know what I'm talking about. Still, I'll be mildly entertained seeing you twist the meaning of "There are no rules" into something else. Please go on.
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:26 PM
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This. Also, a girl questioning your sexual orientation is a perfect lead-in for sex talk. Ever thought about responding to "I thought you were gay?" with "Give me your number and I'll prove you otherwise" or something like that?
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:23 PM
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Welcome to life. It's great that you can see that you're needlessly shitting all over yourself, next time just be self-aware that you are going a little crazy and that the voices in your head are just bullshit. Try thinking or doing something else, if you can't, be aware that these thoughts will pass.
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:14 PM
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It's not an instinct. It's a skill. Like any other skill, you can train it. Don't worry about the It's not me stuff, you're anxious because you are in an unfamiliar situation. Just accept that you're nervous and push through it. After some time you will feel like yourself.
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:06 PM
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Where did I tell OP to not live by a moral code? Read your own post?
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:37 AM
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He isn't asking about universal rules but about rules in western society. Telling the OP to not live by any moral code is just bad advice. In this specific instance, he doesn't have to take the feelings of his friend into consideration, but if the question was "should I fuck my best friend's mother", rules come into play. Maybe not for you, but as you rightfully pointed out, most of society DOES follow rules and it is good to know them.
/r/seduction12/08/12 09:41 PM
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I'd really like some pointers for this too. The FAQ has an item "I want a longterm relationship, rather than casual flings. Can game help me?", but the reverse is equally important.
/r/seduction12/08/12 09:18 PM
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Solutions 1) and 2) sound good to me, 3) sounds a little needy. Your initial strategy wasn't really that bad either, so you may have just had bad luck with her.
/r/seduction12/08/12 09:08 PM
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Are you kidding? Of course there are rules to social relationships. If you were my best friend and fucked my long-term girlfriend, both her and you would be dead to me. There is however no rule to surrender pussy for some loser so that he doesn't feel lonely. Bros before hoes is about repeatedly cancelling major plans, personality changes because of GF and so on. Not applicable to this case at all.
/r/seduction12/08/12 09:01 PM
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The next time you will do this, you'll think "Let's see if I can do better than with the girl in the gellatto store" - maybe you'll do worse, probably you'll do better. The third time you already have two instances to compare against and are setting even higher goals for yourself. After a while you will be disappointed that you didn't kiss her. Then that you didn't fuck her. After that you'll be disappointed that you have fucked one girl while you really meant to fuck her friend. You'll be sligh…
/r/seduction12/08/12 08:55 PM
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Just chill dude.
/r/seduction10/08/12 05:49 AM
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Andy Kaufman did too: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RY3oRVzjSIg Evidently he slept with many of the girls...
/r/seduction06/08/12 12:07 PM
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Maybe at a [10]. At a [5] I'm more relaxed, more in the moment, plus you have a good reason to spend some one-on-one time with a lady if she is into it.
/r/seduction02/08/12 07:43 PM
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Part of it might be the fact that they are gay and have come out. That usually takes some balls and self-confidence.
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:41 PM
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Just do something else then.
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:36 PM
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Neither is good. Complete over-analysis of the content of the conversation.
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:28 PM
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Also don't overrate the rejection. Yes it is awkward, but not that much and you'll laugh about it later. I've had it happen and it simply is part of the business. You are always taking a risk when trying to kiss her, but you should be taking risks anyway. The signals pointed out by other posts are all good, but at the end, you just have to go for it. Yesterday I was talking to this girl and she was nervously babbling something, I just "Yeah yeah yeah..", put her stupid phone in her stupid handba…
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:24 PM
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German here, I agree with everything said so far. Just don't mention the war. Seriously, don't mention it.
/r/seduction01/08/12 06:28 PM
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you don't know what you're talking about
/r/seduction01/08/12 05:22 AM
3

Nice speech but the dudes in the video look grotesque
/r/seduction31/07/12 09:26 PM
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Even then you have more to work with - you can ask them to share stories about each other, poll them individually for answers, slighty moderate the conversation. One downside I think is that if there are more girls around, there is more judging going on.
/r/seduction31/07/12 09:23 PM
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I'm a babe?
/r/seduction31/07/12 09:20 PM
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I have experienced something similar with two girls recently (see FR) and was thinking about the same issue for a while. My conclusion at the moment is that there is a significant portion of difficult girls, flaky girls or simply girls that you are incompatible with. Some of them maybe deserve a second chance but it is good to be picky.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:52 PM
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I don't really don't get the subreddit split - in my opinion questions fit nicely in here
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:47 PM
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What I mean by that is that they've never read a pickup e-book, never torrented a pickup seminar, and never frequented a good pickup forum. Agree with general point, but you can be good at pulling women without reading ebooks and torrenting seminars
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:01 PM
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Very short hair and baggy pants. Done.
/r/seduction29/07/12 08:09 PM
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Three girls or more would actually be easier in terms of isolating a member. You can take away one girl and the others would still have some company.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:59 PM
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Congrats. Nice work separating the piercing girl from her friend, I often hesitate to do that.
/r/seduction29/07/12 09:50 AM
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Either she was losing interest or she was just nervous. I know I tend to do that when I'm nervous.
/r/seduction28/07/12 05:59 PM
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Are you saying there is no such thing as a skank?
/r/seduction28/07/12 05:22 PM
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Do you even consider your own opinion towards tattoos? If you get one, you should get one because you want int, not to pick up skanks at a club.
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:42 PM
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what?
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:38 PM
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You also exactly describe a girl at work that I have a crush on. She also has a beautiful face (even with glasses on), so that helps. You really don't have to look like Kim Kardashian to be considered attractive. Guys are constantly drooling over tall, tan, busty, thin women. Not really. It is kind of the lowest common denominator, but individual men can appreciate a broad spectrum of women. Have a look at /r/gentlemanbonders
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:37 PM
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she hated every one of my friends as soon as she saw them Oh boy, that's a huge one. I speak from experience ;-)
/r/seduction22/07/12 12:07 PM
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Agreement with the other commenters here: I study computer science, have obsessions with topic nobody else cares about and can't play an instrument to save my life. Doesn't matter one bit - a friend of mine plays the Guitar, Sax and Piano but doesn't have the balls to approach a girl. You sound like a smart and creative guy. That is the main and most important strength you have, use it.
/r/seduction22/07/12 12:04 PM
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Right on. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Also, seeing that you don't seem to have any kids, you've dodged a bullet there. When you've worked through this shit, no woman will be able to fuck you over like this again.
/r/seduction22/07/12 11:52 AM
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Hi, fellow German here, also doing NoFap weirdly enough. I agree on your view on women here in clubs, although I have not been clubbing anywhere else so there is no reference point. The ladies don't seem to like eye contact and rarely respond with a smile. Regarding the dance floor: try to take control of the situation. It is too chaotic and packed to try to be subtle and analyze the situation and geometry of the dancing groups. I find it easier to just go in there, smile at a girl, grab one of …
/r/seduction22/07/12 11:42 AM
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Response: "Lady, you're wrong. The most offensive question would be 'does your pussy go sideways?'" (I probably wouldn't actually say that)
/r/seduction21/07/12 04:01 PM
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This is complete bullshit. Look at Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Bob Dylan, Miles Davis. All of them were a pain in the ass. But they were passionate about what they did, became ridiculously good at it and then became respected for it.
/r/seduction21/07/12 03:43 PM
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POF = POF.com = Plenty Of Fish for the acronym-impaired like me
/r/seduction26/06/12 08:01 PM
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