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| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceWoah woah what? How so? | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceShould I edit post to further clarify?? | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Importance of giving space and having patienceHe made me uncomfortable WHEN I went to se him. I haven’t seen him since. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceAnd I did round up to three months... I said LESS than 3 months. I think it’s been more like 1.5 months but yeah | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceAbsolutely | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:25 AM |
| 0 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI’m literally telling you how things make ME feel and what gives me a positive and negative feeling to help. Omg. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:24 AM |
| 0 | Importance of giving space and having patiencePFT. Dating advice from a WOMAN. WOMEN don’t know how they FEEL 🙄🙄🙄 WOMEN can’t give ADVICE about what works ON THEM | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI’ve literally been on exactly 3 dates with each. I said casually dating just to convey that I JUST met these men and I am getting to know them right now.... | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patience3 dates, how dare I 🙄 | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceRight. But I’m not a lesser organism in this case. I’m not just prey. I can talk, and I’m telling you what works. Be smart and take note. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceRight! I mentioned how hard it is attracting girls, but I could at least convey what has a positive/negative effect on me. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceNot really... I’m a grown woman though, in her 20s. I don’t do the frat party hookup (sex during a party type thing if you listen to other commenters here.) So this is a good pace, with a good outcome. I’m looking for someone to be with long term, with all the bells and whistles. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI’m not conservative particularly, I’m not shy for SURE, and i don’t like to take it too slow. Just slow enough to be comfortable progressing. I’m a pretty normal woman when it comes to pretty girl expectations, which is why I shared this. I know it’s hard to pursue, wanted to give some insight. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceBeing courted by men is thrilling but disappointing, courting women is thrilling but stressful at times. Both are a challenge, receiving and pursuing. Being chased by men is fun but it’s sad to me when they mess up terribly, because I’m like “aww, I liked you!! You messed it up!!!” And chasing women it’s like “aww!!! I liked you!!! I messed it up!! But I’m not sure how 🤔” which is the entire reason why I posted this!! I want to give insight so it’s not so confusing to pursue women!! I know it’s … | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceYou are 200% free to keep on going by your own advice, and see how that goes! | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceWeird girl. 2 is scaring the fuck out of me. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceMake conversation! Just Conversation isn’t pushy and wouldn’t fail! Moving past that though, take heed! ♥️ | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceAnd I would go then 😂 I’m a pretty girl, I’m telling you 2 was freaking me out. Do what you want tho | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 7 | Importance of giving space and having patienceYou may not have noticed, but successful men (in the realm of romance) are often just apt to respond to women’s cues naturally. I’m a girl, I’m telling you I felt pushed and uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceIt really isn’t... and tbh it may have been 1.5 months but I wasn’t sure so I rounded up. if I’m honest, I’m a focused nympho 😩 but I’m not comfortable with hookups, so I wait for a worthy guy and unleash ☺️ not to overwhelm him but I’m very enthusiastic and open when comfortable. I don’t want to just give that to anyone, so I do wait for someone worthy, as most girls do. Don’t make the mistake of thinking girls are prudes. A comfortable and loved woman is a freaky woman! | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThey don’t like you. Or, they think you’re too good for them. Or looking for something different. I’ve met very sweet guys, and literally out of respect for them and knowing we weren’t compatible, I told them I wasn’t ready for the level they were on. Doesn’t mean I wasn’t ready for a relationship... It meant I wasn’t ready for the relationship they wanted. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceHey- I’m open to sharing more in a PM if you want to talk! It all comes down to body language. Women are extremely clear, but not verbally. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceIf the car could actually talk, that would benefit you greatly huh. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceIt’s one for sure 😩 I adore him I will also update you guys though in time to confirm | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI have been there LOL If you ever do too much, it’s true that you can leave and “reset” the negative feelings she has for you by staying away for a few months. If she’s blocked you, you CAN try to call her off a blocked number (turn off your caller ID in settings and it’ll go through, a call can only be blocked if her phone can ID where it’s coming from) but if she responds to that call negatively, or a week or month down the line, if she flips at you again, you need to leave her alone period. S… | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceIf you are too aggressive, a girl will cut you off, tell her friends about you, they will roast you in the group chat and then she will move on. 🙄 | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceWhat did you say 💀💀💀 | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 07:35 PM |
| -3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceScroll 😭😭 he’s KILLIN ME 😂 | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI’ve only been on 3 dates now with each, so I didn’t know. I’m deciding how to express my thoughts to 2 kindly. There is no leading anyone on. This is all very recent. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThought I made it clear that wasn’t a question I was going to answer. You’re really pushy, and it’s gross. Leave. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Importance of giving space and having patienceDon’t care Doubt you could get two women in the first place. Leave. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceOh please. You want to manipulate a woman and pressure her into sex you can absolutely do that. And then the next day she’ll feel terribly and tell her friends how creepy you are. You treat a women well and LISTEN, and you get a girlfriend, doing all the nasty things you want, with love and enthusiasm, continually. Which sounds better. Take your manipulation and condescension elsewhere. LEAVE. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceAnd how often do you actually make it from “meet to fuck”?? Because you sound like the biggest repeller of women I’ve seen yet on this site?? Maybe women don’t often share, but I am right now, so do not undermine what I’m saying, do not add your input to what you think I’m trying to say, because I’m quite eloquent and honest!! I do not need your nasty additions that pervert my message and experiences. You need to LEAVE. How many times does a women have to tell you to leave and that you’re not we… | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThank you, I will 🥰 | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceIt is FUCKING CRAZY that I, a woman who dates men??? Is here, telling her feelings and experiences and what works and what doesn’t and you are really trying to act like you know better?? You really want to talk about how women feel?? Every comment you’ve made has been dead wrong!!! On top of that, you sound like a complete creep!! Do not try to explain MY thoughts, especially when you have no clue what you’re talking about! Leave!!!! | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Importance of giving space and having patienceNo, I’m not. I did mention I am casually dating them, and have known both of them for less than 3 months. I’m getting to know them with intentions of beginning a monogamous relationship with one. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Importance of giving space and having patienceNo need to be rude... Yes, people need time at every level to get comfortable. Especially in a strange place, with a new person. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:26 PM |
| -4 | Importance of giving space and having patienceYou’re 100% incorrect, and wildly off base. Leave | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThat’s exactly what’s going on here 🥺 It’s a shame because I see that that’s how he feels so I wish I could combat it by having it work out between us, but he’s making me super uncomfortable with the intensity. He refuses to let things build up and instead tries to force it.... He’s a really fantastic person so I’ve multiple times told him gently that we just need to let things build and not force them but he isn’t hearing me | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:58 PM |
| -40 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThe involuntary celibate mindset is obvious through your repeated and unwelcome commentary. I have zero interest in communicating with you. Please leave. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:53 PM |
| -24 | Importance of giving space and having patienceTerrible. Terrible. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThis is a long distance relationship, where he or I would need to travel to see one another and therefore, having my own room and bathroom was a major relief. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:48 PM |
| 29 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThe difference between giving her space and seeming disinterested is acting on her cues. If she touches your arm in conversation on a date, that’s a green light. Touch her back. If she moves in closer to you, allow her to and put your arm around her. If she seems uncomfortable or hesitates, she needs more time and space. There’s a saying: “a man will chase a woman until she catches him” LOL a lot of courtship is reading a woman’s body language and responding! If you miss too many cues, you look … | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Importance of giving space and having patienceLook at you trying to force me to answer by assuming! Leave me alone 🥴 | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI don’t need help?? Lol | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Importance of giving space and having patienceIt’s hard to be patient and give space bc that’s the exact opposite of what you want to do when you like someone! But you have to remember, going too fast is selfish! When you seduce someone you have to give everything time to sink in and settle. Let the girl get comfortable and warm to you! It’ll be beneficial in the long run ♥️ | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:14 PM |
| -6 | Importance of giving space and having patienceUmmm you know there are actual complete virgins on this sub right? Lol not everyone has done everything. Anyway, no, I’ve not had a 1ns, not sober, so I won’t count that, bc I couldn’t legally consent. If I could go back and not be fucking wasted I wouldn’t have done it. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceShortest, this is hard! A few weeks maybe? | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:02 PM |
| 11 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThere’s a definite balance to being the first kind! You want to give space but not too much that you seem uninterested! If you’re flirty in conversation, but then don’t press, thats a good place to start! So take her on a great date, text her goodnight after, then let her call you to ask about when she’s seeing you next. Be flirty in convos, even look at her like you want her, but don’t make a move and watch her wonder why! With the first guy, we had such amazing chemistry and great conversation… | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceAre you serious??? I’m not a hook up girl. So one would need to invest more than hours, minutes, days, weeks. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 10 | Importance of giving space and having patienceYeah they live in different cities so if I want to see them they have to come here or I go there. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThis is a terrible take and an unwelcome comment, also extremely wrong. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI’m not really sure what #2 is after LOL he keeps talking about kids and marriage and it was terrifying me Not that I’m adverse to commitment but that’s a lot to pile on someone up front. Like let’s build... I’m getting to know you... | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:40 PM |
| 26 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI’m missing something lol? | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Importance of giving space and having patienceI’m happy to share as I think of things, or if you’d like to ask questions I’d be happy to answer them! | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:34 PM |
| 17 | Importance of giving space and having patienceSharing a room with someone you’re not 100% comfortable with gives you zero time to decompress after a date. There’s no where to go to be alone and settle. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:32 PM |
| 16 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThe second guy- We were texting before I went there He wanted me to stay at his place and I asked if there was a separate room I could stay in. I haven’t known him long. The first guy though, keeps putting me in a separate room automatically and now Im like 🥺 can I be with you? He’s effectively given me enough space that I trust him and feel comfortable with him, and he’s letting me level up as I’m comfortable doing so | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:30 PM |
| 23 | Importance of giving space and having patienceLOL those girls scare me | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 15 | Importance of giving space and having patienceThank you! 🥰 | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 02:02 PM |
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