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There are few better parents I’ve met than single fathers. I’ve met entirely too many screwed up families with single mothers as the only parent. I’ve met one lovely girl who was being raised by her step father - he got sole custody as the mother was a real piece of work. One particular family I know, the father has sole custody of multiple children - two were his, two were from the same mother from a previous relationship. He gained custody after she attempted to stab him. In front of the child…
/r/MensRights28/07/26 01:07 AM
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Perfectly stated, with much fewer words than I’m capable of :)
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:56 AM
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The most important thing in any relationship, especially marriage, is communication. Insecurity can turn into behaviour that actually creates the situation you fear. A person gets scared someone will leave them, they eventually convince themselves that the person IS going to leave them and they start to distance themselves as a form of self protection. That distance becomes obvious to the partner who starts worrying that there’s a problem in the relationship etc. Focus on what you can do to stre…
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:55 AM
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I suspect the downvotes are because there are a lot of men who have the insecurity (that their partners will divorce them for petty much no reason). The fact is that lack of fear is a privilege. Just like women complain that men can walk down the road alone without fear is a privilege. Many women do not consider it because the first thought about divorce is often THEM considering the divorce, not fear that their partner may do it to them. There are so many stories about how the husband comes hom…
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:46 AM
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A lot of the pecking order you’re mentioning seems to come from a very long history - long before feminism became a “thing”. As a woman, one of the first things that I was told after the birth of my first child was that children’s came first. When I attempted to disagree, I was given an entire spiel by my mother about how the children were helpless and needed protection. My response (that without both parents it was harder to protect said children, and that once the children were grown the relat…
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:28 AM
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Apparently any person with Down’s syndrome is banned from ever having or wanting sex, because having sex with them is rape, regardless of consent. I’m guessing that means that people with Down’s syndrome are only ever allowed to have sex with “their own kind”?! There are so many things wrong with that it’s mind blowing.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 03:00 AM
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I am the youngest child of five, and the only girl. More than two decades ago my mother once openly told me (in front of my father) that she trusted NO man, and could NEVER trust any man. The hurt in my father’s eyes was palpable. She didn’t even see it. She passed away 8 years ago, and I still don’t forgive her for the emotional abuse that she put him through (that he still doesn’t acknowledge as abuse) She loved him in her own way, and trusted him with many things in their lives. However the f…
/r/MensRights22/07/26 02:39 PM
1

Is no-one else wondering what happened with the tattoo on his belly? To me it appears noticeably higher in one photo compared to the other.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 07:58 PM
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How would YOU feel if he called you a loser, not a good wife and that you will be a bad mother in the future? Especially if it was because you were helping your mother and sister. Your household runs 50/50 already, which means he’s using his own funds to help his family, which in reality is also YOUR family, even if not blood related. Honestly, I’m fairly certain this whole post is just rage bait, which will be why others haven’t responded yet.
/r/MensRights20/05/26 01:25 AM
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The problem with this is that female only gyms protect vulnerable people (women), and male only gyms are sexist. Apparently. I haven’t got a clue how it works, but that is the gist I’m getting. As a woman, I’m totally clueless how other women don’t actually see the sexism inherent in having female only anything but not allowing male only equivalents.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 01:16 AM
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To be fair, if you were fixing her vehicle (especially in the snow!) you shouldn’t have needed to ask. A true partner appreciates when the other partner is going above and beyond, and tries to anticipate their needs. Face it, if you’re in the cold you’re going to need a warm/hot drink and if you’re out long enough, they should at least ASK if food is needed. You are far better off without that one.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 02:51 AM
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It is a very real concern in the US, yes.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 01:17 AM
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A good friend managed to get full custody of his daughter (and 3 step children) because of similar behaviour from his ex. He refused to have sex with her after she abused him. She turned on the tears and threatened to kill herself, all on camera. That, and she tried to stab him in front of the children. Either way, not the stable sort.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 11:50 AM
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This reminds me of the footage of a man giving flowers to strangers. Most were older women. However one was an older man in uniform. When he was given the flowers he was taken aback initially, but when he realised that the person was actually giving them to him, he was almost in tears. He had never been told he was appreciated and was overcome with emotion.
/r/MensRights21/03/26 01:22 PM
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As a woman, I’ve wondered the same thing on multiple occasions. Every time I’ve brought it up, the people I’ve spoken to don’t even see the hypocrisy. I’m not sure if I’m speaking to morons, or if I’m too stupid to word it in a way that’s understandable to others.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 08:14 AM
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In cases of selective service, IMO it should not matter the gender. If they fit into the age bracket and pass the health considerations then if one gender is required to go, all should be required to do so. As far as reproducing is concerned, there are way too many loopholes that the unscrupulous could utilise. For instance, simply SAYING they are pregnant could be enough to remove the service requirement. If they’re pulled up on it they could simply say they lost the child. If that didn’t work,…
/r/MensRights20/03/26 08:07 AM
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I’m late to respond, and I’m saddened that there were so many negative responses to your post, while appreciating those that were actively supporting you. This should be a safe place for you. There are several men here who have suffered the same abuse that you have. My husband was sexually assaulted in a previous relationship, and physically assaulted in another. The police actively laughed at him when he tried to file a complaint. In the years we were together approximately half of the men he m…
/r/MensRights20/03/26 03:09 AM
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One thing I didn’t see mentioned are women who randomly assign a male they know as the father, even if that man never actually had sex with her. They rarely actually ask for proof other than the name worn on a piece of paper, and if the man argues they’re basically told “too bad, child support now”
/r/MensRights08/03/26 01:30 AM
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Actually it is different. The girls have the option to abort or adopt out. The boys have no such option. Even if they choose to have nothing to do with the reminder of the abuse, they still have to pay their abuser every month (or however often it is set)
/r/MensRights07/03/26 01:45 PM
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I mostly took the comment from the beginning (father of a newborn) and your comment brought it to the forefront that he appeared to be discussing the visits during the pregnancy. Thanks for pointing that out :)
/r/MensRights07/03/26 12:22 AM
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Hard to argue with the numbers, and I don’t plan to. When it comes to funding the western world does indeed have a massive bias toward women’s health. There are a lot of pain based illnesses where pain levels are completely ignored, especially when it comes to women. Perhaps the bias is that many doctors believe pain doesn’t really exist unless it’s for some major physical trauma? Procedures where men would usually get local anaesthetic (biopsy up the urethra for example) women will usually get …
/r/MensRights07/03/26 12:20 AM
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Are these all the wife’s appointments, or are they about the baby? Most appointments will be for both initially then moving on to be to keep track of the baby. In which case either parent could be the one presenting with the child.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:50 PM
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Maybe openly ask what it is that makes them behave as though you are some kinds of threat? If you’re 6’6” and built like that proverbial brick outhouse covered with tattoos and dressed in gang affiliated clothing, that would be a little more understandable, I guess? Many people automatically discriminate based on looks as well as gender or race (how many coloured fathers get this behaviour with Caucasian wives?) Either way, your wife really needs to stand up for you in order for them to actually…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:48 PM
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I got very angry at a nurse when we discovered our first baby died before birth. We hadn’t even delivered him yet, and she was openly saying that my husband couldn’t care because “he was only the father” On the contrary, having fathered a child in a previous relationship, he was hit even harder than I was at that time. I was LIVID. What made it worse was the same (insert appropriate epithet here) then dared to insinuate that if we didn’t take the baby home and take photos of him in the nursery a…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:39 PM
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While I agree that many parts of healthcare show heavily discrimination against men (look at the rates of funding for breast cancer compared to prostate cancer etc, not to mention the area we’re specifically talking about here) there are other areas where women are actively ignored (pain and related conditions for instance) and others that are heavily ignored no matter what gender (mental health anyone?!) I wouldn’t say that healthcare as a whole discriminates only against men. It seems that the…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:31 PM
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This was my thought. On the occasions this happened at my doctors I would insist that he’d join us. Sometimes it appeared that the doctors were looking for signs of postnatal depression, but usually it was doctors just insisting that they only talk with “mum”
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:24 PM
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I’m here mostly because my husband showed me just how little real equality society shows men and boys. We had three sons. Therefore I have an active interest in helping them to be treated as human rather than a gender or race. Trash with children seems a rather appropriate description for the women OP has spoken of.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 01:00 AM
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Don’t let these two colour your opinion of single mothers. They’re not ALL like this. Having said which, I have a tendency to think of single parents as opposed to just single mothers. So many great single dads out there. You are right that single mothers almost get celebrated. I am a widow, and thus involuntarily became a single mother. Even though our children are basically adult (one in his 20s and the other two late teens) I still cannot leave one of our children at home alone and the other …
/r/MensRights06/03/26 12:38 AM
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Conversely, my oldest son is terrified that women will make false reports against him after a serial false reporter (at school!) told her parents he had touched her inappropriately. The parents ended up trying to follow my son home and threatened to physically assault him. She ended up telling the truth only after I contacted the police. He was the fourth KNOWN boy that she had already made false reports about. Yet most people will tell him it’s only one girl who did that and he shouldn’t be sca…
/r/MensRights18/02/26 09:17 AM
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The funny thing is that the very first time I heard of MGTOW it seemed evident that it was a defence response. So many men have been treated badly by their previous partners, and society sided with those ex partners… that they couldn’t see any way of being able to protect themselves if they had a similar relationship in the future. Rather than men hating women, it’s victims protecting themselves from potential abusers. You know, like what feminists say they’re doing by warning girls that all men…
/r/MensRights12/02/26 04:38 AM
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I suspect I’m too naive for many situations. Maybe it’s because on I’m the autism spectrum. I don’t understand why one race or gender could be seen any different from another. Socially, I see people react more to seeing a young girl being hurt than a young boy, and I just don’t get it. Why is it worse for one compared to the other? BOTH situations are terrible.
/r/MensRights07/01/26 06:09 AM
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There is no competition as to who suffered more - however many seem to believe that there is a competition and strive to win. In reality, people suffered. Whether due to race, gender, poverty, age or whatever else… people have suffered. The aim is to try to reduce that suffering and be more empathetic with ourselves and others in the hopes that mankind as a whole can improve. Taking the competition out of it is a good stepping stone, IMO.
/r/MensRights07/01/26 06:01 AM
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I believe the basic problem is that a lot of women grow up being told that they are princesses, and in the media princesses look a certain way. That way is skinny AF with perfectly symmetrical features. Any female who doesn’t fit that mould is immediately treated as “less than” by the other girls/women. This, in turn, makes them feel as though they aren’t good enough, and that feeling is what makes them turn on others (usually not in their personal group) who dare to bring up something that remi…
/r/MensRights16/10/25 03:11 PM
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If approached about false accusations she may have made in the past, she is very likely to double down on the claim. She definitely will not actually outright admit to lying about it. Especially if approached by someone saying “someone said you’d accused them of raping you, what happened?” She’s lied once, nothing to stop her from doing it again, to your face.
/r/MensRights12/10/25 03:12 PM
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From the sound of the post, he’s trying to find a way to either dump her or for her to dump him, so that she is less likely to accuse him of anything. The fact is, there are a lot of relationships where just leaving is not an option. Children being involved is one well known one, but another thing people can be concerned about is exactly HOW to cut those ties. I once took in a homeless person and her dog. Did not think to ban alcohol from the house when she first moved in, and found out later th…
/r/MensRights12/10/25 02:56 PM
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An easy way to answer your question is to ask, if a woman in the same situation asked the same question, would you answered that she was in an abusive relationship? I know I would. This is an incredibly toxic relationship. You obviously believed that this woman was right for you at the time you first got together, but if she had behaved like this at that time, I’m certain you would never have married her in the first place. She obviously behaved differently in order to get you on the hook, and n…
/r/MensRights02/10/25 10:13 AM
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Acknowledging that the ideal is for children to have two parents, while providing as much parenting as possible in your own circumstances is possible. In many cases being a single parent is neither a choice nor even the best in that situation. If one parent is abusive or neglectful, the other parent being a solo parent is the best. It doesn’t mean that solo parent cannot wish that there was a secondary parental unit available sometimes! In some cases one parent is deceased, in jail or otherwise …
/r/MensRights02/10/25 08:56 AM
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Several of the comments seemed to almost encourage the concept of raping men or boys. Rape shouldn’t be a gender thing. Abuse shouldn’t be a gender thing. If someone is abused, I don’t care who they’re abused by. It’s just plain wrong. If someone is sexually abused, again, it doesn’t matter who did it and who was the victim, it’s still just plain wrong. The perpetrator needs the punishment, no matter the gender. The victim needs to be looked out for - also no matter the gender, or race, or freak…
/r/MensRights24/09/25 11:38 AM
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Constant pressing to get life insurance, plus refusal to allow him to follow through with urgent specialists appointments, plus abusive behaviour, then add on the flooding situation at home… IMO she wants him dead, and if that happens without her getting her hands dirty, all the better for her. This post suggests an escalation over recent months, which has my little red flag monitor flapping wildly.
/r/MensRights30/08/25 02:25 PM
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To be honest, the entire post suggests to me that the wife is looking to cash in on the life insurance. He’s definitely living with consistent abuse, and I believe it is likely more than what has been posted. IMO OP will be far safer out of the relationship, well away from their current spouse, and I only hope there is no chance of any children from this relationship (currently it sounds like she has boys from her previous marriage and you have a fork from yours?) OP, take your daughter and run,…
/r/MensRights30/08/25 02:20 PM
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I am no fan of the way the issue of guns is handled in the United States… but this subject has less than nothing to do with guns. If it hasn’t been the gun he would have found another way. This child was damaged by the constant abuse he was being dealt at school. Even seeing his parents trying to do something, he would have seen that they were being ignored, which would have been the last nail in the proverbial coffin.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 06:24 AM
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The sad part is, I believe that most schools believe they are against bullying. However they seem to be FOR those who got better into society, and AGAINST those who struggle. In other words they help the bullies and punish the bullied. Someone gets bullied and stands up for themselves after years of being bullied? They are then punished for bullying, while the original bully actually gets supported. It’s ridiculous.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 06:20 AM
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My oldest son had to deal with a teacher like this. He was only 5. She openly told him he was “too stupid to live” We only found out because he’d gone from being excited about going to school, to being upset and telling us he didn’t want to go. Then he started talking about killings himself. At five. She encouraged one of the boys in the class to beat up the other boys, and then blamed the other boys for being beaten up. Once we discovered what was happening we attempted to talk with higher up s…
/r/MensRights01/05/25 06:13 AM
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It hurt ME when my mother openly told me that she hates all men - in front of my father. I could see that he was hurt, but she never noticed :(
/r/MensRights08/03/25 01:37 AM
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My concern isn’t what the deceased feels, but the reaction of those who are living, and considering whether put not to donate their own bodies to science. This affects future generations of would-be medical students.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 01:35 AM
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Taking photos and posting them in a public forum (like a dating profile) is not a way of learning to deal with death. It’s blatant disrespect.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 01:34 AM
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Is it dumb, or arrogance? If society tells her that it’s okay to treat males with disrespect, which she can do in almost any situation with no repercussions, then it could be that this is just an extension of that. I personally believe the photo should be sent to the training institution so she can be properly punished. So few people are already willing to donate their bodies, this behaviour is going to risk that others will reconsider this as an option when they die.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 01:31 AM
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Reading the story, I get the impression that she was already being investigated for the inappropriate relationship with the teenager, so that may have been part of what was done for the investigation. Not sure, but it’s the only thing that makes sense to me.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 03:23 AM
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THIS is why feminists are (fill in a suitable word here) They fight so much for women, that they don’t realise that what they are doing is saying to the world that till women are incapable of doing something under their own recognisance. Women are weak, women need extra help to get that job, look after their children, etc. The fact is, it doesn’t make sense for them to be saying that women can do anything, while demanding that everyone hand women everything in a silver platter because men need t…
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:16 AM
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Almost worth a privately recorded phone call (better yet, texts) with her asking why she is making allegations. If she responds with anything other than “I didn’t make any allegations” there’s surely proof in that?
/r/MensRights26/01/25 09:46 AM
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This was my first thought. He has solid proof that he was nowhere near the woman at the time of the supposed incident. Not just at the time of the incident but weeks on either side. Which will be why she will have contacted the other women to get them to say something similar. Unfortunately “proof” is something that society doesn’t seem to actually care about. Only the accusation.
/r/MensRights26/01/25 06:31 AM
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It isn’t just feminist lies. Social media (in fact, media in general), society as a whole… warn girls and women about the dangers of any male - even boys. It isn’t fair, and it definitely isn’t right. However, if the world is telling you to be scared of something, there is a large component of people who will be scared. It’s only a small number who can think for themselves that realise that logically, not all males are inherently dangerous. My husband was raped, multiple times, when he was a tee…
/r/MensRights01/01/25 04:21 AM
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The reality is rarely that simple. Best to get a statement from the son and his girlfriend ASAP as witnesses (no untoward behaviour, and never left alone) as well as separate statements regarding the fallout between the roommate and them, with (hopefully) proof that the roommate had been caught stealing, and no issues prior to them leaving. The sad fact is that many people are unjustly accused and found guilty on little to no proof. Some have been found guilty despite strong evidence to the cont…
/r/MensRights10/07/24 04:56 AM
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I hate to admit it, but it depends on the woman. Most times, trees will listen far better ;)
/r/MensRights09/06/24 01:39 PM
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Which is strange. As a female, I don’t understand why being called female could be considered degrading. Unless the person thinking that it’s degrading actually feels that females are some kind of lower life form? Calling someone female is no more degrading than calling someone male. With the whole gender thing going on, I’ve begun trying to avoid mentioning gender at all where possible. Just too much of a headache all around.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 01:30 PM
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I have never understood the stance, but that’s pretty much how they behave. Female only taxis? Applauded as a brilliant safety measure. Male only taxis? Women should be allowed on them, it’s sexist. The same with gyms, pubs, offices… pretty much anything you can name, from what I can tell. I have never understood why it’s sexist if it’s male only, but perfectly fine off it’s female only. I’ve tried to argue that if they want a female only (name whatever it is here) then a male only one should be…
/r/MensRights09/03/24 06:50 AM
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New Zealand is more accepting of Aussies than Australia is accepting of Kiwis. The Internet is better too ;) Be aware that the laws regarding men’s rights are likely to be more weighted to women, but I suspect you’ll be wary enough already to keep your eyes open for potential issues. The healthcare system is similar to Australia, generally a little easier to navigate. Petrol prices are purportedly through the roof. If you have any family over there it can make a difference. The same goes for if …
/r/MensRights02/03/24 10:47 AM
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Then proudly let them know that you were in the business of protecting people. You don’t need to specifically say you were a police officer. It shouldn’t make a difference. There are so many good police officers out there… however it does. Right now, so many in society are terrified of the police. My own son, at 15, has a near-phobia of police after more than one run in with them. One of those run ins was where they took him in for questioning for three hours, without anyone he knew to support h…
/r/MensRights02/03/24 10:41 AM
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What I still don’t understand, and at this point I’m realising I possibly never will… is why the people pushing this agenda do not realise that as long as they play the victim, they are basically saying that their entire gender is weak, and therefore needs added protections. Their words say they believe they are strong, but their actions say something else entirely. As a woman, I don’t want to be treated any differently, and I don’t want to treat others differently. Why on earth should women get…
/r/MensRights09/08/23 10:26 AM
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There are several women here. I don’t believe that there is a problem with that with most people here. Mostly because the men here actually believe in equality. They aren’t looking for anything beyond that, just wanting to be acknowledged as being human, having feelings and rights. Most of the women here believe in the same thing. That’s the real issue, in my opinion. So many women SAY they are looking for equality, but when faced with being treated the same way as men, they complain that they s…
/r/MensRights23/07/23 11:36 PM
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Just Reddit?
/r/MensRights14/07/23 04:02 AM
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This is one reason why I fail to understand the feminist stance. If all women were equal but men should have special consideration for women… why should women be treated differently? Why should women not be part of a draft in case of war? Why should women get the life rafts first in case of a ship floundering? Why should women be the automatic decision for child raising in case of separation? Why should women get more child support, or lower jail sentences than men? More to the point, why should…
/r/MensRights14/07/23 04:02 AM
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It took me an unnecessarily long time to realise this. Assault is assault. It doesn’t matter where it occurs, or who does it. If it’s a teacher or student, boss or coworker, friends, family or complete stranger. No matter the gender, size or race. If they physically attack you it should be taken to the relevant authorities. My only personal consideration in these cases will be things like age - if a baby hits you, then it isn’t exactly something I’d take to the police! However as long as the att…
/r/MensRights06/07/23 03:38 AM
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Initially I was starting to get my hackles up with your response… until I realised you were basically just spouting off the crap others are likely to be saying!
/r/MensRights01/05/23 02:27 PM
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When we first got together my husband told me that if I ever heard something about what he may or may not have done, to go to him and just ask. He had multiple abusive relationships in the past, some where he was mentally abused, others where he was physically abused. One where his partner raped him, but he felt he couldn’t leave because they had a child together and he was trying to protect the child. A common thread in those relationships were lies told to others about things he had supposedly…
/r/MensRights25/04/23 06:09 AM
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A suggestion for the future. You can offer to call the police for her. They are often happy to help someone in distress who may be in potential danger if left alone. It really depends on the local police, but it reduces the chances of being accused of something, especially if you stay on the line with them while you are close to the person in distress. As a teenager I have done this for drunken and passed out adults lying on the ground in public. I’m physically unable to help in that situation, …
/r/MensRights21/04/23 08:56 AM
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So, statistically women get beaten more than men? Society saying it’s okay to beat men has nothing to do with these statistics, right? Think logically. If society says it’s okay for women to hit men, then men getting hit will not be complaining and raising it as an issue, because they are taught from a young age that woman are to be protected and men are supposed to just “take it like a man” So… men will not be reporting, and women report of men look at them angrily because “that’s abusive” - wh…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:34 AM
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Actually, that’s a fair point… a person convicted of falsely accusing someone else of a sexual assault or rape being put on a sex offenders list as it legally constitutes as a sex offence. It is hard to actually be convicted of false accusation, so maybe this should be suggested as part of the punishment? Could this help reduce false accusations? I have no idea. Initially, I suspect not. However, once the first woman was put on a sex offenders register because of it, you can bet your nelly that …
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:55 AM
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The problem with the discrimination against men in NZ is that it is so ingrained most people think that the system is pro-male. Decades worth of “girls can do anything” combined with “all boys grow into rapists, and are sexist pigs” means boys grow up thinking that they are inherently bad, and girls grow up thinking that they can do no wrong. Bad combination. If people are finally seeing that there’s a problem with that in NZ that’s a huge step in the right direction. Thank you for helping peopl…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 02:21 PM
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One question I have on this… if the mother dies or leaves, leaving the father as the sole parent… and the father then remarries - does the new mother end up paying child support if they separate? If not, then there’s a legal double standard. I know there are many cases of legal double standards with regard to gender, but while I’ve heard of multiple cases of men who are not the genetic father paying child support, I cannot say that I’ve ever heard of a female being charged for child support even…
/r/MensRights08/12/22 01:59 AM
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He also commented that he’s lonely and thought it was the beer talking. Therapy sounds good, so does Having real time with his daughters. Congratulations on the 50/50. Do not forget there’s a reason you separated.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 01:53 PM
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Bad bot
/r/MensRights20/11/22 01:50 PM
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It wasn’t one person that didn’t report this woman. The entire family knew what was happening and not only did nothing happen, the abuser was basically revered. On the one occasion someone actually reported it, the police could find no wrong doing because the family all backed the abuser. They saw her consistent hitting, punching etc of him as part and parcel of her ‘nagging’. Actually, they saw her needing to ask more than once as him being disrespectful and thus he deserved the abuse. In many …
/r/MensRights28/10/22 12:34 AM
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From my own experience (and in my opinion) I’ve found that New Zealand is not the safest place for men in general :( The laws and public opinion have generally caused issues for men for decades with the “all men are abusers” mindset. I’ve known boys who have questioned themselves because they have been told for so long that THEY are an abuser even though they had never abused anyone. They thought that even trying to defend themselves verbally was abuse towards the women and girls who were bullyi…
/r/MensRights28/10/22 12:18 AM
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I’m not really understanding how you managed to get your second point out of what was said. The previous poster, from my understanding, is looking at equal rights. The same rights for men and women, taking gender out of the equation. Obviously, men are incapable of carrying a baby, so it’s a bit unfair shoving that in his face as if it’s something men have control over. They don’t. There are many men out there who would LOVE to be a father, and giving women the default as sole caregiver is fair …
/r/MensRights28/10/22 12:05 AM
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When I was a child I knew of one woman, a massive lady with a tiny husband. She beat him regularly. No-one batted an eye. He never complained, she was never pulled up on it, and when she eventually died, she was seen as a well-loved matriarch. It was not considered abuse because he never once laid a hand on her. :(
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:25 PM
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That’s a bit of an insult to people who are legitimately retarded, isn’t it? I mean, the people I’ve met who are actually retarded have been really nice people! ;)
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:00 AM
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That attitude shares many similarities with the “all men are rapists” attitude you’re commenting on. While I agree that few women will help men, there are some that will make that stand. I for one appreciate that. Having said which, society as a whole at the moment is so septic that few men feel safe helping anyone any more. Woman on the side of the road with a flat tyre? It isn’t safe stopping to help unless there’s a woman with you to prove that nothing untoward happened. Crying child, alone a…
/r/MensRights09/04/22 11:29 PM
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I totally agree with you, but I was randomly struck by this… you responded to comments about being trolled by saying that the beyond stupid trend you mentioned above is controllable. All I could see was conTROLLable. Why have I never seen that before?!
/r/MensRights24/03/22 01:14 AM
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I would not be surprised LOL however, what if the crackhead had a breath like Vegemite?
/r/MensRights06/03/22 04:56 AM
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Let’s hope there are no crackheads on juice nearby within easy distance then ;)
/r/MensRights06/03/22 12:41 AM
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It always seems to work out that way doesn’t it? :( Off the topic at hand here - I have a quote which I believe you may know the origin of… “The universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements. Energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest.” Unfortunately I believe that the latter can cause a lot of issues, particularly in the form of rights. Or lack thereof.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 11:33 PM
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I was hoping there was a missing comma in between those two words ;)
/r/MensRights03/03/22 01:10 AM
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I see it as a rights issue for both sides. Not only for the men who have to stay, which is obvious. Why should women who want to fight have to leave, and why should men who may not be fit to fight have to stay? It’s actually insulting to women. They’re saying that the women are SO incapable of helping themselves that they have to be shuffled off to safety while young (and some potentially disabled) men look after them. It’s also not right for man who are incapable of fighting for various reasons…
/r/MensRights03/03/22 01:08 AM
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My question for your mother would be this: why are other people looking at your sons genitals in order to comment?!
/r/MensRights02/03/22 12:16 AM
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As a person on the spectrum who spends a lot of time with others also on the spectrum, I would suggest this. If you have to change yourself in order to suit others just to get a date, those others are not worth your time or energy… and a massive amount of energy is expended in order to try to fit in. I know several people on the spectrum who have not only managed to get dates without having to turn themselves inside out, they even married and had families. Some of those people (myself included) …
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:14 PM
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From what I’ve seen, the most important factor - for the men I’ve known in being able to get the women they’re interested in - was confidence. Which is why the “fake it until you make it” mentality can work, to a point. True confidence works better than faking it, but faking it works better than not trying at all. I know some pretty average looking men in their 40s and older who have easily ended up in relationships with much younger women just because of their confidence. This is despite not ex…
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:04 PM
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Someone else had a great idea. Instead of making it an official complaint to HR, go to HR and explain that from your perspective it appears that she’s making advances and ask how to best deal with it. I’m not sure it will work, but it will make them aware of potential behaviour and they’ll hopefully start actively watching for it so they can slam a lid on it when it becomes obvious what she’s doing. Sadly all she needs to do is put a complaint in about you and you’re toast, so being proactive an…
/r/MensRights01/03/22 10:40 PM
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I’m in Australia and in my State it’s legal to record without consent or knowledge as long as you are part of the conversation/recording. It’s also legal to record someone else’s property as long as it is from your own.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 10:35 PM
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She is responsible… however, I believe the police, defence and prosecutor are as well… potentially more so. No, she should not have taken their word for it that he was the perpetrator… however, the police should never have shared that evidence/information with her. As is mentioned elsewhere, if this was known it should have resulted in a mistrial. Having said which, as a teenager, she was highly unlikely to know that it was wrong to share that evidence. She was likely to be easily swayed by the …
/r/MensRights23/02/22 11:24 AM
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Ironically from what I can tell the real cases are stopping because there are so many fake cases out there, and the ones who were really abused don’t want people to think they’re faking :( Having said which, of the women I know who have been abused a vast majority actually came forward. It’s the cases of male victims who are more reticent with coming forward.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 10:56 AM
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I’m not sure if the person who said the above was being deliberately obtuse in some of their answers or actually misread the questions. Some of the answers appeared as though they spent some time deliberating to give a balanced response. However, I’m not sure how they misunderstood the question regarding retroactively revoking consent. Revoking consent during the act is what they were basically responding to. So… person says yes initially, then changes their mind afterward. That is what the enti…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 11:50 PM
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Which is why it would be a closer comparison. Women are a lot less likely to die in childbirth now than even fifty years ago.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 11:08 PM
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I happen to agree with what Desrt333 is asserting, even though I am a woman. Segregation only separates, it doesn’t stop the fear. As far as sending anyone home late at night, I wouldn’t suggest doing that half dressed whether male OR female as it asking for trouble. Whether it be from harassment (which can come from either gender) or from being stopped by police because it’s “suspicious behaviour” is just generally a bad idea. I have known many women and girls who were terrified when walking do…
/r/MensRights27/12/21 11:00 PM
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Some people go overboard with their reactions. Sometimes it is for spurious reasons (TV made me do it) and sometimes it is because of something that actually happened to them in the past. My first thought with your comment (someone else’s comfort isn’t my responsibility) was from my own past and didn’t actually involve people. I used to have a cat. He had an attitude, and he was not small (over 10kg/22lbs) We lived in the industrial section of town, above a warehouse. Our cat (named Mule because…
/r/MensRights20/12/21 11:03 AM
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I think that’s the basis of a lot of these problems. This agenda has been pushed so hard for so long that western society itself now seems to disregard men as a whole. I lived this as an individual - I would suggest something to my parents and it was automatically disregarded, but as soon as my older brother suggested it, the idea was praised and implemented. My parents weren’t even aware that they were doing it, it wasn’t deliberate, they just had so much more regard for him in a business sense…
/r/MensRights10/11/21 06:41 AM
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Not trying to ridicule YOU for anything. The people who are so shallow as to stalk someone to see what other subs they follow and try to ridicule them are, I’m presuming, from a gene pool of a similar depth to their actions. Personally I think it was a smart move to disable access to the subs you follow as it reduces your getting harassed. Hopefully. I do hope that you don’t believe that I am trying to ridicule you. In my opinion there is nothing from your actions to ridicule. If I did somehow c…
/r/MensRights12/10/21 05:33 AM
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They obviously didn’t have much of an argument if all they could do was stalk you and complain about places you’d been rather than the points you made.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 05:18 AM
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The sad thing is that they don’t get the irony that they may fight for women’s rights, stating they seek equality, but rail against people fighting for men’s rights, who are also looking for equality. The majority of what I see in this forum are simply people who want everyone treated equally.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 05:16 AM
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Apparently I don’t exist then? Either that or my husband miraculously returned to life. In which case I really hope he finds his way home as we miss him!
/r/MensRights04/10/21 03:24 AM
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My husband was definitely an emotional wreck. He never fully recovered. Under most circumstances if he had an issue with someone showing aggression he would walk away. In the case of this relationship, they had a child together that he was trying to protect. Even with proof that she was the abuser, the system in New Zealand basically protects the mothers rights over everything else. In reality, if I hadn’t met the people concerned, I would not have believed what he was saying. Unfortunately, hav…
/r/MensRights28/09/21 06:59 AM
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Because of the accusations against Johnny Depp, many movies he is in have basically been blacklisted in places like Facebook. I’m presuming the OP found he couldn’t share his enjoyment of The Professor for that reason
/r/MensRights27/09/21 10:51 AM
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I thought they’d continue the harassment even if he did move after winning?
/r/MensRights27/09/21 10:40 AM
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I can’t tell you how it is for everyone, but I can tell you how my husband explained the times he was raped by one of his exes. Firstly, as a child he was taught that women were sacrosanct, that under no condition was he to ever hurt a woman. He was taught this to the point where even though he was 6’6” several of his partners actively physically abused him. Secondly, there was a consistent verbal and emotional abuse. He was told over and over that he was worthless. Thirdly, when the abuse got t…
/r/MensRights27/09/21 10:34 AM
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The above specifically stated that they only included figures pertaining to Mother and Father - foster parents, day care workers etc were all removed from the numbers. Whether or not they are only including parents living together, step parents etc as well - they will make a difference to the final figures also.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 05:42 AM
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Unfortunately he passed away nine years ago. It was something he never fully recovered from :( I am grateful that he managed to recover enough trust so we could have a life together, even though his was far too short :(
/r/MensRights04/07/21 01:55 AM
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I have to say that I personally feel that you see it as “kind of funny” now because you’ve never been able to deal with it as the serious business that it is. It’s a case of laugh or cry, and you’ve decided to laugh. Whatever helps! The piece of trash who did this to you really should face some time behind bars :(
/r/MensRights04/07/21 01:28 AM
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My husband was raped by one of his exes multiple times. She would beat him with a plank of wood until he capitulated. She would threaten to take their son away if he did anything. When he finally went to the police he was laughed at. They told him it was not a crime (at the time the law stated that rape could only be committed by males) and to go to Rape Crisis. So he went to Rape Crisis, where THEY laughed at him and told him that if he got hard at all it was consensual and it was impossible fo…
/r/MensRights04/07/21 01:20 AM
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The problem in the article, I think, lies in that the author may not know that there is a basic difference between misogyny and misandry. They may believe that the term is not about one gender or another. Heck, even my autocorrect doesn’t have a clue that the word misandry exists, which says something in itself.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 10:09 PM
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Just as an aside, I insist my father calls me when he has gone to an out of town appointment so that I know he has returned safely. I’m not worried so much about personal attacks etc but long drives can be risky, and crashes are common. So, in my experience at least, people contacting to say they arrived home safely is a simple courtesy to let people who may worry know that all is well. Nothing to do with gender.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 02:02 PM
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I know of one situation where the mother would throw the baby across the room and it would bounce off the wall and land in the cot. The father and child both had bruising. The father would lock himself in the room while she would rage against the door in order to protect his child. However, she went to a womens crisis centre and complained that he was abusing her. He was forced out of the house (which he was paying for), she got the child and he wasn’t allowed access until it went to the courts.…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 05:39 AM
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My concern is that if she does this to her husband over minutiae like Oreos, then what happens once the child is born? Will she throw the child at the wall if it is crying too much? Will she attack the child for taking Oreos? If she threw something so hard at the husbands as to give him multiple stitches and does the same to a child… how well do you think the child would fare? Would this be another case of “oops, sorry Your Honour I didn’t mean to kill my baby, he just ate the last of my Oreos a…
/r/MensRights21/06/21 11:33 PM
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Ms Scarlet says she is advocating for everyone in the family, fathers, grandfathers, aunties etc who may be special in a child’s life. Maybe add a Special Persons Day into the calendar instead of removing the one day that celebrates fathers and the very important influence they hold with their children. Fathers Day celebrates not only fathers but grandfathers, step fathers and foster fathers too! My sons would do anything to get their father back (he passed away in 2012). Even though he is gone …
/r/MensRights05/06/21 08:31 AM
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It can get worse. I know one man with an intellectual disability who ended up with jail time because his daughters therapist accused him of molesting his daughter. When the police asked why she believed he had done it, she replied that he was creepy. She had no evidence - just said that he looked weird and creepy. Even with such spurious evidence he was still found guilty because in the courtroom he admitted to tickling his daughter and accidentally touched her butt cheek once when she buckled h…
/r/MensRights16/05/21 02:14 PM
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Why would someone automatically presume educating your daughters would be victim blaming? Males are often victims as well, and the perpetrators are not always male… or are those female abusers victims as well? Abusers and victims can be both male and/or female. Both genders need protecting and both need educating. I’m not sure why this is even an argument. Sorry… I forgot myself for a moment. Sometimes I need reminding about the number of morons out there. I keep hoping naïvely that they’ll lear…
/r/MensRights14/05/21 02:03 PM
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Hopefully she didn’t get pregnant so the boys don’t have to pay child support? Four years. One year per boy. I know they are teenagers, but teenagers are highly susceptible to coercion and can be easily groomed by a trusted adult. If these had been teenage girls, would the adult have been given one year per child (likely to be reduced for good behaviour)? …and the excuse of not knowing it was illegal? Really?
/r/MensRights13/05/21 12:34 AM
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It is known that some women have had orgasms while being raped. These women often feel disgust at themselves because of it, and it is known to cause mental health issues for long periods afterward. The sad part is that while this is known and supposedly understood, the same people who reportedly understand that also seem to scream that men cannot get an erection while being raped. Erections are a basic bodily response. The man does not need to be sexually aroused in order to get an erection. Hec…
/r/MensRights12/05/21 10:06 PM
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Sadly I believe you meant “unless you molest a boy”?
/r/MensRights12/05/21 09:48 PM
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My husband went to a boys only high school. One boy was bashed so hard he ended up paralysed. Another boy had the staff so intimidated that the staff didn’t argue when he brought a shotgun into the school workshop to saw off the end. While I agree that boys only schools can really make a huge difference for the boys… I cannot agree that there is a complete lack of all physical and verbal violence in all boys schools. Having said which… having lived through a girls only school myself… girls defin…
/r/MensRights12/05/21 12:12 PM
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I just have to say that, even though I am female, no longer young, and definitely overweight, I personally believe that the (female dogs) who post stupidity about men being lesser beings have serious issues. Most of them to do with self esteem and just generally being incapable of looking at other people as what they are. People. OP - from what I can tell from what you have written, you seem like a great person. One truly deserving of every joy you can accrue. I wish you all the best, and hope t…
/r/MensRights12/05/21 07:33 AM
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The frustrating thing about this definition (bedside the obvious) is that if a man is forced to penetrate a woman, which CAN happen, then the one in trouble is the man. Even though the man was the victim.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 06:00 AM
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I wouldn’t suggest suing. I would suggest gathering evidence and trying to get her arrested for sexual assault and possibly false accusation (although she did not make an accusation to the police so that may not work. Maybe defamation/slander instead)
/r/MensRights16/04/21 05:55 AM
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I agree with this. Try asking her to talk, ask her why she pulled such a stunt and then record what she says in response. Tell her that her accusation has caused untold amounts of damage, that it has ruined your confidence and ability to have relationships. Remind her that you helped her after her break up in good faith, as a fellow human being who just wanted to help, and that her groping of you was sexual assault - which you never put a complaint in about. If she apologised for her groping of …
/r/MensRights16/04/21 05:51 AM
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If my sons want to masturbate they are welcome to it, just hopefully not in public (that includes a public area in our house, like the living room etc!) Unless it is medically necessary there is no way I could even consider circumcision, and even then I would be researching to ensure it was necessary and not just a “it will make a 0.000007% difference long term” thing.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 04:57 AM
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I do not want to upvote this SOLELY because the thought of what you have said is so disturbing. Unfortunately I can do easily see this as being real :( Honestly the law and society suck in all sorts of ways and the ones who seem to see the loopholes and benefit tend to be the sick demented types.
/r/MensRights19/02/21 10:42 PM
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From what I have seen she likely will not even get that proverbial slap on the wrist.
/r/MensRights19/02/21 10:13 PM
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I don’t see it as a celebration, more of a ‘someone has responded to a sexist rule and made it apply across genders, thus removing the sexism’ thing
/r/MensRights17/02/21 05:17 AM
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I was pondering the concept of a titty twister challenge...
/r/MensRights15/02/21 08:49 AM
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So... if a father is in jail for petty theft and the mother is convicted of child molestation will the children stay with the mother in jail?!
/r/MensRights23/01/21 09:45 PM
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My husband was raped. He tried to report it but was literally laughed out of the police station. He went to a rape crisis centre and they laughed him out of their office after telling him it was impossible for a woman to rape a man. He spoke with many other men over the years about his experiences and over three quarters of the men he spoke with had ALSO been raped by a woman in the past. Not one of them had even attempted to report it, most were embarrassed to admit it, and almost all had refus…
/r/MensRights23/01/21 10:17 AM
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I was just thinking that since it is considered acceptable to have public lists of convicted sexual offenders, surely a public list of convicted false reporters should be acceptable as well? That way anyone wanting to date these people can see that they have a known history of false accusations and avoid them BEFORE getting close enough to them to be accused of something themselves. I am personally not a fan of the public list thing. I know of one man who has been put on one of these lists becau…
/r/MensRights27/12/20 05:45 AM
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Probably showing my ignorance here... but what the heck is ‘flair’ and how do they assign it when you cannot post?!
/r/MensRights14/12/20 05:31 AM
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Agreed. In many respects I am still way too naive for my age!
/r/MensRights02/11/20 12:09 PM
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Strictly speaking, I thought the title almost fit as the wife WAS the beater, right? It’s kind of like the “man eating shark” description. One meaning could be a shark that eats men (or humans in general). Another could be a man eating a shark. Same words, opposing definitions. Having said which, the headline made me think of her wearing a singlet/undershirt as in some places that is known as a wife beater. Probably not a good look for her though
/r/MensRights02/11/20 06:50 AM
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The problem is that if men’s rights are brought up as their own issue it then gets twisted into an anti women issue by people claiming it is so. I have seen people who have posted about men being the victims in domestic abuse situations and the threads explode with ‘but women are being abused MORE!’ No-one in the original posts tried to say it is only men who are abused. No-one tried to claim that men cannot be abusers. It was a simple post trying to raise awareness. Then it gets overrun by peop…
/r/MensRights12/09/20 12:44 AM
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I am glad that you were able to talk with your girlfriend about this encounter and also that you were believed. So often people are not believed and the perpetrator often manages to twist things to look like the victim was to blame. If you can, try to talk with a professional as you are in danger of having to deal with PTSD. The fact that you are constantly reliving the encounter suggests this may be a possibility. You are more than justified in your feelings. It is okay to not be okay. It is no…
/r/MensRights29/08/20 01:41 AM
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What I find fascinating is that even though it appears common for abusers to claim to be the victim (especially when the abusers are female) in almost all the cases I know of personally the abuser is believed while the victim isn’t. I used to think that this was a force of personality thing... but I cannot see that being the case here. Maybe the force of personality thing is only with male abusers (the cases of men abusing spouses but people believing him appear to be men who have the personalit…
/r/MensRights07/07/20 11:53 PM
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Both you and the OP are much better off without toxic crap like that in your lives!
/r/MensRights18/03/20 12:40 AM
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I’m confused. Why do people get paid compensation payments? I mean I’m fairly certain the rapists themselves aren’t paying out compensation. Thus leaving it to who, the Government? I have been raped. My rapist was jailed. That, to me, was compensation. Yes, it has taken years to deal with things emotionally, but money cannot fix what I went through, and others have gone through. What DOES need to be fixed is the attitude many have to rape. Some people (mostly younger women from what I can tell) …
/r/MensRights18/03/20 12:34 AM
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My opinion is that if men cannot vote unless they have joined the armed forces then women should be held to the same rules. Or, if women can vote without being conscripted then men should enjoy the same rights. It confuses me why laws could be gender specific.
/r/MensRights18/03/20 12:19 AM
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My husband went through something similar with his first partner. She would hit him with a piece of 2 by 4. He was 6’6” but had been taught to never hit a girl. She ended up forcing him to do things sexually with her that he couldn’t stomach (eating her out while on her period etc), and beating him when he balked. It got to the point where he had to force himself to get semi hard to service her as he couldn’t naturally get hard around her. He tried to file a complaint at the police station, but …
/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:45 AM
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I recently took a train seat with my bag... however that is because I had my sons assistance dog under the seat and she takes up the area below both seats. Having said which, if the train had not been mostly empty I would have insisted that my son sit in the seat instead of in the seat next to us with his older brother. That way the bag would have been on my lap and there would have been a spare seat next to my older son. So, I guess it isn’t quite the same? I also refuse to ask someone to give …
/r/MensRights24/11/19 05:25 AM
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Politeness is nice. However it is leagues away from respect. You can be polite to someone who you have no respect for. However it is hard to respect someone if they have screwed you over (even if they did it politely!) It is also hard to respect those who let others screw them over.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 06:01 AM
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I like the quotes as well. I personally believe everyone should be taught respect. Not for gender, race, age or what-have-you. Just respect. If someone does something to break your trust then feel free to chuck respect out of the window for that particular person!
/r/MensRights10/09/19 04:35 AM
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Personally I found the title fairly upfront about the content... Father loses custody of child to a mother who is known to be deficient with her parenting. Judge did not even read the evidence before making the decision. Child dies while with mother (presumably due to mother having custody) father criticises the judge and the courts. Judge sees it and gets him jailed for ‘threatening’ her. He is let out on bail, gets back on social media to complain about the court system and is thrown back in j…
/r/MensRights08/09/19 04:07 AM
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I guess it is kind of like saying that if a person is pushed off a cliff into deep water and drowns it isn’t murder because the person doing the pushing didn’t actually kill the person outright. The water did that! If a person is forced to have sex they have been raped, and the person doing the forcing has raped them. It doesn’t matter what gender either party is. I would have thought that was a pretty basic concept.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 11:35 AM
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I’m not sure that anyone displaying this much hatred should own animals.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 04:29 AM
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I see two points here. Firstly the Amber alert system is used to try to quickly get children back in cases of true kidnapping, the thought behind it is a good one. However it is OBVIOUSLY being misused by unscrupulous parents against their ex partners because... well, they can. Most of these unscrupulous parents get away with this by falsely declaring full custody, concern for the child etc. So, the second point, which may seem to be an obvious one also, is that the system needs correcting. One …
/r/MensRights23/03/19 01:04 AM
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So the figures for false accusations come from those numbers they actually exclude? It may work for some but not all. Look at how many convicted of rape are eventually released years later because someone finally admitted they had lied. Not to mention the numbers never found out because the accuser is never found out. The same goes for undeclared rapes. How can people know the numbers? It is a guess at best. My husband was raped and beaten by his first girlfriend. She would physically pick up th…
/r/MensRights28/02/19 09:06 PM
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Agreed about the evidence. Use hidden cameras in the nursery, main living areas etc, put audio recorders in places where privacy may be an issue (no need to be accused of trying to get naked images etc without consent) If these can be uploaded to the cloud etc all the better. In any abusive situation involving children the more evidence you have, the better your chances. Do not give police the only copy, as copies can ‘disappear’! If there is any physical signs of injury, particularly bruising, …
/r/MensRights27/02/19 08:40 PM
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If I could have, I'd have upvoted that a heck of a lot more than the once LOL
/r/MensRights01/10/10 01:08 AM
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The story specifically stated that it was an illegally hidden taping and that he didn't know about it. It ALSO stated that it was streamed live online. Thus, the girls who knew about the recording had to have been the ones who either put it online or arranged for it to be streamed live. If the girls hadn't known about the recording, chances were they'd have tried to make a legal defence along those lines, at least to put to the media.
/r/MensRights01/10/10 12:30 AM
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There are couples where the woman is physically more imposing than the man, and thus more powerful. They aren't as common as larger male/smaller female, but they exist, and of those couples, a percentage of women do abuse their partners.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 11:47 PM
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Unfortunately, women abusing men is socially acceptable in the media. Watch many generic television shows, and you'll find women hitting, punching, smacking, screaming at or otherwise abusing men. They won't show men doing the same because it isn't acceptable that men abuse women and they will get complaints and potentially get taken off the air for doing so. The media needs to start actually seeing violence by women against men as being unacceptable before this will change, and the only thing t…
/r/MensRights30/09/10 10:49 PM
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When crazyex says document everything, that should be taken as the following: Every day you have the child, make sure you note down the day, time you have him etc. If the mother takes him, note down the date and time she takes him. If she says what they're planning on doing, take that down too. If you find out your child has been taken to someone elses place to be looked after while she goes out, write down where he was taken, what time he was taken, and how long he was there for. If she picked …
/r/MensRights19/09/10 02:23 AM
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The process of adoption basically means the biological parents legally sign away their rights to their child, so that other people can take over that responsibility. What the OP is asking is the following: if it is legally possible to sign away your rights (and responsibilities) to a child in order to have that child adopted by someone else, why do fathers who had NO SAY in whether or not that child was born, have no rights to go to the courts and sign away their rights (and responsibilities) to…
/r/MensRights18/09/10 11:12 PM
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What part of that story even remotely indicates that false accusations by women are rare? Heck, this only proves that there are women out there who will do permanent damage to themselves and blame someone else, for basically no reason except to get some attention! When it comes to revenge, many women have "false accusations" high on their list of options - particularly when it comes to accusations of theft, rape, assault etc. i know of too many men who have been accused of abusing a woman or chi…
/r/MensRights18/09/10 10:42 PM
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Where did I say that men, on average do not possess more strength? YOU have said on multiple occasions that men are more threatening than women. I have merely stated that this is not always the case, and have stated my own experience. If you have no experience with violence, all the more power to you, but stating a known piece of propaganda as reality? Why do you feel that is is NOT a lie to say that men are more likely to abuse than women? In my opinion, it's flawed logic to look at something y…
/r/MensRights18/09/10 06:23 AM
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You say "girlbunny" as though you're insinuating something. The last I checked, I was female - and I'm presuming that you think, because I'm not a blonde bimbo who swoons over your toadying, or a feminist who believes all men are evil - that I'm male. Sorry, but I was born female, and remain one to this day. I have given birth to four children, and I believe that men have had a pretty hard road of things in recent decades. I have spoken to several men in the past - usually bringing up my SO's ex…
/r/MensRights18/09/10 02:13 AM
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If they were being PC, they'd have agreed with you. It's politically correct to say that all men are rapists, and all women are victims. Both men and women can be physically intimidating. I know of many couples where the women are far larger than their partners, and of those, at least two where the woman was physically abusing their spouse on a regular basis. I've also lived in areas where the women are actually, in general, larger and more aggressive than the men. So no, I wouldn't say that men…
/r/MensRights17/09/10 09:44 PM
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Not to seem too forward here... but I'm actually wondering if you are suffering from a form of depression. I could be wrong, and it is impossible to diagnose off a post and short comment... but if you haven't followed that route, perhaps you can look into it? It really does seem as though you have a wife who is willing to support you through a lot, and if these feelings are caused by depression, perhaps getting help can help both you, and your relationship. Just a thought.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 02:08 PM
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From what I've seen, telling the truth all the time seems to be considered anti social. I know too many people who have trouble lying who have very few friends, no matter how pleasant they are. A lot of social "conditions" seem to affect a persons ability to lie. So yes, society does seem to NEED a base level of lying. The legal system does encourage women to lie more, since there is a real benefit to lying. Women especially can gain or lose things VERY easily with just a few words, and some see…
/r/MensRights11/09/10 01:34 AM
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The link was banned because it was a brand new account. People have been posting the same links multiple times only in the last week,with brand new accounts. This autoban setup needed to be put into effect. I haven't been on here for long, only recently signed up, even though I've been popping in for years. I expect to have to wait before I can post links. Why? Because of people like the manhood101 twerp. Because of trolls who deliberately come into the MensRights area just to be insulting. All …
/r/MensRights10/09/10 10:33 PM
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Regardless... because many cases of children being abducted by parents who do not have custody (or have 50/50 custody) have ended in children being killed... the parent who does NOT have the child still has reason to worry. Too many bitter parents have killed their children because they were... well, honestly I can't imagine WHY they do it, just know that it has been done in the past, and it will happen again in the future... hopefully far less often. In many child abduction cases, if the missin…
/r/MensRights10/09/10 02:35 PM
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Alas, kuppers, the rabid feminists don't seem to actually look into the wife beaters situations - they seem to think that all men beat their wives, and as such, that means that there is no mentality to it, it just exists. When you think about it, it's a terribly sad belief system. How horrible the world must be where 50% of the worlds population is out to get you, and 80% of the rest of them are supposedly brain washed and can't be trusted? I couldn't handle that way of thinking.
/r/MensRights10/09/10 09:46 AM
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Your obviously obtuse response shows the very reason the mens rights people write things the way they do. What I saw were people asking why the feminists had no problem with little boys or men being used as homosexual sex slaves, but they have an issue with women choosing to become prostitutes. It isn't that they're okay with women who are forced into sex slave roles, but that they are fully aware of the fact that MANY prostitutes (no, not all!) choose to become prostitutes and enjoy their profe…
/r/MensRights09/09/10 10:37 PM
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The problem isn't prostitution itself, but that people seem to think child prostitution is okay just so long as it isn't little girls. People in this thread don't seem to be talking about keeping CHILD prostitution - which in many places is already banned... but when prostitution itself contains two consenting adults - where's the problem?
/r/MensRights07/09/10 11:35 PM
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The original feminists were after equality. I have seen feminists who originally fought for equality fighting for mens rights more recently, because they see the inequality that has arisen. The new rabid feminists were all born into a life where they were NOT disadvantaged, they were given everything the original feminists wanted, but wanted more. Basically, with the rabid feminists around today they won't be happy until men are permanently confined to small cells and only allowed out for long e…
/r/MensRights07/09/10 12:43 AM
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Unfortunately, the media and society in general still see sexism as "men against women" rather than an inequality of behaviour toward or against the genders. When people grow up with a certain view thrust upon them, most of them will actually believe that it is right, and just. That doesn't make it either right OR just, it only makes it socially acceptable. Nowadays, it's considered socially acceptable for women to slap, punch, kick or otherwise abuse men. It's socially acceptable for girls to s…
/r/MensRights07/09/10 12:32 AM
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