girlgurufordudes Archive

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4	So I Suck At Texting Women The secret to being great at texting women or anyone is to ask open-ended engaging questions. Rather than trying to entertain instead, show a genuine interest or curiosity in getting to know who they are. Most people don't feel seen or heard but this is the true essence of connection. My suggestions would be the following: 1) Google something like, "interesting questions to ask a girl" OR just be sure to start each question with Who, What, When, Where, How, or Why... 2) whether you know this gir…	/r/seduction	23/04/22 02:03 PM
1	I'm in autism spectrum and i have trouble flirting Ask questions about the person. Make them open-ended questions (rather than yes or no questions, which tend to lead to a dead end in the conversation). An example is questions that start with who, what, where, when, and why. These questions can dig a bit deeper and allow people to talk about themselves, which people generally love to do. 😂 To keep things more balanced so you're sharing things about yourself too, you can start by telling the person how you think/feel about something that you're r…	/r/seduction	18/04/22 03:05 PM
2	Do you need social media for modern dating? You don't need social media at all! In fact, I'd (F) find it super intriguing and more attractive if a guy didn't have social media.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 10:38 PM
2	How to stand out in a crowd? When talking to women, be genuine. Be interested in what they have to say. Ask interesting questions. Open up a bit about yourself. Female here. One of my exes read every single PUA document & book and watched every single video on seducing women that he could think of. It might work for some. But none of that canned shit worked on me. It took him months of trying it until he started actually getting to know me on a deeper level. He might be my ex now because he's poly and I'm not. But he's stil…	/r/seduction	03/04/22 01:53 PM
1	What's the truth about height? As a woman who is 6'3", whether my partner is taller or shorter than me is a non-issue. What matters most is if they're a good person (and also, chemistry, compatibility, trust, mutual respect, etc). Most of the men I've dated have been shorter than me. What the solid ones had in common was confidence. For some women height matters. And for some men height matters. Just remember, if someone has an issue about something that CAN'T BE CHANGED, it's their issue and they're not the one for you.	/r/seduction	29/03/22 10:56 PM
1	I haven’t been on a date in 12 years and have no friends Have you tried Bumble BFF?	/r/seduction	27/03/22 04:46 PM
5	Does every girl inevitably goes cold, lose interest and break up? This might be painful to hear (read) but if it keeps happening - what is the common denominator? It might be time to reconsider some of the dating methods you've always used. This probably sounds harsh, but if we focus on ourselves (instead of blaming others) - it's actually kind of empowering. Is ghosting fair? Nope! Are break-ups painful? Absolutely! But believe it or not, YOU have the power to change this. Successful dating starts with self. DM if you're interested in learning more. Truly wis…	/r/seduction	26/03/22 09:15 PM
1	Venting about interest levels. Hope some of you can relate/give advice. Hey there, that sounds pretty disheartening. Curious about the content of the messages. Women want tofeel your interest in getting to know them on a deeper level. My advice is to Google some thought-provoking, open- ended questions to really keep the conversations stimulating and engaging. Keep asking these (in every response message) until there is a solid back and forth and then, include a date invite. Hope something helps, my friend. Wishing you all the best!	/r/seduction	24/03/22 10:50 PM
1	How to be confident if you can't back it up? True confidence is internal, not based on external factors. As a woman, I've definitely experienced a lack of confidence. But there are ways to boost confidence inwardly while working on external factors. If I'm only focusing on qualities or situations that I DON'T like, it will negatively impact the way others perceive me, ESPECIALLY in dating. But if I know and believe that I've got qualities that are amazing - other people will pick up on that positivity and internal confidence and will be & …	/r/seduction	16/03/22 02:58 PM
2	having success by literally just talking to women My response to another comment within this thread. Sharing because I think it applies here too. "Definitely understand your point. Just treating women like guys can land a guy in the friend zone. So, I agree - interest needs to be communicated early on. Buuut, my advice is to show authentic interest in getting to know her initially. That alone can take a woman from being "on the fence" to being receptive. Whereas, making moves on a woman from the jump, looking at her ass and tits instead of her …	/r/seduction	17/02/22 05:44 PM
3	having success by literally just talking to women Great question! I recommend to my clients to Google something like "thought-provoking questions" and ask those either over text or in person. Then, ask follow-up questions if you're genuinely interested in knowing more. This can be something like, "what's your favorite thing in the world and why?". Basically you want to steer away from mundane questions like, "what do you do for work?" or "do you come here often?", and other closed-ended questions (with a "yes" or "no" answer). Challenge her. Ma…	/r/seduction	17/02/22 04:56 PM
4	having success by literally just talking to women Glad to hear that it's reassuring! I know what you mean.😂 Thanks for the follow! 😊	/r/seduction	16/02/22 09:41 PM
10	having success by literally just talking to women As a woman who has been both a hot 20 year old AND a hot 40 year old (currently), a guy actually treating a woman like a human (instead of a hole) is VERY refreshing. Keep doing what you're doing because it works.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 06:26 PM
1	having success by literally just talking to women Definitely understand your point. Just treating women like guys can land a guy in the friend zone. So, I agree - interest needs to be communicated early on. Buuut, my advice is to show authentic interest in getting to know her initially. That alone can take a woman from being "on the fence" to being receptive. Whereas, making moves on a woman from the jump, looking at her ass and tits instead of her eyes, and only making sexual or physical comments without getting to know her a bit will typicall…	/r/seduction	16/02/22 06:23 PM
69	having success by literally just talking to women Women are constantly bombarded by men who clearly just want sex. Would you be more attracted to a woman who is obviously just using you for free dates or to a woman who genuinely wants to get to know you? For women, it can be INCREDIBLY erotic (and panty-soaking) when a guy authentically tries to get to know us on a deeper level. In fact, healthy, high-quality women won't settle for anything less.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 03:30 PM
1	[deleted by user] Why do you think you wouldn't? That's why I started a dating coaching business for men and wrote a 100+ page ebook. I've got plenty of secrets that I share with clients and within my book. 😊 If you're not into that, that's okay too. I do comment on various subs with some of my perspectives.	/r/seduction	29/01/22 03:02 PM
2	[deleted by user] I'm a woman and I see your point but I disagree. I love talking on the phone with a boyfriend. But when I'm in the initial dating stages - I have a pretty strict filtration process that a guy needs to "pass" first. My method for determining compatibility in the early stages is by analyzing how, when, and what a guy is texting me. I have unique questions to get to know him and see if we're a match before talking on the phone or agreeing to a date. Call me a hardass but that's why my coaching clie…	/r/seduction	28/01/22 06:33 PM
3	Approaching girls in groups in clubs/loud venues? Eye contact can be very seductive. If possible, hold each woman's gaze until she looks away first. This might feel uncomfortable at first and if so, I'd recommend trying this with other men or women you're less attracted to first. Your confidence with people (in general) will build and you can gradually work your way up to making eye contact with every woman, even super attractive ones. If and when eye contact goes well in a club or loud venue, you can approach and ask an open-ended conversation…	/r/seduction	25/01/22 04:14 PM
2	What’s the best way to make girls chase you? Google "thought-provoking questions" and ask her. Most girls don't get much depth in terms of interactions and we thoroughly welcome someone who is trying to get to know us on a deeper level. Seduction of the mind is dope, yo.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 04:21 AM