girlindolor Archive

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1	Spontaneous sex drive vs Reactive Sex drive. The reason for misunderstandings between Men and women I barely consider myself a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:14 AM
1	Spontaneous sex drive vs Reactive Sex drive. The reason for misunderstandings between Men and women I would wonder what's wrong with him and try to get away asap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:10 AM
12	Spontaneous sex drive vs Reactive Sex drive. The reason for misunderstandings between Men and women Lol no, it's really weird to me that men can just look at someone and feel like they're in love. I need to get to know someone before i can potentially become attracted to them. Looks don't do anything for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 05:37 AM
15	Spontaneous sex drive vs Reactive Sex drive. The reason for misunderstandings between Men and women It's pretty incomprehensible to me too. How can you be attracted to someone just by the way they look?? You don't even know them. Weird that men work like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 05:13 AM
1	Q4WOMEN: Are there any sexual acts you used to do for exes or hook ups regularly that you won't do for your current partner? Also curious about this	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 01:38 AM
1	"If women select for the most attractive men, why aren't the unattractive ones bred out yet?" At least 50 percent of the western world uses Tinder, probably more. Source? This doesn't reflect reality at all for me and i'm sure you're just making it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 08:34 PM
3	Virgins are preferable for long-term relationships and marriage I personally wouldn't, but not because i judge him negatively as a person, and i would respect him for his values	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 06:50 PM
1	"If women select for the most attractive men, why aren't the unattractive ones bred out yet?" "People" aren't on tinder. Only a select few of people are and even then it's mostly men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 06:07 PM
1	I really really really hate it when men who hire prostitutes are conflated with the general male population and just referred to as "men" and not "clients" or "tricks." Sex workers have insight into a weird little freak show, not into the true nature of men. I'm a virgin, but i know that's the only "argument" you got because you're obviously wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 05:01 PM
4	Virgins are preferable for long-term relationships and marriage Ikr, with "everyone" they mean men and fellow promiscuous women. Wait until they find out virgin aren't dying to be with them and being with a woman just like themselves is the end of the world for them lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 02:10 PM
1	I really really really hate it when men who hire prostitutes are conflated with the general male population and just referred to as "men" and not "clients" or "tricks." Sex workers have insight into a weird little freak show, not into the true nature of men. And there actually has been a study conducted about men's attitudes towards a woman's sexual past and the majority of them don't care, proving you wrong. I prefer to stick with studies because you can't just dismiss them like you can dismiss statements, regardless of how obviously true they are like "grass is green", but no amount of evidence educates you guys and changes your mind bc you just want to believe what you wanna believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:56 PM
3	Virgins are preferable for long-term relationships and marriage It's a myth that women don't care. They actually care more than men about sexual past. I always was aware of that but it's nice to have it confirmed https://www.bustle.com/articles/97433-more-women-than-men-care-about-a-new-partners-sexual-history-says-new-study-and-over Far more women than men want to know about their partner's sexual past, according to a new study by sex toy company Love honey. Not only do 36 percent of women want to know the intimate details of their partner’s sexual past, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:36 PM
1	I really really really hate it when men who hire prostitutes are conflated with the general male population and just referred to as "men" and not "clients" or "tricks." Sex workers have insight into a weird little freak show, not into the true nature of men. You literally claimed that men with options pick low n women but celebrities are the epitome of men with options and they always date other celebrities who usually have a medium to high n, wouldn't what men "really" want be reflected in what men with options pick? They always pick attractive, young women, regardless of n count. Rich famous men with options even date openly promiscuous women all the time like cardi b, nicki minaj etc. It's clearly not as important to other men as it is to you, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:33 PM
1	I really really really hate it when men who hire prostitutes are conflated with the general male population and just referred to as "men" and not "clients" or "tricks." Sex workers have insight into a weird little freak show, not into the true nature of men. If it'd be hardwired then the majority of men would care, but according to studies the majority of men don't care and this is easily reflected in real life too. High value men with options literally almost always date other celebrity women who have had exes and sex before. Your point literally goes against reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:15 PM
2	I really really really hate it when men who hire prostitutes are conflated with the general male population and just referred to as "men" and not "clients" or "tricks." Sex workers have insight into a weird little freak show, not into the true nature of men. Nope, it's not somehow encoded in men's genes to want virgin/low n women, claiming that it is is just delusion and solipsism on your part, in reality the majority of men don't care. Studies show that women actually care more about sexual past than men do: https://www.bustle.com/articles/97433-more-women-than-men-care-about-a-new-partners-sexual-history-says-new-study-and-over Far more women than men want to know about their partner's sexual past, according to a new study by sex toy company Love …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 07:03 AM
1	I really really really hate it when men who hire prostitutes are conflated with the general male population and just referred to as "men" and not "clients" or "tricks." Sex workers have insight into a weird little freak show, not into the true nature of men. But it's male bIoLogY to want virgin women lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 06:47 AM
7	Virgins are preferable for long-term relationships and marriage Yeah, i find the hypocrisy of those men disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 06:27 AM
3	Are women becoming as much of a sex addict as men? And how do women separate themselves from their body in the act of sex? The fact that this is your only standard only proves how much more men value looks than women do but only braindead people would deny that anyway, by your own admission it's literally the main thing you value in women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 05:57 AM
2	Are women becoming as much of a sex addict as men? And how do women separate themselves from their body in the act of sex? What doesn't make sense? I'm just confirming that you have superficial looks standards as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 05:33 AM
4	Are women becoming as much of a sex addict as men? And how do women separate themselves from their body in the act of sex? But you require it, case in point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 04:50 AM
5	Are women becoming as much of a sex addict as men? And how do women separate themselves from their body in the act of sex? Yea, and for men it is a pretty face and nice body	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 04:46 AM
10	Virgins are preferable for long-term relationships and marriage I agree with all of this as a virgin woman, but it goes for both genders. I'll only marry a virgin man for these reasons, if i will marry at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 04:21 AM
4	Are women becoming as much of a sex addict as men? And how do women separate themselves from their body in the act of sex? And men say patriarchy doesn't exist and that women are the privileged ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 04:17 AM
1	"If women select for the most attractive men, why aren't the unattractive ones bred out yet?" Okay but aside from tinder it's not only Chad that has success on old. According to okcupid data women are more likely to talk to someone who's below their looks level. There is also a huge gender imbalance ratio on tinder and a significant amount of its female users are "liberal" women who are looking for hook ups. It's literally the worst possible way to gage your dating options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:45 PM
2	"If women select for the most attractive men, why aren't the unattractive ones bred out yet?" 99% of the world population doesn't have tinder but tell me more about how tinder is the only way to find someone lmao, you're on the same level of delusion as a flat-earther	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:35 PM
2	"If women select for the most attractive men, why aren't the unattractive ones bred out yet?" Ah yes the classic, it's like you guys can't conceive that there is a world outside of tinder and that humanity doesn't live on tinder	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:30 PM
0	"If women select for the most attractive men, why aren't the unattractive ones bred out yet?" Ugly men and women reproduce equally. Men who can get young and hot women get young and hot women, they don't bother with ugly women	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:22 PM
3	What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you? That would be my ideal relationship. Unfortunately men need initial physical attraction to feel "love" for a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:20 PM
-1	"If women select for the most attractive men, why aren't the unattractive ones bred out yet?" Ugly men reproduce every day. Get a grip of reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:15 PM
-3	Refusal to compromise on socio-economic standards will exacerbate the effects of "Golden Penis Syndrome". People (especially men) need to get over themselves and get some common sense and stop giving a shit about something as useless and meaningless as looks. You aren't gonna hang your partner to the wall as a decoration	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:09 PM
3	Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit? They're not even trying to dress it up. Most men here spout blatant blackpill and incel content. Every other post is a blackpill/incel post. The mods must be so used to it they don't see it anymore. They're definitely not following their own rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 03:48 PM
-2	Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit? This sub has literally turned into r/incels 2.0. It deserves to be shut down. It's amazing there are still women here with all the misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 02:05 PM
3	What's Your Reason For Coming On This Subreddit, And Why Did You Stay? Male larper detected	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:59 AM
1	If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have one I feel attacked	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:29 AM
2	If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have one Men will say shit like this and then cry about men getting body shamed lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:22 AM
4	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Not sure why people are giving you backlash, society is so brainwashed by the destructive teachings of liberal feminism that glorifies and praises women's looks and sexualization above anything else. If your sense of self-worth comes from your looks and the validation/desirability it gives you which is the case for many women, you're bound to become miserable when you inevitably lose your looks and therefore your entire self-worth. The way women are viewed as sex objects above all else desperate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 04:08 AM
2	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men The memes truly write themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 03:16 AM
2	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Women wouldn't have to do all that if men weren't obsessed with looks/beauty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 02:25 AM
3	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Why do you think male animals look better than female animals? (Aside from lions because male lion's manes do look majestic)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 02:21 AM
2	Simps have ruined the dating market. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think I know what narcissism and an avoidant-dismissive attachment style means and FDS has nothing to do with either of them. FDS is mostly calling out men's behaviour and advising women to not settle for men who are incapable of love/strict monogamy. You're just ascribing the "narcissist" buzzword to FDS women because they want a guy who puts in effort and because being alone is a better deal for wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 10:01 PM
3	Simps have ruined the dating market. There really is no problem when you can easily find a woman who's a decent person. If you don't believe that then you're being dramatic and are detached from reality. You're also presuming that putting up with amoral behaviour is the cause of that behaviour. Shitty people will always exist. You can either put up with them or not, that will not change the prevalence of them. A narcissist will still be a narcissist if no one puts up with them, they'll just be a narcissist who's chased everyone awa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 07:28 PM
1	Simps have ruined the dating market. No it doesn't, you just can date a woman who's a good person/partner rather than concern yourself with some individual women who aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 07:10 PM
1	Simps have ruined the dating market. Op (and a lot of manosphere men) literally say that if men put up with anything that women do it makes those women feel entitled and like they can do whatever they want. Have you never seen a man complain about this round these parts? But i'm saying that's not something they should worry about, they should just move on from those women and find a woman with a good personality, rather than trying to force those women to "act" better, which won't really work because their issues won't suddenly dis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 07:02 PM
7	Simps have ruined the dating market. According to studies men overestimate their attractiveness while women underestimate their attractiveness. It's men who have the inflated ego, not women. Poor gotcha attempt, bettee luck next time bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 06:47 PM
5	Simps have ruined the dating market. Not because it gives those men a sense of "entitlement" or "ego" and makes them undateable because of it, like op is saying and like i've seen many other men say. Even if no one would put up with those women they would still have the same issues, they wouldn't suddenly turn into good people that you could date which is what they seem to think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 06:40 PM
16	Simps have ruined the dating market. Why do you care if a man puts up with an abusive woman? She's not the kind of woman you'd wanna date anyway. At least this way you can easily rule those women out. And manosphere men always claim women have inflated egos but studies show every time women have lower self-esteem than men. They got it switched up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 05:27 PM
1	If a man uses his resources to attract women, does that make him a beta male? Well okay, you probably have an attractive personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 02:10 PM
2	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Most of them do think that because they don't understand women and project their sexuality onto us. And they see the minority of women who have casual sex and generalize all women as secretly wanting to have sex with attractive men, ignoring all the woman in relationships with average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 01:52 PM
2	If a man uses his resources to attract women, does that make him a beta male? That explains it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 01:18 PM
2	CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards. Lol r/madeupstatistics. Average men get into relationships literally all the time. Get out into the real world. A single app which most people don't even use can't possibly be "real life", you're beyond ridiculous	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 04:29 PM
4	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? There isn't a natural human drive to reproduce, when you compare us with animals it becomes obvious that we lack a purely biological reproductive drive because every animal reproduces or tries to reproduce, if humans had a reproductive drive we would be the doing the same, but there are so many people who don't want children that our higher cognitive function clearly has gotten rid of such a drive prompting us to reproduce. Deviations in of a species biology on such a large scale aren't possible…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 07:12 AM
2	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? It's not "unnatural". We have higher cognitive functioning than animals and can decide that we simply don't want children, as we aren't simply instinctively/biologically driven to reproduce like animals do, with no thought in the matter. Therefore there's nothing "unnatural" about not wanting children. It has nothing to do with anything you're saying, it's just a personal preference. And there's plenty of people who didn't grow up healthy and have children. Seriously, you have a severe case of s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 06:56 AM
3	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? Jesus christ, if solipsism was a person... You clearly don't know anything about childfree people if you think we actually do want children and we're just coping, that's an unbelievably presumptuous and ignorant belief. The number of people who don't want children is already high and only increasing and birth rates are heavily plummeting. People who don't want children aren't just found in these subreddits btw. They're everywhere. It's clearly more normal than you think. And no, there is not any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 06:40 AM
4	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? It’s wired into our genes to want human company and want children. r/antinatalism r/trueantinatalists r/childfree It's clearly not "wired into our genes" to want children, so many people who don't want them, it's a personal desire whether you want children or not. Stop being so presumptuous	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 06:16 AM
6	CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards. There's a world outside of tinder, it's literally just an app and you think a single niche app which 99% of people don't use is somehow represenative of the entire world LMAO	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 05:41 AM
2	If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women? Please make this comment into a post👏🏻👏🏻🏆	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 05:28 AM
1	If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women? No, this is a popular manosphere take but it's extremely ignorant and detached from reality. Look at this comment citing studies which disprove your made up world view. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qvvade/if_high_n_count_men_are_hypocritical_for_wanting/hl4iadm?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Low n women overwhelmingly want low n men and high n women have no problem with high n men, all of my female friends are put off by high n men, because they're not hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 10:42 AM
3	What do you think are the worst and best dating platitudes? Relationships aren't about attraction, they're about love. If you think relationship are just about attraction a FWB is a better suit for you. Those kind of relationships are only about attraction	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 02:51 AM
2	What do you think are the worst and best dating platitudes? “Communication” breeds obligation, which kills desire. This is completely subjective, open communication about feelings/thoughts is a prerequisite for me in a relationship and it only makes me feel more comfortable and connected and therefore makes me desire him more	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 02:45 AM
0	What's the truth on how women perceive emotional men? Women rating stoic men on pictures as more attractive means they actually want to be with a stoic man irl, that's my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 12:49 AM
1	What's the truth on how women perceive emotional men? The first study says that women are attracted to prideful men because it shows high status, not because they're attracted to the emotion of pride itself. That means that if a guy was happy and high status they would still be attracted to him. And in the second study women only rated pictures, that doesn't correlate to what they actually want in a relationship, it doesn't mean that in a relationship women do not want men to express emotions and want a guy who's stoic all the time. From the study …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 11:48 PM
4	What's the truth on how women perceive emotional men? I agree with that. But even then dominant doesn't mean degradation/bdsm cuz a lot of people seem to confuse dominance with that 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 05:00 PM
3	What's the truth on how women perceive emotional men? Dominant =/= aggressive. And idk what you define as dominant, but most women these days want to be equal in relationships and want mutual levels of agreeableness, most women want the same freedom as men and don't want a guy making decisions for them. And the only women attracted to aggressive men have specific mental issues, its literally a form of trauma. Those are the exceptions that go for men who are just as psychologically fucked up as themselves. For MOST women, aggression is an immediate …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:48 PM
5	What's the truth on how women perceive emotional men? No, women who like stoic, aggressive or uninterested men are literally the exceptions	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:33 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread What about duck videos? https://youtu.be/vdnlptVP2B8	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/21 04:01 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Why would either of you ever wanna do that😭😭 why would he drench his d*ck in blood. People are so weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/21 03:58 AM
2	Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuate And what is women's sexuality according to you? Do you think women's ideal case scenario is fucking young hot Chads with ease for the rest of their lives if they could, which is male sexuality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/21 03:45 PM
-1	Q4W: Controversial Statistics Saturday: Do You Believe Marriage Benefits Men, and Would You Marry if You Were a Guy? It's only rigged against ugly women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/21 01:46 AM
1	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? A large body of evidence suggests that men experience sexual desire more strongly and more frequently than do women This is from the study you linked. So, a large body of evidence suggests that men have a higher sex drive than women. Exactly as i said and exactly as everyone knows. This is not up for debate. Even if testosterone did increase sex drive This is like saying "even if the world was round...". It's an age old fact in medical science that testosterone increases sex drive. You are basic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 09:41 PM
5	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? Liberal feminism literally pushes the narrative that prostitution and only fans is empowering, that the less clothes a woman wears the more empowered she is and the more she gets praised by liberal feminists, of course they logically push the narrative that casual sex is empowering as well, "sex positive feminism" it's literally in the name itself what they stand for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 09:16 PM
6	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? That might be your experience, but it's a well known indisputable medical fact that testosterone increases sex drive	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 09:09 PM
5	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? I never said that. But liberal feminism pushed the narrative that women having casual sex and sexualizing themselves is somehow "empowering"	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 08:56 PM
5	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? I think it is damaging for both men and women in the long run and it's in everyone's best interest to not have casual sex. But men generally want sex for the sake of having sex because they simply have a higher sex drive, if all men could easily get sex then most of them would have it, whereas many if not the majority of women have casual sex as a form of validation due to a lack of self-worth. It's just another indoctrination of mysoginistic brainwashing liberal feminism, which is i believe the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 08:54 PM
11	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? If those women repeat that "mistake" more than once, they're definitely low self-esteem and use sex as a form of validation, and they don't have the willingness or self-awareness to realize the cause of their behaviour. If someone feels like they got used for sex they won't put themselves through that again, unless part of them feels like that's all they deserve. I'm personally of the belief that casual sex is more harmful to women as a collective and it only benefits men	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 08:23 PM
21	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? I don't have casual sex but if i did i'd pick option 2, obviously, i wouldn't care that he's slightly less attractive than me. Any woman sleeping with someone knowing that he sees her as beneath him has serious self-esteem issues and needs therapy	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 07:40 PM
1	This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different cultures Sorry my sarcasm detector is having difficulties calculating whether you're being sarcastic or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 04:02 PM
1	This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different cultures Yes most men here are delusional blackpillers but the majority of blackpilled incels are white as evident by their own polls and personal experience. You seem to believe that men who have incel ideology are necessarily ethnic which isn't the case	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 03:52 PM
1	This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different cultures Most people here are white	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 02:50 PM
1	This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different cultures What country are you from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 02:46 PM
2	[Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do? Just marry a virgin woman. There are enough of them	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 03:47 AM
2	Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again? It always does😔😔	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 03:28 AM
3	Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again? Nothing bc i'm a permavirgin	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 02:54 AM
1	Do you value communicate in a relationship? True. Be real or begone	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 02:45 AM
0	[Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do? Either chemically castrate/sterilize every human from birth making both genders asexual. Or men become like women and cease to be attracted to beauty and love and value their wives for their character and values	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 02:22 AM
1	Do you value communicate in a relationship? Yea that's exactly how i am too, it's also why i really appreciate and respect famous people who are 100% true to themselves and unfiltered, like even if i don't necessarily support them i really value real people and i can't stand phony people	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 02:04 AM
1	Do you value communicate in a relationship? Constant, open, honest communication is essential to me personally. I experience emotions intensely so i just couldn't feel easy being with a guy who never expresses his emotions or thoughts, makes me feel like he's hiding them which makes me feel insecure. It's important to me that he lets me know when something is bothering him, whether it's about me, the relationship or something in his life. I also can't connect and bond with him on a deeper unless he opens up to me emotionally, i need that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 01:26 AM
3	Are relationships important for personal growth? Does that mean a man that lacks any sexual or relationship experience is seen as inferior, since nobody had an interest in them. Not to me personally, i've never had a relationship or any experience with a guy so i'd be a hypocrite to rule out a guy for the same thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/21 01:30 AM
5	What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances? Could you please post the links?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/21 01:07 AM
2	Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”? For all you know, we want to have sex immediately but we don't. Why? Bc of how men behave with women they have sex with so quickly. It's too simple. Why would anyone do something that has an adverse affect if they are genuinely interested?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 05:38 PM
13	Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”? How? Does it take years to figure out whether you like someone or not? An emotional connection will build in a few weeks/months if 2 people talk to each other a lot and get to know the important stuff about each other. An emotional connection basically means having feelings for someone, liking them a lot and wanting to spend time with them and sharing similar values/beliefs. I'm starting to think men are only focused on sex so they don't even develop actual connections with women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:53 PM
1	Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion. No, it just means that people are different. Sex drive does decrease with age. I'm sure there are many 40yr olds with minimal libido. You and those women probably have a high sex drive	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 06:00 AM
1	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? When they have a partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 05:38 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Biological human males are omnipresent but "men" are an extinct species. Every man thinks being a loving, respectful, protective man is being a "simp". I swear, every man excluding all the narcissists, pedophiles, and psychos is either a casual ""egalitarian"" mysoginist, a full fledged raging mysoginist, the onlyfans guy incapable of seeing women as people rather sex objects, or the guy who can keep a conversation with a girl but who lives off his porn and instagram models and thirsts after eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 05:19 AM
2	Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion. I don't even know how i possibly could've used your age against you	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:40 AM
3	Modern Settling Isn't Healthy Reality is actually the opposite of what you're saying, women would rather be alone than be with a guy they don't really like or who doesn't make a good partner, men are way more inclined to settle than women, it's actually women who have to worry about that	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:21 AM
3	Modern Settling Isn't Healthy It's not always easy to escape loneliness though so it makes sense that people would want a relationship. i do agree that a bad relationship is much worse than no relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:18 AM
1	Modern Settling Isn't Healthy Some people don't wanna live in loneliness	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 03:56 AM
2	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? It might be more common for men your age to not watch porn, but guys in their early 20s grew up with porn and they almost all watch porn	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:55 AM
1	Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion. How old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:08 AM
1	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? How would you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:08 AM
2	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? You insinuated that people only watch porn for new ideas or for "imagination" while masturbating, i just tried to explain that that isn't all there is to it and that it actually literally is your boyfriend/husband masturbating to other women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:08 AM
2	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? You're kinda making it sound like men watch porn only for "bad" reasons and women only watch porn for "good" or neutral reasons. Not really, i don't think women watch porn for "good/ neutral" reasons, if a man wouldn't want his partner to watch porn i'd find that just as reasonable too. I just wouldn't want my husband to masturbate to and lust after other women, that's it. And maybe "reason" was the wrong word, but men and women do experience watching porn differently for the most part	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:02 AM
2	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? I don't care how other women feel about their husband masturbating to another woman, if they're okay with that, that's up to them. Me personally, it would absolutely break my heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:39 AM
3	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? That's some next level luck! I hope you're happy together :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:29 AM
-2	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? Try telling the women who are hurt by the guy who they love masturbating to other naked women that he's just doing it "for ideas". You don't seem to understand male sexuality and the fact that men and women generally experience watching porn differently. Women typically don't watch porn and are solely turned on by the man. Men however are turned on solely by the woman. They watch porn because they want to see naked women and they want to see women being fucked, why would they just look at the sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:09 AM
2	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? ? Men who dont watch porn in a relationship are the only decent dudes for ltrs Men can have a sex drive and not watch porn when in a relationship, sex is a thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 11:03 PM
1	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? Watching porn is like a given, we have a sexual drive. You say this and then say men who don't watch porn are easy to find? Lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 10:58 PM
3	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? they could get it easily I don't know why you feel the need to deny the obvious, it's a well known fact that the vast majority of men watch porn. Why else would women complain about men's porn habits so much. Try being a woman and finding a guy who doesn't watch porn and then come back to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 10:47 PM
-1	Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion. Most don't. Sex drive lowers significantly/disappears with age for most people. Which happens at around 40/50 at the most	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 10:32 PM
3	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? That natural drive is fuelled by sex. If he killed sex he also killed that drive. A man can have a sex drive and not watch porn simultaneously, and want to spend his life with someone/start a family. But i'm agreeing with you that those men are like winning lottery tickets	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 10:28 PM
2	Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women? f such man is enlightened enough to strive beyond porn addiction, wouldn't he be strong enough to also forgo women, to finally chase his vision (which increasingly doesn't include a woman)? Why can't he do both? Why would a man who doesn't subdue himself with porn not want a relationship? If anything he'll desire to share his life with someone and he'll actually be able to have a happy, mutually respectful and loyal relationship. A guy who watches porn isnt capable of monogamy since his girlfrie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 10:06 PM
5	Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion. Exactly! Sex should just be a part of the relationship, if it's the one thing that your relationship depends on that sounds more like having an fwb more than having a life partner. People who think the most value their partner brings is sex clearly don't truly love each other as a person. They don't actually enjoy each other's company enough. This is why your wife/husband should be your best friend, someone you actually want to spend the rest of your life with. I think its weird how ending a mar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 08:33 PM
1	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? You're conflating having a sex drive with having a reproductive drive. Humans having a sex drive doesn't mean that humans have a reproductive drive. Many people who don't want to have children have a sex drive and still want to engage in sex, and having a sex drive is actually something that humans do biologically/naturally have, as asexual people are estimated to be less than 1% of the population. Less than 1% can be considered an anomaly like you're proposing. The ever increasing amount of peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 02:21 PM
0	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt The store i bought that furniture from is probably owned by a man, the CEO of its brand is probably a man, who else will i blame ??	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 04:28 AM
0	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt There's an epidemic of women suffering from internalized misogyny, yes. Women slutshame each other in front of men because there's an incentive to do so, to try to appeal to men or to a particular man. Men also talk shit about other men to a girl if they want to attract/impress her, they'll also use gendered attacks. When women slutshame that's typically why they do it, there's no other reason that men slutshame other than to dehumanize and devalue those women	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 04:17 AM
-6	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Women will usually publicly slutshame each other due to internalized misogyny (men hate sluts, so i hate sluts too, that will make men like me and respect me!). Men slutshame women because they genuinely don't even ascribe any human value to her. These differing underlying intentions make all the difference about which one is worse and more dehumanizing. Women only slutshame because men do it. Otherwise women wouldn't care, men decide what is "worthy" in women	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 03:38 AM
5	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt How is this blue pill?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 02:33 AM
18	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Men love them. If we could we’d have parties with nothing but our buddies and 100 sluts. Lmao, men love fucking them, and then demeaning them for giving them the sex that they wanted, laughing to each other about how easy she is. They don't see these women as humans and don't grant them basic human respect. But then again too many men arent even capable of seeing women as individual and equal human beings, they see women commodities that should exist to appeal to them, they can't respect women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 02:25 AM
31	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Men will always shame women for being promiscuous worse than women do, men are the ones who think a woman having casual sex makes her a used up whore with no value as a human, regardless if she's a good person or not. Women dont dehumanize other women that way. I could see that if a woman perceives another woman as a threat thats when she might "shame" her to the guy she likes (which men do too), which could be about anything and not necessarily about her promiscuity. But women dont reduce anoth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 01:43 AM
0	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? The fact that animals have a biological drive to reproduce and humans don't can literally be assessed through looking at animals' behaviour and our behaviour. The biological drive to reproduce in animals is the one and single thing that makes them reproduce, and every single animal reproduces (if it's physically capable) because animals actually have the set biological drive. If humans also had the biological drive to reproduce, then every single one of us would be similarly reproducing. But bir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 12:46 AM
1	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? My original point was more so about men who claim that a preference for low n count women is in men's "biology" which clearly isn't true at all. Even going with the evolutionary psychology argument the article disputes that claim: "an evolutionary approach to psychology does not imply that behavior is genetically determined" The basis for disgust for women who have higher n counts is something that can be more easily triggered in men due to evolution Do you actually have any proof of this? I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 11:44 PM
2	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? The low count preference yes can be heavily influenced by environmental factors but its basis is evolutionary. Do you have actual proof that a preference for low n women has any evolutionary basis? Considering the amount of men who don't care about n count in women, it can't be something that's part of male biology as a whole. That's not how biology works. If preference for low n count women was encoded in the DNA of every male that was born like you said, then it wouldnt be possible that there …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 07:52 PM
1	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? There is a biological drive for people of opposite sexes to reproduce with each other, but not every human experiences this drive (homosexual and asexual people). Humans don't have a biological drive to reproduce, there are many people who don't want to have children. Biological drives don't just pick and choose, if it was truly part of our biology as a species, then the drive would have to be present in all of us and there couldn't be so many childfree people. Wanting or not wanting kids is an …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 05:27 PM
0	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? This isnt really a response in regards to your question itself, but you've mentioned the "biology" aspect of the low n count preference as well, men in this sub mistakenly attribute people's personal preferences, in this case the low n count preference, on biology. A biological driving factor like we see in animals drives every male or female animal of that species. If it was truly biology that causes this preference then every man on earth would need to have the low n count preference, but in r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 05:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Who are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 02:28 PM
3	Debunking the narrative that men leave their sick spouse more than women. Even if the studies weren't conducted to prove that men leave sick spouses more, it's basic perception and common sense, you don't studies to point out the obvious. Like we all don't know that the majority of men struggle with being a caregiver to their own child to the point that there are infitine complains of women about their husband not helping enough, as if that's not an extremely common complaint, like we all don't know a woman in that situation, but we're supposed to believe that when th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 02:19 PM
2	Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals Correction, only men like hot partners more than less hot partners, that is not the case for women: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4011637/ In all four studies, both partners’ physical attractiveness was objectively rated at baseline and both partners reported their marital satisfaction up to eight times over the first four years of marriage. Whereas husbands were more satisfied at the beginning of the marriage and remained more satisfied over the next four years to the extent that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 01:42 PM
1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. And yet men cry all the time about how women "hate and mistreat" short men. A little ironic, huh. Should people receive basic human respect regardless of what they look like or not, or does that only count for men? And usually their anger stems from the few women with "only 6 feet" in their tinder bio which is an infinitesimally number of all women in general that represents nothing, and suddenly they screech about how short men are "discriminated" "hated" and "oppressed". They would probably th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 01:28 PM
2	Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4011637/ In all four studies, both partners’ physical attractiveness was objectively rated at baseline and both partners reported their marital satisfaction up to eight times over the first four years of marriage. Whereas husbands were more satisfied at the beginning of the marriage and remained more satisfied over the next four years to the extent that they had an attractive wife, wives were no more or less satisfied initially or over the next four y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 12:54 PM
2	Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals Their claims of women only wanting Chad is all projection and anyone with half a braincell can see that, they project their visual nature onto us. There's an even more brutal study that found that men's marital satisfaction was a function of their wife's level of attractiveness, and another study showed that women physically declining due to aging causes their husbands to be less happy in the relationship and more likely to be unfaithful. So much for the "unconditional love" of men	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 11:24 PM
4	Debunking the narrative that men leave their sick spouse more than women. Because the gender that can't even be bothered to do household chores or take care of their OWN child equally to help out their overworked, struggling wife, is suddenly going to have a personality transformation and take on the caregiver role when their wife gets a chronic, debilitating illness. Totally logical and consistent. Maybe when you prove yourselves to not be inconsiderate selfish bums and would actually give a fuck about your wife's feelings, your sanctimonious proposition would be mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 11:14 PM
11	Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals Men married to young and physically attractive women, that is those high in reproductive value, mate guarded them most intensely. In other words, men value their wives more if she's attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 10:06 PM
1	Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals It's okay! :) i think the ppl here could learn something from your humility lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 09:09 PM
1	Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him? I appreciate your politeness, but this is what i mean, your idea of a man who has value might not be my idea of a high value man and you're projecting your belief of what women onto me, women aren't a monolith and we all don't all feel and operate the same way and want the same things	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 09:07 PM
1	Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals That part of the study is in the comments	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 08:32 PM
9	Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals The study shows that men literally do the same thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 07:45 PM
4	Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him? And i don't think you'll believe me anyway regardless of what i say because men here typically think they know every woman on earth on an individual level	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 07:34 PM
-1	Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him? Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 05:49 PM
7	Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him? A guy being wanted by other women is such a huge and immediate turn off for me, if i already like him then seeing him get attention from other women literally makes me badly panic and feels like a punch in the gut and i would move on, i'm just way too insecure to handle anyone else liking him and i'm extremely sensitive to rejection, my ideal relationship would be with a guy who no other woman cares for	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 05:21 PM
1	Benefits of Feminism Mega-Thread r/fourthwavewomen	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 04:37 PM
1	Benefits of Feminism Mega-Thread "Feminism is bad even though it is the the movement that gave women basic human rights but me being able to have my designated wife as property is more important than women having human rights" anti-feminists are truly psychopaths and lost to madness	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 04:33 PM
1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. I think it it's more like men hate low quality women BINGO👏🏻👏🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 03:02 PM
1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. here's an experiment, go ask people in public what a pick me even is and report back here with the results Um why would i need to do that? I'm more than aware of what a pick me is, and i see them on every corner of the internet. They're abundant. They definitely outnumber male feminists. And you're still missing the point, feminism was CREATED by exclusively women. There are only some male "allies" but no female rights movement is created and run solely by men. Which is what you hilariously expe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 12:42 PM
1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. Then you haven't been paying attention. There's a tragic amount of female pick-me's, they're everywhere. Much more then there are male feminists. And again, feminism was created by women, not men. My point is that men as a collective have never come together to stand up against female issues, which is what you expect from women. Throughout all of history you've never gave a shit about us and let us fend for ourselves despite our notorious oppression and now you expect women to "include" you like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 12:03 PM
1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. If you're going to make that comparison then there is no shortage of female pick-me's either. Feminism was created by women, not men	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 11:49 AM
0	Potentially radical opinion - the best way to escalate from a friendzone is to be a genuine friend. That would definitely be the ideal for me. I would personally want my boyfriend/husband to be my best friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 05:50 AM
2	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. I mean, if you're a white person you're clearly not qualified to speak on non-white people's experience with racism. How could you ever know? You're dismissing something that you have no direct experience with, it's easy to dismiss someone when you're not in their shoes. Do you believe that you have the right to marginalize racism, that you're the one who can decide how "bad" it really is? Do you think that Western people are accepting enough already of other races, so nonwhite people should sto…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 12:32 AM
3	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. Are you seriously pretending that white people in white countries face the same extent of racism as minorities? That reality is the exact same for those 2 groups of people when it comes to racism? You need to accept that there are people in the world with struggles that you may not have, but i guess that's impossible for the gender who needs to be the victim at all times	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 11:41 PM
-4	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. This isn't about "men's feelings" this is about what reality is for women, the same way that white people's feelings don't matter when they don't get included in a movement against racism	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 11:30 PM
-1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. Do you men seriously expect other people other than yourselves to fight for whatever it is you care about? When does that ever happen in this world? I don't see men fighting for female rights in the middle east, i don't see men caring about female issues. And you really missed the point, including men in a body positivity movement is like including white people in a movement against racism. It's not even possible to "include" men in a societal issue that only affects women, the world doesn't vie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 10:39 PM
2	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. Except it's not, the body positivity movement was created for better treatment by society, but men don't understand that because they don't understand the notorious way that society ties women's worth to their looks and their looks alone, they're outsiders to this, though not even average or attractive women are at all aware of this because they've never experienced it either. So the body positivity movement was created, it has always been and still is about accepting fat women in society as equ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 07:03 PM
6	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. Men complain here all the time about how they're allegedly not allowed to have weight standards and therefore feel personally attacked by women's "body positivity movement", but men don't realize that that movement was never meant to make men attracted to fat women, it was created to encourage better treatment of fat women in society, it's about fat women wanting to be treated as humans, rather than be deemed worthless subhumans with no feelings for not living up to society's standards of what a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 06:09 PM
2	The vast majority of people absolutely do use relationships for personal development and growth, intentionally or unintentionally I dont think theres a need for "relationship experience" for future relationship succes at all. I think traditional dating the way its done today isnt the most successful strategy. Trying to "impress" each other on dating apps by being funny/socially skilled, basically putting on the most "attractive" persona you can isnt beneficial. Going on dates with a person you barely know is a waste of time, you dont get to know someone on a personal level by treating dates as job interviews and essentiall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 05:47 PM
1	A piece of a winner is better than all of a loser I think what you're really asking is if women are okay with sharing a "high value" man, or you even insinuated that women are okay with with your last paragraph, which is such a wildly ignorant belief that some men here have. Women are not okay with sharing a man. Women aren't animals incapable of higher thoughts and feelings, sharing a man is emotionally and mentally repulsive to most women by far. In fact there are way more men with a cuckold fetish than there are women	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/21 04:19 PM
1	Her n and infidelity (revised) Women who partake in hookup culture are only a minority of women, stop over exaggerating the numbers, for heaven's sake	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 11:34 PM
1	Question for women on what they think a man's sexual jealousy indicates Not at all but i appreciate the kind words sis 😅❤	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 10:42 PM
1	What would the ideal dating world look like? The ideal dating world would be one where people don't date others That would be perfect👌🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 11:50 PM
1	What would the ideal dating world look like? The ideal dating world would be non existent, if there'd had to be one itd be one where people ditch the unnecessary, shallow physical standards and actually love each other as a person	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 11:35 PM
2	Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying? Imagine men's outcry if women said they got turned on by male tears. They'd rage their heads off. And the worst part is that the most women accept this about their man like it's perfectly fine. Women will always be too nice and docile for their own good	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 04:38 PM
3	Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying? Thanks for clarifying	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 04:28 PM
2	Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying? What does "not really" mean? That's a lot different then "no".	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 04:13 PM
6	Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying? curious what made her cry? I feel like this is just a basic question, yet almost all men overlook this crucial question. Their partners crying is just something that "has to be dealt with" "women are emotional, just give her a hug and get it over with" is how they view her crying, like women crying is just an inevitable part of the relationship that just has to be "dealt with". The comments in this thread are saying exactly that too. They dont care about why she's sad, they dont actually care ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 04:00 PM
5	Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying? I honestly feel like men overwhelmingly only have 2 types of reactions to seeing their partner, whom they allegedly care about, crying: they're either turned on or turned off/annoyed. I believe those are the majority of men and men who actually care about their partner are the rare minority, i don't think most men can even comprehend the notion of caring about someone's feelings. Empathy is a rare trait in men and the comments in this thread are only proving my point	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 03:08 PM
6	Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying? Did you experience your girlfriend's crying as off putting/annoying at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 03:01 PM
1	Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant? the best thing to do is find someone who's into good communication. Someone who will talk to you about things before hand & is completely open and honest. I agree, open & honest communication is vital to me in a relationship in general, though sadly a lot people definitely dont put the same importance on that and struggle with the introspection thats needed to have a healthy, happy relationship. I hope there are more guys like you out there, i feel pretty hopeless about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 02:52 PM
2	Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant? Exactly. They definitely conflate dominance and submission with degrading/violent stuff. I'm a virgin myself and don't wanna have sex before marriage but a gentle/caring dominant guy is the kind of guy i'd like to marry, i'd want to know that i'm emotionally cared about and respected	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 02:08 PM
5	Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant? I'm exclusively attracted to dominant guys, meaning guys who take the lead, degradation kinks have nothing to do with dominance necessarily	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 03:28 AM
0	Guys that are “emotionally unavoidable” aren’t to every girl but, to that specific person. Technically i know, i worded the question rather poorly as always, would you mind describing the kind of woman who you would feel comfortable opening up to then? How does she make you feel safe enough to open up exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 02:33 AM
3	Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant? Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 01:53 AM
1	Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant? I'm a virgin but i'm kinda insecure about not being able to find a guy who also isn't into spitting/choking/slapping etc and generally degrading acts, i feel like almost all guys are into that stuff, especially with the despairing popularity of porn amongst men Btw this is completely offtopic but i love your username :) what's the meaning behind it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 01:46 AM
3	Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant? Those things are attractive to you maybe	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 01:22 AM
4	Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant? I don't disagree with your first paragraph, but spitting/slapping/choking, are specific violent and degrading kinks and dominance has nothing to do with that, a guy can be sexually dominant without doing those things and a woman can be sexually submissive without wanting those done to herq	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 01:17 AM
1	Guys that are “emotionally unavoidable” aren’t to every girl but, to that specific person. Are there any specific things that a girl does that make you trust her enough to feel comfortable opening up to her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 11:54 PM
1	I feel sexual attraction towards older high power women. I wonder if this is partially how women work with sexual attraction Thanks for answering!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 01:58 AM
1	Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex? No, just because you're being solipsistic and can't fathom different people having a different experience of love doesn't make their relationship a friendship. Asexual people can romantically love each other, for the record. To me, your idea of love which must involve carnal desire is shallow and impersonal and your "love" has an expiration date because your partner isn't always gonna be hot, i don't understand how that can be love rather than just lust	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 11:29 PM
3	Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex? Of course asexual men wouldn't wanna have sex with me, but like i said i want to be loved, not just "fucked"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 11:21 PM
1	Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex? No i'm not, don't shove your opinion down my throat	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 11:18 PM
3	I feel sexual attraction towards older high power women. I wonder if this is partially how women work with sexual attraction Thanks for your answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 09:38 PM
1	I feel sexual attraction towards older high power women. I wonder if this is partially how women work with sexual attraction Would you marry one though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 09:10 PM
0	I feel sexual attraction towards older high power women. I wonder if this is partially how women work with sexual attraction Would you date/marry one of those women though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 09:07 PM
0	Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex? That doesn't bother me at all, i don't think love has anything to do with physical/sexual attraction (which will inevitably fade away eventually) and everything to do with genuinely loving and enjoying each other as a person, even into old age, that's what love is	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 03:57 PM
2	Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex? The real sting is that i'll never find a guy like your husband, asexual men who aren't attracted to other women while in a relationship are so rare they're practically nonexistent.. I'm extremely hesitant about ever getting married because of men still wanting other women while being married, but if i found a guy like your husband and we'd love each other i would genuinely be the happiest person on earth	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 03:26 PM
1	Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex? or ever look at someone in a sexual way. The gals he dated before me said things like "why don't you ever look at me" to him. I don't even know how to express how strongly i feel about this but your husband is literally my ultimate dream😭 i would do ANYTHING for a guy like that, you've literally won the life lottery, your husband is a unicorn	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 02:55 PM
7	Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex? Would that arose you more because he is mature, able to control himself, and not with you necessarily for sex? And very few guys could achieve this? Exactly that. I don't care about being attractive to my partner, as long as he genuinely likes me and enjoys my company, that's what a relationship is about for me, you're not going to stay young and attractive forever so prioritizing the short term over the long term doesn't make sense to me. And a guy being super attracted to you might feel good i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 02:42 PM
-2	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? I do tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 03:21 AM
1	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? No altho i've never been to a gym i've seen this girl on instagram try to flaunt her non existent ass so i think i get what ur talking about, i'll link the post, , it makes me cringe to death😭 but more than that it's sad, that women feel the need to have an attractive body/face and that's what their sense of self worth is largely dependent on. Also nobody should be expected to date much older ppl tho, cmon. Do you think guys should be happy with dating a grandma lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 02:23 AM
1	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? That's just rlly cringy and sad .. :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 01:57 AM
4	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? Yea that's true, women generally don't appreciate men creepily staring at them for too long, but they know damn well that ugly guys also find them attractive and they do get validation out of that, women value being desired by as many men as possible, that's why some women enjoy having simps regardless of their looks. Sorry, i suck at explaining myself, hope i could make myself clear lmao. But necessary disclaimer: please realize that every woman is an individual and as different from each other…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 01:35 AM
2	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? Lmao exactly 😂 i don't mean to judge or shame them for it, but how they can take themselves serious denying sth so blatantly obvious is beyond me tbh, or maybe they've convinced themselves that getting male attention has nothing to do with it and they genuinely believe that, no idea what goes on their head	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 11:57 PM
1	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? it’s actually possible to wear nice clothes and have a good style, without thinking about how that will make men stare. I don't disagree with that. Pretty sure we all feel comfortable in a certain style of clothing. And i also said that some women couldn't care less about getting male attention in another comment. But when you say that women wearing yoga pants at the gym, or "booty shorts" that are basically denim underwear, or tight skinny jeans made to grip ans show off your ass, don't wear th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 11:29 PM
1	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? what is a “family friendly” t-shirt One that isn't tight, obviously And my point was that there's physically no difference between the kind of yoga pants that the other commenter described and equally tight skinny jeans. You seemed to agree that women wore the former for male attention but disagree that they wear skinny jeans for the same reason even tho both of those "show off" their body in the exact same way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 11:09 PM
2	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? Wearing a t shirt and jeans isn't the same as wearing the kind of skimpy outfit that was described in his comment, unless it's a tight t shirt and jeans that tightly shows off the shape of your body of course, like how some women wear super tight jeans that "show off" their ass. But wearing a "family friendly" t shirt and jeans outfit i can understand how that can be more for yourself then for guys, though i don't believe that you don't care about looking good to men at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 10:14 PM
9	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? That's a misconception that y'all have tbh, some women absolutely get off on old ugly guys commenting on their ig posts or ugly guys staring at their body, they might not be interested in them at all but it makes them feel good knowing they're desirable to the opposite sex. Women are different from men in that regard. That's why women want to dress attractively even when they're in a relationship and while staying fully faithful to their partner, they still want to feel attractive. But i want to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 09:35 PM
3	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? They can't always change it, i don't think anybody in this shallow world would genuinely prefer to be fat, either way body shaming is never okay. Women also don't only get bodyshamed for things they can change. I also believe that men can get respected regardless of how they look while the belief that women's worth is ultimately based on her beauty is deeply ingrained in our psyche, its affects can be subtle but they run deep. Fat/short/ugly male artists have always been adored and respected and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 09:23 PM
1	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? So you "caring" about personality is utterly meaningless because regardless of how great a woman's personality is it doesn't matter if she doesn't meet your physical standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 08:42 PM
42	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? I'm a woman and i don't understand why women can't admit that they/other women 100% dress that way to show off their body. It's one of the things that disappoints me about women, like it's such a joke. If they didn't want attention they would dress in a less attention grabbing way, basic logic lol. They 100% want guys like u to stare at them even if they'll never admit it or maybe it's a subconscious drive that they're genuinely not even aware of. Sadly many women can't imagine an existence with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 08:15 PM
77	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? Men say they want a submissive woman, but they're not able to respect a woman who's not an "equal" and they'll inevitably take her for granted and cheat on her Men who claim to care about personality or claim to have non-existent standards but they would never date a woman who's ugly regardless of how great her personality is Men who cry about being body shamed while most of them notoriously bodyshame fat women/hairy women/old women etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 07:58 PM
2	Between these 2 types of men, which type do women find more attractive? Serious, protective over you, physically dominant, fearless (to a degree) is fine but after that all i could think was "ew terrible self-serving narcissistic person with no moral compass", so definitely 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 02:07 PM
1	Dominant personalities sneakily justify their need for dominance using false human nature/religious explanations So we're gonna feign ignorance about basic statistics now that show over 90% of rape victims are women and over 90% of rapists are men? "All male rape victims" is actually hilarious lmao, it's literally the same thing as saying "all white racism victims" you're not gonna garner sympathy by always wanting to be the victim and saying that to a POC who faces actual racism. But delusional male entitlement doesn't surprise me anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 12:59 AM
1	Dominant personalities sneakily justify their need for dominance using false human nature/religious explanations True, your own husband caring about you and wanting to protect you should be the bare minimum	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 04:05 PM
1	Dominant personalities sneakily justify their need for dominance using false human nature/religious explanations I think most marriages have shared finances though, that's how it should be at least. Those women are a small minority	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 01:20 PM
2	Dominant personalities sneakily justify their need for dominance using false human nature/religious explanations They are the "prize" because for a high value guy they would really put in the effort to be a good partner, at least most of them, that's literally their whole goal, they just don't want to give that treatment to 'low value' men who do not give anything in return which is what a lot if not most of their posts based on	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 01:05 PM
0	Dominant personalities sneakily justify their need for dominance using false human nature/religious explanations I'm not sure why you have that view of fds women	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 12:53 PM
3	Who do you think has the most in-built sense of external hierarchy? Men or women? I didn't think guys had leaders in their social circles, what does that look like ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 12:40 PM
0	Dominant personalities sneakily justify their need for dominance using false human nature/religious explanations Wanting a man to provide and protect has nothing to do with being dominant and it's something that submissive women typically want as part of their relationship dynamic	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 12:34 PM
2	Question for women on what they think a man's sexual jealousy indicates the figures I've found stated 76% Source please? Because i'm desperate to believe this atp which is sad bc it's still a majority but it's better than 90% notice that you did not answer my question if you'd be okay with men continuing to have the low n count / no pornstars standard if they did indeed not watch any porn Of course i'm okay with that and (almost) anyone would be, a guy "abstaining" from porn and wanting a compatible woman who has a low n count is perfectly reasonable. Like i've neve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/21 10:24 PM
1	Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience. How?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/21 03:12 PM
2	What's your shallowest turnoff ? I like that look😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/21 01:11 AM
5	What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different things If most women want chads who trear them bad then explain all the young women in relationships with normal, average, decent guys. Or do you never leave your house? It's obvious that you don't even know any women and you're so detached from reality while being so convinced of your beliefs lol. Like the other guy said, go outside and meet real people ffs, your beliefs women are so ignorant soon you'll believe that they're aliens sent from another galaxy lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 02:38 AM
1	What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off? What do you mean by androgyny? In looks or behaviour?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 12:29 AM
2	What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off? Objectively attractive men. I'm only attracted to average or conventially ugly guys. Also would never date a guy over 6ft and that's bc the height gap is too much for me at that point	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 12:10 AM
–	Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment? I'm not even gonna bother with you because your last sentence proves that you're unreasonable and bad faith. Some men aren't actually men, they're just a different species and we shouldn't call them men because that's not fair to ACTUAL men and it would prove that men overwhelmingly do bad things!! That's the most ridiculous argument i've ever heard and you're clearly in denial, also you just casually denied women's sexual molestation and harassment by men, if your daughter came to you telling s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 02:02 AM
–	Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment? Some do bad things that are typically more common for men to do than women. Like rape, murder, sexual harassment, pedophilia, sex trafficking, systematic oppression, remorselessly objectifying and sexualizing and dehumanizing women. Just go to Pakistan or India and see how much women's lives and safety matter there. Not anything worth caring about tho, those are only small things after all Some do bad things that are typically more common for women to do. They flail in comparison to the destruct…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 01:34 AM
5	Question for women on what they think a man's sexual jealousy indicates your argument seems to assume that all men want both of those things simultaneously. Maybe not all men, just 99% of them. Over 90% of men watch porn, but not even half of those men would be ok with dating a pornstar or very high n count woman himself. They want women to do 2 conflicting things and they want one type of woman to marry while jacking off to other women being exploited on screen, they don't even hold themselves to the same standards as they hold women for being relationship material…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 07:59 PM
1	Women’s interests and Hobbies. My interests are psychology, philosophy, dinosaurs, animal intelligence/consciousness and biology in general, entrepreneurship, technology, and more. Tbh i'm a really curious person so i find everything pretty interesting and always wanna learn more about anything. My SUPER COOL hobbies are gaming, watching netflix, listening to music and horse riding is where my heart lies	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 11:48 PM
6	Question for women on what they think a man's sexual jealousy indicates They want women to do porn for their depraved selfish consumption and they want women to not be promiscuous and low n count wife material. Pick one	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 11:32 PM
1	Women do not want sex as much as men do, otherwise we'd overpopulate the world within a generation I don't understand why people feel the need to deny simple and obvious biological facts either	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 11:05 PM
6	If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose? Obviously the former, as an ugly woman finding a man who could look past my looks is my dream	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 09:42 PM
1	What's the most romantic thing a man's done for a woman and vice versa? I know it's nothing but for what it's worth, i wrote a love poem for my ex e boyfriend, he said that no woman has done that for him before, and i declined $1000 from him bc i wanted him and not his money, amongst other things	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 10:50 PM
1	Question for women: if your man is no longer attracted to you and declares he will never have sex with but not break up with you, will you be upset? Demisexual men are so rare they're practically nonexistent	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 02:29 AM
1	Question for women: if your man is no longer attracted to you and declares he will never have sex with but not break up with you, will you be upset? As an ugly woman, a guy saying "i'm willing to treat you well and stay faithful to you despite not being attracted to you" is my ultimate dream and i think that would actually be true love, as he would stay with me for who i am and not just "love" me based on something as superficial as my exterior, sadly it's impossible as men need physical attraction to be able to feel romantic "love" for a woman and be interested	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 02:09 AM
1	Question for men: Do you take the time to prioritize your partners orgasm, even if that means continuing to work on them after you’ve already finished? U realize that no woman will actually enjoy having sex with you for more than once right? As long as you're aware of that it's fine	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 04:06 AM
1	For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference? Thanks so much for explaining. I'm really curious tho, what do you mean by their expressions and them not knowing how to react?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 02:46 AM
1	For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference? Could you please explain how was their lack of experience a turnoff?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 01:52 AM
1	For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference? What about what he said makes it seem fake to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 01:51 AM
0	For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference? Attraction is animalistic, dirty and uncontrollable period. Speak for yourself and don't project	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 01:43 AM
1	Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship? None of the things i listed are common, let alone apply to almost anyone. Men who actually view their girlfriend's emotions as important and actually care and listen are rare, there's a reason women generally go to other women for emotional support. In my experience i've never met a man who actually cared when i expressed my feelings or just something that i was struggling with, like when i told them about my personality disorder. They usually don't even respond and care. Men who actually expres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 01:45 PM
1	Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship? ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 01:20 PM
1	Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship? The question was how my ideal partner would act and i listed the most important things to me? I assumed it would be unnecessary to go into more detail	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 11:35 AM
1	Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship? ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 11:32 AM
2	Why do women make some guys wait for sex and not others? They lied and faked romantic interest in them for those girls for years?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 04:03 AM
1	Let’s speak plainly. “Husband material” = I will NOT fuck you unless we are committed or you have shown me more of your provider qualities. Social dividends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 03:50 AM
2	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? Then surely all men are rapists and killers, too	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 03:12 AM
1	Let’s speak plainly. “Husband material” = I will NOT fuck you unless we are committed or you have shown me more of your provider qualities. May i inquire about ur flair sir, it has sparked my unrelenting curiosity	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 02:45 AM
0	Let’s speak plainly. “Husband material” = I will NOT fuck you unless we are committed or you have shown me more of your provider qualities. Seems like this problem could easily be solved by just dating women who don't have casual sex, and yes they're still the majority of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 02:29 AM
3	Why is being considered “Husband material” better than being fwb material Your comment made me wonder if all the men here who see being seen as "husband material" as an insult because it means the woman just wants to use him, are just projecting. When women see a man as husband material they mean "i love you and i want to spend the rest of my life with you" but maybe men can't realize this because they don't feel the same about women who they deem "wife material" , maybe they just see her as nothing but a useful reliable "good" bangmaid rather than someone they love, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 02:10 AM
3	Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men. it seems to me loving and being loved and having someone by your side are not things that you're capable of or care for Also if we're just looking at who benefits more from marriage altogether, i would say it's men, if men have children they get to fulfill their wish without having to do nearly as much work taking care of the child as the woman does, they also have someone taking care of the household, all they have to do is go to work, while women have to go to work, do the housekeeping and chi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 12:30 AM
5	Women, would you stand with your husband even if all of your tribe is against him? I wouldn't be fazed by my friends or family's opinion about my husband at all if that's what you mean by tribe, i love him and that's all that matters to me, but i would only marry a man if i'm sure he will treat me well in the first place, so i would be confident in my choice and have no reason to worry about what anyone thinks of him after that	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 02:17 PM
1	Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating? I apologize, that wasn't necessary to make my point	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 09:52 AM
1	Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating? The higher the number the more it obv becomes practically impossible or highly unlikely that it's a coincidence but with 3 exes it certainly is possible, much stranger things have happened, you must not have much life experience or just lack insight	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 09:46 AM
1	Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating? Now you just changed your argument because you couldn't defend your initiatial one lol, plus even that still doesn't necessarily prove that she cares about height as it is possible that's it's a coincidence, you just believe what you want to believe	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 09:07 AM
2	Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating? Since you for some reason couldn't figure this out on your own, that doesn't mean that height matters to her. Was she supposed to reject her husband just because he's 6'2?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 01:53 AM
3	Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship? Listens to me when i express my feelings, believes me and respects me, is helpful and considerate, cares about my feelings, expresses his emotions and is open and communicative about everything is a prerequisite for me, overall kind, has empathy; not indifferent to injustice and suffering, and won't do anything that goes against his morals, obviously has to have morality in the first place	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 01:32 AM
3	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? People have literally killed themselves due to narcissistic abuse but it's clear that you have no idea what it's like having any kind of relationship with a narcissist and have no idea what you're talking about since you're able to marginalize it so easily. Just look up the endless amount of content, youtube channels etc dedicated to narcissistic abuse recovery, there is way more of those than there is for bpd abuse recovery. The sub r/raisedbynarcissists also has over 700k members whereas r/rai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 01:10 AM
9	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? Although this disorder is estimated to affect 7.7% of males and 4.8% of females in the general population (Stinson et al., 2008) and is associated with substantial functional impairment and psychosocial disability (Stinson et al., 2008), it remains one of the least studied personality disorders (Caligor et al., 2015). https://www.psychiatrist.com/jcp/medical/comorbidity/prevalence-correlates-disability-comorbidity-dsm-iv-narcissistic-personality-disorder-wave-2-nesarc/	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 05:38 PM
8	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? Say that to the research that found men with Npd outnumber women with NPD. It's not my fault those are the facts	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 05:34 PM
10	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? I don't think you know what narcissistic personality disorder is, being a narcissist doesn't mean having high self-confidence. Statistics and real life examples show there are more men with Npd and Aspd than women. Anyway you're clearly not receptive to actual factual answers and are just interested in demonizing women and victimizing men	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 05:29 PM
11	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-narcissism/201801/why-is-it-so-hard-leave-the-narcissist-in-your-life	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 05:25 PM
12	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? There are men who are victims of emotionally abusive narcissistic women as well, it just happens way less because there are way more men who are narcissists than women	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 05:14 PM
0	What if women pursued average and below average men for sex the way men do for women? I try to hold back my views on men on here but i couldn't hold that one in😂 like i said just being factual though😶	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 12:26 AM
0	Women of Reddit, why would you cheat? I would rather die than cheat on my husband	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 12:11 AM
0	What if women pursued average and below average men for sex the way men do for women? Just being factual	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 07:37 PM
6	What if women pursued average and below average men for sex the way men do for women? We would self destruct and devolve as a species. There's a reason the females in every animal species only mate with the males who have proved themselves to be genetically fit. We would be more "animalistic" and stupid than actual animals and not even think about the consequnces, just have sex. Not that that's what animals are because they're not, but that's how we would be if women were just as depraved as men	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 07:12 PM
0	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? A sex drive isn't the same as emotions and not having a sex drive doesn't make you a zombie and doesn't compromise human experience but can actually enrich it, i think being "controlled" by a high sex drive makes someone more of a zombie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 12:44 PM
3	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? One can only dream😭😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 02:27 AM
2	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? Why not? It reduces a completely unnecessary desire and makes more room to pursue other things in life. Why should a sex drive be as high as possible when it's something inherently worthless (and can even be unwanted), like a craving for chocolate. I don't think a lowered sex drive is necessarily a bad thing like everyone seems to (mindlessly) claim it is, and often can actually be a good thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 02:22 AM
2	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? Why would anyone WANT to have a higher sex drive? Why would you want to have a higher desire for something unnecessary when it is more peaceful practical to not have to be bound by a desire, that's like saying "women should demand to have a higher craving for chocolate". Why should life just be about sex lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 02:11 AM
1	Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations? Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 01:57 AM
21	Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years? I've said this many times on here, and for some reason people don't believe it, i don't understand how they can be so detached from reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 01:51 AM
1	Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations? Thanks for the interesting question:)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 12:32 AM
1	Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations? There’s no need for him to heroically die by my side You're putting words in my mouth, that's not what i said. I absolutely do not expect anyone to give their life for me, not even my parents, anyone who expects that from anyone is disgustingly entitled and deluded imo. What i meant was that i expect my husband to read the situation and do everything he can to protect/save me if i was in direct danger, even if it puts himself at risk, as long as there's not a significant risk of him dying or bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 10:13 PM
2	Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations? Although i don't have casual sex to begin with, i would absolutely not have a sexual relationship with a man who would run for the hills and happily leave me for dead if it came to it, and i don't understand how any woman could stomach having sex with a guy who doesn't even give a fuck about her. Casual sex is a bad deal for women honestly IMO, it's a disservice. I also don't understand women here saying "i don't expect anyone to protect me". I understand not expecting that from a casual fling, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 09:32 PM
8	[CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30. Simply banging other girls doesn't instantly make you a terrible husband by default. If this is how you view cheating on your spouse and if you can't be happy with just one person for the rest of your life, please just don't get married, it's not meant for everyone. Being cheated on and my husband not even thinking there's anything wrong with him cheating is the most painful and insulting thing i can think, you're literally my worst nightmare lol, so speak for yourself when you say you think che…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 11:43 PM
0	[CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30. Is it too late to find a man like that at 22?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 11:35 PM
9	Hot story in UK: "Instagram makes teenage girls feel bad about themselves." My take is Instagram simulates for teen girls what actually happens to men in the real world. More women are depressed than men	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 05:04 AM
2	Hot story in UK: "Instagram makes teenage girls feel bad about themselves." My take is Instagram simulates for teen girls what actually happens to men in the real world. There are comfortable work out clothes, like soccer shorts or workout pants that are looser than yoga pants, why don't you wear them instead since you would get less unwanted attention from men? I'm a woman and i never understood the "yoga pants are comfy" reasoning, because they are not the only comfortable workout clothing, so the comfortable factor honestly is an excuse, you could extremely easily replace them and not feel uncomfortable at all while working out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 05:00 AM
4	Hot story in UK: "Instagram makes teenage girls feel bad about themselves." My take is Instagram simulates for teen girls what actually happens to men in the real world. Both genders are validationsick for the opposite gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 04:47 AM
3	How come it’s unacceptable to complement a woman’s tits? This is why i'm glad i have the body of a 10yr old boy😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/21 11:46 PM
4	What do yall think about the new Demi Lovato post? This is so disheartening, this could be potentially so damaging to girls who look up to her and take her encouragement to heart. Liberal feminism brainwashes women into believing that objectifying and sexualizing yourself is empowering which is harmful in many different ways, and doing "sex work" aka prostitution is empowering and beneficial, when these things really only degrade and mentally hurt women, potentially ruining their futures, and these things only benefit men, at womens expense. Wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/21 04:13 AM
1	How did the genders get to this point? I understand, no problem. I actually know him lmao, have watched one or 2 episodes of his talkshow as well, i used to follow him but apparently i've unfollowed him. Tho i've definitely noticed the increasing hostility, bitterness and distrust between the 2 genders on instagram as well, many people from both genders distrust the other gender and approach relationships not even worrying about what they have to offer the other person, only thinking about what they can get. Though the vast majority …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 03:33 AM
1	How did the genders get to this point? Could you give some examples if you don't mind?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 02:36 AM
1	How did the genders get to this point? I saw a street interview in my country where a man told the interviewer to go "mgtow". The interviewer didn't know what that was. That was really unexpected lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 02:33 AM
1	How did the genders get to this point? Similar discourse as in what kind of discourse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 02:27 AM
1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? If i were to believe every bit of anecdotal evidence on here than every woman only likes hot guys who never show emotions and would forever "branch swing" onto the next slightly better guy who shows her any attention so no i cant believe you on your anecdotal evidence alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 06:52 PM
1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? having a healthy body and activity is supremely important to me. It is to everyone which is why you should maybe acknowledge that disabled people have the same feelings and conciousness as non disabled people	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 04:29 PM
1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? ? how's that a relevant response to what i said	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 03:48 PM
1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? As someone in a wheelchair I can tell you that able bodied men dating disabled women are the faaaar majority. Able bodied women dating disabled men is extremely rare. I do not believe this one bit but i'm open to being proved wrong, if you actually have evidence to back this up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 12:15 PM
1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? I support any man or woman that doesn't want to have that burden or just isn't attracted to it. Then i hope you become wheelchair bound and see if you still "support" people not wanting anything to do with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 12:13 PM
1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? Proof?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 12:11 PM
1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? Do you have proof? I'll need to see it to believe it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 12:11 PM
-1	How do red/black pillers explain this relationships? It says a lot about men that you will never ever see the reverse of this, a man marrying a disabled woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 01:20 AM
0	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness They just have fewer options with women they’re very attracted to. Cry me a river. Then date a woman who doesn't look like a supermodel	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 02:35 AM
1	How strong is the height preference of women and how short do you have to be for it to work against you when dating women especially women who are attractive? The few guys with a facial deformity that i found attractive i saw irl, not online, i saw one online but it was a random guy posting a selfie on reddit so i don't have any examples to share. I don't really care for (male) celebrities and i don't know many so i can't think of an example of the top of my head :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 03:35 AM
1	How strong is the height preference of women and how short do you have to be for it to work against you when dating women especially women who are attractive? I'd only be able to feel comfortable with an conventially unattractive or at most average looking guy as we'd be more on the same level, and i especially find myself genuinely attracted to guys with a facial deformity	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 03:21 AM
2	Because most men haven't figured it out yet, the reason most 'advice' seems a bit cuckoo... Could you share the link to that video?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 04:45 PM
1	How strong is the height preference of women and how short do you have to be for it to work against you when dating women especially women who are attractive? Why should i get standards for something as arbitrary and meaningless as looks that doesn't have anything to do with the kind of person someone is. Seems.. unnecessary if u ask me	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 04:40 PM
1	How strong is the height preference of women and how short do you have to be for it to work against you when dating women especially women who are attractive? No but i wish i could date a guy like that tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 04:37 PM
1	How strong is the height preference of women and how short do you have to be for it to work against you when dating women especially women who are attractive? I don't think anyone cares about hearing my preference but anyway, i'm 5'4 and to me personally over 6ft is too tall, the height imbalance would become too much at that point. My minimum requirement is 5'6. But i don't care about face at all, not even a facial deformity bothers me at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 02:59 PM
6	"You don't need a relationship to be happy" is BS because happily married people of PPD aren't willing to rely on it with their own lives I think people here and elsewhere who say "you don't need a relationship to be happy" need to understand that different things make different people happy and that what makes someone happy is completely subjective. Everyone's happiness is dependent on something, and whatever that is is out of their control, and no matter how personally silly you might find it, trying to tell someone that they don't need whatever they personally need to be happy is never going to work for, that need is not sudden…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 11:05 PM
0	Women act like men when they switch seats at speed dating Male hypergamy is the innate male attraction to beauty and youth, no matter the mans own attractiveness or age. Real life examples of this are men paying for only fans, donating to attractive twitch girls, getting sugar babies or mail order brides, lusting after women posting nudes on reddit (plenty of subs full of men doing that) or instagram models. The more attractive a woman is, the more "suiters" she has. There are a few top stacies who have millions and millions of (mostly unattractive) me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 10:20 PM
0	Women act like men when they switch seats at speed dating I know it is a common consensus here that hypergamy is a thing and every time i see it i roll my eyes, because it doesn't exist. Only male hypergamy exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 06:07 PM
-1	What I love about being a man in the dating world High iq, finally someone who recognizes this	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 06:05 PM
3	What I love about being a man in the dating world This is a breath of crispy 5 am air in the mountains while birds are chirping	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 06:03 PM
2	What are some flaws that you would be willing to accept in a potential partner (LTR)? Autism Ugliness/facial deformities (i genuinely do not mind this at all but you included things that are considered flaws to other people) Mental health issues that he's aware of If he was capable of loving me even when i've aged, i wouldn't care about his money, job, education, "size" or anything else that isn't related to his personality, but i know men's "love" is only skin deep	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 02:15 PM
11	What are some flaws that you would be willing to accept in a potential partner (LTR)? They are exceedingly rare, i've never met one before	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 02:07 PM
2	Submissive men vs. submissive women? As if either men or women would be ok with a society like that💀 even if men would, most women are repulsed by the idea of being in an harem, women today aren't accepting of that and never will be, women didn't enforce social monogamy for no reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 03:33 AM
1	What is the fairest achievable and functional gender equilibrium for the modern West? Women have no problem with involuntary weight gain, or with irritability, those are individual conditions that not all women suffer from	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 03:10 AM
3	Observations on Male socialization vs Female socialization What do men want from women other than that according to you? I'm just curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 02:16 AM
3	Why do women want to get married? Not all women, but sadly my sister in law demands my brother to work more days so she can work less after nagging him to have a child for 10 years that she barely even takes care of	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 01:51 AM
2	Observations on Male socialization vs Female socialization What do you think a Chad is? Chads are just very good-looking men. Yea i know what a chad is, i've been using that lingo for a long time so i'm used to it lmao, i actually edited it to "attractive" and "hot guys" even tho it means the same thing but some ppl here think referring to attractive people as chad or stacy unironically is weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 12:58 AM
2	Observations on Male socialization vs Female socialization There are many bluepilled/normie guys in relationships tho? What do men even think women's "true nature" is? Probably something to do with only wanting attractive guys, but i have never cared for hot guys, and if you disregard me because i'm only one example, there are young average looking guys in relationships everywhere. Average lookswise and average/normal personality wise, meaning guys who do not partake in any red pill behaviour either, who have decent personalities. Young normal men and w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 12:36 AM
2	Observations on Male socialization vs Female socialization Says the gender who regularly states their only standard as "don't be fat" lol Oh and also don't be facially ugly, no objectively ugly traits, no unshapely body. I find that women are generally much more honest than men when citing their preferences/standards, for some reason men are incapable of this. Maybe it's cause ugly women who aren't fat are outright invisible to them they don't even realise those women exist. And for some reason men have this incessant need to always paint themselves as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 12:20 AM
1	What is the fairest achievable and functional gender equilibrium for the modern West? Condoms have a near 100% succes rate, you pretending like they fail a majority of the time is a moot point. If a man wears a condom and it fails then he did everything he could. If a man doesn't wear a condom and ejaculates inside, he is equally responsinle for the woman getting pregnant as the woman is, it takes 2 to make a baby, he could have easily prevented pregnancy by a single 5 second action of putting on a condom. Acting like he has no control on whether he impregnates a woman or not is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 12:02 AM
29	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected a better man can come along and take your girl, at any time That's not based in reality at all. Most women don't leave their husband at the sight of a "better" man, as if we are preprogrammed robots with no deeper feelings. There's something called love, feelings, bond that most women have for the man they're married to, that leaves no interest for women to leave just because a richer or more attractive guy comes along. for as long you're "enticing" (is that "love"?) enough. Can his 50 year old …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 03:09 PM
5	How much do you value the n-count of your partner? remember not to get cynical. It's much too late for that my friend, much too late😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 02:50 PM
3	How much do you value the n-count of your partner? 21 why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 02:39 PM
69	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected Exactly, men here who complain about women merely wanting their partner to have his own income are hypocrites as they shit on fat women for being undesirable all the time. women are loved just for being them, and that men are only loved for what they can do Is bullshit. Men "love" women under the condition of them being attractive. And if she's not attractive she gets begrudgingly settled for out of necessity, which i'm sure many men can agree that that's not real love as they bring up this comp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 02:39 PM
–	A certain trait to consider when it comes to women is often overlooked… Oh my god, that's not something i wanted to read💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 02:18 PM
0	What is the fairest achievable and functional gender equilibrium for the modern West? "Men have no say in the matter whether the woman they have sex with gets pregnant or not" so they can't put on a condom? Lmao of course they can be blamed for unwanted children if they have sex without a condom, it's just that after the fun part is done and SHOCKING the woman gets pregnant they take no personal responsibility and don't want to financially take care of the innocent helpless human that now needs taking care of that they helped create	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 01:36 PM
10	How much do you value the n-count of your partner? I would only marry a guy who hasn't had sex before marriage. And i'd only be with a guy if i can see myself marrying him, in fact ive always wanted to have just one boyfriend ever and marry him. But thats just my irrelevant predisposition	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 01:22 PM
1	I am seeing how subreddits like r/ dating is filled with bunch of hypocrites and people who have double standards. Plenty of fat men who wouldn't in a million lightyears date an equal woman and only want a slim woman with a pretty face lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 10:05 AM
5	What is the fairest achievable and functional gender equilibrium for the modern West? I 100% agree this is the ideal case scenario	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 04:00 PM
2	CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow. Yes men will still sleep with younger women but they won't leave you. Do you even hear yourself. Not everyone is you. I'm not okay with my husband cheating on me, most people aren't okay with being cheated on. I would rather be left then cheated on. I desire a monogamous relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:39 PM
2	What is the fairest achievable and functional gender equilibrium for the modern West? How about injecting estrogen into men to curb their sex drive? Men won't be sexually frustrated anymore and could see women as people rather than sexual objects, won't have to deal with unsatisfied sexual urges and be unbothered by scarcely dressed women, there will be less aggression and violence overall, less unwanted pregnancies, less desire for hedonistic casual sex and more for long term relationships, etc etc. Ofc this will never happen tho and it would be unethical to inject someone with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:29 PM
1	Anyone else thinks relationships between men and women(even non-romantically) are evolving to the point that that many men will need a lawyer to interact with women in the future? (Like celebrities do today) What makes europe a shithole in your opinion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 02:09 PM
3	Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments. Women know that not all are "bad" to put it that way. But when discussing the problems we have, what's the point of adding "not all men" every single time? To appease the feelings of men? We already know it's not all men, that's not the point, when we are complaining about a certain issue that women face at the hands of men exclusively, and men immediately jump in and say "not all men tho" as if anyone even claimed that in the first place, the attention is diverted away from the original issue t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 07:28 PM
2	Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments. You don't understand. Women do not "teach" each other to be fearful, venting/expression these fears are not "teaching" or "encouraging" them, it is just talking about them, like people do with anything that they struggle with, and we do have these fears for legitimate reasons even if you with your lack of direct experience of what it is like to be a woman "disagree". You have never been a woman complimenting a man so you literally can't know whether our experiences of being stalked or harassed a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 05:05 PM
1	CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow. The whole "financial stability" thing is non existent, in what world do you live? The vast majority of households are incapable of living off only one income, the vast majority of women in relationships can not afford to be a SAHM. So there goes your "sweet deal". Not to mention that even if your idea of a "sweet deal" was based in reality, which it absolutely isn't, is completely subjective and is only desirable to you, having a sugar daddy is not what i want out of life at all. I don't want mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 03:43 PM
8	Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments. So, as a man who obviously doesn't have have any experience as a woman and doesn't know what it's like to be in our shoes, you're telling us that our fears are misplaced because somehow you know our experiences better than we do, okay got it	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 03:09 PM
9	CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow. Way ahead of you. I have a problem with men desiring sexual novelty and being incapable of love yes, what's the point of having a relationship if he will only ""love"" you for as long as your looks don't fade and after that he will lust after younger more beautiful women and deep down desire that he could have them over you? Is that what love is? According to men they're capable of love but men mistake their lust for beauty for love, they don't know what love is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:57 PM
3	CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow. And men thirsting over instagram models or any hot girl they see like a dog salivating over a meatloaf are husband material, which is 99% of men these days😃	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:22 PM
3	Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments. Wait what? You must be sarcastic or saying that to make me feel better lol, i appreciate your good intentions but please you don't have to do that, i hate being pitied😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:08 PM
12	Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments. Says the man who has 0 experience on what's it like to be a woman lmaoooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 10:42 AM
6	Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments. I'm a woman and i'm the same, i can count all the compliments in my life on one hand, when i do get a compliment i actually hang onto to it for months and remember it when i feel hopeless/bad about myself to feel less hopelese and it gives me strength to keep going	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 10:36 AM
1	What does the romantic life of a betabux look like? The man brainwashed himself to think enjoys this but is really miserable. I don't think you understand that it doesn't make them feel miserable, being degraded is just another kink that some people are genuinely into	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 11:30 PM
2	What does the romantic life of a betabux look like? And y'all complain that "women like bad boys"🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 11:27 PM
3	Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herring In what world do you guys live, where average guys don't get into relationships all the time? Drop the victim playing for a moment and look at reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 07:02 PM
4	The only thing that will end women's control over the dating market and men's sexuality is advanced ai Idk why you would say that. I think women expressing interest/desire for a guy would be considered for validation for men, which is something nearly all women do, who aren't asexual or aromantic	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 05:50 AM
2	The only thing that will end women's control over the dating market and men's sexuality is advanced ai Maybe not all men seek female validation but many do, but so do women, i think the need for validation from the opposite sex is honestly in our nature, which is really unfortunate, i wish both genders didn't tie their self worth to what the opposite gender thinks of them But this is just what i think	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 05:40 AM
19	The only thing that will end women's control over the dating market and men's sexuality is advanced ai I'm wondering how much of this is "things will finally be better in the future!!!" human psychological coping, i'm actually really curious what percentage of men will opt out of having a relationship with women because of advanced ai/vr. Will men not have a need for female validation anymore though, which seems crucial for men's sense of self worth and maybe even happiness? (for women too with male validation sadly). And anotherthing, do men also not want relationships for love and companionship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 05:01 AM
3	CMV: Men shouldn’t take dating advice from women online at all, until they consider what type of women they want to attract What makes you think it's endorsed? In the title of your first link it literally says that she was "slammed" for what she said. That's the general response women receive for hate speech against men, there might be some women cheering it on, which also happens with racists and any other ideologies, but generally they're shunned and outcasted by both men and women. In society it's not an accepted thing. The femcel sub was also banned even though there was not even anything hateful or violent being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 04:04 AM
5	CMV: Men shouldn’t take dating advice from women online at all, until they consider what type of women they want to attract And there are thousands of examples of men saying horrible things about women or wanting horrible things to happen to them on 4chan, the old incel subs, incels.is etc. There are many more men, advocating for much worse things against women, than the reverse. Hateful/violent speech against men is not ok, but it's not like men don't do that too, and actually even more and in even worse ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 03:20 AM
3	Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not? Exactly. Never trust a man who identifies as "anti-feminist" lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 05:01 PM
2	Do men enjoy being desired more? 💯💯💯 exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 04:58 AM
1	Left-wing Gaslighting: “Women with few if any prior partners are MORE likely to cheat than women that have sown” Correlation doesn't mean causation is the new "who hurt you"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 04:27 AM
2	Left-wing Gaslighting: “Women with few if any prior partners are MORE likely to cheat than women that have sown” Where does the first comment say that low n count women are more likely to cheat? Also the men in that thread have such different thoughts/ attitudes regarding promiscuous women than the men here, it was surprising for me to see, i guess i didn't realise that men like that also exis😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 04:12 AM
1	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? Idk what culture you're in but that doesn't align with my experience at all, there's plenty of decent looking women that haven't had casual sex What exactly is your issue with being with a woman who's had casual sex once or twice though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 04:01 AM
3	Do men enjoy being desired more? Sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 03:37 PM
0	Do men enjoy being desired more? Was my comment removed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 03:25 PM
1	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? Did you even read my comment though ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 02:42 PM
1	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? u/xFallacyx69 to your comment about the vest majority of women having had casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 01:45 PM
1	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? Even if that was true, 18% is in no way considered "rare" and it's not hard to find a woman belonging to 18% of the population at all. Asexuals are 1% of the population and i see asexual people online pretty frequently and if you'd look for one irl you'll definitely find one after searching for a bit. So I still don't see the problem and why you would complain about having a dating pool of 18%. Even if 1% of men on this planet would be with me i would be ecstatic af and would happily look for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 10:28 AM
5	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? That doesn't refute the fact that men didn't just make this shit up. There are plenty of women who are like that. I get your point. Maybe there ARE plenty of women that are like that. But why does that matter, as long as not every women is like that, and you can just go after the ones that aren't? Most guys in relationships are normal guys, your average joe. Most women date and marry normal decent men with no criminal history/no dark triad traits. So why does it matter that SOME women like convi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 09:54 PM
3	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? I do see all women and I see how they all get fucked by the same hot men. But i think it's the other way arouns, you only see the women that get fucked by hot men and that's why you think they're the only women that exist. What about women who barely leave their house? Introverted women? Religious women? They are not noticeable to you bc these women clearly aren't in your circle, but as a woman who's only had female frienda all my life, literally none of them have partaken in casual sex, you can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 09:32 PM
6	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? We're broadcasting because women like that are the majority I feel like were just talking in circles now, because in my experience women like that are definitely not the majority, which is why i gave the example of male killers and rapists in the first place, to show that just because they exist, doesn't mean they are the majority. It's just not true, i believe that those women are just the only women that you see and focus on which is why you think they're the majority, but it's like you live o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 08:50 PM
6	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? I'm literally a virgin and would only have sex with my husband and i don't care for objectively attractive guys at all. You have a warped viewe of women and need to start thinking with logic instead of hateful emotions, MANY women genuinely aren't interested in casual sex, no one's denying that there are women who have casual sex, but you act as if those are the only women that exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 08:07 PM
6	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? No the vast majority don't desire casual sex is my point. Women that sleep with a guy new every week from tinder are still only a minority of women. But the women who only have sex within committed relationships are invisible to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 07:45 PM
6	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? Lmao this is exactly my point. Literally cherrypicking a case of 4 (four) women and somehow this is supposed to prove anything about women in general? I guess if I post a single case of a male rapist or murderer, all men are rapists and murderers too then? Because there are a LOT more male rapes and murders being committed by men than there are female guards getting impregnated by inmates, yet if i claimed a male rapist is representative of all men you would throw a fit. (Sorry if i come across …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 07:42 PM
3	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? Most of y'all would be overjoyed to have a ONS if the guy is hot enough, Stop projecting. MOST women don't want to have sex with a guy just because of he's hot. Most women need more to want to have sex with a guy than that and only have sex within ltrs. You guys act as if woman like that are this rarity and that's so wilfully ignorant, when literally every other woman is like that. But you just don't register them in your view of "women".	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 07:41 PM
11	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? There are women who have ons and there are women who are not interested in casual sex at all, but why do you act as if the former group is a representation of women as a whole and only focus on them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 06:17 PM
5	Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex? No it doesn't lol, that's what you make up	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 06:11 PM
2	Men have to choose between success with women and having male friendships - agree or disagree? This is assuming that expressing how you feel is "feminine" and that women are turned off by men doing that, which couldn't be further from the truth, for the majority of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 12:07 PM
2	TRP is a sexual strategy for Narcissists to have wild sex with females with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) What's a repost bot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 11:29 PM
3	Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about this And if it wasn't for feminism you would have that option. Does everything you read always go over your head? I just said that if I have to be financially dependent on anyone to stay home, then I don't want it. It's like if you would ask me if I would like to eat anything I want as much as I want, I'd answer yes, but in reality I wouldn't want it with the consequences it comes. Same way I wouldn't want to stay at home if it meant not being able to leave a man whom I want to leave because he makes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 09:08 PM
2	Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about this On what planet is the average married man abusive? That's a delusion. If the guy owns your ass, why would he abuse it? It's like that saying that "beating your wife is like keying your own car". Are you seriously saying that abusive relationships don't exist? That's so ignorant i don't even know what to say that, that's like trying to argue with someone who claims that the sky isn't blue. Literally 2 out of 5 female murder victims are killed by an intimate partner. Look up all the statistics reg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 07:32 PM
1	What makes a woman high value? Yea i'm one of those viscerally repulsive, hideous women, no man has ever catcalled me/shown any interest in me which is why i'm khhv at 22 with no hope, i love my life:)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 06:42 PM
1	Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about this How can you be so unaware that you're just projecting and assume that every other woman thinks like you. This is a case of "speak for yourself" if i've ever seen one. Making money and being happy with your job is far from easy to achieve in this society, for some people even being able to make any money at all is hard due to mental health issues or incompetence, in comparison to the old times this life is by no means a happy/ideal life for a lot of people, but I would still rather worry about ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 05:28 PM
1	Why the sexual market place will ALWAYS be skewed towards women in a free society. I'm a woman and i wish i was asexual to be honest	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 02:27 AM
1	Do women genuinely believe that all of their friends are catches? Why do women seem to feel this way, but not men? LMAO I LOVE YOU. Are you always this blunt? What made you have the courage to call someone's baby ugly to their face. If i said that with anyone from my family my relationship with them would be permanently destroyed	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 02:24 AM
3	Are women capable of empathizing with men that they don't find attractive? What kind of ridiculous question even is this	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:25 AM
1	the proverbial "bar" for a 'sexually successful' man is a man who has had (or can have) a threesome (MFF) That's true ❤	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 05:28 AM
–	Long term monogamy is (mostly) incompatible with modern life Well yes that's what you'd expect but a lot of men in these manosphere communities will deny any ugly truth about themselves and stay in their echo chamber lol, sorry for mistakingly calling you dishonest when you're actually an honest person. Also i know that not all men cheat obviously but they do cheat more than women and if all men had options to cheat the cheating rates would be much much higher, i've even see men themselves here say that men are only as loyal as their options. Jfl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 04:32 AM
–	Long term monogamy is (mostly) incompatible with modern life It may be incompatible with you. For me it is what i want and i personally despise living a life of hedonism. But i know that's exactly what some people want. Plus middle aged men cheat more than their female peers, should've mentioned that too when you tried to prove that "women cheat" or why you would even mention that, but it was clearly out of dishonesty	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 04:13 AM
1	Do you believe your current personality would be enough to be sexually successful if you were transformed into a genetically unattractive male? I wouldn't even be succesful if i was a gigachad	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 04:06 AM
1	On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guy Exactly what I thought lol. She's not tranparantly saying what she actually means	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 03:56 AM
1	Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters. Women in relationships have other guys lusting over them. Men in relationships lust after other women. What's worse, having your gf/bf be followed by people they pay no attention, or them following women who they are attracted to and lust over, bc that's what men do. Which goes beyond just insecurity and being worried, because his attraction to other women is already established.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 03:42 AM
1	Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids Not a worry for me at the moment. Plus it will never be highly addictive to me to the point i won't be able to give it up if i wanted to, if it had even a slight addictive effect on me i would've already been hopelessly hooked to it. I wish it could just serve as a weaker alternative for my current addiction if i would manage to successfully replace one dopamine releasing activity with the other. I'm not able to get rid of my addiction which destroys me mentally and emotionally and my life. But …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 10:01 PM
1	Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids I wish i could replace my current addiction with porn/masturbation addiction, at least porn/masturbation addiction doesn't negatively affect the way you look like addictions where you put something in your body. But i actually don't feel like masturbating every day so i didn't even bother to try to become addicted to it and i don't get the huge appeal of porn, it doesn't have an addictive effect on me at all. Maybe i should give it a try even though it's dreadful to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 09:32 PM
1	Single straight/bisexual ladies, how would you describe your ideal future partner/husband? Height: 5'6-6ft (i'm 5'4) Body type: don't care at all, don't mind if he's on the skinnier or heavier side, as long as it's not extreme on either side Dominant or sub: dominant Age: 19-25 (i'm 21) Religious or atheist: religious (muslim) Conservative or modern: in an ideal situation i would be 100% compatible with and trust my partner and a divorce would be very unlikely, i would be a sahm and he would be the provider. I believe a strong relationship like that is possible, but finding a relation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 10:20 PM
2	Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple Pill 21f, infp, have always been pinkpill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 09:50 PM
2	"Can't wife a hoe" but, why not? I find it cute that these men think virginity makes a woman better at pair bonding when i'm a virgin woman who have 10 million mental issues that make me unable to be in a relationship. I don't think virginity is what matters most when it comes to ability to pair bond. Dating women who had a lot of casual sex are fair to avoid, for reasons already stated in this thread. But a woman who had sex with a few men within committed relationships who has a secure attachment style and has never been in a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 09:37 PM
7	"Can't wife a hoe" but, why not? Brutal streetpill	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 09:27 PM
3	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly True but hard work sucks😅🙃	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 09:17 PM
5	Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife? This is the goal💕	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 11:11 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread What do you mean by "women are right about islam"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 08:24 PM
–	South Park perspective: the inflation of women's looks No woman thinks that, if anything women posting edited pictures proves how insecure they actually are about their looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 08:18 PM
1	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? Hey I'm also a 21f Infp😁 And yep incels will complain about not having a gf like their life depends on it but will do absolutely anything on this earth other than actually try to talk to women🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 02:49 AM
8	Women Don't Have it Easier Than Men, Attractive Women Do Finally someone said it. It's frustrating how this fact is always overlooked here but it is what it is. Ugly women literally live in a completely different reality and can't relate to the reality of average or above looking women in the slightest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 01:18 AM
2	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? Some people are better at this than others. This is true and something i've observed as well I don't think moral codes have much to do with gender though, other than the fact that women generally have more empathy than men (proven by studies), but that doesn't mean that indivdual men can't also have great empathy and morality. Unless in this context you specifically referred to "sexual moral codes" in that case i don't know what that's even supposed to mean, i can't see how your dating standards…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 04:18 AM
4	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? Lol a lot of white men demand or value virginity too (on here for example) it's not just non western people	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 02:39 AM
0	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? But human behavior isn't just controlled by instincts, humans have higher cognitive function than that and you can use reasoning and logic to discredit certain fears. I'm not saying that you don't have those fears on an instinctual level, but it doesn't mean that you can't the "rational thinking" part of your brain that would combat these feelings, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 02:35 AM
2	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? I'm a virgin woman and i completely agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 02:22 AM
1	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience Ah okay	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 07:06 PM
1	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience If ur from Pakistan it shouldn't be hard to find a virgin woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 07:01 PM
2	The pros and cons of being a lover, provider, or friend and why being the lover ONLY is the best and safest option for modern men. And why these men are high value. Why was dating hard there? What was the dating scene like	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 06:40 PM
3	The pros and cons of being a lover, provider, or friend and why being the lover ONLY is the best and safest option for modern men. And why these men are high value. Himbo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 06:39 PM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman So now every single married woman commits adultery? I guess you'll agree that all married men cheat as well, just because some do	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 11:05 AM
1	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience Child prostitute..??	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 02:22 AM
1	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience 🤷🏼‍♀️ i guess i can't explain myself well	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 02:10 AM
1	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience You don't want to be the "beta loser who can't do better" amongst your friends by wifing up the "used up" woman who every guy you know has already had sex with. I know that you have a personal opinion about such a woman irregardless of what your friends think, but on top of most that this judgement of their friends is sth that most men feel/can relate to as well, i mean if you deny this you're just being deliberately dishonest, you know what i'm talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:57 AM
1	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience And this is exactly what i meant🤣🤣 you're literally accusing women again of the very thing that you clearly universally care so much about, aka not wanting to wife the woman who's known for having slept with half the men in town bc that'll make you a "beta loser" to your friends, on top of feeling personally disgusted by it too, i never said that you don't. Just think it's hypocritical of men to accuse women of caring about their friend's approval when men do that to a much higher degree	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:31 AM
1	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience But you don't want to be seen as the loser who wifed that woman, so you care about how your friends will see you if you're in a relationship with a high n count woman. Just think it's funny that men always accuse women of needing their friends approval of their relationship, when it's actually men who care about their "status" from the kind of woman they date the most	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:11 AM
4	A woman who has lots of sexual experience is preferable to a woman with little sexual experience So men care a lot about their friends "approval" and opinion of their s.o.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:52 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman 82% of only 2000 women, you really can't make a conclusion about an entire gender based on a sample size of 2000 people, it has to be performed on a much larger scale for it to give a somewhat accurate representation. Honestly in the real world, which consists of much more than 2000 people, finding a woman who hasn't had casual sex will not be impossibly hard at all as you're trying to imply	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:28 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman I know, that's why i said "most never have casual sex" as in "not even once". Women aren't interested in that because that's not how female attraction/sexuality generally works. It's not a "privilege' for women bc it's not something that they care about. Men are much more interested in casual sex, if men could have casual sex as easily as women, over 90% of them would be doing it, but it's still only a minority of women who are interested in casual sex at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:10 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman No, most women never have casual sex/one night stands. Most women just aren't interested in that and only have sex in serious committed relationships. You only see "party girls" and women who seek casual sex and then believe that all women are like that bc they're the only women you see, even though they're still a minority of women but that minority gets blown out of proportion	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:02 AM
–	Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)? Exactly. This is the true answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 11:43 PM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman The solution to this is pretty simple, just don't date women who have casual sex? You know you can just not do that if you don't want to. Most women never partake in casual sex anyway. Just date women who only have sex within ltrs, only after they get along with a guy and have a bond with him	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 11:31 PM
1	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." Childfree to you meaning, not having biological children, or not having any adoptive children either? Because i think there's a difference between not having biological children and being open to/wanting adoption. I always thought childfree meant choosing to not have bio children but it didn't necessarily regard adoption? Also how old are you if i may ask?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 12:28 AM
1	One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies." Would you want to have an adopted child? Just curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 12:14 AM
3	More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalry Because men pursue women who they like, if you ask a man out you have no idea how he even feels about you, like the original commenter already said, it's literally asking to get hurt and used, and men are the ones who pursue so if he liked you he would've already shown interest	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 05:11 PM
2	More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalry Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 08:48 AM
5	Activision Blizzard, publisher of video game titles Call of Duty, World of Warcraft, and Overwatch, is accused of unequal pay, promoting men over women, and widespread sexual harassment. Omg, another thing i want to bring up regarding video games that bothered me again today while playing ps4, in a lot of games the female characters are depicted as some male fantasy, not even just looks wise but also personality wise, it's like men can't even make a female character in a game the same way they make male characters, female characters always have to have something sexualized about them. Guys even talk about how "hot" some female characters are in some games, ugh🙄🙄 today i was play…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/21 02:14 AM
9	More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalry Yea that's the most braindead thing you could do as a woman tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 01:57 AM
0	What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now? I can't see suicide rates going up for men	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 01:36 AM
3	CMV: Women are almost ubiquitously attracted to “bad boys” I think most women go through a "bad boy liking" phase, but most of those women mature and become wiser and grow out of it and genuinely have 0 interest or attraction to bad boys, and some women stay liking bad boys even into their 20s, which i think is kinda sad for them, but these are the most noticeable women because they're the most vocal about it or it's just obvious by their actions, so a woman dating some convict stands out and makes u guys go crazy and say "women like bad boys", but a wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 01:11 AM
1	All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off? Kissless hugless handholdless virgin	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:24 PM
2	All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off? Why do you think virgin women in their 20s don't exist? They're just not visible/noticiable to you. The only women you see, women who have casual sex and are party girls etc, aren't the only women there are. I'm personally 21 and khhv and i have a 20yr old friend who's khhv too and a 21yr old friend who's a virgin. And my other friend who's 22 has only had sex with her boyfriend of like 5 years and they're moving in together soon. It's not impossibly hard to come by virgin women at all, you woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 10:42 PM
1	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? He?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 10:36 AM
1	If a woman rushes into sex with you quickly, she does not care about you beyond sexual carthasis, because intimacy does not develop quickly, and people who like people care about their opinion You would rather a woman have sex with you and nothing more than be loved and liked for who you are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 11:06 PM
1	If a woman rushes into sex with you quickly, she does not care about you beyond sexual carthasis, because intimacy does not develop quickly, and people who like people care about their opinion Soon nobody's gender will be classified until further notice	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 11:03 PM
6	Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone. At least you're not one of the many men who are "disgusted" by promiscious behaviour but actually want to do and would do the exact same thing if they had the chance LMAO, which is basically most men on here. They should be judging themselves and get themselves fixed first	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 07:04 PM
1	If a woman rushes into sex with you quickly, she does not care about you beyond sexual carthasis, because intimacy does not develop quickly, and people who like people care about their opinion Im confused now lmao are you a guy or girl if you don't mind me asking? Just curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 06:56 PM
3	If a woman rushes into sex with you quickly, she does not care about you beyond sexual carthasis, because intimacy does not develop quickly, and people who like people care about their opinion I don't understand how men can both say that they can have sex with a woman without caring about her at all, and would have casual sex with women without having any feelings for them, but both see a woman sleeping with a man as the ultimate proof of love. Which is it? Is sex something meaningless or not? I don't mean to sound abrasive, i'm just genuinely curious to explanations	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 06:34 PM
1	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? I'm not saying that i wouldn't want to have sex with my husband, i would want to have sex with him BECAUSE he's my husband. That's how our views differed from each other in the first place because you said you need to find out if you're "sexually compatible" with a guy to decide if you're going to marry him. Whereas i would decide to marry a guy based on how i feel about him, and be happy to be with him as long as i loved him, even if the sex wasn't great, though i'm sure with a little bit of ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 06:05 PM
1	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? Well, if that's your view that's fine, i already stated mine. Sex is not as important to me as love, connection, trust, safety, etc. That's what i want out of a relationship and what would make me happy, having sex wouldn't mean anything to me, only if it's with someone i already love, but not sex by itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 05:35 PM
–	If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out. This is why women shouldn't have casual sex, only have sex with him if you know he likes you for more than just sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 04:58 PM
2	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? It's fun though, right? So I guess it's all worth it. The motto of selfish and immoral people. Most humans are that way in my opinion, they don't care about what their actions do to others as long as they get some momentary pleasure out of it. But they'll never admit that this is the reality of course, who would to see themselves as selfish and unethical? They'll just find ways to justify their actions to themselves instead, by any means. Though at this point i'm not necessarily talking about se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 04:01 PM
1	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? You already got some "WHARGABOUT SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY" replies. Irrelevant. If you love each other you'll make it work, and it will be great. Emotional and intellectual compatibility trumps sexual compatibility (whatever that means). Omg, that's exactly what I think. I thought "sexual compatibility" (whatever they mean by that) derives from loving each other, i thought having sex with someone you love and have a connection with is what makes the sex and the relationship enjoyable and fulfilling.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 03:53 PM
4	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? Does a guy under 30 who doesn't watch porn in this day and age even exist .. genuine question. Even if they do the chance of finding one is practically impossible because of how rare they are. Porn is just the ultimate way to fulfill male sex drive and male need for novelty so it seems like it's just irresistible for men bc of their nature, every guy does it.😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 03:07 PM
1	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? A solution to that would be asking for a d* ck pic and you can figure out if he will be bad at sex or not by the things he says. By sexting for example, is he open to it and does he tell you in detail all the things he would do, does he show interest in making the sex a good time for you? Then that's the kind of guy he is and he would do those things irl too. Does he only care about what you can do for him sexually? Or does he not really know what to say, he doesn't say anything that excites you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 02:13 PM
3	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? People who marry as virgins have much lower divorce rates than people who had sex before marriage. Not having had sex with anyone else other than your spouse is what decreases the risk of divorce. And from a psychological view point it makes sense. Humans just don't always know what's best for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 02:01 PM
2	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? What do you mean with sexual compatibility? If you mean liking the same kind of sex as each other, can't you talk about what you're into to find out if you like the same things or not? You can also find out if a guy cares about your pleasure and satisfaction or not by the things he says (or doesn't say) while talking about sex or while sexting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 01:44 PM
9	[Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them? An option is to, not have sex before marriage ..?? gasp please don't call me names but is that really so crazy and unbearable for people? People act like you're an insane lunatic who's a danger to society and like you've invoked a basic human right when you mention something like this. Is it really out of question to just not have sex before marriage for people? Not meaning to be judgmental and genuinely open to differing perspectives	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 01:09 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread I just tried to reply to you but it said your comment was deleted (removed) so i'll just copy and paste it here. This was to your response to me asking if you were a virgin yourself Ithought you were just another hypocritical man among many who had all the hedonistic sex and "fun" but now want to settle down with a virgin woman, i personally find those men so disgustingly hypocritical, but okay😅. Your situation made me sympathize with you though tbh. I respect that you have stayed a virgin yours…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 02:43 AM
–	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? That's called fearful avoidant attachment style. Look it up! It'll make you understand the situation that you described which is textbook fearful avoidant attachment style	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 03:52 PM
–	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? If a woman loses attraction that easily it's only because she wasn't fully attracted in the first place and not really sure about her attraction to him. Women don't lose attraction to their partner over small things if she's genuinely attracted to him and loves him. I mean if that was true then no woman could stay attracted to their boyfriend for more than a year lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 03:45 PM
–	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? Of course they don't care about all their life problems intimately like that. Do you expect the cashieres to care about you and concern themselves with you? Managers telling their employers to always be nice to customers don't say that because they genuinely care about the customers either, companies providing a good service don't care about you either, they care about your money. You can't hold that against them when literally every businessperson is the same lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 01:46 AM
–	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? "A whole new level of narcisissm" LOL like personality disorders can just evolve like that. He indeed doesn't know what narcissism is but most people don't really know anything about npd/narcissism, and it's not possible to "become" a narcissist later in life. It's a product of nature and nurture (childhood upbringing), not of only fans lol, but yeah he just has no clue about what narcissism actually is. Just annoying that that term gets used ignorantly all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 01:14 AM
1	Society penalizes men for not having a sexual dichotomy Where are you from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 11:43 PM
1	What is more important for a guy: sex or money? Then don't cry and throw a hissy fit when women rightfully say "men only want sex" and that's all there is to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 11:30 PM
1	What is more important for a guy: sex or money? Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 11:23 PM
0	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? You're so wrong but i dont even feel like explaining myself🙄🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 10:02 PM
1	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? Well he said "women" not "women with high n counts"	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 09:17 PM
1	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? I would actually only marry a virgin guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 08:40 PM
2	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? I don't have a disgust for virgins, actually i would only marry a virgin guy, i'm also a virgin	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 08:37 PM
4	What impact do you think sex robots will have on the dating market? I hate to break it to you but we'll all be dead before humans find a way to slow down aging lmao. Humans aren't near that advanced in that field.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 02:42 AM
3	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Please don’t let cheap MGTOW / Incel stereotypes cloud your perception of women. This place has literally turned into mgtow/incels 2. It's really ridiculous	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 04:20 PM