girlwhocooks Archive

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21	Hi everyone, I am 29F, and I think I have not really experienced orgasm. I think I’ve been good at faking it all this time which is really sad. But now I really want to get there. Can you please give some tips on what I should do/should be doing to get the big “O”?	SEEKING ADVICE	girlwhocooks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 06:04 AM

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4	Met a great girl had an amazing date how to keep interest over text during lockdown? -Talk over the phone/ FaceTime/ virtual call -Watch a movie together from each other’s own home while on video call -Let her know you want to see her sooner than wait a month (if you want to), then cook dinner together at your place This depends on the person, but for me, if I were to wait a month before seeing a guy who lives in the same city as me, I’d lose interest and probably just start seeing someone else. But everyone’s different so she might be okay with not seeing you for a month and st…	/r/seduction	12/12/20 11:18 PM
2	Hi everyone, I am 29F, and I think I have not really experienced orgasm. I think I’ve been good at faking it all this time which is really sad. But now I really want to get there. Can you please give some tips on what I should do/should be doing to get the big “O”? Right on!! Thanks for explaining what it does to men when women fake orgasm, I think sometimes I do that to just get it over with and start with the cuddling. Which I really like. Lol but yeah I wouldn’t want to feed a man’s ego for him to think he’s a sex god when I didn’t really get off yet. Not sure what getting off/ orgasm feels like so I think I’m okay right now not getting there but I’m trying to change my mindset on this now and aim to get there coz I know I deserve to feel that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 05:32 PM
2	Hi everyone, I am 29F, and I think I have not really experienced orgasm. I think I’ve been good at faking it all this time which is really sad. But now I really want to get there. Can you please give some tips on what I should do/should be doing to get the big “O”? Thank you so much for this!!! 🙏 I’m super excited to try it. And yeah I’m not sure if clitoral can get me there but I have to try it to know. and just keep experimenting. And yes! not faking orgasms moving forward for sure! Through these years I just recently realized to not put everything and plan my life around my boyfriend/partner. Took me awhile to realize this. Lots of tears and heartaches too. Did a lot of reflection and self healing during self isolation and now I think I am better than e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 05:13 PM
1	Hi everyone, I am 29F, and I think I have not really experienced orgasm. I think I’ve been good at faking it all this time which is really sad. But now I really want to get there. Can you please give some tips on what I should do/should be doing to get the big “O”? Haha thanks for that. It’s nice to know a different perspective. I know I am into the guy I’m with now and also my ex of almost 5 years. If I wasn’t, I will not be with them and not be intimate with them. I realized more recently it’s my psyche that is blocking me from getting there as I overthink a lot and put a lot of pressure on myself. The guy I’m with now is open about exploring with me and helping me get there and so I really appreciate that. He also helps me relax coz I am always tensed a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 04:46 PM
1	Hi everyone, I am 29F, and I think I have not really experienced orgasm. I think I’ve been good at faking it all this time which is really sad. But now I really want to get there. Can you please give some tips on what I should do/should be doing to get the big “O”? Thank you! Yeah I am waiting for mine. I bought this from lovehoney: Lelo Insignia Soraya 2 it’s on sale right now! I’m gonna check that hitachi wand style from Amazon for faster shipping.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 03:35 PM
1	Such on point advices are what we need! Wow really great advice! So much better than what my girl friends would tell me. Loool I will try to be more patient and accepting of him and yes, setting a timeline is great! at least I have something to put my mind into and remind myself that there’s a timeline/end date to being in limbo whenever I become too impatient right now. I know he’s going through some mental blocks at the moment. Could be from his past relationship or just his own self esteem from things that happened to him in the pa…	/r/seduction	21/07/20 07:12 AM
1	Such on point advices are what we need! Okay I feel like right now might still be too soon. We need to know each other a bit more emotionally and at a deeper level. I think I’ll probably set the waiting period till end of summer so end of August/September. We’ll see... Sometimes I just feel like if he’s not going to commit/ doesn’t see a future with me, then what am I doing with him right now? why am I wasting time? I could be meeting and/or hanging out with Mr. Right instead. But now I’m realizing that these things take time and I sh…	/r/seduction	21/07/20 05:53 AM
1	Such on point advices are what we need! Thank you! Yeah he seems good over phone calls. I’m okay with not texting often but just that if I ask him a question I expect a response within the same day but he replies after a day or two. Lol	/r/seduction	21/07/20 05:12 AM
2	Such on point advices are what we need! Thank you so much for this! I don’t think I’m an anxious person. Just want to know where I stand or where his head is at. And he is giving me mixed signals. When we’re together he’s so amazing and I think he really likes me and it could potentially be something long term but when we’re apart he barely texts me (he might just be busy) I think you might be right. I think this guy is not sure what he wants. I have not had the exclusive talk with him coz I think maybe it might be too soon? But I thi…	/r/seduction	21/07/20 04:22 AM
2	Such on point advices are what we need! Does this also apply to men? Like I’m seeing this guy for about 2 months now and I’m confused whether he likes me or not. Lol I guess what I mean by like is if he likes me enough to build a life with or we’re just playing here. Or is it too early to tell right now?	/r/seduction	20/07/20 10:58 PM