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Field Reportgistaminute/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:12 AM
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Benefit of the doubt is it was a joke gone bad but repeated from a family member or something. But a family with jokes like that isn't really joking when you look at them over time. I'd take a 20 year old virgin Tradcon patriarch's daughter's request to be married in a church... dated a few as a teen... if I were to get married, that'd be the only way.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 08:46 PM
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Haha, good... I was being playful, obviously hard to convey over text. I accept it as the explanation of the last resort... I really don't use it for excusing anything, always try maximize impressions, but it's kind of a common/early idea here that if people are hating on you then you're doing something right. The logic that I am deriving is envy and similar, which is good reason to not flaunt in addition to avoiding gold diggers etc. That's why every man should have a basic level of fitness. I …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 06:03 PM
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Nice post bro. Solid points. It's sometimes worth more than food, I've literally made that choice. Always be networking. BUT. BUT. Staying in one Friday a month and MAINTAINING that network is essential. I have 100s of cards I never followed up on, now I'm in a shit situation years later and they're worthless. MAINTAIN DAT, HERD? Learn from my struggle. Edit: One thing I can do is make a high quality publication and send it to everyone at once. I should do that. It's totally last ditch though. M…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:51 AM
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LOL... similar... might be envy but you're probably kind of a shit-lord with room for social skills improvement. Girls pretty openly tingle around me, it's fucking crazy (power law observed), but most BP dudes reject me on sight. I'm literally not a Nazi, but often people attack me as such. They attack what they can. Lots of winners like me quite a lot, though. Envy is fucking powerful, if you've done some status worthy things you might just need to hang around with more accomplished people. I'v…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:42 AM
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I'll teach the ghetto how to code if I'm cast there. Not exactly back, but I sure wasn't born with the silver spoon that I ate off of a few times. Life might actually be better there from a fulfillment sense.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:34 AM
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Way to go bro. I might've let it get to that point (hindsight of your post), shoulda gave her the broom right away. Driving her is weak but I live in a city with Uber always 2 minute away, so a well behaved girl gets a ride but not a princess. Nice that you decided to bring her to CVS at least. Can't be construed as a dick move by any (truthful) stretch. You laid it down. To be fair she's a product of her environment, but she's probably pretty fucking pissed and emoting shit about you to people …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:24 AM
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Yup, me and my friend at the early hours of a club, him not drinking and me just sipping casually, we had all the ladies and everyone on our team. As soon as he left it all vaporized. Is it that I'm a total loser? No, we definitely played off each other and created more than a solo dude can. Him and I clubbed together years ago and it was nothing like this. I do OK solo if I find the right crowd. This only happens to me when everyone in my pack is in wolf mindset... fuck vultures with their disg…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:49 PM
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Used some of this against my RP training recently, it's been going well. Eg. I told a girl I'd been thinking about her and wanted to see her soon. Yea, we fucked great the first time. Might've "fucked it up" by not actually fucking her well the second time she came over, but I am all for this kind of vibing. YOLO and shit... once you've learned the rules it's all cool to consciously break them.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:36 PM
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True that. It also makes life for the out-of-sight butter-face AF like myself pretty easy. White and Asian girls dress up their rich boyfriend dolls and keep fucking Chads. I've not knowingly gone with a guy's girl, most girls are in and out of my bed in 2-3 hours with minimal conversation no matter how we meet (mostly IRL some apps). Sometimes they come back, but I'm surely not Instagram worthy but I instill tingles due to my body + posture (also under 5'6"). Russians and Latinas have been my s…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:24 PM
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A good was to remember this is to visualize a knuckle dragging cave man and evolve
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:02 PM
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I know several chicks with PhDs, and have since undergrad or before. Most knew from when they were kids they would do it, even against wishes of Chinese father in one case. All are in LTRs with same guy for 5-10yr , n=1 or 2 (or they are sly... don't doubt one). Can't speak for job performance but intellectual honesty is present.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:34 AM
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I let myself be a little emotional knowing that cave ugg developed these instincts for good reason. They don't apply as much now but if she ghosts over being a little soft that's okay, no harm done. I do want an LTR and show girls, but first I am fun and non clingy and just open to more. They usually just ghost. But the text trail is pleasant and ends in her court. It is pleasant how hookup centric chicks are tho.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:27 AM
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Sorry to hear bro. NEVER AGAIN. I guess there's some common cluster of reactive behavior in there, I've done all those things. WE ARE NOT ALONE... a whole new meaning... lol
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:10 PM
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LOL tonight I was at a party with some old beta friends. The only girl there was like when such and such sexual assaulted me right when she got there... I was just like '...if I were sexually assaulted I probably wouldn't flaunt it around... shit is fucked' and she lit up a little... and of course white knight was like 'but you've never been there' and I was like 'every time I go to a club my ass grabbed, last week my balls did' and I sure as fuck know abuse, that probably came through in my dem…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 09:45 AM
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I thought nofap was shit but did it kinda on a whim, 4 years ago. Calling it 'reboot' period is totally appropriate and did such. No release except real interaction? Fucking worth while challenge. Don't fap it on day 91 or you'll just undo it, as you'll get a massive massive reward for fapping. Once the brain is re-habituated then I do indeed advocate switching to 7 day cycle. GL Faplmeister. My last few comments have been nofap related if you check them, including what to do in your first full-…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 12:31 AM
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Balla... gonna keep that retainer trick in my back pocket! Spinning up software contracting right now.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 06:31 AM
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You're still associating a particular non-sexual object with release. Stop right away. Don't come until you fuck a human's hole, I don't care how long it takes. Some people go 2 years without fap. If that's what it takes, go 2 years without fap. Once you are getting laid normally then the weekly mental fap is good release. But you have to be getting more pussy than fap for your brain to stay in the right place.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 06:18 AM
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Downside... sometimes bust a nut when I start making out with a chick. NEVER FEAR. If I feel it I say I'm about to come. I just shrug it off and tell them I don't jerk off and will recharge in a little bit, throw on a movie or something, wash up, and play with their titties and stuff for a while. In a way it avoids any air of false accusation as well, just thought of that, so it's a big win actually. They're crazy for the D by the time they get it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 06:03 AM
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People don't even know what I'm on. Is it coke? Is it adderall? Nah, I'm on lifting a couple hours a week and not jerking off all the fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 06:01 AM
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Heuristic: if you don't remember what color their eyes are, you probably didn't make enough eye contact.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:59 AM
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Thanks for the reminder. Real world benefits were gained today as a result. Did it, and approached her when I was done with what I was doing. Booked date, went my own way, met up a few hours later... rest is history.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:52 AM
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People have been feeding me fantasies of friendship and family my whole life. And the ones I like run away. Go fucking figure. The more you know. Thankfully I have some people in my life who are real gems who've been good to me and not turned away. Albeit sometimes they didn't invite me to their parties etc, I wouldn't have invited me to their parties either. Leads me to think it is gradient. I surely agree with the message though, life would be much more effective with some use of cold.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:13 AM
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I think you're strengthening BlackMarmoset's point :). I don't give a fuck what pleasure it makes me feel, that's only like 1/3 of the sexual experience. The thrill of the chase, for one; the hormones exchanged for two. I feel great after sex and I feel drained after I jerk it. However real the robots get, I'm not going to be motivated to chase one and I have little confidence in an artificial hormone cocktail, although I imagine it could be delivered in some sort of artificial membrane.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:32 PM
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Protip: talk about it when you've implemented some steps. Now you've just gotten 6 reward points for doing nothing and your brain is happy and less motivated. Prove me wrong, bitch. (/s :)
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 05:57 AM
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Me: "I'm bored What do you expect with a message like that? You must be attractive for her to have responded at all. I get the bitches ain't shit vibe but that's kind of fucked. I am not a master but I wouldn't reply to a text like that if I were a person with better options. It doesn't offer anything, which is great from an economics perspective if you can pull it off. But I can't see anything quality replying to that. My openers go something like: Me: "I feel like a drink" Me: "Thinking about …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 05:00 PM
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When I focus on being short, I look at tall women seeking a look of approval. When I focus on boogying like crazy, I look to open spots seeking good vibes. Sometimes a six foot tall ass ends up on me. WWDD?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:53 PM
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No widely recognized board certs in Software, I think some other Engineering professions have requirements. IEEE is working on something for Software Engineering. Good to be reminded of that, indeed.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 05:15 PM
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Haha apparently I need an older redpill wing. I won't touch the 25+ as a young-30s... smoking that 22 year old ass as long as I can. All the 25-30 crowd does is get pissed when I reject them and they come at me hard, so by all means somebody needs to give them some love.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 09:58 AM
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Nice work! I was going for this move but they found out before I got an offer in hand and they pre-emptively canned me (with a $15k severance package). Use with caution, but if you're in good standing they shouldn't be mad. In their case, interviewing would have taken my focus away so they wanted to replace me asap but still didn't fuck me. I was way underpaid at the time, they'd already given a 10% raise... so it was logical.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:38 AM
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I almost went the Trans route myself. Somebody on TRP requested I write about it once, still haven't. On a past throw away. Nothing crazy, but it seems like a good subject for us 'spread awareness' about--similar to the BPD thread. A friend from school's closest 2 friends went the route. He's second guessing a lot of things. His other friends showed me that I want nothing to do with that culture, as everyone around them just happened to seem really mentally ill. Maybe there are counter examples,…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:50 AM
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Good feedback, I'll consider that. I didn't consider people might still use it, as I've not heard it like that in a looooong time. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:42 AM
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I was at the time a gelatinous blob of blue pill wakeup turds. Basics like walking gracefully, standing up straight, not being too chatty, holding eye contact, dressing well in the morning, etc. I was deep as fuck in anger mode; basic reprogramming. If I were to apply it now, at work it would be harder given I don't have any actual power and he was the boss. In friendships, it's thinking about what he'd share with his friends. It boils down to time is money, I think. Wish I could give you someth…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:37 AM
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Yea that's where I originally heard it. Thought it would be obvious from the context.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:32 AM
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I give it to work ethic instilled by their families and experiencing shittier conditions before coming to the US. Not sure about their IQs, I don't even know my own. Surely 2/3 were above average and the last was about on par with me who I consider average, maybe slightly above (I know, I know :).
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:29 AM
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60k and the sky is the limit with experience. Have some accomplishments and you'll be over six figures in most large metros in a few years.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:17 AM
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It's too bad when it's subsidized in a STEM field, though... if they were hanging out in the psych department it would be no big deal, but now they're competing for jobs that want diversity and soft skills above and at the cost of all else. More importantly, the attention of professors and experts. That's the ethical problem in medical, which is increasingly supported by all sorts of other STEM.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:10 AM
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I've been in LTRs with 3 very high quality engineering women, from 2/3 of the top ChemE and the top CS schools... they weren't autistic mind you, good sir, they were Asia born edit: immigrants.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:04 AM
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Same. I'm doing way better than anyone I would've been partying with. I'd have been better off partying if I'd stayed in the same city currently, but in a fresh city in retrospect I was better off studying. Probably better off in long term either way, although gaining social skills in a competitive big boy's environment has challenges that partying early would alleviate. Balance.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:56 AM
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Worst of all, the best example of a woman engineer on the face of the earth is having her femininity lazied out of her in a liberal west coast city. I miss her cookies and dresses, they've given way to powerful woman. I hope she eats these little bitches alive, because she actually did the work and can compete with men. And we know how old women are toward young women using their assets to get ahead on their chess board.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:51 AM
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And they gang up and get great engineers fired if they're unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:47 AM
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In the professional sense, when one mixes friendship it's easy to get crossed. Eg. you tell the guy who sits next to you something benign (to him, he's cool), and he tells it all to his wife, who then lets it slip at the company christmas party in-front of your boss. Fake scenario, hope you get the picture. Narc, narcissist--on YouTube there are some channels with self-help stuff, coming to understand what the behavior of the clinical term is. It's essentially a total lack of empathy... overt be…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:32 AM
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No kidding. It's a jungle. It's motivation to just be Don Draper all the time. WWDD got me through the first few months on RP... I've softened a lot, and it's cost.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:17 AM
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One thing to look out for is covert narcs. They'll tip swaths of people against you given the chance, sometimes the spouse of an associate who wishes they had your life.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 09:01 PM
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My solution to excuses is to not do shit that I don't really want to do. Helps that I had to learn that through losing my income, but even after I got money again it stuck. I never go to a bar unless my team is on TV or a band that I've screened is playing, for example. If I go to look for chicks at a place I don't care to be it's obvious, and I used to when I first started TRPing because a Friday at home felt like a waste. But if I want to be there, I can literally talk with anyone because I kn…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:18 PM
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Former BP, standard programming. In fact, something my last LTR who was ~5yr younger consistently did was conflate "against the rules" with "illegal" even as a technology consultant. Turns out youngins in general are doing this, as to a low value beta there is only vindictive authority above.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:08 PM
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First episode, we were still in school not long before graduation. I can't remember if we'd agree that she would move with me or not. I was apprehensive, I guess maybe she could sense it. She took a bunch of pills in her apartment while I was leaving, and I went back and rescued her. Test "passed". On the drive there in the hotel, she locked herself in the bathroom and threatened to cut. I don't remember how that was resolved. Probably some kind of bargaining / promise. Third we were at our shar…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 04:45 PM
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14 inches taller. Do they even make dildos that long? Ie. I could tape a dildo onto the end of my dick and it would still be funnier when it wobbles than being taped onto your head.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 06:30 AM
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I'm under 5'6" and on Friday I was thought to be a bouncer. Funny as fuck, this 5'11+ girl tried to show her id and then giggled down 5+ inches. It goes to show that shape is pretty important. As man it's your fucking job, I agree. I've never boned more than a 7 or so, but I surely get opportunity from 8+ since getting my posture in line. Girls will come up to me with goofy smiles the closer they get, I guess I srink. I've been friends with a couple of 9's but surely in beta-ville but they were …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 06:26 AM
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If you ask me, they pick on immediate ability to have fun. At least 20-25 year olds do. Why would I look at a crusty ass bitch older than that? BTDT in my early 20s, nothing to see there :). 31 yo. When I was 23 I dated a 32 yo Chinese woman and she told me that women over 25 there were undatable / damaged goods called "left over women". I understand it now. She had a kid and was divorced without custody, heartless cougar.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 06:11 AM
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I'm good at algorithms and have been thinking about America Offline + dating for over 10 years. The answer is in Bloom Filters. Bloom was a guy, I hope he got laid.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 06:05 AM
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"feels me out" is the expression, as in her feelings about my response or non-response tell her more than anything I could express with words. Would you reply to some bitch if you were already asleep with or fucking some other bitch at 1am on Sat? In the US that is peak party hour. Bitches only want guys with great skills, so if you're dry dick then, you are dry dick M.D. She feels that.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 05:52 AM
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Nice man. I might be 6-12 months ahead in the journey. Having gotten more spiritual, looking within, especially between sets in the temple of Brodin. The edge will wear off. If you live in a big city you'll take joy in sampling all the women of the world with good nature. Some of them will try to stir shit up but if you filter them down to the more centered ones you'll have a decent cabinet of plates. Doing stuff that and waking up other bros when they ask, and enabling empowerment of others fee…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:48 PM
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You're being shit tested (how well do you behave while being ignored) or you got too weak and she lost attraction. This is crucial to understand when you're thirsty as fuck. She'll feel you out at 1am on a Saturday if she thinks she has you pegged as a dry dick, for example. If you respond she'll fall asleep or her battery will die or something, and you're off the A-list. Sending a text when you should be messing with some other girl or be booked up if you were in demand is a no-go, especially.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:39 PM
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I think you missed the point of parent, which was implicit in my response (sorry). While I never denied responsibility, the nuance you miss is that people will predatorily put you into this situation. Normal people assume people they work with have good intent, can't be on the lookout 24x7. Maybe that's a flawed view, my fault. Once you're in the position where they want a reaction, you know it's only a matter of time before they get you... even if you pass this time. I had personal shit in my l…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:41 PM
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I got fired when an Intern bitch did this to me and I dismissed her. No amount of explaining to engineering management (short European men, bluest of blue whitest of white knights) would let them comprehend, while the HR woman was incredibly sympathetic and regretful. Fuck bitches in the workplace, she interjected into a conversation I was having with somebody else and I got fired for telling her to buzz off when she was just trying to rile me. She tried to be a plate when her internship started…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 05:31 AM
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Why did you take the time to write this comment?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 05:13 AM
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For a long time I thought things like that were my imagination, but I'm acting on it a lot more now. Feelz mang... they're useful, just don't let them lead you around.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 10:20 PM
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Recently revamped my personal style and girls are throwing their panties at me like crazy, learning this just though being a pussy and passing up dozens of approaches. They eventually get frustrated and move on, but they hang out doing stupid little things for a good few minutes... basically till the window of plausible deniability closes. The timer starts when they notice you noticing or it's obvious any person with awareness would've noticed. But yes, do keep doing your own thing for a little …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 10:01 PM
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Meta and timely baby, nice work. I love that you bring in conditioning and value. I did this inadvertently yesterday. I'm a pretty good engineer but on the precipice of going my own way, fed up with office/startup BS to a large degree... too many fakers and flat out sociopaths after the big money. Anyway, she said something to the nature of "we're killing it" and I responded that I'm not into killing stuff "and became a vegetarian this year"... lmao. It's true, but it was funny because after tha…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 09:38 PM
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Pretty much. Time spent texting is time I could be doing other shit. If she's not being collaborative in our plans then I'm just going to drop shit offers when I have a few minutes. Though I live in a city with actually busy women, I'll sometimes offer her a specific decent deal like "come over with a bottle of wine at 7 and we'll make dinner or you can come later" and if she replies reasonability with decline I'll let it hang. Sometimes they text randomly, sometimes I'll shoot another offer aft…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:14 PM
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Understanding doesn't mean NAWALT. Don't even use logic when you're trying to fuck. If she's smart that's cool, but it has nothing to do with her fucking you. My early girlfriends didn't fuck for a while into dating... but the first one who did/last one who didn't would've let me do it right away even though she was a virgin.... she told me later and I feel it was true. I chose to wait long because I respected her so much, etc... I was the only guy of her type available though so I guess she ove…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:51 PM
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I betrayed myself in front of her by not trusting my gut instinct. Nice explanation of why failing shit tests is disgusting! Your fucking gut people, I didn't realize it existed until like 3 months ago. I thought feelings were just random and magic--super fucked up, but now I figure there must be others who are unwilling to listen to them, that's why I keep pointing it out. Not to say let them drive, but they're a sense like the others.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:34 PM
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Why is this down voted? Is it inaccurate?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:20 PM
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Shoulda said hometown where their family lives... any chick living somewhere on her own is questionable, big city and small town alike. If she's got the professional freedom to move solo she's likely been through university and stuff anyway... these hometown girls have never seen any money or opportunity, you can discern them pretty easily. They are a lot more naive and innocent talking too because they've not seen as much, for true lack--I know they'd turn into city girls if put into the city, …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:59 AM
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I only gave a scenario that involves non-state recognized marriage (eg. at a church without state paperwork), the real answer is don't get married by the state :). I'd check with a lawyer about common law, but my planned state of residence doesn't have it. Agreed, to get spiritually married with a woman and have kids she'll be 18-21 virgin or it's not happening... HB5+ is fine, I can afford to fix her up a little. The kind that's an 8 with a flat chest and untended hair or something. Like I said…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:51 AM
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Gotta find a girl who will support you, complement you. I'm an engineer and I want to focus on that. I need somebody who will add certain things to my life that'll help me in ways I wouldn't otherwise help myself. And of course I should do complementary things for her. And if it stops working then it's done. Some women are other than dumb sluts, of course they become that if you put them into that lifestyle. Picture a girl from Oregon, she's a farm girl. She probably actually hasn't been laid in…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:57 PM
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I am all for people being tradcon and having self love. I'm just not for the concealed past. But if you attract from AF nature and filter out the BB seekers, you really don't have to worry about it. Every girl who comes over to my place desires the D, even if that isn't very many. I cut the BB seekers because they have incentive to trifle. For a 20 year old Tradcon I'd be AB but the second she starts going sour I'd be on to the next one. Self love is good. I feel more sorry for 25+ y/os for bein…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:46 PM
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I've been the man with the hamster. I would have written it off as a one time thing, as I did. Indeed, lead him to reason like TRP does. My dick is clean and the hamster is in a cage, that's all that matters now.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:40 PM
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I figure even the most plugged in of guys must be seeing it as facebook friendships go on 10 years old and the old material is curated out of existence. And then they meet these girls with the same profile on OKCupid and put 2 + 2 together.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:33 PM
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My rule is, when I first meet a man I treat them my very best. The second time i see them, I treat them exactly how they treated me I like this rule. Do you know about the Grudgers/Suckers/Cheaters simulation? Your rule is basically the working strategy--groom newcomers, but refuse to groom them again if they don't reciprocate. I think somebody did a variation with forgiveness (observed grooming another, or similar, iirc).
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 04:00 AM
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Overall it's about doing whatever will leave them the most neutral when they leave. Our ego wants them to fall in love with us, but actually they should just never think of us again, good or bad. Think of the dynamics of a gossip circle.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:50 PM
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so when do chicks stop going to these things, instead of being so damn concerned about a good time and free drinks? Why on God's green earth would they do that? Fun is so much more fun than boring. The longer I date, the more I appreciate that aspect of religions.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:45 PM
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Later, I went to a dance bar and saw some women dancing. I start dancing with this chick and she's grinding on me. Her friend grabs her and says "she's with me". In the past I would have taken these words at face value. However, the friend did not move and was still grinding on me, playing with her hair and looking back at me. I grabbed her and got closer. SMH at the number of times I've yielded to this one. My "super-ego" is way too big. As a non-threatening looking guy people have pushed me ar…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:19 PM
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Post-graduate, but invaluable if you luck into a plate. I kept 2 of higher SMV spinning for 3 months from the sex alone... they fucking hated my personality.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:22 AM
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I posted a comment below, wasn't going to use the N word but 85% sure that's the case. Your checklist is the full game plan.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:18 AM
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Very interesting, thanks. Something I've been careful to do is NOT act on impulses to lose control and do what I normally wouldn't.... this might be a major breakthrough. I very much see the logic and it connects with stuff I've read before. Mini related FR... I'm spinning up a new plate right now; early mistakes, can elaborate if requested, but we left date 1/1 on good terms and I kissed her a little when she left my place (she was in a hurry and not so into it, but I said earlier in conversati…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:08 AM
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Indeed. Monk has helped massively in many ways. It just isn't the solution to all things. Some things require a degree of feedback. I started lifting (Rippetoe) and went for a couple years until I was at the level that I was comfortable with my mechanics, body weight squat basically. I used phone video to get enough feedback about my form to correct, to a point. After that point I hired a trainer. I said forget the hand holding diet the corporate gym wants you to give me, I just need form feedba…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 09:56 PM
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Been in and out of monk mode for about 4 years, mostly in; I think that's the opposite of what's needed for narcissistic abuse recovery. This is a special case of not being able to talk to women, calling it out because it was perspective changing to me when I learned it. Once I learned about narcopathy I cut a few key cancer cells out of my life and started making good relationships with people. I literally have not been aware of my feelings because most people in my life deny them and I accepte…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:16 PM
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It's disgusting to me, and yet I keep finding myself doing it. Deprogramming is a process, so was programming... I started learning about narcissistic personalities, somebody recoined the codependent traits 'self love deficiency disorder' / SLDD... I think that does a good job capturing the essence of codependent, which is probably always beta. It gives a cause for codependence that can be found and reversed. A common cause is narcissistic mothers, of course.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:02 AM
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Can't wait till I am ballin enough to have 7+ chicks who text back right away on speed dial
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 12:50 AM
1

Agreed. Mostly fap free for about 3-4 years now. Recently I let myself go a few times in a week that was stressful and by the 3rd time I was just over with it. That was a couple of months ago now. Whenever I feel like I want to start fapping, I usually just don't because I'm like 'this is not worth the side effects'... just like powerful drugs and drinking heavily.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 12:49 AM
2

Fat chicks are more prone to this type of things because they don't have decent options to hustle for, so they go all machiavelli with the extra time they'd spend taking care of themselves. Normal chicks can turn into fat chicks, naturally.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 12:13 AM
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Did you flag them? I wouldn't say that TRP is a racist place. Any place with 200k people is going to have some bad seeds. Sucks about your bad experience, but if you can't take the racial comments here then good luck in life. I have no doubt the mods would respond by taking non-constructive material down.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:43 PM
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Lol well now that you've calmed down, welcome to the Internet bro :) -- may your stay here be short
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:18 PM
2

To all you "alpha" on this online site who go and put down "betas" on the Internet. I say shame on you, life can change at any moment. The reason for this post: I can't believe all the shit talking people do behind their computer screens. People who shame betas must get removed quick because I don't see it much. We say kill the beta, but many/most of use were/are in a very beta life and know we're here to fix that. Seems like a pretty obvious troll. Hurr durr never used reddit, let me just edit …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:15 AM
1

Get ready for some painful potential realizations my friend. Don't hold it for too long and make sure to bury it when you're done, just learn lessons from amoral facts to inform your present self, if you want. You may also find you've been Chad at times, swings both ways.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:03 PM
1

This, in addition to physically adjusting your body to be in a more powerful position, to get the hormones flowing. The mind-body feedback loop... starting here with the Amy Cuddy TED talk.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:46 PM
2

The process you gave is one that I use when I remember to, where I just 'feel all my senses'... essentially what your list is, with a thinking override. In my comment history I talk about doing this on a dance floor, must've been last year sometime. Actually I try to cycle them all within a short period of time, giving each attention for a short period. Thanks for the write up. Count from 50 backwards in your mind, picturing each number. I just did the alphabet backwards for the first time in my…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:41 PM
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From a random corner of the Internet, this is an incredibly illuminating thread. I was literally posting shit like /u/toomanyit53 a couple of years ago. I cut the guy loose. We share 90% of our social network and I just ghosted him because I decided I care more for myself. Regardless of the fallout. If people ask me about it, because he's the type to gossip and I'm not, I'll just let actions speak louder than words. Him and I were both raised by Narc moms so I know what kind s of shit is running…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:48 PM
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That's one each two weeks... I'm at about 15 in the last 2 years which I'm pretty surprised by. A year ago it was like none and I was gaming all the time. This last year I barely game because life has been fucking shit, but when I do it's a pretty solid close rate. Part of having life be a shit storm is bitches don't perturb me, except when I'm horny and they're playing text games :). I guess you need to find a system that works. I get girls from the bus, uber, Tinder matches, cafes, free museum…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 03:39 PM
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I've never had Instagram, never used Snapchat, and I've never given my Facebook account to any of the girls I've hooked up with. Agreed. I'm barely on phone number to be honest... the way to bang is to immerse them. It may only be an evening. Last Friday I had a very interesting experience, which was the girl snapped out of her trance when I hesitated to lay a kiss on her lips as we were dancing in my apt. She literally ran to her shoes to leave. But 5 seconds prior she was feeling my sweater / …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 03:33 PM
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Learn to like it. I keep getting rejected for having emotions... young chicks think having emotions = being emotional, haven't learned the difference yet. Sounds like you have emotions. You can compartmentalize and realize all chicks are going to want this, she seems to know her sexuality and can vocalize it. I recently concluded that I am basically a virgin when it comes to really plowing bitches and closing because I've mostly had boring LTR sex. Learn to like it, or learn to accept that lots …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 03:04 PM
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I see hard work as a good thing. Working your fingers to the bone for a tiny paycheck while making no progress on yourself, on the other hand, is definitely a bad thing. I'll be sure to make this distinction on my deathbed :)
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:59 PM
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This is how I was thinking. My evidence is when they think you're a 1 and then you fuck up and they still agree to see you again. When they come back you're a 0 and you know they've probably fucked a Chad and talked strategy with their girlfriends in between. They'll have lots of rules etc and fuck in 1-2 dates, or if you're really hopeless then you can end up in -1 zone.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 11:10 PM
1

Think about it as taking a less than desirable job. There might be a job that most people don't want, but it lets you try your new skill in X training... and it's down to you and 2-3 other candidates. There might be an ugly chick with a great voice, for example. She knows uggos can be hot with the right network, and then she can be a pro singer (attention, status, maybe fortune). If she finds a musician who sees her as a muse (perhaps one of several), she's going to try to lock that down whether…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:22 PM
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If somehow you have $3-50 to blow, a buckwheat hull pillow makes all the difference. It's also one of the most useful things I have in my living room, laptop is on it on the couch right now... every homeless should own one. Heat and long term support properties are nice. Also, I realized I've had shitty 'oral posture'... look it up. I am /amazed/ what my tongue is capable of. Tonge position is hella important for proper breath, and if you've had it wrong your entire life like I did you won't kno…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:35 AM
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I hear ya, was a flippant example but the main idea is that you're not doing them a favor and ignore/downplay if they say thanks. Attention is the currency so just minimize the interaction. Some cases I sleeze them into buying something for me. Show up late? First drink's on them, etc. Usually 50/50 split.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 06:58 PM
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For example, beginners should try to open every girl and kiss any girl who likes them. For intermediates and advanced, I would say only open interested girls and don’t kiss the girl in public. In my experience, it offers a release of sexual tension to the girl and takes away the sense of urgency that drives her to needing to fuck you. Instead she has a nice little ending for her story of the night Exact same finding... suggest going somewhere when she starts trying to kiss you or get you to kiss…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:39 PM
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I glow when Russian chicks call me kind. Am I wrong? I hope not... they seem to like me. I haven't been called nice in a while, but when it's said I do my best not to cringe (it's usually not by surprise, thankfully... body language). Impressive considering I used to be proud to be the nicest guy ever... I'd have taken any girl with an asshole boyfriend....f dkalshfklahf. (eg. The Ataris).
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 05:43 PM
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Serious?? I'll try because it's ambiguous to me and 'teaching' is a good way to learn... I'll try examples: If you get coffee every morning and sometimes change cafes, and are generally attractive, you'll notice that baristas give you a couple shots in the first 1-2 weeks you go in, without fail. If you don't take them they keep being as hospitable as their boss expects, but they aren't chatty or curious anymore. The window closes, so to speak. "Word of the day is legs, spread 'em." I'm conditio…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 05:33 PM
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At the end of the day, when you get your picture taken, you don't want to say something stupid like: delete that picture, I don't like it. Since adjusting my posture and getting in shape I've said that less and less in the last ~3-4 yr, to the point I don' think it's in my vocabulary. Doesn't matter what I'm wearing, even a hoodie with gunk all over the sleeves from cooking the night before and uncut haphazard hair. I just got a fade for the first time... had always been insecure about a mole on…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 06:11 PM
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One of us seems unwilling to have this conversation.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 06:56 AM
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It is intimidating knowing that if somebody says something to you, no matter how you respond including walking away you will be met with negative reactions. People are tense. Do you live in a city? Use transit? Through Tenderloin SF? Walk amongst cracked out homeless populations (as infrequently as possible)?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:50 PM
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Thanks for the post OP. In the context of this comment, the Seven Habits book presents the eisenhower matrix (popular, can search). important/not important and urgent/not urgent axis. Netflix falls into 'not important not urgent', which you should make some time for. Spirituality / RP might fall into 'important not urgent'. That idea helped me make peace with leisure time, even being a pretty anxious workaholic.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:05 PM
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I'm a SFer and I've been called racist and had people use ad-homiem on me more this last year than I imagined possible in an entire life ("dude, I see 100 things about you and they're all white male")... calling somebody white is actually like spitting elephant in the room truth at them... surreal. Know what that sounds like to me? The lore from days when a black person would walk down the isle on the bus and people would breathe 'nigger' under their breath at them. Yea that's some terrible stuf…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:10 AM
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If you point out the obvious, HR comes to your desk and you pack your things and they replace you with somebody from their stack of diversity resumes. There is no discussion.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 05:48 AM
1

Does a turtle get to star gaze?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:26 AM
2

I hung/hang with a lot of people like this, never get drafted into the sexual club though. I can think of 100 reasons why that're disappearing gradually as I put in the work with RP (conditioned by feminists, tv, etc). It's only a new realization that it was even taking place and I was unaware. With ya, female friends who randomly hookup can be the norm. I have some who I've banged a few times in 5-10yr that we've known and it's natural otherwise. I've gotten referrals too for ONS. I'm on the ed…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 12:49 AM
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I coulda been there. Old friend from HS met up for the first time in a while in my new luxury apt. She wants to go to the grocery store to get a pregnancy test. Goes to my bathroom, takes it. Some guy blah blah, similar story. Then we hang out all afternoon as we'd planned. I coulda banged but I 'valued the friendship' and was also a little RP and know she's good as a friend and too crazy to stick it in. Coulda been fooled though, could just be paranoid of course (hopefully!). She's still on CC …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 12:33 AM
1

Women get interested in me because I look good - but that interest dies the second they realize I am not popular where I live no matter how I act. Yesterday a chick came up to an acquaintance and I and asked if we were in a band. She like totally recognized us from somewhere. She was eating out of our hand as I played a long (didn't lie, just asked for details etc as if maybe she did). As soon as I said j/k we're not famous or anything she totally changed demeanor and excused herself. Generally …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 05:01 PM
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I've noticed something with my career posts on Facebook. Certain people who are highly regarded come by and shit on them with the first comment within seconds of posting (obv FB targets them). Doesn't matter how novel or interesting, there's some invalidating comment followed with something like 'this way would be better. tldr: blah is hard' which now everyone sees front and center and I can argue with them or delete their comment (I delete and unfriend). Worse when they clearly didn't even clic…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 04:04 PM
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5 Before you work on your game you should get everything else you need to get done that day done. If you don’t, and you’re not experienced, you will be giving yourself excuses about why you shouldn’t do this or that approach or why it’s not a good idea with her right now. Plus, if you’ve dropped something important to come out instead, you’re probably going to be visibly tense, even if you don’t realise it. Wrap your stuff up first guys. This is important especially if you're working for yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:07 PM
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in my head I thought she would come round or learn to trust me or whatever but girls are so illogical and I had no idea. KEY INSIGHT. I've forgotten my rationale but I've had this feeling for one of my high school ex's, decade+ ago now... like somehow I could earn her acceptance. Controlled even worse beyond that. Thanks for sharing, bro! Slowly but surely she's takin more and more advantage of this nature and I'm ending up depressed and she's ending it with me. Hang in there. Forget her name. B…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 05:44 PM
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I feel like I'm watching a playdoh fun factory of chicks I know going from 26-32 in the last several years... in that it's the exact same pattern. Not looking forward to what 33 has to offer these poor souls, but they're clawing at my ankles on FB as I'm a former-BB who's now in a rich city (and variably rich). I'm starting to be more open and it's gotten me into trouble until I found a way to finesse... but people ask why I'm single and who I'm looking for so I answer like, "well I'll want kids…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:30 PM
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I had a homie who's gf-turned-wife did this to him... and he produly went along with it and rushed the fuck into marriage (<6mo from meeting iirc). She cheated on him with a roommate within a couple of years. Never saw that one coming with the BP. She made side remarks to me about slutting it up in college but that being over...
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:19 PM
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I'm with ya bro, on my way out... 2mo saved up sofar with $1k for self-investment and reading 48 laws like scripture. Thanks man. Market's warming up again, it was basically holiday freeze as industry standard is to basically wrap up the year right when I needed a job and was out of cash. All is well. edit: sounds like maybe you'll benefit or be entertained from my twitter... it's me doing just that: hoteng ca (no space, for index avoidance)
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 02:57 AM
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This also works in reverse and can be hard to combat when people are projecting a false image onto you. Took a new job where the boss treats me like a piece of shit after a career of having my ass kissed as a young prodigy... over 30 now so I've lost all magical ability in the world's eyes, despite being leaner and meaner than ever. He treats me like I'm untrustworthy and capable of nothing and I have to consciously and constantly reinforce the opposite idea in myself with the rest of my time...…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:09 PM
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LOL... yea I'm not pursuing the fantasy especially hard. I do like to go to clubs because I'm into music and entertainment side projects. I dance with randos sometimes. But there was a time my friend actually boned his gf in a club bathroom and I saw when I went to take a wiz, and I've had various encounters with girls I've been out with... I think that's more practical... but I'm more into the (new money) house party scene now anyway and anything the host is cool with goes there, so all good
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 04:29 PM
2

homie in college bragged about banging chicks in bathrooms... I was hella skeptical, but he was asian and maybe an asian girl whisperer for all I knew. I've been taken to bathrooms and taken a chick to a pizza place bathroom in the last couple years... never believed it before. far from a master. like the "high heels the the bathroom stall" type idea though... I give rando girls reasons not to fuck me right away, gotta knock that off
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 07:24 AM
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Lived in Denver for a bit, just the place for this kind of thing I guess.... all the SJWs are too stoned to come fuck with you... hahaha. Not in touch with anyone there now but good luck. Seriously though, random dudes at bars were fairly red pill to begin with it seemed like.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 01:08 PM
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When I was in high school there was no such thing as youtube or reddit but I learned how to program and made it for my friends (1998ish). Now I make a shit ton of money with those same skills. That's another use of time for a 5% high schooler. Never did money cross my mind, and when it did I wanted none of it. Obviously I want it now, but it's true that the less money focused I am the more it lands on me.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:37 PM
3

Face fucking sounds more appealing than anal... was never turned on by anal but am down to give them more dominance.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:17 PM
1

That isn't much to brag about over 2 years, but it's the part of the journey that was hard... I'm here offering to answer any questions you may have. Forgetting girls I slept with was unimaginable 3+ years ago. I'm big into open source software, there's a community of sharing and standards are always increasing, I think of / would like to help TRP be the same way. So I shared some wins and am available to elaborate on a personal basis.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:09 AM
5

Taking control of language is a nasty trick... seems as old as time
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:21 PM
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Can I sue a former boss who made false statements to get me fired in a similar fashion, like slander + libel? I've been thinking about 30k is worth it to clear myself and expose that guy because he's actually damaged my reputation in a lasting way... is that a reasonable ballpark or are we getting into 6 figures? Not a person who seeks revenge lightly but I want to make this guy live through hell. I'll be able to clear myself with enough time but out of curiosity...
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:29 PM
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I don't take home women who get blackout drunk on the first date. Plenty of girls will fuck sober. I still like the idea of it... but reality is never so fun. Find the sober friend who doesn't really want to be there. More than a couple glasses of wine and she can have a good night on her own.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 09:44 PM
1

LOL a joke. Thinking back I just remember another girl I hooked up with. Friend of a friend, we left and took an uber back together because we lived a few blocks apart and it was 45+ min across a bridge. Could tell she wanted me right away, just being charming toward me and her body language. So while nobody else could see it, when there were decisions like who to follow (we were at a street fair) I knew what the girl would do... she'd look to the most attractive guy. So even though our mutual f…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 07:50 PM
2

But in my inner side, I'm a melancholic, poetic guy. I've always been like that. I know, that's feminine, that's desgusting for women. I know. You can be this way in private. It's disgusting to women you just met, men you just met, because it should be reserved for more mature relationships. But in my inner side, I'm a melancholic, Yep... hahaha. It's our duty as a man to face the harsh truth and to make the world our oyster. It's our duty to be manly because we are men, and men don't act like w…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:54 PM
1

Rewarding good behavior is something I want to learn. I don't have enough practice to notice micro level stuff yet. Getting a dog is in my plans but not in the cards at the moment. Conversationally, I say things about their pictures. This machiavelli shit I'm spewing is basically the study of how women behave. They take 100s of pictures to get one selfie out... ask yourself why. They know what makes a good picture. They swipe right and get a match, they know that too. They may not play chess but…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:43 PM
1

I gave three examples that we can talk about concretely. Start by making a profile that can get matches. You should "show not tell" them that you would be a good guy to hook up with. If you are "hot" by TRP standards, you naturally do things that trigger the Alpha Fux sensors at the right time and Beta Bux sensors at the right time, which make her so horny. I sometimes have a few sentences about myself. I'm short so I don't talk about my height, the only ones who ask are the ones who aren't alre…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:30 PM
1

Yea it wasn't handed to me, for one. What pictures do I have on Tinder? What did I say to these girls? In my view it doesn't make sense to lay out an elaborate post when I have no experience doing it and people here come from all kinds of backgrounds. Four chicks in 2 years isn't that great, there were multitudes of failure in the middle. Consistently making the gym a couple times a week for over a year so that even when I'm unemployed and not that hot they'll play along... not really luck dude.…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:11 PM
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Ask questions, I don't know what theory will be helpful because I've not made many posts yet. I assume forums can have some back and forth
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 07:34 AM
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Starting a conversation with practical stories. I'm not a master but I have learned enough to contribute a little, and I think I can explain theory of the situations. Teaching is a good method of reinforcing lessons... somebody told me "the best way to learn is to teach" and it stuck. Gotta start somewhere. If people ask me to elaborate I'll better know what details to include next time. And maybe somebody gets laid this weekend. Not like ya'll will be siring competing offspring even with a few …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:57 AM
1

Can't argue with the price per lay of Tinder in terms of both time and money. I use it while I poop or after I get a match notif or if a girl is actively hitting me to meet. No LTE service on the shitter can be a hurdle to getting laid, crazy. I don't get to know them or chat, I just go straight to meeting or phone. I don't text in my personal life either, hate that shit. I do shamelessly walk around with a hand on my balls more lately though and girls are receptive, it's pretty fresh. Edit: you…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 04:51 AM
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On the other hand, if she doesn't like you and you're in some form of competition with him she'll be relentless against you... so better to make her wet.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 03:40 PM
1

It was a fluke or so, I want to call her 7 because I agree but objectively I think she's an 8 because she's hotter than other 7's I've been with. My 4 status is also temporary, I have probably been a 6... given my physicals I can't get much higher than that. But I induce tingles in women who like masculine men, Russian and Latina, better than most white guys without tats. I did consciously use some tricks on her, but we vibed very well too. She was my first young one in a decade and I was shocke…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 03:26 PM
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Yea... any specific questions? I wanted to cover ground with the theme of learning by example. I'm pretty inexperienced but I've used some RP knowledge in all these encounters. I have 2x as many examples that are similar where I've fucked it up.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 03:23 PM
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My gym has a rooftop pool. I'm saving that one for sane chicks with hot bodies. I love swimming. But I've invited bros. Bringing a bro to the gym is revealing. All my best friends have been to the gym or some kind of physical activity with me. This hasn't always been true, but it is when I was young and recently and nobody questions it. I have female friends. Most of my friends are very high IQ, we are high up in our industry. Female friends are starting to cheat on their SOs (not necessarily wi…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:47 AM
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Upon re-reading, clearly location matters here. I moved from a trendy neighborhood to a far off working class one to get a larger studio space, free of room mates as well. When I move back to a more central spot I'll be slaying, out of practice and struggling with logistics. I have friends with pads. Life's been kicking the shit out of me this year so I'm very rusty and mindset is used to abuse. I could get a hotel and not be out too much, if there are no conferences around. I generally stay sob…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:24 AM
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The post managed to get a surprising number of upvotes so maybe you know what you're doing, it came off as pretty emotional to me... now, removed? I can't re-read it but it seemed like maybe you could have been talking to an audience. Looking forward to more refined future posts then.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:32 PM
1

the entire message turns back into "then she will love me/then she won't cheat on me/then I can get married/etc." Uhh.... where? AWALT bro, we know, she'll love the hottest guy she has access to. "It's only your her turn." We say be the hot guy and if you're not the hottest keep working at it. You might be projecting, basic side bar material. Edit: your her turn... via HumanSockPuppet below... good thinking
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 03:34 AM
1

Nothing has made me feel better than a night out with my pals, back in the Midwest. It's been a long time, we're all in a new city as of recently and things are totally different. But then you go to college and they classify 4 drinks as "binge drinking." (blue collar, late college). Every weekend was excessive, but since you were already a binge drinker.... But there were those times after the lessons (breakups, blue pill dramas), and the hung over Sunday routine was wonderful... the Sun was alw…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 11:10 PM
1

What would you look for in somebody for smv verification? Photos or video clips, vocal samples, some questions about lifestyle though ideally those could be inferred. Image/video object recognition and text to speech in good conditions are progressing quickly, and Google just made a breakthrough new method for analysis + translation tech. Meaning could be pulled from all the identified objects in the images and various other inferred qualities. We can argue it wouldn't be perfect, but neither is…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:37 PM
2

HAHAHA... NRS, sometimes you surprise but I can't say I'm shocked. HNY man
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 04:48 PM
2

(please no sorry for your losses) Lost my brother last year and I don't talk about it because people have acted like I'm wrecked over it, gaslit me, and then acted as thought I was distraught and complained to HR and landlords. It's just a lever for them to pull in a competitive place (Sand Hill Road) and it's sick... nothing like my Scandinavian upbringing where people genuinely cared and supported each other. In this way TRP has probably literally saved my life from the snakes. I don't have al…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:35 PM
1

Can confirm this, albeit I don't get to experience it often yet because of a small pool (temp circumstance). Have gotten some publicity hookups. Am discrete and stoic and known to not talk shit even when I am totally in the right (via work life). I found a way to communicate this on Tinder: one picture of me with 2 good looking women with black squares over their faces, the rest are pics of me without anyone else. I state privacy and facial recognition stuff if pressed, only been a couple times.…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 05:13 PM
1

Working through it, all good... the only way to be a winner is to win (again). I said something blatantly wrong earlier, "I have no master worth worshipping": myself (oneself). Thanks and happy new year
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:47 AM
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Yuck. I am conditioned with this mindset/program and it's hard to break out of. I have no master worth worshipping, but I see myself trying to find one instinctually. It's sick and needs overcoming on my part, but being raised by a big family of single mother/divorced feminists as the second-to-youngest baby of the family... not the youngest, not a girl; fucking broken. I almost went the Trans route, fell in with that crowd... backed the fuck off that idea after swallowing the RP, and I really t…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:56 PM
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LOL yea.I only broke it down so hard because it's been like 4 years since I flowed with a chick. I moved to a new city from where I was a solid 8 to a solid 4. Hometown I was above average height, average religion, edgy, AAA career, extensive social... here I get rejected by chubby ass 4's. Flow is her charming you, if that makes sense. I want to be charmed don't get me wrong, but take it from a 4 watch out for going full retard because if it weren't for that I might've only gone from 8 to 6.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:10 AM
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I've got a plan to try the morning routine at the gym. Like I said, I wake up at 5-6a. I've gone in to work out right away a few days, but I'm a guy of routine so I'd want to give it a month or so. Parking meters by my gym turn on at 9a, so I've thought about waking up and driving straight there and finishing workout by 8-9a 4-5x/wk (my industry rolls out of bed into the office at 11, I am early). I just decided to be an early bird a few years ago and have been ever since. I did afternoon 5-6x/w…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 09:33 AM
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Buck up, I have learned that energy is actually pretty bottomless it's just that we allow ourselves to make excuses. I can't even list all the bullshit that's crumbled in my life in 2016 including death, abuse, missed weddings, financial ruin, you name it. Here I am working through the holidays. I've experienced burnout before, twice, while BP. Buck up, camper. I never get sick and eat things off the floor if I'm clumsy enough to drop it. I was raised by feminist women and was an atheist so I'm …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:34 AM
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I used to have close friends in many circles and this group sounds like one particular party house. Still friends with my friends, but those people are the same. Pass. OP good job in life. I have offers galore when I see those people but I don't want them, I don't touch 5's. This story reminded me how much better off I am now, alone at home on NYE (I had options but with BPs).
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:25 AM
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http://deoxy.org/alephnull/nam-shub.htm -- the blue pill is a mind virus of this sort... read this book shortly after high school but the idea of the Nam Shub on Enki has eternally stuck with me.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:14 AM
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but also out of frustration over the fact that that was me I've realized more generally that this is true. Often when something pisses me off and I think about it, it's because it reminds me of a bad trait of my own. Like 9/10. I try to fix it and forgive. So thankful for TRP myself and yea, I'm always looking for sources of non-bitches to bring into my life now but am pretty lonely still because the programming is deep. I have some good people but not many yet. Lack of TV/Facebook and media con…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:10 AM
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I'm 5'6 with shoes and can do well in club game if I'm there with certain friends. Usually in VIP/after hours as a guest of a DJ though since I dabble in that stuff. Never realized that mattered before TRP lmao. Most of the chicks I hung out with at that time and brought to parties were hot and it was all I knew. Out of it now and in a new city but I see the same thing with new producer/DJ friends I meet here
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:57 AM
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You sound like the kid from Gran Torino. Sadly you sound the same as me, except I'm white so I have that tidal wave of privilege to ride on (sarcasm). I realized earlier this year what I had when I was younger and had been beaten out of me and have been getting it back, and the beatings are coming harder than ever. But life is starting to work as I learn how to cope. Fuck excuses indeed, you're spot on about motivation being for consumers. All you can do is not care about shitty conditions... ev…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:45 AM
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Maybe I've been on dates with lots of cunty hot girls and become jaded lately, but his attitude seems reasonable by my reading (text sucks for that, so I could be mistaken). I'm most surprised by how non-cunty she sounds for an 8, but I believe it because my old girlfriends were very attractive sweet hearts before moving to big liberal metropolises and becoming brats in their 20s. But her behavior reminds me of some plates and how I see 2 ex's now, a Latina from Salvador and another East Coast r…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:22 AM
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Thankfully I'm not as sensitive to caffeine but I am also surprised how I feel when I cut it out. I fucking love coffee, it's one of my only vices along with cali greens. I can replace it with something in time, the right herbal. I like the afternoon workout but logistically it's harder, coworkers really question leaving in the afternoon so often. I find 6p right before dinner the best time over the past year, usually a few hours past the 2-3p black coffee. With this setup I think working out ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:06 AM
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Just a founder of few companies and happened to know how to spot talented people, telling people to work at certain hour is one of the most expensive cost for any company. Hahahaha..... hahahahhahaha.... hahahahahha..... if only my new boss had some of your foresight. All my previous bosses have, it's just funny how this isn't obvious to everyone.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:00 AM
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Step 0: set a fucking alarm. Step 1: wake up and don't press snooze. Step 2: repeat forever. If you can't do that, you make too many excuses. I agree on take alarm away from bed--mine is on my table (phone + watch); treat weekend like weekday--own your fucking life, manage it and don't be castrated by the work week. Seasonal stuff can affect us, I got a full spectrum lamp that I use to light up the room from about 6a every day the sun isn't up that early sometimes. Hard to know for sure if it ma…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 06:56 AM
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It could be a language thing. Sometimes when I tell stories my word choice makes me sound like a dick. I say that most people are too sensitive and addicted to outrage, and am quoted as saying most people actually hate their life--which I think is true. I think it's why so many people get pissed off at everything Trump says. Thanks for the analysis though. I'm still not convinced either way, real or fake.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 06:49 AM
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Very interesting. I'm not down with 69ing and as I said to OP I wouldn't do it with a new partner, sounded like there was reason to believe she might've been fit and hygienic to me so maybe I'd have made that exception. Sounded like she was pretty sexualized too. Thanks for getting back on that
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 05:28 AM
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Can you elaborate on what makes you think it's fiction? It is a very good account yet I've got about the same level of experience and a lot less going for me SMV-wise than OP, so it seems plausible but not at this point in my life (ie. when I can pull 8's which I have a couple, I can do 6's sometimes now and I won't go lower).
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 05:24 AM
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I'm saying what I mean, and meaning what I say, its up to the female to interpret what I'm saying correctly without emojis, or using Lol and lmao all the damn time. and Women don't interpret my messages as me being a serious prick or some shit. I've found that women interpret messages based on how they're feeling about it, or what emotions they're projecting at that time (Theory, idk) "I don't chase 'em I replace 'em and if I'm caressin' 'em I'm undressin' 'em" -Notorious BIG
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 05:07 AM
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This chick sounds fucking nice, uncorrupted yet like my past LTRs from the Midwest. It's only your turn, she's going to be broken before long so enjoy her while she lasts. Willing to fuck with the lights on, must have a body she works to maintain. Mentioned challenge early on and then rose to perceived challenges, powered by her actual sex drive. Women love differently, this sounds fucking solid. I love your trick about face sitting and comment about white teeth... I'd normally not eat out a chi…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 04:41 AM
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If you're out of shape go to the gym 3 times a week 45 min top. When I started lifting about 1.5yrs ago for the 3rd time, first post-TRP, I took the mindset that I'm going to lift until I die so no particular session is very important, and it's totally important to not hurt myself and break my habit. My only requirement was that I go to the gym, change, do stuff, shower, leave. "Do stuff" is the easiest part, because you've put yourself there so this habit was about overcoming the annoyance of t…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 02:19 AM
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I grew up in a house with no books. Started reading as a means to improve my programming game. Still struggle to allow myself to spend time unproductively, but there are 100s of books worth reading that'll enhance my life from programming to spirituality and I do 5-10/yr for the past several years... still not big on fiction. Fiction audio books are good for commutes if they're in 15-20 minute bites, but I like the silence/being present too. I make little/no attempt to retain anything but a lot …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 02:11 AM
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There is an indirect benefit, as women pay attention to where hotter women are looking. If you seed a couple hot ones, the other women later don't know why they keep looking at you...
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 04:48 AM
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I did this when a gay white guy was berating me for being an ignorant straight white guy (in America)--daring to defend Trump voters as non-hateful. I told him that I am European-American and don't want to be called white and he flipped his shit and refused, at which point all bars came out and I doubled down... he eventually escalated to physically stepping into my space with his chest up at which point I made the same posture and backed him out of my space (I was cornered against a counter top…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 04:18 PM
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You're a European, maybe a trendy country if you're lucky. I'm a Euro-American. White isn't a culture. I got this idea from TRP and a gay man raged the fuck out and stepped at me for using it on myself when he was calling me white... I think 'white' emasculates you.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 06:49 PM
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When I started going to the gym about 18 months ago I couldn't run 1/2 mile at 5mph. Now I do it close to 4 minutes starting at 7+ and ending at 8.5+ mph. I've made no conscious improvement, I just said I'd run for 5 minutes before every workout to get my heart rate up. This is the case for almost everything, even washing dishes and cooking. Think of it all like brushing your teeth. You should really do it, but if you miss it sometimes all you can do is brush and try not to forget again.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:40 PM
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I get your logic, but logical advice like this has created numerous regrets that I haven't gone with my instinct. I'm a logical person to a fault, yet I'm financially ruined at the moment and have settled a false accusation court case (traffic related) so I know what the legal snake feels like despite following the best logic. Worse, following logic means I can't speak authentically about the situations for the rest of my life, except to say I should have went with my gut but my weak mind was le…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:31 PM
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You're right except the desperation part, at least in my case. But what I see us trying to do here is implement better habits. Better habits create a more independent and powerful person which gains attractive properties--and we talk about how to use them to fuck better/more. So yes like mgtow/pua we do address the fact that women exist and make a decision how to interact with them. In our case it's a few principles of game on top of being the most attractive guy in the room... attractive throug…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:21 PM
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The RedPill loves women, we just know that women don't love us back unless we have what they need and want. This is a great way to sum it. Can be clearly made into a decision tree. Love women? Yes? -> RP. No? -> Mgtow. RP? -> Decide to get what women want. Want to get what women want? -> lift, eat good, sleep, game. Lift, eat good, sleep, game? -> get laid. Mgtow? -> not get laid. So mgtow's place here has been taking advantage of #4 while undermining #1.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:00 PM
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LOL I questioned if this was my ex as she's probably RPW. But I agree with you... animal shelters are full of little lap dogs like this chick's arm piece. I was one before I grew a pair, left her when she gave an ultimatum.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 06:49 AM
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This happens all the time in coffee shops and at shows. I go and do my thing, I'm involved in music a little bit and a serious software engineer. Girls will spark up conversation with me and I'll be nonchalant and I'll see the chumps around getting resentful. Very often they even initiate contact exchange and then I go on working/enjoying and move on. I think the women like that I've got a mission and am not thirsty. I see the thirsty guys instantly, I used to be one, and it's how I'm so confide…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 05:02 AM
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I went to school with a bunch of Koreans and was friends with a few. One told me that they are Japan's black people.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 01:38 AM
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Dude I've been with you. End game is she's been turning my friends against me. Just walk, don't give her another opportunity to make you look like an aggressor. She's already got enough stories to establish a pattern to anyone willing to listen, all they need is a reason to listen. If you can afford a hotel tonight and a storage locker to put your stuff in, just make your exit now. I'm not dramatizing, if you can afford to cut everything this second then do it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 06:12 PM
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Trump coming in is actually scaring people like product managers into taking privacy and security seriously, since there is no longer friendly admin in place in their perception. PMs are the people to influence to use the decentralized side of the internet at the expense of convenience. They control the messaging and experience of the end user.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:31 AM
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I'd go to my old college bar to see if any of the staff work there still. I'd also go to watch a big game on the TV and drink local beer. I've never not been a loser there actually, might actually fuck a chick in the bathroom for a change ;). It did bring in some non students for drink specials. Holidays give a lot of good excuses to be in a college bar. A white like would be that your parents live nearby or you were passing through and it looked like a good spot... could even say you thought th…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 08:29 AM
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I get the sentiment but as a rational outside view, she was attracted to you as you were... keep your mission in sight for her to remain fully attracted and thus happy. Good feels at the cost of your mission will make her lose respect for you... so make sure any extra time off is justifiable. Obviously enjoy it and be decent to her. Condolences man. May the weed heal her or help her last days be a little more fun.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:26 AM
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Keep in your mind that you have 3 other girls you could be fucking, esp. if this girl isn't cutting it for you 110%. Even if it isn't true, you know it could be if you were lucky. I'd rather be at home working on shit than not getting laid... so hurry up already, tits or gtfo. I have enough to protect that I plan to not fuck on the first date, but if they seem legit enough and are down I do it. I'm in market for FWB/plate.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:17 AM
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Find the choke points of human interaction and money flow. These require competence and/or beauty. This is where your friends and colleagues live. They should have slutty friends that you can fuck, and vice versa. Dude. Set up a system and watch shit play out. Make sure you're breathing right and have food in your fridge, like winding up a watch. Take time to think before you respond, you have that right. sluts will slut on a winner's dick... even let you grab her by the.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:11 AM
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Posture might be fucked. Lifting can actually exaggerate problems and make certain groups look over/under developed. I'm way shorter than you and my friends are mostly taller than you so you can be doing better. Girls have surely given me the treatment you describe but I carry myself better since doing more mobility work. I had to stop strength progress for a while, still did some maintenance, and focused on mobility for several months. Worth it.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:01 AM
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Agreed. Usually want to avoid anything that would trigger ASD or make her think she's about to get raped. Ie. be in private after she's warmed up. But if you don't she'll wonder what the fuck is wrong with you, which kinda makes her wonder if she's not hot or you don't like her or you are a beta (maybe planning to rape or spill the beans socially). But if she rejects you and you take it in stride then you can carry on afterward.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 07:52 AM
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To be fair I think you gotta put the move no matter what given 4mo, and then say you fucked up either way (one little kiss, give her a taste, then STOP and say you can't do this AGAIN). I've not done it enough to say it's a sure winner, but it's been a winner. In my case it's been SRO type places with month to month rent and ~3mo sublets, so little risk. If you go for it and she blocks, at least she knows you're straight. Then you laugh and maybe smoke weed again.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 07:41 AM
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Good point, they are indeed Tivoing all this shit because it serves that purpose. Unfortunately nothing worth salvaging with this role as it was WKs all the way up the chain. The middle-aged in-shape lady from HR was the only person who treated me decent, the bosses treated me like a deplorable monster. Yet to talk to that chick again... she was unattractive and I did indeed reject her after her first week or so and she'd taken a couple indirect swings at me in the presence of my team (one proba…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:15 AM
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Best part about getting fired for referring to a coworker as a B is that it was WKs who went to HR about it while acknowledging she didn't seem upset by it (she knew what she was doing, all in jest). Fucking gender traitors probably ate their WAGs pussies extra hard that night.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:14 PM
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Must've been a skinny plate
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 04:36 AM
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It gives me more comfort to go under a president who is in tune with the laws of nature rather than showmanship. I heard his comment and knew right away what he was saying and I'm a newb who might've responded with outrage 4-5 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 07:02 PM
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If you live in a city you should look into recipe delivery products like Plated or Blue Apron. They can teach you how to cook with minimal materials, main issues is catching the weekly delivery. They ship with the herbs and oils you'll need which is nice, but the perishable aspect is weak. There are meal delivery ones too, where you need only heat it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:44 PM
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It sheds some light on girls getting annoyed when you don't want to be their time ho. They love pissing away time but our time is expensive by the time pussy equivalency principle. A man valuing his time is unfriendly. A woman valuing her pussy is a prude.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 08:39 PM
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I know the FB problem all too well. I think it's ruining my life, even the info leaked from people who like profile pictures which must be public... they see the people closest to you every time you change pictures. But I work in an SJW centric industry so not having one is creepy. Still might delete it anyway, lots of conservatives like my stuff and I'm an an SJW oasis; no doubt office girls are creeping and getting bad impressions as well, when all that is public is my associations. Should alm…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 07:37 PM
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Keep that collar popped. I wish I joined a frat in college in retrospect, would've buffed my social skills. Protip: use brogrammer proudly only in RP contexts... SJWs on the W coast hate that shit and will blacklist you if they get the scent. Disgusting, fat, rich, privileged, women in HR. Thinking about it, external recruiters seem more RP. But brogrammers are good to work with.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 07:29 PM
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Disgusting when combined with HR and banter.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:23 PM
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That's very wise. Have your pussy and then use it to tempt your bros when you're done with it. I know I stopped having bros who date chicks with personality disorders and run their mouths to them; have thought to test that by giving some of my own dirt that I DGAF about for them to blab.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:14 PM
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Friends are people who you enjoy time with after the terms of the contract have been met. Don't give them shit that'll let them twist your arm is the game. If you're both balls deep in hookers and blow then you have about the same to lose... for now. Smart phones kinda killed a lot of things, now they all have blackmail and change stories forever. I realize that's fucking dark, but good morning bright future.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:07 PM
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Was helpful for me to have a WIP limit or I never finished anything. If a new book looks great I need to finish one first. Was good for a while, now I actually have a bunch started again and haven't finished one in months... gotta get back on that one. At least I've not bought 100 more books since I realize I'm cheating every time I read now, but gotta get back to finishing... fuck this tantric reading baawshit.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 08:20 PM
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It's good being around people that are this way... my current career environment in the mecca of software is full of young paper chasers on one hand, and a bunch of brainy weenies with little social experience. It's funny because they're totally cucking the software dev industry, these brogrammers we keep hearing about are actually frat guys who would've gone to wallstreet and the nerds are being cleared out and crying about it. But the bros are meeting the needs biz better than the pussy beta c…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 08:12 PM
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Thanks man, great advice. Holy fuck have I felt like utter shit this year, and at 1-2 other periods in life (no complaints here). The last 3 are hard. Journaling + routine helps measure success in smaller units. Other 2 go hand in hand, but after being rejected and surviving enough times you become numb--part of acceptance/determination in response to loneliness/rejection. Spirituality kinda helps here, though I considered myself an Atheist for a long time. Why do I get up and do what I do even …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 07:58 PM
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In this video around the 1:45 mark you can see him running the numbers through his head as he talks about the reach possible with alternative channels. He has more YT followers than UT has students... he said he could never write a book with that kind of reach. Abundance mindset increasing as he learns what's possible... he talks about in 2013 he put his videos online with no production, and now kinda enjoys production and in the last year has come to see YT as Guntenberg press level revolution.…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 08:24 PM
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Came across this guys' course videos (100s) via recommended videos on YT a while back, this is my dedicated RP profile and yea, he fits to say the least. They're awesome. Also, watch girls get entranced by him... I speak publicly and that's where I've met a few LTRs. Been following the anti-SJW stuff from him and he's spot on. He's so clearly not *-ist in any way. He looks at humans and gives them dignity, it's self evident in his responses. Their manipulations are clear and they begin to feel n…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 03:48 AM
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They sit around all day and watch TV and play video games, it's the most mundane, predictable existence you could ever imagine, but you know what? They're happy. Hopefully until the lease is up bro. The thing with couples and just humans in general is we have a certain level of needs and if they're met we're comfy. We can choose to push past and many of us here do. Those needs may not include future thinking, which makes more volatility. What if one loses their job now vs. if they have some cont…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 04:35 PM
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This has been up for 21 hours and only 30 upvotes? Holiday weekend in the US, just threw mine in. Guess all us strapin' young bucks are traveling and hanging with fam. Stellar guide though, indeed.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:41 PM
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It's hilarious because average chumps are so often Progressives who signal virtue for being open minded and informed on reality too. Fuck the blue pill. This post is a perfect example of your post from today... very clear list with all kinds of outside references, I may have violently rejected it a number of years ago while I was a blue pill provider and called myself so evolved. My oneitis at the time recently took a page from the RP playbook and locked up her ex boyfriend from right before I p…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:35 PM
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LMAO must've been asian to lie 41 down to 35. Well glad you broke your dry spell. Last night a 39 year old started coming on to me, I'm 32... not the worst and she has good taste in partying so I might fuck the shit out of her for the reference (fucked our mutual friend good, I think she got a referral). How was the moisture? Tits? Oldest I've been with was 33 I think. She was a mother but worked out so her pussy and body were tight.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:25 PM
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Very true, I am with you in that I've found having a shit network is worse than no network and live accordingly. I've had a number of groups, most of them exile me. My background is low income and raised by feminist women and am under 5'6... I don't socialize normally, lifetime of anxiety and insecurity to overcome, but do have amazing skills and good outlook etc so people like to associate with me and value me highly, but social ineptness lets the dominant social players fuck with my reputation…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 09:21 PM
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HAHA. Weight is a hard one. For me there's an ex stealing some of my old friends with exaggerated versions of my being an asshole to her during fights... wouldn't be surprised if I'm her new psycho abusive ex. She still sends feeler texts sometimes, no response.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 09:09 PM
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Nice FR dude. The conflict part had me questioning if it was RP porn because it was so over the top, I'm used to VERY packed venues full of mangina progressives whereas this guy sounds "traditional", but overall it seems pretty legit in large part because of the end result actually... he saw you take care of your people, tho that could be the money shot. Something clicked for me when I read this: I was wearing a big brass belt buckle and I said “you’re gonna take off this big brass belt buckle I…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:54 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Still too early for me to be able to make the same conclusions, but it's certainly part of a cluster of behavior in people I respect and I've done it. I've done it 20m daily on and off for about 5 years, 1-6mo periods... I've made so many changes it's hard to say what meditation did or didn't do, but it's certainly enjoyable after a while (like lifting or cold showers, after initial painful hump). I was having very strong visuals for a while though they don't seem to come muc…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:14 PM
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My motto while I was on keto was 'eat fat to lose fat'... burned 50lbs in 4 months and people insisted I was going to die then. The butter and bacon diet, I lovingly called it as I posted progress and food pics every few weeks. Years later I'm still slim and actually fit and none of them wish me happy birthday anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 09:00 PM
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In simple cases sure, but it's more about characterization, like establishing abusive patterns of behavior so the details won't matter or even necessarily be in your presence (gossip). Lots of half truths can color a monster.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:34 PM
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Another point, victimhood gives a good payoff and history repeats itself so you are likely to be described as an abusive ex to the next and possibly to your friends if they've burrowed deeply in your social network.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:32 PM
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I just read a few of your recent comments, dayum. I almost went down the T path and without TRP I might've... I found it during the same Summer I threw my career away for my oneitis... all TRP truths confirmed then stopped me in my tracks. I confided in a close friend that maybe I was a girl because my behavior is so feminine, not long before I tried to finally win my oneitis. This friend, not oneitis, is a solid gold female friend... AWALT in mating strategy but women can be solid people no mat…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 06:05 PM
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I've had stuff like that come back to bite me and it's the most frustrating thing. At the time everyone knows that you called her a bitch in jest, but then it comes up later that one night you called her a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 05:40 PM
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I'd probably take a step back anywhere authority is involved. People can take a silly statement and make it sound horrific out of context, if they're so inclined... and strangers are more inclined. Even girlfriends of friends do it which is the biggest bummer, makes me lose faith in their selection criteria to be putting up with such a boring partner. Ultimately I've started just being silly as fuck when I'm home alone, if anyone is surveilling me I look silly as fuck. But now when people come o…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:11 PM
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I've seen MSM say it's short for cuckservative and a tell of the alt-right... I thought total BS when I read it, because cuck would probably have to get popular before cuckservative in my view. And I've heard cuck used generally by a liberal area student who also says lit. As to why it's popular, I think that kid might've been an RPer too and everyone who listens to Trap should know the idea of a cuckold by now.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:58 PM
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Do this. There is nothing special about her. If she's not chasing she's not worth it. Fuck yes or no = be chased or jack off.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:11 AM
1

This. My #1 purpose for attractive women now isn't even to fuck them so much as to bring them around and be seen with them. Men and women alike respect a short ugly guy with arm candy, I know it's somewhat seeking validation and am OK with that. Not to say it's frequent, every couple months max but it's always improving. I want to fuck them and will of course try to do that. I bring them through places where I know the staff sometimes... I can be scarce but then I either roll through solo and dr…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 04:24 PM
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if she lives with you, your relationship is probably 10x harder and you basically have no room for dread wrong! you have room for dread living together. I've done it and instilled massive dread pre-TRP, though I don't think I'll cohabitate again. Start a side project that takes up 5 hours out of the house every Saturday and/or Sunday, eg. find a coworking space or library to go to. That's a workaholic's take, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 04:14 PM
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Now, here is where the fun begins. For the first time you need to think what to do after step 1. Step 1 being to talk to a girl, then what, what is really your plan, what do you really want? For me the first time afterwards was just to get the acknowledgement, that i could talk to a girl, get her interested. Nothing more, i just wanted to know i could. I hear you, but are you sure you're not afraid to say you want to fuck them? I've been entering a similar phase myself (unattractive to fit and s…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 03:42 PM
1

Look man, there are many ways to win the race. You have a self defeating attitude. So many of us wake up with that attitude many mornings, we can compare defects but that is losing behavior. I see people offering advice and you limiting yourself. You need to work on your interpersonal skills in any case. But at the same time, here's something else. You have skills, you probably have some people who know they're leet. Lead them to something great using what you learn here. Then when you hit the c…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 11:12 PM
1

This one was great... read it on public transit each morning. Need to review now that I've got a couple years of field experience. I still am blind to peoples' bodies as in I don't pay attention to them by default, but increasingly I scan and get very useful information intuitively.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 11:07 PM
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Can confirm it can be improved. I still fall on my face at times but I'm getting better. /u/sonder_one, dry your tears and wake the fuck up. Splash your face with cold water, slap it a couple times, and in front of the mirror tell yourself to wake the fuck up and stop crying. Then see how you look when you cry and start talking to yourself until you're in another mood... come back in an hour and I bet I can tell you which mood you end up in.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 11:03 PM
2

I turned a Japanese chick onto TRP. She has weaponized it to her own benefit with scary efficiency and talks to me about it. She doesn't talk of her own exploits directly but holy shit she is doing well for herself, she's turned it around and become pretty hot. I wouldn't be surprised if she threw me under the bus if it was convenient. But this is reason to always be pushing yourself... you need to be valuable to people or at least leave them with memories of being valuable to them. People will …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 10:57 PM
1

HAHAHA on #3. I've become okay with the idea that I'm always going to want to fight middle managers, so by extension other men. #1 is invisible, I didn't even know I thought it was bad until I watched how I reacted to it. I can be terrified of pussy if I don't check myself. #2 seems like common sense, they want to fuck when I'm being 'real' but that can include saying I'm horny and suggesting going back to my place if she reciprocates... getting to the place of doing that was a fucking journey. …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 10:26 PM
1

I hear you but I don't think it needs to be that literal. TRP generally upvotes comments about having fun as long as we're at the top of our game. Even the most well oiled machine needs maintenance. I'd go cray if I couldn't have alt TRP accounts to post 'spergy stuff like this that I can't do in real life. Now finding other people at the top of their game to play games with, that's the hard part
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 10:17 PM
1

Leaving that 20% behind leaves 20% of you to fall back if times get rough. I would have glossed right over this any other time, except I am in the ultimate time of need after the ultimate period of abundance. I tear up when I write down the things I've missed out on recently due to a shortage of emergency funds that I pissed away so fucking hard (big money fast in, fast out). Thankfully built on real skill and repeatable methodology, so back on the grind. 5% of time for crying if needed, serious…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 10:09 PM
2

This. One benefit to growing up with conservative chicks is 4 hour foreplay sessions. You learn how to entrance them. Downside, I never learned how great jacking off with lube was until my 30s because girls pussies are rivers and I bought a bottle of lube when I was like 25 that I never used and didn't want to waste. Girls in their early 20s are so easy to get off it's like they've never been fingered before. But they want to be choked and all kinds of rough shit right away that I never learned …
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:27 AM
2

Nexted 2 groups this year. Skilled and nice/good beta dudes but the chicks (their female friends) were actually turning the guys against me so now there are like 15 people who don't like me because of 2 persistent cunts in 2 different groups. Much better to just not get involved with these people as friends. I only did because I was new to the city and our skills overlap. I thought maybe there'd be chicks at their parties or something... there were, but not without following all their rules--moi…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:16 AM
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