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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Approach Anxiety - I need to push myself		givemepaintillidie	/r/seduction	04/01/14 06:29 PM

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5	Disappointed at my first try, failed miserably... Great job!	/r/seduction	25/01/14 12:22 PM
1	Need some help with this "needy" vibe I feel I have. Invest your time in another goal outside of pickup. Read The Slight Edge.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 09:51 AM
1	Approach Anxiety - I need to push myself Thanks! I have made two more out of my comfort zone approaches since then. Now I am focusing mainly on my workweek again... (Think it is justified since it is my first week with at a new client). I did tell a friend about wanting to be more assertive yesterday so this Friday I will do just that hopefully. Thanks for your comment! Good reminder. :-)	/r/seduction	08/01/14 07:06 PM
2	Approach Anxiety - I need to push myself Well yes I got even worse when I meditated this afternoon. I just realized I REALLY had to make an approach to transcend the feeling. It was so bad since I have not made a real approach for 5 days while I wanted to make one and I could not live with myself for not doing it. I'm glad I am still sober and will go to bed now and wake up at a reasonable time so I can have a productive day tomorrow. Good luck with your meditations! I have a great app which I use to track my meditations called anitya …	/r/seduction	05/01/14 03:00 AM
0	Approach Anxiety - I need to push myself Hey back again in my house haha went in had a good time and even met a girl that seems into me. Unfortunately I am still very much afraid but maybe we can go to the same bar later and I'll call my friend now. The "goal' of meditation is not about feeling but about equanimity of mind. You can get very peaceful and compassionate feelings all over your body but the greatest pleasure comes from a mind that is empty of objects and no longer clinging to this or that. Then a natural compassion comes fr…	/r/seduction	04/01/14 09:31 PM
1	Approach Anxiety - I need to push myself Well I went out to my friend but first when I got there I wanted to approach a girl outside. I walked for an hour and did not see anyone plus when I did "the situation was not right". Then I went into the supermarket to get some alcohol free beer and there I was with a very cute cashier. I talked to her about her armlet and she smiled warmly at me. My frustration completely disappeared then and there. I did not ask for her number though and just walked out. Then I decided not yet to go to the fr…	/r/seduction	04/01/14 08:51 PM

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