givenzero Archive

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3	I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down? I don't think we are disagreeing here. That is the case. He is playing the victim, like I said. The only thing I'm adding is that maybe the answer is more complicated. Since alot of people end up being caught up in their preconceived biasis. I think it's part of the human machinery. I honestly think he needs therapy. His issues seem deeper than what he is aware of.	/r/seduction	05/12/17 05:29 PM
8	I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down? I knew a comment like this will be here. Though I agree with what you said. He is playing the victim. But I don't think you can say, he didn't apply himself. Dude is making money, tried to get hobbies, eat healthy. I think everyone DOES apply them selves, maybe the not the most efficient way, but as efficient as they know how based on their history and environment. I see a person that is wrapped up in his reality... like anyone else. It just happens his reality is negative, lonley and dark. He w…	/r/seduction	05/12/17 04:43 PM
0	Nodding Raises Likability and Approachability - "The act of nodding positively affects the subjective likability of people by about 30 percent and their approachability by 40 percent" In that case, I always go for authenticity rather then being a people-pleaser.	/r/seduction	01/12/17 06:28 PM
0	Nodding Raises Likability and Approachability - "The act of nodding positively affects the subjective likability of people by about 30 percent and their approachability by 40 percent" I guess it makes sense when your main goal is to hookup or "seduce" .	/r/seduction	01/12/17 06:19 PM
1	Nodding Raises Likability and Approachability - "The act of nodding positively affects the subjective likability of people by about 30 percent and their approachability by 40 percent" But if your consciously doing it then isn't it pretending? In terms of personality not behavior In other words, he's making his "mask" better suited for seduction by imitating others	/r/seduction	01/12/17 06:14 PM
1	Nodding Raises Likability and Approachability - "The act of nodding positively affects the subjective likability of people by about 30 percent and their approachability by 40 percent" But you are "conciously" doing it, No? Edit: maybe "stealing personality traits" is not the right way to describe what you are doing? Personality grows from within in relation to others. It's not a imitation of others otherwise it wouldn't be a "personality ".	/r/seduction	01/12/17 01:44 PM
1	Nodding Raises Likability and Approachability - "The act of nodding positively affects the subjective likability of people by about 30 percent and their approachability by 40 percent" Isn't this what narcissists do? Would you say your pretending? Or am I missing something?	/r/seduction	01/12/17 06:19 AM
1	How do I handle the shame of having been rejected by a girl? Time and people	/r/seduction	17/11/17 12:56 PM
1	REJECTION THERAPY. It fucking works. 5 years of approach anxiety and rejection therapy is the only thing that has made a difference. Lol that's next level rejection	/r/seduction	06/11/17 09:14 AM
5	I realized something today. You write well while drunk	/r/seduction	27/10/17 07:26 PM
3	Are You a Lover or a Fighter? That Depends... Is Your Goal Attracting Women, or Intimidating Men? I mean it is much easier to get angry and act tough than actually opening up to girls and being vulnerable.	/r/seduction	26/10/17 04:39 PM
3	Are You a Lover or a Fighter? That Depends... Is Your Goal Attracting Women, or Intimidating Men? Yeah for sure, this is making me think.	/r/seduction	26/10/17 12:18 PM
4	Are You a Lover or a Fighter? That Depends... Is Your Goal Attracting Women, or Intimidating Men? How can you be sexual if you don't feel it in your body?	/r/seduction	26/10/17 10:27 AM
7	Are You a Lover or a Fighter? That Depends... Is Your Goal Attracting Women, or Intimidating Men? Def. A fighter but I'm totally average and I think it's just a mask my insecurities wear	/r/seduction	26/10/17 10:26 AM
2	Texting guide. Good to know. Will implement!	/r/seduction	25/10/17 04:47 PM
3	The best players are asking themselves how to improve by 1% every day. Damn! You just changed my perspective on this. Lol. Thanks!	/r/seduction	23/10/17 07:20 AM
0	A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural Way Hahaha ok	/r/seduction	15/10/17 12:53 PM
1	A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural Way Your talking about theory. Theory doesn't amount to a pile of dirt in the real world. I know theory. It's all empty when you actually start putting it in practice. At best, theory can be an anchor or a very very loose guide. I'm talking about practice. Real world. "Absolutely pure and free from involvement" How do you get there? A: there are these paths (usually eastern) My q: maybe the paths meant for the eastern mind are not meant for the western mind. Maybe the west should find there own path…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 12:28 PM
0	A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural Way Well dude, you clearly know more than me :) Just one other point that's worth considering which I have realized recently. Psychology. The eastern spiritual traditions lay out a ground work based on the psychology of the East (different for different countries). This psychology is communal. Integrated web of social relationships. In the west, we have the opposite. The ideal in western psychology is a singular self. A self that is the same in all situations. That's usually what western people stri…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 10:53 AM
1	A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural Way So your a partially enlightenned person? Lol you sound like a white guy, are you? I hope you are. (Just read your name, probably not white but imma keep this here) Met so many people like you. That throw out Sanskrit words and claim to be "enlightened" and "boddhisatvvas" .... like fucking seriously Asian cultures have existed for thousands of years and only produced a handful of people who are enlightened. Liberation is a sacred... the most sacred thing a person can accomplish (according to e.p…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 10:23 AM
0	A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural Way Lol dude! Yes, on the small scale pain is pain and does lead to epiphanies. But enlightenment (nirvana) is something else entirely. Look around. Everyone suffers. Yet no one is enlightened (nirvana). I was just commenting because it seems really funny to me that (according to your logic) "Not getting laid = fear of death" Lmao! I was just tryin to make a witty remark, jeeezz	/r/seduction	15/10/17 09:59 AM
0	A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural Way Lol what?	/r/seduction	15/10/17 09:48 AM
-1	A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural Way Only in America do people have spiritual enlightenment because they didn't get laid.	/r/seduction	15/10/17 09:23 AM
3	10 things I discovered from 10 years as a professional dating coach but...but... I just want to complain about the lack of women without actually trying to do something about it	/r/seduction	03/10/17 06:53 AM