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I mastered the wake and wank in elementary school so that I could stop bullying kids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:00 PM
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As corny as it sounds.. This is how the biggest rebellions in history form. When the men at the bottom can't find love, best send them to war or keep them heavily oppressed, or they will eventually bite the hand that feeds.. Hitler was also notably bad with women, only technically married someone like half an hour before shooting himself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:56 PM
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Japan has never had nearly as much radicalization of socially challenged groups, people generally just took it as their lot to pay respects to their country. Something tells me the west isn't going to take it very well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:52 PM
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It's been happening in its own way for a while in developed countries with declining birth rates, like Japan. Some of the most profound stories in modern media Japan puts out echo that sentiment of male loneliness and quiet desperation.. Like Berserk, Made in Abyss, Bloodborne, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:40 PM
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Person A: This is a great response, people that read into it and assume the worse of two positions are demonstrating toxicity Person B: Durr durr stop assuming I'm toxic, everyone knows the worse option is actually how it goes Person C: ... You're the only one suggesting it has to be one way or the other... You may be right some of the time, but it's still toxic to think this way and not give people benefit of the doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:00 PM
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Women are, on a balance of probabilities, naturally more agreeable than men. The problem is, agreeableness has been heavily stigmatized by feminists, because disagreeableness gets shit done when change needs to be made. Now that there isn't much gender inequality, it should be a time for masculine/feminine dynamism, so that both genders can display both masculine and feminine traits to suit their needs. Unfortunately, most women read statements like this as if the men want them locked in a basem…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:54 PM
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... Who exactly am I following here? Or is it your attention span only allows you to read a few sentences before you feel the compulsion to regurgitate your pre-formed answers. If I don't follow Tate, and I'm suggesting individual thought is both good and needed.. Hmm.. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:02 PM
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See, society has conditioned you to have no capacity for individual thought. All you've been programmed to do is protect the ingroup, anyone with a conflicting opinion is an enemy. It's actually really pathetic I do not follow Tate and I think he's a miserable human being, just like most women and feminized men high on cope in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:47 PM
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Ah, another empath. I see a misguided, but well-meaning narcissist that wants to believe an ideology she doesn't understand is inferior to her own... She seems to be aware it's cringe as fuck playing mind reader, but chooses to do so anyway while expressing the exact sentiment of every other poster on this thread. I sense an outcrying of inner pain for being born a woman, incapable of expressing anything remotely witty or of more substance than groupthink Haha had to get that out sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:51 PM
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Why would I be judged for my sexual history my statement was “what’s it to you let me live my life with my gangbanger” has nothing to do with judgment of sexual history. That would only be a concern if I wasnt with the gangster , see y’all don’t even get your own revenge fantasy narratives right. It’s kinda annoying not gonna lie. I'm not sure I understand this.. You are literally asking this person to 'let you live with' your choice to be with a 'violent man', i.e. do not condemn me for my acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:33 PM
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Yes, there are studies that show this. Initial reported attraction for women doesn't consistently line up with attraction measured by brain activity, this is not generally the case for men. There are loads of reasons for this, but the point stands that it's generally harder for women to gauge the extent of their attraction initially than it is for men. Women determine their attraction intuitively based on their values, expectations and experiences, then work backwards off of the 'vibe'. Man or w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:25 PM
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This is the rhetoric of the average woman in the west.. "I refuse to be judged for my sexual history" It's led to bad outcomes like rampant single motherhood (which statistically condemns boys, single fatherhood is not early as bad on the children), fewer overall relationships and marriages, 1 in 3 men under 30 in the west are virgins or haven't been in relationships, single women over 40 are one of if not the most depressed demo, just about every woman having experiences with bad actors which a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:40 AM
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Haha thanks yes, it is Du Bois with his broken grin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:43 AM
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You're kinda being gaslit by the commenters here.. Though you are conflating a lot of vocal minority posts that frequent subs like this and generalizing that most women secretly hate men. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle Men and women have two kinds of attraction, physical and emotional attraction. Men have a strong physical impulse predicated by a biological imperative to seek out reproduction, and they slowly build up an emotional attraction over time. Women have a weaker physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:27 PM
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Anxiety is the mind's coping mechanism against future danger. You will map out patterns based on experience and subconscious/conscious observation, then use that information to protect yourself from risk. In times of relative peace, when we don't really need to protect ourselves during sleep, walking about, etc, this coping mechanism is needed significantly less. Doesn't stop people from being riddled with anxiety though. Something like 1 in 3 women in the west are on anti-depressants/mood stabi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:13 PM
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It's unfair that most men won't be loved if they don't love themselves a little bit first. In my opinion the higher rate of disgruntled, sullen men getting emotional on this sub has to do with the overall number of unsatisfied men rising, and by extension the most hateful minority, most just don't complain about it. The vocal minority in the most pain speaks up, gets gaslit into believing a shower and a bit of self love will even the scales, insist that's not the case for their particular subgro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:57 PM
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No problem, thanks for saying that. I know that people in this state aren't always receptive to outside ideas, but I appreciate your desire to help him rather than write him off, I hope that he can let go of the resentment With enough observation you can see the dark side in everything. These ideas plant themselves in and grow like seeds that feed off of neuroticism. Sometimes ignorance is the better option, to just let go of what can't be controlled and focus on what you can change
/r/ExRedPill06/12/22 08:24 PM
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I think a lot of young men take their youth as a time for experimentation and enjoyment, and don't always understand the experience is different for women. Women want this too, but they are pushed on a set timeline more than men are. Because of this, modern women are more aggressive with their standards so they don't have to make compromises down the road when beauty fades, when they want children over a career, etc. The modern woman has finally gotten access to everything, so why settle for les…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/22 07:46 PM
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Hmm.. I guess it would be the same case if he instead came out as gay? Barring sociopaths, everyone has an interest in nurturing themselves.. This is an issue with semantics. Surely you value being a good partner, not necessarily by society's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:06 AM
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And if he talks with you, opens up about what has changed, expresses his needs have adapted to something different in part beyond his control, in part because he doesn't want to live in bad faith with himself, and that he may need to exit the relationship, would you dismiss his love? You nurture more than kids fam.. We nurture ourselves, our partners, our friends, our kids. We nurture ideals and dreams, hope for the future and peace for the past. We all embody both masculine and feminine archety…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:09 AM
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My point was the increase in testosterone could affect how he sees you, and that may prompt him to leave the relationship (possibly for someone more traditionally feminine), and whether this would affect you or if you would resent him. Essentially the low T is a bandaid fix standard you've applied to find a man that suits your needs, so what happens if it backfires.. I don't think traditional roles need marriage, it's all about interpersonal dynamics. Let men be the leaders, women be the nurture…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:51 AM
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Would you love your husband less if one day his testosterone were to drastically increase? Would you feel betrayed or resent him if he no longer found the relationship sufficient? And how can you know for sure? I think you're drawing lines in the sand with the I wouldn't date them, they wouldn't date me dynamic.. We all want to belong, and desire is a tricky thing. Sometimes when an option is removed from us (or we remove ourselves from it), we justify the alternative is better regardless of tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:13 AM
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This is why I mentioned the cat and stove analogy. You were burned by masculinity in bad role models, and you've decided anyone that is traditionally masculine is not good. Only men that have an acceptable form of masculinity are given approval (something like never acting out of line, adopting more feminine traits, being stable, etc), leaving out any experiences for people that fill a traditionally masculine role in a healthy way. You do you, but in the long run I personally see this behaviour …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:34 PM
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I know better than to expect someone I'm arguing with over the internet to not just ghost the conversation or gloss over points when they're wrong. I'm just interested in hearing perspectives You've done all the redefining yourself. Like with all things in life, we take the good with the bad with traditional gender roles. You may not have had good male role models in your life, but that does not mean the archetype as it is is bad. You're entitled to this viewpoint, but it's a shame so many see i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:31 PM
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Ah my mistake, I misread. Emotional narratives are fine, when they don't get in the way of understanding and taking in other points. I was implying you don't do the same and your narrative gets the better of you, at least judging from personal experiences. I've experienced people projecting their insecurities about men onto me, if they address this and we come to a better understanding I change my impression. Please don't tell me you took that 'girl' as condescending.. Was going for a 'damn, gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:18 PM
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Those were separate clauses, I was not describing the narrative you were using. Reading comprehension girl Anyway it's okay, let's move on. Take care of yourself, if you want the last word by all means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:42 PM
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You have a husband that I assume you love.. Did I say otherwise? I don't think you hate men, I think your ideology makes you hate certain features of men, i.e. a bias regarding masculinity, greatly reducing the amount of men you can tolerate. A cat that burns its hand on a stove won't ever touch a hot stove again, it will also avoid a cold stove. ​ Don't dish it out if you can't take it lol Directed at myself, you were insinuating I couldn't 'take' something I would say you were the one trolling…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:23 PM
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Nowhere did I imply you were hurt.. Also I was pointing out you have an unhealthy bias regarding masculinity, not that you hate men. Your actions are speaking louder than your words. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:04 PM
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Modern society places a heavy emphasis on sex and commodification, obviously sex is heavily commodified. Men (and women to a lesser degree) are preyed on for their innate desires in order to further grow industries, many of which are reaching new heights. When you throw in Onlyfans and the parasocial aspect, overall rates of depression and the current issues with male loneliness, things very quickly become unethical. People are subscribing to OnlyFans for easy access to intimacy with a partner, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:56 PM
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Imagine being hurt by comments from someone that knows nothing about you. I don't take people that throw or get hurt by internet insults seriously, there's often more going on than meets the eye My judgments were not attacking your character or worth as a person, but you can see it however you like. I'm going to bow out knowing your mind won't change, with me being the incorrigible, toxic, 'masculine' man that I am. Because only men can be toxic, collective perception has shown that to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:38 PM
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There's a lot of truth in this, but unfortunately many consider marriage the lesser of two evils. Remove the societal constraints and you bring back the average of twice as many women reproducing than men, male (and female) reproductions of Genghis Khan, eventual societal collapse from the losers not bowing out peacefully. To say this choice is not for women as well is silly. We made a deal with the devil, and we're currently in an age where we're trying to renege. I don't personally think we're…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:17 PM
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Everything's a matter of perspective. I'm not going to take the ad hominem bait, I know my own kindness and worth as a person. Have a good one, and I hope you and your partner are and remain fulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:53 PM
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And so it goes. A stranger to you, one that has made no hateful comment in the interaction, has been tossed into the ideological wasteland known as "men are trash". Tell me you're going to throw away any appeal to logic without saying anything. FWIW I see a world where both genders have complete freedom in choosing partners, and yet are compelled to operate traditionally, because that is the most efficient route to attaining fulfillment in both parties. Those that don't care about efficiency liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:34 PM
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I don't know, really. Just another drop in the bucket I suppose A lot of modern women abandon traditional gender roles, and in doing so indirectly lose touch with healthy masculinity and finding a natural balance in gender dynamics. People can do whatever they like, but when society starts to shift for the worse, we need to better understand where the issues are. The problem is, relationships always form a masculine/feminine dynamic. When traditional roles aren't used the modalities just shift. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:07 PM
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Then I hope when you've sorted out your issues and find some value in masculinity (not just in yourself), that your relationship stays in tact and your (likely feminine) partner doesn't get the short end of the stick. Something like ~70-80% of divorces are initiated by women in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:14 PM
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You're probably going to make future partners unhappy if you don't form at least one intimate relationship with a man that makes use of healthy masculine archetypes to compare against the gender roles you're setting for yourself to counter your father. Leave the soy boys for girls that don't have daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:11 AM
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I think that has to do with testosterone levels that get lower in men and raise in women with age. There's a lot of variance there, but I hear what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:43 AM
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She's spending 4 hours to feel good and get validation from men (and women for the competitive edge) and the possibility to bag a hot dude. Would you tell me she would spend 4 hours for a 'cool look' getting ready to go to a baby shower? And if that is the case why would men need to be concerned with how much time a woman spends on her looks? The person hitting on your friend had sour grapes calling her shallow. She's prioritizing looks over personality, but she's just being honest about what mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:04 AM
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Women are conditioned from early on to use every advantage to game attraction and find the best suitor. Men don't use the same advantages because the yields are different. If men could guarantee getting women by preparing for 4 hours before going out, you bet your godless ass things would be different. Men game attraction in their own way (money, power, intrigue, etc). Doesn't mean that makeup is good for you or even a healthy practice. Your friend spent 4 hours preparing to meet someone attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:31 AM
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That study essentially sums up what we already know: men consistently have higher sex drives than women. This does not mean women have no sex drive.. We do have ancient programming and follow mating strategies and behaviours similar to other animals (debatable, like Jordan Peterson's lobsters), but we're also one of two species that procreate for pleasure, mainly due to our capacity for awareness. We can consciously see that procreating creates pleasure, and we can choose to pursue that pleasure…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:24 AM
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“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” -Carl Jung We're all controlled by unconscious biases on some level, some more than others. You can't change what is picked up subconsciously, but you can always work with your partner to bring out the biases and better learn what influences attraction. Physical attraction is more important than many will let on, but it's not everything. Not many are willing to admit they aren't in complete control of…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 07:37 AM
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The redpill argument is women have more options available (women go for the top 20% of men, top 20% are often polygamous, remaining 80% men have fewer options), and so women that are overweight and/or with kids will still have men lining up, interested in relationships. This doesn't mean said men see these women as their preference. But redpillers like to condemn these women as if they aren't attractive at all, which is also not true.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 06:54 AM
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Let's not pretend there aren't sides, this subreddit carries a heavy bias for one narrative. I commented on your post because it was the top rated comment in the same vein, and I see this pattern play out a lot. I say condemn, because I see certain viewpoints written off to gravitate back towards that preferred narrative. You ended your comment with recommending a feminist writer that made a book based off the worst, most bitter redpill incels she could find to get to know the black pill better.…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 08:50 PM
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I am in no way downplaying the shit women have to deal with when it comes to the male gaze, I'm simply saying there needs to be more accountability on women to protect themselves when in vulnerable positions. Everyone is susceptible to violence. You can label violence a woman problem, you can say the patriarchy is oppressive and makes life more difficult for women, perhaps I can dole out my own opinions. Who is to say who's right? This forum is for discourse mate And I'm trans-phobic for insinua…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 08:35 PM
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Every man that insists virgins are the gold standard is projecting an inability to reign in his own human nature onto women. The idea is the more sexual experience a woman gains, the more her desires will interfere with how her brain processes partner selection, which leads to doubt in choosing/having chosen a partner (i.e. cheating, divorce, alpha widows). They're not as in touch with their biological impulses because the drive is much stronger in men. Men can't keep it in their pants, women ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:10 AM
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80% of violent crimes are done against men. You can carry mace or various forms of protection. Most people shouldn't be walking alone at night in highly occupied areas.. Women have their own set of struggles and are preyed on by men, there's no denying this, but in today's age this is not as large an obstacle as people see it. Male suicide rates are around 4-5 times higher than female rates.. There's a sea of effeminate, depressed men becoming women. I wonder why.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:41 AM
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This is the same disappointing propaganda that leads people to the black pill. Blackpill conspirators indoctrinating to sell courses? Incels are byproducts of pickup artists? Really? This one-sided, shallow view that almost every person with 'common sense' holds, is why we can't get to the bottom of what's really plaguing the youth. The truth is, it's multi-faceted, and too complex for most people to make sense of, so we simplify, condemn and move on. Blackpill is just the recognition of human n…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:32 AM
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In the US iirc the most statistically depressed group of people are ~40-50 year old single women without kids that earn 50-75k. Women are pushed to be equal to men, pursue their careers, explore their sexuality with the top ~20% of men, amass debt, and miss out on the window to settle down and have children. 1 in 3 men under 30 are virgins or have not recently had sex. This dynamic is causing fewer people to form relationships and the effect is slowly growing over time
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:30 AM
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I did say immediately after that quote that men and women can be friends tho.. What's important is communication of intentions. The man may secretly suspect the woman's interest in the friend zone, and after years when an offer is made, there's likely more than just sex on the mind. It also may be the case that you're surprised by their answer, because to your eye they've never expressed any interest in you. In this way the car analogy doesn't hold. It's about mixed messaging, biases and expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:30 PM
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When you look at porn statistics, you see that men often go for teen porn, women often go for dominating, rape or abuse porn. It's really fucked up, but this is a consequence of biology and society filtering what thoughts are allowed. Leo's just living the shallow male fantasy. It's why there are more women in BDSM than men. Some people just fuck the social norms and live out their hedonistic lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:05 PM
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The bluepill argument is the woman has a genuine interest in keeping you around and is holding off on sex to make sure you're interested in more than the physical, rather than the previous tristes that were purely sexual. There's more fulfillment in a relationship that isn't just about sex. The redpill argument is the men were alphas that imprinted on her, and it's likely you're a beta that provides more stability. The woman wants to forget her ho phase and settle down, so she will hold off on p…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 06:47 PM
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I'm triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:26 PM
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No. I'm asking men not to pursuewomen romantically unless they're genuinely interested in them aspeople...or to do it without expecting much in return. I agree with you here, but this isn't the point I'm trying to make. It's that you're asking a friend to not be up front with their feelings before forming a bond with you. That would be fine, if it were the case that a friend could be something more just by having a genuine interest in what interests you. That's not the case though, and attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:18 PM
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Lol. It's a societal problem that's leading to a lot of unpartnered men and women, has little to actually do with sex. It was incredibly easy for you when you were young. A group of people have it especially hard today. I'm not in this group, but I still have empathy. You've let yours whittle away from straw-manning the bad actors to represent all "sexually inept men". You do you, you're still a bigot though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:58 PM
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I guess the increasing 1/3 of men under 30 that are virgins or haven't had sex in years can just fuck off and die without gaining experience. Survival of the fittest, right? I wonder what constitutes a 'fit' woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:47 PM
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You can find bigots for all kinds of things these days!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:26 PM
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I appreciate your point of view, but I think it's dishonest to pretend this isn't how courting has always worked. You're asking men to hide their intentions and manipulate you with 'genuine interest'. Doesn't matter if the person can actually find genuine interest, it's a construct to fulfill another motivation. It sucks that people make these lizard-brain assessments in the moment over what they want from others, but it's human nature. Women do it just the same, the pathways are just less appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:20 PM
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So incredibly toxic, but there are people just like you on the other side. I hope people don't group all women together based on your shitty behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:45 PM
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Not necessarily. In fact, I would argue that's one of the better ways to go about relationships. Too many women these days have access to and go for men that are already successful and likely will not establish the trust required to stay committed. There's beauty in seeing what could be in someone in desperate need of inspiration, and building a life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:28 PM
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Women with "savior complexes" are likely betting the person is a diamond in the rough. The man has some key beneficial traits that are hidden under dysfunction (anger can be an indicator of being a strong protector, etc). They use intuition to map out the good in the person behind their problems, and where they will be when they're better. It's a hypergamous calculation that isn't primarily driven by one's empathy or humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:21 PM
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I personally think sexual compatibility is very important, and both partners should do what they can to facilitate the other without sacrificing dignity or creating an uncomfortable power dynamic. Toys are made to be used for purposes like this. I've got an open mind, but I'm not going to play mind games with a partner that can't seem to understand where she has trouble in bed and blames size. That's a slippery slope that has more to do with cultural brain rot and dishonest inner dialogues than …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:44 PM
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The argument for innocent wife and promiscuous side pieces is women are easier to convince into a submissive, 'understanding' role the less baggage and experience they've acquired. The men from these quotes are generally resentful of their past relationships with women where their feelings on the male experience were (to their perception) not fully understood, and they have endeavoured to treat women as pets to be handled and controlled efficiently, rather than as people, as they have ultimately…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:17 PM
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Societal expectations hamper a woman's ability to express or even acknowledge animal attraction towards the opposite sex. Don't get it confused though, women be horny. They are just driven by more than physical attraction from a biological standpoint, and so the aspect of physical attraction gets dismissed because it doesn't compare 1:1 with how attraction works for males. Men provide stability and protection during pregnancy, in modern times this has translated to how much utility a man has in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:51 PM
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I see that as a people problem, not a women problem. Why are women being picky? I don't personally blame women for taking advantage of systems laid out for them. The individual woman is not consciously going around monkey branching and trying to lock in the best partner at all costs, but statistics tend to reveal there is some biological basis in attraction. The degree to which this is the case is debatable. All that we can do is follow empiricism, analyze patterns and trends, commit ourselves t…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 06:11 PM
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Honestly I agree, but I've got the impression a lot of women wouldn't be willing to admit this, so I kept it as just men that would recognize this attachment. The feminist argument is women can live their lives without the need of a man. Masculinity and femininity are like yin and yang, there is a balance that people unconsciously seek, even if we deny it to ourselves. Even non-hetero couples will show a masculine and feminine pattern in relationships
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 05:07 AM
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I can relate to your points.. The redpill ideology can really sow seeds of resentment for women, MGTOW is an attractive alternative that does away with the hate in favour of accepting and getting distance from the problem. I would personally say to ignore the female perspectives here regarding leaving women entirely. Women can manage without the opposite sex, but for men it will haunt your unconscious mind. You want a healthy relationship with femininity, and I can't really see porn and isolatio…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:29 AM
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I think we need to recognize this little guy as an integral part of our biology, and prioritize open and honest discourse with ourselves over which traits we truly desire in a partner. A lot of the time we'll override this part of ourselves with conventional wisdom, societal norms and expectations, etc, and become surprised when we're attracted to something that isn't reflected in our values. This is why redpillers get all hot and bothered with the AFBB stuff
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:07 AM
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I watched the video and don't personally see him blaming the problem on women, rather that modern society has placed a group at a perceived disadvantage, through no fault of anyone in particular. He's using the evolutionary traits argument to say modern dating has in a way reestablished darwinism, and the fallout has created another mistreated group from people just using systems as intended. I don't think he's saying women only go for the top 10-20% of men, just that this is the range for attra…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 01:56 AM
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Me just watching two disgruntled men try to educate a woman they've determined is attractive about dating statistics, likely just reminding her she can't have normal conversations over the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:52 AM
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Maybe it's a crazy take, but I could see the overall female population begin to heavily decrease with a machine like that readily available.. The gender/relationship dynamic would be mostly leveled out (women are still better nurturers, etc). Women would be selected for inherited traits over time like men, and eventually the 80/20 rule would make it so only the top 20% of eggs are used. Merit would eventually undermine and outmode women over men in most fields. Science would progress to reproduc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:09 AM
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I think what matters most to an individual is going to be whatever allows them inner peace in recognition of the dynamics at play. We all walk along a royal road to reach an inn gathering which religious experience demands, we all find and access our spirituality differently. Some live just fine being an Ace, some need and crave intimacy over anything else, others can't operate without prioritizing their base animal desires. You can only truly know once you open a line of honest discourse with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:46 AM
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Everyone is focused on sex always being transactional.. Real boomer vibes here The point is that people can and will exploit all transactional systems, and it's a sad reality that modern dating with the internet and OF has heavily increased avenues for exploitation. This problem is mended when we collectively become more aware and course correct, but right now it's a shit show. The concept of modern romance is fueled by Disney and clashes with the display of animal nature (both men and women) we…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:25 AM
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I would guess OP means their prime in terms of market appeal, a combination of physical traits and wealth that make them generally at their peak in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:15 PM
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I think the man is possessed by an ideology that all women unconsciously desire the best (in terms of desirable evolutionary traits) partner they've been with as a product of evolution (selecting for the best offspring). He's expressing that this innate desire is intrinsically more valuable than love, and to have it denied would render love meaningless, as the basis would not be 'real'. You can't really win with this line of reasoning, as the counter point will be you can't help yourself and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:25 AM
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Peel back the skin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:08 AM
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The bad boy archetype has been a thing for a long time.. I think women see a man that punches a wall or shows aggression on impulse as someone that can be moulded into a strong protector. They can outgrow this archetype and go for men with less trait masculinity to better control/form partnerships with, but it is at the cost of ignoring a biological impulse. Unconsciously, there will always be a desire for masculinity in some probably toxic archetype (the nice bad boy hits different) to counterb…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:05 AM
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Women wanting the 'bad boy' is an evolutionary trait, someone that punches a wall can be 'fixed' to be a strong protector, a passionate partner. The reality is most of these men stay assholes, and women tend to settle for men with more stability, but still unconsciously (or consciously) desire this archetype. In order to get any attention on dating apps for men you have to adopt these aggressive traits and play the act. Over time, we indirectly game selection to create more assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:51 PM
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Liberal and conservative are terms to label left- and right-wing politics. Liberals generally promote equality of opportunity, conservatives generally promote the protection of independence and private property. Red pill is more a right-wing movement because the basic philosophy is to remove oneself from the 'system' and gain independence. Unfortunately for a lot of disgruntled, disenfranchised men, this means being counter-culture. In this case, the culture we've seen for the last few decades i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:49 PM
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I personally think Andrew Tate's sudden popularity is the world's response to left-leaning culture in the west. This is Jung's collective consciousness at work. The radical adoption of egalitarianism, woke, politically-correct culture was a response to years of suppression under a right-leaning, conservative culture. I think we're now seeing the pendulum swing back to conservative values. Tate speaks of reclaiming old gender values, being true to one's biology, gaining independence from governme…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:30 AM
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These numbers don't really prove the average attractive woman doesn't make a livable income on the site. How do you define attractive? In online dating men tend to find most women attractive, whereas women go for the top 10-20%. OF is driven heavily by male users. Given the information OP posted probably follows the 80/20 rule, it's likely the bottom half (likely more) of the remaining 80-90% don't make nearly enough to support themselves on the platform. It's also likely the bottom group consis…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:14 AM
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