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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	Anna Akana against overgeneralizations about men	Progress	gjvnq1	/r/MensRights	10/04/20 01:24 AM
0	Antipatriarchism: Is is a good label for a "feminism for all genders"? What are your thoughts?	discussion	gjvnq1	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/21 04:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Hen/bachelorette parties - "male slaves" My issue is a service where women can pay to have a male slave. Does a service with reversed gender would be seen as acceptable ? I believe the double standard is the same that protect female perpetrators of sexual violence and attack male victims. I've heard about professional female subs and they seem to be well accepted within the BDSM community. They are rare tho.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/24 02:53 PM
3	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists Trans girl here. While lack of communication skills is an issue for men, my personal experience is that the real problem is the lack of widespread symbols to indicate availability and approachability. Something like a wristband that meant "I'm open to chat with strangers" and a special ring that communicated "I'm looking for a relationship" would do wonders. Most progressive people (including even some lesbians) grew up hearing lots of examples of where not and how not to approach women but they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 05:17 AM
4	" If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert." this is worst attempt at equalizing men and women's issues in dating I would replace sex with early attention. Like, women get tons of matches but they are nearly useless meanwhile men get free messages but they are also kinda useless as women are overloaded with messages	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:21 AM
2	CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidated It kinda makes sense if he earns less than that. Society puts a lot of value in a man being able to provide so not being the breadwinner can feel emasculating to them. Plus, many of them have never really seen themselves as much more than workhorses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 12:07 AM
8	CMV: Men don't want older career women because they're insecure and intimidated What does career woman even mean? A woman with a career is normal now To me it means a woman in an office type job with a career track that includes earning like 6 figures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 06:06 PM
39	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction transgender people often report that switching from testosterone to estrogen reduces your visualness and vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 03:11 PM
2	TikTok gender swap pill: Women surprised that most of them look like unattractive men I suppose that's with a perfectly preserved adult skeleton. I doubt you could ever get even close to that with prepubescent kids or highly damaged cm skeletons in archeological sites.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 05:44 PM
10	Passport Bros prove that Women’s Hypergamy isn’t the issue but the fact that some men can’t do the same. You are forgetting about the fact that men from Western countries are often seen as more progressive. And moving into a Western country is often desirable regardless of gender because they usually offer better physical and social security.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:42 AM
1	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) I feel like tech and art subreddits tend to be reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 01:54 AM
1	The current obsession with vasectomies is creepy Oh... Now it makes aense. I take back my complaint.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/22 03:06 AM
1	The current obsession with vasectomies is creepy EDIT: this comment was made in a misunderstanding: I thought he was talking about the vasectomy surgery, but he was talking about the vasectomy reversal surgery. Honestly, the thing that offends me the most about it is that people don't understand the costs involved. Not only the fact of the vasectomy reversal may not work, but the fact that it is one of the hardest surgeries to perform, takes 8 to 10 hours to complete and is usually on the order of 10,000 to $20,000. Since it is not covered by …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/22 02:49 AM
2	Men Ejaculate Larger Volumes of Semen, More Motile Sperm, and More Quickly when Exposed to Images of Novel Women Can novel makeup cause similar effects?	/r/Male_Studies	27/06/22 07:19 PM
2	Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.? There's Classically Abby who is Ben Shapiro's sister.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 01:34 AM
5	Women, what do you don't understand about men. If you want to know why we do something the answer is always “for women” Why men don't wear nice clothes? for women. That doesn't sound right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 12:49 PM
20	Women, what do you don't understand about men. Part is testosterone, so much so that transguys joke that T makes them HHH (Horny, Hot and Hungry). And the lack of intimacy and physical touch among male friends and the "disapproval" of society for straight people to have close friendships with the opposite gender means that sex is the only time most men can get intimacy and affectionate touch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 12:46 PM
6	Women, what do you don't understand about men. Maybe men have a higher rate of alexythmia, but I'm not sure. The social conditioning however is probably more impactful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 12:42 PM
2	People refuse to see that transphobia is rooted in misandry Not really as we observe significant improvement in wellbeing when transgender people start hormonal therapy which suggest that there's something biological behind it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/22 07:41 PM
3	People refuse to see that transphobia is rooted in misandry Sadly, yes. Older more "conservative" people are very insistent to children that they shouldn't do anything the opposite gender does.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/22 05:05 PM
3	People refuse to see that transphobia is rooted in misandry No. Transphobia is the hatred of prejudice towards transgender people. While men and women are indeed different, they aren't perfect oposites (e.g. both have same number of fingers and toes, e.g. women liking one thing doesn't mean men have to dislike that thing, they can just be indifferent towards it).	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/22 03:32 PM
-2	People refuse to see that transphobia is rooted in misandry I mostly agree but that wasn't transphobia in general but rather transphobia against transwomen which is often called transmisogyny and is indeed heavily based on misandry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/22 02:23 PM
2	People refuse to see that transphobia is rooted in misandry Good point.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/22 02:16 PM
7	People refuse to see that transphobia is rooted in misandry I disagree. Transphobia is founded in neither misogyny itself nor misandry itself but on sexism, specially opossitional sexism which as arguees that men and women are and ought be complete opposite of one another.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/22 01:00 PM
6	The reason most women get used for sex is because, under hypergamy, most women have nothing to offer men outside of their vaginas at any given SMV exchange. What people get from dogs	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 12:49 AM
20	Women and children first policy in place in Kyiv for trains leaving the city as Russian forces approach I think we really need to replace the "women and children first" with "vulnerable and children first". There's no good reason today to let your army be 50% smaller than it could otherwise be. The exception I see is for parents of young people as they need at least one to care for them. The good option here is to have a system in which each family chooses which parent would stay with the kids and which would stay for a war. This will require organization. Perhaps each family would be required to …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/02/22 04:15 AM
3	Male = Science, Female = Humanities: Both Implicit and Explicit Gender-Science Stereotypes Are Heritable I'm skeptical in part because of the sample size and because implicit association tests aren't super reliable.	/r/Male_Studies	23/02/22 03:51 AM
1	In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys? They should use a different word. Entitled guy? Maybe. Good idea. Another option is "Fake Nice Guy" or "Desperate Entitled Beta Guy". (you can replace "beta" with "non-assertive" if that's more of your style)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:29 AM
1	Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be? Came to say almost this. I would make all men equally attracted to men and women and well as to masculinity and femininity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 03:55 AM
0	Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating? They are accustomed to expending zero effort in their dating. They often spend significant time and energy vetting guys for safety.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 04:22 PM
1	Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating? being unwilling to train What would "training" be like this analogy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 04:20 PM
1	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? I was talking more about "Nice Guys™" who are usually stem lords who think they are respectful to women but don't realize their own misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 07:26 PM
2	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? Sometimes one of the spouses will manage the kids expenses so it makes sense to transfer the money for it. Also, some people may have disabilities that require more care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 03:20 AM
2	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? But how much money and for how long? The more the ex spouses are on equal economic footing the less likely and less abundant alimony is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 03:09 AM
3	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? A social media quote that wnet like: Girls actually like nice guys but you probably aren't as nice as you think you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 03:05 AM
4	Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience? Makes sense but I don't know how much of this is nature and how much is nurture. Perhaps we should incentivize men to practice martial arts and organized fighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 09:20 PM
2	Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience? I think I know understand a bit more of what you meant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 09:16 PM
2	Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience? Because people often have opinions on topics they know little about and the ways men and women traditionally express their emotions is different enough that it can be easily mistaken for large differences in the amount of emotion being expressed. It would be the equivalent of me saying menstruation is "blood leaking out your gash". This sounds a bit like describing old style appendectomy as organ removal stabbing surgery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 08:36 PM
2	Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 08:06 PM
15	Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience? The commonly accepted excuses are: He is already taken. He is gay. He is not allowed to date (e.g. priest).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 07:43 PM
8	Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience? Women are more emotional than men That's very debatable. Men are taught to hode their emotions and only express anger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 07:41 PM
9	Does widespread female on male sexual assault and female on male r*pe imply that these are not just crimes of violence, but also crimes of sexual access aka maladaptive reproductive strategies? Makes sense I guess. You probably should take a look at a book called A Natural History of Rape: Biological Bases of Sexual Coercion.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/22 09:32 PM
4	How can a guy protect himself against false accusations? Try being a good a nice person to almost everyone so if any false accusations appear, they are less likely to be believed. Also, stay away from manipulative people.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/22 07:38 PM
1	Parental DNA test for all newly born children Yes, but if they had everyone's DNA they could "print it" to put on crime scenes in order to falsely acuse people. While there is technically today to "print" small sequences of DNA I don't think it currently affordable to print the long sequences of DNA required to pull this off. Once the material is "printed" it is somewhat easy to copy it through PCR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 11:07 PM
2	Parental DNA test for all newly born children Second, making this mandatory could result in the father avoiding the test to avoid having to pay support for a child he fathered. A simple solution to this is to put in law that a man who unjustly delays a paternity test becomes liable for child support payments even if he is later proven to not be the father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 11:02 PM
1	Parental DNA test for all newly born children The funny thing is it's mainly leftists who are against mandatory paternity tests. When has a leftist ever worried who's paying for anything? Paternity tests is literally the only time they're ever concerned about where the money will come from. I think that the problem is not the cost of the tests themselves but rather the costs of keeping such a large database secure. It would be really tempting for a future administration to just slash cyber security funding and leave the consequences for the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 10:59 PM
1	Parental DNA test for all newly born children It depends on the country. In some just filing the birth certificate aa the father is enough to establish paternity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 10:57 PM
11	Parental DNA test for all newly born children But in that case there should be an open database where you can check how many kids man has and how much he supports them after divorce. I don't think this should be public or even just ready to get information. A better approach is for each person to have an online government account that they can use to issues a free "certificate of known dependentes" that is digitally signed so anyone can verify it and that includes not only what kids the person has but also what adult dependents and former p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 10:54 PM
4	Why are everyone's "solutions" for men just rebranded traditionalism? My bet is that because it is easier to copy from the past than have the creativity to come up with something new.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/01/22 11:22 PM
5	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck It's only luck if: She's pretty, and She has a thick skin for sexism and harassment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 04:33 PM
10	What would it take to get men to protest? I think that protesting for more parental leave can be well received.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/12/21 04:14 AM
1	Antipatriarchism: Is is a good label for a "feminism for all genders"? What are your thoughts? You are correct that I should.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/21 10:24 PM
1	Antipatriarchism: Is is a good label for a "feminism for all genders"? What are your thoughts? Good points!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/21 09:32 PM
1	Antipatriarchism: Is is a good label for a "feminism for all genders"? What are your thoughts? I see. I mistakingly thought this subreddit was like like r/MensLib.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/21 09:32 PM
1	Antipatriarchism: Is is a good label for a "feminism for all genders"? What are your thoughts? But most of the issues men are facing today come from the fact that it's become socially acceptable to be openly sexist toward men. It's ok to set up spaces and institutions that exclude men, it's ok to shut men down in conversation and tell them that more weight should be given to the voices of women, it's ok to give preference to women in job openings, etc, etc, etc, etc, etc. None of these things have anything to do with the patriarchy. Good points.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/21 06:27 PM
1	Antipatriarchism: Is is a good label for a "feminism for all genders"? What are your thoughts? That's an interesting perspective.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/21 06:22 PM
3	Study reveals: at least 43.6% of sex offenders are female I don't know where you live, but I get the impression that in Brazil most people would be "okay" with such a thing if neither the girl nor the parents complained. A somewhat similar case happened with a singer (Caetano Veloso) and they guy who called him a pedophile got a massive fine. However, the singer did mary the girl and it happened a long time ago. Also the five wouldn't be so large of the guy has complied with the judge's order and deleted his Facebook post. https://istoe.com.br/caetano-…	/r/MensRights	25/04/21 08:32 AM
3	As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's. Sounds like Huxley's Brave New World.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/21 08:24 PM
2	As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's. Love? Saving money on rent? Having a pet togheter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/21 07:50 PM
2	As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's. Given how many people are currently obese, your idea may be worth a shot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/21 07:49 PM
15	As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's. It already exists. They are called anti depressants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/21 07:47 PM
1	With tough times coming, don't be a safety net. I'm not sure if there are enough singles dads for all the single moms out there.	/r/MensRights	11/04/21 07:19 AM
1	All men are trash (except the top 3% hehee) That's a very interesting point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 03:19 PM
1	All men are trash (except the top 3% hehee) I think it depends heavily on where he lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 03:19 PM
1	All men are trash (except the top 3% hehee) Anomaly: men don't caring about their looks because they were never taught that they can be beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 03:18 PM
3	New Lawsuit Tells of 16-Year-Old Boy Allegedly Forced By County Officials to Take Estrogen as Behavior Control “Medication” *1980's Gaslighting children with fears of global warming to reduce resistance to surrendering property to the state. Do you have a source for this?	/r/MensRights	16/07/20 06:53 PM
23	If something like this happend to a girl it would be a way bigger deal which is unfair Maybe the family doesn't want it to go viral as the attention may cause more emotional demage to the kid.	/r/MensRights	21/06/20 01:18 AM
5	Anna Akana against overgeneralizations about men Do you have the link? Also, are you sure she wasn't being hyperbolical?	/r/MensRights	10/04/20 04:14 AM
6	Anna Akana against overgeneralizations about men I saw that one too!	/r/MensRights	10/04/20 02:17 AM
3	Women at my dorm often use the mens bathroom Organize with other men for a large group of men to use only use the women's restroom for a single day as a form of protest. Make it very clear that this is only for a single day.	/r/MensRights	22/03/20 10:05 PM
1	Isn't it extremely sexist and paranoid to consider all men to be violent towards women and compare them to guns? Oops,... You are right. I made a mistake.	/r/MensRights	08/03/20 01:07 PM
8	Isn't it extremely sexist and paranoid to consider all men to be violent towards women and compare them to guns? Sexism, including misandry, should be crime comparable to racism. EDIT: misandry, not misanthropy	/r/MensRights	08/03/20 05:27 AM
1	I got ban for this do you think I was wrong ? I think this is both a feminist and men's rights issue.	/r/MensRights	21/01/20 11:06 PM
19	Am I the only one or is this kind of stuff very common in college.. Document everything and record audio when you think she might threaten you.	/r/MensRights	26/11/19 08:20 PM
4	I love how feminists are so against people fat shaming but don’t give a fuck when a dude is getting shamed because of his height I wonder how they would react if you said something like "I can take your high heels if you prefer taller men so much :)”	/r/MensRights	02/09/19 12:53 AM
2	Found this on the door of a hair salon in Cape Town, this is horrible, I haven’t seen a single barber shop that says “No women allowed for security reasons” Devil's advocate: men = human beings, i.e. only robots are allowed	/r/MensRights	26/04/19 06:18 PM