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3	I kicked a cheating whore out of my house, and I felt bad Yeah..sounds like NPD. I know, I know, people will say it's AWALT, but nah..once you see the difference you know. The manipulation is there to an extent, sure, but there is a straight up cold, calculating aspect to sex for an NPD over even the most SIMPLE shit. While many women can cheat, the more stable ones are not ALWAYS wheeling and dealing on their next purely transactional trade for booze/weed/drugs/housing/food in quite the way NPDs do. Not in the way they can literally line up the next d…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/18 12:55 AM
2	Brother's Book: Chapter II: BPDs and Cluster Bs, F*ck that Shit, It’s Not For Me: Idealization, Devaluation, Discard, Repeat The weird thing is their predictability. I'll maintain that if you know one in depth (assuming you leave the relationship with enough of yourself to rebuild), you will know them all. It is eerie how specific all of their traits and how the stages of the relationship can be laid out and dissected, and yet they are repeated the same way for all of them	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 06:11 PM
4	This community really isn't doing enough to spread awareness of BPD An important post, and an issue close to heart personally. I did a lot of introspection and reading on this topic over the past couple years, and figuring out the reasons behind choosing women like this stemming from early childhood experiences of enmeshment and abandonment. I grew up with a single, very distant BPD mother and an absent father.. I'm still uncovering and learning new things about how this shaped my perception of what was normal in a relationship, my weak barriers and tolerance fo…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/17 05:12 PM
3	Suspected BPD ex. Need support. Not many other forums to find support. As others have said - take it as a lesson. You got out relatively unscathed. I had to take a year for myself after unwittingly trying to date an NPD. Complete mindfucks who live in a reality distortion field. They are capable of lying with zero remorse and completely incapable of self-reflection. I recommend you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy". There are likely underlying reasons why you stayed in it for as long as you did when you suspected something was wrong. We tend to look for women that mirror…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/17 10:34 PM
1	Six Stages of Branch Swinging Keep so many other things happening that you don't even notice.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 04:56 PM
2	FR: Took the plunge, broke up with BPD girlfriend http://gettinbetter.com/dance.html I recommend reading the above, and also No More Mr. Nice Guy. If you're like me (ex was NPD), there are ways they can change or revert you to past unhealthy behaviors and behavioral patterns in no time. They can be absolutely malicious and manipulative. I had a lot of learning and unlearning to do after a recent break-up	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/16 05:04 PM
5	How to Recognize Crazy BEFORE You're Targeted - A Guide to Identifying the Borderline Woman. (Part I) The reactions from "when the hermit writes you off" bring back nightmares. I dated a girl (if you can call it that) who was a combination of all of those archetypes, and was more on the narcissistic personality disorder side than BPD (even if only exaggerated coping mechanism for deeply engrained feelings of worthlessness). Good post. I do think facial expressions and dramatic gestures can be a tip off, but there are better ways to convey warnings and red flags, especially because the type can b…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/16 12:51 AM
12	Words / phrases that make you sound unmanly "You talk like a fag, and your shit's all retarded" -Dr Lexus from Idiocracy	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/16 03:13 AM
29	Words / phrases that make you sound unmanly "I don't know, what do you want to do?"	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/16 12:10 AM
3	There should really be a sidebar link about Borderline Personality Disorder Had an NPD gf..Was the worst experience ever, I considered it a vital learning experience because the type is ridiculously predictable. After reading a lot of threads on here, I also came to learn they have many common habits and idiosyncracies. Strangely specific things they will pretty much all do. The dolled up look they're so perfect at creating (why are they always the hottest women you meet as well?). The dead-eyed stare when they're about to tear into you for some unknown reason, the poin…	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/16 12:57 AM