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| 1 | The dilemma.Simple, tell her you are dating or that she is your girlfriend, but in your mind its a hookup so if you sleep with other girls its not cheating and you dont care about this picture, problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketIf you dont believe to be superior to her, you wont find a women, its really simple. Even though its sexist, its the only thing that truly works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 12:26 PM |
| 23 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketYeah, absolutely insane standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:53 PM |
| 26 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketThis one, close the thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:45 PM |
| 9 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketHAHAHAHAHHAH, yeah I wonder why you have success, you are absolutely delusional, 6ft2 is not average, honestly I would swear your head off right now but I will get banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:38 PM |
| 4 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketYes, completely average guy. Spit out your height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:31 PM |
| 4 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketI believe your story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:30 PM |
| 14 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketThanks for offer, but you cant really make me happy or more content. Girls told themselves what kind of guys they like, so they go for them and thats it. Not much I can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 05:17 PM |
| 8 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketHow do you think I know that? (25M here) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 05:04 PM |
| 18 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketI aint from America tho, but its same thing everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:55 PM |
| 29 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketYeah, its disgusting and I hate myself for not being made for standards women want, now I have to suffer for things out of my control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:52 PM |
| 22 | Are your dating experiences normal?Yes, my dating experience is normal. I get no dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketI am joking LMAO, relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketShe is going to cheat with taller guy, 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketNo, he is just better looking, stop coping and gaslighting men here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:21 PM |
| 11 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketNot disheartening. Just realization that red pill is right and that women do not care about personality, only about looks, status and money. Personality only matters once she decides to select a beta provider for family, unless you are basically stereotypical handsome guy. I have seen and know guys who have nothing going on for themselves have girls beg them for relationships just because they are hot. The hardest part is rewiring yourself to understand women are much less empathetic gender and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards6ft5 is automatic turn on, maybe make a new profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsTry Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeWhat is your point? Women dont look at attractive guys with disgust, what are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safe5ft5 is rare for a man lmao, ofc these guys would take the headlines for a story like this. I mean, he is good looking dude in a face and skinny, so that does seem somewhat attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:26 AM |
| 2 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safe5ft7 and 5ft10 range, not 5ft4, I agree with you there. Although I know a dude who bagged a 6ft hot girl as 5ft5 guy, so there are exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeHmm, are you mentally insane? These are good looking women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeNo one cares what a 38F has to say regarding dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeMeh, depends on your face and level of fitness honestly. Couple of friends have no issues with women and are around that height, inch up or down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Men value the availability of sex, women do not. This is the most important factor in dating / relationshipsThats the thing tho, guys that have options might first see you as hook up and it kinda ends there if he finds a better girl. :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Men value the availability of sex, women do not. This is the most important factor in dating / relationshipsI mean, I would not complain about a free blowjob LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Men value the availability of sex, women do not. This is the most important factor in dating / relationshipsWomen do love casual sex tho, especially with guys they deem hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsCare to explain how is listing main factors of attraction grasping at straws? You just said this for the sake of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 07:56 PM |
| 4 | I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness.Yeah, which causes dead bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness.Nah, its honestly all about looks and presentation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsYes. I stand behind this as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI mean yeah, but you needed exactly 0 muscle after losing weight to be good with women since you are 6ft4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsYeah, no joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsyou are not going to convince me that you did all that stuff with women as 5ft3 guy no matter what happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI think you are low IQ individual if you genuinely believe women are not shallow and go for pErSoNaLIty. Some shallow factor must be present for women to even CONSIDER allowing you to engage romantically, anything else is virtue signaling and I am thinking you are just trolling at this point. Sod off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:35 PM |
| -1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsNah 5ft3 is not touching a women, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards30% of men not getting laid is a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsUntrue, first looks then everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 8 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsOh here is the entitled to sex argument. What does this even mean in the context of the comment ,you just blurted it out for the sake of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsAbsolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsWell obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI am good facially so I am gucci even tho I am shorter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsHopefully you get rotund, spherical, bulbous, jacked and stacked soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI am not denying anything, I am just saying its easy mode if you posses all these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsAlso advantage of me being on the shorter side since I can eat less food and gain muscle regardless. Most of my friends in between 5ft7 and 6ft who workout look pretty jacked , I have been working out for like 4 months consistently and I am already feeling tightness in my shirts, feels good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsHonestly I think lanky guys have it worst. I am on the shorter side, but V shape is kinda there even though I am overweight, plus my forearms are nasty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsThats literally like top 20% body, you are delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI am talking about genuine attraction. Muscles, face and height are only thing that matters. Are average dudes in relationships? yeah, but most relationships suck dick and these guys are stability women crave until better deal comes along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsBut you are 6ft4 tho, thats enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:51 PM |
| 14 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsWomen dad bod is Henry Cavil build, lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsWell if they have athletic build and good faces then it doesnt matter that much, at least from what I have seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:42 PM |
| -2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsYeah you are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:32 PM |
| 13 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsMassive muscles are practically unachievable naturally. You will look athletic with decent sized arms after training for couple of years and thats what matters the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:31 PM |
| 26 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsHeight queen is literally 90% of women if not more. Especially women my age (25 or younger). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:22 PM |
| 38 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsNo amount of personality can make average dude 6ft1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:18 PM |
| 42 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsThe only dudes I know who can rock dad bod and be considered attractive are dudes that are 200cm+ tall. At that point, nothing else matters about him, he is attractive no matter what. For other guys shorter than that, V taper and decent sized arms is a must. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?Cooking != eating food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?Women think eating food is personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?What you describe exists but its rare. Most girls and guys are junk, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?What are you attempting to pull off? Like do you genuinely want me to believe that women on average are interesting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?Yeah, I mean who can blame men, I mean look at this: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zs7p8p/i_had_a_very_emotional_moment_with_a_guy_on_the/ Women then wonder why they cant find a normal guy, but most dudes I know encountered this and no longer know what works truly, but fuckboy sure as hell does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?Whats wrong with my statement? Most girls are not that interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:06 PM |
| 12 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?Well yeah, when most women are just dog lovers and travel junkies, you cant find them interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?Honestly real world in my case is an incredible mix of everything. Literally no rules apply and in my opinion the only thing that matters for both genders is just maximizing looks as much as you can. No need for dudes to be muscular and have a skincare routine, but have a V taper and decent hygiene overall. Same for girls, drop the ego and lose weight/lift weights. The reason being is that your appearance determines how people view you. There simply are no rules besides molding yourself into per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:57 PM |
| 12 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumThey are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Men do not inherently like women but women absolutely love men.It is a weakness that is for sure. The problem is, I have been thought to be these things from the young age and this stuff is not what women want. The more stereotypical you are as a man, the easier it is to date. I am not even talking about looks, because if you have decent face paired with muscles or/and height, you will slay. This is the kind of man women want in vast majority, the problem is most dudes are instantly blue pilled and dont realize how women operate, they operate same as men ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Women’s standards of rudeness are different depending on whether they’re being rude to someone or whether someone’s being rude to themMy argument is that you have certain expectations out of 30+ people when in reality its just 20 year olds with first digit 3 instead of 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Women’s standards of rudeness are different depending on whether they’re being rude to someone or whether someone’s being rude to themYou are acting as if 31 is some ancient age. I am 25 and most 30+ people are extremely immature that I have met, no matter if they are family people or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumKnow couple of muscular pretty boys that are drinkers, deadbeat nowhere goes with girlfriends chasing them. Looks are all that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 09:30 AM |
| 6 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumWomen know whether they want to fuck you around 5 to 10 seconds within meeting you. This is more orientated towards relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 08:43 AM |
| 25 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumIf this is true, most average dudes would be drowning in pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 08:35 AM |
| 22 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumYeah. I generally have attractive face and get smiles from girls when I am smiling myself (which does not happen often currently). So I pass the threshold for consideration so nothing else about me really matters too much. Same with some of my friends who are successful with girls. Yes, they absolutely have cool personalities and are charismatic, but they pass the face attractiveness and some of them even height requirements, so they have no issues bagging chicks. No amount of game can make wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Do women care about the type of job you have?Well you are doing good then. Its weird tho, blue collar workers are rather successful in dating from what I hear around my parts of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | 80 percent of breakups are initiated by women (rising to 90% in educated women)So why do women expect men to be perfect at everything while they can have flaws. Whats that about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | 80 percent of breakups are initiated by women (rising to 90% in educated women)What do you mean? I am right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | 80 percent of breakups are initiated by women (rising to 90% in educated women)Most men know this. The amount of immature women is sky high, the only mature women I know are 37-38+. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it actually unreasonable that 'below average woman' want to be treated like ' 10' ? Don't below average men expect the people they date to treat them like 'a Chad?"You do not need career to have interests and passions, what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 08:13 AM |
| 2 | 80 percent of breakups are initiated by women (rising to 90% in educated women)I mean women are basically like children, never growing past age of 16. Many women still believe they can just exist and prince charming with good looks, good job, good emotional intelligence will come to swoop her right up while she does not need to do anything in her life. This is why most break ups happen. Women expect perfection all the time while bringing nothing besides sex to the table, men get completely exhausted from having to be cornerstone of the relationship and then women monkey br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isHopefully your family has a casket ready, since you are overdosing on copium. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isI know them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:38 PM |
| 7 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceYeah, when people here say just wear fashionable proper fitting clothes, they conveniently forget that proper fitting means "proper fitting on a muscular body" not "proper fitting on small shoulders and bloated gut body". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isBro I know bunch of 6ft6 dudes that are relatively good looking and completely average in personalities, shy and awkward with girls. Why do you all push this nonsense about personality. Your personality radiates through how you look. Stop spilling bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:10 PM |
| 0 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isHmm, no I am not mentioning because of that? I am mentioning in the context of what matters more. Looks matter more because a boring good looking guy would outmatch funny ugly gay 10 out of 10 times. The reverse is even more insane of a difference. If both are confident, then good looking guy still wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:05 PM |
| 2 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isUsername checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:04 PM |
| 6 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceMans biggest fashion piece is his body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:01 PM |
| 4 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isNah you are delusional. Most boring as fuck good looking dudes have no problem getting any type of relationship. All it takes is to be good looking and to resemble normalcy and thats it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 01:57 PM |
| 4 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isWho do you think genuinely wins: fat funny guy or boring good looking guy? You need to be in delusion to think fat guy has a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 01:45 PM |
| 7 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isNah its all about looks. Personality is a meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 01:36 PM |
| 0 | You guys don't understand what social anxiety isHmm, couple of my friends and people I know have success with younger women even in 30s, although they are pretty buff dudes. I think you should chill out, honestly. Get a puppy, relax, go to therapy or something. For guys who work on themselves prime is a little bit later in life, not at 24 lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:34 AM |
| 5 | What's your opinion on men who are older than 30 dating women who are 18 to 25 in age?Now thats a delusion LMFAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.Thats just copium from your side, you know damn well I am telling the truth. Aint no way in hell most dudes are deadbeat, unorganized mess, but most dudes are indeed average, normal, that just is not exciting for your average netflix, casual sex, instagram lingering woman that is so SO NOT delusional about her own self worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.Thats Beta Bux on play, these average people as you call them. No women actually likes their husband unless he is stereotypical confident Chad or Chad-lite. Thats why you have so many divorces initiated by women. Any dude I know who has good looks (combination of face and/or height, muscles and some sense of style) had no shortage of attention from prettier gender. I am not gonna talk about if these guys have some nice careers or jobs, thats a bingo. Everything else is plan B and women are scram… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 01:24 PM |
| -2 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.She is right tho. If you are nothing special, you are nothing special. You need to be unique and interesting in one way or another to stand out. Life is cruel, no one cares, do as best as you can with what you are given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badSo you seriously want me to believe that women will openly share their number of sexual partners? Boyfriends? Sure, but that random ONS, that nightclub f*cking, that threesome or whatever, no guys will ever know about it. Worst of all, most of the dudes might not even get the same level of sex she had in the past and will be scrambling for leftovers. So yeah, if women can pull this shit, we can also make up stuff because that usually works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itYeah, tried that myself. Does not work. I'd rather be unique person that loves people who love me and trolls people who hate me (for some reason, I am your frat bro, kinda hard to hate me). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itI am not complaining about everything, chill out. I am just saying that personality is turbo meme. Does it matter, YES. It is important, but unless she or he fancies you in terms of looks , you can kiss a goodbye to personality, thats my point xD Women just have very hard time admitting this is the case, they always shift blame to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Will things ever get better between us?I dont care lmao, each human has their own brain to use, if you make poor decisions thats on you. I dont owe anyone shit, and no one owes me shit. Fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itIts not like I am ugly btw, its the opposite. I was rated both online or IRL as pretty handsome or above average or nowhere close to ugly, all personal preferences when it comes to face and thats while I am overweight. Luckily I made peace with the fact that world is shallow and that only way to achieve any respect is to look good, so I am working on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itSo you are admitting that no matter what, a man still has to have above average personality. Basically be top 20% to genuinely attract someone. Insane mental gymanstics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itPersonality matters only if you have good face/6ft3+/both or combination of these with muscles. I know guys who are 5ft8 and get girls because they are obviously fit (think 27 year oldMarlon Brando), or they are 6ft4 and above. Are they cool people? Yeah, they are in no way some extremely charismatic outliers. Its just that in order for women to enhance your personality she first has to see you as potential sex partner, and for that looks are the most important. If you have that male gaze, muscl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badSo what does that make women who do not share body counts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badyeah, because I am like: OH BOY he is dating younger women, older ones are probably seething and that younger women is "using you". Typical rethoric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badyour flair lmao, people love you here I suppose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 01:04 PM |
| 0 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badAny successful guy with ladies I know spins stories all the time lmfao. If most dudes where honest and without charisma, we would cease to exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR?I am Red Pill/Black Pill mix, but mostly in domain of self improvement. I dont really see value in long term relationships unless its with person that is cooperative and willing to be a good partner (this goes both ways). I guess, indeed, you are lucky, because even though I see it around me all the time, most of the people remained single and some obviously do casual sex, but its not like LTR are non existent, just more single people from my observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Wot? How am I neurotic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR?Yeah, I guess just bombarding each other with our own experiences will lead to disagreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men have to get their abundance mentality on the same level of women.You have to have an idgaf mindset. Focus on yourself and being fun to be around, also socialize as much as you can. When I did this, I had a lot of interest and I besides face am absolute goblin lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Oh women are the more neurotic gender, lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Sure, but you can never be sure if you are played or not, COMPLETELY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:44 PM |
| 4 | How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR?Your last sentence is pretty much true. Most of the people I know marry around 30, its rare to me to see couples ( especially younger) to be together for long time, usually does not end well (people mature differently, grow differently etc). I guess you two are pretty mature and well adjusted to kick it off like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?So why do all women complain that they cant find someone serious, when you literally all play the field until the right one comes along, which is, basically, fucking around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:41 PM |
| -2 | How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR?Its not delusional at all. It really depends on how many people you know and what your social circle is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR?I am not, but its often such a wild guess on which relationships are stable and good and which are not. For example, one of my close ex-friends found a gf 2 years ago that is pretty good looking I would say, they seem very happy on pictures, everything you can imagine out of a couple. Turns out, she is very manipulative and toxic and he has no spine but has money, so she uses him and controls him. Pretty sad all around but yeah, people are often unhappy and its rare to hear some good words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:33 PM |
| 10 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Uhm no one is blaming #5, but most dudes are literally what you describe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Exactly, they want what they cant have, because what they want has options, and they are not one of them so they guilt trip and shame men. Annoying and predictable, like mosquito. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 10:12 AM |
| 24 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Bullshit as always. They will never tell you, but there is a point 5) which is if he meets the attractiveness threshold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?I really dont like this argument. Most dudes I know who are buff literally peak at that age in terms of desirability, especially if they have good careers going. I have no idea why do women think someone cant be genuinely physically attracted to these dudes, its baffling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:24 AM |
| 4 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?I dont think experience really matters, its all about how you sell yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:12 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?Good for you man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?You good lookin mf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenYou cant do me like that lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:03 AM |
| 6 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenNo, its insulting him and his intelligence. Its like you are denying this stuff exists but completely spinning it and spiting it out in a different manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?I am lucky that some people told me I am attractive in face even though I am 33% bf, cant imagine how I would look like when I lean down to below 20% bf. Its sad but nothing can be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?You live in delusion if you think women dont like muscles. Each girl from my high school is either single or in relationship with muscular dude ( pecs piercing his sweater for example, obvious sign of a lifter). However every single one of them has good face or is tall. Muscles plus one or both of those is a must. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?I dont understand, they like you because of personality or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenWhat he says does happen, but you need to be in extremely good position to afford such lifestyle. Good money, muscular body, status of some sort. Thats very, very low amount of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 11:13 PM |
| 15 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenArent you ashamed for writing this? You are trying so hard to spin that is not the reason, when it fact it is because he is short. STOP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How much can the dating problem’s of the average men be blamed unwillingness to approach women?You dont have to be 6ft2 ripped to be considered attractive, my friend was approached and asked about by random cute girls and he is 5ft9. Its mostly about the build ( V taper) and face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 12:29 AM |
| 10 | How much can the dating problem’s of the average men be blamed unwillingness to approach women?You are overcomplicating it. You had no balls to capitalize on your attractiveness, thats it. You are attractive from the get go, you are not average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Is there really a double standard where an ugly guy comes off as creepy and an attractive guy comes off as attractive when they approach women?I know deadbeats with no future with girls, but they are attractive in some capacity so, yeah. I think women here are detached from reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:12 PM |
| 9 | Is there really a double standard where an ugly guy comes off as creepy and an attractive guy comes off as attractive when they approach women?Yes, there is . Was at a celebration of high school graduation (5 years) and went there with my best friend. Both of us are cute in face, but he is kinda buff, has better body then every single guy on that celebration. I talked to the other friend that told me one of his friends (a girl) commented how hot he was. She knew nothing about him, later on they went and talked while I was there, listening to their conversation. He told her about his trauma, his thought process in certain situations ( h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why women have hard time apologizing when they are wrong?Imagine calling her sweet little princess, go sis, yaas queen for her entire life and now she ACTUALLY has to behave like an equal in a normal, serious relationship? She has been told that she is PERFECT, WONDERFUL, AMAZING, GLORIOUS by her sisters and society (I wonder why, certainly not looks ;) ) and now she cant even begin to entertain idea of accountability and putting someone else before her needs. It really is this simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?So 6ft filter transfers to confidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?So all the statistics regarding preferences of women are just voodoo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?True, does not improve genetics tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?Yeah let me grow 5 inches at 25 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?Thats the thing tho. If there is equal chance of getting rejected no matter how women looks, how about you just hit on top tier women and call it a day. Might as well get rejected by women you like lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?Not hostility. We just want women to admit that "personality" is a meme, thats all. :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | The 6 Ft Tall White Man Syndrome.Even though being tall is very important, I have been hit on by couple of girls (back when I didnt have depression) at measly 5ft7 (or 5ft8, I had better posture). Reason being my face and charisma, I am built different in terms of social skills. You could say its a form of compensation, but these things come naturally to me. I live in a country where average height is 5ft11 and most of my friends are like 6ft1 at least, they do not have a lot of success with women at all, guy with the most beau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?I mean, gotta be honest with you, I would feel rather uncomfortable even with 5 year age gap. Some of my friends started dating their gfs when they were 22 and 16, thats just terrible. Like if a 5 year gap is present I seriously wouldnt care too much if she is emotionally stable and actually wants to communicate her needs and desires. After all, maturity is defined by your beliefs, thoughts and approach to life, not age. I also wouldnt mind a gal older than me, as long as some ass is there, you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?Of course not lmfao, I am talking like 4-5 years younger at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?How about even different approach. Women my age ( I am 25 in 5 days) dont even give a flying fk about me, while any time I interact with younger girls at least I HAVE SOME SORT of interest going on. So what should I do? Girls my age chase 30+ year old dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signallingWomen prefer dad bod, by dad bod meaning Jason Momoa not posing physique | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What's your goal in exposing men/women?I aint about that life, what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What's your goal in exposing men/women?My goal is to prove that blackpill is real. I will come back with results within 6 months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 04:38 PM |
| 11 | Would you rather date a virgin who resents you, or a former slut who loves you?If same energy is kept, then second option and its no contest, lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 01:38 AM |
| 3 | "I'm single because there are not enough good guys for me" is just narcissismIf you have good chest you suddenly become charismatic and mysterious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?They are shallow and there is nothing wrong with it. However I am not sure if someone would kill you for this LMFAO, relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?No I am not? When did I say men are trying to portray themselves in good light? Men are very shallow, even I am. Fat girls are big NO. There I said it. The problem is that average women I meet always talks about personality and that stuff, yet they spend whole night riding good looking dudes that often tend to do decently or more with money. Rarely does one genuinely attract with just charm or whatever you say is the case. I just want women on average to stop pretending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Only one gender tries to portray itself as morally superior and less shallow and more innocent, tell me which one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?There is no enforcement of toxic masculinity at all, because its not needed. Women love cocky men, they love extroverted men, men who tease them, man who are ambitious and proud of it, men that are not afraid to tell women stuff she deserves to hear (based on her behavior). All of this is labeled as toxic masculinity, I label at as accountability. All of this gets amplified and cared for by at least 5 times if the guy is good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?I know he isnt, anytime women are rightfully criticized and being exposed as mass hypocrites, you get labeled as "something something" or there is dead silence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?So reality is insulting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?So I should tell women who to be attracted to, is this what you are telling me? :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 13 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Right about what regarding men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 02:56 PM |
| 16 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?All I am saying is that women are more shallow than men and enforce toxic masculinity more than men. Examples from my life, examples from my friends. As long as for her standards you are hot or interesting enough, bunch of stuff is allowed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 02:51 PM |
| 4 | "I'm single because there are not enough good guys for me" is just narcissismGet ready to be called misogynist or whatever label they gonna use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:27 PM |
| 2 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingYeah, cant wait to see the difference. I am not that insecure about my height, mainly because I genuinely look good otherwise, even while being overweight, so I am not TOO bothered (but still somewhat bothered). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingYeah, sure thing. I kinda have to go through convincing myself that it doesnt matter. For me its about losing weight, people already told me I have a very nice face so I am kinda set once I lose weight. I am also firm believer of blackpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingYour flair and height dont match considering your dating life improved, I have heard height is death sentence (good for you though, love to see it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingHow tall are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 01:47 PM |
| 9 | It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experienceNo, miss me with this. Id rather work on myself and have more options, thus investing less in actually attracting girls and more in being comfortable with myself. If I cant get something at the same speed and effort and some other guy, I dont want it. I have family, friends and a cute cat, girls can only be an addition to my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | social status and looks are more important than confidenceThe only thing that matters. Your confidence does not matter. The only thing that matters is your attitude. If you have an attitude of a guy who is focused, ambitious and assertive, without actually trying to hard to be these things, you just are, you are golden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:38 PM |
| 4 | social status and looks are more important than confidenceMost dudes who hit the gym and are "misogynists" (or rather just dudes who treat women equally as they would a guy, but since certain amount of women have it easy mode, it seems like oppression) get more laid then all other types of dudes and more opportunities for relationships. Just a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:35 PM |
| 6 | The same behavior that caused me to get friendzoned by women I was attracted to is the same behavior that causes women I'm not attracted to to want to date me.Something is off here. Yes, being toxic to women can attract certain type of women, saw this with my own eyes, but most girls prefer, even for hook ups, to be treated well and for guy to be interested in them. You attract what you are, so if being thoughtful is rejecting girls you like, maybe you are going for the "bad girls", you know what I am saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:30 PM |
| 4 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapGreat comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenI mean if you are so consumed by inner thoughts ofc it has bigger impact, but if you genuinely believe that muscles do not matter and that its useless, you are straight up delusional. Good analogy would be having a gun and not knowing how to shoot it. Of course in this situation the gun is useless since you are unable to use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenWeird, you are either not wearing proper clothes to show off or you are not as buff as you think you are. You are not going to get fawned at thats for sure, however if muscles do not help you get out of your head and you still stay anxious and unaware of signals, then it is practically pointless, not because there are no benefits, but because you are unable to reap them. I know couple of dudes who are pretty jacked and have similar stories as you do. They are all in some shape or form anxious an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenI am going to disagree entirely. If you are a genuinely ugly dude, you better endorse the barbells. Muscles matter and you cant CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenYou push the narrative that it doesnt matter, when it fact it does matter a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenJust not the case for people I know. If you have other issues that could also contribute, but going from fat to buff or skinny to buff is night and day, I mean, read comments lmfao. Most people confirm what I am typing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenIts like people refuse to admit that looks matter for guys a lot. Like a LOT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenWhat exactly? Most guys I know who lifted seriously for more than a year and are social slay with women. Are we living in the same reality? You are treated differently as a person if you achieve obvious muscularity in arms,shoulders and lats region. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenIf you have remotely good social intelligence and are not living in your head, you can CLEARLY notice the difference between how women treat muscular dudes and anything else. I have a friend who is built, nothing crazy but clearly has nice traps,shoulders and arms from all the work he did at home combined with some rugby at younger age. Just for reference he is not even tall, 5ft9 in a country where 5ft11 is average. He constantly has girls interested in him and gets looks, one even begged for p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:39 PM |
| 3 | How old are you, and have you had your first love yet?24, nothing yet. Trying to up my value so I can at least be sure I am loved and not played. I really need to be validated and lusted over but in my current state that aint possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 10:14 PM |
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