glad_sunflower Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	"Sex work is empowering" sounds suspiciously a lot like "trauma induced hypersexuality" I turned to bdsm and felt that I was sexually submissive and wanted to be punished after I was raped. It was definitely a way to deal with the trauma and ended me up in an abusive relationship. It's so difficult to get out of that mindset and I'm so inspired to see other women breaking out of that 💖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 09:08 PM
81	Where's the lie? Ugh this is honestly so upsetting to realize. I was manipulated and groomed into thinking I was into bdsm and being abused by a 25 year old when I was 19. Just got out of the relationship after 2 shitty years. I feel sick thinking about all the ways that I degraded myself in that relationship. It's even more scary to remember him always pushing for sex when I was upset because me crying and feeling deeply vulnerable was apparently a turn on. oof 😣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 10:54 AM
4	A reminder that when dealing with LVMs, their words, actions and beliefs are NOT your responsibility. Ugh I feel this so much. My mom is a huge people pleaser so I learned to take responsibility for everyone's feelings and mistakes. I spent my last relationship hiding my NVM ex's abuse (physical, emotional, and verbal) because I wanted to protect him from the consequences of his own behavior. 🤡🤡🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 06:54 PM