gladeus Archive

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4	To college students, or those with poor funds, how do you live an exciting life? Join club, fraternity or social organization where you will be invited to lots of social events or parties. Also, does your university have a gym?	/r/seduction	26/11/12 03:14 PM
6	Taking out the "hot girl" of my friend group. How do I not screw this up? Have fun with her, and show her a good time. Trust me, she'll want to be in a relationship if you're a good fuck and you're cool. It does take a bit of time getting used to hot girls being attracted to you, but they are generally not by a farce. But really I wouldn't read at all too much into what she's saying. If you hang out with her, have a good time, fuck, have a good time fucking, and this continues on, it may turn into a relationship if thats what it was meant to be. Think about this, why …	/r/seduction	25/11/12 12:57 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/23/2012 High school blows for pick up man. Any material here that will work is concepts, self actualization, removal of social conditioning, confidence, etc. MY advice (as a recently graduated from HS but still had some success) is that you have two options. If you're a freshman/sophmore/junior (not a senior) you STILL have time to do some social circle game if that makes sense. Just have fun, go to parties, instigate parties, have some bros that are cool and girls also like, and have an interesting lif…	/r/seduction	24/11/12 06:50 PM
2	Divorced, father of two, needs convincing this works. Honestly, he needs to want it for himself. You can't make him want to get into this. Seduction really goes against everything that we are taught from society so its "hard to believe" in a sense. I've tried to turn some of my friends on this but gave up because they just wouldn't care or thought it was stupid. I just lead by example and sometimes will throw some pick up jargon out there and explain it if people ask, but I won't really be like hey dude read this pick up material or whatever. Just …	/r/seduction	24/11/12 06:40 PM
1	Books - Magic Bullets, Double Your Dating etc. They're all old - are they still worth reading though? I read double your dating in 8th grade, that shit worked then LOL. Anyways, that stuff is generally old, but there isn't really anything inherently BAD about it. Double your dating can be helpful because it gives you some easy-to-do shit that will give you way more success than anything you had before probably. But it still wont be anything amazingly great. Best material out there really is real social dynamics stuff. It's all really quite amazing. The blueprint is the best. tl;dr it wont hurt t…	/r/seduction	24/11/12 06:34 PM
4	Girls sometimes tell me that I'm not exciting and I get the vibe that they think I'm boring. How do I become more exciting and interesting? Be more confident. I'm not really sure how to explain it but: It's kind of a spiritual thing, some good material is The Power of Now, blueprint decoded, etc. Do things that make you happy Give value to others, rather than take. Present the best version of yourself. Be the man that YOU would want to be around. Give good energy, vibes. Fake it till you make it. Positive thinking will eventually turn into your general mode of thinking. Try the 20 day positivity challenge or whatever it is. Part of …	/r/seduction	24/11/12 04:04 AM
5	I keep on getting rejected in class, should I continue hitting on girl or what? Rejected how? In class? I don't understand how you could get "rejected" in class. You really shouldnt be trying to game girls in class the way you would at a bar or club...... how old are you	/r/seduction	24/11/12 04:00 AM
1	Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"? so that means you shouldn't try..?	/r/seduction	24/11/12 03:57 AM
2	What adjustments can be made to direct game at parties where you plan to see the girls again frequently for a long time? Check out collegeflirt.net Dude you seriously shouldn't be applying ANY outer-game material with girls at parties or college stuff. Only do this at bars/clubs. It's SO much easier pulling girls at college parties then at bars its ridiculous, and I find it funny that you're asking this lol. Really it shouldn't feel like you're trying to pick up a girl at a party, it has to be completely natural. FLIRT WITH EVERY GIRL don't discriminate only the hot ones because then it seems like you have an agen…	/r/seduction	24/11/12 03:48 AM
10	Girls sometimes tell me that I'm not exciting and I get the vibe that they think I'm boring. How do I become more exciting and interesting? Honestly, you probably feel that vibe because you think YOU are boring. The trick isn't to have passions so you can talk about them, its the inner-game concept of you having knowledge that you are pursuing your passions as a self actualized male. Girls can catch on that vibe that you are a passionate guy, and thats attractive. When you first meet a girl, they aren't going to give a shit about your passions no matter what they are (unless they come up) it has a lot more to do with you having a fu…	/r/seduction	24/11/12 03:44 AM
5	Being alpha and context This post is kinda pointless. Your story barely connects to the concept. You're not really giving much advice that will help anyone. This will just make sense to people that don't have a problem. This is really wishy washy.	/r/seduction	24/11/12 03:37 AM
1	Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females? For sure people will perceive you that way, but remember as a decent human being you should be trying to bringing people up, and by one upping them, you aren't. Lol. Sometimes people (even me) one up more than they think. Something like, your friend says "Hey dude check out this song its awesome" "Aww dude but check out THIS song" without taking the time of day to listen to the song told you to listen to. If that example makes any sense	/r/seduction	23/11/12 07:43 PM
9	Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females? Yeah you don't need to work out or look good. But if you work out and are healthy, you generally feel better about yourself, and have more respect for yourself, which shows to other people. Last line is a good point though. If you feel like you need to have sex with a lot of girls to be excellent you're simply buying into the social conditioning that a man's value is only based on the amount of sex he has. It really actually means nothing. But if you feel as yourself that you're successful and h…	/r/seduction	23/11/12 03:06 AM
1	Anyone have a high amount of number closes but atrocious conversion/date close rates. What am I doing wrong, what's the missing? Honestly dude. I would try hitting up some online dating websites, fuck it, why not?	/r/seduction	23/11/12 12:58 AM
3	Eye Contact = Long Distance Kissing Somewhat irrelevant but I might steal this thought process. Have some eye contact from a girl far way, then come and say, I hear that eye contact is like long distance kissing. Legit	/r/seduction	22/11/12 10:40 PM
-1	Are "funny" t-shirts a good or bad thing? They make you look immature and stupid. Lol, you shouldn't be relying on your clothing to open.	/r/seduction	22/11/12 10:36 PM
1	Hey seddit how do you deal with funnel chest/pectus excavatum? Who the fuck cares? I wouldn't even worry about it like this shouldn't hurt you or help you inherently.	/r/seduction	22/11/12 10:35 PM
1	Anyone have a high amount of number closes but atrocious conversion/date close rates. What am I doing wrong, what's the missing? Well honestly, it just seems like you're not really in the best place? What city do you live in (if you don't mind me asking) Basically, day game for these 10-30 minute intervals are going to be harder than club game because When you go out to the club you go to have fun, these girls are just going to class, probably not dressed the best, and not thinking they'll meet a cool guy Neither of you have been drinking (which is a good social lubricant for both parties) Remember not all girls are magic…	/r/seduction	22/11/12 10:17 PM
1	Meeting women for me isn't the problem, it's the getting their number that I can't seem to do. Tips? If you're at a party or something and either you don't feel like you are going to hook up with said girl (or you don't want to) whenever you leave just say "hey you're awesome put your number in" and hand them your phone. easy as pie. The key is once they give you your number text them right away like "guess who;)" or something like that. It isn't clingy to ask for someones phone number at all. If you don't want to ask your phone number (I DO THIS A LOTTTT) give them your phone number, its less …	/r/seduction	22/11/12 09:55 PM
1	How to deal with rejected when asking for a number gracefully? Based on your post I would recommend looking more into some inner game and theory stuff to see why this post strikes people as kind of funny. But I'll answer the question just because. The reason you get rejected (or got rejected) is probably because you weren't expecting a positive reaction. I, and many others would say something like: "Hey I had a really awesome time meeting you, give me your phone i'll put my number in (or visa-versa, just hand her your phone and say put your number in)" Afte…	/r/seduction	22/11/12 09:38 PM
1	Anyone have a high amount of number closes but atrocious conversion/date close rates. What am I doing wrong, what's the missing? I think these people MAY be giving you the wrong answer to understand your question. Are you in college, a state university where lots of students live on or near campus? Or like a commuter school? If you are in a big state university, game is really not even near as important as it is in the real world. College is almost tribal, and you're going to have success having a robust social life rather than having game and doing cold approaches. Thing is, most of these attractive girls probably have e…	/r/seduction	22/11/12 09:35 PM
132	Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females? Developing high social value? That's a long story. Portraying high social, well, just have high social value. Really, you need to do the things that YOU are passionate about. If you are always actively trying to improve your life, you will feel good about yourself, and be giving more value then you take. For example: Work out everday Eat healthy (i eat paleo and its really improved my life, although everyone has their different opinions on whats the best) Always be positive around people, don't …	/r/seduction	22/11/12 09:28 PM