| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | HVM excited to see fiancé everyday when she wakes up | How-To High Value | glamshell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:41 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Where's the lie?Yesss oml I keep seeing that, where they say their boyfriends just play games when they are over and they are upset so they try their best to learn the game when of course it's the guys fault for ignoring their girlfriends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:36 AM |
| 153 | NVM expects me to drive 8 hours to hang, proceeds to neg me..I agree that this guy is the worst but I find your last message cringy. I think you should just block and delete at the first sign of a NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:06 AM |
| 10 | Vetting strategy: How to read between the lines, use power of deduction to read motivations/possibilities and how to make educated guesses.I think they mean the friends and family will lie about what he is like so that he looks good, but they won't put so much effort into the lie as he will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Ouchhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:43 AM |
| 3 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Lmao, can't believe some people 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:33 PM |
| 4 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Oh wow, yeah I see. Strange guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:23 PM |
| 8 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?I don't think they actually mean that though. I find astrology fun to look at, but I know it's not actually accurate. In reality I don't think anyone here is gonna not date someone because of their sign (if they do, well... Can't defend them...) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:15 PM |
| 12 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?'for sh*ts and giggles' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 16 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Libras smh. They seem so good and stable at the start but then you realise deep down they are only thinking about themselves. It's just not obvious from the outside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌These are great 😄 Ive been doing some cross stitch and embroidery recently, I should try something like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 7 | Dont wait around for menI turned off all the active status things in all my apps because in the past I compulsively checked to see when my ex was online before I blocked him on everything. I kept it off and now I prefer it that way 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:07 AM |
| 1 | What Seemingly HVM have you dated? What were his HV traints and his LV traits?Haha mine definitely could have been heavier on the HV qualities but I really don't feel like writing them all out, makes me annoyed at him lol. The best thing he did was inspire me to be more creative and inspire me to be nicer to my friends and family, just as he was. A lot of his HV traits disappeared over the course of the relationship so it feels weird to write them down. Like he used to tell me everything, used to tell me how much he appreciated me, we used to have really good chats and it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Red Flags GaloreAnd he introduced me to loads of great artists insta pages which I had to unfollow because it made me think of him :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Red Flags GaloreOh wow I met my ex through his artwork online too. I follow a lot of artists on Instagram and unfortunately he has put me off a lot of them because they remind me of him. Ugh wish my brain could move past this because I used to really enjoy looking at art similar to his style. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:51 PM |
| 6 | What Seemingly HVM have you dated? What were his HV traints and his LV traits?HV: Very kind and considerate, close with friends and family, good job with good income, ambitious and knew what he wanted in life, honest, really good listener and gave good advice, lots of hobbies and interests LV: Love bombing, boring, terrible texter, said I love you way to soon, said other girls were all mean to him, stopped putting effort in, I made a lot of the first moves (more my fault at the time), has mental health issues do to something very traumatic that happened to him that he has… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | LVM vs HVMHe mentioned one time that he opened up about what he was going through to a girl he was friends with and that she was horrible to him and cut him off. (A very close family member died) I think I just accepted that as the reason at the time, especially since we weren't together for that long. But he said all girls were mean to him, not just one, so I think he must have done something to make them act that way around him. It also helped when I thought of it the other way round. I know many nice g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | LVM vs HVMMy ex said I was the nicest girl he had ever met and that all other girls were mean to him. Huge red flag of course, but at the time I took that as a big compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMThanks so much for the encouragement!!! I am definitely beginning to improve myself, been doing a bunch of things I always wanted to and some things I needed to do like big chores I put off. And I look fucking great rn lol, it was definitely his loss. It's great, for the first time in ages I'm truly putting myself first and I've even started to stop taking crap from my friend that I've had since I was little. I realised as much as I care for her I just don't like her anymore and she leaves me so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMThank you :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:00 AM |
| 7 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMUgh so true. He seemed so great at the beginning and did so much for me, and then after a bit he put less and less effort in, for no apparent reason. And I was so insecure about it. He ended up ending it in the end and I quickly realised none of it was my fault. It's still so difficult for me to understand what happened but I did know he wasn't happy about a lot of things in his life and I think in the beginning I provided and escape from that until the newness of that faded and his real life wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 2 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Yes!! I loved the Russian Guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Killing two birds with one stone?Yes! My ex was always distracted during calls and it was so frustrating. I would have to repeat myself multiple times. Defo not worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Start treating men the same way companies treat their employeesI was just thinking this the other day! Great post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:22 PM |
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