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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Need some advice		glc0830	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/22 11:59 AM

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1	Need some advice Thanks for this. Really good point. I guess my only thought is, I know he is going through some complex trauma from childhood and I just wonder if these feelings are temporary. But I’m the type of person that would need zero contact after a divorce so “getting back together” wouldn’t be a likely option in my mind. So I’m struggling with, do I do whatever I can to try to wait out these feelings to see if they are fleeting or just understand that the probability of this working is very low and sta…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/22 10:39 AM
1	Need some advice Thank you for this. This is great advice. I was always okay with the open marriage. Heck, I took part in it too. I did have one encounter where I started feeling ties to someone else but I quickly realized it was getting too far and stopped it. Which was hard. I do think some conditions of the open marriage need to change ti mitigate this from happening again. I.e. no sex with people you know, “one and done” etc. I know this a divorce group and while we haven’t filed papers I posted in this grou…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/22 10:30 AM
0	Need some advice Makes sense, but what if the desires are out of nowhere and could be attributed to a lot of other things than us. We were really good for 11.5 out of 12 years. Plus now he is discovering trauma which may play a part. I can’t just leave now without at least trying to see. But I do agree with you	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/22 03:23 PM

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