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| 1 | CMV The main reason why Dating today is f*cked for Men is not because of feminism/equality. 90% of the damage comes from Online Dating.I say this all the time. In a bar, what are your options? The people who are approachable (e.g. really hard to approach someone sitting with a group of their friends and single them out), and the people who you find attractive. Believe it or not, that number is actually pretty low. Most PEOPLE (not just women) only had what was physically available in front of them. That's it. You didn't have the luxury of endless people, it was literally that you had to give it at least a shot. You don't go out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Most guys who wish they could get into the casual sex lifestyle, couldn't handle that lifestyleYup. Ive been with 30+ women which is a decent number, and realized that it was a lot of juice to get the squeezes and in the end im not sure it was entirely worth all the effort. I was much happier putting effort into good, high value women who gave me the same in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.a young American problem. and then go look at normal adults who don't do this because its insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.This is such a young American problem. Having moved here I really see how absolutely trashy American culture is. An entire generation is absolutely mentally destroyed and I fear the day you all grow up. I have never seen such degeneracy or lack of self respect/standards. However, just north of the border, this shit didn't exist except in major major cities and probably the impoverished areas. I don't know a single person in all my 30 years who ended up with a bad-boy, abusive piece of shit. Why?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worthAmen brother. I am the same boat as you. While I do have some "success" on OLD, the juice just isn't worth the squeeze. The women complain about men while taking no responsibility. Men do the same. No one wants to be a better person. I'm not auditioning to date you or doing the whole song and dance just so I can have a chance. I will say this though, this is predominantly American culture. Even in Canada, yes it exists, but its to such a lower extent. America really is a horrible trash culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 05:12 PM |
| 14 | Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worthDating is absolutely worth it but people DON'T KNOW HOW TO FUCKING DATE. I cannot scream this loud enough. You can blame OLD, society, social media and all play a role. BUT, when dating, you have to take time to get to know someone. Seriously, before all the massive social media, OLD apps etc. you had to actually talk to someone a few times before you got to know them and determined if you liked them. Yes, some people are an instant hit, but that's seriously so few people. And yes, some people y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherI cannot recommend a video more for men than this. Watch at 1.5 speed but if after watching this you don't come down to planet earth, there is no hope. https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=be_Ms3nVG10 Showing up doesn't automatically mean you deserve sex. Putting in SOME effort doesn't automatically mean you get sex. No one owes you anything. You could have failed for 1000000 reasons, none of them having anything to do with yourself. Men could be "trying" and its an absolute joke of an ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherthose men aren't getting laid because they dont put any effort in. Don't go outside, and just wallow in their misery. Get better and you will get laid. Or, as I said, stay home, cry on reddit, and the adults who stopped whining and took action, will have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherokay then stay at home and complain online while the rest of us go get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 07:26 PM |
| 0 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherDude what do you want? Do you want a fucking hug, some cookies and a nap? Women have dating and sex easier. SO FUCKING WHAT. What are you going to do about it? Cry on the internet? Stay home and talk to your buddies on discord about how unfair life is? Please fucking do. Less whiners the easier it is for me. Enjoy your hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherIt's true women don't want to be harassed, stalked, and deal with people who have no social game/can't take no. This is who women are screaming about, you can just listen to what they say you know? I'm maybe a 6, no woman has ever been disgusted by me approaching. Sure i've been rejected, and not everyone is enthusiastic, but hey, same for me when women approach me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherThen you keep thinking that, sit at home, and make things easier for me. Thanks bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:46 PM |
| 10 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherYes times are tough, so what? Tough times make strong men. You want to succeed? Let all the other men wallow in their misery and go take advantage of the situation. OLD isn't going to work for you, but guess what, the number of women who cry about not being approached is like receiving a golden cheat code into dating. Go outside, talk to women, have success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherMate go outside, touch grass, get off OLD, go talk to women IRL. I'm a 6, i've fucked 30+ women, dated women who are 6-7.5. I've crushed OLD sometimes, other times got absolutely pooped on. What men need to do is shut the fuck up about this "waaaaah women only want chad" nonsense. Your defeatist attitude is whats causing you to get none. I have absolutely gone down this path and you know what? It doesnt lead to anywhere but more misery. My entire life, people who are within the same "leagues" da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:07 PM |
| 0 | What does the average experience of an average man in the dating world look like?man I can tell you, im probably a 6 in reality, a 6.5 is REALLY pushing it. I haven't gone on a date in a year, but I think thats because Seattle is an absolute disgusting place to date as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:44 PM |
| 5 | What does the average experience of an average man in the dating world look like?I don't know what level of "average" I am. But based on a standard bell curve, most average people are a 4 to 6. I am 5'11, worked out since 16, hilarious, outgoing when I want to be with no issues talking to people. I've slept with like 30+ women but tbh I think maybe 20 of those I'm actually like proud of or at least don't regret. I would say MAX I'm a 6.5 and I mean that's stretching it. I've had "hot" girl friends (women above a 6), I've definitely gone on dates with some good looking women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Decided to play around w/ my FWB’s tinder…solution is lets just nuke the earth because humans are just destroying everything IMO. No lie, pro nukes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 06:26 AM |
| 8 | Social circles are really not a good way to meet womenMan you could not be more wrong ever. The hottest women I have fucked all came from my FEMALE friends recommending me. Women who are your friends will abso-fucking-lutely recommend you. Having a womans approval is like a golden ticket. Have you not seen how married men are basically fawned over constantly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Decided to play around w/ my FWB’s tinder…No, he's giving a numerical example of how difficult it is for a man to get laid. If a woman has 360 matches and sleeps with 3 of them thats 1/120 chances. That is INSANELY difficult. Of course you didn't get the point though because we know women don't like to argue when math shows up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | How do women benefit from having a hoe phase?In summary, women refuse to take responsibility for their actions, what a complete shocking discovery... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 01:53 AM |
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