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Are you waiting for them to connect? If I’m becoming friends with a colleague, I eventually just ask “hey, how is your personal life?” You have to take the risk and be vulnerable.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 06:19 PM
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There is no replacement. Work on yourself or find communities that are more accepting of you.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 06:18 PM
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Hey check it out, its one of the standard refrains my wife gives when I am having a hard time and wants it to go away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 07:38 PM
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Is MRM "Mens rights movement" because if so I would drop that language outright. That term is totally poisoned and using it makes potential allies into immediate enemies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/25 04:25 PM
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Yes. A lot of men in fact. If you tune into the manosphere at all the assault on Democrats for "not caring about men" has been long and sustained. How on earth these people made the jump from that to "but the GOP will be different" is beyond me, but it is a very consistent belief. Personally I think no one cares about men except themselves (including other men), but a lot of men are mad at "the left" for caring too much about women and LBGTQ.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/25 04:23 PM
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A lot of them fell in love with their now wife. There is even a whole sub for married red pill men. These guys often love their wife, but were not emotionally intelligent to understand how to nurture that love. So like any relationship of many years or decades there is the bag of anger and resentment that both partners feel. Instead of dealing with it in a healthy way, they try and take control of her and diminish her autonomy, biology, etc, etc. So I would argue they did feel love at some point…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 05:41 PM
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what redpill leads with is emotional validation for young men Just men in general. A lot of RP is middle aged guys who feel they got a raw deal and it is women's fault. The validation is right on though. When I almost lost my marriage and I was desperate trying to figure out what to do and where I went wrong RP was literally one of the only voices giving any kind of validation.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/25 04:05 PM
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or they do and it is negative A lot of these guys who end up divorced and in RP or BP were the negative end of the relationship. They were asked repeatedly for years and years and years to see how they affected those around them. To stop being selfish. To be more present and on and on and on. They couldn't do the difficult internal work that results from a long had look in the mirror. Then they find RP which says "You are not the problem, women are stupid and you just need to control them. Just …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/25 04:04 PM
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The answer is to ask hard truths about himself, how people perceive him, and do the hard internal work of understanding why. Most of these guys code the hate of course. Asking hard questions is too hard.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/25 06:10 PM
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Really depends on what kind of social and support networks men build for boys and for themselves. No one is going to do it for us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/25 03:02 PM
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there are a lot of manosphere grifters who profit off this type of scamming. When I was deep in the throws of possibly losing my marriage, I talked to one of these guys and he wanted $10k for access to his app and coaching. When I said "I don't know if I can do that" he said "do you have a 401k? You could withdraw from that" and I hung up. They are just preying on men in emotional turmoil. They get it too because they promise what OP was looking for; a step-by-step plan and a promise. I did save…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 07:29 PM
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Buckle up then. We already have X messing with Grok to say what they want. It is probably the first "malicous" AI that is being programmed to lie, but certainly not the last.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 06:49 PM
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I thought ChatGPT was accurate because I read about a study that said that it's better than doctors at diagnosing people. This is a very different data set than what you are talking about, and likely a completely different AI tool. ChatGPT is not being used for diagnoses like you are thinking. There are machines now that use AI, but think of it more like "They put AI in an X-Ray machine and it can diagnose exactly these 50 things and nothing else. We trained on very hard and strict data." If you…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 06:48 PM
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It’s not just RP/BP men. Many many many men have this exact same idea about women. You also said he had luck hitting on women irl. That is another excuse they have, that they can never ever do this. Ultimately their stories are just that. Stories. They need them because the alternative is getting over their fear.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 12:28 AM
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Not true. The redacted study you refer to was only in regards to wolves. Primates for example have very strict social structures with an alpha male at the top. Some species of big cats do the same.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 02:46 AM
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Yea I can’t hang out with my guy friends because everyone else gets mad at me if I am not constantly providing or otherwise being productive. When I’m not doing that I have to tend to the emotions of my wife and children.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 02:44 AM
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Many men of any kind have no real friends. If they do it is often surface level with colleagues.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 02:41 AM
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or unless something like psychedelics are involved I was literally going to write "Get him 3 grams of shrooms and put on a lecture by Alan Watts." I never bought heavily into most aspects of RP but was dangerously flirting with some of the views on women and relationships. I then did about 5 grams of mushrooms and six hours later I was like "What the fuck was I thinking?"
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 05:09 PM
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Half the men on the internet don't understand that supermodel women are not attracted to guys whose main idea of fun is spending hours playing video games.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 07:20 PM
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I agree that a large section of the internet would agree, and so it regurgitates what that section of the internet has written.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 07:18 PM
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AI is trained on the internet. The section of the internet that talks the most about hookups, especially women's behavior in regards to hookups, are these dudes. The group next largest group, are anxious guys who think that women only want those dudes and complain about them endlessly and blame them for their lack of success with women.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 07:15 PM
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ChatGPT is a conversation with the internet. Often feeds back what you prompted. If you ask it about hookups it will use the plurality of what it knows. Since the people talking about hookups the most are dudes who talk like this, this is what you get. If he asked different questions it would give back completely different responses.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 07:13 PM
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They do NOT prioritize the douche. That is terrible messaging to the young generation. Some may, but most don’t. Women are almost universally attracted to confidence. The douche comes off as confident and so often gets hookups easier than the nice guy who comes off and anxious and needy. Frankly I agree with ChatGPT for the most part and don't think it is RP'ing the kid. You can admit these things are true without being RP.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 07:11 PM
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Only they can do it. No one else can help someone in a hole see the light. They have to look up and if they won't no matter how loud you call them, then let them sit in the hole.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 03:04 PM
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Yea it’s just insecurity. What I have noticed is women do really like it when men plan and take care of things. Like nothing gets my wife going than a weekend trip where I planned everything and she doesn’t have to think about any of the logistics or make any decisions. You don’t need to make money to take charge.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/25 12:50 AM
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Healthy people want healthy relationships while deep down unhealthy people aren't satisfied with healthy relationships Yes this so much. I have been doing a lot of therapy and learning the last few years and what is needed across the board is knowledge and awareness of self. People are just flailing through life totally unaware of how they are driven my learned and instinctual patterns beyond their control.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/25 02:37 PM
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You don’t need to go to Vegas to pay for sex. Start with going to strip clubs you’ll be down the rabbit hole in no time.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 06:04 PM
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Then leave them alone and if you want sex go and pay for it.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 03:48 PM
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While I agree with a lot of this, liberals could absolutely destroy the right by investing in actual left wing economic policies. They can’t do this because of the corporate wing of politics, and if they did every media outlet would thrash them anyway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 04:05 PM
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The friendzone exists because insecure dudes want validation in the form of sex but aren’t forward enough with their intentions to get it. So yes if you’re secure it disappears.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/25 12:23 AM
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The one good take I got from RP was to learn how to live your life and validate yourself, for yourself and not for others. Turns out a lot of them are just “she she she she she” about everything. It is ALL validation in regards to women. If not directly from them, then by “conquering” them sexually. It’s pretty lame. They can save a lot of time by just reading “The Courage To Be Disliked.”
/r/ExRedPill07/01/25 12:37 PM
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I have zero doubt you take this poor me attitude into your interactions with women. They can smell it a mile away. The difference is he probably doesn't. Just this whole "only looks matter" just reeks of insecurity.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/24 10:07 PM
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100%.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 03:23 PM
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That is hilarious. Shouldn't it just be all men speaking as proxy for their wives and telling each other what to do?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 03:22 PM
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But you would be surprised how many women will fall for a toxic caricature of a man versus what he really is You can say the same thing about men falling for a caricature of a woman. At any rate, that caricature is just confident and forward about what they want. That is the secret sauce for getting laid. You can mix and match all kinds of other parts of your personality but if you can just come out and say what you want confidently, you are 95% of the way there.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/24 03:22 PM
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You look fine. Not even remotely "very unattractive" but you're here in the echo chamber of male insecurity just digging the hole further instead of living your your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:33 PM
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Women do love good men, but I think Hoe_math nails it. Paraphrasing: You don't have to be so bad you go to jail, just demonstrate you could be bad enough that have the potential to go to jail.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 09:13 PM
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Except whenever men try and do something about it, they get attacked. University students who start men's groups have received death threats and been forced to leave school. Adults who make men's groups get found out and bullied out. Boys are taking behind in university. When women were behind society rallied to fix the problem. For boys today, it's their fault and their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:46 PM
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The second is not a passive aggressive insult. It's a statement of truth and a clear path to not being a fat fuck. Works for fat fuck men and fat fuck women equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:31 PM
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So do women. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:29 PM
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Because they are whiny crybabies creating an echo chamber and overtaking the community to cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:16 PM
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True but I recall seeing content that does argue people are more in control of attraction then they think via their behavior. As in, you can't negotiate attraction, but you can improve yourself and people who were not attracted will become attracted to you (which ironically is how I met my wife, we were roommates for a long time and she hated me and I was indifferent to her, I went through a period of self-improvement, and she went hard for me).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:14 PM
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Traditionally, middle class men were shopkeepers, merchants, tavern owners, and guilds man Just as a random aside, this is the actual definition of middle class. A middle class person can generate their own income via selling a product or clients who pay for services. People today who work at a big corporation and draw a good wage are not middle class as they do not generate their own income. They are by definition working class since they draw a wage. However at some point they convinced most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:02 PM
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The fact that you think that a partner can only provide services, money, and sex, is pretty telling. My partner provides much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:52 PM
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OP is saying "be a trad girl" but with extra words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:26 PM
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Both genders need to cook and clean. That's what adults do. Men and women bring other things to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:26 PM
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Men like to tell themselves that but it's wrong. They don't need what women are giving, but they have the same basic need of being validated and feeling a part of their communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:56 PM
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It really isn't. There may be some lip service of "you're beautiful as you are" but everyone knows the truth, especially the obese women. The Internet has groups and content but I'm the real world the obese are treated the same as they've always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:47 PM
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California So sick of the California boogey-man. It is not nearly as progressive as the news media have painted it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:13 PM
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I disagree that it is less empathetic to say men don't have empathy. Most men have a problem expressing empathy. So based on the evidence that women have been provided, they are simply stating the observation that men appear to lack empathy. It is a logical, evidence based claim. And giving advice is an expression of empathy that’s the first thing you do when you feel empathetic towards someone That is incorrect. The first step of empathy is feeling and validating the other person's emotions. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:09 PM
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Women who demand to be coddled and men who can not feel or express emotions are both exhibiting a low level of emotional intelligence. Societal conditioning causes it to be expressed differently by gender but the problem is the same. But men express empathy in many different ways whether that be finding a solution to a problem or providing practical support This is not an expression of empathy, it is an attempt to use logic in place of emotion because of a lack of emotional intelligence. Emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:52 PM
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Lesbian relationships are also more likely to be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:54 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised to learn that more people meet online for the pure fact that more people are spending most of their time online. People going out are probably having better success, but so many people are now hermits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:06 PM
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To many reddit users this is a wild idea, because they don't put themselves in situations they may hook up in. They just go home and play video games and wonder "why won't women hook up with me?" They put all their hopes into the apps because that is closer to their comfort zone of "screen make me happy."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:04 PM
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It doesn't become touchless until after the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:58 AM
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In your 40k example, did the woman ever tell the guy that she was interested in him. Of course she didn't. That would offer her up to be rejected, which is something women expect men to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:20 AM
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You win the pedantry award on Reddit today. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:15 AM
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Then get off the apps and go meet women in real life. If you can't do that then learn. You don't even need to "approach" (which I'm sure you'll complain about next since this is reddit). If you can't figure that out then just shut up about women not wanting to date you. You already gave up so don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:36 PM
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That is an impossible question to answer. If you are trying to date and need to know the answer first, them you already lost. The only question to ask is "am I attractive?" and if the answer is no, then improve the things you can control and move on. No one owes you anything no matter what, but at least you'll be in control of what is possible to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:29 PM
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Okay I am on board with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:55 PM
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The more the truth is out, the more we know where we truly stand The version of a person that is published to the internet is very rarely the truth. "A persons internet persona is not the real them" is social media literacy for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:46 PM
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Men have the same social media options, but that absolutely does not translate to more options in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:43 PM
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Why Will? I have read a few of the others though and they were good.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/24 02:43 PM
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The Courage to be Disliked and The Courage to be Happy by Fumitake Koga and Ichiro Kishimi. This book really helped me see my relationships and attitudes differently, and gave names to ideas and tools I needed to guide myself to where I wanted to be.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/24 02:42 PM
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This is a good example of leadership. It's not, as people think, telling people what to do. It's giving people the confidence to take ownership of their own decisions that align with your vision. Damn, that hits on many fronts.
/r/askMRP31/10/24 06:49 PM
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OYS #1 New here. Made an account just for this. Stats 19 years married Kids 7f, 11f 19% BF Bench 150lb 3x8 Squat 190lbs 3x8 Free weights various 25lb Reading NMMNG x2 MMSLP x1 (re-reading) Poon x1 Sidebar Mission Stage 1: Find my frame again, crush my anxiety and neoticism, start thinking about later stages of mission. Workout 3x this week, usually get in 3-4 times a week. Trying to work in more cardio. Started a year ago with decent gains, down 30lbs. Relationship Had a blowout fight last year …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 04:20 PM
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