| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | California - 8 year marriage - no kids together | globalexpresspilot | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/19 03:06 AM | |
| 2 | What constitutes separation in California? | globalexpresspilot | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/20 04:31 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What constitutes separation in California?Huh? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes separation in California?We have no biological kids. One house, both on mortgage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I am young, and having doubts about getting married. Is it worth it?If you don’t want kids with her then NO. This was advice I failed to take 10 years ago and noted I’m regretting it big time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Does mediation work?I still don’t know where to start in my situation. Have decided I want a divorce, don’t know first step, but I do know I don’t want to waste attorney fees if we can mediate or whatever it’s called. What are the steps? Contact mediator/attorney who does everything? I’m overwhelmed with all the processes and paperwork I hear of on this forum, like separation agreement, settlement, filing, etc etc. I’m so depressed on how to announce it to her, I want to move out to establish separation. And moving… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | California - 8 year marriage - no kids togetherI am still in this limbo period where I can't pull the trigger yet, mainly because I am concerned about her reaction regarding my valuable property in the house, mainly my classic car. I fear she might vandalize it. And when the only lawyer I spoke to on the phone so far informed me that I need to establish "separation" ASAP to end the marriage clock approaching 10 years together, according to him that should be done by someone moving out of the house we currently live in. I fear if I move out s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/20 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Separated but still living together?The lawyer I spoke to said that living together while you try to persuade a judge that you’re separated is very difficult. This is important for spousal and child support in avoiding the 10 year marriage mark. He told me I should move out or she moves out ASAP to establish that date that says you aren’t actually living together. Maybe that’s not a concern for you but for me I will need to get separated before that 10 years or I could be paying spousal support to her forever, instead of just half… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/19 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Did anyone here divorce over a sexless marriage?This sounds similar to my situation. No kids with her. But I make more money and simply bought the dream classic car with my inheritance which I have in a trust. Our sex life is down to every few months. Yep I feel like a roommate that is there to maintain a house and all the associated crap we accumulate. I feel for you man. But you’re still young. I’m 49 and feel like the divorce process will be so long and complicated and that’s why i haven’t pulled the trigger yet. Selling a house, moving, d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | California - 8 year marriage - no kids togetherSo I called a lawyer and spoke for a bit. He said yeah the dividends and basically all income from my separate property trust which I inherited is fair game for her spousal support. Which is insane to me, of course. But I’m still confused on all the types of divorce... mediation, collaborative divorce, contested divorce, uncontested divorce. And how many attorneys to be involved, and if you go mediation route of that agreement is binding compared to a judgement by a judge. I don’t know I’m getti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/19 08:31 AM |
| 1 | California - 8 year marriage - no kids togetherShould I talk to her about my decisions before going to a lawyer? Also what about asking her to join me to see a lawyer who does mediation? I need a strategy for the least possible drama. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Well it finally happened.By uncontested do you mean she’s agreed to mediation and you both won’t be getting lawyers? I’m new to this process and also about to see a lawyer this week. I’m hoping for a peaceful and quick process but not holding my breath. Good luck to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | California - 8 year marriage - no kids togetherThanks guys. I’m still just worried what her initial reaction will be when I tell her I saw a lawyer. She’s trying to be nice today and I’m just being bummed. I don’t think she thinks I’m going to a lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/19 01:57 AM |
| 2 | 2020 is going to be a year of 20/20.Jay, I am right there with you buddy. I too have been depressed for far too long, and have decided that (depending on how long a divorce takes) 2020 will bring a new outlook on life. Sucks trying to get back in shape for possibly getting "back in the game" with women ;) Good luck man, you can do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/19 03:42 AM |
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