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| 12 | How to be funny / witty? | globst | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 01:08 PM | |
| 9 | How to put theory into practice during stressful situations - meditation? | globst | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 12:33 PM | |
| 0 | Serena Williams is a superhero | Blue Pill Example | globst | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 08:40 PM |
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| 3 | Found out that my girlfriend had ongoing sex for an extended period of time with her ex boyfriend right before we met and I am concerned she may not be completely over him. Need advice.The best in bed being an ego thing, I hope is something I can get over, I think I can, I think it's not realistic to think the person we end up with is also the same person we had the best sex with. My concern is the potential imprint this guy had on her psche, for 3 years she couldn't completely let go, which concerns me about risk down the road. I hope you don't get over it so it serves as a punishment and reminder about (i) caring (you shouldn't and the fact that you do means you don't have s… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Emotion is energy in motion. Direct it wisely.Or, like a lot of buddhists, stew in them until they eventually subside, but not taking action.IMO, bot it wrong. You've misunderstood what meditation is about. Practicing concentration meditation will train you to be aware of your emotions so that you can direct your attention where it is needed. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Having the worst time on bumble. What am doing wrong?"Hanging out / drinking with you" | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 11:13 PM |
| 28 | Having the worst time on bumble. What am doing wrong?So much unnecessary chat. She isn't your penpal Her: you can never go wrong with the classic. Doing anything fun this weekend? She's doing the hard work on working out logistics for you...mainly because she's got more balls than you do. Me: hosting a show, working on some business stuff. Maybe make a homemade pizza LOL nothing too crazy you? Low value reply Her: I've spent it shopping / eating drinking and I could use a break LOL. She's hinting that she isn't doing anything. Ask her out.... | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 59 | girl is DTF but the problem is that she is TOO dtf... is she crazy?Sometimes I read asktrp just to have a chuckle. You have delivered. Go have sex with her. Wrap it up. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | I walked away 1 minute after the first date- meeting herHow could you have improved the situation and control the frame? When she didn't relent, did you tease / make fun of her? Did you let her qualify her reasoning for wanting to go her direction? How was your body language and tone? You should aim to get her back into your frame and when that happens you can work on compliance. Try some game next time - it'll improve the odds of a favourable outcome. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Intermittent fasting vs caloric deficit?Have a read of this. Will answer many of your likely questions. http://www.burnfatnotsugar.com/assets/if.pdf | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 07:05 PM |
| 13 | Girl flaked on my date how do i punishShe didn’t respond to my texts all day>> i called her Think critically about what went wrong here. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 11 | In terms of attraction - stoic frame vs aggressiveAggression causes suffering over time. Nobody feels good when they get angry and there is very often regret. That guy is just punishing himself for no reason. Would a man who has his shit together punish himself? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of an Ex-StonerWeed tends to be a hindrance in attaining stable attention when meditating. I suspect what you are experiencing is subtle dullness. https://dharmatreasure.org/on-mindful-awareness-vs-dullness/ | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 10 | Obama Says Women Are "Indisputably Better" Than Men, And Should Lead Every CountryTo be honest the best prime minister the UK has ever had was a woman (Margaret Thatcher). She was a staunch capitalist and did wonders for the UK economy. However, of course this was an anomaly. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 10:29 PM |
| 2 | How to handle/control aggression?The mind illuminated https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Illuminated-Meditation-Integrating-Mindfulness/dp/1501156985/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+mind+illuminated&qid=1560619759&s=gateway&sr=8-1 Let the reviews do the talking. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 05:29 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when a girl tries to confide in you?If she is providing you with value then provide value back. Remember she doesn't want an answer to her worries, she just wants to vent and you to listen and validate/reassure. If you can entertain that for short bursts (without it over encroaching on your time) then it would be like listening to any random stranger about their superficial day. Once it becomes too much change topic. Just make sure that you never need anything from her and that you're not interested in her sexually. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:21 AM |
| 4 | I might have to say goodbye to the gym. Can anyone relate? what now?If the option is available see a specialist and try (if the prognosis allows) to receive an ultrasound guided cortisone/steroid injection into the relevant joint if necessary. When you have a shoulder injury it is quite often an inflamed bursa due to impingement. After the cortisone injection then go and see a PT to correct whatever imbalance. Cortisone injections are really quite useful for settling inflammation if used infrequently. If it is a tear or something else surgery or conservative tre… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.I always recommend meditation. It is the singular most important tool I have for every day life and developing frame and emotional equanimity. I'd say the results of meditation have been even more useful than lifting, in picking up chicks for me. Recommend "The Mind Illuminated" hands down the best resource for meditating I've found to date. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?Meditation. Get yourself a copy of The Mind Illuminated. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Coworker has friend zone talk with meI'd have just laughed (or smirked) while walking away. Let her hamster run wild. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 08:05 PM |
| 14 | Where to start with meditationThe mind illuminated if you are serious about it. It's a large book split into 10 stages (Each stage can take many weeks/months to master) with a literal step by step method for concentration meditation. Headspace is good if you want a quick introduction but it's not so great (in my opinion) for cultivating strong concentration. The mind illuminated is the best resource I've found out there to help develop strong concentration. From there accidental insights and mindfulness can be developed. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 06:49 PM |
| 3 | 2 years after my breakup, my ex is pursuing a phd in mathematics at Oxford and has a great careerYou're only 22 and have discovered TRP. This is something very few (if any of your friends) will be lucky enough to know, let alone digest. Life isn't over. Compared to my peers, my grades at school and uni were also poor and like you most of my friends went to Oxbridge or other top Universities and got jobs in top banks, law etc. I out earn most of them now, I have a business, ripped, game and have a general calmness about me due to meditation. Recognise your mistakes, understand there is nothi… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Confused with this. Shit test? Wanna learn from this.In my experience, I've had FAR greater results when telling a girl my schedule as the guy above has said. If a girl likes you she will almost always offer an alternative if she can't make that day/time Also you text too much. You'll get better at this - practice :) | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 06:01 PM |
| 6 | If you guys had to choose what is the number one most important thing I could change to start getting more woman? Maintaining frame?Frame is the end result of all the improvements you can make. You develop a strong frame when you are a confident man, centred and have abundance. Lift + Meditate and learn game. The rest will follow. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Broke down crying after meditation. I don’t know what to make of what happenedIn the mind illuminated (a samatha-vipassana) form of meditation Culdasa (the author) describes these moments as "purifications". Effectively what is happening here is that you've started to reach a stage where you are able to concentrate to a reasonable level that there is a bubbling of unconscious thoughts. I experienced what you experienced. As others have said, let it come let it go. This is a positive thing! | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 10:04 PM |
| 5 | How do you control your emotions?Keep meditating there is no better advice :) I would recommend the mind illuminated as a book. Headspace is ok but you'll struggle to really understand the depths of meditation with it as the techniques explained are basic at best. The mind illuminated will give you a strong framework in which to practice samatha-vipassana meditation. The results are extremely noticeable. Within 3-4 weeks of practice my ability to control my reactivity to negative stimuli increased. Within 8-12 weeks everyone ar… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 08:06 PM |
| 3 | What kind of Meditation are people into here?Would recommend you get the book the mind illuminated. Probably the most comprehensive mediation guide I have found. It literally teaches you step by step how to meditate in a way no other book has achieved for me. The book is samatha (concentration) heavy with vipisanna (insight) arising by accident in the later stages. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Extreme anxiety; tempted to contact my ex-ltr I broke off with 3 months ago.Your instinct exists for a reason. If you're not happy with her why settle? If you truly care about her, let her go. You'll end up hurting her more in the future. Do you really want this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Extreme anxiety; tempted to contact my ex-ltr I broke off with 3 months ago.My pleasure. I know what it feels like, we all make mistakes. All you can do is learn from them. Don't worry about upvotes/downvotes. You're worrying about being judged by randoms on the internet. The only person who's judgement you should care about is your own. Pick your head up things will get better :) | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 08:49 PM |
| 9 | Extreme anxiety; tempted to contact my ex-ltr I broke off with 3 months ago.Man that is a brutal way to dump someone who seems to have been pleasant towards you. Humans have a funny way of forgetting the bad and only remembering the good. I presume you're not getting laid or finding it hard, in which case you're catching oneitis for what your brain is telling you is your only chance. If you think she is the limit of what you can achieve then go back. If you go back, be prepared to be shit tested, or to find out something that you don't want to hear. ...but this is TRP a… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | MeditationsPlease correct me if I'm wrong but as far as I understand it, you are not describing mindfulness meditation but rather concentration meditation. Concentration and Mindfulness (insight) meditation are two sides of the coin. Concentration being the focus on a single point and mindfulness is letting things come and go - the aim here being to just notice. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Disabled guys have it tougher than womenIf I may recommend meditation to you through the book - The Mind Illuminated. Meditation will help you come to terms with your reality. Over time it will break down your requirements for validation as you will realise the impermanence of things. Wouldn't it be great to not actually care, but not because you don't care but because you're so focused on the present and accepting of reality that you don't even know how to care! Meditation will help you achieve that and more. Give it a go :) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | If I have the body, why aren’t I generating interest?Improve your haircut. More like the 2nd pic but longer. +beard | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Observations in an LTR (Ha!)You sound pretty bitter towards all women, projecting breaking down this post because your a bit bitter & angry based on your experiences of women cheating. I do sincerely feel bad that thats been your experience, and hope one day you find someone who treats you the way you SHOULD be treated - and visa versus :) Shaming language.....so predictable. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 05:05 PM |
| 3 | The subconscious results of lifting. (For beginners)Start with the machines and understand the feeling of using your muscles. Make it into a consistent practice, one where you are upping the weights every few sessions. Machines are quite easy to use, if in doubt ask for advice from the gym staff. Start light, get used to contracting your muscles and developing a mind muscle connection. The start is all about establishing a habit. After the first few sessions you will be in an extreme amount of pain (this is called DOMS) and is worst when you use … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?Fair enough. When I think about it, I can't disagree with your logic. It is enough that men with unstable minds have even made it here. To ask them at the start to both meditate and lift is too much. An unstable male needs something visible and fast acting in order to generate the positive moment towards success and nothing does this better than lifting. With lifting comes gains, with gains comes discipline and then with discipline, one can focus on the life skills that aren't as direct, such as… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?Most importantly enjoy it! Good luck on your journey | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Do You Even Lift?Respectfully I have to disagree again. Not because I devalue lifting. Lifting has given me the fastest and most noticeable results, women now approach me (something I've rarely experienced) and has increased my confidence through direct results. The multiplier effect has continued to increase and I'm starting to understand what abundance is. However it hasn't changed the underlying firmware that is my brain. I am prone to neuroticism, ruminating and irritability. Although lifting has decreased a… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?Not my intention at all to hijack. I disagree with you however. They are both important. One could also say that being in control of one's emotional state is a core of masculinity. Lifting alone won't help you achieve this, even though one's emotional state is likely to improve as a side benefit of lifting. Just do both. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?Excellent advice thank you. Interesting you say that, wanting to experience the Jhanas was the reason I got into Meditation in the first place (before I discovered the other benefits). I gather that this can be a hindrance as I hear it is tempting to remain in that state rather than seek insight. Anyway I'm only on stage 3 so a long way to go. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Do You Even Lift?Dang. I heard it takes about that long. The book recommends building up to 45 minutes in a single session to see more benefits. I'm not there yet, however the means to get there are addressed in the chapters (how to overcome dullness/boredom). This isn't similar to that feeling when you lift and you just feel at ease after a bit.. I don't know if that's endorphins(or if endorphins only happen when you run). It's a similar feeling. When you constantly over and over and over many sessions force yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 09:02 PM |
| 92 | Do You Even Lift?I've been meditating on and off for almost 8 months now. I only seriously got into practice about 4 months ago after researching meditation options to deaths. I finally came across (what I believe so far to be) the best resource out there for meditation. A book called The Mind Illuminated. It reads like a university textbook - splits meditation into 10 stages. Each stage can take many weeks / months to master so you only need to read it bit by bit - master then move on to the next stage. In a nu… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 246 | Do You Even Lift?Can attest - my life changed rapidly for the better after lifting. I then added meditation to the mix (concentration + insight) and things got even better. Do both. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | My sex life is broken, even 20 mg Cialis doesn't help. How can I fix this?Get thinner (ultra thin) condoms. They improve the experience massively and although no where near as good as raw they feel pretty good. There are many brands - find one that you like. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | "He has a small dick" - said Plate to My FriendsSo small I need a magnifying glass and tweezers | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | PUA skills will not compensate for lifting. My experience over the past first year....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2H9o6z1oKU Game is far more important. Lifting helps and girls will give you more options to open and more chances to fuck things up before they reject you. However, if a PUA comes along and she is conducive to being seduced by his game (and importantly he knows what he is doing) - as that guy above says, he will tool you and you'll be left dumbstruck as he effortlessly peels her away. You won't even realise before its too late. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl out and she said "but why?"I'd have said... "Lets hangout. Are you free on x at x time" Be definitive and let her choose whether to accept or reject. I'd probably still do "Are you free on x at x time" Ignore her question and set the tone. She has only three choices - to accept, reject or to shit test. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Feminism: The Cash Grab expandsIt sounds like tennis. Female players want the same pay in grand slams, but so far have never wanted to play 5 sets. I really dislike this argument. The number of sets is less relevant. What is of more importance is the money generated. Men's tennis has more viewers and this alone should be the reason they are paid more. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | **Is America waking up to the farce that is feminism?**Why not 5000? Put 5000 janitors together and they (probably) wouldn't be able to do the job of a fortune 500 CEO. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/18 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Doing small favors is orbiting?If you're worried about your friends and don't have status within the social hierarchy such that they respect your decision, then manipulate the situation so you don't seem like the bad guy. "Sure, I'll let you know when I have some time" ...then never have the time. She'll get the hint. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over resentment of Chad?You have something that Chad doesn't have. Knowledge of TRP and knowledge of game. If your game is better than his you will get the girl. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2H9o6z1oKU RSD Tyler explains it best. Pay attention to his looks in the video example. He's a skinny ginger vs a tall chad. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Relatively new to TRP, still reading the sidebar, need elaboration on the term "hamster"This link explains it well (with examples): https://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/12/12/the-rationalization-hamster-is-now-immortal/ | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How to put theory into practice during stressful situations - meditation?Yes I agree with all of this. I've read the sidebar, I read TRP daily and it has helped me in many facets of relationships and women. I don't claim to be an expert but I do have some knowledge, and yet when I get angry and stressed my frame crumbles, my knowledge goes out the window. I act like a beta. I want to find a way to better apply my knowledge during these moments - such that I don't act in a way that you've correctly identified above. I have no ego here - I'm not acting like a man and n… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 12:50 PM |
| 6 | Hide a feminine skill or own it?Cooking isn't a feminine act. It's cooking, a skill - YOUR SKILL. Cook her a damn good meal. Be proud of it. Own it. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Using Dread and working the hamster in my favor. What next?Keep ignoring her until she chases. She'll probably ask if everything is ok or something similar, to which you reply "I've been busy", and then continue the chat as if nothing has happened. This sets the chasing frame and lets her hamster fill in the reasoning. Try to avoid explaining what you've been busy doing, or at least be vague about it. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 10:35 AM |
| 2 | On training large breed dominant alpha male dogs.I found this quite interesting. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | If you put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on youok thats a fair assessment. Could you please tell me your tactic and how you play it through from the start so I can try with the next one? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 11:58 AM |
| 1 | If you put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on youCould you give me more insight into this? I've tried this exact tactic out with 2 girls. One failed and one worked. In both cases I acted like Chad before hooking up and then when we did I got really affectionate and sweet. Then when I felt them pulling away and getting less attracted I would turn full 180 and become aloof and distant. One girl literally lapped it up and fell in love within a month. I had given her such a rush of oxytocin and good feelz that she couldn't hamster the sudden chang… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 09:25 AM |
| 4 | My brother is miles better looking than me, it's slowly driving me insaneYou have knowledge of TRP and he doesn't. You win (even though I would still find a way to point him in the right direction if at all possible - he is still your brother and you should want the best for him) | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 12:09 AM |
| 6 | New "Fearless girl" statue staring down Wall Street's famous "Charging Bull" for International Woman's Day"I have made a terrible mistake. What was I thinking?" A female taking accountability for her actions? Don't think so. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 05:27 PM |
| 8 | The Bible is the Original RedpillRig vedas are older than the Torah but - I'm just being pedantic, I get your point entirely. If you're interested have a read up on women and the "Kali Yuga" (an event which was said to start after an ancient Hindu war (Mahabharata)) . The Kali Yuga is basically considered to be the last Yuga in Hindu mythology and the decline of civilisation. Gems about women such as: Women sleeping around, freely giving up their virginity, not doing household chores, not obeying / publicly rebuking their men, … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Valentine gift ideas?Dick in a box But seriously it doesn't have to be much. It's the frame you convey. Get some cheap shit that shows you've "thought" about her and she will be more than happy IF she is very attracted to you. Women are simple creatures. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 01:12 AM |
| 11 | I impregnated a ghetto bitchCould offer her money to get an abortion? Even if you don't have enough - you could borrow from family, friends, bank wherever. Cheaper than a lifetime of enslavement to a spawn. No harm in trying | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 08:59 PM |
| 8 | Divorce :Gave into betaness!Don't beat yourself up about making mistakes, Everyone makes mistakes. You are 31 - you are not even in your prime. You have a lifetime to make things up, and now without the burden of a woman. Don't get married again and enjoy life to your fullest for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/17 04:52 PM |
| 2 | If SMV as it is understood is REALLY how things are, why isn't it so uncommon to see men who LOOK or ARE over 30 dating/married to/LTR with High SMV females?I'm neither bankrupt or a billionaire but I am well off. I expect I will be even more well off in 5 years time, have even better game and will not have aged physically that much. I take care of myself and am constantly improving. I definitely expect that in the next 5 years I will find it easier to sleep with 22 year olds. I dance WCS and salsa. I meet young girls all the time. You need to stop being so negative. I don't know what you're trying to achieve - be a little more optimistic. 5-6 years… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 12:29 PM |
| 1 | If SMV as it is understood is REALLY how things are, why isn't it so uncommon to see men who LOOK or ARE over 30 dating/married to/LTR with High SMV females?In 4 years for example 22 year old hb8's should be dying to get your attention MUCH more so than 2 years ago, does this seem true? I am genuinely asking. Yes. I look the same as I did 4 years ago (maybe even a bit better, I am almost certain my facial structure has improved). I am much wealthier, much more knowledgeable about game and the world, due to an additional 4 years of life experiences. I have much greater social status, cultivated through experience and simply by having 4 more years. 22… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 01:50 AM |
| 9 | If SMV as it is understood is REALLY how things are, why isn't it so uncommon to see men who LOOK or ARE over 30 dating/married to/LTR with High SMV females?You have a misunderstanding of theory and reality in relation to SMV. In theory: male SMV rises in the early 30's. In theory this is because attractive male qualities, which include status, wealth, social value etc all tend to rise (in theory) in the 30's. Men also tend to age more slowly than women and a man who has taken care of himself will have not physically aged very much. In reality: Most men in their 30's are either married or are still betas. The 80:20 rule still applies, but in this ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Why am I not getting tinder matches?You obviously work out and have a body better than the majority of people so well done there (this isn't hard) - but you have some serious muscle imbalances. You need to focus on your: i) Shoulders ii) Lats iii) Presumably back iv) Legs I'm almost certain you spend all the time just working out your abs, arms and pecs. It looks pretty weird. Shirtless pictures work only when you have a well proportioned body. Oh and you have rounded shoulders. Sort that out before you get an injury. Posture show… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 10:59 AM |
| 5 | Is there any scenario where you would take back your wife who had an affair while long distance? Need some adviceEvery single time you think about staying with her - just imagine how much pleasure she was having when she was fucking that other guy. How she got wet just thinking about him, how many times she came - that orgasm face of hers you thought was exclusively yours for the rest of your life, how much pleasure that other guy was having railing your wife. How he got to see her in an intimate fashion, how he got to play with her tits, how he got to taste her and how much fun she was having as he came i… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:37 PM |
| 7 | Fathers take to Whisper after finding out their child isn't theirspreemptively maximize the shame and guilt she feels and leverage this to the max. Women feel guilt? The female hamster does everything it possibly can to absolve themselves of any responsibility or guilt. When it fails they become depressive wrecks - but its still rare. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Give me a list of things I can do to mitigate being an ugly bastard...Get good at game. Both external and inner (focus on getting inner game down first) I know plenty of conventionally ugly guys dating hot chicks. You definitely know some as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with me?Oh and I also recommend www.girlschase.com (go to read our articles at the bottom) http://www.girlschase.com/content/lower-your-standards-and-date-hotter-girls <- read this and this -> http://www.girlschase.com/content/sexual-dry-spells-negative-momentum-and-big-picture Good info there that will help you with game. Has a TRP flavour to the writing style. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with me?Yeh try it out. It did wonders for my confidence. There is nothing better than slamming a girl who submits to you and thinks you are some sort of god for just giving her attention. Once you have that duck out the way - you'll build up the inner game knowing you can get 6's. So next time you know that you could game a 6.5 if you fix a few flaws... and so on. The journey is the best part. You just got out of a 7 year relationship, you're in the prime of you life AND you are aware of TRP. Go forth … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 12:38 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with me?Everyone has a dry spell once in a while. Don't sweat it. You need to break your cycle. Set your standards lower, if you are what you say you are then there will be lower SMV women interested in you. Heck even in my worst dry spell 3 years ago I had 5/6's hitting on me regularly. I was aiming for the 7's and 8's but they can smell a guy who isn't getting any. Bang a girl you wouldn't normally go for but you wouldn't feel ashamed of sticking your dick in. Break the duck and take it step by step. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I owe a lot of my entrepreneurial prowess to TRP. I made over £100,000 last year by importing from distributors which I met at the world's largest trade fair in China last year and have put together a practical step by step guide of how you can do the same.It's the same in the UK and the US. By subsidising receiving mail from China a few things happen: i) Domestic US/UK posting prices go up to accommodate losses made from delivering Chinese goods at costs cheaper than it costs you to ship to your neighbours. To elaborate it costs me more money to ship a parcel from a UK to UK address than it does to ship from China to UK. ii) Raises the costs of outbound shipments (as the above is subsidised). Beyond that it can be used for fraud. It is well known… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/16 09:19 PM |
| 6 | I owe a lot of my entrepreneurial prowess to TRP. I made over £100,000 last year by importing from distributors which I met at the world's largest trade fair in China last year and have put together a practical step by step guide of how you can do the same.I'd be increasingly careful with importing generic items from China for online retail. Fulfilment options are becoming far easier and cheaper for Chinese manufacturers to sell items directly in Europe / US on Amazon, Ebay etc thus cutting you out as the middleman. Coupled with the fact that fraud / under invoicing are quite common with Chinese businesses (and European / US governments do little to stop them) you will find it increasingly harder to compete with them. You're in the UK so you will … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/16 12:13 PM |
| 5 | I think she shit tested me and I failed...I would have said "bend over and pick it up bitch"... with a shit grin In one line you convey (flirtation) bend over, pick it up (dominating), bitch (humour) and the grin (playful). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 09:44 PM |
| 3 | "The Red Pill" documentary banned in AustraliaI'm in two minds about the name of this movie. The movie will confuse a lot of people legitimately looking for TRP. Would have preferred if she used another name. However the free publicity might just save a few men who wander over to this sub.... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 12:04 PM |
| 2 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Great post. This is what I come to TRP to read. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 11:37 PM |
| 13 | They are starting to see it too: 30 Is the New 50: "Old Age" is Killing My Dating Life (Most of my 30-something guy friends are dating girls fresh out of college)mind is not developed. Their minds never fully develop. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Don't just demand honor, COMMAND itI'm not American (UK) but I suppose the same applies here as it does there. I pay the state and the state pays you. I don't value your work beyond that of any other civil servant. The only difference is that much (not necessarily all) of your work causes indirect long term harm to the nation. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Don't just demand honor, COMMAND itSiting my reason for enlisting was to safeguard the freedoms this nation was built upon. Freedoms that many, if not the majority of America's citizens take for granted. I also add that following 9/11 when I was deployed for combat, what resonated in my mind was seeing tower 1 and 2 in MY CITY (native New Yorker here) crumble through the act of zealous cowards, and how I wanted vengeance for the lives lost that day. His tale swiftly tucks under his legs and he scurries off. This entire paragraph … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Injuries At The Gym: How To Push Through Adversity.I have had a lot of shoulder issues (mainly infraspinatus and terres minor tendons of the Rotator Cuff). I've been seeing one of the top sports (upper limb) surgeons in central London (so presumably amongst the better surgeons in the world) and been picking his brain on the best way to manage tendinitis and -osis type injuries. Surgeons still have a poor understanding of -itis and -osis injuries and have gone through various preferred rehab methods. It used to be ice and rest and wait. Then for … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/16 04:09 PM |
| 3 | There and back again - Trigger warning!Great post - a very interesting read. I was hoping you would write this up after you mentioned it earlier. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 08:03 PM |
| 83 | AWALT - a short confirmation....and you're still going to move in with her after these revelations? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Taking Finasteride 5mg pill (short questions)In short Finasteride 5mg is a generic "replacement" for Finesteride 1mg (Propecia). Finesteride 1mg is supposed to be taken daily - the 5mg is a way of getting around the Merck patent as the 1mg is v costly per tablet while the 5mg tablet costs almost nothing. Cut it into 4, trust your doctor. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 01:46 PM |
| 18 | The Swedish government just proposed a 40 percent quota for women in publicly listed companiesThe title says publicly listed - which would mean private corporations that are publicly listed on the exchange. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 01:35 PM |
| 20 | Pump and dump rule #1: Always send text after.It could get worse. The accused could commit suicide and then a year later his mum too. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/07/29/mother-of-son-who-hanged-himself--after-being-falsely-accused-of/ | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Kind reminder: don't friendzone yourselfAgreed - it is the exception and a terrible strategy as well. However, it is not impossible and happens reasonably often enough on the AF side of AF/BB that it isn't something extremely rare. I see it happen with BB and post wall women a lot more but that is a blue pilled strategy that isn't relevant here anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 11:05 PM |
| 8 | Kind reminder: don't friendzone yourselfThis is not true and people need to stop saying it. I have seen plenty of situations where two people were friends and they are now dating. Perfect example being two of my close friends. They lived together for a year - she even thought he might be gay, was not attracted to him. Then one night they got drunk and hooked up and now they're dating. He is pretty Alpha and shes still incredibly attracted to him 8 months into dating. Basically if you are just friends the chances of you getting with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Women reek of desperation. They want to be our equal, but only when it's beneficial.Almost everything "theory" wise that is posted these days is a rehash of old theory. There is nothing wrong with this and through new posts, new discussion and commentary comes about. OP I appreciated the post. Ty | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 12:08 PM |
| 1 | [X-post] "I had voiced lots of concern due to the fact that I'm having to buy her groceries and support her since she can't even afford to live in the new city, that's how expensive it is."Thanks for letting me know. Would be grateful if you could pm me the contents of the message (leave out the name of the sender). I have a friend in a somewhat similar situation and want to know how best to go about explaining it to him. It clearly worked with you! Good luck on your new journey | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | [X-post] "I had voiced lots of concern due to the fact that I'm having to buy her groceries and support her since she can't even afford to live in the new city, that's how expensive it is."Could you tell us how you found this place? Did someone from TRP contact you in pm - what did they say to convince you? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/16 11:20 AM |
| 2 | It is lonely at the top. If you become better, you also make it harder for yourself to find a worthy partner.Good article on attainability issues http://www.girlschase.com/content/attainability-woes-or-why-girls-who-you-reject-you | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Now is the greatest time to be alive as a manIt's funny that we've had this discussion as I just read this: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-36202622 Basically they've found a way to increase the time an embryo can say outside the womb - which in theory will allow scientists to understand (and presumably in the future) filter out negative hereditary traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Now is the greatest time to be alive as a man(See my edit above) Even if the technology was available to recreate vagina environment and/or make a petri dish that could choose the "fittest" sperm through a race - I don't think this would be a logical step forward. If the desire is to pick the strongest (or amongst the strongest) sperm to fertilise the egg, then it would make more sense (and be far easier) to concentrate on eliminating poor sperm choices (and eventually being able to select the best out of millions) as opposed to recreating… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Now is the greatest time to be alive as a manSome day - just (unfortunately) not at present. I suspect it will be more likely that they will invent scanners to filter the sperm and/or the fertilized embryo and then let the parent choose the best fit. Basically a Gattaca type situation (legality and SJW world permitting) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Now is the greatest time to be alive as a manThe vagina is a v. harsh environment for most sperm. The majority die on the way (we're talking about millions upon millions here). Then of those that survive, hundreds of sperm team together to help the one sperm penetrate the inner membrane of the egg. It would be hard to replicate that environment in a petri dish. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Now is the greatest time to be alive as a manEncouraging. The only problem with storing away sperm is that they are starting to believe IVF children have more issues later in life due to the fact that the sperm chosen in IVF is usually done randomly, whereas through a natural process only the strongest survive IVF has not been around long enough to rule out problems emerging later in life – the first person born by IVF, Louise Brown, is not yet 40. IVF children do have slightly lower birthweights – a predictor of later health issues – and … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 09:49 AM |
| 0 | Sexual attraction and relationship attractionNone. He isn't considered good looking - pretty average by all means. Skinnier side - he plays a lot of tennis and squash so he is quite lean - has v little fat but not big by any means. Probably something like this: http://i.imgur.com/P7WGk.jpg - with clothes on he looks quite skinny. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/16 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Sexual attraction and relationship attractionI have a friend who is 5'7, athletic build (not muscular) - possibly on the skinnier side of athletic. Average to good looking. He is financially successful and extremely intelligent. He is dominant in almost every social circle I've seen him in, he has a reputation for being a player and gets with random women regularly (7's+). He never offers up beta resources to women (and rarely displays them). How does this play into the Alpha role? For all intents and purposes he is an alpha (and the women… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | RP truths about Solipsism abound interacting with grannyV interesting read. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Why I'm Skeptical About LTRs And Why Most Of You Disdain marriage.Ha no worries man. I pay little attention to upvotes / downvotes - has always seemed to be some sort of popularity contest. I'm here to share - take or leave it sort of attitude. But yes it's a great website - the writers aren't red pilled but a lot of their gaming logic spills over in that sort of manner. I find they do a great job of trying to explain the complexities of the whole process - focussing a lot on the "why" rather only the "do this". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 09:47 AM |
| -4 | The Reason Why I'm Skeptical About LTRs And Why Most Of You Disdain marriage.Girlschase.com is a fantastic resource for gaming - imo the best one out there by a long shot. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 01:11 PM |
| 3 | [Rant/Venting] Male Height DiscriminationEvery time I read a post about height I think about RSD Tyler. Here is a guy who is 5'9 and a self proclaimed balding ginger. He slays more good looking women than 99.9% of men. Some of the other RSD guys are even shorter (Max and Todd are around 5' 7/8) Height matters - but game can be learned. If he can do it there is nothing stopping you. RSD Tyler teaches everything that took him 10+ years to learn for basically free. Learn game -> slay pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | AMA-- Criminal Defense lawyer with over 10 years of experienceIt would be interesting to know your thoughts on the Steven Avery matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | BADASS Marine saves a brother from murder - media still on women's sideHiroshima, Nagasaki, numerous instances of support of deemed "terrorist" groups in other nations for the purpose of selling arms or political means. Multiple documented covert assassinations of other nations civilians / politicians for political means. I also consider that the flagrant disregard for life when considering collateral damage to be a form of terrorism. I do not think the US necessarily / deliberately targets civilians when operating in modern warfare (although it probably does from … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 10:06 AM |
| -1 | BADASS Marine saves a brother from murder - media still on women's sideYou are probably Muslim or a Cuck then. Muslim extremists are bad guys, there is no sugar coating it. Neither I'm an atheist (or probably closer to agnostic as I simply don't care to try to comprehend). Muslim extremists are bad guys but then again so are significant elements of the US government. Americans didn't kill those civilians, most of those civilian deaths were caused by muslim terrorists. You didn't read the link I posted. Go and read it - it'll take you 1 minute to deduce that you're … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 02:32 AM |
| 4 | BADASS Marine saves a brother from murder - media still on women's sideYou do realize that the terrorist groups that were responsible for attacks against the west were in that country right? I don't like the terms "terrorist" tbh. It kinda gets thrown around as if the west are the good guys, dem arabs the bad guys. terrorist: "a person who uses terrorism in the pursuit of political aims." Sounds much like what the US does regularly. Anyway I digress.. Of course I realise we live in a global society. I also accept nations do some pretty unscrupulous things and with … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 12:07 AM |
| 6 | BADASS Marine saves a brother from murder - media still on women's sideCompletely questionable. The west shouldn't be meddling in other nations affairs - especially while pretending it is for "defensive" means. Also bear in mind that these fundamentalist groups have been created out of western meddling in the Middle East + Israel. ISIS being the latest example. A lot of civilians died in Afghanistan (close to 100,000 people since 01) - and with questionable outcomes that were favourable to the west. In my eyes a soldiers life is not worth more than a civilians. Thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 11:46 PM |
| 12 | BADASS Marine saves a brother from murder - media still on women's sideThis guy is hardly a hero. Pissing on a corpse is disgusting behaviour. It's bad enough that he was fighting in a questionable war on behalf of a nation as an aggressor and worse that by pissing on a corpse he is tarnishing the name of good soldiers. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [22m] uncomfortable with [20f] gf's past.You are bothered because as a man you are hard-wired (from caveman times) to be repulsed by women who are sluts. Back then sleeping around was risky for a woman because if she got pregnant from a man who couldn't provider for her, she and her offspring were fucked. As a man you are hard wired to avoid these women because you run the risk of raising a child that isn't yours (DNA tests weren't available then). Now in the modern day contraception exists and multiple partners are the norm your cavem… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 12:15 AM |
| 37 | The Attraction Hierarchies of Female HypergamyWhy are you flirting with your cousin? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 02:57 AM |
| 7 | She made a rape claim even though they crossed paths for a split secondA few weeks before this another false rape story - ruined some poor guys life because the stupid cunt couldn't deal with being a whore - cheating on her boyfriend with Chad. Does she get her name slandered or will she face criminal charges for lying? You know the answer to that... http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/12095449/Durham-University-student-accused-of-rape-cleared-of-all-charges.html | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 01:47 PM |
| 1 | On Dealing with DeathAs someone who lost a parent at a young adult age - I can only advise that you let yourself grieve when the time comes. It is important you learn how to manage your emotions (emotions aren't a bad thing you just need to learn to channel them correctly). Think of grieving in a way that is similar to the process you went through when you took the pill. Anger, denial, bargaining, depression etc. The stages are similar and the outcome is always the same - acceptance. You will emerge a much stronger … | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Great post. As an Indian 5'10 above average looks in London - I can share my observations (which specifically apply to Indians / Eastern Asians). Don't forget that where you have lost in the genetic SMV lottery (i.e shorter, less appealing to white girls etc.) you have won in many other areas. Indians and East Asians (in the west) tend to be better educated and out earn their white counterparts. At my age most of my Indian/Asian friends (early 30's) are richer than my white acquaintances (and th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 02:56 PM |
| 1 | PUA vs TRPAll the dumb approaches these guys encourage make me fucking laugh. Nothing wrong with approaches. Even after digesting TRP it's never easy to "approach" women unless you have experience. Few people are capable of going from no gym to suddenly benching 200lbs. You won't feel confident benching 200lbs the first time you lift because it's a lot of weight for a beginner. One needs to learn, grow and improve their techniques gradually and through that comes confidence. Approaching is the same learni… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 12:49 AM |
| 3 | PUA vs TRPI partially disagree. I agree with you that PUA alone is not enough, however I also believe both complement each other. PUA spends more time teaching you how to pick up. You have to find the right PUA guides though, my preference is http://www.girlchase.com - fully recommend if you haven't come across. The writers spend time analysing the reasons behind why pick up techniques work the way they work, and how you can use them to your advantage. I prefer anything that shows a deeper understanding a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I've decided to overcome my lack of heightMy brother is a 5'6 Indian (therefore lower perceived SMV than his white peers) guy who is currently LTR with hb 7/8 white chick. He's dated a multitude of good looking women - is extremely popular (probably the most popular person I know), extremely alpha, intelligent and makes a ton of money. Women gravitate towards him and he doesn't give a shit about his height. He has made the most of what he has. Yes it would be better if you were 6'2, but you can't do anything about that and what you coul… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 11:37 AM |
| 46 | Indian girl marries a beta Indian guy after riding the cock carousel, divorces him three years later. Repeat after me: AWALT.I can confirm this as an Indian guy in the UK. Indians in the UK are generally more well off, better educated and more successful than white guys (especially in London) due to a beta upbringing emphasising hard work without play and Indian girls know this. The Indian girls will always bang on about how uncultured and poor white people are but are secretly getting white dick on the side before settling down with a safe beta Indian who they are not really attracted to as a provider. The only thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:06 PM |
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