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gloopgloop22/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 06:38 AM
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It's a pretty interesting article that gives a fresh take on sexuality. If you ignore the ontological themes, you'll see that it's a guide to emotional navigation. There is an idea that you can choose your thoughts, beliefs, and feelings and deliberately create a more pleasant life. It's a window into non-attachment teachings, which is always exciting. I liked it. Fresh take. Think about it this way. Would you rather be jealous or would you rather feel good? Would you rather be mad or would you …
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 05:21 AM
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The prompt in the text box says "What are your thoughts?" I posted a link hoping others would read it and reply with their unique perspective on the topic. Much like the experienced physician who refuses to read the chart before meeting the patient, I deliberately chose not to soil the reader's opinion with mine, as I specifically wanted to hear other opinions on the article. If you're uninterested in reading it, please navigate your browser to any other page of your choosing.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 05:17 AM
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It's blank; did you delete it?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 10:27 AM
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THIS. My ex was addicted to gaming; it was one of his many shitty behaviors that ended our relationship. If he's not willing to get help, you'll have to decide if you're willing to live like that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 09:57 AM
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Video games are idiotic and incel. They're used to express a drive (action/success drive) in a way that's easy and doesn't require the player to actually improve their life or do anything worth... doing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 09:54 AM
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Exactly what I was going to suggest. DBT and Internal Systems Family and Neurolinguistic Programming may also be helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 09:49 AM
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The first step to overcoming mental illness is realizing that these things aren't just "happening" to you, and to take active steps every single day to resolve it. Bipolar I and schizophrenia/psychosis are not terminal illnesses- many people recover completely. I strongly suggest you ditch the victim attitude and start changing your life, or nothing will change (in fact, it will only get worse).
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/17 04:05 PM
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Yeah well that's just, like, your opinion man ((The_Dude.jpg))
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 05:28 PM
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c r i n g e
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 05:27 PM
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Just because you disagree doesn't make you the authority on who belongs where. If this board were entirely people agreeing with each other that'd be very, very boring.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:36 PM
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Your dissenting opinion doesn't make my comment off topic. Sorry you disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:04 PM
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Completely agree. 'The lies we tell ourselves'... lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 01:10 PM
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It's generally frowned upon to botch quotes without at least indicating with ellipses that you've removed information. What I said was, verbatim, "If you are truly at ease with yourself and empowered, you'll never feel the need to dominate or submit to another human socially/romantically." The reason it matters is because this has a different meaning. By 'at ease with yourself' I (readily inferably) mean 'secure' as opposed to 'insecure'. I don't think you understand how that fallacy works, plea…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 01:07 PM
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Lily sounds young and misguided. She's not the poster child for every woman who has premarital sex, nor should she be. It's a poor, derogatory example- you're using a mentally ill young woman to deride any female who hooks up with men they find attractive. I used to be 'Redpilled'- interested in submission and a 'dominant' boyfriend (read: man suppressing deepset insecurities by becoming a narcissist). When I realized that I was submissive because I wanted to be led, and subsequently learned how…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 05:16 AM
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High empathy Not big on a career or prestige, happy with a simple life. If it’s between the two, will always willingly give my career priority over his and genuinely not care. Not a manipulator. No ‘sigmas’, NLP users, or psychology hobbiests. I play those games at work, I'm not interested in continuing them at home. I want a tree, not the wind. I challenge myself enough as it is. I need someone I can trust implicitly- not to be faithful, that’s assumed, but trust to do everything rationally and…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 05:04 AM
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MetalDevils's advice is solid, however, if your resolve is anything less than steel (and if you're posting asking about this it's more like graphite), engaging them can just encourage the behavior more. Put your foot down.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:41 AM
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It's not complicated, you say no. Period. Didn't even read your post. Just tell them to fuck off.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:38 AM
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Lol. You sound like a real catch. OP's boyfriend is an idiot, she doesn't respect him because he's a moron who's paralyzed because he's terrified of failure.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:37 AM
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Sounds like his personality isn't suited for you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:35 AM
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Then dump him. Relationships are built up on a foundation two things- mutual trust and respect. If the foundation isn't solid the house will crumble. You're not going to get that respect for him, ever. It will not materialize. You don't respect him because he's not meeting your emotional needs. He's being a shortsighted, overemotional, illogical child and keeping the job to fuel his ego and his deep fear of failure. This guy's an emotional wreck, no wonder you don't respect him. Do yourself a fa…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:34 AM
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They don't fight because of an age difference. This kind of issue is purely an inability to resolve or deescalate conflict- it's not age specific. There are plenty of successful marriages with huge age differences. Just look at Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver- they're having a blast.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:29 AM
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That's really gross. I found out two years down the line that my ex had kept talking to another girl for the first couple weeks after we became 'official' (HE asked ME), and I was so hurt. I don't see how you could construe that as anything other than cheating, that's disgusting behavior. The lying makes it even worse. I'd leave this loser.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 07:46 PM
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I don't think you know what that word means, nor is it rare.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 05:13 PM
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How odd- I've never seen anyone do that. Usually capitalization is adequate, but you must respect god a great deal. I am referring to the fact that when you respect someone, it means you admire or revere them, as opposed to looking down upon. That means that admiration/reverence/respect are [positive] and looking down upon/admonishing/disrespect are the [negative] counterpart. Respect is therefore a [positive] emotion. Nowhere in my post did I say or imply that you meant 'bad or wrong'. Yes, all…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 04:54 PM
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This is called alexithymia.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 02:34 PM
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If you don't enjoy being around her then the best thing you can do is be straightforward. Phasing her out is an indirect tactic for spineless people. I'd much rather hear 'hey we don't have that much in common and I don't want to hang out again' than labor under the delusion that we're still friends for weeks. Your social life isn't a charity. You can't just have pity friends because you feel like you "should", that's a disservice to everyone involved. Send her a direct email or text explaining …
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 02:03 PM
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Respect is a reverence, appreciation, admiration, or a deference to someone else. It means you hold them in esteem. I don’t know how you could construe that as a negative emotion when it negates nothing and builds upon something. Just because ‘respect is earned’ is a phrase that people like to repeat doesn’t make it true. I personally respect all life- all plants and animals and people, even those who’ve committed atrocities. I strongly disagree with the tertiary model of respect, and have had t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 01:50 PM
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Consider for a moment, the importance of a person's intentions in determining if they acted morally or not. There's an idea that some actions that are never okay, no matter what. For example, many people believe that killing another human being is always wrong under every circumstance, even if you’re attacked. If you're a pacifist, that seems reasonable, right? But now you’re faced with a choice. There are five people tied to one train track, and unless you pull the lever they will all die. Howe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 01:16 PM
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It's pretty absurd to think you'll be able to sniff out every cheater. Someone can genuinely love you and have no qualms about cheating. It's rarely so cut and dry.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/17 08:19 PM
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Edit: Thought that was a second person got the notification again.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/17 08:17 PM
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How strange. Assuming that it's a pretty short vacation (a month or less), and that I wasn't asking my husband pay for the trip, watch kids while gone, or take over any responsibilities besides feeding the cats, I'd be telling him about the trip rather than asking. If it required him to actually DO something that'd be way different. This isn't like buying a house or taking a new job though, it's a vacation. The reason I wouldn't ask is because something like going to Europe with friends is a rig…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/17 11:36 AM
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This. As much as your impulse is to stand by him no matter what, the fact is that this guy is a total nutter and some part of you recognizes that or you wouldn't be posting about it. He either got fired or quit a perfectly good job with no backup then proceeded to drive across the country like it was the wild west until you arrived at your parent's house and he's been mooching off them ever since.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 09:31 PM
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It's not preserving my paragraphs but I think it's clear who wrote what
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 09:28 PM
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Formatting screwed up, reposting. when you sign a lease with someone OP said the girlfriend owns the home and he'll just be paying rent to help with costs/mortgage, this has nothing to do with a lease. I would not recommend anyone sign any legal document with someone they met three months ago, that's insane. If you date with purpose and you know it's heading toward marriage, you can be more deliberate about getting to know each other While that's true, the distinction I was making is that when l…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 09:26 PM
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Glad someone else saw it. It's an attempt to reconcile old abusive relationships (usually with family)- you find someone just like the person who hurt you and seek their love in attempt to resolve old wounds.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 07:22 PM
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All that being said, why would my King put us at risk? He's a child and you've deluded yourself into thinking he's something he isn't. Love is blind.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 07:19 PM
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I'm 22/F as well OP, and to me moving in together isn't that big of a deal, and neither is going on vacation together. I've been on several vacations with a guy I'm just screwing; what better way to enjoy the beach than with someone you like/are having sex with? The reason moving in isn't that weird to me is because when you have a full time job it can be hard to spend as much time as you really want to with your s/o, and they end up with a toothbrush and a drawer at your house anyway. Cohabitat…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 07:11 PM
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I had my ex-boyfriend's phone password when we were living together. I didn't use it unless I needed it, until one night. I was about to enter my credit card details to buy him a ring, yes that kind of ring, when I had this gut wrenching feeling that he'd cheated. I couldn't explain it because every time I'd thought of the possibility of him cheating it seemed so absurd I never worried about it. I didn't think he was even capable of being disloyal. Until then I'd trusted him implicitly, and yet …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 07:04 AM
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I'm not talking to OP, I'm talking to YOU, the user who's comment I've directly replied to. You've equated the need for a parent's attention and love with something only 'whining spoiled brats and momma's boys' need, and I refuted that idea based on my extensive knowledge of sociology and psychiatry. You're not able to understand the comments so please practice learning English somewhere else.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 08:30 PM
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Ah okay that makes sense
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 08:28 AM
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Children need attention and love from their parents, period. It is a psychological need, not a luxury, not pampering, a NEED. Without it you end up with a slew of psychological problems in adulthood. I don't think your situation is comparable; that's a couple hours at home alone in the evening at age ten- perfectly reasonable age to look after yourself for an afternoon. I don't think anyone is talking about that kind of scenario.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 09:28 AM
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You've just been exposed to certain stories/people/media that doesn't provide a complete world view; this is really common. If everyone around you wears sombreros your whole life and you're not exposed to other kinds of hats, you may think sombreros are the most popular hat in the world. Factually, the lack of mother's attention has profound psychological effects on both genders- the usually grow up to be insecure adults with attachment disorders.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 09:20 AM
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There are a number of reasons why he wouldn't want to say he likes traditional roles: 1) Saying you like traditional roles is expressing a preference for one or the other. If he expresses a preference he may think you'll feel obligated to be a housewife. I'm sure he associates it with equality/personal liberty and doesn't want you to feel you have to do either to please him. 2) Him telling you to quit was either an altruistic response to you being stressed out from work, or the result of annoyan…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 09:14 AM
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Your husband sounds like an entitled jackass. No amount of reframing or positive thinking on your part is going to change that. I don't think you're the same person you were when you married him, and it sounds like you've learned to stand on your own feet and don't need someone to tell you what to do constantly. Might be time to consider divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 11:58 PM
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