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Finally, some slap discourse actually worth listening to! It’s been so exhausting seeing people discuss this topic to death online, under the assumption that everyone already knows the ins and outs of Will and Jada’s relationship. Like Savannah, everything I’ve learnt about them has been against my will and I wasn’t keen on following the news about their “entanglements” a couple years ago. For that reason, I found the backstory Reaux provided to be incredibly helpful. It provided some much-neede…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:58 AM
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I wouldn’t consider that high value by my standards. I know that one’s experiences on these drugs can be enlightening and interesting, but I’m not interested in a man who needs to take a substance for introspection, to seek deeper knowledge or to improve his life in any way. I’d prefer someone who is into yoga, meditation and spirituality rather than psychedelics. I’d also question what lifestyle/mindset he has for him to be interested in these drugs in the first place. What’s going on with you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:12 PM
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The same thing happened to me some years ago. It was a dude I unfortunately dated for a short time when I was around 16 at school. We still talked to each other by the time I went to uni, but he started to change and the language he used to talk about women was becoming increasingly disturbing. He judged me for doing pole lessons at uni and said that it’s worse when men get SA and that it was somewhat “justified” when it happens to women. I think I was witnessing him becoming an incel and it’s t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:42 AM
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Do you need an Android to do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:39 PM
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These were my thoughts too. Dirty talk doesn’t have to mean degrading me, talking about having ownership over my body parts, demanding I do certain acts, or calling him “daddy” 🤢 I like dirty talk that is more intimate and involves talking about how much you’re enjoying the sex, complimenting each other, expressing your love, commenting on how your partner’s body feels, etc. I really love that stuff, I see it as romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:59 PM
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Exactly. It’s not our damn problem. Women are always taking on an extreme amount of emotional baggage from the men in their lives, even when those men are reluctant to open up and receive help. I don’t know any woman who hasn’t had to deal with this in a relationship. My ex boyfriend had 3 close friends who he met up with at least once a week. They would always catch up (and play video games together 🙄). Meanwhile, I was still the one who always dealt with him at his most emotional and vulnerabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:39 PM
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I would ask if we dated the same man but unfortunately, this seems to be more common than I first thought. I went through the exact same thing earlier this year/last year. I was baffled that I was even having to explain it to him on the first place. He said that he’s also in danger as he could be mugged or attacked so it’s not a female issue 🙄 I said sure, but I also have the threat of sexual violence, unwanted male attention, being stalked, harassed, etc. I’m still so shocked by how ignorant he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:55 PM
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I think he’s just annoyed that his wife has to go through all that shit as a woman. He seemed quite taken aback by some of the questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:49 PM
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🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:48 AM
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Now THIS is sexual liberation ladies. None of that sex positive BS about being sexually available for men who have absolutely no interest in your pleasure. Putting your pleasure first is the bare minimum and anything less is unacceptable. This is a great way to close the orgasm gap and ensure that it’s actually worth even having sex in the first place. My last relationship didn’t work out for many reasons, but sexually, it was wonderful and set a very high standard for me in the bedroom. Althoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:43 AM
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If things are going well, you can just swallow fast and don’t even taste it. As someone who is physically unable to take shots of alcoholic beverages, I don’t think I’d be able to do this lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:10 AM
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Sorry what? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:59 AM
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Exactly. Fuck his “dignity” too. If he had any, he wouldn’t be sitting at home on his lazy ass watching the dozen streaming services his wife pays for. He’d be out there trying to find work no matter what it is, because he’d want to be a responsible man and take care of his family, not become a waste of space who does fuck all for them. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:50 AM
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Yeah like if it was a miscommunication, why did he block her number???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:16 AM
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I don’t even leave a couple grains of rice on the plate so this bothers me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 10:56 AM
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God, I can’t stand picky-eaters. I don’t even think I could be friends with someone who is an unadventurous eater. I know some people are fussy about textures and such but it’s a huge deal breaker for me. I love and appreciate food too much to be with someone who has an aversion towards certain types of food. It’s also a red flag to me if someone doesn’t like to eat meat off the bone lmao…childish 🤣 I do have some cuisines that I’m indifferent about that I never choose to eat, but I’d never comp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 10:49 AM
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The people that picked up their phone to record and take pictures could’ve easily called 911 though. If they didn’t physically intervene, they could’ve called for help at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:56 PM
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So he’s gonna resent his two innocent children as well as his wife? That’s fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:03 PM
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Why are they all accusing him of shaming the woman? He literally sat down with her and listened to her talk about her situation, analysed the behaviour he’s seen from his step-son and came to the conclusion that she could and should be doing better for herself and her child. These people really want women to suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:11 PM
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Michaela in HTGAWM. I’m still only on season 4 right now (so no spoilers please!) but I love the way she puts herself and her career first. She doesn’t take shit from anyone and will make them work hard to gain her respect. I love how she isn’t afraid to stand up to people, especially men. She’s so powerful. She won’t let anything get in the way of what she wants and I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:06 AM
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I don’t enjoy giving blowjobs unless I’m really attracted to the man and have an emotional connection with him. So unless I deeply care for him, feel 100% comfortable around him, enjoy seeing him experiencing pleasure and know it’ll be reciprocated, then I just won’t do it. It’s not just an “act” to me that I can enjoy regardless of who I’m with. If I’m not deeply attracted to the human behind the dick then I won’t be able to enthusiastically give him a blowjob. Without the right man on the rece…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:16 AM
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Exactly. It’s not like you’re trying to call the police on a black person just walking their dog, waiting for a bus or otherwise just minding their business. If a black man is confronting and attacking you, you have every right to call the police make others around you aware of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:55 AM
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Me too. I gravitated towards demisexuality for years because I couldn’t relate to hook up culture and didn’t feel like I wanted to have sex with people on sight. One of the reasons why I think so many of us have identified as demisexual is because of the misunderstanding what sexual attraction actually is. It isn’t just about wanting to rip someone’s clothes off and thinking they’re hot. It’s a bit more complex than that. Not feeling physically attracted to someone when you first meet them isn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:33 PM
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This is actually what made me never use tinder again a few years ago. I’ve used other dating apps, but none were anywhere near as bad as tinder. I always had the worst/weirdest messages on there from white men fetishising me. I have a tonne of screenshots on my old phone it was that bad 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:01 AM
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I’m not surprised by the fetishisation as it’s something I’m aware of and have experienced myself…but how can he just have a whole ass bag full of sex toys on a date?!!! I’ve had some questionable things said to me on dates before but my jaw would’ve been on the floor if I experienced this. It’s so nasty and unhygienic too, the fact that he would expect a woman to use sex toys from a stranger like that. I don’t think I’d have been able to say anything after they dropped on the floor. I’d have ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:09 AM
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But I’ll gladly let my husband or other men do the heavy lifting because those are real, tangible physical differences. Men’s bodies are bigger, have bigger hearts and lungs, more blood flow, much stronger muscles. This is a scientific. FACT. Exactly!! For that reason, it absolutely disgusts me when men don’t offer to help women with heavy lifting. I had a retail job in a supermarket a few years ago and was expected to do the same work as male colleagues. There’d often be large crates of produce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:01 AM
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When he grabbed the phone with two hands to swipe faster lmaoooo 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:44 AM
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Noooo not “walking around a mall” as a date lmao. That is literally what I did on my first failed date when I was 12. We barely spoke to each other and it was very awkward. Ended up going to the Apple store to play with various things just to pass the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:35 AM
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Username checks out lmao. Lizzo said “Truth Hurts” and it really does. I hope the woman realises she deserves better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:45 AM
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Me too. I actually SEVERELY underestimated the importance of receiving gifts until I got into my last relationship. I always put so much effort into his gifts. I did a tonne of research, shopping around for things he would be interested in. I would wrap the presents neatly in cute wrapping paper. I added a gift tag with a sweet message (something my mum always did for me on my birthday & Christmas presents growing up). The gifts I got from him were nothing like that and I was severely disappoint…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:27 AM
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I did this at university with a guy I kissed at a party. I kept initiating contact and opportunities to talk to him. We even kissed again after going to a concert together, so I kept wondering why he wouldn’t ask me out on a date already. I thought, “fuck it, I guess I’ll have to just ask him myself” so I did. He agreed to it, but on the day, I barely heard from him. About half an hour before we were meant to meet, he messaged and said he couldn’t make it. I said, “why not?” And he just said “I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:52 PM
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They’re always very well-groomed too! I don’t know any black man that enjoys being seen without a fresh trim 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:45 PM
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Nothing says “I didn’t make an effort” like a man in a graphic tee 😂 along with creased jeans and crusty, beat-up sneakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:41 PM
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Exactly. I’m tired of people saying “to each their own!” no matter how fucked up shit is. Shame is what maintains social cohesion in society. If someone isn’t shamed for something that negatively affects their community or those around them (especially women), why would they stop doing it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:57 AM
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They might as well join bumble BFF and just fraternise with each other instead lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:25 PM
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Are you me? Because same lol 😞 I do think my surname suits my first name as the syllables are the same so it’s phonetically pleasing…but I’m not proud of the surname because of the association with that side of the family. I would probably consider changing my surname for marriage if I like the sound of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:03 PM
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Men should be using condoms whether you’re on the pill or not (STIs still exist!). I’m on the pill for the sake of my own health and well-being, not for the convenience of any man. Whether I’m single or in a relationship, I’m on the pill so that I don’t have to deal with harrowing period pain and can better manage my cycle. In Japan, condoms are actually preferred by nearly 80% of married women and only 2.2% of women are even on the pill. For those that are, it is usually for the treatment of me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:29 PM
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I’m glad to see this post! Even back in my Lib fem days, I was never able to get on board with polyamory. No matter how many times I saw people justifying it, claiming that they are able to have these harmonious relationships with multiple, I just didn’t buy it. I don’t think it’s crazy to believe that if one is putting in the effort to maintain a stable, happy and healthy relationship, you shouldn’t need anyone else. The idea of being able to “split” your love and distribute your feelings equal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:06 AM
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That’s amazing! I love the sentiment of “If you’re breathing you can do it”. You’re absolutely right. I’m 24 and have to keep convincing myself that even though I feel behind my peers, it doesn’t mean it’s too late for me. I have to remain confident and remind myself that I’m making the right decisions to better my future. I’ll be thankful for my choices in a few years, even if it feels like I’m “behind” now. It’s all about being patient and focusing on my own journey, not comparing myself to ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:05 AM
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The article has actually been changed numerous times since it was posted. First, it said, “man gets 4 years of jail time for choking a woman during sex”, then, after women online pointed out how misleading the title is, it was changed to, “Darlington man jailed for four years for killing woman during sex” which fully describes the reality of the situation. Finally, I noticed today that they changed the image on the article. They previously used the killer’s mugshot in which he was crying, but it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:27 PM
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That’s the perfect response 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:14 PM
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It says he’s 66 in the top left corner 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:48 AM
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This is so childish and impractical…too many women accept this 50/50 shit when dating and don’t realise how much they’ll end up suffering because of it. I really hate how men have hijacked what we think of as “equality”. It is not fair or just to have partners taking things in turns like the relationship is some sort of game. It’s completely unrealistic. Women and men are not the same and splitting everything down the middle will not make it so. Not everything that’s fair will be necessarily be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:18 AM
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Wow…that scrote was probably the worst we’ve ever had roasted on the podcast so far. I kept thinking it couldn’t get any worse but then the story kept going. On top of him being an abusive golddigging creep, the man was a whole ass pedophile too. I can’t believe he felt so comfortable openly telling her about his desire to sexually abuse young girls 🤢 The man needs to be castrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:15 AM
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I find it so strange when men talk about “sexual compatibility” and the need to discover it early on. These type of men usually have a long list of kinks and things they want the woman to do in the bedroom. Meanwhile, if you ask them about what they’re looking for in a relationship they’re dead silent. What they’re saying is that as long as they’re having sex, they’re happy. They don’t care about your values, goals, interests and how compatible they are with his. They don’t care about whether yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:29 PM
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I seriously hate this. Women will have a gut feeling something isn’t right and people will convince her she’s being irrational and overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:41 AM
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I’ve found that these type of men tell on themselves pretty quickly. They sure do! Any man I’ve met who fetishised me didn’t last very long. They either made it blatantly obvious before meeting (if we matched on OLD), or made certain comments/asked weird questions on the first or second date which gave them away. In my experience, they really struggle to hide it, which is convenient for me because I can cut them off quicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:17 PM
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The way he just continues with the lyrics afterwards like he just didn’t send one huge paragraph begging for sex 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:09 AM
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That’s interesting, I’ve never heard of this “incognito” feature on any app. I was just about to criticise it, but actually, it could be useful for women on dating apps as you won’t receive an abundance of likes/messages from men you’re not attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:19 PM
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This is a great strategy period, not just for dating but life in general. I’m quite selective with what I upload and who has access to me online so I don’t have much social media. I still have fb to stay connected with relatives but the account is pretty much dormant and no one can add me on it. I deleted Instagram a few months ago though. Had way too many people on there who I didn’t care about who were just following me to be nosy. I’m much happier without sharing my whole life on social media…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:15 PM
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A part of me dies every time I read these posts by women describing horrifying behaviour from their boyfriend/husband and it ends with “what should I do?” 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:50 AM
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Yeah there definitely needs to be more awareness. It’s absolutely disgusting. And it makes matters worse that women are being told that this is “fair” and “equal”. Women are so frequently accused of being “gold diggers” that men have somehow managed to convince women that even the bare minimum is being entitled and asking for too much. Therefore, guilt-tripping women into financial abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:05 AM
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I’m a bit confused by this response? I mean that the men who so casually suggest that prostitution should be legal will never be in a position to be a prostitute themselves. I’m not saying that men can’t be prostitutes, but women are in the majority and the industry thrives off our dehumanisation and objectification. Men do not care about this as they will never be affected by it. This is why there are so many “leftist” and liberal men who proudly proclaim to be pro-sex work. They are not the ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:50 AM
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Wow. So easy for them to so casually suggest prostitution knowing that it will never be an option for them and they will never be in that position. They clearly struggle to sympathise with the women who would actually have to subject themselves to that. They just view them as objects who are ready and willing to have sex with any man who pays. They don’t see them as actual prostituted women, who are only doing so as a means to survive or were trafficked into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:43 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story with us! I’m so happy for you, congratulations! 🥳 Even if faith isn’t a dealbreaker for all of us, it is still relatable in the sense that we all have things that are important to us and non-negotiable in a relationship. Whether it’s faith-based or not, it’s always inspiring to see women keeping their standards high and getting what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:07 PM
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I think the reason why a lot of women say that size doesn’t matter is because regardless of size, most men are still unable to satisfy us. So, if PIV doesn’t result in orgasms anyway, why would size matter? If it’s large, they lack the patience and so sex is painful. If it’s small, they don’t compensate by doing other things. And if it’s average, well, they still couldn’t give a fuck about your pleasure. Anyway, my ideal is on the larger size of average, but not too big. Size does matter to me, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:08 PM
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FDS in a nutshell 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:08 AM
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I used to have a male friend who would always pay for my food when we hung out. This was when I was at college (UK, 16-18) and I never had much money to socialise with friends. His family earned a lot and he always had access to money when he needed to, so paying for me was a no-brainer for him. I appreciated it at the time, but I didn’t internalise how good that behaviour was until a few years later when I started dating frequently and was expected to split the bill with men (most of whom tende…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:02 AM
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Wow, a whole paragraph just to say, “my man plays video games all day” 🤣 I gotta give it to her - The way she wrote it sounds all poetic and profound, but it’s still the same shit no matter how you dress it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:30 PM
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I rewatched just to hear her laugh again 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:10 PM
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I rewatched just to hear her laugh again 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:09 PM
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I rewatched just to hear her laugh again 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:09 PM
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I rewatched just to hear her laugh again 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:09 PM
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Now THIS is the kind of empowerment we need to get onto!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:58 PM
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I’m with you on that one sis. I’m selective with my energy as it is, so dedicating my time towards dating isn’t something I really want to do, especially during this current time in my life. I’m working my way towards improving my future and moving forward with my life, so dating is the last thing on my mind. We’re also still very much in the middle of a pandemic and I’m still hesitant about meeting new people, especially if I know they haven’t been anywhere near as careful as I have. This doesn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:56 PM
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I really thought this was something most people already did…or maybe I’ve just always done it bc I don’t go out a lot so want to make sure it’s not wasted time and effort 😂 I can’t recall a time where I’ve ever left the house to meet up with someone (friends OR a date) without messaging a few hours before and reconfirming the plans. If I don’t hear from them, I assume it’s no longer happening and I don’t bother getting ready. I don’t care if the event was last minute or planned weeks in advance,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:32 PM
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My god, this is absolutely disgusting. I don’t know what angers me more - her awful piece of shit boyfriend, or the people commenting calling her a leech. Like…I can’t. It’s even worse given that she has a disability. The poor woman didn’t even have a damn place to sit until recently and her disability is in the lower half of her body!! What the fuck?!! I’m really struggling to even comprehend how she’s even managed to cope so long living in that environment with someone who doesn’t give a shit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:09 PM
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I kind of get what you mean…but in that situation, it’s still best to leave. If things don’t improve and you remain dissatisfied, he’ll end up bringing absolutely no value to your life anyway, because the benefits will never outweigh any of the cons. Once you leave, you’ll be able to look back in hindsight and realise that a “MVM” was never going to be enough for you anyway. I’m sure there are some men who are able to level up if they reflect on their behaviour and do better, but it is unlikely …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:38 AM
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Great episode! I kind of relate to both Reaux and Savannah when it comes to smiling. I feel like working in retail gave me what I like to call a “customer service look” where I find myself smiling and unintentionally looking friendly to people I don’t know. However, on the other hand, I am quite introverted and will be very different with people I don’t know/don’t feel comfortable with VS those I am comfortable around. Close friends that I hit it off with quite quickly were surprised to learn la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:36 PM
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I get what you mean. I used to get their voices mixed up when the podcast first came out but after a few episodes I was finally able to distinguish between them. Getting used to their laughter and other mannerisms helped too 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:13 PM
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You’re not overreacting at all! If I were you, I wouldn’t respond to him again until I felt better and ready to. I’m not very responsive with most people though, so I have absolutely no issue leaving someone on read for days (or even longer lmao). He should know that double or even triple texting will make no difference seeing as you explicitly said that you will not be responding until you’re better. If you keep responding despite this, he will assume that the boundary you’ve set is arbitrary a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:16 PM
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You’re not overreacting at all! If I were you, I wouldn’t respond to him again until I felt better and ready to. I’m not very responsive with most people though, so I have absolutely no issue leaving someone on read for days (or even longer lmao). He should know that double or even triple texting will make no difference seeing as you explicitly said that you will not be responding until you’re better. If you keep responding despite this, he will assume that the boundary you’ve set is arbitrary a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:16 PM
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You’re not overreacting at all! If I were you, I wouldn’t respond to him again until I felt better and ready to. I’m not very responsive with most people though, so I have absolutely no issue leaving someone on read for days (or even longer lmao). He should know that double or even triple texting will make no difference seeing as you explicitly said that you will not be responding until you’re better. If you keep responding despite this, he will assume that the boundary you’ve set is arbitrary a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:16 PM
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You’re not overreacting at all! If I were you, I wouldn’t respond to him again until I felt better and ready to. I’m not very responsive with most people though, so I have absolutely no issue leaving someone on read for days (or even longer lmao). He should know that double or even triple texting will make no difference seeing as you explicitly said that you will not be responding until you’re better. If you keep responding despite this, he will assume that the boundary you’ve set is arbitrary a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:16 PM
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You’re not overreacting at all! If I were you, I wouldn’t respond to him again until I felt better and ready to. I’m not very responsive with most people though, so I have absolutely no issue leaving someone on read for days (or even longer lmao). He should know that double or even triple texting will make no difference seeing as you explicitly said that you will not be responding until you’re better. If you keep responding despite this, he will assume that the boundary you’ve set is arbitrary a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:15 PM
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I’m glad she left the husband but it’s still such a sad situation ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:41 PM
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Why not just have tissues by the side of the bed smh 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:04 AM
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That’s absolutely horrifying. Idc if people think it’s “consensual”. It’s still abuse and she could’ve easily ended up dead. What kind of violence is going on during sex that this poor woman has ended up with a broken rib? Breaking a bone is not something that happens very easily. It must’ve taken some brute force to do that to her. It terrifies me just thinking about what must’ve happened. If a man broke her rib in any other situation, people would immediately recognise it to be abuse. But beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:22 PM
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If they have any sort of fetish, even if it’s not BDSM or an inherently abusive kink. I once dated a guy who was obsessed with my calf muscles and expressed this very early on. I thought he was just admiring my legs at first, but it made me feel uncomfortable whenever he talked about them. Like, I could just imagine him going home wanking over it. It was the first time I’d come across someone like this and it didn’t seem dangerous, so it wasn’t an immediate red flag to me. However, even if a guy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:21 PM
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Very well said! 👏🏾 I’m glad I found radical feminism for this reason because I was really starting to feel alienated on the left. One day I just sat there and it came to me, “hey, none of these people actually give a shit about women”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:14 AM
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Absolutely! Since first noticing it, misogyny on the left is as clear as day to me now. It’s as if they think that a woman being their political opposite gives them a free pass for misogyny. They’re no less misogynistic with women on the left though, they just demonstrate it differently. They are vehemently pro sex work and defend kink like their life depends on it. They will complain about “white feminism”, but yet, completely disregard women’s issues themselves and only listen to privileged (o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:08 AM
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(Slightly) Unrelated but she’s been talked about so disgustingly by men on the left. It made me so sick when I saw the things they were saying about her online last year. It’s in that moment that I realised misogyny on the left is just as bad as misogyny on the right. Anyway, I don’t know a lot about her but it could be interesting to see how she would contribute to such a discussion. Especially given the way that she is continually sexualised despite being conservative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:14 PM
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That’s what I thought too!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:21 PM
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This is so fucked up and really really scary. The fact that they actually admitted it so casually freaks me out even more. I’m so sorry you had to experience that. I don’t even know what I’d do in those situations myself, considering you were in locations where they could’ve really killed you if they acted on those desires. Like, would making up an excuse to leave get me killed, or would it be better to stay and pretend to be fine for the rest of the date? I really don’t know how I’d have played…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:25 AM
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Lawwwwd Jesus 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:45 PM
4

you just have to have extreme levels of patience and be willing to take frequent breaks. Definitely! I find that the longer I spend on OLD, either my standards slip (in looks) OR I become really jaded and frustrated over how much swiping I have to do. Over the years I've used OLD, I usually end up downloading the app, deleting it and then redownloading it indefinitely lmao. It can wear you down to the point where it's not fun anymore. I would sometimes swipe 100 times before swiping right on one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:47 PM
5

I feel you sis! I'm quite introverted and extremely selective with who I spend my time and energy on. I'm the same with friendships too...which is why I have so few friends lol. As someone who was previously unconvinced by the idea of having a dating rotation, this episode was great for learning about the benefits and why it is something I should try. However, like you, I'm not sure if I could ever establish a scrotation which is truly enjoyable for me. Rather than continue to date a man I don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:36 PM
5

I’m the same lmao...My mum makes fun of me for it, but I won’t even leave one pea or sweetcorn on my own plate. So if she leaves some food on her plate when she’s finished I don’t even hesitate in eating it 😔😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:52 AM
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Lindie Botes is pretty cool! She makes really useful videos offering tips and advice for language learning. She regularly shares her progress too which is super motivating. I really like Steve Kaufmann as well. He’s 75 years old and has been learning languages for over 50 years (many of which he only started recently), so it’s really interesting to hear about his experiences. He also has a website called LingQ where you can learn languages through short stories! The two of them actually have a v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:29 PM
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Okay here are my rules: No self-proclaimed stoners or guys who smoke a lot of weed. I once dated a guy who often couldn’t afford to go on dates but always made sure he had enough weed. Only time I got to see what he was like without weed was when he went on a family holiday and seemed normal and balanced when communicating with me. No guys with long hair (unless it is well-conditioned, regularly trimmed and taken care of). All the guys I’ve dated with long hair were simply too lazy to get it cut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:28 PM
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They shouldn’t be asking they should just be doing lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:08 PM
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I know what you mean. As I’m learning Japanese, I’ve come across a lot of polyglots online and seen so much arrogance. As you say, many of them are just learning a language to impress other people, rather than recognising it as a tool to communicate with others. I don’t have an issue with those who appreciate the art of a language and want to finesse their skill, but it does annoy me every time I see a “white guy impresses [insert ethnicity here] by speaking their language” video. Most times, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:02 PM
9

If they show that they don’t even want to make the most obvious, simple effort towards impressing you in the very beginning, they DEFINITELY will never try to treat you or plan special things once you’re exclusive. Absolutely. In my last relationship, he insisted on going 50/50 from the beginning which really set the precedent for the rest of the relationship. I wanted to treat him sometimes, but refrained from doing so because he didn’t do the same for me. Even on special occasions, I’d get the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:43 AM
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This would be ideal for me as far as finances go. I have no problem buying the occasional gift for a man I’m with, but they won’t get any of my generosity if they expect me to go 50/50 all the time. There’s just no incentive to treat them if I don’t feel like they value me. I would often get the urge to treat my ex but I started to hold back once I realised I wasn’t going to get any better treatment from him. I’m the sort of person who likes to spontaneously treat someone if I see something that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:12 AM
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I hope so too...that would be absolutely devasting. I love Britney so much and desperately want her to be safe and well. Ever since I found out about the conservatorship a few years ago I’ve been following the case and hoping for her to finally be free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:45 AM
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I’m glad you called them golddiggers! It’s soooo funny how they always assume every woman they date is a golddigger (even for just expecting him to pay both drinks on a shitty coffee date), meanwhile, they’re the ones taking advantage and getting as much benefits from women as they can. Not only are they getting the majority of the woman’s hard earned cash by going 50/50, but they’re getting domestic work from her, emotional labour, free childcare, sex, etc. When the majority of heterosexual rel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:20 AM
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This is so upsetting. I’m infuriated just reading this, so I can’t even imagine how much resentment she feels. I’ve seen too many stories like this on reddit alone where the woman is earning much less than her male partner and is STILL contributing to half of the bills. It makes me sick. How can these men even live with themselves? This is why I don’t believe in going 50/50. People will say they are doing it for “equality” but the only thing they care about splitting equally is finances. After c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:14 PM
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This is a great idea. I think the sub is a bit oversaturated with tik toks too. I don’t mind seeing the odd video if it’s REALLY good and helpful for FDS members in some way, but there are more of them than text posts sometimes. I don’t have tik tok for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:39 AM
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Wow, I wish I could’ve seen all of this 6 years ago! I was in an online relationship with a guy who lived in a continent on the other side of the world. We would Skype almost every day for the 5ish months or so we were together. I used to watch YouTube videos where online couples met for the first time and dreamed of the day it would be us. He said he started saving money to come and see me, but we never really had a plan for how things would work out in the future. I was only 18 and about to st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:04 AM
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I’m not sure what BPF and PPF are about, but I absolutely understand why GC, f**cel & WGTOW type of posts should not be on FDS. I don’t see how any of those communities would overlap with FDS at all. Just because they were/are also female-only spaces, it doesn’t mean that such posts belong here when nothing about them aligns with FDS. However, I wouldn’t put radical feminism in that same category. Radical feminism is at the core of much of what we discuss on this subreddit (anti-pornography, pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:30 PM
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I’m glad that you’ve had the chance to heal after the abuse you experienced. I think I would’ve dated someone too early after my last relationship without FDS too. I actually had a bad habit of downloading, deleting and then redownloading dating apps. I’d move on quickly from previous relationships, say that I was “just having a browse” but always ended up dating more guys without taking the time to even figure out what it is I truly wanted. My frequent OLD usage made me lose sight of my values …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:00 PM
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I was under the impression that most women on this sub are aware that there is a space between “actively dating” and “WGTOW” which is “open to meeting a HVM but content to be single until that happens” Yeah, me too. I’m not actively seeking out potential men and dating but it doesn’t exactly mean that I’m “cultivating solitude as a permanent lifestyle choice” either. Of the two extremes - actively dating VS opting out of dating completely, I’m in the middle. I didn’t even know what WGTOW was unt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:17 PM
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Agreed! As a heterosexual rad fem, FDS gives me the tools I need to navigate dating men in this pornsick, overly sexualised patriarchal culture. If anything, it is FDS that has heavily encouraged me to choose celibacy and refuse to date full stop unless my standards are met and my values are matched. I don’t think the point of FDS is to actively date (despite it being in the name). Ironically, the more time I spend on FDS, the less I actually want to date! Once you wake up and see all the shit y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:32 PM
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They purged all the porn a few years ago which was a massive improvement. I returned to tumblr a few months ago and realised how much I missed it. Twitter was too chaotic and hostile for me but tumblr is great. There’s more privacy and I feel at peace when I use it. I like that I can tag posts/reblogs too and easily find content about similar topics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:45 PM
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Me neither. It seems super addictive and I’ve already cut down on my social media usage since last year. I’m mainly on tumblr for rad fem stuff and reddit for FDS and languages lol. I know there’s some decent stuff on tik tok but I don’t think it’s the best use of my time. I’ll happily watch the ones that get shared on here though 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:06 AM
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For real! We see it all the time on reddit. The answer seems so obvious to us when we read the post but yet, they still give the man the benefit of the doubt by coming on reddit and seeing if the relationship can be reconciled 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:54 AM
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I think this is one reason why LGBTQ acceptance has declined (in the US) over the last few years. From what I’ve seen, polyamory seems to have a lot of overlap with kink. I don’t think I’ve ever come across polyamorous people who are “vanilla”. A lot of the kink crowd claim that kink is an “inherent” part of being LGBT and that it should be a part of pride, which is incredibly damaging to those who just want to come and celebrate their sexuality and history. It feeds into old stereotypes about g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:21 AM
2

WHAT...again, WHAT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:46 AM
5

“We are forced to conform because of lack of choice”. This is what the choice/lib feminists choose not to understand! These choices do not exist in a vacuum. They are not free choices!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:44 PM
11

As a fellow Marxist, I felt the same. I was starting to feel disillusioned with the left because everything I saw people preaching was just so contradictory. Like, people saying, “love yourself! Everyone is beautiful! Body positivity!” And at the same time, saying that getting cosmetic surgery is just a “choice” that we ought to respect. Or, people being pro sex work while also claiming to be Marxists when it is completely antithetical to Marxism...made no sense whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:35 PM
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That was truly phenomenal. Gail Dines is an absolute legend! I am so so thankful that she exists and was able to come onto the podcast to share her words of wisdom. Having a radical feminist on FDS has filled me with so much joy. As a heterosexual rad fem, FDS is super important in helping me navigating relationships with men and learning to value myself more, so to have Gail support it is just incredible. I actually found myself in tears for most of the podcast because of how profound it was. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:29 PM
1

As a parent I will say that no, boys won't just "be boys". Not mine, anyway! They will respect everyone's thoughts and feelings, they will use their words instead of battering each other senselessly instead of continuing with the "boy's club" where it's okay to hit another boy. Violence is either okay or it isn't, I don't see an in-between to this. They can play fight with other children if they are okay with it. There are also other, more productive ways to deal with the effects of testosterone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:17 AM
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That’s so fucked up, what disgusting piece of shit. I feel like crying sometimes when I read about the shit women are putting up with. Like, when we will ever be free? The man has done something truly despicable but yet, the woman takes the time to come on this website and ask for advice, meaning that deep down, she probably hopes the relationship is salvageable and that the issue can be resolved. There are so many posts like this too. Different man, different situation, but the same abusive, to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:10 AM
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That’s absolutely terrifying 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:06 AM
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No offence to her, but I don't feel like the early childhood educator is actually doing much to raise HVM (although I still think her work has value). She stressed the importance of letting boys play rough, as long as its with each other and not with girls, but I don't think this is enough to raise them to be high value from that age. Not abusing women is like, the bare minimum. Are they being raised to be be empathetic towards others? Are they able to talk about their feelings rather than just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:34 PM
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It really is! It’s not that there’s anything shameful about having lots of sex, but the majority of the time, the men really aren’t worth it and sleeping with them is high risk for women with very little reward. Generally, they get a lot more out of sex than we do. Even if they say they had “bad sex” or didn’t get a blowjob or whatever, a lot of men are still happy to use our bodies for masturbation and get their orgasm anyway. TW for sexual descriptions here They use us as objects to stick thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:06 AM
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“Oh you’re a feminist are you? scratches stubble So it should be okay for men to hit women too right? 🤪” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:08 AM
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Exactly. They are NOT free choices. It is frustrating that liberal feminisms are incapable of critical analysis. Whether it’s sex work, shaving, makeup, etc, they just don’t want to believe that it is patriarchy that enforced these “choices” through gender. The standards are different for women and men. They can say it’s their choice to shave all they want, for example, but fail to acknowledge what happens to them if they don’t shave. I saw a tik tok shared on tumblr the other day where a girl w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:06 AM
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Me too. I’m 24 but I feel worlds away from gen Z culture. When I was 13 and still using club penguin and other similar sites, no one revealed anything about themselves online. Everyone had an avatar of some sort and I’m pretty sure anyone who tried to share personal details got banned. Now, there are 9 year olds who have Instagram accounts and it really scares me. Before these children even know who they are, they’re already putting themselves out there and soaking up everything they see online.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:56 PM
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This is exactly how I am going to be in the future when I raise children. I am absolutely terrified of the things I see teenagers these days consuming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:50 PM
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Yeah sure :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:13 AM
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I just scrolled through the original thread moments ago and found it incredibly sad. It’s just awful to see women on Reddit giving these pornsick men a chance when they should’ve broken up with them as soon as they exhibited such behaviour. The way it’s normalised is so fucked up too. He’s subscribed to other girls onlyfans and she’s unfortunately convinced herself to be okay with it. This is despite her saying in the comments that she actually considers it cheating. She has her standards on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:00 PM
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SAME! I used to claim to like “dad bods” too I wonder if I was just being conditioned to think that “dad bod” = cuddly and kind, while abs = arrogant and player. Now that I’m unpacking this, I don’t even know what I truly am attracted to anymore lol. I don’t think body type has ever been that important to me (hence not being fussed about abs).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:01 AM
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Wow, that’s terrifying, but you shouldn’t regret telling him! It’s useful when they say their fucked up intentions up front. Makes it easier to cut them off immediately because you know what they’re like, rather than them hiding it and abusing you one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:03 AM
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Yes! Especially the part where they said that men who watch porn really don’t give a fuck about consent. They may claim that they do, but given that they watch porn and don’t consider whether the women involved were able to truly consent, they really don’t. This may be controversial, but I don’t think any form of sexual via coercion can be considered fully “consensual”, because the woman wouldn’t have done it if she wasn’t getting paid. It wasn’t free, enthusiastic consent where one can stop par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:31 PM
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Savannah was so right when she said, “The role of the woman has evolved whereas the role of the man has regressed”. Us women continue to succeed and level up the more we separate from men and focus on ourselves. We don’t need men anymore and will certainly live much longer without getting involved with them unnecessarily. The fact that we can live without them and prefer be single than settle for a LVM is hugely beneficial to us. Men, on the other hand are worse off when they can’t rely on women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:21 PM
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“As if I’d turn into stone” lmaooo this is a great approach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:34 AM
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The things she could’ve done with that £5000...smh. Apparently, a vehicle can only have one registered owner on it too, so it’s not even like she’d get to directly benefit from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:31 AM
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Even as a liberal feminist, I was always vehemently against cosmetic surgery. I couldn’t understand the conflicting message of body positivity where everyone is beautiful and desirable but yet, if you wanna get cosmetic surgery because you think your nose is too big, go for it! Wanna get a couple ribs removed so your waist is smaller? Sure, it’s your choice!! Wanna risk your life to get a bigger butt so you have better Instagram pics? Yeah go for it!! How can the same people tell others to love …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:14 AM
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Yeah I never never understood topless protests. Feminism is not about being equal to men, it’s about being liberated from patriarchy. I get the point they’re trying to make, but just because men are allowed to be seen topless doesn’t mean we should go out there and do the same. It’s impossible to meet the same standards as men because it’s not a level playing field. The same with other practices which solely benefit men. If we do them, they only benefit men in the end anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:48 AM
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Me too. I haven’t done it in years now but I really enjoyed it! I was at uni and interested in fitness but hated the idea of going to the gym to be around men and I never liked group sports. Tried some martial arts too but didn’t feel right for me. Pole seemed like a really fun and artistic alternative and I’m really glad I did it. As someone who hated PE at school and had negative associations with sports and fitness, it made me feel more confident and showed me the power of my own physical str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:34 AM
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I’m so glad I found FDS because up until very recently, I used to think something was wrong with me for not wanting a cheap man. I would get this sickening feeling inside when I found myself going halves with a guy on a date. It just didn’t feel right to me at all. I’d always see people debating about whether it’s “feminist” for the man to pay but it always sounded like bullshit to me. Like, with all the shit women have to put up with from men throughout the course of our entire lives, and peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:10 AM
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The way he assumes you’ll already be interested with his, “now it’s time for you to show me yours” smh does he think he’s slick? 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:41 AM
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Wow lmao, I’m so used to men constantly denying women’s experiences that I really wasn’t expecting this to go the way it did 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:35 PM
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Me too. Also, I haven’t had to deal with men for a while during this pandemic, so I’m worried I’m gonna be even worse handling myself once I start going out again. If I’m in a busy public area, I’d usually just ignore them. However, if I’m alone it’s a different story. I end up having this nervous giggle (like you said), while absolutely fearing for my life. So I just reluctantly respond to them until my transport arrives or I get another opportunity to leave. I just hate that we all have to dea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:46 AM
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I REALLY need to internalise this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:52 AM
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I use emojis all the time and have never given it much thought...didn’t even know it was something other subs didn’t like 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:02 PM
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SAME! Like, I’ve heard this advice for years, but never had that many men I’d like to date available to me at any one time. Even when I was on dating apps, majority would be a swipe left and then any matches would only have like a 5% chance of being someone I actually met up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:29 PM
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Absolutely. I’ve realised that if most men agree with you, then what you’re saying or doing is most definitely harmful to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:07 AM
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I feel you on this. This is one of the things that has made me distance myself from leftist circles and flock to female-only feminist spaces. After spending less time listening to privileged sex workers and instead, listening to the horrifying and upsetting stories from prostituted women, I couldn’t bare to see people champion themselves as “pro sex work” anymore. I had always felt deep down that there was something wrong with this rhetoric, but of course, questioning it in certain spaces has yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:48 AM
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I tried using bumble BFF for a few months last year but felt a bit discouraged by how difficult it was to make meaningful connections on there. I might hop back on in the next month or so though, now that lockdown restrictions are being eased and cases are decreasing where I am. I just wanted to ask, did you ever meet anyone from bumble BFF irl that you didn’t end up getting on with? If I’m on a date with a man I don’t like I’m happy to leave or just never see them again, but I’d feel so awkward…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:46 PM
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For real, I’m truly done with that shit. I’ve been on and off OLD for the past 6 years or so and I’ve had so many moments where I’d think, “I’d much prefer to meet someone organically, but what other choice do I have?” Little did I know that quantity does not equal opportunity when the men are still low value lol. I’d rather just get on with my life and dedicate time towards myself and my goals than to waste another second swiping through trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:51 PM
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My mum always says she can’t stand seeing a man in an ill-fitting suit lol, like, getting clothes that fit is the bare minimum but they can’t even do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:37 PM
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I’m dying at this description “floating into his nostrils” 🤣🤣🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:40 PM
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For real! I swear, the kink community pushes this “no kink shaming” rhetoric so they can do the most fucked up shit without being condemned and called out for it. Someone wants to strangle their partner despite the possibility of it leading to death or causing long-term damage? “That’s okay! As long as it’s consensual!!” It’s just ridiculous. It doesn’t matter how disgusting, repulsive, dangerous or violent the behaviour is, not kink shaming seems to always be more important than the nature of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:39 PM
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What was wrong with how Eloise was portrayed? Was she different to the book?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:19 AM
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Interesting perspectives shared on this episode! I didn’t hate Daphne myself, but I was annoyed that she didn’t pick Prince Friedrich. From what I remember (it’s been some months since I watched now 😅), he was very respectful, patient and kind. He didn’t intrude on her, like some of the other suitors and he didn’t put any pressure on her. The Queen seemed to approved of him too. I know Simon was the one she truly liked, but damn, I kept thinking of how much easier things would’ve been with the P…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:19 AM
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The silver lining has been that I haven’t had to deal with unwanted attention from men whatsoever. Sarah Everard’s murder sort of gave me the chilling reminder that once I go back into the world again, the threat of male violence will be there waiting for me. Like, for whole year, I haven’t had to deal with men approaching me alone at night as I commute back home, men making me uncomfortable on public transport, being groped, etc. As soon as restrictions are lifted and some normal things resume,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:21 PM
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Y’all had me on the floor with that segment about men not washing their buttcracks! 🤣I really hope the podcast brings more women to FDS! Not only are you sharing absolutely invaluable advice, but doing it all while making us laugh really is a bonus 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:37 AM
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Wow, I’ve never seen this type of ring before, it’s absolutely gorgeous, so happy for you! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:47 PM
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Shaking hands...in a pandemic...😷
/r/seduction29/01/21 10:31 AM
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