gmh1977 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	"I Miss You" or "I Want to See You"		gmh1977	/r/seduction	18/11/13 09:52 AM
10	In Defense of The Friend Zone		gmh1977	/r/seduction	10/11/13 02:15 AM
3	How to Get A Girl with A Romance Novel	Field Report	gmh1977	/r/seduction	04/11/13 03:50 PM
2	When Should I Text?		gmh1977	/r/seduction	12/11/13 09:28 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How do I keep the first date short and leave her wanting more? I wouldn't even do 3 hours..2 at the most. I would just do something quick and fun. The energy stays up. Also you can further build the connection with calls, text and emails. I rarely spend more than a few hours until after I've become intimate. Showing a girl you are busy, amps up the attraction factor.	/r/seduction	16/11/13 01:51 AM
1	Approach Anxiety, but you're confident, knows what to say, not afraid of rejection, and etc. I agree with Josh. Also, why do need to be hyped up? Be cool, smile and natural. Just make a natural conversation that leads into a number close. Just don't ask boring stuff or recycle some lame pick up routine. I get approach anxiety, it will always be there to some degree.	/r/seduction	16/11/13 01:42 AM
2	Daygaming older women? I think direct compliments works. However, if the woman is actually gorgeous, you are probably ice skating up hill. She has heard that a million times in her life. Now, you just Joe Average instead of an interesting guy who approached her. An older woman shouldn't immediately gain your approval the same goes for younger women. And telling a woman, she is beautiful already, gives her the higher status to reject you by linking you to the chumps who've complimented her in the past. . Just start a c…	/r/seduction	14/11/13 11:17 PM
0	A Beginners Guide for What to Say Just ask open question. I think asking someone for the time or recommendations at a restaurant are too obvious and cheesy. You should definitely ask for someone opinion in a casual way.	/r/seduction	11/11/13 05:25 PM
1	In Defense of The Friend Zone I think you make a valid point. However, I don't think attraction is something you can turn on and off just cause you are in a friendship.	/r/seduction	11/11/13 11:45 AM
1	In Defense of The Friend Zone I see what you mean. However, I didn't want to give the impression that all people here are saying avoid making friends with women. I just read about a lot guys rejecting women because they are not able to get attraction going on the first date. I rather make friends first and move in the direction I desire. Well I am attracted to at least 50 percent of the women I meet. However, just cause I'm attracted to them, doesn't mean I have to act on that attraction. That would make me a monkey. I can s…	/r/seduction	10/11/13 09:22 AM
2	When to tell a girl my age? Tell anytime. However, I sometimes wait until after I've become intimate or established a strong bond. She wont be shock. I'm in my late 30s and date women in their early 20s. Even when they know my age it just adds a level of quality and attraction to my character.	/r/seduction	07/11/13 02:51 PM
11	Good way to respond to compliments? Just say thank you...being a constant smart ass is tiring and obnoxious after a while. Making a joke out of a compliment undermines whatever rapport you've built.	/r/seduction	07/11/13 02:49 PM
3	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble? Women aren't consumed with looks as much as men. They are attracted to social status, financial standing, personality an looks. However, if you are an interesting man, they will overlook your physical defaults. What's more, if you are able to attract them on an emotional level, appearance means even less. Women reject good looking guys less. However, if you had the choice of receiving an empty box wrapped in beautiful paper or getting an mind blowing gift wrapped in news paper, which would you c…	/r/seduction	06/11/13 10:44 PM
2	How to pick up women in college. I have to agree. I would avoid books like The Game and Mystery Method. These books seems to be written for people who want to shred their personality in exchange for a way to bang a bimbo after getting turned down a hundred times. The best advice is similar to CapAwesomest. Develop your confidence. Join a interesting group. However, first and foremast just become interesting by engaging in interesting activities. Then learn rapport techniques and how to converse with anyone not just girls. Lines…	/r/seduction	06/11/13 04:41 PM
1	How do I improve first dates, rapport building to help avoid future flakes. A Self analysis and help request. I agree HappyJerk. Showing too much enthusiasm usually scares women because they feel that enthusiastic guys will eventually get hurt by them or just become clingy. I suggest after the first date, you wait for her to contact you for a second date. Or at least wait a full week before you invite them out again. I wouldn't give any indication that you want a second date because it kills any tension.	/r/seduction	03/11/13 04:05 PM