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Why would anyone need pickup/cold approach techniques if they could just go up and talk to a woman as if she's anyone else?
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:06 AM
1

You should probably fix that because it sounds like you have larger issues at hand. Maybe see a therapist!
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:38 AM
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Then you're probably not interesting enough to get a girlfriend. Maybe find some stuff you like to do or try some stuff out on group meetups
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:50 PM
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Go out and meet them in hobbies and other activities you like to do.
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:04 PM
29

I am the woman in this case and I have an option 1. We work because we balance each other out. We both have masculine and feminine features. It can work as long as I am not overbearing or domineering and he isn't a doormat or gives up his autonomy due to my strong personality. At the end of the day, this arrangement works out to respect for one another and what we contribute to the relationship. I've personally tried option 2.... It works temporarily but the men are often uncomfortable with my a…
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:37 AM
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Latina here. White guys and girls are all like this. It's a cultural thing. They think they're high value or some shit.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:18 AM
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I approach men and they are sometimes off put by it. Only submissive men like being approached.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:36 PM
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I think taking things slowly is for romantic relationships. This is a hookup subreddit.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:40 PM
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One more woman that talks to more women than you :)
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:44 AM
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That is not my experience.... As a woman... At all.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:17 PM
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They shame women from talking openly about sex with men. Not their girlfriends. Not their girlfriends girlfriends. With social media nowadays, it's hard not to cross paths with your ex, especially when you all live in the same area. People talk. Women talk. Just like how guys talk.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:46 PM
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Wtf I am a woman and we do not keep our exploits secret between one another. You'd be surprised how small of a world this is.
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:03 PM
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I would have left and not come back when she pleaded. I would have instead just left the first time and asked for a second date. I think the problem here is you went back and then left again and your departure was much more emotionally charged. This also put her on an emotional rollercoaster and left her to confide in her friend about you. Go with your gut. If conditions on the date aren't working out, leave it on a high note so you can see her again. Don't wait for it to go south. People rememb…
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:08 PM
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I think a lot of the advice is good, but I think people also ask overly broad and vague questions with no context so they get many different answers. This sub is primarily for how to get a one night stand. Most people answer questions in regards to this specifically. There are others, though that will respond with relationship advice for a hook-up question. Same goes for the guys who ask for relationship advice but get hookup answers. This sub is not a relationship advice subreddit. It is a hook…
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:46 PM
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It depends on what you want and the girl you're with. Some girls are fine going out for one night stands. This sub seems to discuss how to be successful with specifically one night stands. The advice to sleep with a high number of girls is valid, as long as you genuinely just want to sleep with women and not date them. The biggest and most obvious consequence is that women talk and if you fuck half of your town, everyone will know. It's also hard for a girl to trust a guy that slept around for a…
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:42 PM
2

Then what is this advice about thinking about baseball and old people having sex? It seems like there is some control over it.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:01 PM
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Do you have a penis?
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:00 PM
2

It may not be the vibe she's going for, is my point.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:59 PM
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I'm aware of that, but lots of women don't know that. We generally understand it as purely sexual or "I'm ready to have sex right now".
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:59 PM
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I think it should probably be concealed if she isn't your girlfriend yet.
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:57 PM
2

No. Are strip clubs romantic?
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:56 PM
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Although you may see it as a normal thing, some women may find this threatening. Romance and sex are intertwined, but unexpected sexual arousal from a man in a romantic moment can make us uncomfortable.
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:56 PM
3

If I was walking in a park and holding hands with a dude, that's a romantic moment. An erection seems inappropriate to point out in that context, especially if we have never been intimate and I'm not ready to put out yet. It can come off as threatening or make it seem that whatever the guy is saying is completely bs. I understand that one cannot help his erection, but pointing it out or making it obvious changes the tone completely.
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:16 PM
4

Woman here. That'll give us the wrong idea.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:11 AM
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Trojan ecstacy isn't cheap, but it's pretty good.
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:20 PM
1

Practical advice: 1. Assess why you have never had a girlfriend. Lack of time? Interest? Effort? Something else? 2. Assess what kind of girl you want to date. What are your values? What are your preferences? 3. Assess what you'd like to get out of this relationship. 4. Assess your boundaries. When do you walk away? When do you say no? What are you uncomfortable with? After you do that, you should take that info and figure out where you'd likely run into the girlfriend you want to meet. Clubs, or…
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:52 AM
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Treat her like an equal. She's used to being worshipped.
/r/seduction20/12/21 01:22 PM
9

You don't. Trying to re-ignite shows desperation.
/r/seduction12/12/21 03:55 PM
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You don't have to dress up like a fuccboi. You can have your own individual style and dress that way if you'd like to. Make sure to have good hygiene (well kept hair, clean teeth, well maintained skin), well kept clothes (clean, ironed, stains removed, no wear and tear), and good physical health. It's also important to have good manners, a positive attitude, and the healthiest that you can be. As for the clothes, look into whoever's style you like. Who do you look up to? What do they wear when t…
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:39 AM
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Because it comes off the wrong way. Exchanging info is shared consent. Finding her is predatory. Think of Joe Goldberg. You should be asking for her social media if you want to contact her. Get her consent to do so. That can really freak people out .
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:47 AM
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Start going to bars with concerts. Start going to concerts. You already have a conversation topic. You can dance on the dance floor. You can step out for a minute to a quieter area to have a conversation. It's perfect.
/r/seduction14/11/21 11:57 AM
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Ah, looks like your friends are really a bucket of crabs. I worked on my inner game too and my friends give me shit because I'm no longer a doormat. Get better friends that love and respect you for who you are. Good or bad. These people don't want to see you climb out of misery and are trying to pull you back in. They're so miserable. Fuck 'em.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:16 PM
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I never said it wasn't OK, but I personally don't care. I'm bisexual. I'm used to dating people shorter than me.
/r/seduction24/10/21 12:37 AM
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As a woman who is over 5'10, yeah. I get stared at for my height a LOT
/r/seduction23/10/21 10:10 PM
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Most are, not everybody. I could care less about height personally, but I find taller men easier to notice in bars.
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:44 PM
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I know. Who gets downvoted for claiming that tall people get noticed? Like if he's 6'4 and ugly you bet nobody is talking to him. In fact, he doesn't even get the opportunity to use the low club lighting to his advantage.
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:44 PM
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Naw man, I'm a taller lady with bad night vision.
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:41 PM
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Fair enough, my point was that tall men stick out. You are one of them.
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:40 PM
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As a woman, we do this because these men are much more visible (also much better lighting) and if they are reasonably attractive, we will see them stand out like a beacon. I have an unverified theory that our brains are lazy in crowds so it would be easier to detect well lit faces (as our brains and eyes are drawn to light and breaks in pattern) for potential mating than trying to decipher everyone's face in a sea of people. Unfortunately, in dark places like bars the guys who are just as physic…
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:35 PM
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Any woman you don't know who doesn't want to use a condom/insists on going bare back is either trying to get pregnant with you or currently has an STD. It isn't normal for women to want to go bareback. It feels the same for us. She's up to something.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:05 PM
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You're making a lot of assumptions here that are simply untrue.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:39 PM
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NGL she sounds like a "any dick will do" kind of gal. Just go up to her and tell her she's pretty and offer her dinner.
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:19 AM
1

So you're saying it's cool to get food or drink and not eat it if I pay for it? And nothing you've implied, I just refuse to be seen eating food unless it's for business purposes. I'm a skinny person with a reputation. I enjoy the otherworldly/prestigious asthetic of never eating despite food being in front of me and making my employer pay for it. It's a power move that I cannot use as leverage in a date as those I date are not in the entertainment industry. It makes me confused as to what to do…
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:25 AM
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How am I insecure? My husband has consented to this and lol I probably don't want you if you're so insecure you're threatened by another man.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:10 PM
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You sound like an insecure man. I'm already married. I'm looking for a side piece.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:27 PM
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No shit, but it'd be nice to know what their worth professionally and socially.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:26 PM
1

Is there anything besides food or drink that can be done? Guys like outdoor stuff. What if we were to like chop firewood together instead? Tend my garden (or his) together or show him my bee hive? A scenic walk in the woods on an unknown, untouched trail? A trip to the library? Also, are we supposed to be going dutch on the first date? I'm happy to buy food and not eat it but people get mad when I do that and they're paying. The problem with a walk in the park is that there's nothing to work wit…
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:23 PM
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I'm terrible at basketball but i could practice
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:09 AM
1

I approach because I can. It's also a guaranteed conversation. If I don't, then how will he know I want to talk to him?
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:05 AM
1

So what is there to do besides eating or drinking that's casual? A walk in a park sounds so boring.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:54 PM
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Yes. I prefer not eating with other people unless it's work or family related. Finding food I can eat in the wild is a very difficult feat so I generally eat by myself. Understood. Usually canoeing and hiking. I might invite someone to camp. I'm pretty competent in all of these things. "No thanks"
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:45 PM
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I think I'd be ok with being led in some regards and leading in others. I could see a mutually complementary relationship being more rewarding than a supplementary one where one person leads and the other follows. Just because someone is dominant doesn't mean they're competent in everything. I know where my faults lie so I'd be looking for someone to lead on those aspects in which I cannot contribute best in the relationship. Relationships are give and take so I would like an equilibrium. I thin…
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:40 PM
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What if I can't do food or drinks or coffee? I'm on a really strict diet and I don't drink or use caffeine. I've offered to work out or do outdoorsy stuff with them but people are so lazy.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:28 PM
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Ok but how do I relax into feminine if most men are less competent than me?
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:25 PM
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Wants are emotions, silly.
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:22 PM
0

So they're looking for a child to depend on them and sit at home? This is not my experience.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:40 PM
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I'm not looking to battle with anyone? And I'm not saying I'm the shit, I flaws like everyone else but I'm not a submissive person. I wasn't born that way. That isn't a fault. What boggles my mind is people keep saying I'm not feminine but nobody's willing to define what they think that means.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:31 PM
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Again, I'm not masculine. I just know what I want out of life and I go for it and generally succeed with the exception of this. With that said, I got some valuable advice on here so I think you just may not be able to help me so you're saying it's impossible. It's ok not to know something.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:29 PM
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What I meant is that I have foibles, like everyone else, but I was looking for a "how to" instead of "change who you are"
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:27 PM
1

Yes we know that
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:51 PM
0

There's nothing wrong with me.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:51 PM
-1

I'm afraid that's not how all monarchies work, silly.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:50 PM
1

I'm married. I'm not being avoided. I'm looking to up my game to find my perfect secondary partner. And my personality does have a lot to do with it because I'm a creative director and an independent contractor so people hire me based on my reputation and networking skills.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:49 PM
1

If it wasn't a prize, then why do I have men chasing me? It's not a relationship if I'm meeting them for a first time. That's a one night stand. I already have a husband and we fuck regularly. This is for a secondary partner. We are ethically non monogamous.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:47 PM
1

Sag rising.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:19 PM
0

Hold up.... Because it sounds like you just dated a bitch. I work in a leadership position professionally... I can't always be right or never admit I'm wrong. Good leadership is regardless of gender and it sounds like your ex was bad at it. And yeah why wouldn't anyone date up and not accept any less if they can?
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:19 PM
2

I night as well kill myself if I'm doomed with a submissive man tbh
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:16 PM
-4

Being approached isn't a compliment when it happens all the time. It's fucking annoying. I'm not into submissive men.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:15 PM
1

Because my pussy is to be earned and one conversation doesn't warrant that.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:14 PM
-1

My personality is fine, I'm very successful at work thank you.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:13 PM
-1

I'm not a submissive woman and submissive men are not my type. Just accept you don't have advice to give and don't reply.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:10 PM
1

How do I know of it's an activity they're going to like if I don't know them?
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:09 PM
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Why do they need to power over me? That's not what I want. Every queen deserves a king. We can rule together.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:07 PM
1

Nah, just trying not to waste my time or get murdered.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:05 PM
0

How so? I wear makeup and girly clothes. Most people think I'm a model.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:05 PM
1

You never explained what masculine energy is so none of this makes sense.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:04 PM
1

I don't sleep with them if I plan on following up.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:02 PM
0

I'll try, but non performers are not as attractive.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:01 PM
1

I suppose the bit about masculine energy
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:31 AM
0

I don't understand.... How am I masculine? This is a good idea! Thank you.
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:37 PM
1

Oh, I'm in the creative field. They're everywhere. These are the men I go for and fail.
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:41 PM
1

It's getting the date in afterwards that I struggle with. I'll reach out, start texting, and then it dies. I'm so much better at this in person for some reason.
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:39 PM
2

It's all about reading body language. It's kind of like chess: if you see that all signs indicate to advance, you advance. If her body language is open and leaning to you, move closer, if it still is, then touch her etc etc. This is a gradual process starting from when you meet them, you want to start reading them upon introduction. Most of my casual advances take place in the flattering phase, bit I always try to endure that I don't immediately respond to open body language as I want them to al…
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:37 PM
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I always get their number/social media info and walk away. Then search them and based on that, make a decision on whether to follow up. I'm looking for a relationship. I have no issues with hookups.
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:42 PM
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I go up to then and talk to them. I make sure I find that thing they're proud about and let them brag as I ask more questions about that thing and hype them up and make them feel great. I'll buy them a shot and a beer as I do this to ensure that their intoxication level is adequate in order to be more receptive. I'll then build that tension while boosting their ego and get that tension so tight and their ego so large and if I like them, I'll say goodnight. If I find them attractive but boring, I…
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:19 PM
2

But theoretically I should always have room to move, so maybe I should date like a project manager for a pharmaceutical development company instead to ensure my career isn't effected?
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:14 PM
1

This is a good idea. I usually don't date within my work circle but maybe I should?
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:07 PM
1

I know what I like and I'd never settle on less than I deserve. I'm not looking to "succeed* but just find the right fit. Success isn't an issue with me.
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:06 PM
1

Im not looking for that kind of dynamic. I'm looking for a co-dominant in an egalitarian relationship, not a D/s power exchange.
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:54 PM
-2

Are you saying dominant men are impossible to approach? Why?
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:52 PM
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