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| 0 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why? | Outer Game | gmsniper_II | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 10:24 PM |
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| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?Ah no worries. Honestly, I think that’s been the case in some instances. But I think it’s in the minority of instances where I may get a bit nervous and overcompensate a bit. In general I think I’m just comfortable talking to strangers and expressing interest, and I’m told it comes off as me being a player or egotistical. That frustrates me a bit because I don’t really think I’m all that, I’m just comfortable in my shoes and it may come off that way when the social norm is to keep to yourself or… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?It was a pun, and I feel a bit of bullying vibes from this section, so I’m not gonna feed into it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?A hard pill to swallow for me, but it’s true, that’s something I need to accept. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?Bars | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?While I do see the effectiveness of this method, and how the having kids example was a bad and cringey one, I think it’s the wrong method (to an extent). Admittedly, I may be a bit too forthcoming when approaching, but it’s also the way I am. And through the years I’ve come to the conclusion that the girls I attract by overly suppressing my natural self will eventually run into issues with them if I get it to “work”. I can’t hold up that nonchalant image forever, and then I won’t be the same per… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?I get some smiles relatively often, feels very wholesome. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?Very true. I definitely put a lot of emphasis on looks as a man, and incorrectly infer that women may put the same level of emphasis on it. I’ll work on it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?It is indeed a fine line I have not mastered haha. Sometimes it lands, and sometimes I get nervous and cross it to overcompensate a bit. Maybe it’s best to dial back and gauge their sensitivity level before going into that territory. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?That’s fair, I do notice I have put too much emphasis on looks and not enough on getting to know them, even if that’s a large part of my motivation to talk to them. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?I never thought of this, I appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?Damn. This resonates. Sometimes I do just crave some random human interaction and I can project that onto someone who might not be super used to it or into it. I’ll try feeling it out instead of expecting that everyone has the same need. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 12:59 AM |
| -4 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?I mean, perhaps I’m not everyone’s type of course but I don’t think it’s the case that I’m not attractive. Also, I am a bit short (5’8), so that may bring me down (hehe) a bit initially in terms of attractiveness as well. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 12:58 AM |
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