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| 1 | Rejection doesn’t hurt. What hurts is knowing you didn’t act.I’ve adopted this mindset from playing pool on the side at the bar. It’s a lot like pool; You may not be able to pot a ball, but you can still take your shot. You’ll be no better if you don’t shoot, but you only stand to improve your position by playing. Maybe you will pot the shot you didn’t think you could, or maybe you’ll pot a completely unexpected ball. But you won’t have any any chance if you don’t visit the table and play your shot. | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Eye contact in a crowded roomI bet your grandma could’ve taught me a thing or two | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 05:55 AM |
| 4 | How do you approach a woman if you don't know if you can perform sexually?It’s funny, I’ve had times where I’m battling to keep hard with a solid 8/10. Then I’ve woken up from a Thomas the tank engine dream at full mast and it won’t go away until I’ve finished my morning coffee | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 10:17 AM |
| 1 | What is your step by step make out strategy to turn on your date on when kissing?Google.com is a good source for googling stuff | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 11:53 AM |
| 2 | What is your step by step make out strategy to turn on your date on when kissing?Least you tried though | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 11:51 AM |
| 11 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?You can make a move without trying to take her to bed on the first date. If it’s someone I want to pursue further I avoid doing so. Leave it at a kiss. If she seems like she wants more, make her wait. If you make no moves, you’re probably going to end up in the friendzone, or not seeing her again because she’s not looking for friends. I’ve been down that road believe me. Gotta keep things exciting without giving too much. A great analogy is the cat and the toy on a string. Keep it too far from t… | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 10:35 AM |
| 41 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?I get you man, I do. But I’ve also become a massive admirer of building sexual tension over a couple dates. If she’s already trying to get you into the bedroom at the end of the first date, and you make her wait. My god.. Things get INTENSE and so much hotter, I don’t even know how to explain it to you aside from it becomes fucking primal. It’s like that moment you finally manage to squeeze out a stubborn shit, but 100x better. Once things get going it’s just ecstasy, you’ll be blowing your load… | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 10:24 AM |
| 8 | How do I seduce my barber?“Aww yeah, just like that, don’t stop!” Lmao | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Spotify Wrapped Are out- Your OpportunityIf you get a date with any of those women just make sure the chef knows not to use any seasoning on their dish | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 08:32 AM |
| 2 | “You are crazy”Negging can go both ways, could also be one of the many tests girls perform. Testing the waters for insecurities/how well you take it. If she says it with a smile or smirk it’s definitely not a bad thing. Play into it.. “Crazy good looking am I right?” “Crazy about x” “Crazy good at x” “Crazy enough to sit here talking to you” - playful neg | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Quick Visits to Bars, Does Staff Notice?OrangeVoxel summed it up pretty well there. I always talk with the bar staff, let’s them know you’re not going to cause trouble and eventually, if frequenting the same bars they’ll get to know you’re not a problem. Hell most the staff in one of the bars local to me actually wing for me now. Due to my work schedule I often end up doing mid week bar trips, and some days it’s just dead as a door nail. So I end up spending the time talking with the staff instead. The nights I come in and there’s pot… | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Man what is happening hereI would lie if I claimed I wasn’t tempted by the idea, I’m just surprised there’s not something stronger in place already considering the online PUA scene was massive back in the naughties. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 11:14 AM |
| 6 | Man what is happening hereThis is reddit after all, and stereotypes exist for a reason. I’m only here because I don’t know where else to find PUA communities. Currently deciding whether or not to become a more primary contributor here as I develop the art further | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Building sexual tensionLittle hungover today, so I’ll try sum it up in brief.. From each example it almost sounds like you’re coming across a bit desperate, first example is a bit tougher to gauge, so I’ll address the other 3 individually. You told her you liked her, after she rejected you? That was never going to work out, she rejected your offer for tea, you should’ve just left it there. If there was any interest, she would’ve chased you down later, instead you doubled down on a hard 20, no surprise you busted. Make… | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | When approaching a girl…Say you’ll give her your number, when she hands you her phone, text yourself something playful from her phone, like “Hey good looking.” Now she has yours, you have hers, and you can playfully tease her for calling you good looking in the first text | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 06:56 AM |
| 51 | Good indication she's single?You don’t need to ask directly, my favourite method involves using a statement that can also double as a way to gauge her level of interest. For example; You already mentioned asking “How do you spend your weekends?” Depending how she answers this, choose the girliest thing she mentioned and respond; “Oh I bet your boyfriend would LOVE doing that with you.” Say it jokingly, and seeing how she responds can give you an indication of her level of interest in you: She may give you a serious response… | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Clubbing soberOne option that I use sometimes is to order a Lemon Lime Bitters, it’s a non alcoholic cocktail that you can still have served in a pint. To most people, it’ll still appear you’re drinking, without actually getting drunk. If it really bothers you being the one not drinking, just tell people you always have it with a shot of vodka. Otherwise just own the fact you’re not drinking. Are you with friends? Even if not, you can leverage Mystery’s 5 DHVs or “attraction switches” by claiming to be the de… | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 01:25 AM |
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