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1	How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex? But what do you mean by go with the flow? By the sounds of it there isn't much flow to go with? You can't force these things, just be playful in the bedroom and earn her trust, these things take time	/r/seduction	17/05/16 02:25 AM
1	How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex? Probably best to do it with someone you've got long term aspirations for (not necessarily long term, but more than a fling). And depends on what you mean by success, I've had a lot of fun with it with a few girls but the key is to not expect anything from it, the only goal should be to find out more about your girl and have fun together	/r/seduction	17/05/16 02:05 AM
1	How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex? Yeah I totally understand, I think you have to do some groundwork outside of the bedroom, when you're flirting with her try and gauge her promiscuity, when she wears something sexy, tell her you think it looks good. When she says she's not ready or sex ask her if she'd be comfortable with other things and have a candid discussion about her boundaries it would be better to say "I understand you don't want to have sex, can we talk about our boundaries so we know what we can have fun with?". And du…	/r/seduction	16/05/16 04:43 PM
2	How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex? Traffic lights, basically you start off by sayin to your girl "Let's play a game, and you can do different things to me and I'll tell you how I'm feeling, green light = I like this do some more, yellow light = I'm not sure I like this/I'm getting nervous take it easy, red light = stop, I don't like it and at this point you should stop the game" ask her if she wants to go first or say the lights first to make her comfortable and then once one of you has had your turn, swap roles! Pro tip, don't j…	/r/seduction	16/05/16 04:38 PM
1	How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex? Depends on the context of why she's not ready for sex, I've found girls just want their first PIV with a long term partner to be special and are holding out for the right occasion but will generally be more open to other things. But yeah if you've just met this girl and there's a trust issue going on deff do not suggest a porno	/r/seduction	13/05/16 10:37 AM
1	Tinder game pointers Second photo doesn't do anything for your profile, from your opener (good opener IMO) we already know you can dress nice and we've got a decent idea of body shape/height. Consider putting the selfie with your dog as your second picture, chicks love dogs. And I also agree with other commenters, try throwing in a photo with friends or playing sport to show you're an interesting dude instead of selfies that look like they're taken at work, happy swiping :)	/r/seduction	13/05/16 10:06 AM
0	How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex? I think the best way to figure this out is outside the bedroom so that once you're in tree you don't have the buzzkill when she says "I'm not comfortable with that" Try asking her stuff like "what's something that turns you on that's not neccessarily sexual?" , "what do you think would be a fun thing to do in the bedroom that isn't sex?" You could even ask her if she'd want to watch a porno with you (seeing as you guys aren't having sex I'd keep it to the tasteful stuff rather than backdoor slut…	/r/seduction	13/05/16 09:52 AM
1	SCARED TO EXPRESS SEXUALITY AND FORMER RED PILLER NEED HELP PLEASE READ If you have friends that are girls try doing a night out with them and minimal (preferably none) other guys in your crew, beginning with the pre gaming, I think being around some "regular" girls while they get dolled up for a night out and interacting with them throughout the night in a purely platonic way will help erase some of the associations you have in your mind	/r/seduction	13/05/16 09:35 AM
1	Just Say It Still trying to figure it out... Little help?	/r/seduction	13/05/16 09:12 AM