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| 1 | How do you break the RP AWALT mold?“What does believing AWALT do for me?” That's the line between feminine and masculine thinking. You choose what to believe based on its utility to yourself. And don't even realise there's a cost to that. Which is a little ironic hear because awalt is to a large extent men learning to think like women. Men have to be told AWALT, not because they have personally learnt its true but because it is a useful belief, in the way women treat beliefs as a utility. But to answer quention, what does awalt d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men blame single moms for their children’s problems when men are the ones who abandon their kids?Men don't win custody in court very often. They choose not to fight because their lawyers advise them not to. And they actually have the best interests of the kids at heart a lot of the time and know that theyfre better off with primary cuntody withmteh mother. Your argument that "men don't fight for custody" is bullshit and even you've had that pointed out to you a million times by now. You just keep repeating it because you don't care whethet what you say is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Having Children Makes Women Less EqualBut they don't get to do that. Women works gettitg the houne clean atd then nhe does get to play withmthe kids at 3pm. The guy works in the office and he doesn't. Who wouldn't want the fun parts. Women get those. Men don't. Because where theyfre expected ho contribute makes it impossible to get that. While women who can spend much more time at home do the same amount of work but actually get the time to spend with the kids. Some of its work but they get way more fun time that fathers do despetie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men blame single moms for their children’s problems when men are the ones who abandon their kids?Yeah. So its the women's responsibility. Everyone's aware of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men blame single moms for their children’s problems when men are the ones who abandon their kids?Didn't women work their asses off to get that right? You don't think it has any value? Hey everyone TheMarbleSlab thinks the right to abortion isn't worth shit. Lets just just take that right away again. Apparently nobody thinks it matters. Did you hear that feminists? All that fighing was for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men blame single moms for their children’s problems when men are the ones who abandon their kids?Guy would happily take responsibility for the consquences of that. If could, he'd get an abortion. Its not up to him. Its up to the women. Her body, her choice, her respoonsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Having Children Makes Women Less EqualDo you live on some planet full of psychos? The guy spending 70 hours a week to provide for his family would rather be dealing with fuckwits at 6pm on a friday, still two hours away from being home? Or could have finished at 3pm, be nice and relaxed at home and have the energy, health and time to play with his kids in the yard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men blame single moms for their children’s problems when men are the ones who abandon their kids?Your body your choice, your responsibility. I don't know any guys that go around happy that they knocked up some chick they were sleeping with. Almost all of them would choose an abortion if they could. But its not up to them. Its up to the women who decides to be a mother. Her body, her choice, her responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Having Children Makes Women Less EqualIf you place no value on the children themnelves then it makes women less equal. But what happens when children are considered to have value to the parents? And if that value exists in the time spent with them? Fathers get significantly less time with their children. And their rights to that access are much more tenuous and a lot more costly to keep. Men who don't provide lose access to their children, and in the case of divorce they are often paying a lot for children they can barely access. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men How is this sub making you feel about dating/approaching women? More red pilled or blue?"Solopsisism" ... I am not sure it explains a lot. Women's solopsism i psrobably the hardest part of the red pill to swallow. Its not easy to even believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men How is this sub making you feel about dating/approaching women? More red pilled or blue?Pragmatism does not imply solipsism I did not mean that. The solpsisim is seperate and exists on its own. But solipsism does have a lot of implications for pragmatic truth if the only reality you care about is the social one. Solopsisism was one of the hardest things to learn about women. But it explains a lot. Perhaps its best summed up in a Rick and Morty character Unity. Does other people's identity matter if you could just turn them into a extension of yourself and that would make them happy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What is your view on women who don't want children?Both true. But still the point that you nevet know if a person will never want kids in the future holds. Its an interesting philisophical question. How much can you trust current you to make decisons on behalf of future you. And how much does knowing a person today mean for knowing them in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men How is this sub making you feel about dating/approaching women? More red pilled or blue?It's called pragmatic theory of truth. What works fr everyone is true. What works for me, but not for others... well, maybe we can call it personal truth? It comes back to solipsism. If you're solopsist then there is only personal truth. Nothing else. Not even underlying reality. When combined with a hamster that is hyper aware of social utility, that also controls a person's personal truth you get what we see when dealing with women or guys who think like them. In which direction is a school of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men How is this sub making you feel about dating/approaching women? More red pilled or blue?You haven't learnt much if you think that is true. Their approaches are much more subtle, social nad effective than what you're aware of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | What is your view on women who don't want children?I don't believe them until they're 45, still childless and genuinely happy. Your case is different because your circumstances have forced this on you. Most people don't know with certainty how they will feel when they are older. IIRC voluntary sterilisation of young women has a 20% regret rate later in life. Which is pretty high when you consider how hard it is to get that procedure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men How is this sub making you feel about dating/approaching women? More red pilled or blue?I was already red, but had some kind of hope I guess that there was more to it than I was seeing. I wanted to see what women who understood the red pill were seeing from their side of things. The hope was that intelligent open minded women could provide insight that I couldn't get from my perspective. There was a little bit of that. Especially in the older days when you had a commenter or two like u/girlwriteswhat. I was hoping for a lot more of that. I assumed intelligence --> insight --> under… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Why is it ok for women to talk about masculinity but not the other way round?It used to be normal for men to tell women how to be women. It was called religion. It was pretty messed up so men have lost a lot credibility when it comes to the topic of how to be a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP:Is Male Love BP Pedestaling?I already explained it in a previous comment. Male love is bonding to a particular person in a way that is not dependent on their value to him. It forms in parallel after initial attraction. Attraction and proximity trigger the formation of this bond but they're not it. Its bonding to the person. Not their attractiveness (or status, capabilities, wealth, usefulness etc) Its a very simple concept. The fact it does not make sense to you says more about your concept of love. But as I said, you acce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP:Is Male Love BP Pedestaling?he can love both but he'll love Jennifer more There you go thinking attraction = love That belief is incorrect, for men. Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of. The inverse of that statement is just as true. Men love women in a way that women do not beleive is possible. You don't know what male love is, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP:Is Male Love BP Pedestaling?Except a woman's love is always guaranteed.... providing you still provide her with what she wants. expects ftfy What a women expects is outside any man's control. Especially when she's bombarded with facebook, instagram and advertising. The only thing guaranteed about a women's expectations is that they will increase over time. A man must continually raise the quality of his partner's life in order to meet those expectations. The stagnant economy hsa made that hard today. Eventually probably mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | What do you think gender relations will be like in 20 years from now?There's half a billion asian women and almost all of them have very little money. International migration gets easier every year. Guys are just going to look outside the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"Because most divorces are initiated by women and men's expectations of marriage are basically sexist and unacceptable. Women's are just as sexist, but they're acceptable. But women don't have to tell anyone what those expertations are because many of them are codified into family law, while men's expectations/(hopes these days) have been (rightly) removed from family law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/19 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"Guys don't really mature until about 27, often much later. An early 20's girl is going to need the assistance of trusted family and older friends to choose a reliable husband. Traditionally pairing women and men into husbands ands involved both families and had a much wider set of experience to draw on than a couple of 20 year olds. Even today arratced marriages neem to be more successful on average than self selected ones. You were in an impossible position when selecting your husband from what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"She's always had that expectation, Is there aty reason they dot't commuticate those expectations before marriage? My experietce suggests women are unaware of their own expectations of a husband. Certainly before marriage, and sometimes even when they're married. People often have expectations you're unaware of. It feels to me like women believe they want certain things from marriage, but their expectations (that they're unaware of) are actually different to what they believe they want out of a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | [Q4TRP especially but to everyone] 30+ guys acting their age and not younger. What exactly does that mean and how do you do it?One common point of trp seems to be that guys over 30 shouldn't act, dress or look young, because girls who like older guys want them to actually BE more mature and different from dudes her age, plus they'll never do it quite as organically and naturally as 20s guys anyway. Knowing what matters and be taking care of that. knowing whose opnion matter and being unaffected by those outside that select group. Deciding for yourself what you will and not do and knowing why and being unaffected by othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Men do this too. When they are looking for a partner; yes they may look for a hot, kind of dumb girl to sleep around with - but when they are ready, they want to find the submissive, can hold a conversation, secure (whether it's in likelyhood to divorce or cheat) everyone is looking out for themselves and a partner that can supply those needs with the less risk (whatever that means to them) as possible. Youfre doing that thing women do where they think the only guys that exist are the ones theyf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | What women mean when they say things like "sex would ruin our friendship"? Why friendship and sex are mutually exclusive?You weren’t invited to the buffet in the first place, homeboy Plenty of attractive women offer up the possibility of a bite to keep guys around. They're well aware of what they are doing but will of course deny it. Plenty of women are also not doing that. From a guy's point of view its not easy to tell the difference a lot of the time. Either way its just a bad idea for an average guy to be friends with an attractive women. You can be friends with anyone. Why choose all the problems that come wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4TRP: Are older women as big of an issue as claimed?fertility later into their adulthood. That's largely a myth. You hear a lot of stories in the media about older women having babies but thats mostly to make their audience feel good. There are excellent treatments to help with fertility but they are very expensive and their success rates are low. There's a general impression that later in life babies are easy today but thats not the reality. The impression is driven by marketing interests and educated older women are often devastated to learn ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you think we will see a shift in heterosexual males going for transwoman?If you're curious you can easily verify the low hanginging fruit of the post by popping on xhamster or xvideos nad whatever hsa replaced backpage in your nearest major city or looking up its legal European equivalent. But I kind of doubt you're actually curious whether its true or not and probably just want all this to not be true. People who immediately ask for sources for things that are not all that extraordinary that they could easily verify for themself are not usually very sincere about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we will see a shift in heterosexual males going for transwoman?Yes. There's been a big rise in trans porn and trans prostitution. As far as the mainstream is concerned trans is a relatively new thing and its taken some time for different sections of the public to understand how they're going to approach it. Most of the discussion has been whta you see in the media and generally a virtue signalling race through public acceptance by leftists and general uncomfortableness from the conservative side. A smaller thing has been the radfem response of TERF. What ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | (discussion) Why is this so ignored when discussing promiscuity/hook ups?The answer to the question "so why do so many women hook up if they don't want to?" Validation. The answer is validation. I haven't got the source handy but surveys have shown the primary reason women engage in casual sex is not sexual pleasure. Its self/esteem validation. Its why women keep doing it despite the terrible sex. And why they go for attractive narcissits who are terrible in bed instead of guys who are more likely to be focused on their pleasure. It doesn't matter if the sex is good.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Are we close to legalize prostitution?Its legal or decriminalised in more places than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/19 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4All - How well do you remember past sexual experiences with former partners?She doesn't love you, she loves how you make her feel. Guys are pretty interrhangable for women so its not surprising women remember their own emotions of the experience more than the guy and what happened. A guy would have to rack up a fairly high n-count for sex to get that forgettable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/19 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Introverted men are losers. Change my mind.You don't know much about male hierachies if you thitk loud men are the onen at the top. But that's not surprising since mont women don't understand how men relate to each other. A lot guys don't either these days. At a very basic level being loud signals insecurity. A guy needs to know he is being heard to feel he is respected and has some kind of role and status. Its hommon to see berause we npend no much time in new/temporary social groups. When youfre at a bar most people don't know each oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | has the massive presence of incel/blackpill ideologyturned this sub into RP/BP/PP against Black pill?People donft realise how much of RP has become mainstream. To the extent some "common sense" things today were isolated Red Pill ideas five years ago. Red Pill means being exposed to ideas that are difficult to accept. If they have become commonly accepted they're no longer strictly RP. Plus we've moved onto the "Open Hypergamy" society. Women are doing so well edicationally and economically the beta bux model of relationships is dying. Women do not want a provider so feel no need to hide their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | "6 figures" and no gut isn't really all that high value or impressiveI love helping people with things they need help for or where our workitg together given us more than workitg alone. I kind of despise people who act helpless to get things out of people they could easily do for themselves because they want attention, or to feel taken care of, or they want to test how much influence they have aver another person. ie what women are doing a lot of the time. Helping a three year old choose dinner and keeping them emotionally stable. Heart warming. I love doing that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | "6 figures" and no gut isn't really all that high value or impressiveI completely understand that. I can easily do it very well. I can take a women to a dinner date ta my house and make her foods she's never tried. Direct her around the kitchen assisting me until she's wet before we even start eating. I've literally done this. I know its hot. I know that intelligent independent career women eat that shit up even more than average women. But I don't want to date a fucking child. WAY hotter if her DATE helped her navigate the menu. Like showing care and showing kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | We know women don’t want to sex every man, okay so now what?Legalised and acceptable prostitution. If 5-8/10 women are having sex with 10/10 Chads who will not relationship them then those women are in no position to judge men who pay for sex. There are plenty of cultures where prostitution is normalised, even for married men. The anglo countries are simply going to have to get over their prudishness and accept the same. An unappreciated change in the SMP is that prostitution rates are absolutely exploding over the last 15 years. And the story is a lot b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 11:18 PM |
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