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I get your point, and maybe I read too much into the tweet, but I still don’t think it’s equivalent. Detached sex isn’t the same as faking interest to get something. The intent matters. One’s selfish, the other’s deceptive. The other examples you gave land better imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:02 PM
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I don’t think it’s quite the same. The tweet seems to be calling out deceptive behavior, which isn’t necessarily present in emotionally detached sex. When men have sex with women they don’t like, both parties typically consent and have a mutual understanding of the interaction, even if it’s shallow. Sure, the woman might hope for something more, but that’s not the same as deliberately pretending to be emotionally invested just to get something the other person wouldn’t have given otherwise. A cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:59 AM
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They're definitely not the "best partners", as that underlying resentment tends to surface sooner or later. Still, it’s true that some women who appear particularly antagonistic or hostile toward men will sometimes display extreme submission toward the first man who accepts or tolerates their behavior—which isn’t healthy either. It’s almost as if their animosity toward men functions as a kind of compensation mechanism.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/25 02:59 PM
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“At least three findings are consistent… (1) offenders are more likely to kill male victims than female victims… One plausible reason why offenders may desire to kill the victim is to avoid retaliation.” — Source EDIT: Corrected source link.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/25 01:36 PM
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That's just a statement, not a fact.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/25 01:27 PM
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Prenatal expenses are actually covered by child support in some countries if the mother requests it. There's a push for that in the US too ("Unborn Child Support Act").
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:54 AM
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Here are the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:47 PM
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Here are the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:47 PM
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Was that the original goal, though? The patriarchy conspiracy theory is essentially antimale and it's been around since the dawn of feminism AFAIK.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/23 08:58 PM
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"Women can't opt out of pregnancy? That's Christian Taliban." Come on, have some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:32 AM
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a beautiful woman expects you to pay for giving you her company and being seen with you Yes, escorts usually charge per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:04 AM
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I wonder how many bad date stories are wildly exaggerated just because the man didn't fulfill some stupid expectation...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:57 AM
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they don’t hold all the power anymore Have they ever? Powerful people may be mostly men, but they're definitely not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:40 AM
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you’ll never experience the touch and care of a woman And we're back to the old "men's worth is defined by their ability to have sex", which essentially portrays women as sex objects through which men get validation. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:35 AM
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Is there any evidence that women avoid cycling because it's too dangerous?
/r/MensRights06/10/23 01:33 PM
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sharing their standards leads to people having an image in their mind. So you agree that standards are harshly judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:09 PM
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You did feel the need to be quite apologetic with your own standard, and even more blatantly with the "virgin standard". Kinda proves OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:06 PM
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You're getting the order of things wrong. Andrew Tate et. al got popular because nobody cared in the first place. It's disingenuous to say that now people don't take mens' issues seriously and they're to blame.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 01:16 PM
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why does everyone tutting about dating being hard for men take this borderline extortionist attitude of “if men dont get pussy, they’ll burn society to the ground”, when it’s not being borne out in reality. From another comment on PPD: "Men are net taxpayers. Women don't generally start paying INTO the tax system until their kids are in their double digits, and a lot of women never really cut even. It's a long document, a great read (New Zealand), but ultimately the goodies are page 23-24. incom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:27 PM
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The nice guy stereotype is blown way out of proportion. While there are cases of "if you don't wanna fuck me, you're an ugly whore", many guys are genuinely nice and fill the criteria for a "good man". The guy may be seemingly everything a girl says/thinks she wants in a partner, but she's just not attracted to him. So to reduce their guilt, women villify "nice guys" and ascribe evil intention to them. In other words, the nice guy stereotype is meant to cover up the fact that women are, in fact,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:57 AM
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20% of relationships started as casual sex/FWB. So... most don't? I'm not sure how that supports your argument. ​ I doubt that having a social circle would beat out approaching 1000 times. I guess that may be true to an extent; a larger sample size logically increases your chances of finding someone, especially for casual sex. But the success rate sounds frustating, and it certainly doesn't seem to be working for OP, who says the "numbers game" makes you "dead inside". I was suggesting an altern…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:44 AM
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Casual sex is difficult for men who are not conventionally attractive, which is how OP describes himself. I'm not sure if "meaningless" is the word, but it is shallow. For attractive men, there is a clear separation between women they'd hook up with and women they'd be in a relationship with. It's true that the casual sex game is mostly based on looks, which rules out many men. I'm arguing that the cold approach method is especially ineffective for those men and will only lead to frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:58 AM
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My point is that the "approach" method is wrong. It may work for casual things, but since that's largely based on looks, you're out of luck if you're not conventionally attractive. The chances of anything meaningful out of a cold approach are almost zero. And when you're just trying to approach women you're attracted to, you'll look desperate. Consider that women are also approached thousands of times. Unless you're quite attractive, you'll just be another one. The best way to meet women is bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:43 PM
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You have "approached" thousands of women? How many female friends did you make in the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:50 PM
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I'm curious on how you get to your "a lots" and "oftens". I can say with as much evidence that a lot of women think it's a turn off when men ask instead of reading their minds, so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:53 PM
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There was a time I would think a story like that must be fake; "No way there are people that stupid outside the internet". Not anymore.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 06:55 AM
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Sexual compatibility can be exercised with open conversation and genuine desire to learn about each other. Which can only happen if you check the other boxes (caring, etc). Bad sex will lead to frustration, but it's not a hopeless situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:13 PM
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She's peeing on you, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:09 AM
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Seems like he's using his penis on multiple women as well. Which shouldn't be a big deal with condoms and washing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:08 AM
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Most women don't want to be with a guy with a huge body count. I don't know about that. The fact that one of the most common insults used to degrade men in general is "virgin" tells me otherwise. Also men's universal experience of being hit on much more by women while in relationships vs while single.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:43 PM
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Women aren't necessarily impressed by a high body count per se, but they're definitely repulsed by the extreme opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:45 AM
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Must be very sad to be so angry and at the same time so obsessed with an imaginary enemy.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 01:35 PM
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That I can agree with. It's just that I've seen the definition of "harassment" being more and more stretched recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:41 PM
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Of course the difference between sexual harassment is whether or not the attention is distance and reciprocal, why the fuck would it be any different? The problem is that there's no objective definition of sexual harassment in that logic. The same flirting behavior can be acceptable depending on whether the woman is attracted to the man or not. But how will he know beforehand when they haven't met and he's trying to approach the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:43 AM
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For men, responsiveness increases sexual attraction, while the same is not true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:13 PM
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The "nice guy" negative stereotype is actually just a way to avoid the conversation about the fact that women do make bad choices on partners, which has been widely demonstrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:37 AM
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The "nice guy" negative stereotype is actually just a feminist talking point meant to cover up the fact that women do make bad choices regarding romantic/sexual partners, which has been demonstrated by research.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:50 AM
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Good news.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/22 04:57 AM
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Women really don't know shit about dick sizes.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/21 10:57 AM
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It's funny how you try to argue that women bring more to the table than sex, but then play the "incel" card, which is essentially an attempt to shame men basing their value on how much sex they get.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/21 01:12 PM
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"The majority of child abuse is committed by women, so we should keep women away from children."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/21 03:19 AM
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She expects everyone to go after the man in defense of her, because that's what she thinks she deserves no matter what.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 06:46 AM
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