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| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadtf does this have to do with raping me. the idea that a guy would use roofies as an argument that men aren't treated like humans is horrifying. men have to roofie people so that they get treated like people (they get sexed with) is not insane to you?? 😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadreading stuff like this makes me never want to interact with men again 😰🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you ever rejected a man to test his determination in chasing you?After the inital invite, he got a gf for a few months before they broke up. It was only after that I learned he was kinda desperate for a gf. He did flirt with me a bit after the breakup. I just kept it friendly though since I didn't really know what to do with the situation. My rejection wasn't a direct noso maybe that's why it turned out like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you ever rejected a man to test his determination in chasing you?I have, sort of. I also just confused why he was interested in me. After seeing him a few times after (weekly group event, not date) I learned that his family was pressuring him really hard to get a girlfriend, so I doubt he was really that into me and was just throwing invites at women he thought could make it work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:47 PM |
| 7 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?I think the things you're describing align more with cuteness than femininity as a whole (which is why people are saying its childish when it's only sorta). And whether cuteness is a feminine trait is debatable. There's nothing technically wrong with liking these traits but I won't deny that it's kind of weird and I would wanna know why it's appealing to you. A lot of people are going to guess either midly pedo or a particular infatuation with japan (cuteness is not as popular in other east asia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:44 PM |
| 0 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?Doesn't toxic masculinity refer to a toxic masculine standard that pressures men into perpetuating negative traits? For example, the subliminal message from society to men is that men aren't allowed to cry and that a man who cries is "less of a man" (not masculine enough) which results in men repressing sadness and just becoming angry instead. This man who has been told to repress then applies the same standards to others, and so the cycle remains and no progress remains, which is toxic. This ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real.Feminism came as a rebellion to the corrupted and tyranical oppression that began growing in higher levels of government...there is no compassion, or love, because the feminine has been so repressed by government I felt like this was objectively false but if I really think about it you can really phrase this differently to make it make sense. What you're arguing is that women felt the need to have the right to vote and live independently from men due to society favoring capital and greed which i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | What is 1 specific thing The Red Pill is wrong about in your eyes?Biggest thing imo is so much incessant need to justify any "truth" as biological. Takes like "all men would be polygamous if they could" or "men's needs and attraction are biologically justified" or even "women are predisposed to cheat on a partner because of her baser instincts" is ridiculous. People are monkeys but we are humans for a reason- we can think with at least some sort of logic outside of biological need to reproduce. I'd argue most things are a social condition rather than biologica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?...As far as i'm aware this is joked abt by trans people themselves on a certain horrendous forum. As to whether it's purely ironic or somewhat true is up for you to decide i guess. If you don't have any aversity to transwoman, I don't see why they aren't already in your dating pool. I'd probably suggest avoiding pursuing trans people specifically (being a chaser) cause it's not cool behavior. idk why people are saying it's gay, cause if she looks like a woman and you're attracted to woman that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Using bullshit "science" and self deluded garbage to justify being cruel to women - how can "red pill/manosphere" stuff ever be considered legitimate if they tolerate this community?They consider it valid because there are fundamental delusions that need to be believed in order to actually subscribe to redpill. AF/BB, hypergamy, that they have been personally slighted by society(women). If you don't believe in these pillars of RP you will probably think redpillers are insane, while redpillers will say women having individual preference and choice in what man she dates is eugenics and causing historical suffering without batting an eye. I totally agree w you btw, whenever I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:52 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on the idea of AF/BB?I think it's true but ONLY for a small set of the population. Or maybe it's some white people shit I don't know about and it's in fact the majority... But from my impression of living in America, it's an incredibly minor issue. Like maybe it applies mostly to OLD and that's it. There is already a fundamental issue where I really don't think women go out of their way to fuck so often. Women on this sub already talk about how they don't need sex as bad as men need it, so how it became "women only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore, the main issue nowadays is virginshaming.I am basically op one year younger, virgin and kissless, but have never been shamed for it or anything. If anything, my peers are all like me too, virgin and kissless(lmao). I wouldn't consider any of us particularly unattractive either. The entire shaming thing just feels so outlandish, to me at least. When it comes to woman's circles (in my experience) having sex isn't a super big thing and rarely talked about, I can't imagine a peer shaming me for it, or even pressuring me to do it. If what O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore, the main issue nowadays is virginshaming.I'm so confused when it comes to topics like these. Do you care to divulge any personal details, like area/demographics you're part of??? When it comes the these kinds of general posts about "the majority", where predominant amount of people are allegedly having promiscuous casual sex, making fun of virgins, it feels incredible exaggerated since I've never felt this way ever. I have never felt pressured to have sex ever or have people around me who are as promiscuous as RP make women out to be. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | The last posts about intimacy and standards show how disconnected women is from the average men reality and how discussion is mainly a pointless effortlmao good answer 😂 i think we have an agreement here then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | The last posts about intimacy and standards show how disconnected women is from the average men reality and how discussion is mainly a pointless effortmales to only being sexual animals, while trying to simultaneously claim that men don't just want sex and failing to illustrate any needs that men have or want beyond sex. implied claim: men claim to not be hypersexual animals but fail to explain anything they want in a relationship beyond sex Ever cuddled with a guy which then eventually led to sex? To us, all parts of intimacy are tied up in one big ball, with sex being the ultimate form of closeness. implied refute: cuddling often leads to se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved?men are not wrong for wanting relationships that include sex, but sex is typically touted on this sub as the end game of a relationship or something, like it's the only thing or reason to be in a relationship for. If a relationship basically centers completely around sex then that's just a FWB or if there's money involved, a live-in prostitute. And if there's a period of time where the woman can't satiate a man's "needs" because she is ill, etc, then the relationship is suddenly worthless? All b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenI also agree that hanging out with an ex under most cases is not appreciated, but relationships are more detailed than a few sentences. It's not unheard of for ex's to be platonic, having had a clean mutual breakup and still be pals. Nonetheless it's still an outlier under most circumstances. As for social media, I just think social media is much more than s/o shopping, unlike OLD, where the primary use case is probably looking at stupid memes, see local events, having study group chats, seeing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenAt what stage do you believe "earned trust" is absurd? What someone considers "trust generating behavior" is different person to person. What if being totally platonic with an ex is considered trustworthy since you can see them clearly not being romantic. What if a RP man considers coming home late from work is too suspicious and untrustworthy and bad. Going out with friends without your supervision, is that untrustworthiness? At what point is this earning trust not weaponizing your favor to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.I do agree but only in terms of this sub; specifically the posts where men complain about not being able to get sex, but then saying that they want sex for the intimacy. I definitely feel like it's more about the validation of feeling sexually wanted. I know plenty of women who are just fine without having sex, yet this entire "needing sexual intimacy" thing really does seem to be a specific brand of men who feel like dying without it... not to be pedantic, but if you are considering suicide bc … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | It seems most men pursue women for social status rather than loving relationships or companyI sort of agree after doomscrolling on this sub for so long. Redpill men on this sub express a strong dislike towards women in general, like claiming they are all shallow or have too high standards, but then allegedly seek companionship and "love" from these people who are so shallow and awful. If they don't want just sex, but also don't like these people, then what else could they be pursuing other than status? Ofc, men aren't a monolith just like women aren't either. I'm sure there are men out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How many of you here have actually questioned what you believe?I came to this sub because I questioned my belief on people who talk about AFBB/Nice guys vs bad boys/etc redpill tropes, since logically I could not make sense how anyone could come to these conclusions. I have since learned the logic more, but it's still pretty baseless imo, but I don't think of redpill men as deranged anymore(still deranged, but less so). Also my view of men has become a lot more negative, of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?I wanna say I wouldn't go out of my way to date a player on the basis that I don't find sex a super important part of a relationship, and I don't need someone who is super crazy good at it or having a super high sex drive. If men want to be promiscuous they're free to do so, but personally for someone I would like to date I would prefer they weren't. As for what I personally look for in a man is someone who isn't pushy or loud, I guess? I'm someone who is really comfortable being alone, so rathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 11:31 PM |
| 3 | You cannot blame men (fully) for being very cynical about women these days.I had a convo 2 days ago with a man on this sub who said I'm crazy and need to go outside just for being wary of men, since apparently "everyone is like that" and it's not an issue related to women at all. it's hard to take any of these guys seriously anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.Maybe you're the one that needs to get outside and figure out that nobody assigns values to people. Of course the majority of men don't want to take my life, but it's the fact that I would have no idea who would and if one really spontaneously did want to I would be fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.Who cares about value? Who is measuring this value? What does this value even mean?? Are you trying to say since women are attractive, theyre more valuable and therefore privileged?? Because more people want to fuck them? Yes it's a privilege that women are protected, I still don't know what you're trying to say. Its a bandaid solution for women being weak, so it's not an actual privilege but more of just putting us on a more equal playing field. If you were racing a baby and they made the lengt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 06:17 PM |
| 6 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?This has to be the most embarrassing shit I've read today. None of these "feminist" or "bluepill" takes really directly refute the claim you're trying to refute, and the quotes sounds like phrases a 15yo reactionary republican would make up. If this is the things men are believing that are "opposite" then maybe they're just lacking critical thinking. Like, you really think feminism/bluepill is discouraging people from being social?? lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.a Woman's value majority of the time is based on her look/appearance Being sexually desirable is not the most useful thing, so I don't understand how this is "valuable." If you believe being not sexually desirable means a woman/person is less valuable, then this is some core value that I probably can't change your mind on. they also have the privilege to be more protected by Society and other Men than your average Joe So it has some sort of balancing. I don't know what point you're making, men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?I thought that was obvious lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 04:23 PM |
| 7 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Could you elaborate, since im curious? So are young men by default thinking the opposite of these things? This list is just common sense to me, of course most people do not give a fuck about your feelings, only people you have developed relationships will, and of course you have to dress well and are judged based on your appearance. Just flip the genders and I feel that it's basically what women just know. The only thing that differs is probably how to attract women, since women are usually taug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:46 AM |
| 4 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.I think I just don't get how attention from women is not saying something about said person's character, or how it's particularly special other than getting bestowed a mental note of trustworthiness, such as a woman being friends with a man and other women are less wary of him because of it. If you mean men's attention is not viewed not as positive by women, it's probably because men have low fuck standards and is thus interpreted as an ingenuine comment trying to get into her pants. I'm sure we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:12 AM |
| 8 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.Women have a lot of sexual value and some social privileges, for example, a woman will never be seen as a threat, are often interpreted and more "trustworthy" than men. However this is reading off kinda weird. Like #3, what is the source of this? Does the attention from women directed at men have to be a sexual one? Because the "attention of women is seen as valuable" can just be read as "women interact with non-misogynists" easily. In addition, if this post is to outline the ways women are more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?Your reasonings are totally true, I do think hookup culture and people like Tate really taint women's perspective one men. However I was thinking more along the lines of violence and more general misogyny (not that Tate doesn't embody that haha). For example, scrolling through r/whenwomenrefuse is a really easy way for me to become wary of men for while. And I totally also think lack of casual sex may be an immigrant thing; I have a few more American acquaintances (2nd gen immigrants, white, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?Personally I really think women who participate in casual hookups are a minority; majority of my friends are virgins, some have had few longish term relationships, and I can think of only one who has casual sex. But since I am a child of a immigrants most of my friends are too and it might just be a cultural bias on my sample size; party life is not a life for us (we are also mostly introverted). I also think it takes a lot of trust/faith in men to be naked in front of them, and if I have learne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?it is, tbh. but who knows, anyone could become patient zero to pathenogensis one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?I'm a virgin and scared of being pregnant when my period is late. Can't imagine my level of nervousness if I was having sex regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?I agree!!! Had no idea ppl on this sub think this is a controversial statement, they're treating its offensive or something 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Why are you still single?men are scary and I try to keep my interactions as neutral as possible with them; leave no room for flirting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?😭😭 this is enough ppd for me today. just buy a fleshlight if women are only good for sex. just scrap the whole fucking dating market already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wear make up, get plastic surgery, and dress sexy for themselves and not for attention or to attract men?there's a documentary on women only prisons and how hard they fight to get any kind of makeup whether it's crayons or paint. they even go the lengths of selling their bodies to bribe prison guards to get their hands on makeup, not the reverse. I think it's pretty clear women don't wear makeup to entice men. I do think women have been conditioned from a young age to want to look beautiful, not only to men or women but also to themselves which means complying with the societal beauty standard, whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | For the regulars that debate here and often lock horns, Why?I initially came to this sub to see differing opinions but now I come here to doom scroll. the shit men say on here is so outlandish and detached from reality. they will take any random fact and twist it into some afbb shit it's actually kinda funny. they're exceptionally talented! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 5 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveMoney, as in not broke has a potential career/job. Looks, as in not dirty, well groomed and not just the same outfit everyday. Status, not be a criminal. I can't think of any other status tbh. "Butterflies" so he's very kind/considerate and I get along with him, have similar hobbies or something. I've talked to my friends and most of them say this type of thing. Most women aren't looking for 6ft 6 figures wealthy chads at my age at least. If this "decent" is too hard for most men then rip them i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How big a deal is it if your partner never initiates sexsounds great👍ace x ace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:57 PM |
| 11 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveI agree soo much. I don't understand where these guys are even getting the conclusion of women only wanting money. idk if I can say the same about men wanting sex since I feel like there are posts daily about that. women will literally have their standards be a guy who is a decent human being and men on this sub scream cry throw up over it saying that she doesn't love him for who he is. I think reading the bullshit in this sub has made me asexual because I am incapable of seeing men as capable o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | The main reason I only want to seriously date a virgin is ego and i feel 100% justified in that fact.I'm gonna be honest- this sub has led me to believe that most redpill guys are like op... so what does a redpill man stand for if not this? genuine question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so?well that would be sad for the other party if they can't enjoy it, and it would make op seem really unfair to be implying women are shallow for this need when he himself also wants to enjoy it :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:57 AM |
| 5 | How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so?this is easy. there are plenty of asexual women out there who don't care about your dick! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Does unconditional love truly exist?If I were in a relationship with a man I loved, and he starts to beat me, then I would probably stop loving him. So no, I don't think loving is ever unconditional. But I think you could debate that the act of loving and love are different things. I have had various friendships that I've ended over people taking advantage of me, etc. Yet, I think I would say I still love these people, but I stopped giving them love because it was harming me. Loving someone isn't hard, but maintaining a relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.idk what you think my original point was, but my original point was that there are subreddits dedicated to specific "influencers" (ex: bella poarch with 200k members) that garner numerous followers. If women were so enamored with appearances you would find subreddits dedicated to specific men who fit this "Chad" criteria with high numbers because women are so "picky" I would never say "women never do this" because women aren't a monolith, but I don't think minor niche communities dedicated to a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 2 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.LMAO, the reason I specifically chose r/ladybonersgw is because it's the only one I can find that's specifically for women. Given that r/GaybrosGoneWild has over 100k more members than them, its hard to say any dick subreddit is going to be mostly women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.in terms of distribution there are way more men participating in this practice than women is what I'm talking about. are there any subs catered to straight women that has notably more members than r/ladybonersgw ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are your sexual values and why?I don't wanna have sex until marriage cause it sounds scary. I would really rather have a deep emotional relationship with someone before I am willing to do anything of the sort. as for bjs... idk sticking a flesh stick in my mouth doesn't seem very appealing. My only perspective on this is porn tho and it looks kinda degrading and gross (same with sex). Hopefully my experience will be different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 7 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.idk about other women but I'm definitely not getting attractive men from algorithms, because when I'm on social media I'm not looking at men. I've heard that algorithms may recommend attractive women to men, but I've never heard of the opposite. If what you say was true, there would probably be subreddits dedicated to these men the same way there are subreddits dedicated to being horny over various women. I think the closest we got to hot men subreddits might be kpop stan groups... idols who are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men?I don't really understand how getting famous on tiktok has to do with fantasies about celebrities? In the public eye most celebrities are acting out a specific persona anyway, sort of like caricatures of themselves, so I find it hard to not say a fantasy version of a celebrity is fictional. ig it's still kinda like... mentally cheating maybe? I will say fantasising such a thing on a consistent basis would be concerning, or if they've interacted with the person irl various times and are still doi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:01 AM |
| 2 | How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men?I'm curious what would be the border of fine and not fine- fantasizing about sex with a celebrity is almost the equivalent of fantasizing about a fictional character because no one actually knows what celebraties are like outside of their stardom. This hypothetical s/o is thinking about some unobtainable ideal that even they know doesn't exist (if they do they are delusional to some degree). I'm sort of seeing it as like a guy jerking off to some really kinky porn and having post nut clarity abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 2 | How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men?I think you have a point when you say fantasies with coworkers/friends is a breach of trust, but once u reach anyone who is a "stranger" (including any celebrity) then it's fine because it's a more outlandish, inpersonal relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).I'm curious why youre describing young men unsuccessful in romantic relationships as "lonely" and even "hopeless". Is being lonely, hopeless, and successful entirely encapsulated by whether or not you manage to get into a romantic relationship with a singular person, when there so many meaningful platonic relationships that can be made with many? These men aren't hopeless, even if they say they are. Your lack of success on dating apps (which suck, btw) does not mean you are a undesirable, and I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 07:40 PM |
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