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goatxoxoxo/r/MGTOW209/10/20 12:08 PM
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This was by far one of most depressing posts I've seen on this sub. The truth is even if she doesn't wish to perform those acts now out of preference, she has done it with someone else and that too to a much greater extent. She has enjoyed it immensely and OP has video proof of that. The other women saying they were coerced into it or whatever doesn't matter, we have video proof she enjoyed it. OP literally asked for vanilla stuff, spanking or pulling back her hair or holding her down. That is n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 07:27 AM
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IFKR! Literally every woman on the sub jumps to her defence with all evidences against her! Apparently video evidences are not enough! 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 05:13 AM
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I find it really intriguing that almost all of the top voted posts on the thread are by women. It's high time to get red-pilled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 03:08 PM
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I understand. But I think the common preference is otherwise you know. That's all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 05:41 AM
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A man providing for the kids and taking care of the woman is the dad, what's unnatural about them calling him dad? She wants him to wait till they grow up enough to realize whether he's their dad or not?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 05:38 AM
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So, do the job a father is supposed to do for her kids and her but you have no right to be called their father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 05:18 AM
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god level translation. apt and accurate to every single letter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 07:57 AM
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it's more of a "find a man to depend on" kind of career
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 02:31 PM
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"newly qualified" she's literally just started a career at 34...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 12:48 PM
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"we get played for a decade"?! NO. YOU PLAY AWAY FOR A DECADE.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 03:57 AM
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if he was any younger and better built, he'd definitely get laid 3x more..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 05:30 PM
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lmao 😂😂😂😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 11:41 AM
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Also, the self-esteem boost they receive is short-term and short-lived, and she herself knows this. once you ride the carousel it's over, there's no going back now. ever! that's where the shame inside of her comes from. it's not even external shame, because externally every other peer is applauding her behaviour.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 06:03 PM
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let's stay away from used up shit..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 12:43 PM
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she's lying, and she knows it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 01:15 AM
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the older they get, the more they try to sell themselves..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 11:50 AM
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"step up and be the dad?" why doesn't she step up and raise the kid by herself? what's stopping her? we're all equals aren't we?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 01:15 AM
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I agree with all of the visible except for the one part in the middle where he says that "it's not because you've fucked people...". truth is, it's only because you've fucked so many people that you're now unreliable and untrustworthy. there's no going back from that body count. all you're offering is a washed up hole, which can never be motherly or wife-material..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 01:04 AM
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how ironic and entitled can one be. she's messed around by herself more than enough to have kids (emphasis on plurality) without a dad/ dads (emphasise on plurality again) around her, is alcoholic, and expects a guy of similar age to be wiser, richer and still chose her as their partner!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 12:54 AM
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oh yeah, that too! very well put!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 05:52 PM
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"adult life isn't easy" correction- "post-wall adult life isn't easy".. promiscuity during younger years will certainly leave you unhappy and unfulfilled later. and it doesn't matter if you get married or not after that because any man you find later will be you "settling for him" because the adventure is all you can crave.. and these help groups and support groups of different women will only serve as a small term spark of positivity. because they all know you can't reverse your age and what's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 07:15 AM
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lmao hahaha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 07:09 AM
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there is nothing more disgusting than a woman getting knocked up by a chad and wishing some other guy raised the kid..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 03:55 PM
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virgin >>>>> worthless hoes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 03:49 PM
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rightfully said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 09:37 AM
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good question.. damn man!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 07:31 AM
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lies in student debt and begs for money, is a single mom, still in college but she's still going to be successful and is a queen.. mind blown..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 12:04 AM
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fucking hell. we need red pill now more than ever. I'm trying my best not to be a misogynist but women are a curse..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 05:50 PM
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NOW you want the right man, just so that you can milk him for all his money. even though you hate him you need the fucking money and that's all you'll be there for. fantasizing about other men all the time and lie about it to your own partner..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 05:49 PM
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she didn't just hit the wall, she's crossed beyond it now.. I'm glad no one pays attention to these entitled old women..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/20 08:27 PM
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her selling point- BBW. just like a whore..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/20 02:38 AM
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on all other social media- cries for gender equality and is a feminist..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 11:24 PM
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well put hahaha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 11:16 PM
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damn man. I never thought about it like that..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 07:26 AM
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imaging normalizing prostitution.. this is pretty close..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 04:26 AM
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fucking hate to see feminist promoting such behaviour, her past and present
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 03:21 AM
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fucks chad who doesn't give a shit about her, leaves her pregnant with two kids.. cries about men not caring to take her on a date..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 01:38 AM
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at least diamonds look good
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 09:47 PM
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self proclaimed gem hahahahaha...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 04:40 PM
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what a classic!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 04:39 PM
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this is incredibly fucking stupid.. older generations were right with their stereotypes- "women are stupider gender"..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 01:35 AM
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alright, my bad. thank you once again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 01:16 AM
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also, thank you so much for the link.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 12:30 AM
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guys are nasty to ask her for nudes and hook-up now. they clearly weren't nasty before she had the kids..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 06:56 PM
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and tbh even though we are here, this is not our true selves. the truth about us will only come out with time.. are we really betas? are we better than that? or are we just pretending to be someone here while thinking logically but in reality maybe our emotions overtake us.. yeah the sub has been handled really well. mods really don't take shit from no one. very impressive..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 06:25 PM
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I mean.. at this point just straight up beg for it.. don't twist your words..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 06:08 PM
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they'll settle for betas in their 30s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 03:04 AM
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I feel pity for a man in a relationship with a woman having a kid who is not his seed..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 04:28 PM
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immediately closed the tab after reading the first few words- "divorced mom of two"....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/20 09:07 PM
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if you can't answer this question for yourself, this is not the sub for you. most posts on the sub connect directly to your question, if you can't relate to them then you shouldn't be here. don't depend on someone else's explanation to influence your beliefs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 11:47 AM
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personally the biggest change has been me being myself more and not listening to that sort of negative music anymore. music and other sorts of indulgence can keep up us in a mental headspace which they're designed to attract.
/r/MGTOW218/10/20 05:36 PM
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brother, I don't think about her anymore like that. I just realized that.
/r/MGTOW218/10/20 05:33 PM
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it encourages the same for women to worship men
/r/MGTOW211/10/20 01:32 AM
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your racism explains everything about you :)
/r/MGTOW211/10/20 12:25 AM
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I've decided to break all contact. I agree she didn't "complete" me anyway and I don't need her or anyone at all. the end is all natural, I truly believe that now. thank you for trying to help me reassure. break up is sort of like a sport for women looking for the "ideal man". love is enough to connect people and keep a relationship running for sometime. but long term relationships, aka marriages, are based on responsibility and duty. they're not based on love and I understand that now. you can …
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 10:39 PM
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I do give a shit about closure. Read the goddamn title again. I'm looking for answers suggesting how do I get closure. Fortunately enough, I've found it and I didn't need her for it. I only needed myself. I hope you go through the rest of the comments to figure that out for yourself. your ideas about "a real man" are childish as fuck.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 10:23 PM
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that's the crazy truth brother. I'm saving this post just for the knowledge you spelled out in this comment.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 05:06 PM
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to be very honest with you, I wish to change fields when pursuing my post grad. I'm really not into engineering. I'm from SEA and here it's societal pressure to take up engineering. I'm smart enough for it but there's no genuine interest besides a stable job with good starting pay. so in my postgraduate there are chances of me changing fields.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 03:54 PM
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so there's no specialization yet, I'm pursuing undergrad so it's a base for all things related to mechanical engineering.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 03:50 PM
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I appreciate your intentions and honesty but I don't see this as a win or lose situation. but the freedom is good, there's nothing bad about it. yeah I have technically moved on in that sense. I don't believe in deleted photos or videos, I don't go back an dwell on the past but I have decided to cut contact from my own end. I wanted to ask for a conversation for closure but I don't anymore. that's all. I'm in the process of getting my degree and I have a year left! I'm fully dedicated to that no…
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 03:48 PM
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the idea of relationships does seem to put higher responsibility on the man. perhaps they are toxic. I can see that in my own father. he's genuinely the most kind hearted person I've ever seen and has good intentions always but my mom has messed up his life in a lot of ways. besides caring for the kids and looking after the house, my father has done everything. he stays away from the family to work, by himself and has 12 hour shifts working 6 days a week beyond the age of 50.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 03:41 PM
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mechanical engineering
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 03:36 PM
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I'm into engineering and am about to finish my course in a year's time!
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 03:31 PM
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yeah I was in that framework before I met her and still am. I don't really have self esteem issues. it's more ego/ acceptance problem.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:54 AM
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absolutely agreed with everything you've said. if it was meant to be, it'd have been.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:51 AM
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the amount is advice and support is overwhelming!
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:50 AM
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a lot of her "interest" in me was based on the fact that I made her happy. surely that doesn't last for long because we all slowly turn ugly with time, our true selves. that's how I viewed relationships before this one, and that's how I view them now again! thank you for reminding me! it's the just the way it is.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:49 AM
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I absolutely agree with your first paragraph. that's been the crux of it all, such a hard pill to swallow. the "healing" here actually doesn't refer to the general use of the word. I do agree, it is time to move on.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:47 AM
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I read about that a lot here but I'm yet to discover that feeling originating in myself. if it comes, then I'm surely going with it!
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:44 AM
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yeah I had an extremely rough time in general in the past 2 years. and now I'm back to my old ways!
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:42 AM
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most definitely not. if it's not worked once, it will never. she's already in the process of making a new life with someone else. chapter's closed on her end, why should I keep mine open?
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:40 AM
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yes, I did join a few TRP related subs. I don't believe anything "wrong" happened to me in general. but I wished to end the series of countless questions in my head which I believe I have.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:39 AM
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agreed!
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 06:05 PM
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in a way, it's taking care of yourself and showing yourself love.
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 03:14 PM
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that honestly just impulse. there's a new comment by another person to which I've replied, please check that out. it's the overall gist of the problem and of course, it's solution
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 01:32 PM
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my thoughts. like I replied to another comment a few minutes ago, if it's meant to be then it's meant to be. you'll never change for someone else, they'll never change for you. so if want to stick around, then you do. if not, then you don't. the first paragraph sums it perfectly brother. if it was meant to be, then it'd have happened one way or the other. but it didn't. so the only thing you can do after realizing that, is let go.
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 01:30 PM
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but thank you for helping me open up my mind about this. it was meant to be for us, it would have. I can feel that, a little bit. at the end of the day, it wasn't something that couldn't be broken (I mean the relationship). in today's time where marriages based on love, even they have such high divorce rates and can fall apart. only the ones where both individuals want to stick around, they stick around.
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 01:22 PM
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that's really unfortunate what happened to you. but in my case I was the first one to try and move on. I was the one who made the first move on someone else besides her. it's when she found out about that, she moved on as well. would she have done that if I didn't? who knows. but she was extremely hurt when she found out about it. and of course she has her friends telling what to do and what not to do. I'm sure they were the biggest influence in telling her to move on to someone else. it's easy …
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 01:18 PM
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why am I still looking for closure?
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 12:49 PM
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Don't do it if you don't want to. There's only a few things more beta than blindly following the society.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:59 AM
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Brother I don't know how much my advice is worth, because I haven't been in the same situation as you. From what I read, you've shown yourself that change in your own self is possible. Good things can happen to you. But they'll only happen if you keep working to make them happen. You have to keep yourself together enough to survive and keep going through the storm. Things around you, like family, might change in the future. We can only hope for a better tomorrow for things around us. But for a b…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:17 AM
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It's called not being too hard on yourself. I'm in the same boat as you and this what my closest friends told me but I still haven't understood what it completely means. What I know is this, don't judge your emotions and label them as good or bad. That's the first thing that acts like a filter and it'll mask your actual emotions. If you're feeling depressed then feel depressed. If you're feel ecstatic then feel ecstatic. That's called honesty with yourself. You cannot to resist the emotions. But…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:49 AM
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It's harmful to resist our own emotions. Pretty soon they'll fill up like dams and overflow with heavier casualties.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:41 AM
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The more you appreciate the present moment, the more you're disconnecting from the past and the future. Good one.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:39 AM
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Truth.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:33 AM
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Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:33 AM
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Seconded. There's no substitute for this. This is the basic thing of all. Forget about the books and knowledge, they're just tweaks. But this is everything.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 06:21 PM
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Seconded opinion.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 06:16 PM
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Bruhhhhhh
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:33 PM
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Dropping hints is the woman's job. As a man you gotta be upfront.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:52 AM
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Solid.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:07 AM
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The second paragraph is really important. If she's the one initiating these getaways and not contributing enough then it'd be a sign if trouble. But this is not the case.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:06 AM
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If anything, our culture itself tells us that women use manipulation at certain levels particular to each woman to get what they want. I believe that more than I believe in evolutionary psychology research. And I fully agree with your points. I hate "modern" culture for brainwashing people into being nice to everyone. Everyone's turning into a manipulator in some form or other instead of being honest.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 06:09 AM
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I don't know about in built qualities. The source of this knowledge that you type is evolutionary psychology. I'm not going to accept it as a fact just like that to make it easier for me. I'm not denying them either. My point is that you should not look at every woman and think she's out there to manipulate you. That's incel talk. All up in the head, zero evidence out in the world. Keep an open mind out there and you'll be surprised. It's difficult and scary to start with 0 knowledge, but nothin…
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 05:32 AM
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Good luck to you and your family. Things get better when everyone collectively put efforts together.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 04:24 AM
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It's alright. There's absolutely no need to go through debates on Reddit with strangers first thing in the morning! I'm actually just curious about social dynamics, so posts and discussions like help fuel the curiosity. Having a woman on MGTOW opens a window to the other side for discussion.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 04:14 AM
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You got me. Thank you for making me understand the scenario better. But your comment just blames the OP for the wrong, calling him names and victimizes the woman. So, I'd give it a thought. OP did put up a description of the woman to justify his assumption. And it turns out he was right. I don't believe the aspect of self respect was involved here. Like I said before, she was playing a game and he beat her to it. She was pretending to feel something she didn't, OP read right through the act and …
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 03:29 AM
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Goddamn brother. Women don't want their tactics exposed huh.. Hope you guys are doing better now.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 03:22 AM
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You're crossing a line by assuming their emotions and accusing OP of being "shitty". From where I'm sitting, you're in the wrong. Who gave you the right to assume someone else's emotions and call someone else a shitty person? You're the only "shitty" person I know here.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 03:13 AM
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I understand your point of view. You have to keep yourself at a distance and not give into their manipulation. You have to be one step above them as a man. Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 02:53 AM
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You mean she acts like this?!!! How do you deal with it?
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 02:45 AM
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Don't generalise too much brother. Not all women are like that. This just an excerpt of OPs experience and I'm sure there are many more women like this. But I'm sure there's also a lot of women who are not manipulative.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 02:40 AM
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Ah you got me. That's right.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 08:54 PM
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It was fucking crazy!
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 08:46 PM
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It's an amazingly brilliant way of putting all the blame on the man! I'm honestly intrigued and curious about how smart women are about these things. Just make the man feel responsible for everything!
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 08:42 PM
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It's actually a mafia dude. These women think they're entitled to tell men and women how they're supposed to feel. What is this bullshit about self respect? Both of them made their own choice.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 08:35 PM
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What the fuck is shitty about him being honest? He didn't care if she stayed or not. How the hell does she lose her self respect if she chose to stay? It's her choice. No one forced her to stay. Who do you think you are to lecture someone about their self respect? Both of them were honest, both of them had the freedom of choice. Where does self respect come in here? She didn't lose any self respect. You do not speak for her just like we don't speak for OP. If you're in a similar scenario sometim…
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 08:26 PM
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The commenter is rooting for the woman for some stupid reason.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 07:53 PM
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That's the most honest way to put it brother. The mind games are real, it's just that society demonizes men and that subsequently idolizes women. So they never tell you about this manipulative side of a woman. They just tell you how oppressive and violent men are. A lot of women manipulate men who then throw their life away running after pussy. A lot of men are aggressive who physically hurt women. It's just that there's a rule of law which makes the latter a bad choice for man, he's gonna go to…
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 07:52 PM
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Can't understand the cause of the downvotes, it's a legitimate question.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 07:48 PM
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Spilling out the beans ehhhhh!
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 07:47 PM
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They're not odds with each other but the first two talk purely about the idea of MGTOW whereas the last one focuses on casual relationships. The whole idea of MGTOW is based on and is created by men on how being any kind of relationship with a woman has actually led to the further inevitable doom that you say doesn't exist with every woman. But the catch here is generalization of and including all women. MGTOW necessitates the generalization because it's the safest way to keep yourself away from…
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 07:45 PM
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Thank you brother. Keep spreading good knowledge.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 06:36 PM
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I'm having difficulty figuring out whether you're rooting for the commenter or the OP. I don't agree with the first two paragraphs of your comment but agree with the last one. But I don't think that's actual MGTOW. And I don't consider myself fully committed to the MGTOW spectrum completely as well and I'm that person you describe in the last paragraph.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 06:34 PM
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I don't think that's "gentleman" behaviour. It's just disciplined chivalry. There's immeasurable depth to being a gentleman and most men just idealise them.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah I mean everyone has their own definition of being a "gentleman". But a "real gentleman" is not a term one should throw around casually. That's another class of men. Almost none of us are like that. I like your first sentence. It tells people to set accurate standards for what they a "gentleman".
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:59 PM
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She started the game, she lost. Although I don't think this post relates to MGTOW's idea but it talks about manipulative tactics used by some women to turning you into their bitch. If you're looking for casual relationship, then you should know this stuff which women use to turn you into simps. I'm guessing a lot of men on this sub engage in or want to engage in a casual relationship for the sake of intercourse which lacks during one's MGTOW journey.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:54 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:50 PM
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Now I get the part about "the effect she has on men". She thinks she's too good for them and therefore they want her. She wanted you to tell her to that you want her, by telling her to stay but instead you just showed her that you don't want her by saying it doesn't matter if she stays or goes, which you actually don't. I like the power play quote. It seems pretty fucking apt here about how some women will try to manipulate you into being her bitch. Mind games bruh. Good call. Great knowledge. T…
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:48 PM
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Ah I get the part about you calling out the bluff. Why was she being dramatic anyway? What's wrong with you enjoying her company? She'd obviously not want to leave at midnight.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:34 PM
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I meant with the conversation? Why'd she stay after you said what you said? What's the shit test and how'd you pass it?
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:27 PM
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No you're not twisting the definition, Rollo is. I think OnlyFans is based on demand and supply you know. It's a new era easily accessible live telecasting. I don't know much about prostitutes but I do understand why they are not as popular as OnlyFans. Firstly, governmental laws against prostitutions businesses. Secondly, the social stigma. Both of these things are absent when it comes to OnlyFans. The social stigma exists online, but that's about it. If men hiring prostitutes was not something…
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:26 PM
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Could you explain the the whole scenario? Like what happened? I'm really confused. I've never been in a casual relationship before and I don't understand the dynamics.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:21 PM
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Teach me senpai
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:19 PM
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I think he's confused about the definition of incel. Incel means someone who doesn't get laid. Period. It doesn't matter if they want intimacy or the girlfriend experience. Stop trying to twist the definition to make yourself feel better about the situation or about yourself. But it's true that the women on there try to provide the "girlfriend experience" by talking to camera as if the man in front of her is desirable. That's the idea behind the OnlyFans. The woman acting on camera make the man …
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 04:07 PM
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Damn. This thread is full of new information and insight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 02:25 PM
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I agree with all your points besides it not being age related in her head. Every older woman knows it's her fading beauty that's the problem but society today wants to empower women by feeding them lies. In her head she knows what the problem is, she's just denying it herself and the people around her aren't being truthful themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 01:52 PM
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Yeah, right? I think back then they would grow up thinking and hearing how great it'd be to be married and have a family to tend to, right? That's how the culture was, and when women grew up in that culture they grew being attracted to the idea of wanting a family and having a husband who works hard. That's when femininity was flourishing (might be wrong here). Right now the culture is opposite of that, women grow up being told that caring for a family and being a stay at home mom is the worst t…
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 12:45 PM
3

It might be. I'm not sure. It's kind of like a lifestyle.
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 12:24 PM
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Yeah they are absolute pussy chasers. Every action they take from the moment they wake to the moment they go to sleep fits somewhere in the "this will help me get women" category. They're at jobs because of the status and some money, but they're actually irresponsible and lazy. They're at the gym to follow the current trends of fitness and to woo women by their bodies, in person and on social media. They hangout with people who have fun all the time to have a social image around being extroverte…
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 04:19 AM
2

It's like too ends of the spectrum eh? There's negative responsibility == all fun and then there's positive responsibility == all work. I don't mean all work no play or no work all play but you get the gist. Most of the men and women on the positive side have those morals and valued since childhood, they question them but they grow up soon. It's rare to see men and women go from the negative side to the positive one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 03:57 AM
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Let me get this straight, SHE CHEATS ON HIM! But he doesn't amount to anything, he's the childish one, he's not the man and he's the reason for his dad is not around. I hope he finds someone who's more human and has some morals.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/20 02:02 AM
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I understand your point of view to find a good man for your daughter but if the guy was on medication then or has the need the for them, you don't know how much it affects you. And I don't really see the point where her approach to the situation could make her feel proud? I believe her friends actually gave her the right advice to check up on him if he has issues. You also seem to be ignorant of what meaning of the term "closure", there's nothing negative about it. It's about having a completely…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 01:55 AM
3

You put it perfectly. Could you refer to me some material where I'd learn more about this terminology and it's deeper meaning?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 01:42 AM
9

Sometimes I wonder if the saying "love is blind" is incomplete. A lot of times it seems like "men in love are blind"..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 01:42 AM
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I feel terrible for the third guy. This woman reeks of promiscuity and privilege. Hope he finds a woman with better morals and values.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 06:06 PM
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It's best when the woman comes from a family of good moral values. In our country that's usually a woman from conservative background and a stable family. These people don't look for the next high, they're not promiscuous, they keep their temptations in check and live with conscientiousness. That's why I hate liberals when they just scream "old values bad" because the privilege of our society today has got into their heads and all they know is "looking for fun". I love how you pointed that she w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 06:03 PM
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It's definitely wrong to call it negligent. You'd expect a lot more from your better half. But it was a lesson alright. Taking responsibility for something you care about is worth the assurance of keeping it safe in your own hands rather than trusting someone else it with.
/r/MGTOW230/09/20 02:20 PM
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When my dad started working overseas he started making 4x the money. But after two years he found that he had less than 20% left of all the money he made. We had no major expenditures during that time and mom was in control of finances. We later found out that she used to take out money every week and give it to her younger brothers. They were not poor themselves but they earned very less comparatively. We don't know how she spent the money on them, maybe buy stuff or hand out direct cash. She l…
/r/MGTOW230/09/20 05:00 AM
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Good job brother. In early 20s we need to focus on building our own lives. You're working terribly hard. Please don't give that up for anyone else but yourself. Very inspiring! 👍
/r/MGTOW228/09/20 01:32 AM
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Amen brother. You speak the absolute truth.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 07:11 PM
11

The good part is, you needn't care how anyone else feels or thinks about your choice. It's our life brother. That's what men's SMV is all about. It increases as we age.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 03:08 AM
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I'm taking lessons from the stories of all of y'all older and experienced men. I hope I don't make the same mistakes! 🙏 Thank you! It's great that you got out of such a toxic relationship. From what I hear and read online, it's easier for older men to date younger women (below 30s and without a kid) because by then the men are well settled, successful and mature. This makes them very attractive and a lot of the women don't mind the age difference.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 01:20 AM
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Be open to experiences. Don't judge them beforehand. When it comes to sex, don't judge before having a plethora of experiences.
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 03:02 PM
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I've only had sex with one woman, I love her. I feel that you're absolutely right what you say about love and sex together being the best feelings of all! But I've never had casual sex, because besides the love nothing ever has motivated me to pursue a woman. So instead I end up pleasuring myself. Like most men. But the interesting part is that I only found love when I gave up pleasuring myself. And in my culture casual sex and relationships are still taboo for most people. But I was fortunate. …
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 03:00 PM
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Well put!
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 02:48 PM
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Hahahahaha! So true!
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 02:35 PM
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Not much really..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/20 09:33 AM
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They're definitely not equal in value! 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 02:45 PM
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It's so stupid man. Hypocrisy at a peak.
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 02:10 PM
2

Always on point! Good one.
/r/seduction24/09/20 07:58 AM
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True. I don't disagree.
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 07:45 AM
2

Bruh..
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 06:52 AM
1

DON'T RUSH. Take it slow. There's no reason to not date. Some people have troubled past, that's okay. Most women have had multiple sexual partners, nothing new.
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 06:51 AM
1

If you're gonna do it then don't be anonymous. That's not the responsible way to do it. Face him and tell him to his face.
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 05:57 AM
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She's not looking for a healthy relationship or a decent man. She's looking for the emotional rollercoaster which she gets being with an attractive but emotionally distant man. Because that man is pleasing for her eyes and will treat her like she's disposable. So every time she's with him, she'll feel excited and every time she's not with him, he's not giving her any attention she wants because he doesn't care about her. And all that stuff they write on their dating profile is just plain manipul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 04:35 AM
2

Can you give link?
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 04:06 AM
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women. in today's society, they choose. for them, just being a girl is what gives them value. but for men, they have to earn value by matching up to societal standards like money, confidence, attractiveness. women's value goes down with age, drastically so after 30. but thats when men start peaking.
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:40 AM
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so basically we tweak yourself, within limits, to be compatible to the person in front of us. But tweak within a certain range, which doesn't undermine our own self respect. it will take time to learn, but I'm thinking relationships will be easier to maintain.
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:32 AM
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Do the thing because you know it's good. Not to suck up to her. Thats the best way bro. complete authencity. no sucking up to anyone else.
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:23 AM
9

"Learn and calibrate difference for each women", do you mean to say learn to understand our own boundaries and enforce them in scenarios with different women? Or is it something else?
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:53 AM
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I didn't actually mean to say they're "not nice" but rather that it's better to call them "very agreeable" because that's what they are. That's my bad. I will edit my previous comment. You're right about a small bunch of men who use that as a manipulative tactic. And those are the kind of guys women are actually trying to keep themselves away from. But it's hard to distinguish between a "nice guy" and an agreeable guy until the "nice guy" snaps and shows his true self. This makes women question …
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:41 AM
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The genuinely nice guys are just very agreeable. They need to learn to caliberate their boundaries, like you said. This behaviour should concern them before coming into seduction because it's about self esteem. Seduction comes after you see value in yourself. Edited my comment: "nice guys are not actually nice" in the first sentence.
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:21 AM
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You know it takes hours of extremely drilling social situations to bring that out. It's like peeling off this hard layer of your social personality. But it's worth it. To the core. I'll go as far as to say that you don't even need to understand a woman's psychology but when you're authentic to your core and open to experiences, things can happen!
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:22 AM
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Living in an environment where this is possible, and manning yourself up to actually doing what it takes. Doing it all well. The best part is you not being untruthful to them anywhere in the whole event.
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:15 AM
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My first relationship was with a woman like you, she was 20 back then. Hope you find what you're looking for.
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:49 PM
2

My man spilling out the truths
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:46 PM
1

Everything falls into place with calmness! Superb!
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:16 PM
1

It also helps correcting your mistakes when you have male friends who are dating. They can give some tips which can help out.
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:02 PM
2

Your success has stopped at "talking to strangers" and there two possible reasons: You're not talking to enough strangers You're not talking about the right things with strangers I'm guessing it's 2nd because you've been out for 3 months. You didn't mention what happens beyond the point of you talking to strangers? And we don't know what your approach is like but the aim should be to just hang out with more female company. This can happen by extending your current circle of friends like a networ…
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:01 PM
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Yeah, they've learnt how to be charmers at first. They have a good amount of self confidence based on their bad boy image. This gives them lots of validation from their male friends as well. And so they keep going out and attracting these young women, because the one's below 25-27 are the most vulnerable and get easily hooked! These are not honest guys, they are pathological liars and extremely manipulative. But this image wears off as they get older because they have no sustainable relationship…
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:39 AM
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Idk why this is getting so many downvotes? AWALT is just a theory in a sense.
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:24 AM
1

Very well put! Thank you!
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:20 AM
2

100% Agreed.
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:32 AM
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Forgive me if I'm wrong but you seem to be rather afraid of being manipulated by the image of a "strong seductive man".
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:13 AM
2

I'm quite certain that the end result was negative. I read somewhere that they were forced to take down their videos because of the negative press. Not just them but other PUAs had to as well.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:33 AM
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I fortunately was just introduced to RSD a few months before their stuff was taken down from YouTube! Their inner game stuff and outer game techniques helped me overcome my social anxiety. But all of those videos from Julien, Tyler and especially Jeffy are gone now! RIP!
/r/seduction19/09/20 01:33 AM
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Self help. I think the PC culture got to them. They were being called out for being misogynistic and manipulative. Individuals at the top of RSD have always had problems with being portrayed negatively by the media. It turned bad for business so they moved on.
/r/seduction19/09/20 01:31 AM
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No upper hands. Both have their own problems.
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:49 PM
1

Sometimes the card are stacked are against you 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction17/09/20 03:52 PM
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Same.
/r/MGTOW217/09/20 10:30 AM
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Stay strong brother. We're with you. You can get through this.
/r/MGTOW217/09/20 10:29 AM
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We'd go to a hotel usually, or do it at her place. She wasn't living with her parents, I was. It's very common in my country to live with parents until and even after graduating college.
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:45 AM
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From personal experience, I believe the biggest positive about this community is that it pushes us to take action and continue taking action. You have certainly embodied that in a year. Kudos to you man! Great inspiration, thank you for your sharing your experience!
/r/seduction16/09/20 10:34 AM
1

I notice you post and comment a lot of help. can I DM for some small doubts?
/r/seduction12/09/20 12:21 PM
1

loving yourself has nothing to do with learning about seduction. seduction depends on educating yourself about how sex and relationships work in our era. learn how to interact with both the sexes and live your life. do not fuck with your heads about loving yourself. as you practice seduction, over time it will become a part of you. but if you stop then you will lose it, just like your fitness or your work. all this bs about loving yourself is purely based on making yourself feel better about wha…
/r/seduction12/09/20 12:06 PM
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one of the rare threads worth saving. it's all about letting go of everything else to just be who you really are. it's about bringing out all of the inner voice.
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:48 PM
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seconded
/r/seduction06/09/20 02:18 PM
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true that. it is vaguely put. if we dig a bit further, I think being yourself means what you really are on the inside. it doesn't mean being who you are right now. it takes a lot of self learning and introspection when you're talking to someone and you hear that small voice inside your head, you speak it out. you don't stay shut and be shy, you speak it out. expressing your emotions and ideas, when you want to and how you want to. no second thoughts, just do it.
/r/seduction05/09/20 05:06 PM
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NO the key is to own it. not be ashamed of it. not one bit. that's what it means to be yourself. it means to embrace yourself for who you are as a person.
/r/seduction05/09/20 04:57 PM
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I'm so glad I read your post. I feel a lot similar to you. I'm M/22 and casual sex NEVER made sense to me. I'm not at all social or out going rn but that's because of different reasons. I always always wanted and desired companionship. NEVER did the term relationship ever rise any sparks for me except for the companionship part. I have only been in one relationship and that's the person that I lost my virginity to and I don't regret that for a moment. that's arises from the fact that we connecte…
/r/seduction05/09/20 11:19 AM
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inner game> outer game
/r/seduction04/09/20 10:19 AM
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because he's not addressing the neediness. he's addressing how it shows up in social scenario by cutting it out completely.
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:58 PM
0

of course
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:52 PM
2

the last 3 paragraphs are your take on it, not OP. I don't see him describing any of those things in the post.
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:46 PM
2

I agree. it's like manipulation learnt from a book. it works but it doesn't last long. what the OP describes seems like a skill which gets your foot through the door. but what comes next? how does OP go from being PUA to actually be vulnerable to a person?
/r/seduction03/09/20 08:06 PM
1

could you post the graph?
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:47 AM
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an average man RARELY approaches a random woman. maybe hardly a dozen in their lifetime. it's EXTREMELY uncommon to randomly approach girls.
/r/seduction03/09/20 08:04 AM
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good one mate 🙌
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:23 PM
1

you need to understand that she's an individual first and then a mom. being a mom doesn't take away her rights to what she wants as an adult. she has the freedom to be who she wants be! god speed bro! you got this!
/r/seduction27/08/20 08:56 PM
3

not showing enough value? in a way, not selling yourself well enough?
/r/seduction27/08/20 04:18 PM
1

from what I read, you seem to be on the right track. I don't know about mature women but I do know about kino. it's always good to calm your nerves when initiating physical contact. it's to make her feel comfortable and safe around you. if we're jumpy then it shakes them out of their, as you call it, feminine state and just might make her feel nervous as well! but you're going to do just fine as in this case, she seems really into you! go get it! edit: to add more to this, in most scenarios it's…
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:15 PM
2

looks were never #1. nothing is #1 but it's pretty damn well important to be good looking.. that includes being fit, good hair cut and being neatly dressed! it makes a huge difference and that's the first thing women notice about you.
/r/seduction27/08/20 11:37 AM
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it's almost like playing a game. that's why I love being in the moment, whether it's talking to a person or a date! to the point, damn good kino basics bro!
/r/seduction27/08/20 10:29 AM
1

putting aside manipulation and all that bullshit just to be yourself! such a wonderful video!
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:30 AM
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I believe there are levels to approach anxiety, with practice and learning you can lessen it but not eliminate. the best thing to do is to keep on practicing, that's the minimum for success. but it's enough.
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:26 AM
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that's what the post is telling you. you are responsible for who you are and if you feel like you're someone who tries to please women to an unhealthy extent then you should change yourself. it's not about putting the blame on yourself or the society but accepting that only you can change yourself and no one else is responsible for who you are. if someone would've said this stuff to you as a child this would've gone over your head. that's the whole reason you're on this sub rn and not when you w…
/r/seduction16/08/20 01:10 PM
3

last sentence sums it up pretty well
/r/seduction16/08/20 01:02 PM
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the point is a deeper understanding into the psychology of a nice guy and why many men turn out like that. I don't see any whining here.
/r/seduction16/08/20 12:44 PM
3

it only works if you believe it yourself first
/r/seduction12/08/20 01:44 PM
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you're stuck in the comparison paradigm. there's always people better than you out there. if you try to live up to the standards you're thinking about, you'll be climbing an endless ladder. on the top of that, you'll be extremely unhappy and feel under confident. spend some time realising what kind of life you want to live. not because someone else is doing it but because you want to live that way and follow that.
/r/seduction09/08/20 03:27 AM
2

damn I love this sub. ever since RSD took down those videos off of YouTube I was struggling for more than a year. but you guys keep coming up with these informative threads and it helps a lot! thank you OP!
/r/seduction07/08/20 10:56 PM
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