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Thinking everything is only about power and control is closed minded. There are a lot more variables when it comes to legalizing prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:01 AM
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These "gigolos" have been a thing for a while. But its not even close to as popular as prostitutes are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:26 PM
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Not everything is about power and control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:24 PM
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Harem's are for children, not love- I disagree, i dont think children are the primary motivation when a powerful man looks at a pretty woman. They would be aware that that will come naturally too , but i disagree that its the main motivation. I thought that most people on this sub are aware that men like a variety of women and are attracted to multiple women. And my opinion why harems can actually work is because men can be fair and love all the women equally. Now of course this is not ALWAYS th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:43 PM
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But for some reason me pointing out that those who suffered in the process will view it as negative is triggering? Thats because in the OP it seemed like you only focussed on the negative part and downplaying the positives. I guess that was not your intention? My bad if i misunderstood you. Its my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:12 AM
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I am talking about athletics, there can be occasional cases of women succeeding in sports (which really doesnt prove anything if its a rare occurrence). And it can be more common in sports where athletic involvement is little (like shooting). But thats not the case in athletics. The difference between men and women in terms of physical performance is very clear there. Women generally have better lower body strength, men generally have better upper body. So it depends! Thats not true, men have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:47 AM
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I gave war as a negative example. I also gave examples of purely positive value. Anyway, my point is that since there is good and bad, seeing masculinity as only bad is ridiculous. That is the epitomy of being ungrateful. Everyone alive today has benefited in some way from masculinity. So its not as simple as the ones who benefited will like it and the others wont. We all benefitted from it. Its ignorant and ungrateful to hate on something that benefitted all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:19 AM
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Given that it is male nature to be interested in things and study them for longer periods without interacting with others and given that men have been the ones that invented the majority if not all of ancient tools based on mathematics and geometry, its a safe assumption that it was the men who did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:38 AM
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OP, most people in the west can't understand and WILL NOT acknowledge the fact that men and women are fundamentally different. Its something everyone subconsciously knows, but many people will never accept it because it goes against their worldview. These pill forums may be an exception where we discuss it, but outside of redpill i dont think anyone truly understands it. You have to understand that there are people who legit, no joke believe that female athletes could compete against male athlet…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:32 AM
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You are taking one example , "war" which obviously has a net negative effect to explain masculinity and its perception. That is not enough to make a judgement. Masculinity is also what built important part of the modern world, such as the wheel, for example. Which is still relevant today. I could guarantee you that if the ancient mesopotamians had low testosterone males with zero drive, they wouldnt have bothered coming up with that. Im sure everyone is thankful for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:59 PM
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That may be the case in your area, im not questioning the validity. But i personally dont know anyone at 23 who is full time employed unless they are in a trade or are taking part/ continuing a family business. Much less anyone who has built any noteable wealth or power in that time. Most men who are self made would at least be in their mid thirties by the time they have wealth and power. That's being optimistic. Most people will have setbacks on the way and will take even longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:52 PM
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Its the way that masculinity is demonized, without acknowledging the positives, that people are upset with. Aggression is not a bad thing. It can be a good thing. Aggression can be used to defeat dangerous opponents, to instill fear in predators to protect yourself and your family, and to gain respect from peers. If you only focus on aggression in terms of conquering others, that is when you take it and make it into a negative thing. The same applies to being competitive. Men being competitive i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:48 PM
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At 23 you graduated from uni, been legally drinking & going to bars/clubs now, and probably working a legit job. Most people dont have a job at 23 unless its part time or if they went to trade. College/uni folks usually dont work at that point. I didnt really feel any more mature at 23 than when i was 17/18. Honestly i didnt feel like i developed much from my mindset until i actually went though some lifestyle changes and started to be more responsible act more like an adult. But that can happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:38 PM
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Yeah they tend to be center or center-left which aligns with most liberal values. Tbh it would be best imo if more people were center. Btw, i read in another comment that you are indian? I am too. Can i dm you about something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:33 PM
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No. Europe, with the exception of maybe a few places (like some parts of sweden and uk maybe) is not "woke" . Most people here are either center or somewhat to the left. But i have never met a "woke" person the way you see in american or canadian culture. A lot of the stuff is laughable and many subjects like transgenderism are not accepted the way it is in the USA. People have their personal opinions and can have those. What HAS changed is mainly the gender discrimination laws. And to an extend…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:29 PM
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I would say that most are aware but pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:11 PM
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It helps if you are attractive but it even works if you are average. I know plenty of dudes who are average or have faults (like a high pitch voice or shorter than 5'5") who would have a hard time getting laid otherwise, get laid because they have good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:10 PM
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15 years, i agree with you, but 5 isnt a big deal, if you are 18 and a guy is 23, its highly unlikely that he is any more mature or experienced than you are. And he probably hasnt developed much wealth by then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:38 AM
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He/She is not wrong. Game beats everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:05 AM
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Also if you think about it if a man cheats then it’s “ he’s a jerk or an asshole or pervert “ But if a woman cheats then it’s “ he wasn’t good enough “ , “ not taking care of her needs” or “ she deserved better “ I have to disagree with this part. Yeah the girls can go "he wasnt good enough" and make other excuses, and may get some SIMPathetic nods, but the truth is that most of us men will look at her as a thot after cheating. We would only consider her good for sex after that and most women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:36 AM
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Ah, i see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:25 AM
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It is true to an extend. May depend on the group and how attractive you are. I had a friend who got with a girl, who she later introduced to her friend circle. There were t other girls beside her, in the group. After a while my friend broke up with her, but he stayed in contact with the group. He ended up sleeping with 3 more girls from the group🤣🤣. Im guessing the ex gf must have been talking him up a lot and the other girls were impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:33 AM
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Its more than just physical strength. Men have 10-20 times the testosterone lf women. Which means not only do we build muscle easier than women (which is the reason most mem are stronger along with a difference in bone structure), we also recover much faster and have more resilient bodies. Which means, a man could do hard labour 3-4 days a week and is able to sustain that for years, even if it does take a toll on his body overall. But a woman would only be able to do it 1 or 2 days a week withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:11 PM

Sure. We should be civil to each other, i know that thats not always the case online but i prefer this 😄.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:34 PM
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Aw my bad. Sorry about your relative. I know that its true you are 100% correct. I just found it funny the way you were so blunt about it. Of course I keep my mouth shut, though, because no one can tell anybody anything ... Maybe just tell her about some exercises that can help her with back bain like light deadlifts, good-mornings and bent over hyperextensions. Maybe you can motivate her indirectly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:47 PM

I had to edit my last sentence as it wasnt properly written as i intended it to be. But you seemed to understand my point perfectly despite that. Red Pill may have started as dating strategy but there's a hell of a lot of women-bashing which basically defines it now. True, i wont lie, the community has pretty much become a shit show. I think it has to do with it going more mainstream (not quite there yet but close). Now it attracted all the guys who are hurting and dissatisfied and want to hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:47 PM
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Had a belly-laugh after reading " being fat and weak will fuck you up" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:35 AM
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All or most women will keep some of the weight they gained during pregnancy. But thats not 50 pounds. I know a lot of women that had a reasonable weight gain, and many who just blew up. The difference is that the prior returned to being active, getting back to work and/or exercising, while the latter decided to be lazy and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:30 AM
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I highly suggest you to not dwell on these incel terminologies. Im talking about "chads". You are already classifying them as good looking men who are successful, which is ridiculous. There are tons of goodlooking men who are completely unsuccessful. I guess you wouldnt qualify them as "chads" then, since they are not successful. I see them all the time. Having high inhibitions or i guess just approach anxiety can hold anyone back even the biggest players can feel that from time to time. But so …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:49 AM
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Both of these statements are correct. But good with their hands doesnt translate to hard labour for longer periods of time. Not all manual labour is equally hard. I have still to this day never seen a female construction worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:40 AM

Idk if fds is more or less toxic than redpill, but fds as a strategy seems less successful than redpill. Fds severely limits their own pool of potential men by their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:38 AM
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Yes i have observed this too. The bar is lower for attractive men. If you are a 9 or 10, or even a strong 8, your quirks and personality abnormalities may be forgiven. But keep in mind that being asocial or completely socially awkward would out you even then. Especially if you have competition. On social media good looking guys dont have to outcompete other guys socially. If you have a high follower count ,you show social media status without opening your mouth.. But in real life, the most charm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:54 PM
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Yes, unfortunately a lot of people (men included) dont appreciate those labourers. Most people do seem to enjoy having houses though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:05 PM
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Actually if we get advanced to a point where people wouldnt have to do much hard physical work at all and just have to do maintenance work on machines/ai etc who will then physically do all the heavy maintenance and repair thenselves, then yeah they could do without us men. As long as everything will work fine anyway. But not right now. Unfortunately there are still so many physical labourers actively holding up the worlds infrastructure and multiple sectors. And its pretty much 99% men. Women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:43 PM
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Well here is the thing. You cant see/feel personality on social media. Regardless of what platform. So of course they are only gonna go by what they can see. Which is why looks become important on social media. Showing off an attractive lifestyle also helps. But the truth is (as we all know from real life) that personality is important. Even the best looking guy will not have success with women if he doesnt know how to talk with women. A guy who is a 6 will do much better if he has game and talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:20 PM
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Im not sure where the concept of hypergamy originated either. It has been know in the RP sphere for a long time now. I dont think it was just stats from 1 source, as widespread as the concept of hypergamy is, i think there is also behavioural psychology involved. There is certainly behavioural/evolutionary behaviour studies that discuss this behaviour, although im not sure if they call it "hypergamy" per se. Anyway, to your question, i wouldnt say all the behaviour settling in every case. I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:31 PM
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No, men are not hypergamous. I dont think you completely understood mens and women sexual behaviours on a biological basis (not attacking you). Women are only attracted to certain men. If a woman is in a classroom with 20 men, she may just find 1 or 2 attractive enough to have sex with or get into a relationship with. For a man, that number is much higher. Could be anywhere between 5 or 6 to 15. Men find a lot more women attractive than the other way around. And when the options are open, its no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:47 PM
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I get both sides. Women like having friends they are wired to connext with people and keep those meaningful connections. Men are biologically driven to have sex as much as possible. This means , on a biological level, we would feel the need to have sex with any woman we get close enough with. If a woman is close enough to us even as a friend, then the primal part of us will mistake that as an opportunity to mate. I mean " if she is this close to you, she might like you" , right? 😆. Women are wir…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:36 PM
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Outside of the pill subreddits and the few others, reddit is bluepilled. And bluepill nowadays is the same as being gynocentric. It helps the guys with common sense to eventually find rp though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:31 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣, he is gonna be bitter for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:31 PM
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Haha, yeah thats a good point. Is that 40 yo guy actually rich, successful and good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:01 PM
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While some of that may be unrealistic, getting a virgin is not unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:39 PM
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I agree with that 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:17 PM
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6.5% of men are not rapist where the hell did you get that number from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:51 PM
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If they mention it on their bio its most definitely a challenge. If they are not interested in that they will simply avoid hookups. If she mentions it, she is looking to see, who is smart enough to call her bluff and has enough balls to make a move. Women do this type of stuff a lot. Its harder to read them online than irl to be fair. But go with your gut instinct in these type of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:49 PM
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Its not about male sexuality being destructive. Its not about good vs bad. Its just men being territorial. Men are naturally territorial about our partner/partners. Its not just human males, many male animals will literally fight to the death over a female. Women are territorial too, although in a differrent way. The reason we are averse to women being with other guys, even in the past is that primal fear that she belongs to the other guy, or that you would have to compete with him. And to an ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:51 PM
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This is good advice for anyone who needs help with self-discipline.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 02:53 PM
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Thats an interesting perspective. You dont sound like an arrogant asshole. You just have a different outlook compared to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:42 PM
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I dont need to date a man to know. How about you give me a straight answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:39 PM
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Thats understandable. But my statement is whether or not you wouldnt actually prefer a virgin, given the choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:19 PM
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Depending on where you live you dont really have to hunt for them. Although i do understand why that wouldnt be a priority anymore if the amount of available virgins is extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:16 PM
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I see. But why would you be turned off by virginity? I dont understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:11 PM
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She is actually not wrong. Many virgin women will also demand a virgin man (and rightfully so). I personally know many who did just that. There are also some who dont care. The thing is that virginity (or low n count) is a priority to us men, but for the women its not that high up. However if a woman feels that she made a sacrifice or a big decision to remain a virgin, she will most definitely demand her man do the same. Its kind of a parallel to men who have a high social status. We on PPD and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:05 PM
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In the hypothetical scenario, yes the guy most likely would be a virgin. Because that would be how the market would be structured. If women are not having sex (before marriage) and stayed virgins then that would mean the majority of men would not be having sex either. So the majority of men would be virgins too, whether they want to or not. So to answer your question; yes. But if that is by choice or not will depend on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:53 PM
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Technically yes. Having a tongue on, around or inside the vagina wouldnt signify the same as if it were a penis. The issue is, that usually if a guy is going down on a woman, things usually dont stop there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:43 PM
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It doesnt matter who i am dating. I can still comment on the useage of a word. In what way is a guy who has no options or standards "high value"?? I can call the sun "cold" or say that the moon is made out of cheese as well, that doesnt mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:39 PM
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I was pointing out the “semen in hole” thing isn’t accurate Its not but thats a technicality. The intention with a blowjob is the same, whether they guy cums outside or inside. You would still lose the virgin tag. You could make a case that "technically" you were not deflowered but nobody will listen to that. I don’t think I get the difference between oral sex and a grinding make out where she can feel his erection and tongue. During a grinding make out, he isnt penetrating the woman. But to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:57 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:49 AM
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“Deflowering” is a bit too “woo woo” “make believe” (male ego creating fictional mysticisms) for me. Okay thats your opinion. But also understand that it is important for a very large number of people. A dick can go in her mouth and no semen. Yes and a man can also wear a condom during intercourse. That would still mean the woman lost her virginity. Those are technicalities. The action that was performed and the intentions matter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:43 AM
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Its the closest english word i could get althought its probably not the exact thing. The exact meaning is to "release your semen inside a woman". There are some other , i guess perhaps spiritual or symbolic connotations that go with it. Like a part of the man being with the woman. Passionate kissing doesnt involve penetration. By oral sex i meant blowjobs. That would include insertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:34 AM
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I’m assuming you’re not Western. Not originally, but i have lived in western society for a large portion of my life and understand the differences well. You misinterpreted what i said. We only have one general definition for a virgin. There are no separate words like chaste to it. A virgin is a woman who hasnt been penetrated by a man. Holding hands and kisses dont "deflower a woman". That doesnt matter (may matter personally to a man but doesnt change her virgin status). On the other hand oral …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:19 AM
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Interesting read. They could both be the "bad guy" in the story depending on the perspective. Sometimes communication and a willingness to see the other persons side can go a long way in preventing these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:11 AM
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I didnt expect it on ppd, i wouldnt be surprised if guys said that on the other, more "PC" subreddits. But i read the comments here and you seem to be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:03 AM
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I dont think guys are denying that ideally we would want a virgin. But i may be wrong. Are there guys denying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:58 AM
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A virgin woman is a woman who hasnt been penetrated by a man. Some people may consider a woman penetrated by another woman or an object also not a virgin. Although in general , the concept is that she hasnt been involved in any type of sexual intercourse with a man. And i guarantee you that a woman who has had oral sex or anal sex is by no means considered a virgin in any traditional community outside the western world. The "vaginal virgin" thing is a western concept for people who somehow want …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:55 AM
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No, men are politicians and business leaders and their lies have power too. Those are a small minority of very intelligent men (who are sociopaths). The average male jerk would never even make it to their level, let alone come up with that type of shit. Politicians and top businessmen can definitely outsmart the majority of the population, including men and women. I dont disagree that they have power, they have the most power. As far as interpersonal stuff, women can probably run rings around gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:25 AM
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The majority of men are indeed blindsided. Women usually make up their minds earlier than when they file for divorce. A guy could be thinking everything is okay for 3-4 months where a woman already considered the relationship a lost cause. The problem is that these women dont communicate that to their partner until they actually start/ proceed with the divorce. there is a lot of discontent that stems from perceived unequal sharing of labor, with moms feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. This may v…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:02 AM
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Women lie differently than men. Women withhold information, mix truth and fiction, making up half truths, use their emotions to appear innocent, tell you different versions of a story etc. Most men only know how to straight lie. So of course guys spam that more often. But thats often not that hard to notice and actually less influential. Women are all bout the mindgames. Their lying has a much larger scope and they are much more influential. So men may lie more, in the sense of straight lies, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:49 AM
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Well you have a very different definition of what a HVM is. Objectively speaking a high value man should be a top guy. As in top financially, top in terms of looks and /or top in terms of social status/connections/power. Probably a mix of it all. A man who would accept a woman regardless is a man who has no standards. And guys like that are usually guys who have no options. Which makes them low value. And i highly doubt any woman would prefer a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:35 AM
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I get your reasoning, but what he said about HVM is kinda true. High value men usually dont show much interest in committing to a woman who is more career oriented than family oriented. These types of men are already very career driven and therefore are looking for a woman who is the opposite. With the exception of a few power couples (usually in entertainment), this is the case for most high value men. For women who are career-driven, i would recommend a more average guy who wants a girl with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:57 PM
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Career can still be relevant if he is planning on having kids and he isnt making a huge amount of money. If he has an average salary, and wants to have 2, 3 or more kids, he will most likely want a partner with an income. But at the same time he wouldnt want you to be so career oriented to the point where your kids will be neglected. I guess this is the situation with most family oriented folks, they need 2 incomes but also enough time to spend with kids. I know in redpill spaces and the manosph…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:09 PM
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Ah okay. I will keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:16 PM
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I think thats just a wrong approach. When you get into a friend group, the idea is not to see which girl or number of girls are the ones you like the most and then go for those. That IS a bad idea, there is a good chance that you will strike out and then you dont have a move anymore. The idea is to just get to know the girls and basically use that connection to get to know even more people. Girls are friends with other girls. Most girls have multiple friend groups. So you get into that, then you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:22 PM
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You sure this was not a hooker? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 09:39 AM
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What does this mean? Im a bit new to reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:59 AM
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Downsides of being a good shinobi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:40 PM
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Its better than dating apps/ sites for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:37 PM
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In one word, Yes. Looks may be important and may be one of the most important measures if not the most important measure for many men. But its never the only measure of a woman. And one thing before getting into that, what most guys like in terms of a woman's beauty is not the same that what many girls think. Most guys arent fantasizing about the prettiest models or actresses or the "fake"/photoshopped instagrammers. I think there was a study with porn actresses that proved that the mist viewed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:21 PM
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Very good post. And i think its desperately needed in the current RP space/manosphere in general. A lot of guys dont really understand frame. Its not about getting girls or being alpha. Its about having your core ideas values and purpose and acting according to those instead of bending to another's will. If you dont have a strong frame you are not much different from a slave. A slave to your partner, to your peer group, your environment , or your addictions.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/21 03:10 PM
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Technically, a guy who understands fundamental RP truths and applies them accordingly, without going over board and trying to be a fake alpha, should be more likely to have a successful marriage. We also should be able to vet women better. That being said, 50 or close to 50% divorce rate , with the majority of divorces being initiated by women, and the divorce court often not being exactly egalitarian, im not surprised why some RP guys decide to avoid that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:36 PM
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The first persons behaviour was actually correct, she accurately estimated that her boyfriend would like the other girl and therefore put her down. Personally i would only call something insecure if it was unwarranted. Like if a guy is talking shit about a homeless guy, that his gf clearly has no interest in, i would call it insecure. But if he talks bad about a celebrity that she is into, that is not insecurity to me, thats just a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:14 PM
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I disagree with this take. I often see the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:18 PM
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I strongly disagree. Young people will often do selfish and unegardful things which makes their partner uneasy. Then other people call that uneasyness "insecurity". Which is BS. More mature people who have spent more time within their relationship are more likely to be respectful and thoughtful enough to not engage in behaviours that make their partner uneasy. Thats the only difference that i note.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:28 PM
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Thats reassuring to know. I didnt know if it was a common thing or something..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:16 PM
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I have heard about this, and i think its extremely disrespectful. With guys, the only time a guy would talk about how "good" a girl was or what they did, is if he was just hooking up or had a ONS. No guy i have ever known would talk that way about their wife/gf. We consider that disrespectful to our partners. Why do some women think sharing personal and intimate info like that is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:24 PM
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A teacher like that should be fired on the spot. I cant believe that that's how someone would react at that. Thats some victim blaming culture right there. The principal is also an idiot to leave the decision making to you, he should have made his own decision. It now makes sense why the students got away with their behaviour, that school was completely incompetent. In my school, if a boy pulled down the skirt of a girl, he would have been expelled that day. No question. Not even the craziest da…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:05 AM
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I think actual physical rape is probably much less common as it is difficult for an average woman to rape a man who is usually stronger than them. But sexual harrassment happens probably just as often as vice versa. Out of a group of my friends (7 men) we talked about this after one of my friends mentioned that he had childhood sexual experiences with a female caretaker. Of course this was not consentual as he was a child. Then another friend mentioned a similar story. So out of the 7 of us, 2 g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:07 AM
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Lol yeah girls like that are a major red flag. My first relationship was like this. She had a number of abusive, hurtful exes and i was the teen captain save a hoe. Took me a while to understand that she was the problem. Not making that mistake again.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 10:00 AM
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Damn that is messed up, sorry that you had to go through all that. I recieved so much hell from that and even disciplinary measures from the school. Wth? I dont understand why you would be punished instead of the guy. Some schools really suck, they all pretend to be against bullying and then they turn around and do things like this. Like the other commenter said, i also think he felt bad for what he did (which was far over the line, and if anything he should have been suspended/ if not expelled …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:04 PM
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I dont think thats how it works. If a girls is being bullied for her femininity or something positive then we will like the girl. But not because she is bullied, instead for those good qualities. If a girl is being bullied because she is a slut or a cheater or something, then thats not gonna make us like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:56 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:53 PM
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People will call anything insecure nowadays. I agree with what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:49 PM
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IF men as a unit actually did that then sure it would work. But that is a big IF, unfortunately i dont think the simps will participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:44 PM
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I disagree. There is no asserting the "tribe over the individual". The individual cannot survive without the tribe. So he has to learn to be part of the tribe. Its mutually benefitial.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 07:28 PM
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Tattoos. Too many piercings. If they are overweight. Also, they need to have a bigger ass and thighs than me. Im tall and lean so its actually common for most girls to have that, but if not thay eould be a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:06 PM
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I went to uni abroad to another country, and the uni had a large body of international students. Needless to say, there was a lot of casual sex, casual dating and hookups going on. You would be surprised to see how some people act when they are away from their hometown/home country and away from friends and relatives. In general, girls from western countries, were more likely to be promiscuous compared to eastern/african countries. But there were quite a number of girls from conservative countri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:59 PM
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I would disagree. I dont think its breaking men down. If you recieve training to be a better hunter, that benefits society and you. Thats not breaking you down, that is building you up.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 05:26 PM
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Reddit admins are just part of the larger interner cult of beta cucks who want to implement their own misandrist version of internet fascism. Unfortunately a lot of average reddit retards are already part of the hivemind. Posts where men have standards and boundaries get downvoted here regularly. But whatever, they can all eat a bag of dicks and stay pussies forever.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 05:20 PM
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I think the biggest sign of a lack of mental strength and drive is when you drop off once you get with a woman and make her the no 1 priority in your life. And im sure women notice that as well, and it contributes to the loss of attraction. In certain past societies, a boy would have to go through certain rituals before he is recognized as a man and given the right to a woman/women. Usually similar to military training or other things that develop your mental strength. I think men today should a…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 09:29 PM
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You know, you can say that without the insult 😂. Its weird how offended some people get when guys say they like virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:39 PM
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Well 80% of men being unsuccessful is an overestimate. That would probably be the case if women were the sole decision makers in the dating market and men were 100% passive in the process. In reality, the numbers are not that extreme. That being said in the current market, and looking at the future, if things dont change, it would most definitely be irresponsible for parents to not teach their sons how to be attractive to women. 1.yes 2. Not directly. My father basically taught me not to be a pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:18 PM
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Yeah, its like that. The controversial and intense stuff brings in the viewers.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 03:08 AM
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Yeah it definitely allows for the circlejerk to continue within the viewers. I do agree with general rp theories, but to use such women to prove some points is definitely unfair to women and disingenuous for the viewers.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 02:44 AM
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The tiktok girl was being honest. Dont listen to the politically correct answers women will give here. They will never admit this properly. Basically the "bad guys" have attractive traits like confidence, assertiveness and dominance, which many good guys dont have. Those qualities are necessary. "Bad boys" who dont have these qualities will have a harder time getting girls than your average guy. But for guys who have these qualities, being bad/toxic is an added sexy quality.. just being confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:55 AM
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To be fair man, the ladies that they pick to come on are far from the brightest. I like the fnf podcast, and watch occasionally, but man do they invite some stupid girls sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 01:39 AM
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Most of us have 1 or 2 bad experiences. Some things will stay with us but you dont need to keep those things in your mind. Try not to dwell on it too much. Its better to look forward, and use those past experiences to improve your decision making for the next time. Good luck man 😁👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:41 PM
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Ah okay. No worries man. We learn from our mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:20 PM
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Yeah, unless there was a good reason, you shouldnt have broken up :). But thats your personal business, i dont wanna be intrusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:10 PM
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Tinder, Instagram, Facebook reddit, Wikipedia this is all social media. - ban all of them, i dont mind. Wikipedia can be kept as its not really the same as the others, but the others going isnt a loss. " How would one go about controlling what takes place on the internet without restricting the internet as a whole?" - there will be some restriction but that doesnt mean you cant use the internet. Its no different from traffic rules. Sure, traffic rules restrict the roads, and how you can drive, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:40 PM
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I read about that. I think everyone with common sense lost a bit of respect for drake for that one. Drake is a guy who enjoys access to plenty of women yet went out of his way to fuck a girl that is committed. After flying her AND the guy over at that. A guy who doesnt have a lot of options banging a gf/married woman is not that big of a deal, but someone with options going out of his way to do that, has something wrong in his head imo. That being said, after looking at her ig, i have to blame t…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 09:54 PM
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Its all good, if this guy has been a long time friend of yours and is otherwise good then it should not really matter. We all know that you cant help them all. Maybe if he is a guy who will listen, you could try to make him understand why that is stupid. If you think he wont get you or isnt willing to see your perspective then, its better to just not talk about these things. Its just that personally i find this type of behaviour very annoying. I had a friend who always wanted to go to places act…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 09:37 PM
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Some good points you raised there. Though it's absurd to ask the government to ban dating platforms.. I dont think its absurd. Dating apps, and actually social media in general have made people unhappier, there are studies done on this. Humans lived before social media and social media only made us unhappier. So we can get rid of it and be happier again. The internet can still be there as a source of information. The internet, unlike social media actually advanced society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:31 PM
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Sorry man, your friend is a pussy. I personally wouldnt befriend any guys who are that beta. His wife probably doesnt have much respect for him. And this type of mentality makes him as much of a groupie as the actual sloots who worship and bang celebs.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 09:02 PM
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Lol, this is below bluepill. This is cuck territory.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 09:00 PM
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Yeah im aware of tax benefits. Would be nice if they got more benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:37 PM
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One of my opinions is that social media apps should be banned. That will significantly reduce hypergamy tickles. That would be a start in my opinion. Another thing would be government benefits for households that have fathers present. There are benefits for single mothers but that just promotes the idea that women can lead a family without male support. Benefits for households with fathers would have the opposite effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:31 PM
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That men should marry virgins. because they cannot be "alpha-widows".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:25 PM
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Thats actually a strong argument for virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:18 PM
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Most of the info comes from the redpill/manosphere og's like rollo tomassi. He has a book called the rational male which goes into a lot of redpill knowledge and ideology. He has new (4th) book i think which shows a lot of statistics and information. The newer redpill content creators are basically going with the information that was passed down from these "og"s. So pretty much most rp aware guys got their ideas from those sources, one way or the another.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:38 PM
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A lot of us already do it. But the simps negate it. And unfortunately i think that the simps outnumber those of us who have standars. SIMP shaming is definitely helping though , and increased rp awareness is also helping young men not to put women on the pedestal. I still do think that a social readjustment of the dating market could improve things a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:26 AM

No but reddit is a reflection of the real world. And average men are having more troubles than before with dating, in the real world. Its not an imaginary thing. People have been getting married less and divorces have been rising over the decades slowly, but the recent introduction of social media in society has had a huge negative impact for dating. More young men than ever are now having troubles keeping a woman interested, keeping them satisfied, many are getting left and cheated on. Because …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:04 AM
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There are definitely some cases of cherry picking and groupthink makes it worse. For the most part, redpillers do use data from certain sources that are reliable, but the way it is used is sometimes iffy. Personally my advice would be to read and understand redpill theories and redpill truths, but not to spens too much time following any redpill spokespeople and contenct creators. Some can be good but there are many grifters in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:10 PM

Yup, i agree. One thing though, a lot of young men now are no longer putting up with women that slept around. I guess the stigma against promiscuity is coming back, whole circle. So i think quite a few women in a "transitional generation" will have a struggle to land a long term mate since they buy into the current mentailty but end up failing since later the young guys wont take them up later. I dont know when it will come full circle, but a lot of younger guys are now embracing ideas which use…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 07:19 PM

With young women , clout seems to be more important than both 😏. Yes , security is the more important need but women are already somewhat secure in the modern world anyway, which is why they are placing more importance on other things now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:51 AM

This is so true. Recently had a conversation with some young female relatives about potential partners. Social media seems to have made them a bit delusional regarding standards. They have been talking about good looking guys who have successful businesses or made a lot of money , at THEIR AGE. Told them that unless the guy inherited money from his parents, he isnt rich at 25. Thats not how that works. By the time a guy built up enough money to be considered rich or built up a successful busines…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:20 AM

Tinder and dating apps make it worse. They give women accessibility to "high value guys" who will have even less interest in settling with them and only use them for sex. So women arent getting what most of them really want and more men than before are losing their chances with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:55 AM
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I actually dont really understand the tought process of wanting to bang sluts but also being absolutely scares of the consequences. The few guys i know who bang sluts consistently are not scared of std'/sti's. The only ones they are scared of are herpes, hiv and hepatitis. The 3 big H's. They are also not scares of pregnancies, and either think they wont happen or think "ill deal with it if/when it happens". In other words these guys are either extremely irresponsible or straight stupid. If you …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 09:32 AM
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If you mean actors, i dont care about that as that makes no difference in reality. Unless i see girls go for regular androgynous or feminine guys that they see day to day, at class, at work, in the club etc, im not taking this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:04 AM
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There are a lot of interesting answers here. One thing that i have to mention is that men (at least in the west) have been pretty much liberated from the protector role. Nowadays the pressure is mostly about providing. I honestly dont believe that the average guy today has that pressure to protect. The main reasons being that women have their own autonomy and live in a (somewhat) safe society. In modern society a lot of the protection has been delegated to forces like the military, police force,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:56 AM
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I would believe this. Not every promiscuous woman has daddy issues or low self esteem. Some of them seem quite bold. I think in some cases it could be a case of narcissism (i want it all, with no consequences). Either way, it still doesnt change the fact that its the biggest red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:07 PM
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This is bs. Its a loud minority and i suspect it comes from the woke and lgbt crowds. Those are girls who probably are unsure of their sexuality themselves. I have never met one girl or woman irl who likes feminine or androgynous men. I will entertain this idea the day i see it irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:49 PM
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I know its more complicated than that, but if you say that girls like skinny or out of shape guys more than well built men then im going to call cap on that. I know from experience that women prefer strong, built men over weaker men. When me and some of my friends started going to the gym all of us had experiences of women/girls complimenting us on developing some muscle. That doesnt mean that they all immediately wanted to bone us. What i mean is that women find that more attractive in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:55 AM
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There is a difference between muscular and olympia. What most guys and some girls now think when they hear muscular is some guy pumped up on steroids. Unnatural physiques or obviously not the most attractive. Most men dont like oversized fake breasts either. The average naturally muscular man who still looks more like a man than an action figure is still attractive to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:07 PM
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Lady, im not playing this game with you. You can let it go or go on. Im not gonna reply, have a good day 😉.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:38 PM
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Oh dont me wrong, i do believe that. And we both know that that is not the case here. Understand that some men can smell 🐂💩 and some cannot, but please go on and knock yourself out 😆..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:29 PM
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I can give you a 3 page essay if i wanted and truly believed that you didnt understand 😏. But like i said, this is just feigned ignorance. I dont need to explain what you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:11 PM
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Lol i normally give women here the benefit of the doubt since men and women have different perspectives, but this is just feigned ignorance. You are trying a bit too hard to sound convincing in this thread, it has the opposite effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:32 PM
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You said it better than i wanted to :). I agree with everything. I would add that this is a good reason why men who wait for sex should do so with a woman who didnt do hookups or casual sex. There are many such women out there. Then, you wont face this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:21 PM
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I think this only applies to virgin women and women with low bodycounts. I am a man but i can understand that it probably takes a much higher level of comfort and a lot more trust for a woman to allow herself to be penetrated, than for a man to penetrate. Its far from the same thing. So a woman cant just be up for it with any man. But i think once women have slept with a lot of men, this no longer applies. They seem to be more comfortable and know what they like. At that point i dont really thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:59 PM
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Alright, im sorry for calling you delusional and i dont think you hate men. You just dont understand us, and i dont think you ever will. "the easy reason that there isn’t men’s dv shelters is because they don’t need them" - says the person who says she wants women to be seen as people. " women’s shelters are consistently full and they are often started by women who have been abused and they are sponsored by people who have been abused" Take a look into this guy: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/E…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:10 PM
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His name was Earl Silverman. He was canadian. Here is his wikipedia page: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earl_Silverman It was a long time since i saw the article about him, but going through his wikipedia quickly i think i was fairly accurately describing his ordeal. You can read it on the wikipedia page. If you are more interested , i think you should be able to find some articles. But the wikipedia page does a decent summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:58 AM
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Wow, you have the same delusions as some of the hardcore redpillers except in the opposite way. I highly suggest that you should try to see things from the other side in a fair manner rather than just assuming 'men always have/had it better'. Because we did not. First of all women have shelters. What do men who are victims of domestic violence have? There are plenty of studies showing that men are just as likely to face domestic violence as women. Unfortunately, we are less likely to be taken se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:26 AM
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You are completely right. I think its just some dudes being delusional. Most people with common sense would know that women with low n counts would also not be giving it up quick. There is a reason that the count isnt high.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:11 AM
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